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| 1 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.Tidy up? Ask out women in their league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableMore like 1-2 a week until you meet someone you like. Not sexual partners, dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.In this case, you've been rejected for being unable to interact with other humans at a really basic level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do men think there are so many good menAnd when the only person who tells you that you're handsome/smart/special is your mum, people will laugh at you boasting about it. Everyone knows how meaningless it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think there are so many good menAlso men "That bitch accused my friend of rape and he's a good person so of course he's innocent." "He's such a good guy, there's no way he was violent towards his ex." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.Sometimes it's theoretical. Two guys having an argument and asking me "Would you date a guy who is/has/does X?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI am actually. If the other guy can get a date and he can't, he is clearly doing worse. But idk why he thinks he should be able to date a thin attractive woman without idk, working on his personality at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThen the guys likewise don't count as that is their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.No, it's worse in real life. Even try to suggest that they need to ask out women in their league or not live in a dump and they don't want to hear it. Unless it's something they can fix in less than two minutes, it's too much of an ask and easier to scream at you and your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:34 AM |
| 16 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.And telling men why you won't date them would have to be some of that advice. Based on my experience, men hate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 04:57 AM |
| -1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADUnless he is hideously ugly, there are guys who look like him dating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyWas the sentence above "If it was attractive to men. then more women would be doing it lol."? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyReally? Because fat isn't attractive and 40% of men are fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | How do you think this "Red Pill recruiting" happens?Fake being someone else? yeah, that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 09:43 PM |
| -1 | How do you think this "Red Pill recruiting" happens?Birds of a Feather flock together. Nice, outgoing, happy people are still meeting each other and pairing off. There's not really an easy solution for antisocial grumps who don't like to talk to people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingI don't know any women who fit that description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingSo when is appropriate whoring around age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingHow would I go about affecting the dating life of a serial killer since I am already not dating one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men should not approach without obvious signalsYou can, you're indicating that you want a ons and will eliminate everyone who isn't also wanting one. Depends on your goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .The only 10+ age gap I know well, she wanted to get married at 17 and chose an older guy because guys her age weren't interested. He divorced his wife and they had four kids, giving him seven. No six, because her first turned out to be her ex-boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Only the leftovers go outside their age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:15 PM |
| 10 | Where do women want to be hit on?So, there's this huge swathe of time in between "the second you get close enough to talk to her" and "after you've been friends for five years and you will never love another" that you can ask. Making conversation gives her a chance to tell you how she and her boyfriend went and checked out a winery on the weekend as a potential wedding venue/she's a lesbian/her boyfriend dumped her that morning/she's very religious and won't date outside her religion/she's super into hiking/she's a Disney adult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:04 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsWhy though? The parents pays because they are the parent, not because of some legal jargon and agreement. We all know there are deadbeats who have to be forced to take care of their responsibilities, there always have been, so we make them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:47 PM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsWhy? What has choice got to do with it? It's always been about providing for your child whether you want to or not. it's an obligation. For both parents. Even when they get tired of it, even when it's difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:33 PM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsWhy? What has that to do with anything. I think you should pay child support if your sperm is stolen from a sperm bank and used without your consent because that's your child. I also think you'd be entitled to visitation and you could sue, but that's still your child regardless of anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:39 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsI didn't say you did. I said that you think the fact that abortion is available affects whether you should support your child. IMO, it's completely irrelevant. Support your kid because it is your kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:25 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsWhy? Traditionally, the parents are held responsible for the child. Only now are men trying to wriggle out of their responsibility with "But the woman could have had an abortion." So? Who cares? Pay support for your kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI definitely have a type and it is probably worth at least two points to a guy's attractiveness. I've never had sex with a guy who wasn't my type so maybe it's a dealbreaker. I've certainly found Hollywood stars who weren't my type attractive. But only the really attractive ones. Adam Driver, as an example is my type so I find him attractive while acknowledging that he is not conventionally attractive. As opposed to Robert Pattinson or Ryan Gosling, whom I would rate highly if asked to as I can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:05 AM |
| -1 | A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men.If you are not lying, aren't you being authentic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:05 AM |
| -1 | A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men.Don't you want someone you have thing in common with? You have to stop lying at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:56 PM |
| 6 | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyI mean, I'm listening. How much money do I get for existing femininely, without a job while I knit, sew and gossip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?They admit it in anonymous surveys, so researchers can calculate rates by comparing reports with the percentage of women who don't report. You're saying men don't admit it in anonymous surveys but you somehow know it happens anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?So you have no statistics, you are making things up and it's hopeless so you've tried nothing because you're convinced it won't work. Why bother bringing it up then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?They do anonymous surveys and ask if women report it. Then they can calculate how many unreported rapes there are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?So where do they report it so that you know it's underreported? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.Usually cat lady gets used starting about 35-40 so men aren't dead yet. And when the older man marries the younger woman, the younger man that woman could have married remains single. Equal numbers of men and women (or slightly more men before 40) and marriage pairs them off in equal numbers, so I'm afraid that every unmarried woman equals an unmarried man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.Mathematically, each cat lady leaves a male equivalent to be single also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:35 PM |
| -1 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.Congrats, you've just described Red pill and MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?I've updated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?https://aifs.gov.au/publications/towards-understanding-reasons-divorce/perceived-main-reasons-divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Also, a lot of men do pay for dates. You are competing with those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?So why won't they say it when surveyed afterwards anonymously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 06:32 AM |
| -2 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Funny how men never divorce their wives and cite the wife's violence as the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 07:22 PM |
| -3 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Men still cheat more, gamble more, use drugs more and are violent more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?There are more marriage quality women than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 09:31 AM |
| 1 | It's not going to get betterMostly correct. I have read a study which showed that money was the reason a lot of women stopped at 2 instead of three. There's not enough money in the world to make some women go from 0-1 but you can coax an extra baby out of some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Is it really a man's job to approach women first?Also, if a women has ten guys approaching her, why would she seek out a guy who isn't? She would only do this is she is unhappy with the guys who are approaching her generally, or if she is after one guy specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesBeing attracted to =/= dating. Red pillers who are the ones who say women settle for beta bucks and then point to age gap marriages and think those aren't beta bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesWhy? You don't think that 3% of men are cheating at any given time? Seems low if anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 11 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesFor themselves or for other people. I would never be in an open relationship but I don't really care if other people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Dating/Trying to get laid is totally a bad ROI for men.Isn't that what red pill wants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | marriage is the acceptable form of prostitutionNo one believes obesity is beautiful. And men coast as much,m if not more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what kind of tattoos do you like on men?And by homosexuality, they mean lesbians. Both men and women are more accepting of homosexuality in the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | marriage is the acceptable form of prostitutionFor men too. I don't see many men digging house foundations by hand anymore. Automation is great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 01:56 AM |
| 10 | Dating/Trying to get laid is totally a bad ROI for men.You also aged ten years in that time. Approximately 2/3 of the women in your age cohort are either married or with the guy they will marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | A Discussion of the responses to my “how attractive does a a girl have to be for you to approach?” thread.I think he's handsome and I prefer slim guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The reason men get butthurt about women making them waitYes, those are your choices. There isn't enough compatibility for everyone to get what they want. You make people settle or they go without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?And 'people', including women, get nothing from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?And there's your answer, people don't like you because you're boring and weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?It can be though. I've rejected guys when I'm stressed and in a hurry without even turning around to look at them. Head lowered and "Excuse me I'm in a rush" as though they were salesmen because, you know, tourists asking for directions ask someone who isn't visibly rushing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The reason men get butthurt about women making them waitThe problem with this is that there are more men who want casual sex. Say that 60% of men want casual sex/40% marriage and 40% of women. Now 40% of men can find wives, another 40% can get casual sex. What does the remaining 20% of people do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?It's worse. I've been out in a group of four couples and have had men try to pick me up. Persistently. Even men don't exist to some guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?If the man has a uterus, he can have an abortion. He has the same rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?Yes, women grew food at home for all of history. And women throughout every culture work more hours than men. But we all have to stand around and clap every time a man does something and ignore women's contributions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?The work of guiding and protecting. Making decisions for the family. When everything works out and the kid goes to college, who helped with homework and who tells everyone how their child got into college? It's the mother who did the work and the father who did the boasting. But also, it's been shown that women provide most of the calories for the family in hunter gatherer societies, men like to do big hunts which earn them praise. It's only societies which prevent women from working for money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Are women of today showing greater preference for physically less masculine men ?Am I choosing him over a fat nerd or David Bowie in his prime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?Or, men want women who do all the work but let them take all the credit. Plenty of women are happy to manipulate men this way. I don't know a single marriage where the husband guides and protects his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Why are single mothers far more commonplace than single fathers?As did women in olden times. People drank like fish in the 70s and drs knew about fetal alcohol syndrome for longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 04:35 AM |
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