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You’re 100% right. Don’t tell this dude, there is ZERO for you to gain from telling him but as you said opens you up to a world of allegations or a possible psycho retaliating. Hos are going to ho.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 01:04 AM
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Oh this man is Corey Wayne haha. Or at least read his book 10-12 times since you only retain 10% of what you read at a time /s
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 04:15 PM
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Hey hey, just made another comment, but at least you realize it about yourself. Don't focus so much on her and her feelings, and what she is thinking about you, and what you could have done wrong. Instead, focus on work, on your fitness, and having fun. Go back to a place of abundance and relax. You're all good, bro. Shes cooking for you, sending nudes, and fellating you. Chill and enjoy. Just saw your edit: if it's "the talk" take it with grace. She says, I think we should see other people, thi…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:57 PM
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The girl tends to overthink ​ Makes essay about her not talking to you as much for a day or two ​ abundance mindset. problem solved.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:55 PM
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In Crime and Punishment, that topic is debated. You're not virtuous if you don't commit crimes because you fear the punishment of doing so. You're cowardly. If you're a lover and not a fighter, but you know you'd get your ass kicked if you did fight, again there is nothing virtuous about that. You're just weak. If you know you could commit harm, but choose not to, then you're virtuous. I'm being a little esoteric here, but in regards to women and relationships, if you don't cheat because you don…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:53 PM
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Check out Jordan Peterson and his lectures on agreeableness. Sounds like you're high in that because you want to avoid conflict. It's dangerous because you lend yourself the opportunity to be taken advantage of by employers, women, friends, scammers, etc.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:50 PM
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Motivation comes and goes. Some points in life you will feel motivated and will attack the day to conquer your goals. Other days, you will feel like it’s all a waste of time and like you have no energy. Discipline is the key. Can you do it anyway, whether you feel like it or not?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:29 PM
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Great point, that’s why I put the (along those lines) in there as it’s hard to phrase without context. The context of “what to say” is going to vary but you’re last sentence hits the nail on the head for how to handle it. OP, understand this isn’t a strategy to get her back. It’s a practice in frame control and to not let anybody throw you off center. But... chicks will come back to fuck
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:03 AM
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You’ll likely get some contrary advice here- but for next time if a girl says ljbf go yeah okay that’s cool (along those lines). BUT you don’t actually be her friend. She texts you, be busy on your purpose and improving yourself. Be cordial and act like nothing is wrong but she is now on the back burner. NO texting conversations and chit chat as she will guaranteed text you about some innane bullshit. She asks to hang out or “do friend shit”. No don’t, you’re busy and have other things to do. As…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:12 AM
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If you don’t want to ignore it but not escalate, I’d just say something like “oh that’s a good one, very original.”
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:49 AM
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https://youtu.be/WjxvaEXcMy8 You lil dicky??
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:26 PM
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haha shes joking around dude. Still take the lead and set up the date, just do something other than pool.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:47 PM
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You live and you learn, I learned from experience too. Basically the same exact thing happened to me, girl was crazy about me, everything was good, and got the same text. "I thought about this a lot and I don't see us going any further..."
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:46 PM
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I'm 26 and finally moving to the city from the suburbs. Let me paint the picture in the suburbs for your consideration. I'm sure it's the same everywhere. Do you have a social circle in the suburbs? No? Well that sucks. Cause every bar you go to it's going to be different cliques of people. You know, the ones that have all been friends since high school and are rolling ten+ people deep. If yes, cool. Now you actually have the chance to meet more people and get in these circles. If not, good luck…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:40 PM
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Thats part of girl game. I've realized as soon as a girl thinks they have you, they're done. They want to feel like they had to work hard to win you over and to finally get you. A few dates and a few compliments was all it took for her to "get you" and for that reason- you're out. Could be another guy, an ex, etc. but my point still stands.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:28 PM
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It's interesting that much is clear. I guess you need to figure it out as you know more about your situation. You said you've been talking to her, but have you guys gone out? Have you been hooking up? To me I like that you just left her on read. You seem to have previously indicated to her that you were looking for something serious. She sent that picture and couldn't believe you left her on read. She wanted to get a reaction out of you. Don't get mad. Don't do anything crazy. Think. I'd ignore …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:22 PM
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You're good for right now, but I know (think) I can do better so I want to keep my options open.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:55 PM
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All I see is excuses and rationalizations. If you think people aren’t going out and dating or getting together, you’re kidding your self.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:17 AM
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I see some girls giving themselves lordosis
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:04 PM
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Serious case of oneitis for a girl you’ve never met bro. One day you’ll realize It was likely that “her abusive, manipulative ex” was just another dude on his own mission that she loves but he just fucks her and won’t commit. And she used you for attention so she gave you that sob story so she can be a victim and you can be the white knight who tries to save her. Now... you say you want to manipulate her into liking you but fail to realize she was manipulating you the whole time. Best course of …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:29 AM
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Spoken like a true bench warmer. People that actually play all make sacrifices and do their part so the team as a whole can be successful. If you play basketball and your role is defense and rebounding, you stick to it. Would that person like to score? Absolutely, but they know their role is crucial to the teams success and other players have their own skillset. Some handle the ball and pass, some can flat out score, and some are studs who can do it all. I probably wouldn't have played if I neve…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:56 PM
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Damn, sounds worse than my story. Glad you’re alright. We were just hanging out in the parking lot after the bar closed. Three cars pull up and they get out screaming “where’s the girl?! Where the fuck is she?! What do you guys know!?” We have no clue who they’re talking about. One of my buddies tell them they saw a girl walking across the street so they go look for her. They come speeding back in like 5-10 minutes later, and I’m like fuck we’re about to fight these dudes. Dude steps out and I g…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:27 PM
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Depends what you’re doing. If you’re out with some friends just be like hey we’re at xxx bar, you should come meet us up. If you’re not with friends, say hey I just got done with xxx want to get a drink at xxx? (Or a variation) Point is, it should look like you were in town for something else
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:39 PM
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I’ll answer that... not a chance in hell.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:21 AM
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Oh buddy is getting dumped. Probably in 3 months or more though so “it won’t be because of that”. But that’s a lethal shot. What do you guys think about this case... Dude pulls a gun on me and some buddies this past weekend, long story short we’re all okay. My friend, however, is crying hard as fuck with his girlfriend and saying sorry after the incident. She just keeps going why are you apologizing, it’s not your fault and this man is sobbing. I had to pull him to the side and tell him to stop …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:04 AM
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They're not your views though are they? They're views that were given to you as a child and have been passed down for thousands of years.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:14 PM
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Oh absolutely on the second one, I took my L and walked away. I was more so wondering if that is ALWAYS the case so I know to just change the subject or walk away if it happens again. Or as most people have said, these girls are crazy either way and just stay away.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:48 PM
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How you gonna be with a girl for a year but not have sex? Who knows why she won’t. Not that into you, virgin, scared, using you, etc. but the fact you put up with it is why she doesn’t do it. She gets everything she wants and gives up nothing
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:56 PM
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Who cares? If you get to fuck and not have to worry about dating or meeting her parents and all that shit then you're winning. Now you know she is never LTR material
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:25 PM
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If you're comparing bicep curls to squats and wondering why your legs are sore but your arms aren't, then you're lost. Go do hang cleans, snatches, OHP, and see if you don't get sore. I'm guessing you train like a typical gym bro and never really push yourself. Also you likely don't train your legs enough. You should be squatting three days a week, alternate strength and hypertrophy days i.e sets of 3-4 sets of 10 one day then 5 sets of 3-5 reps the next day. Do some deads/RDLs, and lunges on th…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:22 PM
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Look. I'd say 90% plus of girls won't come outright and tell you they just don't like you anymore or just don't want to be with you anymore. They don't want to feel guilty or bad and will usually give you some bullshit reasons such as: "You're too good for me, I dont deserve you." "I'm really busy with work and want to focus on myself." "I think we should be friends while you work on your mental issues, I do think you're a great guy." This leads to a lot of guys thinking there is still hope. Whi…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:11 PM
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This. It's the weakening of men and the family unit that got us into the mess in the first place.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:00 PM
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Anti slut defense. I’d say it isn’t. Unless he’s fucking other girls and genuinely doesn’t care, but if that was true he wouldn’t have made this post. Backpedaling would be if he was like no it’s okay, I just want to be friends or say he wanted more than just sex to appease her. But since he didn’t, she cane back a couple weeks later saying she was down to fuck and he went complete autist and said no. Which is fine, but why... Literally got what he wanted with no effort then said fuck it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:43 PM
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You told her you’re just down for sex and she comes back saying that... then you say you’re not interested anymore? Because she’s a girl and doesn’t want to just say yeah I’m only looking for sex too? Wtf man, should’ve just said perfect come over on xxx night.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:40 PM
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I mean you probably have no clue how to lift and eat properly which is fine, you just started. You should be tracking your calories and macros. You should be tracking your lifts and your progress. You should be running a real program. You should be sleeping 8 hours a night at least on a caloric surplus. If you're not doing these things, you won't make progress.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:26 PM
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Haha that’s how I felt. It just put me at peace. She said she was down to hang out then kept saying oh so why’d you change your mind about being friends and I didn’t comply. I basically told her I was just trying to hook up cause she was annoying me. ( didn’t say that) then she goes are you lost? I wouldn’t have even answered if you said anything about hooking up. I left it, and guess who texted me last night after a couple weeks? I just kept it short then left her on read but it’s funny. She mi…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:09 AM
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Update?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:20 AM
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I just went through the same thing. Went out for a few weeks, got the ljbf. I said nah, it’s been fun. She hit me up a month later, I hit her up the week to hang out and she said she was down but just kept saying shit like oh why’d you change your mind about being fiends... I essentially did what alphakari said to do. I nuked it and told her I just wanted to hook up. Didn’t work, but shooters shoot. I wasn’t going to waste my time texting her and trying to “win her back.” Nor was I going to agre…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:31 PM
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I think we had it right as a civilization where people were taught to date and wait for sex. It was about going above your biological imperatives to do what is best for society. What was best for society? Strong families where the man was the man of the house and taught his sons how to be men and the wife taught their daughter how to be women. I’m not religious but there is a reason why major religions all teach that same concept. We learned these lessons already, we have data that are backed up…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 01:06 AM
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Or a misunderstanding of it...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:37 PM
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20% of the time you buy them flowers? I hope thats a joke
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:49 PM
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You are who you are today, not who you were in the past. If you don't like it, change it. Are you going to build a time machine with your computer science degree or are you going to accept that you fucked up in the past and choose to start making a change TODAY?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:13 PM
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Yeah anything in particular? I highly recommend reading the rational male (I never read the book but a lot of his articles are top tier). There was a post here the other day where a 23 year old was lamenting his lack of success even though he was a "great guy". He lifted, had a good paying job, was ambitious in life, and just couldn't understand why he would never get anywhere with women. The thing you have to understand is he is playing right into the feminine imperative and doesn't even realiz…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:00 PM
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Depends what you mean. The times have changed, women haven’t. Girls from the 90s (read in their 20s in the 90s) would behave just how women do today. What’s changed is the connection of people through online dating and social media. You’re not competing against the guys in your hometown anymore, but everybody else in the surrounding area. Then social media gives girls endless validation and every basic ass cute girl suddenly thinks they’re gods gift to men and deserve a top tier guy. Couple this…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:14 AM
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Jordan Peterson’s daughter separating from her beta husband who she had a kid with and start fucking Andrew Tate is pretty high on that list for me. Literally the leader of “do the right thing, man up, and be a father” had his own daughter be a typical broad once she got a litttle bit of media attention
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 01:38 PM
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Read letting go of invisible friends on the rational male
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:15 AM
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Rational male invisible friends
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:30 AM
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Run a real program. Learn how to do the lifts. Give it time. Eat, you should be gaining weight and getting stronger on your lifts. At first as long as you’re getting stronger you’re good, it takes time to build muscle. In 3 months you’ll probably think you’re in good shape and want to flex and pose but you’ll look like a fucking idiot cause you’ll still be small but you’ll “feel good”. Then keep going. Then in a year you’ll be like ok now I’m strong and buff, but you’re not. You’re still small a…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:47 AM
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https://www.cbssports.com/nfl/news/nfl-draft-prospect-ben-bartch-gained-weight-for-position-change-by-eating-the-nastiest-combination-of-food/ He put on 60 pounds... you do what you have to do to get it done.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:38 PM
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Find creative ways to get extra calories. I love tuna, if I’m bulking I throw in more mayonnaise than I normally would. Chocolate milk with most of my meals on top of protein shakes twice a day. The way I’d make my protein shakes is this- 2 scoops of protein, frozen berry mix, half a cup of steel cut oats, couple scoops of peanut butter, creatine, and some milk. You drink two of those you’re getting over 1000 calories.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:35 PM
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Her power is your hope of potential pussy. She knows that. That’s why she says she’s not ready instead of just being honest and saying she’s not sexually attracted to you. The jig is up though. Next.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:34 PM
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Young girls don’t want a “good guy”. They want someone hot, fun, and exciting that isn’t going to give a shit if they’re around or not. Tip: stop giving a fuck. I’m working on it now too, as I’ve always been called a great guy and it gets me nowhere. You’re safe. You’re husband material. Lift, get shredded, and have a fun ass life. Don’t fall for the be a good guy with a good job bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:49 AM
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I knew a presumably a bi dude. He had a girlfriend but seemed gay (mannerisms, effeminate) found out he would kiss dudes at clubs and shit which didn’t surprise any of us. He was a really good guy, pretty damn funny, made an effort to get along with people but wasn’t your typical guy. His girlfriend was a babe too and they were together for like 4 years. Not sure if she’s just a cover, but yeah I couldn’t care less. One of my best friends from childhood is gay. He acts like a complete diva thoug…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:47 AM
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Don't contact her again. Sounds like she is trying to manipulate you for money or some shit. 3 years and she just shows up crying??
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:50 PM
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This girl sounds insane
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:44 PM
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I did the first time, I told her I'm not interested in being friends and we didn't talk for a month. Then I saw she liked me on Tinder but I didn't match. Next she hit me up the night after my birthday to say it. Then I hit her up and said we should go on a cruise and hang out during this shit (which she said she'd be down). Then when I tried to say we could go Thursday she started saying oh as friends 800 times or why I changed my mind about being friends. You're completely right though I shoul…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:20 PM
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Yep, never again. I was watching too many Corey Wayne videos where he says if a girl reaches back out to you assume she wants to see you again and make a date to hang out. I figured I'd try his advice.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:27 AM
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Was the whole thing bad or just the end? I don't get what I was supposed to say. She kept on trying to get me to say yeah lets go as friends so I was trying to avoid that...
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:06 AM
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Yeah the reactive part of me I've been trying to work on. Its wild that I thought I thought I did pretty good here but you still picked up on it so that shows I have a lot of work to do. The reactive part being the end of the convo where "I blow it up" by being honest.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:51 AM
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Come on man. Control yourself, messaging 16 year olds and saying that weird shit?? Don't be so thirsty. I mean if people find out then yeah that can be pretty fucking bad.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:48 PM
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Why do you have to ask us man. It’s not going to be the end of the world if you don’t go. Tell her she can come over but you’re tired from working all day and just want to chill. You’ll go tomorrow...
/r/seduction09/04/20 12:29 AM
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You’re going to stop your car, get out; and go talk to a girl with her family in the middle of the day? A. Looks thirsty as hell B. Looks creepy C. What is the girl going to do if she is into and her fam is right there?
/r/seduction07/04/20 12:54 AM
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Lmao yeah that’s an almost impossible approach bud
/r/seduction06/04/20 11:28 PM
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Idk man. How long have you been friends for?? I feel like people know if they’re actually best friends or really good friends with somebody. I have a few best friends that I talk to but we don’t text everyday. I mean fuck, my best friend just called me for the yesterday and I haven’t seen or talked to him in 3 weeks. We caught up a little bit about what we’ve been up to and bullshitted. Now, I might not talk to him for another couple weeks, who knows. If I get a text from my boys I might see it …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:02 AM
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Right! It’s good practice and gets people taking action which is always a good thing. They’ll learn it’s not the line or topic but who you are when saying it
/r/seduction03/04/20 01:43 AM
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You’re right man. All you can do now is cry and masturbate. No girl will ever like you because of your shitty eyes. Don’t bother working out, having goals, a good social life, or a good career because none of that is going to change your shitty eyes. Might as well kill yourself now.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:41 PM
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I mean really conversations can me be never ending. When you go out with your friends, you don’t go in thinking about what you’re going to say or what topics to talk about. You guys just talk about whatever comes up naturally. Usually somebody will have something on their mind or make an observation, literally anything and then the conversation just goes on and on. I recommend this approach opposed to going in with a specific topic to talk about. BUT if you’re really that nervous and unconfident…
/r/seduction02/04/20 12:20 AM
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A lot of people are just looking for people to reinforce their beliefs on a certain topic or question under the guise of asking a question or starting a discussion.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 12:16 AM
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Is this what making it feels like?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:34 AM
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You right. I swiped left
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:45 PM
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Who cares what this one girl thinks?? You're seriously overthinking this little tiny interaction?? Have you tried to get her number, ask her out, set anything up to see her? No? Then how the hell would you or any of us know?
/r/seduction20/03/20 06:40 PM
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