Smokeythemagickamodo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? OK, I never guaranteed anything and you clearly have issues. You read too much into one little statement and clearly don’t want to be helped, so I’m done wasting my time with you. Good luck, you will need it.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 08:54 PM
0	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? I am not telling you anything is or isn’t possible. I am merely relaying advice on what works for most men. Being genuinely positive gets you far more results. Women sense fake positive approaches and will reject you. You are telling me your style will never work which is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You have to find your own happiness and approach when you are genuinely feeling good. I know nothing about what you look like, hobbies or anything else. If you are far out of shape it will be much mo…	/r/seduction	03/06/22 08:47 PM
1	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? It will, approaching is a mind-set and a numbers game. You can’t give up after 50 rejections. And are you downvoting me after giving you solid advice if only you don’t want to hear it? What’s the point	/r/seduction	03/06/22 08:23 PM
1	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? I cannot decide a time and place for you. That is strictly up to you. That’s why “eventually” is the correct word. It could take you a day or 5 years, that’s not up for me to decide. You have to act and decide yourself. If you want to make excuses that’s on you. I rarely go a month without me talking to them on the regular. Also, I am sensing negativity from you. If you have any negativity while you are approaching most women will pick up on it will hard-pass. You have to be positive while appro…	/r/seduction	03/06/22 08:17 PM
3	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? Well, everything is subjective. It’s really your own mind-set. Technically you are ready right now, as we speak. It’s just a matter of you acting on it. Initially if you’re really shy you just have to do it repeatedly until you get more comfortable and you will naturally know when to approach, be flirty and/or joke around. This will be rough for most people, but it’s unavoidable. Just think even your parents and their parents had to hone their social skills, as well as all of your friends. Stay …	/r/seduction	03/06/22 07:52 PM
12	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? Get in the gym, meet people despite possibly being awkward (a job that requires you to frequently interact with others is a great shortcut to helping you with being comfortable around other people, toxic people excluded, learn to not get baited by these people). You have to learn to let your conscious mind go and just let the words come. Understanding when to throw in a joke or be flirty if the situation is open for it helps you become charismatic. Let go of your fear, no one will attack you. Le…	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:44 PM
1	How do you be an asshole without being an asshole? Speak your mind be direct. Don’t insult or neg. I almost bagged a chick with a bf but had to respect boundaries today. Quote, “you are wild.” Why yes I am.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 05:15 AM
22	How do rich dudes get women at a large scale? I mean you still have to play it cool and not desperate. If you just want hookups and nothing serious, just hint at your wealth. Don’t be overt about it. Still throw in flirty jokes and be at ease	/r/seduction	11/04/22 04:43 AM
69	How do rich dudes get women at a large scale? Is this serious? Women are always attracted to resources. It’s evolution and Today’s game is money.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 04:35 AM
3	Approaching as a shorter guy Better to approach in a fun and relaxed way IRL. Open with a flirty joke and go from there. You probably have to carry the convo but that’s the game. Don’t worry about height if you develop game, have boundaries and call them out on any shit in a fun way.	/r/seduction	10/04/22 11:16 PM