Small_League2786 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	Saw this in an article about rape culture and thought maybe it could be useful to whoever needs to hear it. We won’t ever fix anything if we continue to blame an entire gender for the violence of some with the same gender and that goes for all genders.	personal	Small_League2786	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 09:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I want an option to deactivate all sexualised content in my socials “They’re aren’t dressed like a slut, you just think like a rapist.”	/r/MensRights	04/02/25 08:33 PM
1	What is this patriarchy thing?? Power doesn’t equal rich tho.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 07:24 AM
1	Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do? Do you honestly think your 20% covers the entirety of a child’s financial needs, do you honestly think women don’t contribute to the financial upbringing of their children? do you know how much it cost to raise just one child in the United States annually?	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 04:25 AM
2	Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do? Maybe because it’s not about the man or woman but a child.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 04:17 AM
-4	Men's loneliness is not men's fault. I believe there would be a benefit of having more male only spaces and think there many appropriate contexts, like more male support groups, men’s health clinics, victim advocacy groups, even things less sensitive like gyms. Problem is, a significant portion of the men that complain about the lack of these amenities don’t actually WANT these things. They just resent that women have them and use that as an argument as to why we shouldn’t.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 04:15 AM
1	More men feel the same? Our fathers teach us not to trust boys/men. It starts with them.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 04:09 AM
1	3 of the biggest reasons WHY young men are single Everything you said is null and void because you think of people as numbers on a scale, people you’ve never even met in your life.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 04:00 AM
0	What is this patriarchy thing?? Not every male, white cis men.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 03:55 AM
2	What is this patriarchy thing?? They will say every source you give is biased. Don’t even bother. Let them simmer in their self pity.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 03:54 AM
0	What is this patriarchy thing?? When women talk about the patriarchy, they aren’t talking about men, they’re talking about men in power and societal expectations and pressures, like gender roles, expectations and pressure that affect not only women but men too.	/r/MensRights	02/02/25 03:52 AM
6	What do you love about being a man? Toxic masculinity isn’t men being toxic. It’s about the pressure men face to live up to exaggerated masculine traits. It’s about the pressure of societal expectations placed on men-that men feel pressured to conform to that harm men. Like how men are expected to provide solely for their family in a world that doesn’t provide a livable wage. The expectation that men should be physically strong and emotionally stunted. The expectation that men should fight in wars willingly that they didn’t start …	/r/MensRights	25/01/25 02:26 AM
-11	This plan to poison men post 4B got 1.3 million likes. Be safe around your women. But why is she mentally ill? Is it from the abuse? Everything is much deeper than the surface it appears on, you have to dive to get the answer. 🩵	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:40 PM
0	Women hate men cause of 2% of the total population, while ignoring majority who make changes It’s because the men who did cause harm were men women trusted. So then they start not knowing who to trust if those they were closest to, like their own father, brother, uncle, partners all abused them…	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:34 PM
1	Can someone debunk this "Feminist" report, claiming that when women allege domestic violence, they are actually more likely to lose their child custody cases? Where do you think the term “parental alienation” came from?	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:32 PM
-15	This plan to poison men post 4B got 1.3 million likes. Be safe around your women. If you aren’t abusive or seggsually assault your wife, then you wouldn’t have anything to worry about.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:08 PM
2	A continuation from a last post Is she a feminist or just a woman? Not every woman is a feminist.	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 01:45 AM
-1	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 Your original post said that feminist in India are protesting because they want to rape men. You edited the caption and everything dude and even removed links. After I corrected you about why they were protesting, in turn making me look stupid like I was arguing against gender neutral laws and that’s kinda messed up bro.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:46 PM
0	Feeling Betrayed by Modern Dating: Why Do Empathy and Understanding Seem One-Sided? I know. Men should also be scared of violent men, just as women are scared of violent men because violent people are unpredictable.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 05:14 PM
-2	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 In my lived experience any time I’ve seen a women talk about false accusations stats it’s because the topic was about sexual assault (gender neutral) and then a man brings up false accusations jn order to distract from assault victims (imo it’s because he thinks they’re shining a bad light on men by bringing it up even tho victims are both men and women as are predators) and then the discussion turns to those women speaking about percentages. Also IMO during that initial topic being discussed me…	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:18 AM
1	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 I just find it ironic that I speak clearly and respectfully and the responses I get are just emotions like you read my comment felt a feeling and commented back to me based on that feeling and by doing that it’s like you didn’t even read the comment because there is nothing to get upset about. I just don’t agree with the title, but do agree with gender neutral laws. Are you mad because I’m a woman or are you just mad because you misunderstood what I said?	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:07 AM
1	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 You straight stuck a bunch of words in my mouth. I don’t and have never said I speak for men. I agree with gender neutral rape laws. But the title of this post is click bait, I thought they were actually protesting so they could rape men but in the articles that were posted before they dirty deleted the links in the first comment, it stated why they were opposed. Literally agree with gender neutral and am on your side so not sure why you’re making things up lol wth	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:05 AM
0	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 Who are you talking to?	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 08:03 AM
-6	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 I’m right here bud. Y’all yell at me a lot tho.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 07:50 AM
-11	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 Feminists in the US fought to change the language surrounding rape to be gender neutral. For decades it only including women in the definition of rape because for decades women were considered property of their husband, and the rape law was to protect his property, and thus being able to prosecute the perpetrator that used his property without his permission. Later down the line feminist fought to not only change the wording to not include a woman being property while also making the definition …	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 07:48 AM
2	Feeling Betrayed by Modern Dating: Why Do Empathy and Understanding Seem One-Sided? Was going to ask the same. Because damn 😳	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 04:22 AM
0	Feeling Betrayed by Modern Dating: Why Do Empathy and Understanding Seem One-Sided? Most of us just want to feel safe actually 😭	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 04:16 AM
-6	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 Your last paragraph goes with the quote I posted. That’s why she said that. They would be charged with rape, but with a false accusation.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 03:55 AM
-6	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 I was only saying that because I read all your links and didn’t see where they were “marching for the right to rape men.” I’m all for gender neutral laws but I live in the US and know it’s different where they are so I can’t really form an opinion unless I understand what men, women and children experience there.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 03:54 AM
1	Restoring the Presumption of Innocence Conference It seems a lot of ppl in Australia just don’t think men are humans deserving of rights. Sadly that’s probably why only 200 showed up.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 03:50 AM
-4	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 I won’t pretend to understand the laws there, I do know women are raped at a much higher rate and much more violently than in the US so I can’t comment on what they should or shouldn’t do. I think they think men want the definition changed to defy their concerns and not because they care about it being changed. It’s “whataboutism.” Other than that, I agree with gender neutral laws. But again, I’m not in their situation and won’t pretend to understand what they’re feeling.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 03:45 AM
-14	Feminism ≠ Equality Feminists are Protesting AGAINST Gender Neutral Laws saying this will make Women(Criminal Women) more Vulnerable. So Equality isn't what Feminists are looking for! it's never Criminal vs Victim 🤡 it's always Men vs Women ☕ A Tight Slap when they say Feminism = Equality 🤬 “Activists argue that apart from situations where women hold positions of statutory authority (like police officers, etc), in all other situations, making the accused gender neutral means that complaints by women can be met with counter-complaints to build pressure on them to withdraw their complaint.” it’s not because they want to rape men. It’s because they’re concerned that false accusations would be threatened against them if they don’t withdraw their rape claim.	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 03:42 AM
1	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers To the person who did a ton of detective work to find my main- it’s linked in my Reddit, always has been. I use both accounts. You having an issue with sex workers also being human rights activists isn’t my problem but it is a problem. Sex workers experience a fuck ton of human rights violations daily throughout the world, it’s only natural they would fight against discrimination as a whole. Anyway. I’m exhausted. I care about all of you but not being allowed to have any sort of healthy discours…	/r/MensRights	27/08/24 02:28 AM
2	Saw this in an article about rape culture and thought maybe it could be useful to whoever needs to hear it. We won’t ever fix anything if we continue to blame an entire gender for the violence of some with the same gender and that goes for all genders. I didn’t intend it that way but I appreciate you respecting letting me know your take on it. The fighting is exhausting but at the end of the day it’s worth the fight if we can make positive changes for everyone.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/08/24 02:17 AM
1	Saw this in an article about rape culture and thought maybe it could be useful to whoever needs to hear it. We won’t ever fix anything if we continue to blame an entire gender for the violence of some with the same gender and that goes for all genders. Your anecdotal experiences aren’t factual evidence.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/08/24 02:19 AM
0	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers I’ve never been an all men bad kind of person. I look at each person and I understand that everyone comes from different environments and has different pressures put on them in those environments as well as societal and that everyone is struggling with their own demons, but I have to say if I were in a room alone with those of you who have aggressively discredited my opinions and statements and degraded the fuck out of me the last 6 months I would be terrified. And I’m always open to being educa…	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 10:00 PM
-4	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers Feminism is not synonymous with misandry. When feminist refer to toxic masculinity they’re referring to harmful societal norms placed on men, like men are violent, men shouldnt show fear, sadness, vulnerability, etc etc. everything is systemic, everything has a root cause and every issue is intersectional, feminism is not exclusionary. Y’all’s inability to stop focusing on “feminism and, feminist wants to oppress men and take out rights,” which is a biased and flawed opinion, and your inability …	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 09:51 PM
0	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers Discrediting what I said and doing exactly what the key points I stated above won’t make you a better person or solve issues within the movement.	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 09:20 PM
-6	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers Yah I’m talking about the dude in here who called OP a r*tard because he doesn’t agree. That’s fucked up.	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 08:10 AM
-6	Men's rights aren't undone by women, but policymakers In response to those who act aggressively towards anyone but mostly women within these groups, you are hindering the collective wellbeing and hindering change happening. Some members of men’s rights groups have engaged in aggressive and disrespectful behavior towards women and others who disagree with their views. This has alienated potential supporters and damaged the movement’s reputation. Some groups have disproportionately focused on the issue of false accusations of sexual assault, often ex…	/r/MensRights	25/08/24 08:09 AM
10	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest I’m realizing just now that your comment was sarcastic. I do apologize for the misunderstanding. I have a difficult time with tone IRL so online can be a war zone trying to figure out if it’s serious or sarcastic for my brain. Side note- in case my stance wasn’t clear, I do not condone false accusations and think she should be given the same fate he would have received had he not had the footage of that night.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 11:25 PM
3	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest I was just throwing a random number out. When I post percentages from research or links to those stats I get told they’re wrong or not trustworthy so I was just throwing a random number out. I fully understand how heinous false allegations are and how they can drive a man to his death. They ruin lives, careers, futures, friendships, and those who are proven to have falsely accused someone publicly and tried to press charges should be held accountable. I’ve seen posts where droves of people said …	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 11:15 PM
-2	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest Dude it’s the fucking internet. People can talk about whatever the fuck they want. I’m glad we agree. I’m just a person who chooses to focus on social issues and how we can fix them for all genders. And I’m noticed a lot of people just want to complain about the issues but do nothing to fix them and that’s totally their choice. As a human rights activist, I would rather spend my energy trying to nudge people to look at things from all sides, in differing lighting etc then just complain about the…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 10:48 PM
1	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest Also I said “some of you,” I never said “men.” I don’t hate men and don’t assume they’re behind every shitty motive.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 09:57 PM
-1	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest I never said men didnt. I see both men and women talking about false accusations, even on posts about rape, seemingly in order to sweep the actual issue under the rug. Maybe it’s just because of social media and shitty people feeling safe behind a screen that more of those psychotic people are coming out of the woodwork. I don’t know. You said in response to me saying people know false accusations exist and your response was men hate rape too so guess we’re both misunderstanding one another so m…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 09:55 PM
-20	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest No one said it was impossible or that it doesn’t happen. Rape happens more to men and women tho than false allegations but some of you seem more upset that a few false allegations happen per 100,000 rapes per year than the actual issues surrounding rape and rape culture itself.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 09:30 PM
8	A dad reported he is going to jail for two months, because he is ordered to pay a large sum in child support monthly, but is unemployed, and he is unable to pay. I think it’s absolute bullshit that anyone is jailed (mostly men) for not being able to pay especially when they’re unemployed. I think it’s absolute bullshit that men who fight for 50/50 custody that are turned down then have to fork over upwards of 25% of their income leaving them barely able to take care of themselves or even their children on the days they have them.	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 10:40 PM
-7	People keep wondering why men are rejecting Feminism in this day and age. Here's only a couple of examples I found of anti-male rhetoric being shared and accepted by people online. Not every woman is a feminist. Not every feminist is a woman. Feminists aren’t misandrists and misandrists aren’t feminists.	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 10:38 PM
1	Human Rights Activist (for both men and women) here with a question If you’re actually researching this then you would know why the men’s rights movement was created in the first place and have your answer there. Feminism and men’s liberation work just fine together.	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 05:42 PM
-15	Why do feminist Gaslight people into believing that asking males right means opposing female rights. Because the men’s rights movement was literally created to go against feminism. Men’s liberation was created in the mid 70s to go with feminism, that’s why feminist always recommend and work well with men’s liberation, and the MRA movement was made in the 80s because they hated women and feminism.	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 05:36 PM
1	Anyone think Roma Army on YouTube is legit? I know this is old but was that pregnant woman red leader and was a human rights Men’s rights centered creator? Like her and Chloe were friends before Chloe did mra content and then suddenly they disagreed on abortion and Chloe literally stole her fans stole her niche and then harassed her relentlessly and violently for months and chased her off social media.	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 11:57 PM