Smooth-Balls-010101 Archive

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2	How can I work on eye contact with chronic social anxiety? No problem. It's something I'm learning as well. Eventually, you can utilize eye contact in more useful ways. For example, if you're in conflict or someone is challenging you, some stern eye contact with head pointed down can often get a person to back off (kind of like a father disciplining his kid). You can also use it when you want someone to pay attention to what you're saying so their attention doesnt wander off. The most useful and fun way of using eye contact is of course flirting. You do…	/r/seduction	19/09/24 01:13 AM
2	How can I work on eye contact with chronic social anxiety? If you are making eye contact, you are the initiator. So the other person will react according to what you dictate. For example: -If you’re shy and nervous and look away after making eye contact, then the person will back off -If you frown and make eye contact, it is a challenge -If you do a dead stare, they will go ???? -If you stare for too long, they will think you’re creepy -Etc So what you can do is make a quick 1 second eye contact with a friendly smile. Then look away naturally. This is b…	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:22 AM
39	My therapist says I have to try talking to girls Hitting on a woman in the bar is going from 0 to 200 right away. Based on where you are, you have to practice step by step. If you were learning bball you wouldnt just jump into a match and play point guard. You would practice dribbling, jump shots, lay ups, defence, etc, then put it all together. Start by saying hi to women. Then once you’re comfortable, add in a compliment. Then have longer conversations. Then add in eye contact. Then add in flirting. You get the idea. Theres a youtuber named …	/r/seduction	05/09/24 02:39 AM
1	Does it mean anything if a girl always responds fast to your messages? It means she’s addicted to her phone. Probably into you as well. But not as much as her phone.	/r/seduction	03/09/24 01:05 PM
284	What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym? Hit on him to assert dominance	/r/seduction	02/09/24 02:38 PM
4	Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro... Ngl a 6’4 black dude is intimidating to people in general. Some chicks will like it but a lot of people will be weary. There’s a subset of chicks that will be very into you. Also, being that tall is a double edged sword in my opinion. If you’re handsome and jacked and that tall, it amplifies your attractiveness. If you’re out of shape and not handsome, it amplifies that. So you should get jacked if you’re not already. Just my opinion.	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:57 PM
2	Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro... Are you socially awkward? How attractive are you (meaning how jacked and handsome are you)?	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:39 PM
1	Why would a woman be mean to the guy they like? Socially awkward, so she doesn’t know how to engage with him positively + a default mean personality	/r/seduction	30/08/24 05:03 AM
1	Are you able to get female attention if you’re not a 7/10+ Yes, get jacked.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 12:03 PM
18	Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece? Get jacked. Become talented and successful. Be confident and slightly cocky. Works every time. Race not a factor.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 08:52 PM
2	Gym and looks isn’t everything You've learned what all gymbros eventually learn; that getting jacked gets more attention from guys than girls!	/r/seduction	26/08/24 02:15 PM