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A lot of women don't want single dads long term either. It's not worth worrying over, mainly because happiness shouldn't be dependent on being in a relationship. Sometimes the best thing for the kids is a stable parent.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:11 AM
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I'm temporarily in a team that is all female. Hearing one of them come out with 'back when men were any use'. The temp role was presented to me as almost a certain offer of a role in that team. It would be a pay rise, but it wouldn't be worth the hassle. I'm also tired of the false happiness and continuous fake compliments.
/r/MensRights20/07/26 06:38 PM
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I fully understand the victims permission. But I wonder if in 10 years they will still hold onto the same thoughts. The concern for me is that this reinforces the narrative of 'relationship' and not rape/sexual assault. It also more importantly makes people who are tempted to act on these impulses thing 'why not, nothing will happen to me'. That is dangerous.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 04:53 PM
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Document it Call the cops
/r/MensRights13/07/26 03:33 PM
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So what are the chances that any conviction or imprisonment will result the man receiving more punishment? Any bets on how long before she's the victim with some or all off: Post partum depression (victim of medical care not devoting enough resources to women) Undiagnosed mental health (victim of medical care not devoting enough resources to women) Controlling and coercive control by her partner (again victim) Male partner didn't do enough to help her at home (victim of men not pulling their dom…
/r/MensRights13/07/26 01:03 PM
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Yeah, she pled not guilty and it was the jury who proposes the sentence so it's a good sign. She's 30 now, so not sure when she'd be out. It's certainly something a prosecutor can use to get a plea deal so other victims of these women don't have to testify.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 11:13 PM
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'Easier to get a job, easier to make friends, more physically able (stronger, taller, etc), more leeway/respect from professors than is given to equally talented women, better healthcare, lower expectations for housework contributions, general feelings of safety, etc' Easier to get a job Your bureau of labor show almost identical unemployment rate. No advantage there, not even bothering to list the 'promote women in stem etc' female advantages. https://www.bls.gov/news.release/empsit.t02.htm 'ea…
/r/MensRights28/06/26 12:50 AM
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Ok, where do you live, because that isn't matched by any data.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 12:29 AM
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The term 'Incel' gets thrown around like 'narcisst'. The person saying it just knows it as 'something i can say to upset someone'. They don't really know what the phrase means. My response has simply been to ignore them, or just comment about how the walking away is partially inspired by femcells and how inspirational femcells are.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 09:09 PM
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Him lost his job and access to his kid Her, no punishment and will be able to claim they were let down by the legal system. I wonder when we will have an official 'womans statement in court is worth more than a mans'.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 12:16 AM
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'trying to improve' By incitement to suicide? Or just mental trauma and plenty of pain. You aren't a male supporter.
/r/MensRights20/06/26 01:29 AM
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'They fought for their country' Would they do it again? You claim to be a military veteran, would you do it again knowing you'd be a homeless person? Would that be motivating when you're training? You'll work hard and push yourself just to sleep on the streets afterwards? Be the lowest of the low? I'm afraid your posts are coming across as bots/trolls or just delusional. I wish you the best and hope you get the help needed. You're making constant 'you're sitting around crying' comments, you migh…
/r/MensRights19/06/26 08:53 PM
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I can't believe you buy into that rubbish. Go tell that to every homeless veteran. You can care about your society, your society doesn't have to care about you and they don't. It isn't a equal relationship. 'meant to set and enforce laws and protections' which country do you live in? I can't think of a single country where that is accurate.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 03:44 PM
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That is not what it means to be a man. That is frankly one of the worst arguments going, essentially making an individual a slave of the state due to their gender. Not wanting to die for your country is not a new idea and I'd like to point out that in wars where men did avoid fighting, after the conflict ended it made little to no difference to them as a group.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 11:52 AM
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Yep If your partner (particularly if their female) decides to end it, you can prepare for the criminal and/or civil case. It brings a whole new meaning to 'topping from the bottom'. And any marks, tattoos, brandings etc particularly if it can be tracked back to you... Try getting your lawyer at $400/hr to explain that one away. It will be a simple 'coercive control' explanation by them for anything, even if there is evidence showing the opposite. Don't forget women are both sexually liberated an…
/r/MensRights17/06/26 06:46 PM
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Give it time and we'll be told that the reason non white men act this way is due to neo colonialism by white men. Just remember it's always white men's fault.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 03:50 PM
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It means men need to stop being silent and start reporting incidents.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 03:25 PM
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It's a legal grey area https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legality_of_BDSM Know the laws in your area and be aware that you could be prosecuted.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 03:24 PM
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'new & Young' I wish. My apologies if anyone was offended. This isn't an attack on men'’s right as more as an attack on swinging and group sex. The language being used is more interesting. It's a combination of encouragement of female sexual emancipation, combined with a hit piece on swinging that could have been written by Mary Whitehead. Give it a couple of years and I imagine we'll see advocates of lesbian feminism in the mainstream press. It'll be 'don't fuck the scary men, fuck safe women i…
/r/MensRights16/06/26 06:52 PM
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Not too sure what it has to do with men's rights but the article has some interesting items. All the experts are female All the 'victims' are female The underlying assumption is that men are potential rapists (interview with man) No interest or understanding that a man might also be a victim of being pressured into swinging (made to penetrate, coercive and controlling behavior)
/r/MensRights16/06/26 01:07 PM
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A curfew would affect the law abiding, it wouldn't affect those who have no concern about breaking the law. It has a chance of moving some of those who are law abiding into a non law abiding group, mainly due to feelings of discrimination. The old 'if I'm going to be treated like a criminal, I might as well be a criminal'. It would have an economic impact, not only on places that are normally open at those times but for people who would normally work at those times. The number of people required…
/r/MensRights14/06/26 04:00 PM
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If a law is only enforced when it benefits those who choose to enforce them, should we worry? Incidentally I didn't say what you think I did. I'd be interested how you got from that to abolish all laws. All I talked about is lack of enforcement. You might be surprised what laws are on your local legal books. Does it bother you when you break them?
/r/MensRights14/06/26 02:06 PM
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Laws are worthless if not enforced Moral standards, they change and again morals are not always applied. To put it another way, I can buy meth outside my office. It's not legal nor do I find it moral. But the law isn't enforced and everyone including myself just ignores it. Us who ignore it don't really put any morals ahead of ignoring it.
/r/MensRights14/06/26 01:58 PM
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After pleading guilty they still had their bail extended. Looks like at most they will get probation, what a farce. 'Dadd-Zammit - who lives in Craigieburn, in Melbourne's outer northwest, and was a Crown Casino employee - had her bail extended for a pre-sentence hearing on September 7.'
/r/MensRights12/06/26 05:37 PM
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Also it's men not being willing to support and stand up for each other. Which in this day and age if you have something to loose (career, family or property), standing up puts a big sign over your head that you are a valid target. I'd like to stand up more, but I'd loose my job, home and still have to support kids if I did.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 10:46 PM
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'historically justified with their lack of military duty' - When was that?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 09:04 PM
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Thank you. Just inaccurate UK suffragette propaganda then. Ignoring that most men couldn't vote, instead focussing on the character of those who can vote. It's funny to see the deification of 'mother'. Being a mother is seen as a burden now. Being a father isn't good enough, but being a mother is. Thank you for posting it.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:53 AM
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In 1908 in the UK you had to be a man over 21 and own property of a certain value. It wasn't until 1918 '1918 Representation of the People Act extends vote to all men over 21 and most women over 30' Is this a US suffragette poster? (https://www.parliament.uk/about/living-heritage/transformingsociety/electionsvoting/chartists/keydates/)
/r/MensRights25/05/26 07:49 PM
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Lunatic is a technical term for the day, bizarrely enough. White slave owner is a reference to class discord, what you'd now see as 'sweat shops'. It's not racist, you'd see it used in low level political speeches of the time. The 'unfit for service' is interesting, it implies that a man's value is tied up with the provider role. Otherwise it's a typical suffragette poster of the time. Really demonstrates the original aims (most people would agree with) and the cluster it has become. '
/r/MensRights25/05/26 12:02 PM
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Can't get the link to load, and the op has deleted their account. Sounds very scientific.
/r/MensRights25/05/26 01:25 AM
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I thought my father was odd when he reached 50+ and said the same. Now I'm at the same age I agree entirely. Thankfully my kids are smarter than me and aren't making the same mistakes.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 09:27 PM
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'naivety' Good bit of self awareness, that is good on your behalf. Making a mistake once, it happens. Good luck and document everything.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 03:29 AM
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She had undiagnosed mental health issues (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Richard_Challen) According to the Irish Times it was 'In mitigation, Clare Wade QC said Mr Challen was “domineering and controlling” towards his wife, who worked at the Police Federation. He made “humiliating comments about her weight”, put her down and criticised her “at all turns”, Ms Wade said. Mr Challen posed on a Ferrari next to top models and had the photo made into a Christmas card sent to their mutual fri…
/r/MensRights08/05/26 10:20 PM
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The Sally Challen case in particular is worrying. It allows the defense of coercive control to justify murder. In essence, your female partner can kill you and afterwards get off by saying they are a victim of coercive control.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 08:23 PM
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Because as Ukraine has shown. Women will refuse to fight and the world accepts that. Men on the other hand will allow themselves to be conscripted and the world will endorse walking them to death. Galloway can propose mandatory service for men and it will be applauded, because after all isn't that what society says men are for?
/r/MensRights07/05/26 04:23 AM
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If you read your post you typed: 'so the married man would be protected under this law.' Gender was introduced by yourself. This is now getting to the level of harrassment, even a deliberate attempts by yourself to create a hostile environment. Can you please stop.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 02:02 PM
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'what do you propose instead?' What are you talking about? I responded to: 'textbook coercive control so the married man would be protected under this law.' believing that to be a naive and incorrect belief. The married man has never and will never be safe from coercive control.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 01:30 PM
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You're talking theory as opposed to reality. It's not 'would she' that's facetious. It's that it can and does happen. You have no experience of reality if you can't read that article and the EU's website on it and not see how it's slanted and will be used. It's a great idea, but at one point 'bug bombs' were seen as great as well.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 09:33 PM
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'textbook coercive control so the married man would be protected under this law.' You have never had anything to do with family or criminal courts, if you have that attitude. Let's take your situation, the man says no. Now what happens? Can the woman file a sexual assault/rape case? Yes. Will the man be convicted? Possibly on a he said/she said. Along with that is the reputational, financial and if they have children the loss of access to their kids matter; and that's without a conviction. Lawye…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 02:40 PM
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Depends on their skin colour and race
/r/MensRights02/05/26 02:33 PM
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Not that straight forward The article referes to and reinforces the approach that only women are raped and all examples are provided of men raping women. That's factually incorrect itself. The article quotes 'favor of defining sex without active consent as rape', sounds good and to me it sounds positive. It's just open to abuse, and it will be abused. Most people have 'intimate encounters' in private, no cameras and no witnesses. At that point any allegation is on the 'he said, she said' scale. …
/r/MensRights02/05/26 02:32 PM
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'How can I prove that it was asked?'' You can't simple as that. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. It's going to be interesting to see what happens when a man complains that a woman coerced them.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 12:11 PM
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Any chance you can chat to free legal advice?
/r/MensRights28/04/26 11:52 PM
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Sad news, the woman were found not guilty https://www.thepress.co.nz/nz-news/360993848/jury-trial-three-oamaru-women-facing-charges-indecent-assault-retires Guess it's legal in New Zealand
/r/MensRights28/04/26 09:06 PM
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Good grief, the bot is back after 6days. Please go bully elsewhere
/r/MensRights26/04/26 02:54 PM
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Look up 'speech of pausanias' from Plato's Symposium. Theory is that there are two types of love. Male Male love was heavenly, common love was the physical male female. Heavenly was more important and better than common. Haven't read it for decades, in my twenties it didn't sink in. Now, hmmm I think there is more validity to it. I'll have to dig out my copy of Plato again.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:26 PM
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I've always found talking about the environmental impacts of sex toys and 'how green is your vibrator?' is a great way of making these people shut up. Sex toys aren't great for the environment https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-environmental-impact-of-sex-toys
/r/MensRights22/04/26 11:45 PM
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Most men don't understand the implications until it happens to them. It's the 'bad things only happen to bad people mentality'. Men hold men back.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 04:43 PM
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Oddly enough it shows differently in my display. Go file a complaint with Reddit tbh
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:08 PM
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inconsistent level of pay for women v men with women receiving less money than men for the same job. Incorrect The pay is the same for both men and women What has changed is the ratio of men to women in that profession. It would be a 'pay gap' if there was a difference in pay dependent on gender. An example would be equivalent vets where a male is paid higher than a female vet despite having the same qualifications, experience and work the same work schedule. What is observed is that when there …
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:01 AM
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The only post you made was: 'How much do you think it costs to fund and uphold the feminist economy? As for the rest look at the most “progressive” countries with regards to abortion, paternity leave etc and check if their birth rates are any better.' I didn't directly reply to it. I replied to the person who responded to it. Regards
/r/MensRights19/04/26 08:45 PM
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This is just typical dishonest framing and its fits well with my previous comment on the amount of money being spent/wasted. You'll have to put that in, it's not included in your postings in this thread. Still this is dishonest reporting and seems like a typical biased study. That and it's methodology is something you'll have to take up with the New York Times.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 08:40 PM
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But y’all wanna say the pay gap is not real? That phenomenon isn't related to an actual or perceived pay gap. It's an interesting phenomenon, especially because it is both men and women who are paying for these services. The customer base hasn't changed, the gender of the majority of the workers have. Is it indicative of a pay gap? No because the people in that sector regardless of their gender still get paid the same. It's simply that all the employees pay decreases as the percentage of women i…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 08:03 PM
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women working in healthcare is somehow a drain It's only a drain if resources are spent on the training and then women decide to not contribute by working. Why get the training if all you want to do is waste your life as a baby machine?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 03:14 PM
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presumably women not having children and being independent would be a good thing? Depends on what the women are doing. Are they contributing to society or being a drag on society? What does independent mean anyway? Society invests heavily in doctors, especially in women becoming doctors. Then what happens is approx 40% go part time or quit. Is that a waste of society's resources? https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6997824/ Is an independent woman someone who just quits? If you don't want k…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:47 PM
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would be palatable to you and your loved ones? Maybe reread my comments, quote where I said I wanted it. If English isn't your first language then I can understand your confusion. It really doesn't matter if enlightenment is good or not. It's losing and has probably reached the tipping point where it is impossible to implement it. Doesn't matter if you like it or not, it's going and ain't coming back.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:39 PM
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quality of men is the issue Yeah, self awareness, unable to acknowledge their own mistakes and even take a more relaxed view of life seems alien to many.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:22 PM
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cat lady trope One of the reasons why private equity is buying up vet clinics. https://amerivet.com/blog/veterinary-private-equity
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:13 PM
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We have the technical means to support well over But no desire to do so and no way it could be implemented. It will never happen. Outside your immediate gene pool and your local society most people are 'sod you jack I'm onboard'.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:11 PM
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death of Enlightenment values. Well they got us into this situation and aren't sustainable as per your comment. Maybe it's time to move on and try a different paradigm?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:09 PM
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choice to live independently The problem about that is that if you live in a society, then no matter if male or female still have to adhere to the rules of that society. Choose to ignore them and don't be surprised if society changes in unexpected ways. I'm not encouraging adherence to tradition, more 'be careful what you wish for'. Personally I'd rather see the use of artificial wombs and a strict process to reduce population growth to provide a controlled and managed population decline to appr…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:06 PM
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Really? If that is all it is why are there differences such as 1st wave, 2nd wave etc? In your explanation you mention 'independently of men', your implying that women are made independent of men but any yoke will be transitioned to another group ie. Women. Is that what you meant? Or should it be just 'independent'?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 01:34 PM
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Normally the concept is that 'women pay proportionally less in taxes than men but do receive more in benefits than men.' essentially making them a tax negative drain on an economy. If you can let me know your country I could probably find stats to illustrate that. There is also the concept that as more women enter a particular field then the average wage goes down into that sector. That concept dates from 2016. For example. https://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/20/upshot/as-women-take-over-a-male-domi…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 01:29 PM
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flawed argument that u/Wylanderuk gave out earlier. I responded to what was written by you. If you can't defend it then remove it. For the second and last time stop harassing me
/r/MensRights16/04/26 06:21 PM
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You have nothing to prove what you wrote. I welcome a good and informed discussion Then go edit your post into something that can be defended. I didn't choose your language or your phrasing. An indefensible statement was made voluntarily. Either defend what was written or stop harassing me.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 06:19 PM
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But you are saying: 'Women are constantly assaulted, harassed and targeted by heterosexual men regardless of their sexuality. There is a whole fetishization of lesbians in porn, pushing the idea that a lesbian can be converted.' Do you have any proof for your statement?
/r/MensRights16/04/26 05:00 PM
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I can easily bring up sources when prompted too. Then do so. As soon as you use terms such as 'are constantly' then instantly your points are demonstrated as false. 'constantly' means 'all the time or often'. It's hyperbolic language. Women make up half the population of the world. Can you prove that half the population of the world are 'constantly assaulted, harassed and targeted by heterosexual men regardless of their sexuality'. What's your methodology? Instead there will be a post to an arti…
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:42 PM
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Let's look at your post and the subsequent back pedalling shall we? What you are now writing is not the same as your original post. What I do find ironic is your statement: 'pretending women are just crazy' from your original post. This secondary post has no sources and cannot be proved in any way. The same as your original post. Both are just personal thoughts by a anonymous account on a anonymous website. It helps strengthen the dead internet theory. I wish you good luck in the future and hope…
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:55 PM
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Women are constantly assaulted, harassed and targeted by heterosexual men regardless of their sexuality. I have no idea how to respond to that. I work in a predominantly female organization, I wasn't aware I was consistently hitting on them. A large reason why misogyny exists is because an entitlement to sex by heterosexual men. This must be a N American female thing, where I am from in western Europe it's fully acknowledged that women like men have a sex drive and like to fuck. It doesn't mean …
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:18 PM
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Painting men as evil is not the point of feminism Yet it happens, and the correlation between someone who claims they are a feminist and someone who hates men is high. It's not all feminists but it's always a feminist.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:50 AM
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It's quite sad tbh. They are talking about radical left-wing women. They are a left wing magazine and yet they have to comment about this womans appearance as part of their introduction of her. 'O’Brien is one of many young, often attractive, female influencers ' No comments about intelligence, education just to paraphrase 'she's young and pretty'. What happened to not judging women by beauty standards?
/r/MensRights15/04/26 02:10 PM
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Ukrainian Woman voted for Selensky and thus are responsible for Russia attacking Ukraine I believe the OP is saying that by being able to and by voting the women had agency in the country. In this case they were able to influence which person became elected. The women were equal in that choice. By not being subjected to conscription, by being freely able to leave the country then the same women who were equally able to vote were also free from the consequences of that vote. Men and Women equal i…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 01:11 PM
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As others have said, 3 more years focus on that and what you want to do at the end of the 3 years. Build a plan. Your mother will take your sister's side no matter what. If all they can do is worship at the altar of an AI chatbot then there is no reasoning. You can't reason with what isn't there. Best comeback is just 'whatever' and ignore them. They sound insecure and needy, best not to engage. Work out what you can do to be out at 18 (probably military or college) and just don't go back. But w…
/r/MensRights10/04/26 03:48 AM
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'Ms Thorne asked how Trybus was 'supposed to answer the allegations of a ghost from 10 years ago'.' That's the other issue, now its prove yourself innocent.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 05:06 PM
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Essentially if I follow their logic then if I was abusive or non abusive I would still be treated the same. What's the incentive to not be abusive?
/r/MensRights07/04/26 01:08 PM
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Actually support positions are the majority and have been since at least ww1 To have one person on a line with a gun takes teams of logistical, administration, intelligence, medical etc staff. Classic 'tooth to tail' situation from the US. Those 'fighting' are always in the minority. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tooth-to-tail_ratio
/r/MensRights04/04/26 06:43 PM
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'The reasons why men get drafted and women don't is because if you want to win a war, you send men.' - Most people in the military aren't 'fighting'. They are in support posistions. There is no reason why women can't fulfil those roles. 'but they also get benefits that no other people can get unless they complete the military service.' - The only countries I can find that offer conscripted soldiers benefits after conscription are UAE, Crotia and South Korea. Can you find any others? A better opt…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 05:42 PM
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would be able to enforce They wouldn't need to. It would be implemented by men, and with the start of the anti misogyny lessons in 2026 I suspect that in <10 years this will be supported by indoctrinated men. Oddly enough the ones who have the possibility to fight it the most are the more conservative religions. Probably in the next 20-30 years I could see a supported system where men's education apart from any technical education stops at approximately age 12. Men are then placed in the employm…
/r/MensRights01/04/26 02:53 PM
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Women dominated weapons manufacturing for the entire war. And you read the article with its discussion on union roles and lollipop women in Australia?
/r/MensRights22/03/26 01:57 PM
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Bettina Arndt did a great article on that https://bettinaarndt.substack.com/p/the-lollipop-ladies?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=448263&post_id=191537251&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=18qd3o&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email Essentially they will still get applied. I'm curious what's going to happen to the older 40+ women. They are heavily invested into the laptop/office environments and at that age getting another role can be tough.
/r/MensRights21/03/26 11:38 PM
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'Have I lost the ability to feel the warmth of the fire' Not in the slightest. Someone who has wouldn't be able to realise they had lost that warmth. It's been a tough time for you and it will take time to recover. Enjoy what you are doing and enjoy that you are in a better place. Give yourself time, by time I mean several years even.
/r/MensRights18/03/26 07:49 PM
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It's twoX They are little more than a cesspool of people who can be best described as: 'did mummy and daddy not love you enough' Ignore them, they make good money for Reddit via their active subreddit which must produce good advertising revenue. Just think of it as an echo chamber, where they can say what they want online and then go back to dull jobs thinking 'i did something'. I'm surprised you're not banned from there tbh.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 06:02 PM
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Femcels then
/r/MensRights16/03/26 12:27 PM
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they became That's why they become teachers Predators go where the prey is
/r/MensRights15/03/26 12:56 PM
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And after all the talk of gender violence against women at the end of the article is this: 'While Richardson is passionate about tackling violence against women and girls, it was a male victim who put her on this career path. When she was seven, her older brother was killed on the street during an altercation.' Men killed, women most affected
/r/MensRights09/03/26 08:07 PM
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Easily” and divorce dont go together They can. It comes down to the participants, assets and if they have lawyers who are wanting to up their fees. An 'amicable' divorce can be upsetting, but it can be done easily.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 12:17 PM
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Well they weren't that despicable 'Melissa Rose Knutson was sentenced to 18 months in prison and two years of public supervision after pleading guilty to misconduct in public office.'
/r/MensRights04/03/26 02:51 AM
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Another reason to add to the many of why not to volunteer to fight for a country. The woman will be told they are victims, the men will be told they should have fought harder and they deserved it
/r/MensRights03/03/26 02:33 PM
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I dont eant you in my soxiety then Are you in the minority or the majority? If you're in the minority, then you are the one out of step with society. Which country are you from?
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:02 PM
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Standard tbh, it's related to the divorce rather than the separate criminal prosecution. This will be a temporary parenting order, while the details of the divorce are worked out. The woman hasn't been found guilty of anything yet, from the divorce court side, one party has had serious allegations made against them.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 02:43 PM
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Women do have less access Ok, I'm not going to list methods of suicide. But do you mean women don't have the same access to suicide means that men have? Women are more likely to attempt suicide the 'cry for help' almost a desire for a third party to rescue them. Men are more likely to 'do a proper job' and succeed. Both have access to the same means. One group just wants the deus ex machina and the associated resources.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 01:57 PM
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'Dunning-Krugered' very cute. What was incorrect? Egalitarianism. Or empathy. Or simple compassion When wasn't it demonstrated?
/r/MensRights23/02/26 10:35 PM
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using too many words That covers the waffle, it doesn't cover the purple prose and under-grad attitude. I looked at some of your other posts. I'll decline. I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve, I'm not sure there is a purpose apart from to feel a sense of superiority. That would align with the writing style, but your other works are more bombastic. I'm inclined to go with a desire to be 'look at me' combined with 'i am superior', the writing might indicate a boastful 'i'm educated', a self…
/r/MensRights23/02/26 08:06 PM
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See, I know the history I doubt it. The kkk was another of the classic 'who can I blame for my own issues' combined with the separation of 'us and them'. Fairly standard tbh. Might as well demonise Carthage and Rome. A shame you choose otherwise What an odd statement, what am I meant to have chosen and why
/r/MensRights23/02/26 07:36 PM
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That's a lot of purple prose, waffle and under grad delusions. Ok, are you capable of changing your mind? If not there is no reason to respond except for vanity reasons. If you can please let me know that would be good. Regards
/r/MensRights23/02/26 06:07 PM
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in female neurology innate Do you mean 'innate in female neurology' or 'innate in female psychology'? You are simply joining in the recursive loop of bigots justifying the nihilistic bigotry of one another's demographics. I am simply agreeing with what women publicly say. Oddly enough you have never said women are wrong to hold those views although your comments are odd. your enemies What enemies? fatalistic and prejudicial philosophies— It would be a philosophy if I lived my entire life by it. …
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:39 PM
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rise to the KKK, You really need to learn some history. justifying their hatred Or not questioning the female viewpoint. Try questioning a woman in the average office space and see how far that gets you. Women promote discrimination on the grounds of gender, who are we to disagree?
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:36 PM
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bigotry is acceptable if a member of one demographic is unkind to you? In the US yes. See https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/21/magazine/men-heterofatalism-dating-relationships.html The term is 'heterofatalism' Here's a great quote from women from that article. “Aww, poor baby!” cried the historian, and we all cooed and moaned for the poor wittle fraidy-cat boo-boo, working ourselves into a frenzy of laughter over men’s inability to “man up and [expletive] us.” We were four women at a vegan restaur…
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:33 PM
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refusing to help others based on their sex*. Ok. What's your counter argument? Do you protest when equity sidelines men? In fact what location in the US do you live in and I'm sure I can find a government or academic group who publicly sideline men. If it's good enough for one group, why not another? But post your location and I can find some relevant sources for you. Thanks
/r/MensRights23/02/26 04:29 PM
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I'm sorry to hear you're having issues, hopefully as the transition goes further it will become easier. Realistically you may end up moving to a totally new area, starting again as a woman without people knowing you are transitioning. Trans men post top surgery do seem to have it easier in public. Although I've been told that trans women tend to have it easier from medical staff. But good luck going forward.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 03:55 AM
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It feels like brainwashing tbh. I just don't understand how this is happening. I'm glad I left, I ain't going back and neither will my kids. I'm trying to understand how me at age 11 at an all boys comprehensive would have thought about it. I was so angry at that age, my mindset would probably have been "if I'm going to be blamed for it, I might as well do it'.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 02:01 AM
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He's also had some life experience Married with kids Wife had cancer Father had cancer Mother died in a car accident Parents divorced Both parents had affairs Some military experience and worked as a search and rescue helicopter pilot Has absolutely no privacy Often criticized for their baldness/physical appearance I'm not a Royalist, but he has some life experience. There are worse people to start a conversation on male suicide.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 02:45 PM
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Good grief are you an adult? legal right under the US constituition I'm not US Simple, right? I concur your post is simple, entertaining but simple. Enjoy
/r/MensRights13/02/26 07:38 PM
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accidentally conflating the two people. They are just bored and trolling. It's quite funny to read. We should hold a poll on if they are female and if so are they even an adult. It's like watching a gen x romcom when reading their drivel.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 07:33 PM
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you’ve sworn off women Nope, I just have other things to do even platonically That was never mentioned, I can have female friends without wanting to fuck them. you’ve decided to isolate yourself from the female species. If I'll have to mention that to my female friends, female work colleagues and even my daughters. not even interact with women? Not even mentioned natural conclusion to make No, it's a logical fallacy and demonstrates an inability to comprehend basic English. you think I’m being “…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 06:55 PM
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absolutely just choose not to be in a relationship, How nice that you give me permission to do that had one or a few bad experiences with women I could claim the inverse as well. But honestly you're being disingenuous. path of loneliness. Not all, but too many. How many are enough? A lot of the issues are that society is changing and yet society still wants men to persist in a stereotypical masculine role. Maybe just let men choose the roles they want, and if they want to say f'it and do what th…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:23 PM
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scorned so much Why does not wanting to date have to be with being scorned? I'm older and happily divorced. I've not been scorned, but I don't date. Nothing to do with 'go completely without' I'm just happy with my kids, social life and work. There is far too much drama with dating at my age. It sounds like you're being deliberately antagonist.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:06 PM
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Has anyone looked at the author's bio? They are a middle aged single mother whose only kid has left home and they have two cats. Frankly why does their opinion matter? Maybe I'm overthinking this, but what do they know about young women today? What do they know about young men today? Perhaps they have found cubs to no longer be as good as they once were,? If it was a middle aged man telling young women what they need to change it would be treated as comedy. How is this middle aged woman any diff…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 02:35 PM
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have Agatha Christie books in Ukraine? Well I more associate a reader of 'dial m for murder' as a middle age women. Especially as she started writing pre WW2. I can remember my mother collecting them, and I'm hardly young.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 01:31 PM
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You can read up on his money stashed away in the Pandora papers https://www.occrp.org/en/project/the-pandora-papers/pandora-papers-reveal-offshore-holdings-of-ukrainian-president-and-his-inner-circle Hate to tell you, but he was avoiding his 'civic duties'. Remember 'Rules for thee but not for me'. You believe in 'civic duty', they believe in stashing cash overseas and avoiding taxes.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 01:16 AM
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'civic duty' is bs sold to the common person to ensure they do what they are told. While those who have options (money & power) are not interested in 'civic duty'. If you want to see a practical application, go look through the names on the 'Panama papers'. See who does contribute to the state and do their civic duty supporting the state via taxes and those who don't. Either a social contract is uphold by all, or by none. Published information indicates it's only the naive who believe in 'civic …
/r/MensRights12/02/26 12:48 AM
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You know, I'm curious. Why does a Ukrainian man have a username based on an Agatha Christie book?
/r/MensRights11/02/26 08:46 PM
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This is men's rights. 'My body my choice' If a man wants to choose to fight that is their choice, if a man refuses to fight or wants to leave the country they should have that choice. This is men's rights.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 08:41 PM
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can be proven through context clues and common sense lol. If the murder is investigated, through evidence. What I'm more getting at and why I referenced the 'honour killings' and the UK (if you're from the UK you'll probably get the reference, if you're not my apologies). Is that investigations in theory are impartial in reality are not, especially the prosecution. Again I don't know how familiar you are with the legal system or have been criminally prosecuted, but investigation court time is ex…
/r/MensRights11/02/26 06:00 PM
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Are you sure you are on the right sub? Are you advocating for men's rights, or advocating for male genocide? The position that male deaths are necessary for an abstract concept of country, is gendered genocide. You seem to be a devotee of Sally Miller Gearhart. They believed that men should be reduced to no more than 10% of the population, by encouraging male genocide. If you're that concerned about 'country' go look at an atlas from say 1900, see how many countries in that Atlas still exist and…
/r/MensRights11/02/26 01:56 PM
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, in which case conscription is normal. Or to put it another way 'You're advocating for imposition of strict gender roles for one gender only. Depriving that gender of their human rights, mental autonomy, stripping away their body autonomy (my body my rights) and encouraging them to perpetuate harmful stereotypes.' I could add then: 'On behalf of a patriarchal society, on behalf of the abstract notion of 'country', you would see your fellow men suffer and slaughter each other, with no ability to…
/r/MensRights11/02/26 01:48 PM
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if a person would have been alive had she been male instead IS a femicide. How can that be proven? The act of femicide (a woman being murdered) is far too common Probably not the best use of English. It indicates there is a level that is acceptable. An estimate of 40% of femicides being committed by a romantic partner Insert proof and also female against male ratio to indicate how out of balance it is. Combine that with most people are killed by someone who knows them What about honor killings? …
/r/MensRights11/02/26 12:22 PM
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What is your definition of femicide? Is it: When a woman is killed? When a woman is killed only because they are a woman and for no other reason?
/r/MensRights11/02/26 02:59 AM
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Despite being dismissed, Gaiman is still out the cost of his lawyers and the reputational loss. If the accuser is a nanny I doubt he can ever reclaim the cost of defending himself.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 03:50 PM
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'But pioneering advancements without historical precedent do happen.' - They also fail as well, it's not always positive. It's also from a very different time period with a very different society than 2026. Incidentally coming from a country that is democratic and has a constitutional monarchy your reference to the late 1770's are not applicable. A true gender equality movement—which must include men’s rights—helps both men and women in the long run Well that's not recognised by most western soc…
/r/MensRights09/02/26 04:35 PM
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Ok here's some fact checking https://nypost.com/2026/01/30/us-news/fla-woman-charged-with-posing-as-teen-to-molest-five-middle-school-age-boys-is-the-real-victim-her-dad/ Would it be helpful if I posted articles on using search engines and the importance of checking sources and critical thinking? I'm happy to help. Rage quitting doesn't change reality.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 05:33 PM
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lil ass woudlrbe loved it Speculation But let's say it happened. Would you have seen women as easy sex? Perhaps thinking 'no' just means 'carry on'. You've been accustomed maybe even programmed that women always want sex because that is your only experience. We could call that your 'lived experience'. Now with that experience and that behavior what are your chances of being in trouble with the legal system? Now let's look at the real world, oh yes a lot of incarnated men were sexually abused bef…
/r/MensRights07/02/26 05:30 PM
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Document it and lawyer up. As soon as they started quoting Helen Keller, yeah. Sounds like they have someone feeding them lines
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:34 PM
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I'll be honest I am following it. That it is now going to county court, where she is facing greater punishment. Combined with that she is being defended by a public defender will hopefully deter others from emulating her. The problem is accountability and even if found guilty they will never accept accountability. I would prefer they actually admit what they did wasn't acceptable.
/r/MensRights05/02/26 06:49 PM
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Remember Emmett Till
/r/MensRights04/02/26 03:23 AM
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The problem doesn't just end in colleges/University. It will lead to less men in professions such as law. My guess will be that down the line the law will become even more advantageous for women. You'll also have a generation of men who will believe that women are 'better' because they are the only ones 'clever enough' to go to college/University.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 01:15 PM
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What are the risks A risk implies a reward. With the modern divorce rate, what is my reward? Companionship, well I don't need to date for that The elephant in the room, sex. I'm heterosexual, so yes I need women for that. But just because you're in a relationship doesn't give you access to sex, it really negates itself out. If I put a lot of time and effort in, I might get a relationship that has a 50/50 chance in divorce. That's not ideal. Or I can work on having friends and enjoying what I lik…
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:43 PM
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As a non US person can you please give me the simple version of this hatred of deporting illegal immigrants? They are breaking the law, yet people are protesting against these laws being enforced. Do you not have proposals going through your legal system to remove these laws from the books? From the outside looking in, it all looks very odd.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 12:32 PM
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Compare ''What's wrong with sex positivity, hahaha?' And For males, there's no point in focusing on this unless they want a dead bedroom, hahaha. Bot, or Rules for thee but not for me? Or maybe expand Australia's ban on social media for young people? Either way, it's always interesting to come across people who can make such massive mental crossovers.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 08:23 PM
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Reddit does allow you to quote when responding to a post. Neither myself or the op mentioned '"Okay, most gender equality....." What a great line.' I'm not sure who you are responding to tbh. But you don't need a screenshot to illustrate who typed '"Okay, most gender equality....."
/r/MensRights15/01/26 06:23 AM
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"Okay, most gender equality....." I never used that line. Are you trying to reply to someone else, or what were you trying to say?
/r/MensRights14/01/26 12:48 AM
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There is a lot of money playing the female victim card. There is no money for an ngo saying 'ok, most gender equality is resolved, we can close ourselves down'. There must always be victims that can be pointed to to justify whatever agenda keeps the money flowing in. Cherry picking history is lazy (and very simple) as to why it's tolerated, a lot of women in academia. A lot of confirmation bias, and a lot of 'I'm special, look at what advantages I have overcome'. I'm just enjoying watching AI co…
/r/MensRights13/01/26 06:56 PM
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Nah not nuclear, and this article is just badly written click bait riding on the back of people's fears and insecurities. The 'gender wars' are just a continuation of 'divide and conquer'. You see it in generational conflict 'boomers' 'Gen Z' etc. You can see it in racial division, having rich neighbourhoods divided from poor neighbourhoods etc. But nuclear, not even close.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 07:06 PM
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'So what are the main counters and answers MRAs would have to these issues' Are you Catholic? Do you believe in the doctrine of original sin? Why else would you blame someone alive today for actions of others in the past? Ask yourself what rights in say the western world do women not have? 'MRA movements have successfully separated themselves from such issues?' Which MRA's are trying to duplicate 'unequivocally men oppressing women and not women oppressing men' 'prone to being simply the other s…
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:51 PM
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I want a man not a street whore That's your choice. But as a man who has more than 25 and has done a lot of stupid stuff. I can categorically say I've never had a single STD. Please learn biology, and the practical means you can take to avoid std's. As for pair bonding etc, that's a different topic entirely.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 12:46 AM
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Why should mgtow etc equate to a "fight for men's rights'? Mgtow would be better described as a passive demonstration against society, more of a philosophical movement implemented in a practical manner. Is there truly a movement you feel like fights for equality ? There are movements that try, but honestly it's too late. Sounds awful but any 'traditional' male role in society has been replaced by the state, and there are no women who will vote against a system that benefits them. Note I'm not ad…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 02:05 PM
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Do you have examples you can share?
/r/MensRights08/01/26 04:37 PM
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Yep, this really sums up Scott Galloway 'So if you’re a man listening to Scott Galloway, what you are being sold is a completely asymmetrical system of obligations. Who the fuck is going to sign up for this shit?' Who really is going to sign up to be judged as the source and enabler of all evil.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:58 PM
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Why stop tbh 'Boys to be sent on courses to tackle misogyny in schools' https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c9qednjzwv1o They can always blame boys and men.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:34 AM
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If you have the opportunity, leave tbh. Other English speaking countries aren't always fantastic (I only speak English) but at least I don't have to deal with the UK bs. I was looking at moving back pre COVID, didn't, and meeting other expats from the UK who left recently I'm glad I didn't go back.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 02:32 AM
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Yeah, if you want to address their points feel free. However I can predict that if you are male they will automatically dismiss you. Besides anyone who starts off by using terms like 'up to 93%' doesn't understand that they can include 1%, but hey it's click bait and any criticism can be defended against by saying 'men are doing it'. They seem more opposed to women having autonomy than anything. Almost the line that a woman can only be a woman or feminist if they agree with them. Any other actio…
/r/MensRights01/01/26 06:18 PM
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many women will find themselves homeless. I'll disagree with this. If you look at the existing homeless support most areas (at least where I have lived) give women preference for assistance. Women will have somewhere paid for, however their male white collar colleagues will be homeless. Just look at the social programs in your area, who is more likely to end up on the street, men or women? The homeless numbers will continue to show a gender disparity with more men homeless than women. Both trad …
/r/MensRights27/12/25 12:16 AM
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The bad - It was an online lynching mob with no accountability. The good - It made men who had a positive view of women (caring, empathic, intelligent) realise they had been played.
/r/MensRights23/12/25 04:07 PM
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every guy is 6 foot 5 and MMA trained If you ever read Nora Vincent's 'self made man' (excellent read btw). At the start she talks about the difference between walking around as a woman and as a woman walking around masquerading as a man. She makes an emotional point, with no thought about facts. That to me is the point of the 'I don't feel safe' line. The facts are that as a woman you are far safer than as a man, however the woman believes in the alternative reality. It's an alternative reality…
/r/MensRights22/12/25 05:26 PM
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An enemy seeks to do you harm out of malice Incorrect. See your note on 'fucking kids'. They may be wrong or harmful or misguided but they don't seek your downfall. They seek their own advancement, anyone else is just collateral damage aka MAM or roadkill you and the trads disagree about "How should a man behave?". That's a personal decision, and the N American mindset should not be the baseline. You both want men to flourish. Incorrect. It's like shearing sheep, you want the resources so you'll…
/r/MensRights22/12/25 01:57 PM
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They probably don't know what the word 'incel' (involuntary celibate) even means. They are just going 'its a bad word I can call someone'. I'm sure if you referred to women as femcells (the original involuntary celibate group, they would be horrified. Why can they do it? Because if you're in the western world they are the undisputed most privileged group who have little to no accountability. I imagine you could ask them 'why are you sexualizing kids' but they wouldn't understand why they can't. …
/r/MensRights20/12/25 05:20 PM
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A publication ban was in place (guy still lost his job apparently). Ok, OneNote still had my notes. Trial Court file number 170069256Q1. That was Calgary QB. Looks like the guy was called Smith. The verdict was September 2019. Not sure when the guy was charged etc. Can't find it on CanLii but I'm not a lawyer. I was thinking about divorce and was told to go see it and how f'ed up a divorce could get. Edited: If you do find anymore details I'd love to know them.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 08:51 PM
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If you want to be scared read Danny King's Cancelled Especially if you're from the UK. Danny's speculations about the UK seem to be more accurate every day.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 04:09 AM
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I've witnessed another case where a man was found not guilty after serious accusations were made by his ex wife. Delivering the verdict the Judge confirmed that the issue was that the complaint lacked credibility. The Judge also said that the Judge believed the kids statements that the woman was physically, emotionally and verbally abusive to her kids. That woman suffered no consequences for their behavior. The police were not interested in even interviewing the woman about child abuse. The man …
/r/MensRights19/12/25 01:40 AM
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People on the right actually like men There are some articles on here referring to right wing groups who want men. Only it's in relationship to conscription, or employment or not being good enough to attract women. For the right wing men are just commodities to exploit. For the left wing we are the bogey man to scare women and make them vote for them.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 01:16 AM
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Obvious next question, can he sue? Or more realistically is she worth suing?
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:43 PM
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It is in Ontario: Horne v. Public Service Alliance of Canada 2024 https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onhrt/doc/2024/2024hrto1788/2024hrto1788.html [17] The respondent submitted that the Plan is a “special program” within the meaning of s. 14 of the Code, the purpose of which is to protect affirmative action programs and to promote substantive equality. It asserted that section 14 is a complete defence to an allegation of discrimination when, as here, the challenge to the program comes from someone who…
/r/MensRights16/12/25 02:54 PM
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vagina was a resiliant structure that would return to a natural "tight" form over time They may not want to search for subReddits that have the word 'gape' in them then.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 11:40 PM
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It's odd wording. Do they mean 'victim was subject to....' means that if the victim was killed by any man or just by the man/woman who was accused/convicted of 'abuse or coercive control'.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 12:27 PM
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Yep, no matter the woman or the state they are in. There is always a man who will pick them up and support them. Look up Bella Guinness from the US, even way back then she was able to draw the guys in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Belle_Gunness
/r/MensRights02/12/25 08:46 PM
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Does: barred for life from ever working in law enforcement in the Garden State. Mean they can just move to a new state and continue?
/r/MensRights02/12/25 07:49 PM
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Also if you have a girlfriend/mum/wife point out to these ladies that they are pissed off with these ladies and you're just letting these ladies know because your girlfriend/mum/wife wanted to get involved directly. And document the hell out of it
/r/MensRights02/12/25 01:02 PM
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How are the two things I said contradictory? Read them. I'm leading you to acknowledging you have absolutely 0 reproductive rights as a man. Yes and no. Although I can't recall not saying that tbh. It depends on the aims of the woman. If they want money or you then they ain't going to have an abortion. If they are not firm on that and you live in a culture where abortion is seen as normal then it's easier to persuade them to abort. I can't stop the 'opps I'm pregnant' I can persuade them and oth…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 03:05 PM
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sound even dumber I don't insult for the sake of insulting, but because your comment was stupid and you're confidently wrong. You can do better. Incidentally it's social media, no one cares about insults. What if one of those women you slept with trapped you and did want the baby regardless of what you want? See your earlier paragraph where you state: You've been baby trapped and had to pay spousal support, but don't see how abortion relates to these discussions? Which part of your post do you s…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 01:42 PM
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just don't care because you never got in the situation a good amount of men have been in Hmm oh I've been baby trapped. In fact I had to pay spousal support for a while, never had to pay child support I've always had full custody over my many kids. your remaining brain cells There are better personal attacks out there, please be more inventive. You wouldn't say it to my face after all. women can choose not to fuck, too? Correct they can choose that option as well. I've lived in North America for…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:40 PM
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What is behind this desire to have control over someone else's body? There are differences between the sexes. I can't carry a child for example. I wouldn't want to have the courts mandate that I provide semen to a woman. Why is there this opinion that the courts have the right to intrude upon a physical body? Get sued by your credit card company and they can take a kidney for your debts? You believe in female superiority? The downside of the internet is that it allows someone to be offensive wit…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 12:27 PM
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Abortion is not the same as child support and alimony. I've had girlfriends have abortions, I'm glad the option was available. As for my abortion autonomy, the only one I have is to not fuck them in the first place. That's biology for you. Spousal and child support are very different from abortion and should not be confused. Spousal and child support are MRA concerns. Abortion is not a MRA issue.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 04:31 AM
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Not concern me. I'm from a country that has on demand abortion available free of charge up to 24 weeks. That policy has been in place for over 50 years. No one cares.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 11:24 PM
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'to do with men's rights' Really this paragraph stood out. Despite 'not being a man hater' and 'taking responsibility' she still blames men. 'I also have had a bad string of exes. Part of the reason I never had kids was there was no man I would trust to have my kids. 'I am not a man hater' It's still not talking responsibility for ones actions and making men take the blame. That is not equality.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 06:12 PM
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Good point, thank you for that one. 'They are coming to take me away, ha ha'
/r/MensRights29/11/25 02:17 AM
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We always pay. Time, money, resources there is always a price.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 12:56 AM
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over represented in the public sector Tell me about it. You work with public sector employees you have to learn to speak and act like them, and they are all women.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 12:53 PM
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know how the police operate and how lazy they are. Yep dealt with them. I wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire
/r/MensRights27/11/25 01:10 AM
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If it wasn't for the 'mis-attributed father' risk, then I think there would be far more calls for country DNA databases. But there is just too much risk.
/r/MensRights26/11/25 11:20 PM
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If marriages are declining, shouldn't divorce rates also decline if fewer people are getting married? Divorce rates are normally presented as a percentage of marriages not as an absolute number. showing that young men in the US place a higher priority on marriage and having a family than young women. That doesn't present as being 'universally celebrated'. That demonstrates an increase in different gendered perceptions of marriage. It actually aligns well with the feminist portrayal of marriage a…
/r/MensRights26/11/25 02:14 AM
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Marriage 'universally celebrated' Hate to say it but it isn't, far from it. There are many criticisms of marriage, especially from a feminist viewpoint. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_marriage#:~:text=Critics%20of%20marriage%20argue%20that%20it%20is%20complicit%20in%20the,against%20domestic%20violence%20within%20marriage. Is a good start. Essentially marriage is seen as a form of oppression for women. It's a primary driver for why women should be and remain economically and financial…
/r/MensRights25/11/25 05:21 PM
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Where do they find these really odd women. She's a Ex staffer 'who once worked for Rep. Jeff Van Drew (R-N.J.)' Paid a scarification artist 'Greene visited a “scarification artist” and paid $500 in cash for lacerations in a specific pattern that she picked out' And she's a law student 🤣 'She is also a student at Rutgers Law School.' https://thehill.com/regulation/court-battles/5614824-gop-staffer-anti-maga-attack-hoax/
/r/MensRights20/11/25 07:27 PM
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The poster said 'fatherless behavior'. Growing up in a single mother household has worse results for children. https://www.brookings.edu/articles/are-children-raised-with-absent-fathers-worse-off/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5226056/ That's reality.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 04:56 PM
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Under section 15:2 Canadian charter of Rights and Freedoms From the Justice Canada page on it: 'impugned distinction qualifies under section 15(2) as an affirmative action-type measure, designed to ameliorate the conditions of a historically disadvantaged group' From my reading is that as women are defined as being part of a 'historically disadvantaged group' this discrimination in their favour will not end. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/csj-sjc/rfc-dlc/ccrf-ccdl/check/art15.html And that is the…
/r/MensRights20/11/25 02:17 PM
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If you're from the UK, try Danny King. If you're not from the UK, the humor and references might not be easily understood. Although 'The Henchman's Book Club' would fit in with a US audience ok. It's available as an ebook from Amazon.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 06:11 AM
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But as to your stats. You chose to tell a fairytale… Isn't that what we tell children? Its best to tell the truth, and we shouldn’t lie to people You didn't read the OP, they asked about the rate of false accusations. Your comment is commendable, but doesn't address OP's question. The question was ridiculous, why shouldn't the answer be? As for your drunk driving, you're incorrect. In most of the US you can be done for failing to provide a sample, in addition where I'm currently living you can b…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:04 AM
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This methodology is terrible If you can get a 5 year old to explain why please get them to do so. This was for a five year old. Go ask OP or ask for a proper conversation 🤣
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:56 AM
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pure bullshit Language.... The entire SA false accusations is a position that is often debated and attacked on partisan lines. The reality is 'no one knows' the reason being 'people don't always tell the truth' But again, I'm writing for a 5 year old. Be careful what you wish for, you might get it
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:54 AM
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It is for a 5 year old. How much of the criminal courts does a 5 year old know? Ask for 5 year old logic, you get 5 year old logic.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:46 AM
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The reasons conviction rates are lower does not equal “it never happened.” There are a number of criminal law courts that would disagree with you. Please complain to them. Not to mention this is for a 5 year old. The rest of the comments are blurb that could be used to disagree with any criminal offense. What makes these criminal prosecutions so special that arguments are made that wouldn't be applied to say drunk driving?
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:45 AM
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The conviction rate for rape and SA aren't that low. Then go and complain to the people who produced those stats. Don't complain here. Simple was asked for, simple was supplied. An argument based on preconceived notions was expected, that this was a misleading question to allow someone to express their opinion and attack this group was also expected. If you wish to rebuttal NBC and Statisca please do so. Or provide your own sources. People here are always willing to listen and converse in a poli…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:41 AM
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How do you want your proof? Number of accusations that never result in a guilty verdict? Would that do for you? Accusations US 2023 was 127,216 https://www.statista.com/statistics/191137/reported-forcible-rape-cases-in-the-usa-since-1990/#:~:text=U.S.:%20reported%20forcible%20rape%20cases%201990%2D2023,other%20sex%20offenses%20are%20excluded. Convictions: Well NBC claims a maximum conviction rate of 7.7% and an average of 4% https://www.nbcnews.com/specials/sex-assault-convictions/ Now if we go …
/r/MensRights15/11/25 12:59 AM
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May the last man to leave the country please turn out the light.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 05:41 PM
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I agree, but there are at most 3-5 seconds between opening a door and the person passing through it. If the person is passing through any response will be to their back... There isn't time tbh, nor are they listening sadly to say :-(
/r/MensRights09/11/25 05:24 AM
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It always comes across as switch and bait tbh. Just because they say one thing now, doesn't' mean they will have the same mindset in 10 years.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 10:05 PM
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Not anymore. I got 'tutted' at, by a woman, and thought 'why am I doing this?'. So I rejected my patriarchal training and became truly equal in my behavior towards women. Tldr, not anymore.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 02:49 PM
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The fact you had court limited contact is a massive red flag. Not really, it's easy enough to get.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 01:26 PM
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Well that was your first red flag tbh. I left there a very long time ago, and from what I hear it's not worth going back to. Get a STD checkup and at least Leeds is good for quantity if not quality. Stick to LS6 easier picking, a walk on the wild side LS7.... When you can leave Leeds, and tbh if you can leave the UK. Other places may not be wonderful but they are not as bad as the UK.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 08:42 PM
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A reasonable person would think so. A slag from Leeds wouldn't think so. You can try doing something but if you don't want to then you need to walk away, learn from it and forget about it.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 08:21 PM
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Why report it though Why not? At least going forward you can say 'It happened and I did something about it' not someone who people would want to date Maybe by reporting it the other person will learn to change their behavior.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 08:11 PM
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Honestly report it. But have realistic expectations. If you can afford it and they have money you can try the civil courts. If you can afford it you can try a private prosecution.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 08:07 PM
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'Are workplaces aware of this?' Probably, but if they object to the women's activity they will receive negative attention. I e. Refusing to listen to staff, refusing to investigate further etc etc. I'm not a lawyer, but I imagine it's cheaper and better for their image to just spend the time on each complaint. People are replaceable after all, why run the risk of legal action if you can just kick someone out? But it's not new, the 'always keep your office door open' when in a meeting with a woma…
/r/MensRights04/11/25 07:34 PM
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Go into dating with the viewpoint that perfection doesn’t exist, balance is key, and honesty is essential. Oh I agree and that's similar to my approach. Although I've been fortunate and always had 'not guilty all charges'. I just see young men believing there is a 'fix' and that is always concerning.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 03:25 PM
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theyre deciding who has sex with them specifically Correct, the common term is gatekeeping. The woman decides not the man. You have never heard of the term? if it doesnt work fix yourself That seems to be the main issue for most people. How to know what to fix? With an inconsistent target how do you know how to present. Maybe you can offer the common denominator?
/r/MensRights23/10/25 02:58 PM
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most dudes dont want to be incels or virgins so its actually an insult since 99 percent of the time it's their own fault anyway. If women are the gatekeepers of heterosexual sex, why is it the men's fault that they are virgins? Women are meant to be sexually independent, are you saying they shouldn't have control over their sexuality? But instead just 'give it up'? Or do you mean that these 'dudes' should stick to sex workers? Maybe you can produce a guide walking through the changes all these m…
/r/MensRights23/10/25 02:02 PM
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It always is...
/r/MensRights21/10/25 03:15 PM
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Ok, well if you can maybe express your point in a different manner I could respond more appropriately. Not being sarcastic, just an honest response. As for down votes, it's Reddit not reality.
/r/MensRights19/10/25 03:49 AM
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It’s the concluding comment from the study you are posting Thank you. That would have been helpful to mention that rather than copying and pasting in a wall of text without context. Your only comment was, 'you mean this article' It's good to know which article was being referred to. Thank you. As the person who provided a link to that article and commented using that article I'm glad that it was able to be found.
/r/MensRights19/10/25 01:32 AM
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I meant this article, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5937254/ I don't know where you got those paragraphs from. The article I referenced also had some good links to additional material. You might find them interesting.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 10:18 PM
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Ok, did you read the article? Do you understand the nuance involved? Perhaps review the material? the right's Btw for your info I'm not from N America and most certainly ain't from the USA, so please check the prejudice and understand that Reddit isn't just for the USA. By the USA standards I'm very left wing, by world standards I'm normal. Read the articles please.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 09:44 PM
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Ahh, the classic quote 'It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers-out of unorthodoxy.' George Orwell, 1984 The entire 'women are more emotional than men' seems to be answered on an ideological basis rather than empirically. This article has a good summary of the debate (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5937254/) and presents it as: 'Gender differences in emotion regulati…
/r/MensRights18/10/25 09:24 PM
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Good grief no, personally I'm very happy they do. But you probably haven't heard of the old line 'Woman feels horny, goes into a bar, goes up to each guys and asks them for a fuck. The woman gets a fuck. A man feels horny goes into a bar and goes up to women asking for a fuck. The man gets arrested for sexual harassment.' Finding sex for a man is always harder than for a woman. In a post 'me too' movement world, it has new risks as well. It should be ok, but who knows? It's a factor to take into…
/r/MensRights18/10/25 04:59 AM
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they didn't have to. The problem in that is that heterosexual men want to have sex with women, and so many men don't think that women can be anything other than 'pretty little women who need to be looked after'. That sex urge is a real handicap, and there is still the infantilizing of women by men. Until they get bitten, most men don't see women as anything but 'sugar and spice'. I'll be interested to see how younger generations approach this, but I can't see any positive change.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 01:20 AM
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Thank you, it's a good read and the author makes some good points. I disagree with the author with their conclusion. No ruling class will reduce their power voluntarily. The current status quo suits them, why should they change? Equality was a dream, it will not be a reality. I expect matters to get worse and personally I'm wondering when there will be a bachelor tax to pay for women's lifestyle choices.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 11:22 PM
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Lots of jobs that could go to ai tbh
/r/MensRights12/10/25 06:54 PM
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SOP They only did it because they are victims of men 'how the malign influence of a terrifyingly violent drug addict father set them on the path to the Old Bailey' Women kill men, blame men.
/r/MensRights12/10/25 02:12 PM
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I'm curious about what they are watching 'We saw, read and listened to stories of involved fathers, successful mothers and well-matched partners who supported one another.' I haven't seen many of those. It reads like an article written by someone with deep insecurities tbh. 'heroin chic is out' and then they refuse to mention Sydney Sweeney by name only mentioning the company American Eagle. They mention weight a lot, they mention they got married recently and they mention this which is complete…
/r/MensRights12/10/25 01:55 PM
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Sometimes it feels that feminism is just penis envy tbh. It's almost 'women must become the most macho men' rather than women can be women who live the same quality of life as men but are still women.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 07:20 PM
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Yeah not men's rights related, but amusing. On another note I found a rare Kindle in a charity shop. I restored the owners books and there were over 600 female fap books.... The next step was to clean the Kindle and wash my hands 😃
/r/MensRights10/10/25 06:04 PM
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wonder what that means That learning what the NSADP is, and then learning some world history and then US history, maybe the horseshoe political theory would be good as well. Oh dog whistle might be one and even reading Lippmann's 'Public Opinion' might be useful as well. Try it, it's a good read.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 11:29 AM
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But this is not the moment to speak up. It is. Particularly as Reddit has many non US people on it, and US politics should not be intermingled.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 11:25 AM
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It's not just the conscription, it's also the freedom to travel. Ukrainian women are free to leave Ukraine. Ukrainian men from the age of 18-60 are not allowed to leave the country. The borders are closed, have razor wire, are patrolled by people and drones, and yes Ukrainian men have been killed trying to escape the country. It comes across as a male open air prison, akin to North Korea tbh. https://abcnews.go.com/International/ukraines-desperate-soldiers-spurs-exodus-young-men/story?id=1124412…
/r/MensRights06/10/25 03:39 PM
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make friends to pursue the office jobs Fully agree. I sit in an office, for 8 hrs a day. I 'work work' for maybe 2 hours. I drink free coffee and read. Do I get paid less than field workers etc yes I do. But I did it the hard way originally and lost it all to a divorce. Now I'll sit in my office, save my money and wait for my mortgage to finally get paid off. I've discovered rather late in life that if I had led a boring life, I wouldn't have damaged my body and stressed my mind to keep up with …
/r/MensRights05/10/25 03:50 PM
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When one party said “I feel painful”, is not interpreting it as withdrawing of consent rape or not Remember consent can also be withdrawn at any time. In this instance you're looking at 'mistaken belief of consent' defense on the part of the guy. Personally, if your partner says 'it hurts' its reasonable to expect sex to stop. Whether it's rape or not would be decided by a court depending on local laws. Either way, the guy should have not continued, and if they are being accused of rape, they ne…
/r/MensRights04/10/25 05:46 PM
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Hey it's a great film 😀
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:13 AM
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Non-hormonal male birth control pills Won't affect sex drive, a lot of men do or have thought with the wrong head. The desire to get laid leads to men doing a lot of stuff (including working insane hours). Remember: First you get the money Then you get the power Then you get the women But seriously, male sex drive, as much as I love it, causes men issues. control marriage So long as the courts and state have a say men will never control marriage. impregnation If it comes to it, sperm jacking is …
/r/MensRights01/10/25 12:23 AM
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The war doesn't end. Depending on the country it will either stay the same or get worse. The UK with the aim of reducing women going to prison will see more women assaulting men with little to no consequence. Spain with better benefits for women (https://nypost.com/2024/03/06/world-news/spanish-soldiers-changing-gender-to-female-for-added-benefits/) Will continue to discriminate. North America with less men going into post secondary education will see less men in positions of authority. Gendered…
/r/MensRights30/09/25 10:55 PM
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'how fair is it' - It isn't fair at all tbh. We're meant to be living in a society of equality regardless of gender/sex. A working woman holding the mindset that they are to be provided for isn't equality. That mindset of dependency is not healthy for them or the relationship. The question is really 'why are they not able to contribute equally?'. Although I've always liked this quote “Of all the nasty outcomes predicted for women's liberation...none was more alarming than the suggestion that wom…
/r/MensRights30/09/25 12:59 PM
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Yes, why wouldn't we? Trans men get treated the same in the eyes of society. Some trans men seem to find it complex tbh https://queerkentucky.com/re-entering-the-patriarchy-male-privilege-from-a-trans-mans-perspective/ As this guy puts it as a trans man 'No one challenged my authority, but no one cared about me' https://theeverydaymagazine.co.uk/opinion/yes-all-men-from-the-pov-of-a-trans-man'
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:04 PM
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Good luck in the future. You're absolutely correct, when the emotions come in the facts go out.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 03:13 PM
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Essentially either a lawsuit to establish equality, maybe a German person could elaborate on that? Or the last paragraph is interesting 'For me, general military service would be general military service only for men. It could certainly be organized fairly, as a supplement to compulsory military service, by saying: You can basically choose whether you join the army or do something in the civilian sector. But if the Bundeswehr then says, "No, we need you here, we want to draft you," then you can …
/r/MensRights19/09/25 05:05 PM
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Onlyfans model It makes it more sensational and salacious. Makes more money.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 06:36 PM
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Brittany Zamora's lawyer did the same thing, tried to deflect blame onto the kid, the kid was 13. "This was not between a young child and Brittany -- this was a teenager," Brittany Zamora's lawyer said after Friday's sentencing' https://www.12news.com/article/news/this-was-a-teenager-brittany-zamoras-lawyer-deflects-blame-after-client-sentenced-to-20-years-for-sexually-abusing-student/75-8e7dc7ee-56d0-414d-bdd8-d32157652f7f
/r/MensRights15/09/25 06:32 PM
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1 account not found, another almost certainly a bit, 1 that might be legit and another that hides their posts. Don't worry they are Rage baiting you.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 01:24 AM
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Nah there's some kids from single mother households doing well, too!? Never said that, read the articles, learn the facts So, I believe that men and women are equal, yet different genders. Who would you rather have punch you in the face? I know trans men who have commented that testosterone has increased their muscle mass but going through puberty with testosterone does make a difference. I also know trans women who have noticed a loss of muscle mass when they started estrogen. Not in a negative…
/r/MensRights14/09/25 03:04 PM
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There is plenty of information that children in single father households do better in life than children in single mother households. Here's one example https://www.brookings.edu/articles/are-children-raised-with-absent-fathers-worse-off/ The research is often US based and tends to come to the conclusion that this is not the fault of the mother but structured racism, patriarchy etc it's never the fault of the mother. As for 'abusive fathers' I imagine the kids do as well as children in household…
/r/MensRights14/09/25 01:53 PM
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telling me I'm wrong Not really. I'd more say the age and maturity of the male reader will change your viewpoint of the book. When I was younger it would never have occurred to me that these young men were disposable. Instead I would have focused on the struggle and achievement by strength. Yes I was young and dumb. Now as an adult, I have seen divorces, I've seen men kicked to the curb when sick by their partners, or they lose their jobs. The men stuck in marriages they can't afford to leave. I…
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:16 PM
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Just read the article and as a disclaimer I've read the book many times and it's one of my favorites. The person who wrote the article hasn't read the book, or at least can't distinguish between the book and the film. The speed and number of people walking is incorrect in the article. The premise of a 'civil war' is not mentioned in the book. They fail to distinguish between Bachman and King, despite King distinguishing between them, saying that Bachman books were those written on angry days. Th…
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:04 PM
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He's notorious for his drug and alcohol addictions. Listening to him now and taking him seriously is a bit like taking Ozzy Osbourne seriously. He's late 70's, fried his brain a few times and we'll into the age range of dementia. An out of touch guy shouting at the clouds tbh. https://www.theguardian.com/books/2013/sep/21/stephen-king-shining-sequel-interview
/r/MensRights13/09/25 04:47 PM
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Avoiding 'sexy, beautiful, gorgeous' sounds like typical good advice for corporate settings tbh. I wouldn't say that to a person at work, nor would I expect it in return (I own mirrors after all). This event comes across as an industry networking event, in that environment, it's always good advice to watch your language. You're selling yourself at those events afterall, you are projecting a persona to enable new opportunities to open. Maybe some people may feel nostalgic 'I could say anything at…
/r/MensRights11/09/25 06:55 PM
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I am not against taxes, i am against taxing work. So what are you planning to tax then if it doesn't mean taxing something that is 'work'?
/r/MensRights11/09/25 01:05 AM
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Mandatory, sure why not. If you have nothing to fear etc. I'd also like to see scanning for genetic issues as well, very Gattaca but could be helpful. Illegal, nope that just means the woman would claim she was sa'ed. This pops up now and again in this subreddit. There are lots of good resources in those older posts. The takeaway is, yes it should be mandatory. However it's often seen as being in the best interest of the child not to tell the father by the medical profession. Eg. https://pmc.ncb…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 05:17 AM
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My apologies, I wasn't in a good place when I posted this. I wanted to indicate that women need to take female abuse against men seriously, ignoring it, sweeping it under the carpet can have devastating consequences for women down the line. Women need to police women to help avoid these monstrous people being created.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 05:00 AM
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Try Danny King, his 'Cancelled' 'Henchman's Book Club' are all good reads. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Danny_King_(author)
/r/MensRights09/09/25 01:19 AM
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One example in 73 years..... really? firmly because of discrimination- And the source of this 'firm' allegation was?
/r/MensRights09/09/25 12:21 AM
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Women have historically been excluded from white collar professions, government roles, trades and management roles (particularly management over men), just to name a few. Do you have any examples of that, especially the reasoning behind it?
/r/MensRights08/09/25 10:34 PM
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more obedient and less potentially rebellious females You hit the nail on the head 'Women at Work: Lowell's Early Labor The city’s investors hired corporate recruiters to enlist young women from rural New England to work in the mills. Their reasoning was two-fold: women were apt to stay in the city only a few years before leaving to become wives and mothers, thus preventing the establishment of a permanent working class; and women were less expensive and more easily controlled than men.' https:/…
/r/MensRights08/09/25 10:30 PM
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'womens radio station' - my mind goes to the image of wet sheep in a field in Wales, wandering around a big steel post hoping that by rubbing together they can create an electrical spark. All bleating and hoping someone will hear them. Time to take some time off from Reddit I think
/r/MensRights04/09/25 02:44 AM
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Most tbh. You'll find your competency is important, but who you know and who has a favorable opinion of you is far more important.
/r/MensRights29/08/25 11:34 AM
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Plow Horses And look what happened to Boxer in Animal Farm
/r/MensRights28/08/25 01:19 AM
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I hope that 10 years of probation will stop them. The message needs to be sent that this behaviour is not tolerated in society.
/r/MensRights26/08/25 12:47 AM
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She was a nurse, and her license was already suspended so that will be gone as well. It's not ideal, but it's a start. At least the boy's father came around and supported his son as well. But, yes had it been a step-father with a 15 year old step daughter, they would never have seen the light of day again. She did well with the p pass.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 10:11 PM
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quick to argue and be angry when it's a nicely asked question. Because you're factually incorrect. You really need to read up on actual history. Even restricting it to the US you have the female mill workers and miners. They shouldn't be forgotten, but you have and that's a shame, because it's been forgotten in the name of propaganda. Here's some basic history of the role of women in industry in the US in the 1890's https://www.nps.gov/klgo/learn/historyculture/women1890s.htm Learn the facts not…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 03:09 PM
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think of traditional Yeah, that's not 'traditional'. Traditionally women have worked in the US. You may recall that the US was an industrialised country, women worked. By denying their existence you are removing and negating their roles and existence. The wife staying at home with the kids is a romantic distortion of history, at best a fallacy at worst sold to women to create a inflammatory history of domestic oppression.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:18 PM
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Your comment was 'Up until the 70s women couldn't even have a bank account.' You are factually incorrect. In your country the state of California allowed female bank accounts since 1862. It appears you are referring to a federal law of the US. A more correct statement would be 'The US federal Equal credit opportunity act of 1974, confirmed women's rights to have a seperate bank account at a federal level'. Before this, they weren't allowed to have a bank account of any kind until the 60s Inciden…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:11 PM
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Up until the 70s women couldn't even have a bank account Ok, that's so wrong you need to sue your school As you're US here's a link https://femmefrugality.com/myth-busting-womens-banking/
/r/MensRights23/08/25 01:48 PM
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don’t straight up hate men and see us as worthless. Once you no longer have value to them you will be easily removed. Conservative can just be a honey trap.
/r/MensRights22/08/25 02:29 PM
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Because she was a middle school teacher, and the boys were in a high school and over the age of consent, she can have a threesome legally with them as she wasn't a teacher at their school. Oh and her husband was off doing their reserve military service. 'established during the investigation that she had relations with two 17-year-old high school students while she was teaching at a middle school, meaning no offense involving abuse of authority was committed.' It really enforced the entire 'don't…
/r/MensRights21/08/25 10:18 PM
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95% sure they are mine Sorry to say it but you only know if you do a DNA test. I have 4 kids with a person who was a conservative and respectable person. A main reason for divorce was finding out they cheated. Are those kids mine, dunno tbh.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 03:25 AM
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Most men don't know about it Most men are too busy working
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:34 PM
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What a surprise she pled her belly 'she caused the damages because she was stressed out from being pregnant.' There will be no consequences, the father will have to pay support and she'll try to claim that he's abusive to get the most support possible. She will be smiling all the way to the bank. Oh and there will be a queue of men who will want to be with her.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 03:29 PM
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How many people on here are Swedish? It's coming up to the end of the work day in Sweden on a Monday. At least let the Swedes get home before they check Reddit.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 02:35 PM
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Ok, so more of a North American thing then.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 01:52 PM
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What's your definition of 'tradcon'?
/r/MensRights16/08/25 01:50 PM
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Active listening Critical thinking Use and misuse of stats How information can be portrayed to achieve a particular aim Continuous learning
/r/MensRights15/08/25 12:55 PM
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That's what you TRY with stable longterm relationships, yup Then I think it's fair to say we must come from very different cultures. Western Europe must be very different from the conservative country you're in. The tattoo and nosering mentality It's fair to say you lack the knowledge to have an opinion. I'm talking about people in person not the performance put online. I'm happy to agree to disagree on that. I'm curious though on what it has to do with Men's rights. Can you please let me know h…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 06:43 PM
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These were relationships that were always relationships that fizzled out, moving to a different university, naturally ran their course etc. I'm not too sure why there is such hatred. Do people just have one relationship, and then expect to marry and stay together for life? That's not how life works. Casual sex, transitory relationships are standard and have been for decades. It doesn't mean the relationship was poor or ended poorly, relationships just run their course. The women with tattoos and…
/r/MensRights12/08/25 05:57 PM
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Tattoos and piercings just don't inspire much confidence in long-term stability. I have had many relationships with women with tattoos and piercings. It was never an indication of 'much confidence in long term stability'. I'm not sure how you're making this correlation, it doesn't seem supported by the actual facts.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:59 PM
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Tend to do, and have just tended to do, for milennia. Men just, y'know, just tend to "act like that" as it were. Incorrect, see martial rape, rape as punishment, defending against and preventing rape is done on a societal level and not on an individual level. Go back 100+ years. The reason I say 100 years is that's the start of what we now call feminism. Unless valuable to society or an individual it wasn't an issue. See honour killings which are still contemporary. The rape is only a negative b…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 05:47 PM
1

Please provide me a time stamp for which part of that 44 minutes video discusses the raises of women holding female rapists accountable, How does holding female rapists accountable equate to more masculine women?
/r/MensRights10/08/25 02:42 PM
6

You tell me women are taking a more masculine role in society (i.e. acting like men), now please prove it. Please show me the goods. Have you seen the job market? Anyway you want proof. https://www.womenontopp.com/what-does-it-mean-when-a-woman-is-in-her-masculine/ https://kellymcnelis.com/why-are-women-acting-like-men-by-dana-prophet/ https://www.stephenhedger.com/masculine-women-in-relationships/ And you may find this interesting https://youtu.be/Z5eB6hbOQps?si=9OD_zS0GGRce7Mn4
/r/MensRights10/08/25 03:45 AM
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Women taking a more masculine role in society and at the same time believing they are still living in a romantic/mythical past. Modern day/masculine = 'If a man can ask so can I' Romantic/mythical past = 'My sex is a great gift no man will refuse' The combination doesn't work too well. Sorry women, but nowadays the difference between you and men is that you have the potential to birth a kid. Women don't seem to understand that. If you are being hassled call the cops/friends/bar owner, don't suff…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 11:08 PM
3

Sorry for traumadumping. Not a problem, if you need to get it out, then get it out.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 08:21 PM
8

toxic masculinity That term is part of the problem men just need to learn to cry..... That is not the best way to phrase it. A better way would be 'to release emotions in a cathartic manner'. You don't have to cry, to do that. There are many ways to do that, and that is down to the individual. Men need to be let free of this 'provider' mentality. For better or worse we are in a post feminist world. Only many men are stuck in a pre feminist mindset (family, protector) mindset. You have to let go …
/r/MensRights08/08/25 11:53 AM
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'many men are unwilling to go to therapy' Ok, I'll bite. Why therapy? Why would 'therapy' cure your woes? I see it used more as a placeholder for 'deus ex machina' than anything else.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:47 PM
4

Here’s a thought Surrogacy would cover the first and be cheaper, along with guaranteed child access. Also foot the entire cost of the birthing process Again surrogacy or live in a non US first world country. She’ll already have the money she needs to leave and you can just continue paying what you’ve been paying. Hmmm surrogacy would also cover that Win win It is a 'Win Win' if you want kids there is no need to marry, you've convinced me it would be cheaper, you'd have more access and statistica…
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:45 PM
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Men walking away from marriage How do men benefit from marriage? If there is no benefit, why engage in it?
/r/MensRights06/08/25 07:23 PM
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without the reason why It comes across as almost 'do what mummy tells you, mummy knows Best's And then they wonder why men give up or go away. Who will play in a rigged game.
/r/MensRights05/08/25 08:09 PM
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From Laura's book, 'New AI-driven technologies, with misogyny baked into their design, are putting women in danger, their rights and safety sacrificed at the altar of profitability and reckless speed.' Appearing as a book with preconceived bias baked in from the start. Pretty easy to use research to prove a preconceived theory, I might be able to get it from my library but I'm reluctant to spend money on something that seems to be built upon bias.
/r/MensRights05/08/25 06:31 PM
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Every 3 minutes around the world, a woman is killed by her male partner Prove it, and is that because they are a woman and the person is a man? More men voted for abortion to be banned, thus killing more women, than those who didn’t Prove it. Where I'm from the abortion debate was finished over 50 years ago with on demand abortion up to 24 weeks. Men created the trend of “your body, my choice.” Prove it Male doctors statistically give female patients less pain medication than men for the same is…
/r/MensRights05/08/25 11:42 AM
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There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being alone doesn't make you lonely. If anything there is a 'female empathy towards men' issue. It's easier for men to just walk away and it seems harder for women to accept being walked away from. Not a gender war but a philosophical war.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:27 PM
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He wants to try keeping the famlily intact first That's not going to happen, and seeing this domestic abuse will negatively affect the children anyway. A quick coverage https://minnesotachildrensalliance.org/news/intimate-partner-violence/ They seem to be suffering from romantic delusions and an idealization of marriage. In my own case I was heavily criticised by my children for not leaving earlier, describing it as me 'abandoning them'. Children will know what is going on. despite everything wi…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 04:29 PM
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Let me guess she is on the Tea app as well.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:28 PM
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husband is clearly in the wrong on this one. Why?? He's not asking for anything that isn't allowed under the law. If anything a success in this case can highlight the unfairness of divorce law.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:47 AM
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He is going to need documentation and audio/video of the abuse. They need a pattern of behavior. They'll need a good divorce lawyer lined up as well to plan it. Ideally kick off with criminal charges, then divorce and then civil, making sure they all overlap. As soon as they try and get out they will have silver bullets left, right and center. They will have serious accusations and unless they plan and kick off the divorce themselves they will lose. If they think there will be the possibility of…
/r/MensRights31/07/25 09:35 PM
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I always like pointing this out to them tbh https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-environmental-impact-of-sex-toys
/r/MensRights31/07/25 11:59 AM
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and at my age Sex is the easy part tbh. Wanting to be around them afterwards is the hard part. Even with FWB they get feelings :-( Peace and quiet is becoming more attractive with every ex.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:00 AM
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Interestingly they were offered a binary agree/disagree choice. The only option was to polarize the people.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 09:09 PM
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How long before this is used to 'prove' something like: 'this proves men are less intelligent than women, women have been held back by men, women would have made a utopia. Men shouldn't get degrees for their own good they should only work in manual roles'
/r/MensRights28/07/25 12:08 PM
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'said he did not believe Hay had "genuine insight into the extent of her wrongdoing".' So nothing but a suspended sentence for a woman with a previous conviction and no understanding what they did wasn't appropriate. How many men does she have to abuse before she learns to stop.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 03:24 AM
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Look on the bright side, their celebration of being childfree means their genes are removed from the human gene pool. I'm happy to play the long game with them.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:17 PM
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Same logic applies to men's conscription also, doesn't it? Oh I agree. If people have to be forced to fight, well maybe that's a quick referendum on the country and those who lead it. Either way, western society says historic gender roles are bad. Ukraine has stated it wants to be in the EU and they are bankrolled by western countries. It's about time that the historic gender roles are abandoned. Let the men be free.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:18 PM
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From 2022 'People do not accept obligatory conscription for women. There still exists a common perception, when it comes to gender roles, that women have to take care of children and family, while men are supposed to go and defend the country. Another thing is that mothers who decide to join the army are not treated well after their return. Society is inclined to blame such women for leaving their children behind and neglecting their family duties. This puts additional mental pressure on female …
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:07 PM
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'start' By all metrics it's been going on for a while
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:51 PM
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They really need to learn more about the history of pornography. If all you can mention is playboy, then you have a serious lack of knowledge.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 12:48 AM
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'Unless people stop using men as objects' If there is no way to win the game, don't play. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:24 PM
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If you have time on your hands now sign up for the Google cert on Cybersecurity. It's free and will give you some idea if you like the field.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 10:51 PM
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Hang in for the next 6 years Document everything Good luck
/r/MensRights22/07/25 11:47 AM
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These women are just femcells. Society has changed and they have failed to adapt to it. They are evolutional failures that will drop off and wither away, and let society advance. They need to adapt to modern society and embrace the throwing of patriarchal chains that bind them to see men in this fashion. They are not mere objects to be chased, they need to cast out that internal misogyny and see them selves as free women. Right, back to the garden, the raspberry's are doing well.
/r/MensRights19/07/25 06:13 PM
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Yep, it gives the impression that the writer said to themselves 'I know how a man thinks, I don't need to ask anyone'. The arrogance and naivety of them is outstanding. Most people who buy light reading/chick flic are women anyway, it's really the blind leading the blind.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:45 PM
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Please tell me this is a joke Shubha Shankar had killed her fiance Girish in 2003 with the help of her boyfriend, Arun and two others (Dinakaran and Venkatesh). At this point I'm thinking how much did this verdict cost them. The woman involved described as: Voice of a young, ambitious girl, muffled by a forced family decision, created the fiercest of turmoil in her mind. This, backed by an unholy alliance of a mental rebellion and wild romanticism, led to the tragic murder of an innocent young m…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 12:58 PM
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How are these women financing these degrees, and are they getting their money's worth? The income benefit of an associate degree would decrease dramatically if someone is having to take out loans to pay for it. My concern over time is that women will start to be presented as 'intellectuals' and men presented as 'only good for manual labour'.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 03:26 AM
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Personally the cynical/realistic viewpoint is that: Sally Miller Gearhart will be correct and the number of men will be decreased over the generations. Certainly in the western world, probably in the rest of the world at an initially slower rate and then at an increasing rate until it catches up with the western world. There won't be heading back towards being masculine, or do you think we’re falling more into feminisation? there just won't be men in large numbers.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:16 PM
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How do? A lot of the attacks are of the entire 'why are you making me hit you?' variety.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 11:48 AM
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So much for free speech I remember the first time in court seeing a sign they had on the wall 'Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequence,' It happens to us all
/r/MensRights13/07/25 11:32 PM
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I was in a fraternity Are you saying that your knowledge and understanding of men is restricted to college men aged in their late teens/early 20's and in North America? From that sample you extrapolated all male behaviour internationally? Is that really what you base your personal ideology on?
/r/MensRights13/07/25 02:10 PM
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There are a lot of disillusioned women dating over 40. The men at that age often have been divorced, and are very apprehensive about these women. I suspect because men's T levels are lower at that age then in their teens/20's that men think more with their big head than their little head. I only know two women from that age group who re-married and both were women who stood out and had put the effort in. The remainder end up in situation ships or become long-term single. This seems to bother the…
/r/MensRights13/07/25 02:07 PM
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Why you so interested in my genitals? Maybe quit being so sexually repressed Avoiding the classic 'sexually shaming' attack would help your approach. Embracing sexual shaming reinforces the belief that you are a troll.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 01:56 PM
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die-hard feminist Can you please do me a favour and define what you consider a 'feminist' to be? There seem to be many variations, it has become an almost personal definition at this point. Thanks
/r/MensRights13/07/25 01:52 PM
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'Lecka will be sentenced at Kingston Crown Court on 26 September'
/r/MensRights12/07/25 10:29 PM
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Congratulations and good luck with your change. Norah Vincent's 'Self Made man' might be a good read for you. Especially their preconceived notions which were widely inaccurate.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 01:25 AM
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men hundreds of years ago Not even then. With the advent of home DNA testing we're starting to discover that a misattributed father isn't as rare as we assumed. Think back to those men hundreds of years ago, we can try and find out the truth. Back then we had no knowledge, we just had to trust.
/r/MensRights11/07/25 10:35 PM
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does the stigma around men sharing their feelings usually come from men or women? From men, the most I've seen is men saying you're over sharing, and that's really only been in detailed sex matters. The guys who come out with the 'men don't cry' or 'walk it off' are dying off, and most guys want to know that someone is listening, maybe get some feedback and ideas on how to go about fixing it. From women, you may not get shamed straight away, but it will be weaponised against you sooner or later.…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 12:19 PM
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All people can be petty tbh. Maybe if someone wants to vent they can just start their post saying they are venting. For a lot of men there are few places to vent, and Reddit is pseudo anonymous. Maybe a list of male peer support groups can be added?
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:51 AM
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I'm probably wrong but i always see it as If you have a group of men to solve a physical issue, they will work together really well and succeed. If you ask a group of men to solve an abstract issue there will be less positive results. In addition I need my job, have kids to support as a single dad and don't want to risk it as being perceived as 'anti women'. Women don't face the same consequences and don't normally have the same level of responsibilities.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:53 PM
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Yeah. Honestly i'm still content and happy to see justice delivered 'fairly' evenly when Zamora got 20 years. Their lawyer tried playing all the cards especially victim blaming. But Zamora, who was small, white and could scrub up well, still had a fair trial. Once convicted they also received a serious sentence that acted as a punishment and very importantly as a deterrent for other female sex offenders. Edited. 20 years not 25
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:32 PM
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'think about playing this card' She's desperate, doesn't want to go to prison and is trying anything to avoid being convicted. They will try the 'was abused as a kid' 'mental health' 'too pretty' 'kid forced me' cards to avoid accountability.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:00 PM
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They always do
/r/MensRights03/07/25 08:04 PM
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"The truth can not be sexist". Well the truth needs to be known first. Please post your sources.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:10 AM
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Please post the literature, I don't know where you're getting your opinions from but they are not reflected in the studies I find.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:09 AM
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However, as someone who has looked into how female sexual offenders operate, they seem to work differently as compared to their male counter-parts. Wordy but not correct. The consistent theme from the literature is that more investigation is needed and how this is underreported. Insufficient information to accurately make a comparison. Their prime motive seems to be the control rather than the sex, which makes sense since it is much easier for women to access sex and they have a way lower libido…
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:07 AM
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Don't forget Reddit has a report system which includes categories such as 'hate' 'harassment' etc Use them. They can be very useful. I've been surprised how much success you can have with it.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:05 AM
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So long as you're self aware to remember you're talking to an AI, I don't see harm. If an AI is the only person you talk to that's a problem, but otherwise why not, tbh
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:05 PM
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Ahhh They are now at Warwick and their PhD education is in Philosophy although they started with theology. Someone who deals with the abstract and as a woman will never face any consequences of misattributed parenting. A quick summary from their public official Warwick University page https://warwick.ac.uk/fac/sci/med/staff/h_draper/#overview
/r/MensRights29/06/25 03:09 PM
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Thankfully my penis no longer makes decisions. Yep this! It was brought home by my adult kids doing an 'intervention' about the women I had been with ('they are crazier than mother' was the line that brought it home). My kids are very important to me so I took a break. Now I enjoy the peace and quiet too much to ever go back. It's not 'I choose MGTOW' more I choose a quiet life and then get told the term for it is MGTOW. Now the big head has more control than the little head.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:06 PM
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'have you ever actually seen a woman like that in real life' - nope, but never seen a man like that either. 'respect high-value men' this must be a North American thing. Respect is earned not assumed. Everyone starts at neutral and goes from there. 'she was born a woman...' - no, why should I? I don't care about what's between your legs, can you do the role the same as everyone else? If you can great 😃 If you can't, better go find something else to do because this isn't for you.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 04:37 AM
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'automatically coded for red and black pill ideology' - no accusations, no proof, no comparisons with other groups. Robo judge has spoken we are all guilty.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 01:50 PM
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Thank you 👍 Next question though. How does legalised prostitution affect dating between heterosexual couples? Does removing sex as the end goal for men dating women, end up with more or less long term healthy relationships? Essentially there is increased competition for sexual hookups, what's the effect?
/r/MensRights27/06/25 02:14 PM
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interview with a female pedophile Do you have any links to that? Not doubting or anything, it would be interesting to read. There isn't much research on female sex abusers.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:13 PM
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'got no choice but to play the cards I’ve been dealt.' - yep he's understanding it well.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:42 PM
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That reminds me Has anyone come across figures/data/reports that shows any correlation between legalised prostitution and the rate of sexual assault?
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:23 PM
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They are just being reported more and their crimes are being investigated more. Also women like Gaye Grant can't hide because it is illegal for women to sexually abuse boys now. Back in the 1970's she abused boys and it was legal, because she was a woman, and the law at that time only covered male offenders. https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/article/2024/may/24/gaye-grant-nsw-teacher-child-sexual-abuse-law-women-ntwnfb
/r/MensRights26/06/25 07:04 PM
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If they are doing that they are not your friends. Tell them to go forth and talk to who you want.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 12:54 PM
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Well you've just experienced discrimination because you talk about men's rights (even if you disagree with it). Welcome to the club. Has it caused you to think more about what people are posting?
/r/MensRights24/06/25 06:44 PM
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France is the classic example of paternity DNA tests being banned. Other countries offer only limited time periods before a man is declared the father, regardless of he is or not. But this is not your parents time. Casual sex is standard, adultery is not illegal, it's time to drag the legal system inline with society. Kids should know if they have to worry about medical issues. This article from Uganda really illustrates the social pressure that men are put under to not ask. The article also cla…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 07:00 PM
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'who is in this forum to learn more' Then ask questions, rather than be a voyeur.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 11:47 AM
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'But she failed to attend her trial and was convicted in her absence.' Didn't bother turning up and only got a suspended sentence
/r/MensRights23/06/25 01:40 AM
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You mean me?? I am most certainly not female 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Not in the slightest 🤣🤣🤣 Maybe I should have typed 'They are just a middle age woman reminiscing about the good times.' It appears you thought I was referring to myself 🤣
/r/MensRights22/06/25 10:21 PM
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Just a middle age woman reminiscing about the good times. It's like sitting at a pub with someone boring on about what they have done, with them not realising that that part of their life is over. They haven't moved on and progressed. Their writing style is too flowery and pretentious for my taste but they can at least communicate, and they are probably a nice enough person to talk to about working at Playboy. They seem to feel they are entitled to male attention without realising that times and…
/r/MensRights22/06/25 03:42 PM
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I'd like to see them as leaders tbh. I detest Thatcher but at least she was a leader. I can't see other women coming up who can lead, just those who are good at pr. I really don't blame the men who check out. It's shortsighted, but with ageism in the workplace, high unemployment, preferential treatment for women in employment, high divorce rates, an acceptance of hookup culture and continuous men bashing in the media. The question isn't really 'why are men checking out' but more 'why are men bot…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 05:07 PM
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'what did they think was going to happen' They didn't think. It appears that the men who supported equality never realised what would happen. They were too naive. Now I think it's about time men need to move away from the old gender stereotypes and not feel ashamed in anyway for being men.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 12:47 PM
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I read the comments and there are some very solid takeaways: The idea that societal change for men's roles has changed so quickly that men haven't had the opportunity to change enough to catch up is a good concept. Masculine Future shock almost. Certainly freedom to define masculinity as you want to, a bit like feminist do with femininity. Therapy should not be your only tool in your toolkit. It can be helpful, do your research first and don't be afraid of walking away and finding another therap…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 02:38 AM
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Can you take civil action against the ex co-worker?
/r/MensRights16/06/25 03:14 AM
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You may want to watch this longer discussion on the case. They thought they were getting probation. https://youtu.be/hh9gpGvtvgM?si=F_JtRy3o9wc0orXu
/r/MensRights13/06/25 11:28 PM
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You posted an hour ago complaining and providing a list of terms to use. I think you are complaining about the person who posted 2 mins after you using language inspired by you. Why do you want to be so aggressive towards people?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:38 PM
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My viewpoint is that the man has the right to choose. i believe strongly in the welfare of children Being told that not only did your mum lie to you, screw others and wasn't even clever enough to wear a condom, I think that this person who was lied to isn't willing to stay around is the least of their problems. Staying together for the kids is not good for the kids
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:47 AM
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should always be involved with your child's life. In this instance they are saying this is not their child, your comment isn't relevant to the matter in hand. What the father should do is up to them. They should not feel coerced, that should not feel a lack of autonomy. If they want to walk away they should be able to do that without judgement. In the same way there is no judgement for a woman who gives up a baby at a fire hall safe haven baby box.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:00 AM
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I'm happy to have a discussion in good faith. I don't believe you do. You are not engaging in this conversation in anything but an antagonist manner. Unless you have something original to bring to this conversation I will bow out and wish you a good day. Edit spelling replace 'now' with 'bow'
/r/MensRights30/05/25 10:25 PM
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Odd, I wonder why they haven't released their name.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:55 PM
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This should not be here I agree entirely, have you reported it to the mods? I'm currently at work. This is a woman validly complaining This is one side only. Never ever believe until you have all the facts. We do not have all the facts. Believing a side before knowing the facts results in Duluth and kangaroo courts.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 07:09 PM
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And the hate groups where made by other men Which ones? I'm interested in what you define as a male 'hate group'. Why aren't they making betterment groups instead Because then the men who publicly support it are portrayed as members of a hate group and risk the loss of their employment and reputational damage as well. It doesn't feel safe to be a public men's right advocate. As for the hate groups, I don't support them. But I can understand why someone who is being marginalised and told how awfu…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 07:06 PM
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Why when men are given a choice alot are attracted to toxic one..? Ok, give me a list of the in your words 'non toxic male groups', that actively work within industry to advance men in careers. If you can also provide details for male only groups in tertiary education that would be helpful. Regards
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:57 PM
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Compare the number of female only professional advancement/mentoring groups and then compare that to the number of male only professional advancement/mentoring groups. See the difference?
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:36 PM
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Are you serious Yes. It's as simple as that. As for the remainder, why do you care what some person on Reddit says? Relax and touch grass.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:07 PM
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That isn't a good, strong man worth following, that's a doormat unworthy of respect He's still human, the phrase 'unworthy of respect' is hardly called for. It's a simple post by a frustrated person.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 12:38 PM
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Yep has happened multiple times, mostly when they are drunk. I hate the smell of alcohol on their breath. Realistically your best option is just to go through with it. Refusing sex is often seen as a severe rejection. The best option is to normally go through with it and then get the f out.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 04:37 PM
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As someone from an atheist country the religious part of it doesn't bother me, it's just a social convention, ignore if you want to or not. The rest is really the intent behind the action. Is this done because one person demands it, is it done because the marriage is seen as temporary and changing the name is not worth it etc. To me it's irrelevant, you're either married or not, a name change doesn't change that. Remember the desire to change a name can also be from a woman who feels it's needed…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:02 PM
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I think it's more important for religious people than those who are not. Otherwise it's just a social convention. I suppose it could be called misandrist, but you're thinking about it purely in terms of career advancement not in any form of male bashing. Really it's a conversation best suited to you and your potential partner. If it honestly doesn't bother either of you, what's the issue?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:46 PM
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Why change your name? Certainly where I live it's not a legal requirement, and as a professional woman most people wouldn't think twice about it. If you're really worried about marriage it may not be for you. A lawyer would be the best person to talk about for any potential legal or financial issues.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:34 PM
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This is now actually embarrassing. Why should I be embarrassed? Just because it's important to you doesn't mean it's important to me. To insult someone it has to be something they feel is important or is said by someone whose opinion they feel is important. You and your actions fit neither, that's why I say you have a book learning of English but do not understand it. xenophobic As a fob immigrant I can say you are incorrect and by your own standards unable to comprehend 🤣 pseudo-altruism When d…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 07:07 PM
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I appreciate your proceeded to double down on that error. And present you with really do paint s wonderful picture for us. Incidentally who are 'us' you failed to define it. If grammar and spelling is so important to you, then you must learn to live up to your own standards. So long as you can understand it (which you have demonstrated you can) I have no concerns unless I'm using it professionally and Reddit is not a professional place. Please continue, I always appreciate people trying to act h…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 04:37 PM
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Ohhh god another one. Ok you said 'Your degree should be a path towards your career goal. WTF career are you planning to have that requires gender studies?' My degree is relevant, your statement made it relevant. Compare and contrast your initial statement with your later statement Your actual degree Smeg-life is irrelevant to your question and my reply. And you'll see you made it relevant, hence my comment about 'degree and career for decades' please try and keep up. I'll assume that English is…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 03:41 PM
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Hmmm, oh I have a degree and a career already, have for decades. I'm just curious in a men's rights group how many have experienced a gender studies degree and did it allow for free thought? I'm also not N American so I never had to deal with this entire 'take classes not relevant to your subject' that N Americans do. And yes my degree is from western Europe, took 3 years and is recognised in N America as the equivalent of your 4 year degree. We just focus on the material for the degree not this…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 02:18 PM
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That's what I've wondered. Is a student allowed to be an independent thinker or must they adhere to preconceived notions? Are these degrees moving from a 'pursuit of knowledge' to religious indoctrination.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 01:21 PM
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Stop complaining and fight fire with fire. That's not the sort of behavior you want to encourage, certainly not in that language. I'm entirely on their side for coming at us. Why? What makes their behaviour a positive example for others to follow?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:02 PM
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Here's a real world example. A man I know started a divorce in January 2015, he was arrested on November 4th 2015 on very serious accusations against their ex. In January 2017 they were charged with 11 serious accusations and made bail. They had a 8 day trial in March 2019, and were found not guilty. The Prosecutor appealed and the appeal court rejected it on Nov 22nd 2019. During the entire time this man had full custody of the children, after 2016 the mother lost all contact with the children …
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:56 PM
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You're not addressing the cost of a defense and a tendency of prosecutors to overcharge and then make a deal. You're also not addressing the reputation and employment impact of an accusation as the accused does not receive anonymity. A conviction is not needed to make a negative impact.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:32 PM
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The prosecutors closing speech 'In her closing speech prosecutor Maryam Syed told jurors: 'Rape is not about sex. It is about power, it is about control, it is about coercion - physical and mental.' If you look at it, the act of making false allegations is really similar ', it is about control, it is about coercion - physical and mental.' They want to control your future, your reputation and have people doubt your past.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 11:01 PM
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You said 'Canadian law' assuming you're Canadian. CCMF is Canadian Center for Men and Families https://menandfamilies.org/
/r/MensRights08/05/25 10:56 PM
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Try ccmf
/r/MensRights08/05/25 10:50 PM
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The advice I received was to simply say, 'Serious allegations were made, which I successfully defended against' My advice is always to limit your social media exposure.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 10:29 PM
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Congratulations, you did it properly through the system and didn't lose control. The system exists, and you used it. I'm sorry you had to go through it, but it's a great example.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 02:12 AM
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Interesting view on the gender pay gap. It's now determined by how much the average man earns compared to the average woman in the company. Role and qualifications aren't taken into account, purely the gender of the individuals. If for example you have a male accountant and a female cleaner (stereotypes I know) then closing the gender pay gap means paying both the same. It's no longer equal pay for equal work. 'Gender pay gap research released last month by all airline companies revealed sluggis…
/r/MensRights06/05/25 01:11 PM
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Yeah, but being a loner can also be a burden. Volunteer, particularly in a homeless shelter (mostly men) and that will help you realise how lucky you are. It can also remind you about the downside of marriage. A large number of men suffer financially from divorce. Work on yourself, read, develop critical thinking, I've always enjoyed Orwell, in 'Homage to Catalonia' he does a good breakdown on media manipulation. Don't give into despair. Being a bachelor gives you the opportunity to work and enj…
/r/MensRights06/05/25 02:11 AM
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And in the comments you have this Margarita Kashina Margarita Kashina9 hours ago Lmao Margarita Kashina Margarita Kashina6 hours ago Bro forgot the last 500 years of publishing Alice Sutherland-Hawes Alice Sutherland-Hawes1 day ago Won't somebody think of the men :( Looks like the female shamers are already in action.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 06:47 PM
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And emotional violence isn't the same as murder. That's just silly. Some places have crimes such as 'inducement to suicide' others recognise 'controlling and coercive behavior'. Both are emotional violence and both can lead to suicide. Think of it as 'murder by proxy'.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 10:29 PM
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If you want an older one then get a copy of Iron John: A book about men - Robert Bly published in 1990 it avoids some of the negatives of MRA.
/r/MensRights26/04/25 02:47 PM
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Wish I could follow the math, but an Interesting final take 'The performed analyses reveal that no systematic differences can be devised across the misogynistic and misandric communities. This suggests that, in addressing the phenomenon of online gendered hate speech, both male-to-female and female-to-male perspectives should be taken into account, thus recognizing equal importance to both misandry and misogyny.' Now I wonder what the conclusion would have been if they included 2xChromosome whic…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 09:11 PM
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cheating could result in murder and suicide? Well divorce does, so cheating would. Would it be a larger increase? I doudt it, actually thinking it through, it could even be a reduction as it would allow for honeytraps. My big concern in the days of deepfakes can you prove they were cheating, without a confession? preventing more people from cheating as well? Nope, if someone has the time and opportunity they will often cheat. I have only come across one person who was offered it on a plate and t…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 01:04 PM
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Cheating is sleeping with someone else who isn't your current partner If your partner agrees is it still cheating? why should your positive overrule others Because other cultures have found monogamy ok. To me the harm is the deceit behind the act, and to reach that level of deceit it doesn't need to be physical. What do you mean, base it on this has been the same one for eons What your cultural basis was, for your statement.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 12:31 PM
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Actually here's a thought experiment for you. What is your criteria for cheating? What do you base it on? Why should your positive overrule others?
/r/MensRights24/04/25 12:13 PM
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Probably because cheating is a lot more common than people wish to believe
/r/MensRights24/04/25 12:03 PM
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way. can get sex if they want it. Hmm I don't think you understand how involuntary works. The person has to want sex, however it doesn't mean that they want to have sex with everyone they meet. A femcell could be identified as someone who wants sex from someone who doesn't want them. In that instance they are someone who is involuntary sexless, because the only person they want doesn't want them. If all an incell is is someone who can't get laid, then it co…
/r/MensRights23/04/25 07:37 PM
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Hi troll, https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/13675494241293731 https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/femcel https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-modern-heart/202211/how-do-femcels-and-incels-differ https://theweek.com/news/society/954515/what-are-femcels You have a lot of people to contact and tell them how wrong they are.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 11:56 AM
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The coaching would be how the men can change to meet the female idolized viewpoint, not the silly Andrew Tate. The coaching would be for men to fit in with women and be happy about it. If you get the opportunity try reading Danny King's 'Cancelled' it's satirical, but an interesting take on a future UK.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 03:20 AM
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If you want to have a look at polygamy from a practical viewpoint you can look at Mormons. From a more interesting theoretical view point you would probably find Heinlein's 'The moon is a harsh mistress' a good read. You have examples of line marriages to keep wealth in the family. But a 'common' one was a woman and two men. The premise being that men would rather be married to a woman who already has a husband and the men are not in competition with each other. It's an interesting idea, and if …
/r/MensRights23/04/25 03:15 AM
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I was thinking that the coaching would be akin to brainwashing tbh
/r/MensRights22/04/25 11:12 PM
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Looks like there will be a gravy train coming to 'help young men date' and also misogyny conversion camps. Couldn't make this up, how come the femcell is never brought up? Well now is the time to be a male coach.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 09:39 PM
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Well it's done the first time about the same time as your pubes are coming in. For me it was done at the end of sports as you came out of the showers by a visiting doctor at school. Imagine a line of boys all lining up wearing towels waiting to have their balls cupped, you can imagine the comments and yeah you had better not be shy. Comments about who has the hairiest balls etc, all while teachers etc look on. The most complaints I've heard about mammograms are the plates being cold. Never had a…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 09:57 PM
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If you're in the US you can use truthfinder.com The US is pretty lax with privacy, you can find out a lot from there. Name with surname, city and state it doesn't care about your sex. Maybe you ought to look this woman up? If you want privacy in the US I'm sure they have an option to pay to protect your data. Anyone else reminded of Gattaca and women getting DNA of their dates analyzed?
/r/MensRights16/04/25 02:55 AM
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Have the state pay the legal expenses of the person who was accused and then the state can recover it from the false accuser. It's cheap to be guilty, but it can be very expensive to be not guilty.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 10:46 PM
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Odd, they show the victims face but not the offender. That seems to represent the bias tbh
/r/MensRights15/04/25 10:41 PM
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Has it been reported to the police? Either way chat to a lawyer Document everything Don't start posting anything on social media about it If anyone asks about it just say 'I don't want to talk about it' and move on.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 09:00 PM
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Is there anyway you can chat with the English teacher at least? These don't appear to be good teachers.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 12:55 AM
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It's not like controlling female figures in a young man's life hasn't caused issues. Do they not realise that by their actions they may create issues and become a self fulling prophecy. https://www.simplypsychology.org/mommy-issues-in-men.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/emotional-fitness/202212/when-it-comes-to-unloving-mothers-men-suffer-differently https://www.cambridge.org/core/books/abs/understanding-sexual-serial-killing/focus-on-the-mother/1266C52976FAA3A66F477A73ED379183#
/r/MensRights09/04/25 03:15 PM
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These women seem to have looked at men, and thought of all the negatives and declared 'that is what I must become, that is what I think a man is'. It's not so much 'toxic masculinity' as a woman's perception of what a man is. A bit like reading a novel written by a woman who is trying to write a male character, it sounds good but isn't quite right. If you ever read Norah Vincent's 'Self made man' even a sympathetic female at the start has a very poor image of men. She describes her neighbourhood…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 01:42 AM
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Emmett Till is an interesting one. When the 'Believe all women' started to gain movement and was being defined as 'believe all women absolutely and without question', Emmett Till was often mentioned to criticize that definition. Mentioning Emmett Till was guaranteed to cause a backlash. Most of the people were in the US, and US people have a complicated view on race. With Emmett Till, you had women with the internal conflict of 'Emmett Till was young black, lynched by white people all at the wor…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 10:59 PM
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There is a quote from Will Smith on fault and responsibility. It's not your fault about the negative factors growing up. But it is your responsibility to fix the problems it created. In this case it is not the fault of Juana Barraza that they were abused as a kid. But it is their responsibility to fix themselves, they didn't. Childhood abuse (sexual, physical, emotional) is common among serial killers. Eg. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/226116871_The_incidence_of_child_abuse_in_serial_…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 07:55 PM
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The comments are interesting. First ones defending her against attacks by other women, that's sad to see. Interestingly the comments also mention Emmett Till on why 'believe all women' is not accurate.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 06:12 PM
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True they aren't strictly defined, but it's always a good starting point to understand where someone is coming from. Feminism has evolved and has had schisms along its way, the old 'Equal pay equal work' would nowadays need 'equal' replaced by 'equity' for example. I'm not in the US nor do I live there (travelling through it is bad enough) bell hook takes the US focus on race while I was brought up to focus on class. But if you like bell hook and race then another US author has a lovely tongue i…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 01:33 PM
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'I'm a feminist' - which generation? There is no one definition for feminist.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 12:24 PM
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I found peer male support groups much better. The therapists just didn't have a clue.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:38 AM
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The term is: 'Military Age Male' It's an old term, handy to justify drone killings, it's also used to scare people about immigration. And men have always been fair game. But for MAM have a read of: https://aoav.org.uk/2019/military-age-males-in-us-drone-strikes/ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Military-age_male https://macsphere.mcmaster.ca/handle/11375/24294 https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2024/01/31/immigration-rhetoric-republicans-mike-johnson/
/r/MensRights07/04/25 10:48 PM
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If there are no volunteers, a country doesn't deserve to exist. If you live in a country surrounded by civilized countries and haven't been invaded for several hundred years, you don't tend to worry about having a large military. Especially when the military is only really used to support US military adventures. The desire for the country to exist is very strong. The need for a military to exist is less, as its role should be primarily defensive. Unless you want 'force projection' or have hostil…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 06:42 PM
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'No wonder that young Europeans don’t want to defend their nations after decades of being told by globalist leaders that nationalism is the enemy.' Absolutely correct. Glad to see the honesty at least.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:07 AM
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you need to hear both sides. Do you force that opinion on your feminist sites?
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:33 PM
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do research You're first point of research is Reddit 🤣 Ok, since I you won't show your country I'll do a brief overview Some basics Film 'The red pill', Book: Norah Vincent's 'Self made Man'. Website https://www.wokefather.com/egalitarianism/men-not-women-are-disadvantaged-these-statistics-prove-it/ https://www.statcan.gc.ca/o1/en/plus/6413-statistical-checkup-canadian-mens-health https://equi-law.uk/ten-male-disadvantages/ Want more? That took a few seconds to find. You're not a researcher you'…
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:28 PM
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If "'I'm trying to approve' is correct, then an expectation is that someone has done some research. If your first point of research is Reddit, then your trolling.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:21 PM
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He stomped on the woman's head, really? If you stomp on a head there would be more injuries than that. The guy is not small, a stomp from him would have caused serious damage.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:48 AM
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Why have you come here? Why haven't you done any research? Let's see this list you have of female disparities where you can prove that women have it worse (Are you doing a victim game?). Once you have the list confirm the country you're from and then the reply can be customized.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:39 AM
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Sorry to be the ahole, but why did you come here saying 'i can prove..' if you haven't even done your basic research and expect to be spoonfed. If I had done that on say 2X I would have been banned. What are you trying to achieve, how are you trying to achieve it? Maybe add that the average group of men online is far more welcoming than the average group of women. But can you do your basic research before you come being all mouthy but with no knowledge. What are you trying to achieve?
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:35 AM
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I don't support what Japan is doing. I would encourage any western feminist to get on a plane and go protest in Japan. This is not a western issue, it is Japanese, and feminists should not blame western men. Tell them if they were real feminists they would go over and protest, if they say they won't tell them to stop playing at being a feminist.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 07:42 PM
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It's not the lack of matches. It's more, I have a large number of kids, my ex has no contact with the kids (court order) and mine was a high conflict divorce that took 5 years to settle. While I've had some great short term relationships, I just have no time to dedicate anything more. Yes there are options out there, it's just more time then I'm willing to commit and I don't want to repeat the same mistakes.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 03:51 PM
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You just couldn't make this up tbh
/r/MensRights28/03/25 03:38 PM
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Doesn’t that completely blow apart the narrative that men are the root cause of divorces? Anecdotally I've been told it's due to 'internalised misogyny' and 'patriarchal pressures on women in non standard roles' This article has a good go at it in a real world sense Common factors but both parties have a hair trigger on the divorce button. 'lesbian couples getting divorced might have something to do with the tendency to move very fast and quickly invest in a relationship, otherwise known as U-ha…
/r/MensRights28/03/25 12:12 PM
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Check out Danny King's - Cancelled : The shape of things to come Certainly a book for men and it's recent. Otherwise for men most books tend to be hard sci-fi and there seem to be more military ones (essentially male romance equivalence tbh).
/r/MensRights26/03/25 04:56 PM
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Window dressing The fundamentals have not changed. Men are still valued as a means of production. Poor economy - Men's fault, get more men working Women not having people to date - Men's fault they must work to fix it (New York Times) Threats and actual war, lets conscript men (Ukraine, Poland). The fundamentals that man can be valued as an individual is not promoted. In the common media men are still Ugg, rapists and a burden.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 02:58 AM
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women die from this than men. How do they measure that btw? Are we talking direct killing or are we talking the inducement to suicide options?
/r/MensRights18/03/25 06:40 PM
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trying to accuse you Nope they would say that you were controlling and coercive. Look at the company 'GirlsdoPorn' and the legal action against them, despite the company having consent forms from the people involved. Those consent forms were chucked out in the court. If someone wants to get you they will get you
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:48 AM
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Is there a professional body that a complaint against them can be referred to?
/r/MensRights12/03/25 09:25 PM
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Yes I have. It wasn't that I was wonderful or clever it's just that she was blatant about demonstrating her issues to child protection, courts etc. The kids also had a court appointed lawyer to interpret their wishes as they were all over 10 years old. No idea what they talked about, but I got full custody and the mother is not able to communicate with them and pays child support. At the time the orders were processed via a government body which had automatic powers to garnish wages etc.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 12:10 AM
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Always remember The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race. Sally Miller Gearhart, in The Future – If There Is One – Is Female That is the aim of many feminists.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 07:04 PM
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Which country are you from? I can customise the answer to your country.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 06:52 PM
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Paternity fraud
/r/MensRights06/03/25 12:16 AM
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It'll be interesting to see what happens in 4 years time. If the other side gets it will these be rolled back and extra tacked on to 'punish'. Honestly glad I'm not in the US
/r/MensRights04/03/25 01:50 AM
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Try reading Danny King's 'Cancelled', it felt a bit too close to home tbh
/r/MensRights04/03/25 12:23 AM
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I'd recommend it. It's an interesting viewpoint and I enjoyed it. I was horrified by their prior assumptions, their final viewpoint is sympathetic. They appear as a complex person who had their own issues. The biggest take away for me was seeing their initial assumptions of men blown away when they lived as a man. At least they had the balls to get out there and try.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 02:00 AM
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It's reminiscent of Norah Vincent's 'Self made man', there is a real shock between the theory and the reality. The person who transitioned to a man and was surprised that dating was harder as a man than as a lesbian.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:43 PM
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The comments in that are worth reading
/r/MensRights26/02/25 12:23 PM
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🤣 First it's investigated, the investigator will pull that info. If it contains anything that can be used it will be used in your interrogation and possibly prosecution. No matter what it will be pulled, and a third party will have the opportunity to review it all.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 10:47 PM
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Then the pseudo feminists need to get on or admit they are not feminists. Nothing is stopping them but them. They can still volunteer, last time I checked Ukraine was accepting them into all apart from combat roles. So logistics (apart from front line) drone operator even (not that safe anymore), frontline female medics have been popular (eg pink haired female medic from the 47th) etc. It is the fault of the pseudo feminists and they need condemning for that. If all they were good for was having…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 09:10 PM
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incharge of policy making? Who said they were, did I? Stop seeing what you want to see, but instead focus on what is said.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:55 PM
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However if you're ever accused in the future the police can seize all records that your therapist has. Something to be aware of.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:54 PM
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Wild? Have you ever been to 2xChromosome? If the women there were willing to accept the rights of feminism but refuse the responsibility, instead creating a situation where men are dragged off the streets. Then you can understand the frustration. Men are trapped in a country they cannot escape. Women are failing at equality by not volunteering for the military. They are a failure for feminism. That they refuse to acknowledge this internal misogyny which makes them believe they are not able to jo…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:49 PM
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feminism Oh please, where did you pull that from? Feminists don't demand equal responsibilities isn't it injustice What did you mean by the end of that sentence?
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:31 PM
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blame the femnist for the russian, ukraine war when femenist had nothing to do with it Now you're spreading your scope. That wasn't the original scope.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:30 PM
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you can't expect the feminists I can expect them to. This sub on Reddit is evidence alone that men care. If the women of Ukraine care they could volunteer, and solve the people shortage. They are just not drinking the patriotic bs.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:26 PM
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So let's have this conversation then Why? presented that DEI would ultimately be a net benefit for men because marginalized peoples would see a substantial impact to their quality of life even with less of an impact made to the lives of white men. You never said men in your comments you always say black or Hispanic men. Keep your facts straight. Either way, doing so would be considered a DEI policy. Nope, because the culture I'm from doesn't view life through the racial paradigm that you most ce…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:45 AM
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goodness in this completely arbitrary action Ok, if you're ESL let me know and I can phrase it better. Nothing to do with Jesus. Nothing to do with Reason. Religious institutions are there to make money and gain power. There are many religions, you can pick up many, but none can be proven. This behaviour is nothing to do with whatever mystical object is floating around and shouldn't be associated with a group fantasy.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:17 PM
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White people have never practiced equality Could you please do me a favour and qualify that with 'in the US' Thanks
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:14 PM
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In the US, most people going to college are female, if college is made more attractive for all men that's a benefit. But to divide men up by your defined racial characteristics (that colour in that corner, this colour in another) is counterproductive. It speaks to you being someone who associates value and expectations based on skin colour, aka a racist. I hope you aren't. But if you could look beyond melatonin values, this paper might help you understand. https://hunewsservice.com/news/why-dont…
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:12 PM
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You may not have hered of the saying 'muck before the shovel' It's saying that those who are going in first are the muck, those who follow are the shovel. The shovel has a higher standing than the muck. It's a standard English saying, but it's colloquial which can cause issues with people who don't have English as a first language. You'll note I also advised them to contact the organizers as well.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 10:53 PM
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Tell the boys it's ok 'muck before the shovel' And yes address it with the organisers, ask them if they want a sex discrimination lawsuit.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 08:53 PM
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Yeah I agree, but I can hope..
/r/MensRights22/02/25 08:21 PM
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'is slated to be sentenced to 30 years to life in state prison' Looks like they are taking it seriously at least. If they do the entire 30 it will be great.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 08:10 PM
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Honestly go do yoga, I found it so relaxing I fell asleep the first couple of times. If anyone objects ask them if they know what a yogi is.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 07:40 PM
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Men must fight other men to prove that they are the Alphas. The ones who don't are incels and betas. No, I don't think that's true. I have found groups of men work very well together, and yes there are always those who 'want to be the boss', I've seen more agreement and utilising different strengths than one person dictating. Groups of men playing sports, working towards a common goal, its more group effort and reward. The biggest issue is normally when you have a woman in that group. Not that w…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 01:23 AM
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Sounds like you're Indian. Do any Indian guys on here know any support available or just best to get out of your district/state?
/r/MensRights11/02/25 07:35 PM
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I've seen 'mental load' often develop from 'i think this might happen, so I worry about it' to 'because I think it, it must be going to happen, so I worry even more'. People can get wrapped up by worrying about a hypothetical issue, and not the reality of what is happening. Personally as a single dad, i found the mental load was minimal so long as you planned ahead (same as any job) and kept the lines of communication open.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 03:06 PM
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'However the masculinity of the applicants was estimated based on their name,' Yeah, that really tells you all you need to know about the validity of that study.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 11:48 PM
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epidemic of female child predators This sub doesn't promote that. It will demonstrate the disparity and double standards in reporting and the sentencing though. Are there more women accused nowadays, yes there are. Is this important? Yes, because we need to educate the sons about being abused and for them to come forward the same way as we educate the girls. Acknowledging that women can be sexual predators is important. Both in encouraging open informed discussion and to stop the infantilism of …
/r/MensRights05/02/25 12:31 AM
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If you have the opportunity try reading 'The average American man' by Chad Kultgen It does a fairly good job of presenting how easy it is to fall into that married man trap. Also how all the partners blur into the same person.
/r/MensRights30/01/25 08:25 PM
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If you look at the celebrities women like, they are not often that attractive but nice, polite guys. Do they want to date the celebrity image, the characters they present or the celebrity personality they know nothing about as they don't know that person. Your comments make no sense, but it is interesting how you arbitrarily group people and make assumptions based on no evidence. And if you are venting about your ex on your profile, you need therapy I'd advise the same if all you can do is tell …
/r/MensRights26/01/25 05:11 PM
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When you called your last ex after they broke up with you, was it a good conversation? Did you fix what they told you you had to fix?
/r/MensRights26/01/25 04:50 PM
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Try reading Danny King's 'Cancelled' It's becoming more accurate every day.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 12:49 PM
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That is such a great book. I wish I had read it when puberty hit, not decades later. To all those who haven't read it please do.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:55 PM
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I would ask them for proof of what they are claiming.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 08:54 PM
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support gender segregation I don't see that. Mostly I see people tired of hypocrisy and wanting to spread information, we live in a global age after all. I don't know if you have lived in an area where there are single sex and coed schools? I've been in both, they both have their plus and minus. There are also many religions that prefer schools that are divided by sex. Do you disagree with them? If you haven't gone through both systems then you're just a tourist on school sex segregation.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 08:07 PM
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Biology yes I concur. But that benefits the growth of the society, not the individual. It would be a great argument in a global conflict, but Ukrainian women can and have left There is no concern with Ukrainian genetics dying out. Plenty of expat Ukrainian women. Recruit them, otherwise it merely perpetuates the 'rights without responsibility' argument. Women should not be held back in such a patriarchal manner.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 01:03 AM
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Just tried the main video and am getting 'this video isn't available anymore'
/r/MensRights27/11/24 07:15 PM
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Hmmm, ok you're now copying and pasting. Ok, you do you.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 06:51 PM
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The post was about South Korea. You hijacked the post and talked about Pakistan. You admitted you don't know anything about South Korea. Would it be easier for you to start an appropriate post about Pakistan. complaining like a bitch A lot of my kids at school were Pakistani, some friends some not. One thing they would have taught you is that insults not to your face are a waste. If you want to do more insults please do. I could do with a good laugh.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 06:38 PM
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Document everything, including screen shotting their social media posts. See a lawyer and check if you can also put in a complaint against her for assault, coercive and controlling behavior, I imagine there are some sexual assaults in there as well (if you don't want to have sex with me you must masturbate too much, is I imagine their behaviour). Do you really want your kid to grow up in a household and believe a normal household is an adult abusing another? Nope that isn't how a kid should grow…
/r/MensRights15/11/24 02:44 PM
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Ummm are you ok? You were waffling about Pakistan. The article was about South Korea. You even said you didn't know about South Korea. Maybe go read up on South Korea rather than redirect to Pakistan. They are very dissimilar countries.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 02:35 PM
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I can't speak for South Korea So Pakistan is not great, ok we get that. But how is it relevant to South Korea? South Korea is not Pakistan. Although oddly enough boys and girls are sexually abused at very similar rates in Pakistan, maybe it's not just girls who need protection. https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/8/25/a-child-was-sexually-abused-every-two-hours-in-pakistan-this-year-ngo-says
/r/MensRights15/11/24 12:50 PM
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scared to be called racist? Probably, that's still a cultural taboo. It'll be interesting to see if that changes in the US, now they have Trump in charge.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 11:39 PM
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movie Threads Oddly enough the BBC released it recently on its player, for the UK only. Interesting timing, but if you know people who haven't seen it, encourage them to watch it.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/24 01:55 PM
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Does anyone know their name, or can point me in the correct direction? I don't wish her harm, I do feel that they need mental health help and then talking to a screen will not do that. They also need to be held accountable for their behaviour, if their actions are illegal their local cop shop needs to know. Eventually their behaviour will go from fantasy to reality.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 12:49 PM
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She is interested in the intersection of violent extremism, radicalisation, and gender within digital spaces. I wonder when she is publishing a paper or r 2X
/r/MensRights12/11/24 11:40 PM
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No need to apologize, you didn't invent the place, ain't nothing you've done wrong. I would just end it at that point, wouldn't you? Nope, I wouldn't give them the satisfaction tbh. I like helping people, I'm here because I won't let her win and I won't abandon my kids. You have to find a reason to keep going. Even something as straightforward as falling in love with seeing the dawn can be enough. It doesn't have to be complicated, something simple to appeal to the reptilian brain is better. But…
/r/MensRights12/11/24 04:54 AM
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Victim blaming 'Barry Keel, defending, said his client had been given vodka by the victim, and the drink had enhanced the way she reacted to 'antagonising' comments.' And does this come across as a modern interpretation of 'hysteria' 'Mr Keel said Wagstaff is now in a settled relationship and has found the support she has been lacking in the past.'
/r/MensRights12/11/24 12:18 AM
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I think they are referring to 'military aged males'. It's a reporting term particularly used in drone warfare to make it appear that the people being killed are not civilians. Ie. Do a drone strike at a wedding. Say 80 people die, men women and children. You can reduce that figure by taking all men over the age of say, 14 and claim they were combatants (military aged males). No longer are you killing a bunch of civilians, now you have killed a bunch of militants that were using civilians as huma…
/r/MensRights11/11/24 08:06 PM
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Consensual non Consent (CNC) is what it's normally referred to as. I imagine there is a Reddit associated with it. I'd strongly recommend against it. It could cause serious criminal and civil legal issues down the road.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 06:14 PM
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Not saying she isn't. But at least she's speaking up about sex tourism.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 04:56 AM
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This a feminist writer, Julie Bindel who sees it's as exploitative. https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2013/08/meet-middle-aged-women-who-are-britains-female-sex-tourists Also in Kenya. https://www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/NewsArchive/How-female-sex-tourists-are-exploiting-African-men-693149 'Canadian woman...she said 'If he doesn't perform, he doesn't get to eat. End of story.' That ain't informed consent. But don't worry the woman make it out to be all good. 'Academic researchers often cl…
/r/MensRights11/11/24 04:42 AM
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I'm sorry that this is happening to you. Simply, Lawyer up. Document everything. Be careful where and what you post on social media. Don't 'name and shame' her. Look after yourself, do some exercise at least once a day.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 08:28 PM
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The 4B movement is just like the people who say 'If Trump wins I'll move to Canada'. The reality is they don't. Like the 4B movement it's all talk and no action. If you really want to annoy these women, let's get an environmental tax on sex toys. They really aren't good for the environment. https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-environmental-impact-of-sex-toys
/r/MensRights10/11/24 03:25 PM
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'He thought he could help her, perhaps be her knight in shining armor.' And she drank heavily combined with mood swings. I have heard that from so many guys in support groups it's not funny. I always say, 'we married the same woman'. I'm glad the information is being pushed out more, now men need to avoid these traps and these women.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 03:54 AM
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These lads did a good job of fighting back. https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/jun/22/teenage-boys-wear-skirts-to-school-protest-no-shorts-uniform-policy
/r/MensRights10/11/24 01:27 AM
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'disagreeing with her credentialed analysis that Kamala Harris would win in a landslide' The epitome of the adage 'Those who can do, those who can't teach' I wonder if she'll ever acknowledge that she was wrong?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:20 PM
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Contact the venue and do the female playbook argument about how intimidated you were, felt you couldn't use the bathroom, pain caused by having to hold it etc etc. Remember sexual harassment is defined by the victim not the act, it's subjective. File a police report. Do an accurate negative review, warning men that you can't use the bathrooms privately If the system is there use it.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:48 PM
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Thought I'd find a reference to it: “The introduction of new roles in telehealth, which offers nurses the possibility of remote working, or using experienced nurses to on-board new graduates at family friendly times can also be used to support the workforce,” she said. 'family friendly times' When will feminists stop believing that women need to have children and a family to be fulfilled. They need to work long hours and not worry about kids, after all we have all been told they can freeze eggs.…
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:43 PM
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Essentially if you're a man don't work for Fieldfisher LLP. If you're a client don't employ Fieldfisher LLP, because they have demonstrated as individuals and as a company that they do not adhere to any ethical standards.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:32 PM
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Probably nothing 'Ramatu Banga, a partner at the firm who presided over the disciplinary hearing, concluded that even though the woman had given false evidence, that she did not do it deliberately.' A partner had her back the entire time.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:27 PM
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'good luck getting laid' - do they really not understand that sex can be brought like any other commodity? Sad maybe but true. Well it's one way to weed out the women who hate men I suppose. Interesting that they are advocating cuddling with their female friends, sounds like a noodle 'straight until wet'. Now can we please get an environmental tax on sex toys because they are really not good for the environment.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 01:10 PM
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If you haven't watched it, sit down with the 2005 film 'The Three Burials of Melquiades Estrada' Very much a male centric film.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:31 AM
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Enjoy life, fulfil your obligations and commitments, you have obligations to yourself as well. Choose and allow yourself to enjoy life.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 01:04 AM
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Keep off tiktok tbh. Try 'Cancelled' by Danny King. Fiction, funny but a great extrapolation of what will happen with females taking over. Danny King is a satirical writer (and films, tv series) and it's a very topical take on the modern feminist movement.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 10:42 PM
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You can't switch and go from US to worldwide and back again 🤣 What are you trying to do anyway? Abortion isn't really a 'mens rights' issue. It's reasonable to not force someone to not have an abortion. Only 18% of Americans identify as neither spiritual nor religious We pay tax dollars in America Yeah, now we are back to the US after going from US to UK to worldwide to US again. Only 18% of Americans identify as neither spiritual nor religious You may note I didn't say US but you do you. Compre…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 09:56 PM
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You did read and understand that I'm not from or Liv in the US?? It's bad enough flying through the place. actual policy Look up UK https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_the_United_Kingdom . Only 16% of people worldwide are non religious/atheist https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irreligion_in_the_United_Kingdom#:~:text=Geographical%20distribution,-Distribution%20of%20Irreligious&text=The%202021%20United%20Kingdom%20census%20recorded%20an%20irreligious%20population%20of,population%20in%20the%…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:41 PM
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I was more commenting on the second user's ignorance. The new administration will probably be the same as the old. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:06 PM
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How did your country resolve this? I think it's called civilization, having rational communications across political groups, most people are atheists and don't really care about this issue. person with the chance of getting pregnant has more responsibility in making sure it doesn't happen. No contraception method is 100% guaranteed (oral and anal only are not acceptable to most people long term). If you're expecting abstinence then good luck, hormones are very powerful.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 04:31 PM
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Looks like the idea of reflection is a good one, and would be a positive response by the democratic party. As for the second poster, they need to get an education on how the US government works. The roe v Wade was a federal blanket decision, and the striking down of Roe v Wade doesn't stop the states making their own decisions. Here is a good depiction of where abortion is legal in the US, based on state law. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2024/us/abortion-laws-roe-v-wade.html The second po…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 04:06 PM
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It's the UK This is how they want it to go. https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/sep/24/prison-isnt-working-for-women-labour-says-as-it-unveils-plans-for-alternatives 'Shabana Mahmood, the justice secretary, has declared that “prison isn’t working” for women as she announced a package of measures to reduce the number of females in the prison estate.'
/r/MensRights05/11/24 07:32 PM
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If you want to read a good satirical book that explores this type of behavior then try 'Cancelled' by Danny King Surprisingly accurate about modern day feminists and the route they are moving on. It's fiction, but very good.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 01:08 PM
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Some people believe the world is flat. Best to avoid the fringe conspiracies. Personally I prefer facts.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 12:28 PM
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Why is an Australian so focused on US politics? Or are you just trolling?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 12:29 PM
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The Daily Mail is often known as The Daily Fail It's a low end tabloid, runs stories such as too many immigrants etc etc. This story is typical for them, not as in male bashing, but in how many celebrities names and pictures they can get in the story
/r/MensRights30/10/24 11:51 AM
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Make and keep your own notes in the meeting as well in case you need it for reference.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 11:31 PM
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Whoops apologies, I had US everytime but that one. That's now been edited, North America replaced by US
/r/MensRights28/10/24 11:31 PM
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It seems to be a US thing tbh. I'm not sure if that's because the US seems to be a more religious country. Where I'm from abortion was legal from 1969, and it's up to 24 weeks on demand abortion. No one cares, and it's not seen as any form of issue. In US, they go crazy over it, and don't understand that their viewpoint is not representative of other countries. Only really 'man v women' issue in the US. Maybe back in 1969 they were passionate about it, but only the US in the western world cares …
/r/MensRights28/10/24 09:35 PM
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what makes you say they not up too date with modern feminist thinking and why would that hurt me The migration in thought away from just physical abuse to controlling behavior has been publicly pushed from at least 2009 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/26885935_A_Battered_Women%27s_Movement_Perspective_of_Coercive_Control If you have a friend who identifies as a feminist then they are at least 15 years out of date in feminist thinking. That they are then advocating behaviour that dependi…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 05:35 PM
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It would get classified as financial abuse, and could be used to portray the relationship as coercive and controlling. Depending on the country you are in you could face criminal prosecution. I'd be careful around that feminist, it appears that they are not up to date on modern feminist thinking and that lack of knowledge could cause you great harm. Here's a definition from a woman aids site on financial control Controlling all of the household income and keeping financial information a secret T…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 04:58 PM
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Keep copies of all communications Then go chat to a lawyer tbh, maybe the police first.
/r/MensRights25/10/24 07:33 PM
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I wonder if they would start with training and transiting the mid life men to trades out of the offices. I see more men who just hate offices and corporate culture.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 04:29 PM
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Do you mean this 'Florence Nightingale' who was not French nor medieval https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florence_Nightingale
/r/MensRights21/10/24 04:22 AM
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Living in a western country where prostitution is illegal I can phone a company and have an escort delivered to my door. It's a crazy world we live in, and the difference between what laws are on the books and which ones are enforced is huge.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 06:42 PM
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This is introducing a potentially sexist aspect. Nah, you see it in a lot of large companies, 'my partner is important, hence I am important', happens with their kids as well. Not sexist just privilege. she was smuggled out of the country. Yeah, the US wanted to protect her straight away. Just the usual US bs, when they have bases in your country. The smuggling is more 'we put them on a transport plane' rather than anything else. I don't know if you live in a country with US bases everywhere, bu…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 02:13 PM
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And that's how the US works with their client states. Her hubby was up there, she was up there, this is standard US protecting their own. Honestly if you are US, then you really will not have seen the resentment and in some cases anger towards the US government and their military in client states. The US government does a great job of radicalising the normal person in their client states by their behaviour. This is just one example of many.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:24 PM
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This sort of crime is the reason why the average person may despise the US state but still have no animosity towards the average US citizen. In this instance this woman also had a senior husband, and now we get into the realm of two tier justice which can be common in a hierarchical society (military). In this instance this is more indicative of how the US treats their client states. If you are in the US then I honestly don't expect you to understand that phenomenon. You claim this was sexist, w…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:55 PM
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They were working for US intelligence community. It's common practice for the US to protect their own. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Harry_Dunn
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:24 PM
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This one is also typical US policy when their service people kill locals overseas. Not really men's rights but US exceptionalism.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:19 PM
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Unless you're from the UK it's probably not good to comment on this. It's very different from US/N American racial and social viewpoints. You have to go right back to class, 1930's and before to start to get it. The US racial and social paradigms don't cross over.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 01:47 AM
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I wonder how old the poster is, sounds like they are going through a mid life crisis.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:18 PM
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You have to remember that Ukraine men can't leave Ukraine. They are stuck there. Russian men can leave their country, it's why it's not mentioned much about Russia. It's also bad for Ukraine women apparently, according to the New York Times War Shatters Dating Scene for Women in Ukraine https://www.nytimes.com/2024/08/04/world/europe/ukraine-war-dating.html I'm still not sure if that story is in jest though.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 02:58 AM
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https://www.newsweek.com/kamala-harris-campaign-tells-donald-trump-man-1934024
/r/MensRights03/08/24 01:52 PM
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To Trump apparently https://www.newsweek.com/kamala-harris-campaign-tells-donald-trump-man-1934024
/r/MensRights03/08/24 01:51 PM
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One person's paradise is another person's hell. Someone always complains.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 09:30 PM
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Sounds like you need to start by seeing if your state etc has a program for parental reconciliation. Depending on your local laws you'll probably be able to ask for a reduction in your support as you have suffered a material change in circumstances. But don't put in writing etc that you will change child support unless they do xyz. That's not a good image for the courts. You also need to prepare yourself that no matter how much money is available you may never have a relationship with your child…
/r/MensRights23/07/24 05:46 PM
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women attempt more I've always hated that line tbh. I once mentioned to a fairly hardcore feminist that maybe to even out the numbers they should give women lessons.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 02:06 PM
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Middle age women whose bedrooms are a mess, laundry not put away, dirty clothes scattered on the floor, never open their closet doors it can be scary. Women who don't realize they need to clean sex toys after use. Nearly burst out laughing watching a woman pick lint off a dildo before using it 🤣 Learning that the reason for oral sex is to check out their hygiene and learn never to be afraid to just walk away. There are some who realise that hot water is all that is required to clean vulva, but i…
/r/MensRights21/07/24 02:01 PM
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As a collective, what roles, rights, expectations do men have towards women? Only those prescribed by law and would like to be able to expect them to adhere to the law. Simple as that. You mention religion and culture but both of those are moving targets. Cultures change, religions schism and there are always new ones available. Now if you're one of my female relatives or friends then I'll do as much as I can to assist and support you. But that's an individual choice that I made to them, it's no…
/r/MensRights19/07/24 02:42 PM
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A lost of it is social media. The ability to say anything with little to no accountability. I mean look at my profile, could it be made up? Do I have alts? Oh the account is less than a year old, is it a bot or a throwaway? Is this several people posting? It's too easy to fire off and forget a silly comment with little to no chance it will come and bite you.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 11:26 PM
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Normally go for a walk, or power up something like Fallout 4 and just go wandering while I think about things.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 02:44 PM
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' and found them hidden by the women in underground tunnels.' You couldn't make this up tbh. I mean what has to go wrong in your brain to think this is acceptable? These women are the slime on a dog's testicles after it's dragged them over wet grass to cure that itchy feeling it got from last night's bitch. Speaking of which I hope they give these boys std testing.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 03:20 AM
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SAHM should have at least a part-time job 🤣 I tried doing that with mine tbh 🤣 In the end I just filed for divorce, worth it no matter what it ended up costing me.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:47 PM
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I've seen this video before, does anyone know any back story to it? What happened afterwards etc?
/r/MensRights10/07/24 03:08 AM
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recent development Not really, Ursula Le Guin's writings really drove it home to me, but it's something that I just now ignore in people's writing and tend to avoid female writers because of the way they write male characters. It came to the forefront with Barbara Kingsolver's 'Demon Copperhead'. The main character was more of a characterchure of an <insert name here> male figure. Reading it really brought to the forefront that here was another female writer portraying a male character as if the…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 08:28 PM
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U/doctorunderhill97 Ahhh 38 posts at least on this sub in the last 24 hrs. Congratulations you are a bot
/r/MensRights08/07/24 06:49 PM
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Really?? Straight to the personal attacks. Must be a day that ends with a Y <Sigh> Ok hit me with the books I should have read by a female author that accurately portrays male characters as would be recognized by men? Thanks in advance
/r/MensRights08/07/24 06:45 PM
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f it ever gets physical most often than not the odds are in ur favour In fantasy maybe, in real life no. If a woman starts hitting you, smashing your possessions, the best you can do is just record it and call the police. Then hope like hell they don't make a false allegation against you. Eleanor Williams is a real life example of how far some women can go. 'Eleanor Williams sparked protests in her Cumbrian home town of Barrow after posting photos on social media of injuries she said were from b…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 05:49 PM
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A large number of women really don’t understand beauty dynamics between men and women If you read any books from female authors, male characters are normally very shallow and superficial. I'm not talking about romance novels, I'm talking about standard fiction books. It appears that women do not have a clue about male motivations (which includes beauty dynamics). They write characters that are more reflective of stock male figures presented by the media in general rather than based in reality. N…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 05:35 PM
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The more of these I read the more it comes across that women are becoming men. Men are staying men, women are becoming men, the original 'women' is gone.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 11:28 AM
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That's odd, they are described as 'The court heard Ms De Sousa Abreu, a mother and a Portuguese national' Why is it so important that they are a 'mother'? Maybe their lawyer is already planning the 'mitigating circumstances', but surely they have more in their life than 'mother'.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 03:57 PM
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Glad to hear it and good luck 👍
/r/MensRights30/06/24 02:21 AM
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Get ahead of this, report it, file that complaint and also press for kidnapping. You may want to find a family lawyer, sounds like your kid shouldn't be left unsupervised with them either.
/r/MensRights30/06/24 02:11 AM
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Women and their concerns with gay men? According to a gay man I knew (now dead,) it's down to fear and rejection. Rejection Gay men don't want them, the most attractive gay man is not interested in them. They may think this guy is drop dead gorgeous but that man has no interest in them. Fear My friend used to work camps in the North, as they said the easiest men to get into bed were those who were married with kids. When this was mentioned at mixed sex events the women were intimidated and in so…
/r/MensRights29/06/24 01:25 PM
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And this quote really sums it up. It's all about the money. If there is no demand, create one. “There is a multi-billion dollar DEI industry both in the public and private sectors that provide ample opportunity for lucrative employment for what amounts to preferred ideological classes and enforcers of regime pieties,” Stepman told The Fix.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 06:43 PM
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Do you mean this one? https://www.cdc.gov/intimate-partner-violence/about/intimate-partner-violence-sexual-violence-and-stalking-among-men.html#:~:text=Being%20made%20to%20penetrate%20occurs,consciousness%2C%20or%20lack%20of%20awareness) Did a search using CDC made to penetrate As the search criteria.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 06:41 PM
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you are the reason these insane amounts are awarded. If you could please let me know where I said that, it would be helpful. Thanks
/r/MensRights26/06/24 08:40 PM
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Would you be okay with a woman If it fits the criteria of the local courts then yes If it is causing undue hardship to their partner then I wouldn't be ok with it. I don't hate my ex for what they did, I hate the system that supported them and allowed them to never suffer the consequences of their behaviour.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 12:38 PM
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Well if divorce courts are a tool of the patriarchy then feminists support them. Nothing like listening to women complain about having to pay alimony and child support to their ex husbands. Honestly I've also lost track of what is and isn't 'feminism' nowadays, it seems to vary from person to person.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 06:59 PM
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Next time ask them for examples. Throughout it was based on their perceptions and bias, it wasn't rooted in facts. If you can move it from perception to reality that always helps. But remember this is Reddit, at its core it's a social media site. Maybe suggest (assuming they are of age) to search Reddit's nsfw for CNC. That might really change their viewpoint and expand their thoughts.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 07:27 PM
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What I would like to see is high school kids getting to sit in at family court sessions, or even a 'social/whatever' class where they can see what's happens at family court. They could even do after action discussion on the merits of the cases they saw. Either the kids or their parents are going to see family court, might as well get a preview.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 12:18 AM
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Same as my recent DEI and even security in-house video training. All those who were in error were male, predominantly it was white men at wrong. All those who were 'right' and oddly enough most of the 'right' were white women.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:18 AM
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Ethically in my opinion no it's not right in any way. Legal, so long as there is no sexual contact I imagine it is. You could probably get them on 'coercive control' if there is a local law on that.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:39 PM
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There is a reason why so many men from single mother households end up in prison. Then look up mother-son spousification and yeah, just because you can pop a kid out doesn't mean you should tbh. A married, widowed, or single parent may treat their child as their spouse; this is known as spousification, and it occurs more often among single than married parents.[19] Mother–son spousification is more common than father–daughter spousification. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parentification#:~:tex…
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:17 PM
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Depends where you're from tbh. If you want to get the Tories out then it's tactical voting that you want. My views on labour were soured by Tony f'ing Blair, Starmer is untested simple as that. Personally I'll go for tactical voting to put the Tories out, but I have no expectations of anything getting better. It feels like there is no 'good' merely which one will use the most lube, especially if you're a man. Tactical voting is key, I suppose in my area it's reform. I was brought up on labour bu…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 02:02 PM
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Liberal Democrats never have a hope of winning. Out of 650 seats before dissolution they had 15. By comparison SNP had 43. Tories had 344 and Labour 205, Liberal Democrats aren't even king makers. Yes it's nice to see, but Lib Dems aren't a powerhouse. They may pick up a few from the people who normally vote Tory and won't vote Labour. They might hit 44 seats but their voters are mainly upset Tories and their voting pool will be shared with Reform. But tactical voting should help them though, th…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 01:44 PM
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It's what always worries me when there are calls to encourage the prosecution of SA accusations. The habit of overcharging suspects and then offering a plea deal if they admit guilt is a horrible reality. This 'guilty' plea is then used to justify the agenda. Unless you've been in this situation it's hard to understand how expensive it is to be 'not guilty', and not everyone can afford that.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:52 PM
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The US is awkward as there are regional variations. But this one is interesting https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php Divorce lawyers seem to publish lots of stats on their websites https://www.divorcelawyersformen.com/blog/the-true-facts-of-child-custody-for-men/#:~:text=The%20True%20Facts%20About%20Child,awarded%20child%20support%20than%20mothers Worthwhile checking family law lawyers websites in your area.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 02:59 AM
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And the article tells you all you need to know about its validity with this line '"There is no data on it, [but] I often hear about it clinically from clients — particularly mothers and wives, and also sisters where they might be the eldest daughter and the caring load is on them," So no data ... Not facts just feelings
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:09 AM
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'weaponised incompetence' When you do a job consistently so bad that the other person feels that you are deliberately doing it so poorly that they have no option but to do it themselves. Say for example a kid who never wants to do the dishes so they always do it badly in the hope that they never get asked to do it again.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:08 AM
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Will the last man to leave Australia please turn off the light.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:57 AM
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More likely bumper stickers saying 'I lost my man to an attractive Ukrainian escort'
/r/MensRights30/05/24 11:22 PM
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Obligatory Yes Prime Minister clip https://youtu.be/ahgjEjJkZks?si=DV8iP3_9O6ObifiJ
/r/MensRights27/05/24 06:02 PM
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According to their website they have released a new book. Sounds interesting and not relevant to lack of romance. Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia (NYU Press 2019)
/r/MensRights27/05/24 11:38 AM
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Ain't going to happen. There hasn't been national service since the 1950's. No-one wants it, the government can't afford it and the Army wants to keep its 'professional volunteer' status. The only reason they are mentioning it is because it helps encourage the 'send the lazy youth into the Army' brigade and would make the unemployment figures look good. That small body of water keeps more external enemies away than an overly large army. Not to mention since the 1960's etc going onwards nationali…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 01:07 AM
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Get ahead of this and file a police report emphatically stating that you didn't consent. Also make sure you dispose of your own used condoms in future.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 02:14 PM
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Sometimes I think 'A lie can travel around the world before the truth has got its boots on' At times it just seems all very N American tbh. The country where I currently live in, are there homophobic issues yes there are. But as a good friend who was gay put it, it was always easier to get the married straight men with kids into bed when they worked in remote work camps :-) I agree the homophobic comments seem to be religious based, not anything else. The female misandry and comments about lesbi…
/r/MensRights22/05/24 09:56 PM
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alone in thinking society functions because women prop everything up at home and work too!?!? Yes, I work in a male dominated industry, women do not prop us up. In fact most who come in quickly get themselves into admin roles, it's a waste of their education tbh. There are a few who can hack it who are great, but the majority just run to admin roles. At home, a single mother household has the worst outcome for children (education, crime etc). So no, they don't prop up, quite the opposite. When I…
/r/MensRights20/05/24 02:11 PM
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According to Statista (more reliable than not) Ukraine has 900,000 active soldiers. If 43,000 are female soldiers then that works out to roughly 4.7% Important for the individuals involved, but insignificant for the whole. That women are exempt from conscription as well and we are not seeing women pulling their weight, they need to try harder and pull their finger out. A lot of the rear end military jobs (drivers in particular) don't rely purely on physical strength, there are plenty of roles av…
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:58 PM
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Disney tbh. The fairytale princess idea.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 06:45 PM
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I imagine the rate of pregnancy of women still in Ukraine has shot up tbh. Nothing like 'pleading their belly' to avoid anything.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 04:55 PM
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I'd highly recommend Prof. Sam Vaknin works, and his YouTube lectures and video series are thought provoking. He's even got the professional qualifications and experience to talk about this 😃 His lecture on neo-feudalism is also a good watch.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 12:52 PM
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It's something I'd like them to see in school tbh. Watch some examples of family court (not drama, but normal behavior). If they could do some trips to the court and watch a session in action that would also be good. Odds are their parents went through the process and if they get married they will probably go through it too. Essentially just life skills.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 09:57 PM
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Yep divorce has got to the point where you have to have a strategy before you start. If you have children then they are part of that strategy. Having spent time around men who had their ex start divorcing them it's pretty clear by the consistent behavior that it was planned in advance. The work seems to be: Make sure you earn less than your spouse Work with groups such as women's shelters to plan your attack. Get a friendly psychologist on your side Empty any shared bank accounts Shock and awe A…
/r/MensRights12/05/24 02:18 PM
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Wooden and tiled floors. Sweep when needed, lightly mop when needed. Never understood why it's considered so much hard work.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 01:21 PM
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Yes he will Shane Seyer aged 12, other accounts mentioned in the article. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support
/r/MensRights11/05/24 02:56 PM
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Do they seem the same to you? Or does the historical imbalance of power make them seem different? Ask yourself what is the intent behind the actions. Is it exclusion or is it inclusion?. Integration or separation? In the male only scouting and male only clubs now accepting women we are seeing inclusion, openness and integration. In the female only spaces we are seeing segregation and separation. Remember Sally Miller Gearhart and their essay 'The Future–-If There Is One–-is Female'. Their 3 aims…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:54 PM
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That's interesting thank you. Something that would be worth teaching people at an early age to remove some of the idealism about sex, marriage and relationships.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 06:21 PM
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Are you combining that notion with how Humans are mammals who have sex for fun not just for procreation?
/r/MensRights09/05/24 06:19 PM
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Are they saying that female infidelity has been going on for such a long period of time that it has led to evolutional changes in male physiology?
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:56 PM
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Check out meetup.com and go to some events. Don't have high expectations, just go along to be with people.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:57 AM
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r/ Teacherswhorape R/ femalesexpredatornews Lots of information out there. It's not an epidemic, you're now just seeing it reported and acted upon. Looking at the people involved and especially the historic cases this has happened for decades but has never been fully reported on. The low punishment these people often get is astounding through. The fact it's now being brought up is good and nibbles away at the idea that women don't do this.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 11:25 AM
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It's easier to blame a third party or existential theory then accept responsibility for the consequences of your own behavior.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 01:48 PM
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Be polite, cover yourself and document everything
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:28 AM
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Just quit tbh and use the experience on your CV to get another job. If you can get to see a gp, then they can do the 'work stress' 'bad back's line to get a sick note while they look for another job. Seems like discrimination but you'll never prove it.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:13 PM
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As I said your stat model is fundamentally flawed. So you are not wrong to 'acknowledge those possible outcomes?' you are false even delusional in paying any credence to them as anything more than statistical outliers. Fix your model or accept that the concept has as little relevance to reality as a psychedelic drug trip.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 02:59 PM
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Honestly why would you fear someone in an abstract manner? You can be 'i must make a plan in case x,y,z happens'. But you can't just 'fear' unless you spend your entire life in fear. In which case I'd advise getting some help, living in constant fear is something that is not considered healthy.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:18 PM
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that statistically, women AND men both are in more danger with a dangerous human, than a dangerous bear. Bears are unlikely to attack unless provoked. Your stat model is faulty. You're not taking into account as a minimum: knowledge of bears percentage of time spent with human percentage of time spent with bears (What do you think, time spent within 300m of a bear, 100m of a bear?) type of bear sex of bear bear with or without young bear fattening up or bear fresh out foraging your location in r…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:13 PM
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Painful, but you just die Which type of bear? You realize there are several different types in N America alone? Look you know nothing about pain if the idea of being eaten alive is of no concern to you. That seems like torture, oh and there is no guarantee of an early death either. I think to me at least an animal taking chunks out of eg my buttocks and then having a break for 30 mins before it feels like coming back for another light snack counts as torture.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:33 AM
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Because communism sounds great on paper but doesn't work in practice. Because they have been brought up to believe that they are good, Ipsos facto what they believe is good. Look up the acolytes of extremist organizations they all tend to be young, intelligent and believe they are helping people. They also tend to come from middle class background or have had support growing up 'monetary support, good government support'. The Khmer Rouge are my goto best example of good intentions by well educat…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:22 AM
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I've always thought of incels as people who have drifted out of mainstream society and mainly could do with some mental health treatment. Depression seems to be an issue and I imagine being solely in an echo chamber doesn't help either. It's a bit like looking at regular posters on 2X. You know that detoxifying from that echo chamber combined with mental health treatment would work wonders. You can see how they start and how innocuous starts get warped. Very much like incels. It's in their perce…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:55 PM
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I think most men never really think about it unless the issues are thrust under their noses tbh.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:13 AM
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Don't know if you've been in this situation, but the way the cops do it is simple. They have far more resources then you They overcharge you and offer a plea deal if you just plead guilty to one charge. Your friends, work colleagues and even some of your family do the 'no smoke without fire' line. If you're in jail, you ain't earning money which makes it harder to fight. It's brutal, and this guy was very fortunate.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 04:07 AM
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That's just insane tbh. And what will the 'medical expenses' become? Whatever type of care the mother desires? Does it get backdated to the point of conception? Wow this could be exploited in so many ways.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:48 PM
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The problem is you still have the reputational and financial loss. False allegations destroy not just financially but also psychologically and your reputation. It really opens your eyes to how easy it is to get a false confession.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:50 PM
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In a democracy a politician's aim is to be elected. To do that they have to appeal to a large enough demographic. Women vote more than men and appear to be highly influenced by social media. It's not love of vag, it's love of power. The women are just a means to an end.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:47 PM
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I’m surprised they’re not sending the women too Nope they have a use for them
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:22 PM
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Yep, ejaculation doesn't equal orgasm. Everyone fakes orgasms at times, at the end of the day you just don't want to hurt your partners feelings.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:55 AM
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Ah this looks like how it will be resolved: 'She also pointed to Victoria introducing a new policy where selective co-ed high schools can now be subjected to a special measure to ensure gender balance'
/r/MensRights21/04/24 01:40 PM
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At times I really wish I lived in a location where I can just declare 'I'm female' without hormones etc. I suspect it would give me more options.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:54 AM
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institution of marriage Ok, which culture and time period. You seem to have stock phrases but don't understand the back story behind those phrases. Let's see the understanding.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 05:58 PM
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You really need to clarify which country and which time period you're talking about.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:57 PM
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'Before condoms, pills, STD checks and safe sex, having sex was a very risky endeavor for Women.' - Do you know when condoms were invented? The original was animal guy and then rubber (yep you have to wash them out). Human reproduction rate is really quite poor, compared to other mammals. Do you really believe that all women were pregnant from 14 to 45 before the 1960's or that those women only had sex once per baby? I'm not sure where you learned this but you need to read more and more widely. …
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:06 PM
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I really think you need to start thinking about your timeline. without getting pregnant or STDs, the culture changed as a result BS, abortion contraceptive has been around since Ancient Egyptian times if not longer, start here https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_birth_control What for you is feminism, and what would be it's 'starting' date for you? Feminism is the natural result of Women becoming independent, that's literally it. More likely due to urbanization and rural/urban ratios and …
/r/MensRights12/04/24 11:36 AM
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Next time ask them what type of bear remember if it's brown, lay down If it's black fight back If it's white goodnight
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:38 PM
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Out of sight, out of mind. They have probably forgotten that the other bills exist. Worthwhile do a board, located in the kitchen etc where the monthly bills, amount and date they go out, maybe use different colours to demonstrate who pays which bill. It can easily be explained as a way of keeping track of expenses, and serving as a visual reminder of when bills go out so they can plan accordingly. If excluding these Rugrats costs the husband is only paying a third it will show up. Also worth fi…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:05 PM
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clear that most women aren’t welcome in the space. I don't know anyone who would say that. I do know people who like a male only space, the conversation can then be male only. I can still recall a female hr person completely confused because she came across a couple of guys at work talking about vasectomies. It was men talking about a male topic and there was no need for this female hr person to be included. They weren't the one with a scalpel near their happy sack. more important than feminism?…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:56 AM
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I think if you check forums such as r/FemaleSexPredatorNews and r/FemaleSexPredatorInfo You'll see the narrative is changing. Could it be done better yes. But it does take time.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:05 AM
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But like, doesn’t every normal person also think this way? - Nope. Yall hate feminists - Nope. Feminism is a wide spectrum from 1st wave to 4th wave etc. A first wave feminist would have different views to a 4th wave feminist. I want equality, simple as that. People on here don’t care about women being assaulted - They do, but they have their own issues as well. seem to have been assaulted more than males - Which countries is that in and which males do you know? I had the sh!t kicked out of me a…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:00 AM
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Bless, the naivety. You haven't hung around a lot of women. 😂 You probably wouldn't cope with half my female relatives.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:08 PM
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The enemy of my enemy is my enemy's enemy, no more, no less The Seventy Maxims of Maximally Effective Mercenaries
/r/MensRights08/04/24 01:48 PM
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to experience another life as a part of yourself I'll mention that to women I know who have complained about a fetus using their bladder as a football 😂 Sadly the theoretical ideas of babies and children dissolves when met with reality. And don't forget meconium, that stuff is just vile. Motherhood and birth just really brings home how much humans are sacks of goo 🤢
/r/MensRights06/04/24 02:49 PM
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'mem still dominate women' - I really hate this phrase tbh. In the western world Women are dominated by men if they wish to be so. There is no automatic right to a relationship There is no automatic right to sex There is no automatic right to a family/children The inverse is also true. The individual makes that choice, own that decision. You can walk away from your family and also not have kids, you only get a relationship if you find someone who wants you. A woman in the western world has the f…
/r/MensRights06/04/24 02:12 PM
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You may enjoy Bettina Arndt https://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/
/r/MensRights05/04/24 12:20 AM
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"I was scared of losing contact with my children if she left,” And that is how they get you. I wish this guy all the best tbh.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 03:12 AM
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Honestly if they see a USMC tattoo they may also think that you are an online gamer who has gone too deep into fantasy land. This article has some interesting reasons why people are not interested in the military although the US Marines seem to be meeting their recruitment targets at least. https://usafacts.org/articles/military-recruitment-is-down/
/r/MensRights27/03/24 04:13 PM
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Equality Fatherland Socialism That just seems odd tbh. Interesting to see anyway. https://politiscales.party/results?YzA9NDMmZmVtaT00OCZjMT0zMyZwMT0yOSZwMD0zOCZzMT0yMSZzMD01NSZqMD0yNCZqMT00MCZlMD0zNiZlMT0zMSZtMT01Jm0wPTY0JmIwPTI2JmIxPTMzJnQxPTYwJnByYWc9MTAw
/r/MensRights26/03/24 06:23 PM
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She got 'life' in the UK, with minimum term being 15 years. She's 70 now, don't know if she'll reach 85. https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/mar/22/christine-rawle-devon-found-guilty-of-murdering-abusive-husband
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:07 PM
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The sad part is that the Russian men can leave Russia. It's just Ukrainian men who can't leave Ukraine.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 12:10 AM
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And apparently she's pregnant 'Alice police chief Eden Garcia also shared that when Charles was arrested she told officers she was pregnant.' Guess a kid will be paying child support for the next 18 years. https://www.kristv.com/news/local-news/in-your-neighborhood/nueces-county/agua-dulce/investigators-reveal-latest-details-on-arrest-of-former-agua-dulce-teacher
/r/MensRights21/03/24 06:02 PM
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Honestly I didn't realize it was that bad. That's abysmal. That Reddit ignores it is tbh sop. Hopefully it gets better for them. Sounds like the wildlife are no longer the most dangerous thing in Australia.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 05:25 PM
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This is an interesting example of an ongoing court action https://www.bbc.com/news/world-australia-68572280 Not the title phrasing btw. Although admitting discrimination their defense is 'The law - as written - allows for discrimination if "designed to promote equal opportunity for a group of people who are disadvantaged or have a special need because of a prescribed attribute".' If this discrimination is proven to be acceptable, then I would like to think it would not be used to actively discri…
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:01 PM
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With the rate of std/sti and the financial implications of having a child I'd advise all to wear protection tbh. Sure something can be treated, but herpes, Aids that may not be obvious. Even a yeast infection is not something you want. Wrap it when you pack it, and then flush it away.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 12:36 AM
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There is a good summary on Wikipedia concerning forced fatherhood. In many cases the father has then had to pay child support. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_fatherhood It can be scary out there
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:25 PM
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The topic is not really investigated, and the 'milf' idea is alive and well that it's 'good' for the male child. Also a woman being in the position they are in has greater access to children in a more private setting. Ironically social media, cell phone records help catch them (Brittany Zamora is the classic). Stereotypes such as a woman being 'safe' 'protective' helps keep it quiet. Laws that define rape as 'penis only' don't help either, it hides the issue. That we are seeing more investigatio…
/r/MensRights17/03/24 03:08 PM
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I just wish she'd stop using the threat of no sex or banishing me to the couch It's called coercive and controlling behavior. You may want to prepare for your departure. Here's a site, it's designed for 'women are you being abused in your relationship' but it has a good break down on what is abusive behavior in a relationship. See how many you can tick off what she does to you. https://www.thenextchapter.org.uk/information/what-is-domestic-abuse/types-of-abuse
/r/MensRights14/03/24 11:13 AM
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But turning individuals into rapists and abusers? Honestly I gave up trying to understand these conclusions after reading up on how Dungeons and Dragons were part of the satanic panic of the 1980's in the US. Sometimes it seems people just want to 'prove' their own personal viewpoint with no respect for reality.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 09:08 PM
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Certainly where I currently live being drunk means that you are unable to give consent (both male and female). In this case their best option would be to avoid the situation or claim they were SA'ed. As they were drunk they were also being SA'ed. However the person who puts the complaint in first is the 'victim'. Proactive defense is your friend tbh.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 05:00 PM
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A study based on 187 college age men from just one college. That's not exactly a representation of most men in that college let alone in that college town. It's an interesting study, but this is a wonderful paragraph In this study, undergraduate men viewed various types of pornography and then interacted with a female confederate. Exposure to rape myth congruent depictions increased the sexually suggestive behavior of lower IQ men only.Itwas theorized that more intelligent men are less likely to…
/r/MensRights12/03/24 12:42 PM
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True, I'll delete it and see if I can find a better
/r/MensRights11/03/24 11:52 PM
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The wife got 7.5 years out in 4 https://www.news.com.au/national/victoria/courts-law/jana-hooper-wife-jailed-over-vigilante-plot-against-husband-amid-pedophile-rumours/news-story/e2dc7754bba227596719cc5fdda38697
/r/MensRights11/03/24 12:46 PM
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It means that if you enter a marriage you have to prepare for exiting the marriage as well. You just have to make sure you make the complaint first to get the victim title.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 03:20 PM
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That's actually a pretty sweet deal tbh. I can certainly understand why they are doing that. So long as they keep their minds and bodies busy that is a much better option.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 09:27 PM
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It's an interesting stat, but what is more interesting is that there doesn't appear to be a desire to investigate what needs doing to provide an incentive to have these 7 million back in the workplace. The other unanswered question is, does it matter to the economy or is this just Mike Rowe thinking that men should be working because they are men? The article mentions that some of these 7 million are caregivers, some are upgrading skills, some are trying to join the military etc. There doesn't s…
/r/MensRights07/03/24 03:22 PM
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His mother abused him, It's a shame the mother was never held accountable for their actions. Instead their kid and those who interacted with that kid suffered instead.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 04:38 PM
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Sounds like they should also do articles aimed at men, telling men that they shouldn't marry women. It's bad for women by her standards so men shouldn't do it. For many years women have been told that they don't need men, hopefully advocates like this woman will start preaching to men that they don't need women. Equality and also equity as men will no longer be held to the standard of being a protector by centuries of 'patriachry'.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 01:40 PM
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Or they travel to Ghana https://mobile.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/NewsArchive/How-female-sex-tourists-are-exploiting-African-men-693149
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:11 PM
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The Boat - No females (mentions wives/girlfriends) 7 Samurai Apocalypse Now (Only if you watch the original theatrical release. The director's cut adds back in the French and the longer Playboy bunnies scenes) The warriors - Limited to one female character and one scene with women Same with: Full Metal Jacket Platoon Akira Kurosawa films in general tbh I'd recommend 'Ran' for warriors the battle scenes are overwhelming, there are female characters though. If you can find it, 'Ikuru' is an excell…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:16 AM
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This is the data for Canada https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/jr/jf-pf/2017/nov02.html It's dated (2017) but is the most recent I can find. Certainly in Canada the rate of shared custody is increasing. However the stats are still that female sole custody is >50% and male sole custody is <10% shared/split is 35% that's an actual discrimination in favor of women. I'd like to see shared custody to be over >50%, I can't see that happening as long as benevolent sexism and children being seen as a f…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 04:26 PM
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the magic bullet 'silver bullet' and yes it's standard. Essentially if you're having a divorce you have to get your complaint in first to get that victim status.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 02:40 PM
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Just do your best to keep the lines of communication open. Things may change in the next 5 years (or they may not), but pushing a teen can be counterproductive. Document everything, if you have access to a lawyer chat with them but at age 14, there isn't much you can do. Be as positive as you can, a lot of 14 year olds can be problematic no matter the home situation. It looks like you're doing the best you can. Also don't forget to give yourself some slack and don't forget to look after yourself…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:48 PM
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I've attended a few tbh and they seem to be lots of 'I never looked at my vagina before' and by looking I feel empowered. The question I have is like 'Did you never masturbate', 'Why did you believe you shouldn't'. The answer seems to be they felt inhibited by society. But since suffragettes were using bombs in 1912 I'm not sure how a woman born since the 1970's can justify not knowing their own genitals. Authors like Nancy Friday were writing in the early 1970's, why did these women not know th…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:34 PM
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'Yet the initial step, which is possibly the hardest step for a man, is admitting the abuse exists. Once this hurdle is cleared, then change can begin.' - And that is the real take away tbh. Educate that people understand this can happen to them, recognise it and understand how to get out.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:40 PM
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One of the theories behind alimony is to allow the party receiving it to continue their lifestyle while they transition to a new unmarried state. Not alimony for life, but a temporary aid during a transition. But that's the theory in a system with a no fault divorce system. The theory sounds good, it's the practice that is not so good.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 01:06 AM
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The first test cases will decide how it's implemented. It could also help men who have controlling and coercive partners. Ie their finances are controlled, their social circle and friendships are controlled. It's too early to tell and I would reiterate to everyone (men and women) who are being coerced and controlled by a spouse to document it. If this law passes it would help your case a lot. You still have the hurdle of the cops taking you seriously but it helps to be able to have it documented…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 06:02 PM
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20th-21st century American culture That's not a consistent culture across it's entire geography. It's not a monoculture in that time period or that geographical area. It's a variety of different cultures, not a culture. Try and define your baseline culture please. In your example you'd have a gig Uber driver in New York fob living in the same culture as an Elder in say Church of later day Saints in Utah. That's just today, how similar would they have been 30 years ago which your time scale inclu…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 02:49 AM
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Do you want me to say this "age" instead of "culture?" Well then I would say 'which age'. Define your terms. What is your baseline for culture that you are going to balance your theory on?
/r/MensRights08/02/24 02:37 AM
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Thanks for confirming my point! Actually the femcels started in 1997 well before the MRM and 4th wave feminism as well. Sorry to burst your bubble. In fact the woman who started femcel in 1997 (in Toronto) created a web site for involuntary celibacy called a friendly space that was meant to appeal to both men and women. That both men and women do involuntary celibacy is nothing new. We are simply talking about it more. Incidentally 'discipled by the culture' we are not talking Iain M Banks here.…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 02:18 AM
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Go touch grass get some head space. Who gets asked what type of woman you're into at work....🤣🤣 Btw this might amuse you https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-modern-heart/202211/how-do-femcels-and-incels-differ
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:59 AM
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It's worthwhile documenting it, and also if you have a counselor etc (not a marriage counselor) but one that you can see by yourself mention it to them. Essentially create a document trail. But it isn't normal, and you should not be required to live in a toxic environment. Just document it in case it's needed down the line.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 09:57 PM
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Yep fully agree. Strangely enough the longer I spent there (particularly just sat in the back of the court watching and learning), the more and more of a game it appears to be. Certainly need to calmly define your 'must have' goals and 'stretch' goals going in. If I was more clever I think it could be flow charted quite well. I wish they took high school kids to a family court as part of a class project tbh just to learn what it's like. I mean most of them will end up there at some point anyway.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 03:43 PM
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An emotional man is often interpreted as being potentially violent, or unpredictable in nature. The standard female position is often that the man was abusive, controlling, violent etc. if the guy appears emotional then they are playing into the opposing party's narrative. Essentially proving the other party's case. It's good advice for any legal process tbh, be prepared, calm and collected. You want the judge to see them at their worst. If you appear calm, cool and collected it can help prompt …
/r/MensRights07/02/24 01:38 PM
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Lawyer up. Depends on the location and local laws etc. Some places even if you're not the father but have been fulfilling the role of father you have to pay. Other places if you didn't contest it in the first year you still have to pay. Get legal advice.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 02:27 PM
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Get legal advice, document everything, don't post anything on social media. Good luck 🤞
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:11 AM
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Highly recommend them, they are a great group.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:09 AM
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Well as soon as scripture is mentioned then I'm afraid we'll have to agree to disagree. Enjoy
/r/MensRights04/02/24 10:21 PM
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If we’re evaluating relationships based on how we evaluate business products like a house or car How we evaluate them is irrelevant tbh. They are a legal contract, simple as that with legal penalties to withdraw from that contract. robbed you of the possibility of. I'm not a grumpy person bitter from the world believe me. I'm actually a very happy person who enjoys life and considers myself fortunate in life. I've had the privilege of seeing and doing things that few people have. I have my own p…
/r/MensRights04/02/24 05:12 PM
4

It's more what people can afford. I went all in, borrowed money from anywhere and ran up huge debts resulting in bankruptcy to clear my name. But I had (don't now) a good paying job and an excellent credit rating. Some people don't have that opportunity, I consider myself lucky to have that opportunity and to be not guilty all counts. But it still took over 4 years of fighting against and in the process destroyed my career, friendships etc. My accuser is now someone whose supporters say they wer…
/r/MensRights04/02/24 04:35 PM
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Multi century lag, you'd really need to look at social history tbh. White collar is seen as more productive because the perception is that there is less physical labour involved. Physical labour is associated with poor body odor, dirty clothes, dirty work environment and the work being simpler. White collar is portrayed as more intellectual, cleaner, affluent and more prestigious when the parents show off to the neighbours. That university/college is easy to get into, is a more recent phenomenon…
/r/MensRights04/02/24 04:29 PM
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Then marriage just means a very high rate of divorce tbh. Last time I looked at the stats it's roughly 50/50 chance of divorce. Would you buy a house, invest everything into a company knowing there is a 50% chance of failure? Until people see or experience this situation they may be intellectually aware but they are not emotionally aware of what can happen.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 04:16 PM
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That takes time and money and most defendants don't have unlimited money. The police are interested in finding evidence that supports their case, they are not interested in challenging that evidence. From their point of view challenging evidence is done in court.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 04:10 PM
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Historic association between blue collar work being bad and white collar being good. Standard classiest idea tbh.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 03:45 PM
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Agree entirely, it's business communications, those soft skills do actually matter. Do communication courses and use it.
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:08 PM
2

It's pre WW2 Spanish civil war. A quick read of the wiki page will give some context and then just read (or listen there are audiobooks available).
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:33 PM
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Sit down and start with 'Homage to Catalonia'. The experience really opened his eyes to the media and how parties that are 'on the same side' will ruin each other. It really is an eradication of innocence. His books and more importantly his essays are far more than 'anti-'
/r/MensRights31/01/24 09:11 PM
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