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I know a few women that have been "bi-curious". Every single one of them has told me they would rather date men but every now in then they want to try a woman. They've told me generally they find women just have have too many tantrums, too needy or manipulative. Of course they are attracting women just as unstable as them. But still, I've always found that interesting.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:52 PM
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What about the race baiting? There's no issue creating needless desention but you are banning guys for morality debates. Interesting....
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:44 PM
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My ex-gf told me she stays on birth control because it regulates her cycle and helps with her acne. I believed her and didn't think she was out there sleeping with a lot of guys. Do you know why? Her behavior. Including me at the time, she had been with 2 guys. I don't think she ever even drank alcohol while we were dating. She had no interest in it. Before we started dating, we were friends. She was either at her house reading a book, at her parent's house cooking and helping with other sibling…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/15 12:37 AM
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As a complete stranger on the internet, I would like to say I'm very proud of you. It takes so much to be honest about your faults and make concious efforts to change them.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 03:01 AM
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It's just as bad living in the deep south. Usually the most attractive non-black women (asian, white, hispanic..) can't take the hit to their sense of status by being involved with a black man. Unless being with him gives her a sense of validation. I seriously believe that to a lot of women, a super rich athletic black man is the equivalent of a decent looking white guy making 80k+ a year. It's life. I've taken some harsh rejections. But my gift of gab is better than most. edit to add: One of my…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:27 PM
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I think you are spot on in your assessments. The enlightened ones are the most dangerous because they are usually very attractive women. They understand there is no shortage of men trying to get with them so they see no need to do anything but indulge themselves. They don't have to worry about being slut shamed because no matter what men will always be after them because of their looks. And if a man really cares about her past she'll get defensive about it, and most blue pill men will "respect h…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:41 AM
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When I read your first post I knew you had it. I felt like once you were alone with this girl again sex was going to happen. In your last post it seem to me she was rationalizing and acknowledging her attraction to you. Once you pulled back a little, game on.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:10 AM
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Thanks for you input but for me it's been the polar opposite. Hipster girls that believe their sexuality is something fluid and believe monogamy is a social construct that oppresses women... Those are the ones I find to be the most into vegan and feminism stuff. Maybe you are just meeting girls that party too much and think giving sex quickly is the easiest way to keep a man around. Just a thought.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:02 AM
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Exactly. I've had some pretty bad rejections. Sometimes you just meet some terrible women. And sometimes she just won't be attracted to you for whatever reason. Obviously this is something you need if you feel this way. When you get to a point where things like this don't bother you, your outlook on life will change so much for the better.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:51 PM
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Some women can be a bit dismissive when a guy is showing interest in them but is a bit nervous and awkward about it. Maybe you give off that vibe since it's a complete turn off to you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 05:29 PM
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You make a good a point. But quality women will always be few and far between. There aren't even a lot quality women in college. But the ones that are there seem to congregate together so it makes it easier to find them. If I could give advice to any guy it would be to find a woman that doesn't drink alcohol. She would rather be grounded mentally than conciously impair her ability to make sound decisions. Also she probably will be less likely to use plausible deniability when interacting with yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:59 PM
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Thank you! There is so much cognitive dissonance in these types of posts. Here: She's one of those girls who grew into her attractiveness and so held onto some of the modesty and insecurity that most very attractive women lose. That is a very appealing quality to me as I followed the same path. So basically both of you are making up for loss time. And most attractive women are very insecure. Because they know their looks is what gets them by. That's why being mean to women like that keeps them a…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:15 PM
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I'm not saying all college freshman want to bang Hugh Hefner. What i'm saying is if you didn't know a man's age and found him attractive, I doubt very seriously you would disqualify him if you found out he was a bit older than you. Also, women aren't attracted to older guys because they are old. They are attracted to status, resources, and security. What i'm saying sounds absurd because you are removing those things from the equation. Anyway, these are things that alot of younger guys haven't de…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 07:59 AM
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So just knowing a man's age would be enough to turn you off even if he was fit, made you laugh, and had a sense of composure?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:16 AM
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Are you saying just his age would turn you off to the point you wouldn't have sex with him?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:03 AM
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You are making 6 figures a year and dating a woman like this? Some of you guys really haven't met enough decent women if you think this is ok.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 12:19 AM
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Men of all ages are looking at college girls mainly for sex. Doesn't mean they may also be men looking for something serious.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 11:32 PM
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Why doesn't this have more upvotes? This exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 07:19 PM
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I find this interesting. /u/KelIy_C is saying that sometimes the young guys that make the best ltr are shy. Perhaps because they don't have a lot of experience being direct about their interest in complete strangers. OP, you seem to not care about this and it probably shows.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 07:03 PM
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You sir should consider a career in creative writing.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 05:24 AM
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Every woman I know that has done pageants or modeling has had black widow traits. I respect Tebow's commitment and self control but rarely do guys like these find quality women. They expend all their effort in trying to be "good" men that they have no idea what a quality woman is. Russell Wilson is the same way. Both of these men are in great shape, leaders, have money and status. They know NOTHING about vetting. It sounds totally absurd but don't be Tim Tebow guys haha!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 03:22 AM
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Hey I saw this on another thread: A very small tactic I use that helps me a lot, is when we have serious discussions I try and sit lower than him. Usually on the floor at the foot of his recliner, or on his lap. The body language of it keeps my head in a place of accepting what he's saying and it's incredibly non-confrontational. I've also found it helps him shift quickly over into leading because he's in the dominant position. So I think my post came across as your anxiety was ruining your boyf…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/15 11:18 PM
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Thank you for your reply and helping me to understand your situation more. So it sounds more like because you don't have a lot of experience dating you over think things and let your thoughts run wild? Is that it? I mentioned breaking up because the relationship seems to be more than a little hard. You seem a bit high maintenance and just prone to rash decisions. From my perspective it would just be dangerous to emotionally invest in someone who makes decisions the way you do. And that is someth…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/15 10:37 PM
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I am probably going to be downvoted by maybe you could use some tough love: From what I gather you were seeing two guys at the same time and just stuck with the one that stayed around the longest. So this relationship was born out of the sake of convenience. Also you seem to be prone to impulsive decisions and being guided by your emotions. I get the feeling that you can't really be alone and probably have anxiety about many things. You and D may be codependent. I don't see why any self respecti…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/15 08:35 PM
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The fact that he deleted his thread makes me think your words rung true.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 07:35 PM
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I apologize. I was asserting that you didn't vet properly. But a lesson is a lesson not matter how you've learned it. I just always think of things you to look for. Very rare are we totally blindsided. What's the sex story?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 07:27 PM
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Does this girl have any tattoos? Is she always looking to go to social events? Is she very active on social media? Does she see no problems interacting with male friends in social settings that involve alcohol? Was it easy to have sex with her? When you try engage her in thought provoking conversations does she check out? Does she have an emotional response to anything she doesn't want to talk about? Family situation? Being pretty and having sex with you is not enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:07 PM
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I think this post deserves more upvotes because you admittedly struggle with asserting yourself in real life but your online persona may be quite different. It's like that for so many of us. That's real.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:25 PM
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Finally. I have been saying this all along. I've seen a lot of PUA videos. Honestly, it's quite impressive to meet a rude and dismissive woman and turn that around to some type of sexual experience. So respect to guys who do that. But I just don't have the patience for that. I just feel like a chump or fool pursuing sex with a woman that has inflated value. And if these woman are chasing you it's because they feel you have enough status that they can get some validation when having sex with you.…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:02 PM
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You hit it on the head. We've all been there but we are embarrassed to say it. I myself can look at all the times when I held a girls interest by being direct and funny, only to lose it when I would overly invest. There was the hottest girl at my college who was insane but always seemed to be in to me whenever we got into arguments. Every man she met was so supplicating to her, all she wanted was a man to stand up to her. There was that one girl that I chased for years and who so disgusted by my…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 10:37 AM
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Your friends are living the usual script: Young women who need to be in control and seek men who are non-confrontational and just go along with their aggressive personalities. They'll never be fulfilled. As they get older they'll seek more dominant men and feel like that is what they need. But because of their need to be in control those relationships will be like competitions. Hopefully they'll see the light after leaving a path of destruction and being divorced a few times.. And NO. Drinking i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/15 05:26 AM
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She probably prefers emotionally unavailable men but now post kids she actually wants a man that's responsible and a good role model. rolls eyes This is a very good lesson for men. She's a beautiful woman and does seem like a nice person. Some men would be inclined to put her on a pedestal. Yet some guy is banging her brains out who is either married or just having sex with a lot of women. And she is totally ok with that. This is one of the purest examples of AFBB. You can have sex with Denise R…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 04:47 AM
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Brilliant observation.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:52 AM
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Have you had conversations with your friends about dating? What is it exactly that they don't understand about what you want? I struggled with dating in college too. I don't drink. At all. I just never had any interest in it. With most people needing alcohol to let loose and have a good time, I didn't start meeting women that had no interest in drinking into after school. You are young but I promise you it gets better. Also, as other have suggested, if you want a man with strong leadership abili…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 10:08 PM
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Exactly. Generally, I find tattoos to be masculine. That's why women like them on men because they show a sense of defiance... Well until they became so mainstream.. Tattoos represent a state of mind or a view that you may not always hold as you go through life. For many women, tattoos show their "hardships" and allow them to celebrate their poor decisions by rewriting them as significant milestones. They don't have enough confidence in who they are as people to have someone find them unique on …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:34 PM
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RIP Paul Walker but man that was hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 05:45 PM
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I felt for the guy until I saw the chick. A full tattoo sleeve and tattoos on her feet... He handled it like a boss but everything about that chick says impulsive behavior.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 02:35 AM
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That is a very astute observation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 12:11 AM
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Interesting questions. Well i'm just speculating.. But maybe they just imagine that the woman has some type of unhealthy lifestyle or is starving herself or maybe she is just a bitch. Somehow they convince themselves that she is missing something that is unique and special that they have. That mindset can be applied to any insecurity though. The weight issue in the south is because of unhealthy eating habits most of us here have. We take pride in our southern cooking. And in a sense we want it t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 11:48 PM
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Sometimes girls will just have fun with you but if they see you as having resources or something they want, they will raise the value of sex to try and secure some type of commitment from you. I really think that's what is happening with you. I would just keep doing what you are doing. When getting girls to sleep with you casually, sometimes it really is a numbers game. Unless you are picking them up at bars or alcohol is involved in some way.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:15 PM
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I am glad you find knowledge in that despite my terrible grammar! Maybe it says more about you than me haha. I appreciate your comment though.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 10:11 PM
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That's fine too. I'm just as much as a prize as any woman. She isn't entitled to a free dinner. I don't need some clever or alpha way to say that.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 09:50 PM
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You seem like a perceptive guy. There have been studies shown that says weather effects our overall mood. I believe I've read somewhere that fall and winter can cause a sense of longing in people. Also, people tend to want to be close to loved ones during rainstorms. But that could be some primitive instinct. So I definitely think you are on to something. It sounds like you excel in social circles because you have that benevolent alpha thing. Status, and taking care of everyone close to you with…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 09:44 PM
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You can't escape it. Whether you were trash or a bright light, both attract insects. A lot of guys have this idea that when they reach a certain quality of life, they will meet quality of women. It's hard no matter what. You are just meeting more attractive women. And it's about them. They want to prove they can lock you down, or they receive some type of validation by being with you because they see you as having some type of status. You saying this is your "fault" sounds like this post may be …
/r/askTRP27/11/15 08:36 PM
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Basically.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:46 PM
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Perhaps. But being adversarial and prejudice towards an entire group of men doesn't seem particularly helpful. Every man deserves the chance to be a brother. Not every black dude having sex with white girls is a thug or criminal. It's fascinating to me how a lot of guys can be into so many different things but then classify guys of other races to specific stereotypes.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:42 PM
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It sounds like your friend is fun and you are just "cool". But it could just be the social dynamics of the situation. He doesn't really know the girl and every time she's met him he's giving off positive vibes and still has a sense of mystery about him. I honestly would take this up as a loss and learn from it. It's obvious she is trying to bang your friend. Also he may not have stabbed you in the back. If you are fun but aren't really investing in pleasing a woman or gaining approval, you will …
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:20 PM
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"We are just two adults getting to know each other. No one should feel obligated to anything else."
/r/askTRP27/11/15 07:04 PM
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I really don't know why most guys don't think like that. Once you internalize that you are a prize as much as any woman, there is just no way a self respecting man would tolerate that. If I was on date and a girl freaked out because of some celebrity seen in public, I would dump her ass on the spot. You are not fainting and screaming when you see me. Do you think i'm going to accept you doing that to another man?
/r/askTRP27/11/15 04:59 AM
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It's hard to see red pill as a brotherhood for all men when comments like these always get the most upvotes.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 04:48 AM
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I'm wondering this as well. Being pass around by a group of guys that know each other is already bad enough. But could you forgive it if they were all white?(I hope not btw...)
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:32 PM
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I could not have said it better. Also OP, i'm 100% with you on your reaction to her posting photos of other men. Famous or not. There are only men in women in this world. Men don't view status like women. She was basically praising other men who don't even know her while spending time and having sex with you. No self respecting man would put up with that. I called an ex out on that when we were watching tv together once. I basically told her "If this guy is so hot you need to tell me, your boyfr…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:03 PM
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Let's look at it another way: We don't know anything else about the interaction with this woman but I fail to see how she is the one being bitchy. You had a date with this woman the very next day but you cancelled. Then you gave her an ambiguous answer as to when you could see her again. Afterwards, you immediately tried to move the conversation to something sexual. Now you are mad and need to win because she is no longer following your lead. But it looks like you don't know where you are going.…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:51 AM
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Just yesterday I spoke with a nutritionist about getting a meal plan together. I actually impressed when anyone takes this step and targets macros. It's amazing how much your physique can change and people have no idea. I've been working out for 15 years. The best I looked was about 6 years ago when I was living abroad in Asia. The foods just had less grease, fats, and sugars. And people ate more whole foods. I had never been so ripped in my life. When I came home (to a small southern town...), …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 07:32 PM
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