Smergmerg432 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Every woman eventually gets to experience what’s like to be a man (if she lives long enough) Making a lot of assumptions here starting with the assumption men wanted to have sex with the woman in question. No sex wanted? Suddenly treated worse than all the other men combined. Try getting a job when people take one look at you and decide you’re an idiot. Then there’s the speech patterns. Sound like a bimbo? Must be a bimbo! Couldn’t possibly be stereotypes are outdated, right? Sucks feeling like there’s no one there for you. If that’s how you’re feeling now, let us know; we can come up w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 02:05 AM
0	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Not just using him for sex? Interested in conversation first?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 10:56 PM
1	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" Women like men with big muscles. You get me a dorky journalist who only writes “woke” articles— I still react even better if he’s built like an HVAC technician. (Assuming he’s one of the poor souls stuck lugging AC units everywhere; doesn’t just build character y’all). Physical attraction doesn’t have anything to do with political leaning. People like what they like. People may be more inclined to admit they like a certain type based on whether they see other people doing the same, or may feel p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 02:10 AM
2	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" Algorithms got you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 06:53 PM
9	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. We need more parties where singles are expected to approach each other. But they don’t take place in a loud club at midnight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 01:19 AM
6	I don't understand why men like "night clubs" for finding women I have a conspiracy theory that while some people have had one night stand from a club or maybe two if they’re go getters, the vast majority are from more navigable situations	/r/seduction	27/12/25 07:23 AM
8	How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink? Yess so true! The old assumption the submissive isn’t the one in control is what makes society think asking for what you want during sex will get you judged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 04:01 PM
-1	How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink? Why does this not have more upvotes?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 04:00 PM
3	How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink? I’ve found humiliating lights up the same reward systems for me as dominating. You have to dominate to humiliate well, because they only feel humiliated by (at least mental) domination. Only done this twice, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 04:00 PM
16	How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink? Probably because you’re a stranger and it takes a bit longer for people to talk about this in real life. How often have you asked the women around you their preferences in a friendly setting? That’d be weird, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 03:58 PM
2	At what age people should become first time parents? Depends on the person. I do envy people who had kids younger because you have more energy and you bounce back physically better. But I think those that have kids too young miss out on a lot of opportunity to grow that gets pushed aside once you’re full time caring for a dependent. ~defective woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 12:01 AM
8	Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach. So, I certainly feel safer knowing « hey, this person is friends with my friend—so they can’t be that bad » but actually you’re statistically correct: most women are assaulted by men they have known for some time, indicating the random dude on the train really may be safer than your partner. But even on a 4th tinder date, I remember: we were at his house, alone. He’s 8 inches taller than me and can literally shift his truck with his hulk (like, I witnessed this a few months later) and the house …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 01:13 AM
0	Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths. Well said! Definitely agree!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 05:43 AM
-1	Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choices For me I’m just genuinely not attracted to many men? If a man proves to be a fundamentally amazing human being sure I’d be into that. But we’re all just people —expecting an amazing character is not fair on him—so I do need some level of physical attraction. And in the United States all the men look like babies because they got proper nourishment as children and they’re responsible about sun exposure and skincare. It’s like this weird catch 22. Ie do you want to avoid skin cancer or seem attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 05:10 PM
1	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men Reads like me talking about men. People are enjoying independence but forgetting a relationship takes compromise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 01:24 AM
3	They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married. Of course people are happier if they have love and companionship! But i am also happier ensuring financial stability instead of blindly tying myself to someone who isn’t a good human being, then becoming financially dependent on them. Looking after your own finances just makes for happier humans period. And, since you can never fully know a person, and likelihood is you’ll be happier being alone than being with the wrong person, the people who claim people can be happier alone are right. And the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 01:23 AM
1	Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice. People always said that about me too!! Then I became unlucky in love and now people perceive me as tough. So, you are giving off good vibes because you are successful; people just sometimes don’t realize that’s what they’re interpreting.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 09:56 PM
2	If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for? Slutty is seeing what someone else finds to be objectively pretty, but being capable of sexual attraction to the prettiness. So what you see as slutty, the woman sees as objectively lovely looking. Unless she’s a lesbian—but even then I doubt there are very many who can claim the same fame as Narcissus (it seems to be a bit of a deal breaker to actual sexual interest when the person in the mirror is you).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 07:58 PM
–	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society I think the Me Too movement were very needed. Watching early 2000s movies, they now seem so rapey. But people demonizing allies is a problem, yes. So the origin was good—random assholes ruined things. Half agree with you. But I don’t think demonizing allies wouldn’t have happened without the Me Too movement existing. Jerks will be jerks. So I’m glad it happened. It was needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:16 PM
1	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much I think the problem is in your point 3: « men are improving based on what women respond to on average » When women say they wish the person they are dating would step up, they are saying they wish that person would look at them as an individual and respect their own individual wants and needs. Believing women as a group just want x,y, and z is precisely the problem you claim men are « improving » away from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 02:28 AM
7	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim I’ve lost two jobs because managers got erections every time they were around me. They started gossip chains—which women partook in. I was also looked down on in a school in the Deep South, when given a week while coworkers were given 3 months to achieve the same objectives. Unsure if that started as sexism, but sexism was influential as the men gossiped about me and targeted me to first flirt with then hate when I didn’t reciprocate beyond professionalism. All this to say, women still face diff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 01:13 AM
1	Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR Love Because I feel more comfortable around the guy the more I know him and assume that our love is built on more than looks. I do try to do sexy fun nights too sometimes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 12:25 AM
–	The hypocrisy of women I agree we need to focus on the issues that caused people to vote. Why did women vote against the best interests of those with similar bodily needs? Can we create a party or candidate that both aids unfair taxation and poverty levels AND ensures the safety of those at the margins (or not so at the margins) of society? It seems very doable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 10:45 PM
2	The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandry State paying child support sounds like increased taxis to me. If I stay abstinent so I don’t have to pay child support, I don’t want to be stuck forking over more money for someone else’s poor decision when it came to dildo alternatives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 09:31 PM
2	No one, not even women, can actually read the room properly Just don’t try it in the workplace. We’re there to work. Making drama about being attracted to us and interested is disastrous for our career and unfair. I was fired because men banded together and ran a smear campaign on me after I did not reciprocate their friend’s interest. They complained I was overly prudish, when I had not meant to be prudish or judgmental at all. I simply didn’t want to flirt with him in front of children. Do not assume any sexual potential with anyone at work. It is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 10:24 PM
10	Why do you find dating hard? Replace “date idea” with “anal” and yup my experience too	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:14 AM
10	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? I think that’s the fear is sex will begin to be seen as a duty. I’m all for going from neutral to interested as my partner convinces me to have sex. But the minute someone starts talking like this I run as far away as possible. This is the attitude that leads to marital rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 12:15 AM
0	Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind. No men are attractive based on physical characteristics. If they don’t start out attractive some stupid cocky persona helps no one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 03:13 AM
5	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology If you are frightened by that sort of home grown terrorism you have no idea what evils people can succumb to. Honor killings in India. Forced child brides. Afghani women dying from inadequate receipt of care during child birth—easily avoidable death and cruelty. These are the worries and fears that suffragettes fought to eliminate. I don’t condone exploding buildings. But those who made America shed blood for their ideals and I do stand with them to a point: give me liberty or give me death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:55 AM
3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Red pill is far closer to hamas than suffragettes ever were. Excellently put. This rising tide of fascism will not end once it has attempted subjecting women. Thank you for being a voice of reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:51 AM
8	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology It’s a sad truth that you can value someone’s beliefs and their championed ideals and dislike their methods. Do you like having a weekend? The capacity to unionize? Some say in government? Many true ideals have been born of terrible violence. It does not make the violence excusable. But the violence cannot tarnish the ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:50 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Ancient Egypt study: women only inherited the throne when no male heirs were left. This only occurred during times of instability. Note how they almost always mark the end of a dynasty. The resulting need for quelling rebellion would stem from a) perception they were lesser therefore easier to conquer b) the factors that led to the instability that placed them on the throne in the first place. I would also like to discuss Queen Elizabeth of England. This golden age was considered one of explorat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:45 AM
0	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology I hate that guys think they have to be high value. He is already high value! Especially if he still talks to his mom and sister and confides in them. Hope you guys are doing ok. My condolences about your father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:41 AM
-2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Isn’t sleeping around the opposite of red pill ideology? Or am I getting tradwife mixed up with red pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:39 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology It is not. Course, feminism or the desire to be treated as equal or human while also a woman has been around for a while too—but yeah statutes on marital rape are horrifyingly recent. But I’m sure we’re all heard stories about how even until recently domestic violence was also overlooked. Still is sometimes course…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:39 AM
0	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Why is feminism associated here with being a hoe? Is the idea women should not be allowed to have the same sexual opportunities as men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:37 AM
3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Wait I don’t understand you had to read a book to realize you should be allowed to do things for yourself without worrying about a partner’s needs and wants? That just sounds like you’re not codependent and have healthy boundaries. Y’all both cook and clean 50/50? That’s perfect!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:36 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology But to be able to vote is a privilege for all people. It ought to be a human right. But chaos is easy enough to recreate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:34 AM
-3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Yeah this is the same thought process that makes me hate all men as rapists who only see women as meat they can fuck and then leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:33 AM
13	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology I’ve never heard of another woman believing women shouldn’t vote. I honestly don’t think this comment has been posted in truth and goodwill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:32 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology I’m for drafting both. It’s sexist not to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 04:30 AM
2	The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women. Guys I know lower their standards a lot when they’re horny. But they’re also 40 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 03:54 AM
1	Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average men Right: if a lady finds someone hot she wants to have sex with them all the time. But for horrific reasons unknown to me men who are more masculine than me come few and far between (i just want like… slightly less curves?) I’ve tried kind of middle of the road luke warm attraction sex and it sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 07:46 PM
1	Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them? I’m turned off if I’m attracted to the guy. I’ll get over it because: you have to do this in case she’s not attracted! That would be so much worse! It’s like dipping your toes in. And being consensual about it :) so yeah, it might feel a touch awkward. But it’s a first kiss it’s supposed to be a bit awkward. More awkward would be just going for her face when she’s politely trying to run down the clock without leaving mid date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 07:43 PM
3	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? When guys include me in this goofy play I fall head over heels. I second it might not be this!	/r/seduction	22/07/24 12:21 PM
5	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? This one tracks with my experience—good compromise! OP don’t listen to the others saying you have to mask part of yourself. If you’re making jokes that would make a woman uncomfortable that might be a part of you that needs to stop forever (like making fun of people for being born with downs syndrome—you’d want that part to go away unless it was a joke you could share with someone with downs, right?) but If it’s just you being innocuous and funny I have learned 2 things: either you fake it and t…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 12:20 PM
8	The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's part Ive met attractive « nice guys ». The trope means they’re subtly pushy and expect something back for their kindness. If someone is genuinely nice but there’s a lack of sexual attraction I tend to fade into an offer for friendship, which I understand they may not be comfortable taking me up on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 03:05 PM
5	Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men? Women’s right to vote is a need. Without being able to have a say in government, the individual’s needs are overlooked. Democracy itself is a great need. The world should not forget this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 10:46 AM
6	The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional. Women’s intuition is just logic. If a man makes sexist remarks, dates are gonna notice the sexism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 08:53 PM
0	Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills. If you have autism, you can adapt simply to make your life slightly better. Socialization is not one size fits all. It’s about putting yourself out there and making the attempt enough you find like minded people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 08:52 PM
0	Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypes I like this :) awesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 02:10 AM
2	Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationship Oof men do this to me too. They only like me as long as I cater to what they thought I was—or the sides of me they prefer! Have a thought that’s out of line? Those fuckers sulk for days. It makes it so you can’t have a conversation with them. They literally become a dildo. Yeah, it sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 05:54 AM
1	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy Agrée with it all but the claim women created it. Can’t help others’ reactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 09:56 PM
1	How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections? Can you not count the dating apps? If it helps, average woman here: I get a lot of DMs, and the majority of them ghost. So even if you feel you’re getting an over proportional amount of rejections, you’re not—they’re just of a different type. I’d take a break from online dating for a while if this is bothering you. In real life, there simply aren’t that many opportunities to ask someone out romantically. If there are in your life—that’s your problem: you’re asking at an inappropriate time, or be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:49 PM
1	The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t like Wait this happens to me all the time. It happens more with guys who have something to be insecure about. And they comment on it! “Oh your friend has ‘crazy eyes’! I’d never date her!” I… didn’t know we were going to be discussing whether my friends were dateable. And now I’m scared to flaire my eyes too wide. Apparently that’s a turn off! I think it’s called negging?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 01:27 PM
9	Why are so many dudes whipped? Perfect analysis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 09:39 PM
8	The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless) It’s all worthless—advice can’t be tailored to specifics. But the advice given might boost chances, because it’s based on probability. Probability is that a lady might find a guy with muscles more attractive than a guy without muscles. So if you want the odds in your favor, you exercise. But that doesn’t mean it’s a sure thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:36 PM
2	The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless) Lot of these guys didn’t have girlfriends though…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:35 PM
31	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. Yup; gotta meet half way. And it’s so easy to impose expectations on others one then doesn’t follow him or her self. Throw in cultural conditioning of what is expected from a partner and strange things can occur.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:30 PM
7	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. 100% agree —problem comes in goal post shifts people don’t realize they’re doing. Had a coworker tell me I was always argumentative; when he gave advice, “all I had to do was say yes!” I’m not sure if he meant he just wanted me to cave and do what he thought was best (which would have very negatively impacted quite a few people) or if he just didn’t want me to actually engage him by being like “wait no, what we should do—!” I had considered him my friend, so I wasn’t going to say one thing than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 11:27 PM
2	Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry. Seems to be some confusion between adopting female behavior and ideology that aids women. I’ve heard of the joke about guys who pay lip service to ideas women are equal etc. as long as you don’t go back on your word or ever act on your actual beliefs, that works for me. You have learned to tame the ego. Never heard of guys doing feminine characteristics as a way to attract women. Does this come from a very 1950s mindset and include men who can cook? Because that is attractive. It’s also the only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 04:12 AM
–	How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable? Is it true for the majority, though? Or has some weird click bait trend gotten people to assume the average woman doesn’t understand women from 18-30 have many DMs to choose from etc? Only pushback I have to that idea is that while women have more people to choose from, they often must put themselves in situations that could be dangerous for them. Every boyfriend I’ve ever had, I have had the initial “ok if he kills me i should let a friend know where to find the body” phase. And it’s obviously …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 04:02 PM
0	Which is harder? Stay-at-home Parent? Or sole-provider for a family? I think sole provider is more important and SAHP is more depressing. So, both hard in different ways that can’t be compared?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 12:40 AM
6	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. I have had guys who make it impossible for me to get to know them, though I hear from other sources they are attracted to me. At a certain point in time, I get fed up carrying the weight of starting every conversation and overcoming every awkward silence. I have anxiety disorders myself, undisclosed. So I could use a little help. This might be a counter to some replies. As in, after a while I do walk away though interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:23 PM
1	"50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it? Marriage rates are down?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:40 PM
-4	Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached? It simulates the excitement of having routine orgasms :)	/r/seduction	23/03/24 11:32 PM
2	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner This sounds like a cool idea! I would do it, especially if your parents are fine with helping out occasionally. It’s going to be the most difficult thing you’ve ever done in your life and you will get 2 hours of sleep sometimes. But with good support groups, and if you really want kids, that sounds like an awesome reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:05 PM
1	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? Attraction comes first. Then you also have to have a good personality. Same for guys, eventually/I hope?! You don’t want to have sex with someone you’re not attracted to. But even if you’re attracted to them, they have to be a pseudo-decent human being to you, right? Friends are people you’re not sexually attracted to. That’s all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 07:51 PM
1	Is a One Night Stand the truest form of a woman showing Burning Sexual Desire? Oh absolutely the opposite. One night stand is just a throwaway to add to numbers and boost ego. Burning sexual desire comes from the intensity with which one performs. That can only come, in my experience, from knowing the person a bit better. Even on a mechanical level, it’s easier to be in the moment and desirous if there’s less guessing as to what will feel best for the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 05:03 PM
–	Women tell guys to not be fkboys, but fkboys are the first people they message to hookup/sext If you want to be a human dildo you can be a fuckboy. I kind of like the idea of a group of people who are safe enough to have one night stands with, responsible adults—who get rewarded for being respectful in a situation where everyone’s on the same page. They get sex, women get sex. All is well! But at the end of the day both partners are just sex objects in that relationship. I’m not saying that’s bad! It’s its own reward. But eventually people usually want something more than casual sex. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 01:26 AM
0	The Blue Pill didn't lie to you I used to only attract people who I didn’t consider attractive. I realized it was my anxiety and also a bit of luck: where I lived, I didn’t have access to a lot of attractive men. When I was around attractive men, I started practicing just talking to them like normal, despite butterflies. It helped me date attractive men! Despite being a woman, I was in the same boat as the men you have said are frustrated. So there must be some similarity between us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 09:08 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Guys do this too. And then they won’t even pretend to be friendly. Just instantaneous cut. Can be very detrimental for work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 08:47 PM
1	Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf? Where are all these guys? I dare to talk for more than a sentence I get men interrupting me to tell me I’m wrong then explaining what I had just been trying to convey. I need to move out of the south yall… Obviously, abusive is bad either way. I haven’t met many couples like this but I can think of one and in that one the woman organized most life events like when to get supper and birthday parties so the guy kind of got used to her expecting to have more of a say in the stuff she organized. And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 11:35 PM
1	Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get bored I’m turned on by guys being kind. But they have to be naturally attractive to begin with. I have this horrible conspiracy theory that testosterone both makes one more attractive and meaner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 04:07 AM
2	Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again? That’s awesome you’d like that! It may be because you know this is an option and not something forced upon you. Or you have never seen the horrors of being unable to escape traditional marriage. I would make sure you cultivate a skill set in school and have some financial security set aside that no one can ever take away from you and then I would find the guy of your dreams and become a SAHM!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 04:03 AM
0	Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters? More naturally inclined to be poly… you’re making me wanna move to Brazil! (Just kidding) Hopefully ethical nonmonogamy is what we’ll see increasing soon :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 09:46 PM
2	Men don't take responsibility either, and often bludgeon ourselves with our own wall. The number of men who have somehow managed to effectively cock block themselves when I wanted to get to know them better is too damn high! (Caution: may be ugly and undesirable. Having lived in own skin do have a feeling some of these were genuine accidents)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 12:15 AM
2	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists Naw I’ve only dumped two people. One, yes, because I realized I wasn’t sexually attracted to him and didn’t want to waste his time. One because he said he thought women were inherently inferior to men. Like flat out. On the fourth date. That one was more of a “okkkayyyy this has been nice, bye now forever.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:49 PM
1	With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation. Tracks with my experience. I start out goofy and open. They either mansplain I am wrong or insult me straight up. Or they are turned off by what they see as “childish”—so then I change tactics and get quieter. There’s also this phenomenon where when I actually say what I’m thinking they take that as offensive and get mad at me. So if my opinion differs on a topic, they see that as an affront. So then I don’t offer my opinion. Vs in normal conversations (with men and women both) it’s usual to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:58 PM
1	Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"? …no. Thinking so leads to assuming being kind to someone means we think they’re attractive. That’s a danger in itself. Women can be nice to people they find unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 08:45 PM
14	Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in? I run up my body count with guys I’m not 100% attracted to. It’s a fling! That being said, if you are extremely attracted to that girl you classify as a 10 I might not risk losing out by having a fling with someone you’re not as interested in. As long as you’re on the same page with others, I go for it!	/r/seduction	13/07/23 09:21 PM
3	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women Oh shit this made me feel better; thank you :) (am too ugly/lazy for relationship)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 09:01 PM
7	CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman. Having this same problem as a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 01:20 AM
0	Causing arousal isn’t the same thing as causing happiness/enjoyment in a relationship Speaking from personal experience there are some people out there who genuinely find the responsible, quiet kindness of a guy washing dishes without expecting anything in return to be the most arousing narcotic ever experienced (me. I’m the people. That shit gets you laid guys I promise!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 05:40 PM
3	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? I have always been friendzoned!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 03:24 AM
2	Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe him Can we go into the specifics of what it is about having autism that turns the other sex off (asking for a friend. The friend is me.) Someone said their friend has difficulty not talking about facts! That is me. What else is there to talk about? I don’t like gossip, and I find personal updates boring after a few minutes. I can talk to girls just fine about cosmetic things like bras or favorite ways of wearing hair. Can someone give advice on different styles of conversation to practice? I tend to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 09:02 PM
3	Sexual Economics Theory This implies a woman’s quality degrades the more relationships she has. Can we quantify what quality we are measuring? What is a quality that varies with the number of relationships a woman has? Is it her attitude? Men seem to grow slightly more bitter, yet experienced (and therefore forgiving) as they go through life as well. Is it the tightness of her genitalia? Because that would be scientifically inaccurate: 50 times with the same person produces the same results. Is it the ability of a man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 05:34 AM
5	Do women have their own version of “self improvement”? We’re taught from early childhood to be quiet and demure at least where I’m from. Society conditions us to acquiesce by making it blatantly obvious people hate us if we stick up for ourselves… or does my workplace just really really suck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 02:17 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? Jesus Christ how is this not everyone’s dream? Stay at home spouse ftw—as long as I actually had time to foster interests	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 10:29 PM
2	Do girls usually assume the guy they're dating (or guys in general) can easily get casual sex? I assume that if they’re attractive and asking if I’d like casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 07:24 PM
1	There is no such thing as 'winning over a girl'. She either likes you or doesn't. Is the same true for guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 06:55 PM
0	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating I’ve noticed this too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 01:11 AM
5	People on the spectrum, what are the things you do that turn the opposite sex off? My voice’s pitch and general intonation are a turnoff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 10:16 PM
1	CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do? Sad they call a listening service; I wonder if there’s some cultural thing where they don’t feel as open?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 11:44 PM
1	Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you? I want to know if I should risk worrying about getting pregnant or if this person isn’t worth it and wouldn’t be there for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 04:27 AM
10	[CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most men As an autistic woman please do not do anything with plausibility deniability around me I simply won’t notice a damn thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:31 PM
1	I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode. Waait I’m too literal for this I just get irritated; so make sure to signal its all a joke!	/r/seduction	24/10/22 05:17 AM
1	I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode. Woman here (or guy stuck in woman’s body for context if you read my previous posts) going to try this—thank you! Do you think it’ll work on guys?	/r/seduction	24/10/22 05:16 AM
1	Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts? I can only get an orgasm when a guy’s on top too; but the pace needs to be slower than a lot of guys seem to realize? We must be doing something wrong with that reverse cowgirl bullshit; I know the first time I tried it I didn’t realize I needed to be resting on my knees!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 10:38 PM
9	Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts? Are… you kidding? I just want one guy to make me orgasm better than I can get myself to orgasm. Half my fault in that I don’t know how to communicate how to do that but interesting insight into realities of sex for some women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 03:51 AM
8	A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give? As a late bloomer this is the truth!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 12:46 AM
1	Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships? This… this is how it is for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 11:44 PM
–	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Wait do you have stats to back the fact men are worse off than women in this case? I’m a 30+ hermit outcast too; and I know men aren’t earning less than women, although the wage gap is lower than it’s ever been! (Yay equality)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 02:39 AM
1	Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness. HAHAHAHAHA laughs in 30 years old	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 12:32 AM
1	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? I thought the stereotype was trades are sexy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 01:21 AM
8	Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with? Gonna go with higher instances of getting raped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 12:52 AM
2	Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men. I feel this same way as a woman; if I flirt men just me hard and fast and in groups. Like they gossip! Badly. Why does no one talk about this? And yes agreed it sucks; I think people shouldn’t judge others for being flirtatious. They should be pulling for them! Like, go get em!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 01:31 AM
1	What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive??? Make your self useful at work and with hobbies; people respect someone who knows what he’s doing. Then, if they value properly, they’ll want to get to know you more as you look nice as well	/r/seduction	02/06/22 10:24 PM
1	A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign. What on earth I’m always too busy to text back. If I text anyone back, even my grandma, it is because I have had to put aside a few minutes. Wait a bit! Especially if I don’t know you that well, you will not be first priority. But I will get to you, and hopefully look forward to getting to know you better. This is ridiculous. You’re setting yourselves up to cull out of your strange line up women who are busy working and trying to succeed in life. That’s the kind of person you want to get to know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 02:13 AM
1	I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrong This is sweet; whatever happens, you seem like the kind of guy women would want to sleep with	/r/seduction	14/05/22 01:04 AM
1	Confessing and doing the friend’s first route is not how you get a girl, so you need to stop doing that. I like this; good point. I think it describes guys too.	/r/seduction	12/05/22 10:42 PM
1	I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman? Hi; this is really good advice! I would like to be able to do the opposite. I think I sexualize things accidentally because I pour out too much friendliness maybe but also there’s some unspoken thing im doing wrong—any idea??	/r/seduction	12/05/22 10:40 PM
3	If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselves I’ve noticed guys do this too! It’s like they never thought of you sexually before—until another guy clearly did and then they’re like “oh you know what actually she is attractive”	/r/seduction	28/04/22 11:59 PM
2	Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations *to start out with. Around 30 you may start getting the opposite problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 01:12 AM
5	If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about it I don’t lie about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/22 01:00 AM
1	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle Find some demisexuals and make yourself worth their attention? Could work for girls and guys! Man I hope y’all know I’m saying “you” in general not anyone here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 01:15 AM
1	Most women are demisexual. Ehh from my experience as a woman this is spot on. I can be very horny—once I know someone. I need to respect them to be attracted to them. I need to see them in different situations to know I can respect them. Then my libido is just as much as the stereotypical man’s or higher (like, embarrassingly higher)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 02:23 AM
4	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach I like this! Next time I need to ask for a raise…	/r/seduction	30/12/21 05:56 AM
1	"You're just different to other guys" Because I wouldn’t have thought up something so specific to make the guy feel special	/r/seduction	20/12/21 02:04 AM
2	People like it when others have interesting hobbies. What do you think of mine Very cool hobbies! Do you have any interest in film? Going to see niche/weird films together is a nice way to enjoy shared interests!	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:19 AM
2	i fucking hate being a "boring nice guy" but i dont know how to change or how to stop putting others on pedestal. i see women as Gods. "Better than me in every way" That’s true some day a girl will like you, don’t worry! A lot of my overachieving, A-type friends who are girls prefer shy men, and everyone I know steers far away from aggressive! (I am in my late twenties, which may account for that) If you are happy with yourself the shyness will be seen as quiet confidence, like you don’t need to boost yourself up with swagger—people will like that!	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:16 AM
3	Super weird but a.. how do I stop staring at tits when I'm talk to any chick ? It's getting annoying and uncomfortable for me 😂😅 Masturbate routinely! It will keep you from having this instinctual reaction	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:11 AM
1	No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approach This is how I try to get myself to talk to guys I’m attracted to! Sometimes it helps me to assume they already have a girlfriend, and aren’t available to be interested in me. This helps me focus on them instead of constantly overthinking from the nerves of wondering if they could hypothetically like me.	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:10 AM
5	How do you keep it flirty without complimenting? Inflate that ego! Then people open up and you can connect on a more natural level and start joking around—that joking around bit, if they’re physically attracted to you, is the same as flirting	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:05 AM