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Oh fuck you too man, I'll make sure to read all of them! And if you'll ever have a subscription option - I will subscribe to your blog! Watching you call your website visitors names whilst you're trying to make money out of them is gonna be a fun thing to watch.
/r/seduction31/03/16 02:41 PM
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Why are you so full of negativity? You're deep diving in demagogy and not even explaining what's wrong about my opinion :) I am here because I love reading other people stories. I love giving advice from my experience and way of thinking. Why are you here? You have a problem? lol. And no, I'm in my 20s if you're interested. And yes, I make money, but it is low wage. Student life is hard, dude. You didn't even listen to a single thing I said - you simply started proving me wrong out of nowhere. L…
/r/seduction31/03/16 02:34 PM
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What does say to you that I'm here out of confusion and befuddlement? :) What do you mean by "I have never had your problem"? What problem? And if you think that it is impudent that not everyone is going to agree with you - you will have a hard time out there with your articles. Learn from us and learn how to react to people who disagree with you! Calling them names won't get you anywhere.
/r/seduction31/03/16 02:19 PM
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While you give here a different insight, which is cool, I don't agree. You didn't really explain what you mean by "lying" and some people might take it seriously which will get them in a bad place. Vulnerable people come from a place of honesty, if there's dishonesty - that's not being vulnerable. Better to rephrase this whole thing was to say - it's okay (for some people) to create sometimes some tension and not tell about everything she asks, add some sarcasm to it, hide something a little to …
/r/seduction31/03/16 09:10 AM
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Nice username, dude!
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:19 AM
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Well shit, maybe they're too smart for this - because this is simplicity at it's best. People expect dating as something complicated and as something that needs to be learned with "theory". And cheers, man!
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:18 AM
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Don't go out with intention to approach girls. Go buy some milk. Go to church on Sunday. Go get some Starbucks. AND THEN, if you see a girl you like - "approach". You're already telling your approach anxiety to kick in when you go out to downtown just to approach girls.
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:16 AM
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No dude, that's the worst reponse anyone can get.
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:15 AM
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Any you think is a good response.
/r/seduction25/03/16 08:59 AM
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Decided to keep this here. Something made me delete it yesterday as it was downvoted. Someone who needs this will find it helpful ;) wink-wonk /u/ta394283509 This post shows the kind of power mindfulness can add to your life. "Be comfortable with being uncomfortable" this is absolutely one of the best ways to beat approach anxiety. Don't listen to that other guy, he's a bad guy that doesn't know what he's talking about. Great post, it's a shame you deleted it.
/r/seduction24/03/16 07:19 PM
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Ouch, dude!
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:31 PM
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Oh nice, a book on how to be an alpha!
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:50 AM
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That's all changable. If you had an arm amputated and would dislike yourself about it, it'd be a whole different discussion. Ask yourself where does your "weakness, pusyness and non-manliness" come from and work on it.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:39 AM
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What exactly you don't like about yourself?
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:59 PM
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We all have ups and downs. I am a complete lazy mess in winter and I wake up when it gets warmer - spring and summer.
/r/seduction21/03/16 10:01 PM
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If you can be vulnerable it also means that you're strong. Mentally. Vulnerable means being okay with all your traits, insecurities; you're okay with saying what you think, you aren't trying to hide anything from anyone. It's like having nudes on your phone and not fearing/minding if someone that checks your phone out sees them ;) Vulnerability creates attraction because we all love honest people. Vulnerable people don't hide their attraction towards anybody, hence why it "creates" attraction.
/r/seduction21/03/16 07:22 PM
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What else is there about me? ;)
/r/seduction21/03/16 03:53 PM
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Hell yeah. Especially flexing your biceps on other dudes ;)
/r/seduction21/03/16 02:07 PM
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Solid advice on not being forceful. Nothing needs to be forced. Even cocaine usage. Cocaine feels nice though.
/r/seduction21/03/16 10:17 AM
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Cheers! Looks like a good result to me.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:57 AM
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Good reply and that might be one of the mistakes of mine and is a little off-topic from me. Cheers.
/r/seduction21/03/16 07:42 AM
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Where did I say that first impression does not matter? But hey dude, if it does not work out for you, then don't do it! You're not alone and there are people who cringe at their own inner feelings. Just be sneaky if it works for you and you feel fulfilled. And yes, I keep and am growing up day by day ;)
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:24 AM
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There we go, was nice discussion ;)
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:18 AM
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I never said that you need to say anything verbally. I just told to not hide attraction which comes from a place of feeling. That is the main reason why it happens. Is that bad? If you will be sneaky from day 1 like described everything from you will be half-assed and unsure. Honesty is not speaking what you think like a robot. Make jokes, be sarcastic, don't always tell everything - but there shouldn't be any feel of DISHONESTY.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:16 AM
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Perfect example!
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:10 AM
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So telling you to learn how to come from a place of love, honesty, appreciation, sexual intent is not going to help? You're actually learning how to 'be yourself' by practicing all of the above :)
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:07 AM
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Anytime. I just click into my sexuality whenever I feel like. And I do whenever I meet women I like. Makes her giggle and me smile.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:05 AM
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Ok, thanks for your input but I don't agree with you. Showing attraction from a place of trust is not taking out your dick as soon as you see the woman and then say that you want to fuck her. It comes also from a place of sexual intent. Showing attraction and honesty is not just WORDS. It's the vibe you give. Check my previous post :) But if you want to - be sneaky like you described IF you enjoyed it.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:03 AM
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Does not matter, be more open minded. People with status and fun social circles come from a place of 'feeling good'. All your money, cars, fame makes you and others feel good. That is why everyone loves your status and money. If you get your shit together and start to feel things - you're going to meet people and get a social circle, slowly with your 'status'. And yeah, I have, I was that loser. So you're saying you won't be listening to your inner self (which helps in anything in life) just bec…
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:01 AM
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Shitload of text again, I start to love writing, no matter what topic.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:18 PM
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I had bringed TRP in just because you were generalizing from the start. It's all true what you now have said and only blind good will and enthusiasm will not lead you far on this topic. Learning about yourself and how to work around it is working on yourself as well - it's what I have here in my post. You watch yourself, you learn, you adapt. On the marry part, I actually love the TRP concept about it, because I don't really belive in marriage. Anyway, peace, man :)
/r/seduction20/03/16 06:42 PM
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I actually went through some of your posts and see you're on RedPill subreddit. I don't hold any hate towards that community, but in my opinion, it does more bad than good. You forget how to look at the good that can be seen out there when you're part of the community. I also saw negative posts from you. You clearly are holding negative or hateful emotions in you that you need to let go of. Like I said - the problem is that you don't come from a place of love. Yet again, you can live however you…
/r/seduction20/03/16 05:54 PM
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So it was all your life like that? Sounds a bit depressing. This sounds more like hookup scene. No one is going to love just your cars, money and fame for long IMO. Not sure what SMW means either. But anyway, it's good to see different opinion. Appearance matters, of course, but some of the things you say just don't seem like something I'd agree with. But hey, I might change my mind when I'm 32 - hope not! Looks redpill influenced to me, but I might be wrong.
/r/seduction20/03/16 04:29 PM
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Can't say anything about this but just ask - how old are you?
/r/seduction20/03/16 04:13 PM
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True, I'm being a little ignorant. Silence is a good part too though, it needs to be there. And running out of things to say happens to all of us, it means we're either nervous or not interested in who to/what we're talking about.
/r/seduction20/03/16 02:47 PM
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Why would you want to avoid silence? It's natural. Do you talk non-stop with your friend? Or do you spend moments in silence together? But if you want to talk forever, sure, good advice :)
/r/seduction20/03/16 02:20 PM
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Added a few words about the "friendzone" everyone is so scared about.
/r/seduction20/03/16 02:04 PM
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Awesome advice. Consider listening to his advice, OP.
/r/seduction20/03/16 01:51 PM
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OK, that's your experience, I hope you're doing better now. I do not understand one thing though. How can a person who comes from a place of love and honesty, not neediness but appreciation and sexual energy flowing in interactions - get shitload of mental scars and a lot of rejections? I feel like you are a quite negative when I read through your text. For me it looks like you lack of the love part. Both yourself and others. But hey, that's just me! But OK, in short. What in your opinion, if no…
/r/seduction20/03/16 11:33 AM
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Sorry, Kindle only.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:32 AM
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Hope you liked it and make sure to leave a 5 star review on Amazon.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:27 AM
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Let them be needy if they want to, god damn it, Frank!
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:59 AM
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Just a liiiitle bit.
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:45 AM
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Alpha is such a raped term that nobody really knows what it means anymore :) It's turning into a meme.
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:44 AM
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It's all true with what you have said, dude! But it comes after getting your shit together in your head. I'll actually add the gym part. Cheers!
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:24 AM
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Titles are supposed to be conflicting ;)
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:23 AM
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That's pretty much me.
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:23 AM
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Ok, I hear you. What is 'being yourself' to you? Like I said to other guy, it's a subjective thing. I hope you don't see socializing and intimacy as something hard as learning how to climb Everest.
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:23 AM
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Hey man! It's all true with what you have said but I didn't quote any single thing about value, just the acting part. While all of what you said is +/- true IMO, it all shouldn't be faked. Why would you run from being someone that you are? I'm introverted and I don't talk shitload and I still get attention in big groups. It's about the vibe you give. Women are emotional and you can say literally anything, but what matters is how you make her feel. Need to become emotional rollercoaster builder. …
/r/seduction20/03/16 08:21 AM
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Damn dude, I think it's even longer than my post. Some effort right there! Glad that your way works out of you. But I don't agree with what you have there completely.
/r/seduction19/03/16 09:05 PM
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Good to know, man! It all started with me reading the sidebar when I turned 17 and then bringing it all to action AND realizing how fake and not right it feels for me. Then I just started listening to myself. Maybe meditation daily for 5-10 minutes did it for me too, who knows. Interactions used to be pain in the ass, uncomfortable, fake/not from a place of honesty and now it's just a playground if you vibe with the person. There's a new problem though - girls are no longer main priority and now…
/r/seduction19/03/16 08:57 PM
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Cheers, man! Glad you resonate with me!
/r/seduction19/03/16 08:54 PM
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Somewhat true, yeah, but trying to desensitize yourself is not really a good way, but yet again, that's just the way I see it. You could rephrase it a little bit as - get used to being uncomfortable when it comes to anything or living life with action rather than being passive :) When you do it the way I wrote above, you're not really getting rejected most of the time or failing. It's more about if you vibe with the person or not. In that case it's not really rejection, it's called not getting a…
/r/seduction19/03/16 08:52 PM
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Only if it's her who has the chub. You never know nowadays.
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:43 PM
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I'm totally okay with people who don't agree with me. Because that's the way I see it and for every topic and person there will be shitload of ways of thinking. I just share mine. Don't resonate with me and don't agree at all? Well, I'm not going to argue with you about it and make you think my way :) Also, that was ONE of the message I was trying to state. Basically, everything TL;DR what I was trying to say is in conclusion. And in the title, of course. A bit of everything that I wanted to cov…
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:41 PM
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Words of wisdom (not in Jaden Smith way) right there! What also people don't understand that SILENCE needs to be in conversations. Do you non-stop talk with your best friend daily? You spend some time in silence together as well. Some people just think that they have to say something all the time. Don't value conversations so high, like I was saying. True right there from you, still :)
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:39 PM
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God damn it, you with this pick up line again!
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:15 PM
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I was giving an option, no forcing here, man :) No dating stuff over there as well, because I don't want to be that another guy who writes only about it. Peace! EDIT: Done! Hopefully no confusion on your side anymore :)
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:14 PM
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He was playing along my post. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4b3dio/you_dont_need_to_read_anything_here_its_already/
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:06 PM
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I'm happy that this helped you!
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:07 PM
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Any way is good if it feels right to you and leaves you fullfilled! True from you right there as well ;)
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:01 PM
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Cheers! Had to express myself.
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:00 PM
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No problem dude, I thought if I should put it or not. I'll remove it in 20 minutes once I'm at PC. Message stays the same and you didn't really get it ;) I was trying to say that people make it too complicated for themselves by reading too many 'guides step by step'.
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:56 PM
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I hear you and I see that coming. Answer 2 questions though. Where does bad experience come from? What is 'being yourself' to you? It's a subjective thing. Tell me what is wrong, if you're older and have had bad experiences :)
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:51 PM
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Been better, been better. But we all know Churchill's top quote, I'll be doing good, man ;)
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:09 PM
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It's been a long time, dude! How are you doing?
/r/seduction19/03/16 03:48 PM
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Formatting this a little now. Damn, that's a lot of text here. Anyway, let's see how you guys like/dislike this! Let's talk!
/r/seduction19/03/16 03:01 PM
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If that is what you want (be a liar) - do it. TL;DR of all the replies here. Because in the end we're only happy when we do something we want to.
/r/seduction17/03/16 10:59 AM
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Sorry but, I'm a real man.
/r/seduction10/03/16 03:02 PM
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It's been a long time, dude! How you doing?
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:45 PM
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I didn't really mean it as a synonym, just said a similar word to good side of arrogance. I don't want to look for articles or write it all myself to explain, but here's in short: positive arrogance is loving yourself, trusting yourself and knowing that you will be fine in the end. On the other hand negative arrogance involves neediness to prove your confidence to others. Your guy was the negative one.
/r/seduction01/03/16 01:21 PM
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This is why no one should ever give advice on what to do. Here, you just told your own way to handle these! And that's right, if he kept being an asshole I wouldn't be the friendly guy forever either! It's more of me giving him a chance. Like I said, I'd use a bit of sarcasm, so I didn't really mean the "seems cool". Just a bit of friendly sarcasm ;)
/r/seduction01/03/16 12:07 PM
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What I look for in a pick up coach? Giving the guy who's about to buy your infield coaching JUST one advice: do it your way. And then just push him in the interactions, not saying anything else. I'd do it for like $5 on Fridays when I'm free, or even $7! Because doing that of course is hard! Or else? It's not worth even a penny. We have plenty of actor schools and there's Hollywood. And other lame PUAs that teach some kind of theory. Not trying to come off as rude, it just makes me cringe someti…
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:39 AM
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Many. Your job interview. Presentations. Anything. Arrogance is not just about thinking you're better than anyone in a bad way. In a good way it's thinking that you will be fine no matter what unlike others. It can be called optimism too ;)
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:32 AM
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Good thing you're worried! I'm gonna quote something I've written before. There's no ALPHA way. Forget that damn word. There's YOUR way. And only you know how you handle ANYTHING in life. Forget all this seduction bullshit of counting minutes until the kiss/number, body positioning for better sucess percentage using Jason Fucktard's scheme, higher monarchy value over your population of women, pickup rule number #235 by /u/faggot43 and all that bullshit. This is going to sound mainstream and sill…
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:23 AM
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full on alpha male He was not alpha. He was showing arrogance over the top and has low self esteem/any other problem hence why the insults. A lot of people here using word alpha make me cringe. And other 1206 seduction and the very fancy professional pickup terms that make everyone's wife wet. There's no ALPHA way. Forget that damn word. There's YOUR way. And only you know how you handle ANYTHING in life. Forget all this seduction bullshit of counting minutes until the kiss/number, body position…
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:05 AM
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No way! Don't do that. Do what you want YOUR way. You're not becoming an actor. You're just trying to do something NEW. Trying something new is not being an actor! Or you can become an actor ...if that is what you want. See what I did there?
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:49 AM
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Don't just look at the negative aspects. Change your mindset! You went for it - you faced fear, you know what it is like, next time you'll be a bit more calm! And now you know that there can be rejection - you should be a bit more okay next time with it! Looking at past failures can be pain in the arse, but keep in mind that you will have plenty of those! We learn from failures - be okay with it! Fail like a loser, let yourself fail and be that nervous slumpy guy. Then learn from it. What I woul…
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:53 PM
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What do women want?
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:45 PM
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I was like this when I got into Red Pill stuff when I was 18. How silly of me, I was walking around and thinking I'm at the top of the mountain. What I actually was - just like others, just with plenty of arrogance. Negative arrogance, which just made me a grumpy person overall. What is being "successful" with women in your point of view? Because in my opinion, if you're not making progress to get a healthy relationship with a woman, it's not success, sorry for opening your eyes a little. Look a…
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:41 PM
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May I take the cookie from the top shelf now, Sir?
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:24 PM
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No, I didn't mean it as being indifferent. We're just here trying to make her put some effort into this as well :) But what you there said is also a great point.
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:23 PM
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Well it's really up to you then if you want to be in this kind of relationship. It's either she's into dominating or has a toxic behaviour. And if it's the second, I don't know about you, but I would run. I don't want to get in any relationship with unstable/toxic/crazy women. If you want to stay with her, stop looking for any approval from her and see how she changes :) It's either she will get furious or it will get better.
/r/seduction29/02/16 04:18 PM
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Define awkward. Acknowledge awkwardness and it's no longer awkwardness. Women don't really give a damn. You can kiss/get their number/do what the fuck you want whenever you want. Some will act surprised/angry/pissed off. People are different. Some will be waiting impatiently for you to ask their number whilst you're there counting 53 minutes as advised on reddit. Some are scared of you and secretly don't want to talk to you. The only way is to find out and it's ANYTIME. It's just all about how d…
/r/seduction29/02/16 04:03 PM
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Of course not, it's written on your face that you have no social circle and they will smell it in distance of 1km! You cannot approach anyone for the rest of your life. It's over. Might go unsubscribe from Netflix and trash all your books on how to be an alpha. Stop overthinking and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction29/02/16 03:56 PM
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I have to take her out every know and then, no cheating, call her or text her everyday and talk about how our days are, meet each other's friends, no secrets, tell her what my worries are, suck up to her parents. Sounds like a bit slave-ish thing to me, or am I being wrong? Sounds like very onesided relationship effort. You might reconsider if you want to be her entertainment 24/7. Because that's how it sounds in that context. And if you don't have that many friends just tell as it is. I mean, w…
/r/seduction29/02/16 03:44 PM
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Not until you shave it.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:52 PM
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I won't give you my money. Stop.
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:07 PM
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Over what exactly? My bench press PR progression? Been a struggle lately, but don't worry - time will show.
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:54 PM
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Or look him up on Youtube. I find his videos where he talks better.
/r/seduction09/12/15 03:32 PM
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When I approach I just am comfortable with being uncomfortable. Sounds ridiculous, right? Just be okay with that you're going to feel uncomfortable and trust yourself as you approach. Hell, all you've gotta do is just say hi and say random things. Don't read shit, it is all about practice. I even hate word "practice" in something like this. Here's some cringeworthy thoughts of mine. If you wouldn't care what people think that's when your souly-soul is free. So go do some stupid things, as practi…
/r/seduction09/12/15 03:18 PM
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I didn't mean it that way. I might listen to music too, but I would never spend time texting or browsing random Facebook posts. When I want to listen to music I put my phone on airplane mode :) I used to be way too addicted to texting and my phone. Don't be always 24/7 available for everyone on your phone to text. Spend time for yourself. Only slaves are always available. That's just my opinion, take it or don't.
/r/seduction09/12/15 03:11 PM
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I spend at least 2 hours a day away from technologies. At least at the gym - I turn off my phone or put it on airplane mode. Or if I'm on the bus, just to connect with the environment :) Edit: Not sure what's with the downvotes. Just sharing what I do.
/r/seduction09/12/15 11:44 AM
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