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LifestyleSmart_Mammoth_7791/r/seduction02/07/24 11:56 PM
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You are assuming that we are all in the same country. All I can say is that just last week I got a couple of dates on Hinge in a western European country. So apps are definitely not dead. I do agree they are worse than before but they still are a very viable way to meet women. My view is try them all: dating apps, cold approach, social circle, IG, etc etc that’s what I do. It works.
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:46 AM
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A couple comments. First of all, a bit obvious but not everything in your profile is great. Otherwise you would be getting matches. So recognize that there’s an issue and try to find it. Second. You mention that you have good professional photos. But the question is do your photos show you in diverse settings? Like doing a sport, hanging out with friends, traveling, petting an animal, etc etc. Ideally you want to have nice photos that also show that you are well rounded and most important of all…
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:31 AM
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Say. Hey. I like your [insert clothing item or accessory he is wearing]. What brand is it or where did you buy it. I am looking to buy a similar one for my brother. If he answers positively just continue making small talk: cool are you from around here or are you on your way to the gym or whatever. And be prepared to provide some comment about yourself if he doesn’t elaborate much. If he is interested he will get the conversation going and ask some questions about you. If he isn’t he will just a…
/r/seduction13/06/26 11:39 AM
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Second this. OP wants to move to a hostel so that he can cold approach in a rejection-proof environment and is willing to pay with his career for that privilege. OP: get over the fear of cold approach. Also, develop social circle and meet girls in that way. Neither OLD nor hostels are the only options out there.
/r/seduction28/04/25 05:01 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/seduction25/11/24 11:56 PM
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Great post and great progress, I read some of your other posts. You mention cold approach. As a 40+ man, where and how are you doing cold approach?
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:27 PM
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There’s a ton out there about teasing and challenging. There’s old school stuff like David deAngelo’s stuff, there are videos about it on YouTube by Todd V. Pretty much any decent old school PUA teacher has content about it. Check it out. Don’t copy routines or phrases copy the attitude. Dancing with a hand on her hip is escalating, talking with your face close to her cheek or lips is escalating, holding hands is escalating? Etc etc. dancing provides many opportunities for it. I usually look for…
/r/seduction22/08/24 08:01 PM
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It seems like you are putting yourself in a low value position. That’s why women get bored with your presence, they feel you are low value and/or they have you figured out (aka boring). I would definitely stop the whole drink buying strategy. It immediately frames you as the pursuer, lumps you in her mind with all the losers that buy her drinks or food to gain brownie points and sets you as having less value than she does. You mention doing some push pull. But If they are getting bored after a w…
/r/seduction22/08/24 07:02 PM
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I think you should cold approach and build social circle. Even if the direct results from cold approaching are weak, the indirect results could be great. You will become more comfortable and calibrated in social interactions and will develop the ability to open conversations naturally. In my view, cold approach with the right technique (hitting attraction triggers, etc) is like going to the gym to develop strong social muscles. Social circle is king in college. So, also something you need to foc…
/r/seduction21/08/24 02:59 PM
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Agree with this. In Latin America the next step after connecting on a dating app or meeting someone new in person is connecting on whatsapp. Totally normal, nothing suspicious. I assume in Thailand must be the same.
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:42 PM
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At the beginning of the date you need to attract again: tease, qualify, push and pull. Even if she was attracted when you first met her, they need to be re-attracted and you need to create a dynamic where you are maybe choosing her, and you are not even sure you like her. You escalate teasing her, poking her, playfully pushing her, etc Set the dynamic as you being higher status and having fun with her. The hotter she is, the more you need to do the above so that it is established that you are no…
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:50 PM
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This here. The whole “just be the best gay friend, don’t sexualize her” comments somewhere else will get OP directly with a one-way ticket into the friendzone. This will get him to sex. This is how she will feel the spark.
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:39 PM
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I don’t disagree. It’s not what I want to try though.
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:03 PM
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You do you buddy
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:09 PM
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Not interested in debating if there are ever hot women in a certain restaurant or not. That’s middle school conversation. Waste of time and not the point of my post at all.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:00 PM
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Fair question. The former. Not the latter. More like Meduza and Pastis restaurant-wise. Does that make sense? I guess “NYC mid-scale” is a better adjective
/r/seduction03/07/24 02:36 AM
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We are not going to wine and dine or invite girls for drinks. Not spending crazy amounts at all. The setting is an upscale bar or restaurant because that’s where the hottest women in NYC are.
/r/seduction03/07/24 02:09 AM
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I came here to answer exactly this. Well said.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:26 PM
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I agree with that. I think that being very attracted to the woman is key. Otherwise the spark is not there and the whole thing is forced and that comes through. Thanks for the thoughtful reply 👍
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:20 PM
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I think that one can do both. Cold approach on the street women that you are very attracted to AND hang out in places with high concentration of women and have organic conversations. I believe that cold approaching is a higher hurdle and once you are in that mindset, approaching in a confident way the girl sitting next to you at a cafe is extremely easy. Cold approaching can help you to give you that extra confidence though. Same with online dating. Once you get to the date, it’s easy to manage …
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:03 PM
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Hey man. I’ve done the whole sex club invitation thing before. Has worked beautifully in some cities. In others not. I actually have a few questions for you. Tried to DM you but doesn’t allow. If you are open to chatting. Can you DM me?
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:50 PM
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Fantastic job man. Keep working on it, many more wins to come!
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:28 PM
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This. Text is just to sort out logistics for a meeting. Keep txt to a minimum. You don’t create attraction or comfort via txt.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:34 PM
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Nobody said she owes anyone anything.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:44 PM
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Maybe. Maybe she has many other things that worry her and decided that a guy hitting on her was the last thing she wanted. We’ll never know. But I agree with your point. It is well known In daygame waiting and hovering increases chances of failure.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:44 PM
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OP told her she was cute and he wanted to say hi at a public place. Many women react very nicely to something like this. It’s the basis of daygame. This woman in particular didn’t. Again, it’s her problem, not OP’s. If she is worried or not, or having a bad day or not, OP is not a mind reader. He tried to be nice, she didn’t react well. Her problem. He needs to move on to other girls that will react better.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:41 PM
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She was having a bad day. Not your fault. Keep Moving forward, don’t despair or let this stop you.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:58 PM
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Congrats on a great pull and thanks for the detailed report. Keep them coming! (see what I did there?)
/r/seduction18/05/24 10:58 PM
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Very similar situation to you OP. OLD game is quite successful both in matches and closings. Real life approach is lacking. What I have found works best for me is. When I’m doing cold approach I do it at a bar or a similar venue where I can dedicate time to talking, flirting and building up attraction and rapport. This leads to getting numbers or IGs and in some cases to second dates. Key is to take it as far as possible in the first interaction. Ideally kiss close. That way the date is very clo…
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:56 PM
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As the other comment says. Leave her alone. If she is following you on Insta she will see your updates and if she is interested she will contact you. At this point the more you chase her the more your value decreases. This experience should teach everyone two things: Strike when the iron is hot: women can get cold fast and a woman that was all over you last night may ghost you today. Why? Because of a million reasons that you may never decipher. Best way to secure a second date? Go as far as you…
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:42 AM
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Terrible advice. Telling a woman “you are not a whore” after having sex with her is the surest way to make her feel like a whore. OP needs to give her space and then listen to her. She could be regretting having sex, she could be concerned about him becoming clingy, she could be just confused and trying to process her feelings, it could be a thousand things. He needs to be there for her, understand what the issue is in due time and then be supportive.
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:33 AM
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She is 16 and he is 18. It’s common and normal that sex happens at that age. And no, she is not a whore. Sex is natural. Anybody who thinks she is a whore because she is 16 and she had sex has serious issues.
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:27 AM
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Give her a little bit of space. We humans need to get to the right conclusions on our own. When we feel pressured out natural reaction is to push back. Give her at least a couple of days. Yes, you can wait. One you get back to her. Listen in a non judgmental and non emotional way. Be there for her to help her process her feelings. Let her do the talking. The mentality that you should have and convey here is that you two did something that was good for both of you, that is natural between men and…
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:56 PM
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Regarding these two girls. The first one, if you are interested in her go for it. Take her out for drinks, escalate, see how far you get. Either that or just decide now to remain as just a friend. You have to take risks, can’t play “avoid fucking up” and hope she magically falls for you. The second girl. Could be a million things: she may be awkward, she may like you too much, she may not like you at all, etc. Who cares? You are not a psychologist so don’t play one. You like her? Ask her out. If…
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:23 PM
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That may be the case. I actually think that many young guys tend to view sex and themselves in that way. I for one did when I was younger. The older we men get the more we achieve (status, money, etc) and the more we learn about women and how they think/act. So, work on improving yourself and get out of your comfort zone talking more and more to women, read books about it and you will for sure get better at it.
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:55 AM
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You have to shift your whole mind frame. You feel and act that way because you feel that sex is bad or you are unworthy of it or both. You have to change your mindset to: sex is good and women want it as much as you do (women just have a different way to get there) AND women are lucky to get to know a cool guy like you. Best way to change your mindset is to actually make the mindset true. Work on your physique, social skills, etc. Several books like Models give you an idea if what you need to wo…
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:05 AM
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Are the girls close friends with each other? If they are, you may run into issues if one of the girl really likes you and the other one knows about this. When a woman likes you, you kind of automatically become off limits to her friends. Women tend to be quite loyal in that way, so loyalty to her friend who likes you may be stronger than any horniness you may create. My advise is to play it cool. Be playful and tease as others have mentioned here, but read the signs and be subtle on how you push…
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:07 PM
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People downvote you here. But I actually have read many of your FR and I think that your advice is very solid. Looking forward to the next FR.
/r/seduction07/11/22 11:23 AM
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It’s a long story. But the very condensed version is that OLD works very well for me, but it became am excuse to be a coward and avoid IRL cold approaching. Once I pushed myself to do IRL approaching it helped both my IRL and OLD game. The basic principles (confidence, looking and smelling your best, no neediness, giving them something different and hopefully exciting, etc) apply always, no matter how you meet the woman.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:19 PM
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Once you have your new job under control, I would recommend trying everything. Daygame, nightgame and OLD. The mindset that you learn from real life game will help you with the texting and flirting in OLD. The goal is getting that one on one date/drink with the woman. Whatever means you use, and the more means you use the more probability you have of meeting more women. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:52 PM
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You didn’t fumble. You are golden. Next time just tell her. Hey, the other day when we spoke I forgot to ask you for your phone number. I would like us to talk more. That’s it. Once you have the phone number just invite her to grab a coffee or whatever and be charming but keep her on her toes. Face to face, one on one, conversation is when seduction happens.
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:24 AM
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I differ from others here. I think you can work on yourself and improve your game at roughly the same time. If I was you, I would focus 100% on my new job 6 months or so, really hit it out the park. Once your boss and everyone is comfortable that you are a great employee they will cut you more slack. Then I would work on improving my appearance and game (internal and external) whenever not working. It doesn’t matter how much money you have and how amazing your physique is if you don’t put yourse…
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:47 AM
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Not dinner. Bar. But not a dive bar or sports bar. take her to a lounge or cocktail bar if possible. Something a bit more sophisticated. Flirt and escalate verbally before getting handsy. Then after one drink suggest going to her place or your place to be more comfortable or whatever excuse. She knows why you both are there, but no upside (only downside) in being too direct if she says yes to the venue change. She knows what’s going to happen. Keep it classy.
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:27 AM
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