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| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Yes, I’ve known several “ugly” guys who can get women. One of them was my best friend in high school, he had many different girlfriends throughout high school. Why? Because despite being not very attractive, he was very personable, he always took risks, and he had lower standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Some guys lives just suck. No matter what they do, how hard they work, they're pathetic, they go back to where they started, nothing changes. This is just true. And there are guys who are just lucky. They have it all. Partner, friends, career, money, look they have it without much effort.I’m a 5 ft 3 autistic male so dating is automatically going to be a lot harder for me from the start, and to be honest there’s a very good chance I’ll be a virgin at 30. Where’s if I were a 5 ft 10 neurotypical male, I’d likely have had several girlfriends by now, maybe even be married. That’s just life, you win some and you lose some. Sometimes life is like rolling the dice and you never know what you’re going to land on. Some people are born super athletic, grow to be 6 ft 5, and are blessed w… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | College crush and Greek lifeShe’s probably going out and getting railed by chad at the bar right now as we speak. | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 11 | A few standards any guy should havePartially it’s because many people, both guys and girls, are choosing partners mostly on looks and not on the persons overall character. There’s plenty of attractive people who aren’t all that. They’re mean, talk bad about other people, you have nothing in common with them, etc... Find someone who seems like a good person and you two enjoy spending time with them, not necessarily who’s the hottest guy/girl in the room. I’m not saying disregard looks completely but don’t let it be the sole reason… | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 05:15 AM |
| – | There Are Several Women That I Plan To Ask Out Within The Next Month Or So - Wish Me LuckWhy is that? | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 01:23 AM |
| 3 | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areI’m Rebecca Black - Friday. People only like me if they like trash. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 11:55 AM |
| 2 | How does one get laid or girlfriends if he is unnattractive?Put a paper bag over your head, poke some holes in the bag for your eyes, and you should be good to go | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 11:43 AM |
| 15 | Any other dude find tall girls mega hot?I don’t to be honest. I’m not really into tall stick figure girls. I like em short and thick with a nice ass. I’m pretty short so that’s why I’m not into tall girls as much. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Do attractive girls get approached more often at clubs/bars?Welcome to the life of your average 23 year old girl. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Is a junior college campus a good place to approach women or not? Is approaching very young women a problem?I don't think a 28 year old dating a 21 or 22 year old is that strange. Now if you were 40, that'd be a little different but you're not there yet. And there's still plenty of 21-23 year olds in college, not to mention some people getting their post-graduate degree so you may find some 25-26 year old girls as well. The thing with age is that sometimes it's hard to tell who's 20 and who's 25. Some people look 21 but are really 26, others look 25 but are only 18. So sometimes, you can't tell. At 28… | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Broke out the friendzone, it really is simple...Horse shit The reason you broke out of the friend zone was because there was always an attraction to you. She always had some physical attraction to you but for whatever reason didn’t act on it. If she wasn’t attracted to you at all, it doesn’t what you say or what you do, she would never see you “that way” | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 12:29 PM |
| – | 4 Reasons Why Girls Friendzone GuysWhat if the girl friend zones you because she has a boyfriend? | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 05:34 PM |
| – | What is the most EFFECTIVE way to improve your game?smile look at them in the eyes project confidence in your voice stand up straight | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for a 40 year old guy?Try going for women who are at least 25. Although you may do good with women who are in their lower thirties. Lots of 30 year old women are still hot. I think anybody 21 and younger is too young for you. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 12:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you learn to get over rejections?I know rejection hurts, I know you can oftentimes feel like nobody can ever like you. But I want you to understand something, if the pain of rejection is acute, then the pain of regret is chronic. Think about all of the women you have ever crushed on, all of the women you were attracted to, all of the women you ever fantasized about being with, but you didn't do anything about it. You were too scared to walk up to them, to ask them out, you let them walk away from your life forever, never to be … | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 5 | What is your seduction-related unpopular opinion?Online dating was designed to make dating easier but paradoxically has made dating harder, especially for men. In the age of social media and online dating apps, we now have access to hundreds of options, therefore people especially women are becoming pickier and pickier. Which is why a lot of women suffer from "grass is greener" syndrome where they become so picky that they can't find a man thinking that someone better is just around the corner. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 12:50 AM |
| -1 | What is your seduction-related unpopular opinion?Women are turned on by hot guys, just as much as guys are turned on by hot girls. Looks matter a lot more than you think. If a guy has some major physical or mental flaw (being obese, being very short, being physically disabled) or he is simply really unattractive, being funny or confident won't make a difference, women will still be largely unattracted to you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 12:38 AM |
| 118 | 5 Tragic Reasons Why The Average Guy Doesn't Get GirlsI can't even get a date, let alone kiss a girl, or even have sex. That's how bad I am with women. If dating were like money, i'd be the broke homeless man. Having sex with 7 different women would completely blow my mind. Even having sex with 1 girl would completely blow my mind. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Stepped out of my comfort zone and approached a girl in my classI think what you did was good, you can definitely meet girls in your classes because iv'e done it before. Iv'e had some experience with approaching girls in my classes, some good and some bad. Last summer, I approached this girl in my biology class and I got her number and we went on a few dates. A couple of semesters back, I approached two girls but they both had boyfriends and they both kind of became creeped out by me being so forward. So really, I think it's a hit and miss. I can give you a … | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Need a little perspective on physical attractivenessGotten attention from attractive women all of his life? I would kill to be in your shoes. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why Do I Creep Out Every Single Woman That I Pursue Romantically?Nope, i'm the opposite. I'm short, skinny, and have aspergers. | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Life advice for all young guys in a high school or college setting, please don't make this mistake with social media or you will deeply regret it!I didn't even start college until I was 21 almost 22. And at 24, I still have all of this spring and summer to finish up my associates degree. Then i'll likely wait another semester or two, and then transfer to a 4 year school. So I probably won't finish college until i'm 26 or 27. So i'll be in college longer. | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 03:45 PM |
| 5 | By the time she's 20, how many times will an average girl have had sex?I think that's a little high, especially for 20 years old. I definitely don't think 50% of 20 year old girls have had 10 or more partners. Maybe more like 10% or 15%. Maybe at 30 years old that's the average. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 05:46 AM |
| 6 | By the time she's 20, how many times will an average girl have had sex?Well the average girl loses her virginity at age 17. And let's just assume that she has had 1 or 2 boyfriends by 20, and maybe hooked up with a guy or two while in college. I would say your average 20 year old girl has had anywhere from 2 to 5 partners. Some girls, it will be less. Other girls, it will be more. But we're talking about averages here. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Why did I have to be born at such a disadvantage with my looks and my height?What planet are you from? Planet of the giants? | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Moving from normal chat to flirting and asking for a kiss. Please helpYou're not that short. 5 ft 7 is short, but you're only 2 inches below average. You're still taller than 95% of women, and with some lifts you could be 5 ft 8 or even 5 ft 9. At your height, I don't see any reason to complain. Sure there's women who have a 6 ft tall height requirement but fuck those girls. Most women just simply want a guy who's taller than her and at 5 ft 7, you're taller than most women. Height really starts becoming an issue if you're under 5 ft 6. But even then, it's still n… | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Do I have a low sex drive? What is wrong with me?I definitely can’t go a week, but with enough willpower I can manage 3 days. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Was I clear that I was asking her on a date?good job young padawan | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Anyone seduced a former professor?Suck his dick for an A in the class | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 03:27 PM |
| 21 | How women from various race, cultures and ethnic groups show act when they are interested in you.This is my experience with trying to hit on women of various races: Black girls say awwww hell nawwwwww. Asian girls tell me the statistical probability of us getting together, that's 0.00005% Latina girls start making fun of me in Spanish and then walk off. White girls just say they'd rather take a Tyler than a Tyrone. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most MenI think you’re right. A woman who is otherwise an average 5/10 would go on tinder and get 100+ matches, guys trying to hit her up and ask her out on dates constantly, and because of the inflated value that women often receive from using online dating, she thinks that she’s an 8 out of 10. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most MenEven with good photos, some guys are simply not good looking enough to get enough matches. Which is why I put in you should look good enough to be considered a 6 or 7 out of 10 at least. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why Do I Creep Out Every Single Woman That I Pursue Romantically?My guess is that I come on too strong combined with the fact that they’re not attracted to me. Plus I think you’re right, being forward with what you want creeps a lot of women out. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | How do I become a guy Hot Women would want to chase.Start a boy band and get rich and famous. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 10:00 AM |
| 8 | 12 signs that she’s into youI can give you 30 signs a woman isn't interested in you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 09:44 PM |
| – | Is it a good idea to cold approach random girls in my college cafeteria?If you’re right, that’s pretty funny tbh. | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 10:16 AM |
| – | Why you should ALWAYS try to number-closeThanks for the advice. There’s several cute girls in this week long club that I’m in. Tommorow I’m going to try and ask for their Snapchat. | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 12:01 AM |
| – | Why You Should Love RejectionThat first girl was an absolute bitch. I hope she gets ugly and fat and rejected for being a fat fuck, then she’ll start to develop some humility. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Camera Kino -- Women Love Cameras. Here's What To Do About It.Some people don’t like having their picture taken, especially random pictures where they feel like they don’t look so good. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | 11 Great Places Where You Can Meet WomenGreat list, thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 04:31 AM |
| 0 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)!RemindMe 169 days | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 03:50 PM |
| 0 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)!RemindMe 169 Days | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But MeWell actually I’ve asked out 12 women in my lifetime. 4 were from online dating, which 1 of them said they can’t because she’s not from here and is leaving the next day. And 1 actually agreed to meet up. I asked 2 women out on Facebook, I hit them up and one actually said yes. 3 from college, they weren’t interested. 3 from meeting them in class, 2 said they have boyfriends, 1 said yes. So out of 12 women I’ve asked out, 3 have said yes so I have about a 1/4 chance of her saying yes. 1/3 chance … | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But MeLet's see, Tinder and Bumble in the past but since my face is a 4-6/10, it's mostly a waste of time. I would find a picture of me playing the guitar and use that as my bio, and then me posing with my buddies. Back in 2016 when I went to live in the dorms, I talked to a whole bunch of women my first semester. I was happy, full of confidence, knew how to carry a conversation, I thought I was getting somewhere. Of course, all of them either had boyfriends, or some other guy would swoop in before I … | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Pro tip: Delete tinder and use bumblePro tip: Get a picture of a buff shirtless guy and then photoshop your face on there, for 10x more matches. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:26 PM |
| 14 | This shit is so fucking hardTell me about it, If dating were a video game, then for some people, they get to play the game on easy mode settings, while for others, they're forced to play on super hard mode. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid being a creep?So you're telling me if I show up to class, jump up on the table, take my shirt off and start twerking, i'll be a creep? | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | 14 Ideas For 'Showing Intent' When You've Just Met A Womanayyyyyyy gurl, lemme take you out to mcdonalds and buy you a happy meal, lemme get dem digits first. Works everytim | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | having sex with my teacher?Keep it up and you'll be the star of a student-teacher porno. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Whatever Your Game, People Will Judge You -- So Ignore The Noise, Focus On Yourself & Getting The Girls You Wantor they might get jealous and salty if you approach the girl that they've been trying to work up the nerve to approach for weeks. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 08:32 PM |
| 9 | I actually lost my virginity through tinder. It’s easier than I thoughtEasier said than done for some of us. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 08:29 PM |
| – | I actually lost my virginity through tinder. It’s easier than I thoughtYeah it’s easy when you’re attractive and fairly outgoing. Anyways congratz though. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 02:03 PM |
| 41 | Why are more women interested in you,if one woman is?We are naturally drawn to things that have been approved by others. You want to buy something on Amazon and you’re not sure whether it will be good or not. What do people usually do? They read the reviews, they want to know this product has been approved by others. Here’s a secret, it’s the same with people too. We are drawn to people who are liked and approved by others, especially if our own friends like them. It’s why many people meet through social circles. Why do women like men who are appr… | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet guys, as a girl?Tinder, Bumble, Plenty of Fish, through friends, at college clubs and organizations, volunteer work, dog park, college classes, salsa dance classes, at work, at a bar. There you go, I made a list for you. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high schoolYou should focus on girls in your classes and consider joining a high school club as well. You’re in highschool so you’re probably taking 4-7 classes. Chances are there will be a girl in one of those classes that is single and you think is attractive. Sit by a girl in your class and introduce yourself. Get to know her and talk to her a bit. Eventually if you think you two are compatible then ask her out. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Why I stopped using Tinder and online datingNot necessarily, many guys actually prefer curvy or thick girls with a nice big ass. Obesity is a universal turn off, but many guys LOVE girls who are curvy. There's a difference... | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 01:16 PM |
| 5 | depression feeling when seeing hot girlsWorking out is good, but it isn't enough to get women, trust me. If you're going in thinking getting buff will magically get you girls, you will be massively disappointed. | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 06:32 PM |
| 10 | What To Say After "Hey" - a step-by-step daygame guide for newbiesI need to get me a sweetheart first. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What To Say After "Hey" - a step-by-step daygame guide for newbies!RemindMe 200 Days | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | The 10-10-10 rule helps with approach anxiety (Tiny FR)RemindMe! 133 days | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 9 | The 10-10-10 rule helps with approach anxiety (Tiny FR)If the pain of rejection is acute, then the pain of regret is chronic. So don't be afraid to take a chance and talk to the girl you like. Sure you may get rejected, and yes rejection will hurt, but what if she says yes? What if she's the woman of your dreams? And if you never take that chance and ask for her name, ask her for number, ask her to go on a date, the only question you'll ever be asking years from now is what if? | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 04:45 PM |
| 9 | Invited Girl to Hang with me one on one and she wants to bring friendOftentimes, a woman who is inviting a friend along is friend-zoning you. Because if she saw it as a date, she wouldn’t bring a friend along. Here’s what you can do: You text her back saying something like thanks but I would prefer just the two of us. You make up an excuse to say why you can’t make it. Then you offer to reschedule for another time and hope she doesn’t invite her friend this time around. You say yes and you invite one of your single male friends along as well. It can be like a dou… | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid faster then others? A guy (one in the pic)at my school who I found out my ex slept with and she told me she wanted to wait (I was her bf for two years and didn’t even sleep with her) . How do women find fuck boys more appealing ??I work out, I game and I have good frame?A lot of it comes down to looks, popularity, and status. Obviously the better looking you are and better you are at social skills, the easier it’s going to be to have success with women. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 12:23 AM |
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