I think it seems this way in these online bubbles. They’re full of frustrated men and resentful women that have axes to grind with each other. Personally, I’ve met both awesome and horrible people from both genders.
Also, I don’t consider myself as having a dog in this fight, I just think it’s an interesting analysis and posted it here for the sake of discussion. There’s no reason to flame here, go back to /r/inceltear to do that.
Anything’s possible but it was posted by an academic, I’m not sure why he’d go through the effort to just make shit up out of thin air and destroy his credibility/reputation
Don’t move somewhere that you’re gonna hate living. Moving to a city makes sense in your case, but pick one where you’ll be happier. NYC or DC might be a little more favorable for men but if you struggle in general, it’s not like it will be easy there. San Diego could be a good choice.