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| 7 | As a divorced man, what are the red flags before the marriage?This is a not obvious one but its what got me: Are they overly responsible? Do they just take on and do everything without discussing or being asked and even when you ask them to leave something to you or say you do not need them to do everything for you, just keep doing it? They will keep taking on responsibilities and then resent you for "not carrying an equal load" down the line. Are they constantly overextending themselves for everyone? They are a people pleaser and need everyone's praise to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Why did therapy not work? Be honest, don’t give me the polite, mature answer.I wouldn't know the specifics because I have no reason to keep contact with her other than to receive alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/25 01:09 AM |
| 8 | Why did therapy not work? Be honest, don’t give me the polite, mature answer.She was having an emotional affair confiding in another man about how rough our marriage was right now instead of talking it through with me. She escalated that from an emotional affair to a full affair and then divorced me without telling me all of that so she could feel less guilty. I had to piece all that together after the divorce and get her to admit it to actually know all of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Moving on… (A rebound or a slam dunk…)My wife of 2 years who i was with for almost 8 (yesterday would have been the 8th anniversary of us as a couple) divorced men last month so she could chase a relationship with her coach/physical therapist. I currently plan on waiting atleast 8 months (1 for each year we were together) before pursuing a relationship. In the meantime, I like you will focus on myself. Exercise, rekindling hobbies, making friends, and volunteering in my community. All that while seeing a therapist to work through my… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 09:43 PM |
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