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| 1 | Why are “BPD women” so addictive? | Debate | SmoOoothModerator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:11 AM |
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| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think a lot of people tie their attraction to what they believe others will approve of. A man that’s personally happy with fucking chubby women won’t do so out of vanity, or he will and then hide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughThat’s actually a decent scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?As the partner of a hot girl. I’m painfully aware of this. Unfortunately these guys have no fucking clue because they don’t believe anything they don’t directly witness themselves unless they already agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Maintaining a certain bodyfat percentage and clear skin can be considered an “enhancement” but let’s not downplay the role of self-grooming. That shit adds a lot to overall attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Baby only happens if woman agrees to have sex. Agreed to take baby to term. Agrees to raise the baby. Or is forced to. There’s no “value” without the concious participation of the women. That prevents it from being “inherent” the same way men’s value isn’t “inherent” and requires his concious participation. But I’m guessing a poor understanding of how reproduction works is what led you to make this very very very basic mistake. Sex education is lacking in so many places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Check edits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I’m not confused. You are. You are trying to apply an unrelated concept to dating dynamics. Then pretending as if they absolutely fit and they are the only consideration. It comes from a need to oversimplify complex concepts. It’s basic thinking in order to win arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?How can I have a good rebuttle to a retarded premise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:10 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?It’s not. It’s the opposite. I see it for the very hollow post-rationalisation bad argument it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Why tf are you talking in terms of capitalism? Who told you to do that? Noone. But maybe you chose to “view it in capitalism terms” because the argument is literally STUPID in every other sense. Smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Downvote away. Petty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:04 AM |
| 8 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?We should have more requirements because it’s beneficial for us and the families we create. What a stupid fucking question. There’s no grey matter in your penis. Stop using it for critical thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?To the species Fuck outta here. These dating discussions aren’t about “the species” noone makes individual decisions based on “the species” and using a macro “species” talking point is just a weird sidestep to try and make a dumb point. RMV and SMV isn’t about decisions made to further the fucking “species”. Actually engage your brain, SMV and RMV is decided by a collection of individual demands for what men and women want for themselves. Fucking “species”. Some dumb shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Your entire argument is weak AF. You basically redefined “quality man” to fit your strawman bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 23 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?For the love of God, watch a couple of beauty enhancement videos or check out a few subs. There’s SO MUCH SHIT women do to become attractive and then also stay attractive that is lost on basement dwellers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Personally I’d frame it as young women are inherently more valuable than men in general at any age, by virtue of their reproductive system. Valuable to who? Men aren’t lining up to fuck ugly chicks thinking “she can be the mother of my children” This “inherent value” argument is flawed AF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:42 AM |
| 8 | is it just me or do men these days rate smv by perceived easiness rather than beauty?I think many men in the US find them more attractive because of the same reason they say Eastern European women are more attractive - lower obesity rates - that’s it. You projecting your own subjective feelings is a dumb counterpoint. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/22 07:39 AM |
| 10 | is it just me or do men these days rate smv by perceived easiness rather than beauty?Rating SMV by only looks is not how it’s supposed to be rated lol. You don’t understand SMV if you think “perceived easiness” isn’t an included metric. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themBecause many of the shy little bitch boys who never tried irl because they are too scared are on there. Plus the men who aren’t shy little bitch boys are also on there. Combined, that makes it a whole lotta men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themNo one hired her because that is not an actual job. Dumb take. It is a real job. Just unlikely to be a legit one. What’s likely is that the dating app company hires a marketing firm to promote their app. The marketing firm (who has made promises to help them reach a certain target) likely uses shady tactics in order to get there. Dating app company doesn’t ask too many questions, random women get hired by marketing firm. This shit happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.No it’s just a weak counterpoint when “overwhelmingly” isn’t the same as “all”. But yeah go ahead, bring up random irrelevant shit if it makes you feel better. “But, but there are rich women too!!” lol what low IQ bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.Rich men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:18 AM |
| 3 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.But sure make up definitions on the fly. It’s nuts. Barely anyone here even knows wtf the word means. They probably spent more time being angry at what they think it means than just looking it up properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.Benevolent Sexism is an old concept that describes parts of patriarchal thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.What you call gynocentrism is patriarchal thought. Maybe you’re brand new to this planet and believe all this unfairness to men came from feminist thought. Patriarchy doesn’t mean “only all men benefit always”. It includes several L’s for us too. Do me a favour hop on Wikipedia and actually read some schools of thought about the patriarchy don’t realy on idiots from social media to give an accurate representation (including me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.The leaders of modern government and halls of power is overwhelmingly male that is enough to still call it patriarchy. You also conflated 2 definitions together. One definition fits what we have in the west today while the other does not. It’s okay to say society is “less patriarchal”. Doesn’t mean it’s completely gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?That whole sentence is bullshit. Like coming from a kid that thinks love is how all the movies depict it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.Precisely. Which is why me wanting a woman with breasts while I don’t have my own isn’t hypocritical, while wanting someone with a 0 bodycount while mine is 10 can be hypocritical. Basic stuff and I suspect most people arguing for double standards are aware of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.No. It’s logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is, relatively speaking. As all dating problems in the west are first world problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?To get an attractive woman, a man has to be attractive. To get an attractive man, a woman has to be attractive. Don’t try to separate attractiveness as if it’s not an accomplishment in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 06:21 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.Hypocrisy is in behavioural demands not aesthetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was skeptical about turning prisons into luxury living for murders, rapists and pedos This type of thinking is what prevents most prisons from reforming, despite the fact that a shitload of inmates don’t even fall into those categories. People have emotional investment in wanting to see “punishment” without even knowing the facts. People are dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnexperienced virgin men struggle to wrap their head around the concept of “unenjoyable sex” or “uncomfortable sex”. Sex has been sold to us as something that’s objectively positive and amazing every time. It’s really hard to mentally divorce yourself from that programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.Hypocrisy looks dumb. You can’t make it look “logical”. So standing by feelings of hypocrisy at best is exactly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?Married women aren’t less happy than single women. Can people stop repeating this BULLSHIT data point that was terribly researched. Fucking hell it’s so obvious when nitwits only read headlines without exploring the source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?You must not socialise with men much if you believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?A woman loves the man you became through of all of the blood, sweat and tears. Not the human you are intrinsically the way your mom or sister will. Men don’t love intrinsically either, but they don’t wait for women at the finish line. This is vague nonsense. You didn’t actually explain what’s different about men. “But they don’t wait for women at the finish line” wtf does that even mean? If you admit men don’t love intrinsically either, then we are loving what a women “became” also. We are lovin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?Jumping into dating again isn’t “moving on” that’s a basic childlike understanding of the concept. Grief looks different on different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?It’s called love and attachment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?“No idea. Don’t care” Wisdom ladies and gentlemen. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Don’t care. Which is why your type of opinion will always sound stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?This true? https://reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/xwbg2u/i_did_not_know_that_yikes/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Shit. They really haven’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?I hope repeating the same bullshit ad nauseum is therapeutic for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Yeah you need more help dude. You’re projecting all of your issues on all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?So you haven’t answered my direct question. Typical. I’ll answer yours. What if I pay a lot more (tax rates for comparable earners are much higher in places like Canada or the US, and money is fungible) and don’t use the service at all? Do I get a refund of my taxes? No you do not get a refund lol. Same way you don’t get it now with insurance “choices” That’s hilarious. Saving money isn’t priority #1, being in charge of my own decision making is. Correction: feeling in charge of your own decisio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?All I hear on this thread is women complaining about men wanting sex. The top comment of this thread… • Create more sustainable economic opportunities for people who don’t go to college; make having a degree far less necessary to sustain a middle class lifestyle, which will cause tuition costs to plummet for those who do attend college for very specialized careers due to decreased demand • Improve the k-12 education system and implement schools and programs that specifically focus on boys, espec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Narcissism is really hard to combat fucking hell. Okay. The OP, was about MEN, as a group. MEN. The replies were about helping MEN, as a group. Your replies made the discussion specifically about YOU. All you are doing is inserting yourself into everything to make yourself the topic of the debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?If you pay more for a service that a cheaper tax rate would cover, are you saving money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?YES. you need effective therapy for exactly that. Maybe YOUR therapist needs to tell YOU that you can never get women. That would be INDIVIDUAL advice. Not generalised messaging for every other man struggling. You are not every man. Men are not a monolith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?So it’s not about “men” it’s about “you”? Ffs get some fucking therapy. EDIT: which is ironically part of the list “healthcare” would cover the therapy men like you need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?That would be teaching men a possible lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?It distinguishes between childless and child-having individuals Where? Can you quote the specific part? Maybe I missed it. But rationally, it’s more likely that the only reason this study doesn’t reflect more sex for childless couples is because it only polled individuals, not couples. Aahhh gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Ah, yes, the 1-month old account with excessive narcissism. In general, narcissism is closely tied to: extreme self-focus an inflated sense of self a strong desire for recognition and praise 2 put of 3 minimum. What are you talking about? Are you deflecting? EDIT: dude had a tantrum then blocked me. Pathetic bitch. I agree you are a waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveEat. Pray. Love. 🙏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveHaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Most women find very few men attractive🤣 so what happens when you introduce them to the “spiritually” corrupting nature of all your western materialism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveYou are. You’re complaining about it on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveDo you think that’s not true? “Society” isn’t just women. It’s men and women. Men and women judge female looks more harshly than male looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveIt’s not really a problem for me People say this. Then go on to frequently whine about it and say they hate themselves. Sure, “It’s not really a problem” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:16 AM |
| 6 | Most women find very few men attractiveThis is hilarious. Part of the major appeal of westerners is that they are rich in comparison to non-westerners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingExample? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Masculine is too subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Long ass fake nails Taking astrology seriously Hotep shit Super prude thinking Super traditional thinking Overly sensitive to harsh comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingWhy are they dishonest or misleading? Because they don’t autistically mention “bUT loOKinG bETtEr gIveS BEtteR rEsulTs” before every second sentence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingIt would work on the right type of girl. This applies to everything lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:56 AM |
| -1 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingYeah that’s called…. ALCOHOL It’s not complex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?I’ve seen this one before. It doesn’t mention the distinction between childless and child-having couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOf course nerds can only refer to Online Dating apps. It’s their only experience of ‘dating’ and therefore their only source of data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Of course you’re gonna talk about Tinder lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Neither. Show me data on it and I’ll concede | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Stupid. We know nothing about sex among childless couples. There’s no data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?That’s dumb to exclude. There’s no data on sex frequency outside of couples with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Yeah but it’s hard to do without conscious effort. Most people rely on the “organic” and choose the path of least resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Lol maybe. But many men here unironically are Stacysexual but unaware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Sounds her picker is all the way fucked. Probably attracted to toxicity and crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Behold the dangers of excessive male thirstshe's a scam artist, nothing more | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/10/22 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menTheir actions show that they’re attracted to fat dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThis dude is obsessed with dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThe acts largely match what they say. Most women date fuck and marry men who are not hot. “Date, fuck, marry” are all ‘acts’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menYep. It’s either that couples generally like ad get along with each other, or EVERYONE IS LYING, and the one guy struggling with dating just happens to know the real truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThat’s stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menWe don’t develop attraction that differently. That’s a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menYou say the same old shit. OLD apps are your entire world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menNo there isn’t. There’s been a couple of matchmakers bemoaning high demanding women which coincidentally raised their profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menHe wants it to sound cooler so trying to change the language to sound less feminine. Lol it’s pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menThat’s bullshit lol. Men absolutely cheat due to “tingles”. Using more manly sounding language doesn’t make the actions or motivations different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:35 AM |
| -3 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menAs someone who is tall, used to be overweight, and got shredded - personality is almost entirely the halo effect. How tf would you know that? All you did is got hot. You have no idea how many women rejected you based on personality because there were enough women that didn’t care. Sample bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:27 AM |
| 0 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menYou are choosing to assume the minority reason is the majority reason. People in the west date out of choice. These cynical rationalisations are hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 37 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?It’s weird how not many people here have mentioned “children” The HUGE time/energy drain of taking care of kids, young kids alone can kill a sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.This change was a big effort, 10 years. Not a full time effort of course. But at 10 I learned that I could change. Then it was a 4 month effort to change from pessimist to optimist. I’d say conscious change is the biggest effort, as it typically just happens over time without us realising. Some people never have to consciously change their personality, but many others do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Spending so much time on the internet all your “real life anecdotes” are of social media comments and behaviour. The internet and social media is wonderful. But there’s a point where people use it as a way to stay in the know about things going on in the world when it’s not a true representation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.The more things change, the more they stay the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.The cycle continues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.“Terminally online” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Sounds like you actively “changed your personality” or how you expressed it and it helped. “change your personality” gets a bad rep as advice. But I think it’s actually a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.It’s annoying when people say women don’t really mean “personality” of course they do! This is like complaining about people saying they like the “story” instead of saying they like the “book” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.It absolutely is. “Game” is what men use to express their personality. So women are actually talking about personality when they say they like personality. This is like complaining about people saying they like the “story” instead of saying they like the “book” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:28 AM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.You gotta stop talking about Tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.That’s a lovely sentiment. But also stupidly ignorant. Maybe if you’re rich you can live that life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:21 AM |
| 3 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.The only way for someone else to know another person’s personality, is how they express that personality through their behaviour. They are essentially the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Every one of their bad takes can be explained by not touching grass enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.You right, it’s about what you need to do to compensate for your looks, in the 90s you coulda asked a girl what’s your sign and that woulda worked 🤣 that’s bullshit. People were more socialised back then so there was probably a higher standard for “good game” back then. “What’s your star sign” has always been cringe. now a brother gotta think about joining the league and shit Only terminally online people think women value random DMs more than irl interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.People here make this mistake all the time. They handwave it away as “surface-orientated”. It’s still a display of their personality at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.People here make this mistake all the time. They handwave it away as “surface-orientated”. It’s still a display of their personality at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:04 AM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Why are you using Tinder as a reference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 11:01 AM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.I love violent agreement. Best way to describe it. I’m stealing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:59 AM |
| 4 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Black people call this "game." glad someone realises where the concept actually came from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?The adrenaline rush comes from the body’s fear response to thinking it’s gonna fall and die | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:51 AM |
| 4 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?The best sex includes this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?Have you ever had your butt grabbed/spanked while you’re fucking? Feels nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:49 AM |
| 10 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?Maybe if your life is mainly around influencers and Hollywood people. It’s quite unusual for normal folks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?Because they are different activities. People have different preferences for different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.You giving up on the conversation because I don’t agree with you. Don’t worry, better debators have similarly failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?Ahhh the Men are Wonderful dickride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.All you have talked about is perception, you have only explained WHY sluttiness in men is not looked upon negatively, nothing that really makes the behaviour itself not slutty. You’re essentially saying it’s not slutty because you find it more impressive, which is ridiculous. ”slutty” ≠ “not impressive” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?single fathers are better parents than single mothers. Do you know why that is? Have you investigated the reasons behind that at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.*Yawn* All that does prove that the behaviour isn’t slutty. If a man does it with the same ease it still counts as indulgence. Do we call wealthier people “greedy” because it’s easier for them to buy a house? No. Because that’s stupid, resting the criteria on effort taken is stupid AF. We call them “greedy” if they frivolously bought 100’s of houses an left them empty. Amount of Effort has no bearing on overindulgence. Because overindulgence is still overindulgence which is “slutty”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?Stupidest shit I’ve read all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?That’s usually single motherhood + poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?How you are jumping on the words “some reason”? Lol that’s weird. The commenter simply cannot remember the reason or isn’t sure. Weird thing to try and build a point from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI think some people need to hear it everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.You are operating with the wrong paradigm. Men and women are NOT equal, we have never been equal, we will never be equal. You haven’t proves this in any way in your argument, you just repeated the same bullshit you said before. Either sluttiness means slutty behaviour OR sluttiness means slutty behaviour + owning a vagina You haven’t explained why the vagina is necessary for something to count as “slutty” it’s completely arbitrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.It’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.That’s inconvenient | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.More that abusive men are more likely to go through breakups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.It’s takes the entire book to explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.This is pretty fucking vague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funThat’s why most people don’t ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?You are wrong about. But I don’t think you even care. What’s your strategy for verifying if you’re wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Deflection from answering the question. Of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?I didn’t say it was bad. I said it’s not how people would work. It’s entirely possible and often probable that they won’t like some of the things you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?I'm good at spotting women who are after me because I'm the safe option 🤷♂️. What’s your strategy for verifying if you’re wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?That’s what most incels seem to think. “Every guy is just like me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Nope that’s not how it works. They’re not dogs that can be trained into anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?I do. My current gf is the first serious relationship that I’ve had, I plan on proposing to and marrying her. This usually ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Just because it sounds like it makes sense doesn’t make it true. Theorists make this mistake all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?A lot of men these days feel pressured because the economy makes it hard to perform those financial gender roles. A lot of men want to be seen as “that guy!” that can provide everything. Being seem as masculine is SUPER important to their identity. It’s not everyone though, and even those that do would typically break up because of it. It seems like your ex had untreated mental health issues that ultimately contributed to the break-up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Sounds like you have your own version of afbb going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?People learning from their youthful mistakes is how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?So that’s why it sounds so off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Please don’t take any of his advice seriously. Dude has no experience and doesn’t know wtf he talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.This is how I feel. But I think a larger house could effectively serve the same function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.Then it’s not contentment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:42 AM |
| 4 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?That helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 07:40 PM |
| 37 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?If a man stays in shape in later ages, he has a HUGE advantage over other men in the same age bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 05:46 AM |
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