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Well how is it that if I make negative jokes about myself and pretend to cry ( it's obvious I'm not serious), the girls laugh like crazy, sometimes they go noooo don't say that, or nooo you're not! I smile and say ooohhh so you think I'm hot huh? Hahaha 😂 damn it's funny, and it works in the moment too
/r/seduction23/02/26 09:10 AM
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Surely there is a method, I'm really good at seeing connections in insignificant places, most of my humour comes to that, I make stupid analogies, they make sense but they are dumb, which happens to be funny to most people. I think that might a good start is thinking of how things are connected in ways that are philosophical, contextual, natural etc, any connections to other things will help with humour. I think if you're not funny, you just have to not try to be and also not be afraid of making…
/r/seduction27/11/25 03:27 AM
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Yeah I've really taken this in for the last few years, if I get anything flaky I say what you wrote or "ah sht *embarrassed sorry, I totally read you wrong" and move on, it's not because I'm trying to get them to change their mind either, I just want them to want me as much as I want them (brazenly honest) or I don't want them at all. It saves me time and hopefully they're more comfortable and have a relatively positive experience
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:05 AM
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Sounds like you haven't properly recognised or internalised that men and women just simply have different interests, let's say you love fast cars and doing burnouts, every time you do a burnout and think "hell yeah brother" girls are thinking "ugh, whatever" 🤷 just accept it and move on with what makes you happy, you'll find a chick you connect with eventually
/r/seduction21/08/25 12:03 AM
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Exactly 💯
/r/seduction20/08/25 11:46 PM
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Not too loud? Bro this is text shut up 😂😂😂
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:07 PM
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Cold approached 3 people and already considered stopping 😂😂😂😂 you sound like you're having guy problems!!! So funny but anyway, yes, keep cold approaching! Side note; Don't mess around with lines or jokes, just approach with whatever it is you think of on the spot even if it is just a hello. Are you going to be rejected? Yes. Is it going to be frustrating? Yes. Should that stop you? That's on you. I think it's awesome that you're taking control of your own life and encourage you to keep going! S…
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:46 AM
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You know you can ask without being verbal about it man 😮‍💨
/r/seduction14/06/25 03:07 AM
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It's hard to tell, they're terrible communicators 😂 for me I just feel it and I usually get that feeling from eye contact that's so good you can't wipe a small smile off your face and them too, this is when I throw out an off the cuff compliment so that it flows out naturally and see what happens from there. I'm not really good looking or have very masculine features, I'm not ugly though and I have dimples which helps, what I do really well is make them laugh, and its HOW they laugh that tells m…
/r/seduction14/06/25 02:40 AM
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That holds up for me, I've noticed this a few times
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:41 AM
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My question is, how often do you go out to practice, is it scheduled, or just when you feel like it
/r/seduction02/06/25 07:19 AM
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Definitely the right move in my opinion
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:40 AM
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Either you're open to a relationship or you're not. I'd say next honestly.
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:32 AM
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My openers are normally jokes too! Haha this is interesting 🤣
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:19 AM
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It's not, you just simply have to put in the effort, and only assholes do it for some reason, it's simple, get flowers, pick her up, make her laugh, pay for the date, take her home, kiss or don't kiss. That's all you've got to do man 🤷
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:12 AM
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I'm not proud of it but I'm really good at this one. You take it slow and sort of act like friends, the thing is though, you have to make sure she knows your intentions and no you don't have to spell it out for her. You can still use the tricks you use with other girls, just water it down and stretch it out over time. Hold her hand (if you're not sure if you can right now, I say this softly and slowly "hey, I want to hold your hand, would you mind?"), walk closest to the road, tell her she looks…
/r/seduction31/01/25 10:25 PM
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All you need to do is get addicted to another thrill, rock climbing, surfing, skating, hell even chess if you want, there's always something that you haven't tried which will definitely engage you, picking up women was your hobby, your sport, but now you need a different one 🤷
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:59 PM
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I'll give you a serious answer, this doesn't involve being physically appealing, rather, mentally stimulating so here goes When spooning, just wiggle your butt against his crutch 🤷 Let's say he's laying on his back and you rest your head in the crook of his shoulder, try just tracing your fingers around on his chest, slide your leg up his Get better at kissing, no one likes kissing a washing machine just saying You could just stare at him with a slight smile on your face These four are just some…
/r/seduction13/01/25 09:26 AM
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Exercise will help you out, be young and virile
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:10 PM
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I found my girlfriend working at the cafe, I thought she was interested when she was asking personal questions, I don't have game at all, I just look for signs that they're trying to get closer to me, wether or not it's physical, and if I spot it, I respond positively. It works for me 🤷 I'm quite laid back
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:06 PM
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Just get off Tinder and go outside, start talking
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:40 PM
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Usually professionals, they seem to enjoy a simple and hot headed chef that can kinda flirt 😂
/r/seduction12/12/24 06:24 AM
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Say hello to 10 attractive women a day, if they seem like they wanna talk, talk, but when talking, do not react, respond. That'll give you a much greater advantage over yourself and allow you to get out of your own way.
/r/seduction12/12/24 06:11 AM
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Instead of focusing on how you feel about her, try to gauge how she feels about you, does she ask you personal questions, does she seemingly go out of her way to talk to you. Stop reacting and start responding, that'll skyrocket your chances of satisfaction, wether or not she doesn't feel the same
/r/seduction12/12/24 05:48 AM
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What turns females on is you being you, bearing in mind that you're not everyone's cup of tea 👍 no need to overthink it
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:24 AM
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Met my current girlfriend while she was working at the cafe. I deleted dating apps with the intention of "meeting them in the wild or not at all", and the rest of history
/r/seduction20/11/24 11:19 PM
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I just thank them for their honesty, a chick being honest is a cause for celebration 😂
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:43 PM
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If you have to, just give vague answers and when they press you more just say "I'm not going to talk about, anyway..." Change topic
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:16 AM
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Of course you should, it's a numbers game my man 👏
/r/seduction24/09/24 02:03 AM
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Keep moving she's a time waster
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:24 PM
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Sounds like you don't really need to start approaching, congratulations on that, you'll be fine in cold approach man, eye contact and engagement is all you need 👍
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:20 PM
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I'd like to add to this, look for engaging eye contact, reciprocity meaning she replies with hey how are you, BE MENTALLY PREPARED TO STOP AND TALK, also have fun with it, but the above works great, also keep the reps very very high
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:13 PM
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It's a numbers game man, just respawn and play again, a good play I use when kissing is saying things like "oh no, should we? Oh damn, wow, wtf, we totally shouldn't, is that watermelon, lemme kiss you more for science", drop your expectations man and just have fun 👏
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:10 PM
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Stay sober, tell the bar staff you're the designated driver and ask for either soda or water. DEFINITELY STAY SOBER. It helps so fricken much
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:04 PM
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I dunno man, I got the same reactions when I was younger, I ended up just hiding that fact, there's honestly no ethical way to be promiscuous, you're not being good by being honest about it, face that you are indeed a player and if you don't like that, change, it's simple dude
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:02 PM
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Good question bro, my first advice is to be more receptive, she's probably been dropping hints that you've missed, so whenever you get a feeling that what she said was strange in some way, assume it was a hint and respond positively, not neutral because neutral is also a negative. That is how to listen. EYE CONTACT Next, a good way to initiate touching at your age is playfully and gently tickling or poking, look for the moment to do that, don't do it out of nowhere. EYE CONTACT Other than those …
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:12 PM
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If you don't take the risk, you don't take the reward 🤷
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:27 PM
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Just gradually increase how much and how intense you touch them, that's it 🤷
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:24 AM
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Shit I barely get that, but any compliment I get, it's always "thank you 😌"
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:15 AM
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Yeah I did that when I was 18 😂😂 now it's very different, I'm very open about having no game! My only hope is to LISTEN RELENTLESSLY and try to find flirting signals and respond to them, I will stand still just looking at them until I've decided how I'm gonna react and most of the time I look like an idiot hahahaha
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:13 AM
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I just don't use them, go out and touch grass dude
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:02 AM
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This is important to understand. Thank you for bringing that up. How many times have you lied about getting laid? How many times have others been hyped that you got laid but you actually didn't and you just let them believe it? Shit I've been guilty of this many times.
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:03 PM
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By recognising that it makes things worse.
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:57 PM
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If you want them to know you're hitting on them, here is a formula that I highly doubt will fail you, greet-compliment-meet. That is all.
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:03 PM
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I don't think you're asexual, just don't drink so much, if at all. And stop watching porn
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:57 AM
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Okay so you want a starting point, I would start with deleting any dating apps you may have, next, if you are doing this, stop using texting for flirting, you're in school so you'll see them tomorrow. Now you can actually start, rely solely on face to face interaction, instead of doing a, b and c, just FOCUS on them. Pay attention man because, thinking about what you should do here there or anywhere will take you away, just be present and reciprocate anything you FELT was flirting, not what you …
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:02 AM
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Remember, you don't have to use all of these, I use 1, 2 and 4. The others I can't use because they rest outside of what's natural for me. Use what is comfortable to you, only practice what's not natural to you when you've decided THERE AND THEN that this interaction is going to be skill building for you. If you want a result, the best thing to do is to be your best and most present current self, always pay attention when you actually want someone.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:51 AM
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Look man, the truth is, you can't make someone be attracted to you, that's already been decided. What you CAN do is pay attention to the interaction, remember this when talking to a girl you find attractive, just pay attention, don't think about magic words, just be there, present. Also delete dating apps, that will waste your time.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:39 AM
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Yeah breaking the physical barrier is a good point, handshakes are great, with a girl I like I'll either use both hands or if I can't I'll gently rub my thumb on their hand, and slowly let go, if they match speed, always a good sign. After the physical barrier has been removed, it's butter from there, I'm gonna edit my post now hahaha
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:18 AM
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I see what you mean, I avoid it, and even still, I picked up my current girlfriend while she was working. The key is being aware if THEY are flirting with YOU.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:14 AM
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Well if they're at work, it's not that you shouldn't bother, it's that you should pay extra attention to the interaction, remember, people that are working also don't want to flirt with customers because it can cost them their job, but they will if they like the person but they're careful. What I've noticed is that they'll put their toe just over the line, and ask personal questions, where do you live, where are you from and they might even mention they often go there for whatever, what's your n…
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:05 AM
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I'm seeing a Japanese girl right now, I'm not in Japan though I'm in Australia, we met when she was working, after she told me she's Japanese I figured I'd have to really pay attention to see if she's interested in me. Women in general give you hints, but this time I could see them (maybe it's because I was looking for them? Idk) quite clearly, so I tried my best to be subtle and direct at the same time, seemed to have worked, and yes, she's beautiful in so many ways. Considering all of this, I'…
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:43 AM
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The girl I'm seeing right now is from Japan, I met her while she was working, normally that's not a good place to meet women which I understand, I've completely ditched dating apps, I'm 29 for reference, I don't go to clubs, I don't stay out past my bed time because fuck that, my firm rule is that I meet them at places that I enjoy being at, this means I find women with similar interests already, I think that's a good thing to start doing. Also if you go to the gym, don't be afraid, throw out a …
/r/seduction22/05/24 08:09 AM
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So long as you're both really good at communicating, and I mean you're actually good not just think that you are, it isn't the worst situation. It's probably best to have a work party and flirt there instead, she'll be more herself than at work, you'll be able to see if she's just being friendly or flirting, don't flirt at work man, just don't.
/r/seduction27/08/22 09:39 AM
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