Yeah not gonna cut her off for it. It’s way back in the past for her and he screwed her up emotionally Bc of it. She hasn’t done anything super sexual since afaik
If anything it hurts your chances, bro. The probability that you receive a good response is low. You have a better chance of cold approaching in public than trying to meet through insta first. Still both super low chances. There’s already tons of guys doing the same thing on her insta