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I really wish this comment received more attention. You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:59 PM
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Pros: Likely to be sexually attractive Likely confident in her body and sensuality More likely to know what she's doing Cons: She's promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:11 PM
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I shouldn't be disappointed at the result since I know that's how it is in general, but geez. Good that you're in a better environment now though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:56 PM
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Are you keeping a record of these sort of responses and interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:49 PM
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Well, the assumption I'm making is that the parents are married, so that would indicate at least some level of success. More specifically, I think having parents who are more honest about what people actually look for and how they actually behave would be valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:23 PM
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Sorry, I'm not sure I understand what you're saying on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:11 PM
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The same people who complain about the state of men in dating are essentially saying the boys should just get it, or it's only their father's job to teach them. Y'all are hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:10 PM
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To be fair, the state of dating appears to be awful, so maybe they should start.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:08 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:45 PM
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That's dope. Glad y'all had fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:33 PM
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Yo, how'd the date night go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:29 PM
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I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:31 PM
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There isn't a contradiction because the premise is the woman breaks up with the guy for a better one. She wouldn't be alpha widowed because she would view this new guy in that light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:23 PM
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Evolutionarily speaking, men have always been able to do the same. Actually, you made the claim, so you would have to prove it. I know you are trolling him though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:20 PM
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Tbh, it seems your problem is less with the manosphere and more with white dudes. In any case, what will your participation at PPD do to curb this issue? What does posting Ph.D theses to random PPD dudes who just "yeah but" you accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:31 PM
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Do you have any concrete examples? This one is a cop-out. I'm asking how the manosphere has impacted your ability to live your life as a woman. Also, are you encountering these people in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:15 PM
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Then it impacts our ability to live our lives How
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:39 PM
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I legit think a lot of them thrive off of conflict and negativity lol Like it's a release so they won't do it in their own relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:47 AM
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I'm literally shaking rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:46 AM
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I have you tagged as "Knows what she's talking about", so I've probably encountered some insightful comments of yours in the past. This post reinforces that tag. I will say, however, that grocery stores and gym encounters would likely be okay if you've seen each other multiple times. Like each encounter slightly escalates until you finally have a full conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:59 PM
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What about that is supposed to sound attractive to women? This is what you guys don't get. It was never for you. You weren't supposed to be a part of the conversation. I don't even know how women ended up getting involved in the manosphere. It's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:54 PM
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Blatant. Flagrant even
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:48 AM
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Y'all really do make it seem like you're upset that you're not women sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:43 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/128gqs2/dating_an_older_woman_but/ I just think it's funny how...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:41 AM
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Does every single one of them seem like they have visceral attraction to their guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:56 AM
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I would agree. I've come to the same conclusion about specific men and women in this sub. I will just say that I think it's dangerous to let them inform your opinion of all men in the same way you would likely balk at someone basing their opinion and empathy for women off of the views and vitriol of misandrists. Hopefully you don't allow them to pull you too far down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:48 PM
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You've said this multiple times now from what I can see. Did some of the men on this sub hurt you in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:43 PM
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bby Mexican girl may not be your cup of tea, but if she's getting male attention, some of them like her. And it goes bot Using Rihanna and Beyonce as examples of dark-skinned women is completely tone deaf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:40 PM
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And why are you coming to PPD about this? You aren't the PPD gatekeeper. Relax
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:32 PM
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https://twitter.com/diamondmolar/status/1641108127180365827
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:52 PM
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Look what you're doing right now lol Since y'all like having so much to say, tell me: was my initial observation confined to only PPD women in terms of applicability?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:27 PM
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And if I do, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:50 PM
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Not reading != unable to read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:34 PM
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Yep, step into any of the dating advice subs (especially the ones for over 30s), and you will see this eventually. Has anyone had attraction develop later instead of feeling that initial "spark"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:32 PM
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he says “tummy” in a baby voice Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:28 PM
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Now you're thinkin' I was worried for a sec
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:52 PM
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You do the above a lot, huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:10 AM
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Tbh sometimes y'all just like trying to argue about something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:45 AM
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That lady's goin' through it What's for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:32 AM
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I've noticed a tendency women have of making unrealistic or irrelevant/fringe hypotheticals to try to counter a stated preference, and it's funny to see. It's like: I don't want to date a promiscuous woman. Ok, but what if she wanted you before she was promiscuous but was too shy to talk to you and now she's more confident in herself and her sexuality? That's not attractive? Man, go away lol As soon as those "but what if "s come out, I know it's about to be a ride, and I know y'all do that mess …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:30 AM
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I'm assuming you've been home for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:21 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:26 PM
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I don't know how to articulate this, but I think there's a balance somewhere. I agree that resentment can and does build in the case of reluctant settling. However, I don't think it's as binary as people make it out to be. People compromise a lot in life since many people don't get their first choices in things they want. Half of me agrees that it's best to be someone's first choice, but the other half thinks that's an unrealistic expectation for people to have en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:12 PM
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I don't like this trend of comparing the best of men with the average and worst of women and vice-versa. Most men aren't what you've listed either and many are what you say women are in the first sentence. What's your goal in writing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:57 PM
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I hold a similar sentiment, but if you are getting everything you want out of her, why does it matter what she did for her plan-A? Maybe I'm not articulating it properly. I'm still trying to iron out the idea/question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:54 PM
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That's interesting. Why do you feel resentment would grow? Have you ever been content with an option that was not your first choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:52 PM
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Nope. You are fully aware that you were not her first choice. She doesn't treat you like that though. Would that still be a problem? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:44 PM
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I've noticed that you are quietly one of the most effective trolls on here It's wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:41 PM
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I didn't ask if her opinion of you mattered though; I asked if being first choice still matters if you're getting the treatment you want out of the relationship. If it does still matter, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:36 PM
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An interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:30 PM
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I knew someone would answer like this. If your interactions with her never made you feel that way, would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:28 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:27 PM
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There's really nothing to say at this point lol Women don't like being judged by something that disqualifies a lot of them. Men try to rationalize why they have an aversion to it. Neither side really listens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:15 PM
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In order to do what though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:13 PM
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Q4M: If you are getting everything you want out of a relationship with a woman, does being non-first-choice still matter? If so, why? Ladies, I specifically want the guys' opinions on this but I know y'all don't follow directions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:12 PM
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Like, what are you trying to get him to see/do? I'm asking as an observer, not a critic btw because tone isn't certain online
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:03 PM
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Why'd you type this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:00 PM
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Troy climbing a tree onto Gabriella's balcony at night and telling her to "turn around" was peak romance Definitely not creepy in the slightest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:05 AM
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-Me when people demand picture proof of my 5-year relationship with Meagan Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:07 PM
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Yeah, I get you; just thought it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:04 PM
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Those movies are fire, so what're you trying to say???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:51 PM
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Please don't use David Goggins as a comparison to any sane human being lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:47 PM
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Tbf, I don't even know how that happened. The manosphere was for the average guy (AFC-average frustrated chump). It was meant to help dudes (who actually put forth effort) "seal the deal". What it is today is a lot of helplessness. Like that one poster who's like Help me! No, not like that #wrestling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:45 PM
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I have 2 PhD's from Princeton and Harvard Lemme see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:29 PM
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Wait, so you are not a moderator of any of these groups, but you are attempting to discredit the shared insight of one who actually was by conjecturing they didn't run it productively? Am I reading this incorrectly? I don't want to misrepresent you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:16 PM
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Read what you wrote above
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:34 PM
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He's a singer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:25 PM
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You gotta ask them that. Nor is it relevant to our conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:11 PM
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Then your sentence makes no sense because they'd acknowledge the possibility of it happening at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:05 PM
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I don't like his music This is going too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:54 PM
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"She isn't yours; it's just your turn" is literally a main catchphrase for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:54 PM
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That was my satirical version of what they end up doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:23 AM
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Yo, reading those posts where an OP gets brainwashed into a public apology is wild. It's one thing to change your mind after considering alternate perspectives, but when it's like: After reading all of your comments, I realize my feelings were invalid, and I now understand that I was wrong for thinking I could have emotions. I will do better to not make this mistake in the future. Come on, man. Why'd you let them bully you into that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:22 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:11 PM
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Sometimes I really feel like people are only making arguments/statements about caricatures that you see in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:35 PM
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By not being delusional. Be more detailed. What is a solution to fix this problem you state exists with these men? What would you have them do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:41 PM
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What's your goal in saying this? How would you solve this "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:50 PM
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You didn't get enough appreciation for this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:48 PM
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"I'm sad. :(" I'm sorry, but that made me laugh LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:44 PM
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Why is this even a question? Do you think most men have mastered this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:42 AM
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Both of you back off; she's mine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:39 AM
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The purplish approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:37 AM
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You need me to copy and paste it again? Still the best interaction I've had on here lol If anything though, I will say your story reinforces the idea that once ladies begin to feel a sense of discomfort or emotional dissatisfaction in a relationship, their defenses around other attractive suitors weakens. Admirably, you seem to have managed to overcome it or are in the process of doing so, and I like your devotion to your relationship and how you go to bat for your husband on here. On another no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:22 AM
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In the spirit of acknowledging contributions, I have learned a lot from the women on this sub. Some were instrumental to understanding how women think (ex. Atlas was amazingly open and frank about this. I only name her because she's no longer on the sub from my understanding). For others, I had to read between the lines a little, but I still learned form them as well. Even the ones who are more emotionally charged, I learned how they tend to respond in certain situations. You can learn a lot her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:15 PM
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Oh dang. Hope the dude's getting through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:30 AM
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It would begin a very uncomfortable conversation for most people, so I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:03 AM
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It's actually kind of funny how both parties experience the same woes from the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:02 AM
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It may not be too late, but she'd have to be relatively open to being told she spends too much money and taught a better way. If I may ask, would you be comfortable marrying her if she fixed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:59 AM
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I agreed with the spirit of this whole comment, so I'm not going to get bogged down on the details I disagreed with. Thanks for the convo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:30 PM
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I think what you're getting at is that the way he phrased the message signaled some hostility associated with incels. Is that a fair characterization? I acknowledge that tact is important, but there is a balance. From my understanding, the men aren't saying "I cried and was immediately dumped". Rather, they're saying that they noticed their woman's disposition toward them changed considerably afterwards and over time led to behaviors that signaled a loss of respect and attraction. Ironically, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:10 PM
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If there was definitive proof, the operation would be ruined for the guys doing it. Those "are we dating the same men" groups don't exist for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:03 PM
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You're getting caught up in phrasing instead of the message. Also, I understand that you and other women exist who are like this. You are not the default. Otherwise, it wouldn't be a near-universal experience for men. Are you willing to acknowledge that possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:43 PM
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The topic of conversation isn't regarding men being traumatized by women because their mother pimped them out and locked them in a closet for 18 years. Why is that your first example of a man being hurt by a woman? Come on now If it wasn't clear by my first question, I'm interested in why you have this rage because it colors your comments across the subreddit. I also said it's fine if you don't want to share. You responded anyway. If you need to huff and puff in order to exit the conversation, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:40 PM
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I can understand your frustration. Women literally get shat on in this sub for simply saying that they're afraid of men because they've been abused before. I would be frustrated as well. I will ask, however, if you are open to the possibility that men have also been hurt by women? Can it be more than simply not getting their penises serviced as teenagers? It doesn't make sense to resent people you don't know and have never met. I've read many of your comments, and you're doing just that. Intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:28 PM
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That's not what I meant. It's okay if you don't want to share though. I genuinely hope you have a positive experience from men in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:12 PM
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You can't say it's incel-based when thousands of men are relaying their experiences from what happened in their sexually active relationships. That's just dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:09 PM
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Your observation mirrors my own. You see that a lot on subs like AITA or other judgement-based environments. The default behavior is to try to find a way to pin it on the guy. I'm grateful for the women who don't do that on those subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:06 PM
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It may happen because of a platitude of [reasons] I believe the word you're looking for is 'plethora'. 'Platitude' doesn't work in this context. As for your question, one reason could be that women are more likely to assume a relationship with the man they're having sex with. The guy may think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:03 PM
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I'm genuinely asking this: are you okay, gofigure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:59 PM
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Gotta know that they just like to talk sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:52 PM
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The second rule is the manliness points rule. Atlas (I believe) really introduced something special with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:22 AM
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Nearly every time I express a blackpill view, someone assumes I live in my mom’s basement or I’m a virgin. For some reason I've yet to discover, people are uncomfortable with ideas such as these. For them, it's much easier either emotionally, psychologically, or whatever else to be sarcastic and make caracitures in order to, not disprove a point, but to discredit those making it, rendering it unpersuasive to those observing. I'm not even sure I agree all of the way, but you'd have to be blind to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:02 AM
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their jokes aren’t funny but they don’t realize it because dudes simp to them I felt this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:49 PM
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This is wildly accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:46 PM
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In many cases, it's to try to trap them into a marriage. Hence why men have stories about her changing after the "I do" You guys keep conflating the presence of something as evidence of pure intentions behind it. It's really naive and/or disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:31 PM
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Thanks for sharing that; glad it's working out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:49 PM
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But I just saw a couple in my local Walmart that disproves it, so there!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:39 PM
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Got you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:37 PM
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I did alot of soulsearching, deprogrammed myself mentally and its like night and day. I just woke up a few days ago and noticed that i didn't care anymore. You skipped some details, big dog. What was the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:36 PM
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Lonely woman plots to steal married neighbor as a husband. Doesn't see what neighbor man sees in his pregnant wife. Woman changes mind after watching the man's unruly children. Posts to Reddit Husband finds post,connects dots, asks if it's her, shuts her down hard. Lonely woman tries to call him (presumably to run verbal damage control) Her posts and comments are a masterclass in mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:35 PM
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I truly hope this post is fake. That lady is a mess. My goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:14 PM
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Yes please. Have it on my desk by tomorrow morning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:51 PM
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This is a very naive question to be as old as you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:38 PM
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Have a nice night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:53 AM
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Are you likely to get an elite job with an empty resume? Because if i have two candidates, one is an empty resume and one is acrook Have a nice night, ma'am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:40 AM
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Was that the question though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:34 AM
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Are you likely to get an elite job with an empty resume?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:28 AM
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Lady, you see these Starbucks prices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:41 PM
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For the most part, you can tell the difference between male and female posters by writing style, so it would still end up having bias. I like the concept though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:56 PM
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Personal fitness training for female clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:53 PM
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Do women exist outside of you and your friends? If so, is it possible that they think differently? Possible, but seeing as I observe what I can in the age of internet, it's not super likely. This is easily one of the best exchanges I've had on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:13 PM
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People who make posts like this are so lame. I don't even disagree with the overall message.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:12 AM
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It's easier to paint a narrative than to engage with nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:11 AM
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In general, no. The impression I get is that many women think men are failed versions of them. Nor, quite frankly, do I get the sense that they feel an incentive to try to understand. Some are super dope though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:43 PM
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It's literally taught to children: "When you did that, how do you think that made him/her feel?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:10 PM
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In fact, who people term as "psychopaths" and "sociopaths" are excellent counterpoints to her claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:09 PM
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But the follow up to hair twirling is not kissing the woman. I just pictured this and laughed at how awkward that'd be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:07 PM
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When a woman likes you, YOU WILL KNOW. You can't claim this definitively when there are hundreds of men who always talk about missing the signs that a woman likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:02 PM
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Which would make a financial setback all the more devastating, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:23 PM
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Progress has been made; it just doesn't look that way. The arguments do recycle (like a lot), but if you've been on here for a long time, you'll notice an sizeable dearth if not absence of what used to be labeled "Blue Pill". At first, it was RP vs BP vs other curious people. Now it's more of a gendered thing. The thing is though, many of the ladies here aren't even really disagreeing anymore with the ideas. They disagree with who says them and how it's phrased. And even then, it's because some …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:22 PM
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Oh ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:27 PM
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Maybe men should just date eachother and be eachothers peace instead Take this back to Twitter please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:15 PM
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Simple, but not easy for me at least. For me, it's easy not to buy the stuff. If it's there though, I'm likely going to eat it. Even if I resist for a long time, it'll eventually be consumed. They're designed to be addictive and calorie-dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:02 PM
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Pasting a comment I've made on this topic: While there are men who literally mean they couldn't care less, I think generally men mean that a woman's career and achievements do not influence him romantically or sexually. We simply are not as "wowed" by it like many women are. For example, there are many women who take on their husband's achievements as their own because they can subconsciously weaponize it for social standing. Military spouses, police wives, politicians, etc. are great examples o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:53 PM
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-Victoria Justice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:54 AM
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"Look at this beautiful cow. Still like burgers?" Like, yes. Yes I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:52 AM
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The way women on AITA can raise a hypothetical to completely ignore the obvious is incredible to witness. The poster can say "what I saw walked like a duck, quacked like one, and was even shaped like one, so I said it was a duck", and they'd be like Lady 1: YTA. What if it was a dog that was adopted by a mama duck as a pup? Obviously, it would have learned to closely emulate her behaviors and body language. You're making too many assumptions. Lady 2: I agree. OP is clearly wrapped up in trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:51 AM
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Same. I've noticed we tend to assume we all have the same definitions for words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:16 AM
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When you say 'friends', do you mean like legit 'ride-or-die'-type people, or acquaintances?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:36 AM
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Hey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:18 AM
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Slow it down for me; I might get it this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:06 AM
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Y'all find a way to lecture about anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:59 AM
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I can assure you that I'm well aware of where we are. Your comment had nothing to do with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:57 AM
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Why did you tell me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:53 AM
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A lot of Redditors are [redacted]. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:43 AM
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Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:21 PM
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I don't think this changes what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:15 PM
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You're not more concerned about a number of women needing mental illness medication than proving to men that women are happy being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:57 PM
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To be honest, the level of cognitive dissonance it takes to complain about sexual objectification and willingly wear clothing to accentuate sexual characteristics has to be exhausting. I don't know how they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:54 PM
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That's disrespectful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:37 AM
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They're being mad disingenuous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:30 AM
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You could also argue a man who wears cologne is trying to use deception to hide or cover what his natural scent is I highly doubt anyone has ever been deceived by a man's cologne. The funk and must comes through as evidenced by the Axe body spray trend. Come on now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:27 AM
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Grows naturally vs. artificial. I get what you're saying. However, men don't spend over an hour a day "putting on their face". I'm not moving from that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:20 AM
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You cannot equate something men grow naturally to something women deliberately seek and manufacture to make themselves artificially more attractive. I understand James Harden is considerably less attractive without the beard. He still grew it. That's like saying a guy is masking for working out. It's cool if most women disagree; it's in their best interest to do so. I still hold my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:11 AM
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If you don't mind sharing, what are some key points you've learned?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:09 AM
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They got snacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:04 AM
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I disagree with your premise. Denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:00 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:55 AM
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Do you grow makeup? Why do y'all make these tired comparisons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:20 AM
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When you think about it, it's actually rather sad that so many women have to wear fake accessories and make-up to feel good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:32 PM
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She saw herself and her experiences in Pamela and is basically writing about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:16 PM
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It's like the entire idea behind "one-itis" or however it's spelled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:35 PM
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Clearly they meant to take a break from eating buttermilk biscuits and instead munch on some delicious cookies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:29 PM
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Cookies, grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:22 PM
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While there are men who literally mean they couldn't care less, I think generally men mean that a woman's career and achievements do not influence him romantically or sexually. We simply are not as "wowed" by it like many women are. For example, there are many women who take on their husband's achievements as their own because they can subconsciously weaponize it for social standing. Military spouses, police wives, politicians, etc. are great examples of this ("My husband is a [ ] You can't do […
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:23 PM
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That sounds awful. Please don't ruin your life as a result of his actions (as hard as that is). I honestly can't imagine going through that and then reading (and moderating) the more bitter, vile takes on women here. You have my condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:13 PM
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"talk" as in non-platonically court. Like, not "talk" but talk As in, "yeah, we used to talk back in the day". I missed it at first, but I think I get what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:19 PM
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I need to get on that. Never had those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:16 PM
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Ok, but tacos vs. Chinese? Whatcha got
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:08 PM
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Are people still breathing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:51 PM
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Fair enough, I appreciate this perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:02 PM
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Absolutely. I experience it myself. It's just interesting because some women will straight-up tell you they need to be given hard choices in order to make a decision for dinner (something that occurs every day), but would likely scoff at the idea that someone would need to do that for their love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:36 PM
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I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:33 PM
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Everyone's seen, experienced, or heard of women being unable to make a choice for what to eat. Many women on this sub have said that the amount of options makes it near impossible to make a decision. Does this extend to dating? If not, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:19 PM
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To be fair, this conversation wasn't supposed to include them at-large in the first place (if at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:45 PM
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I'm partial to the definition listed in this article. Pasting: Confidence develops when you have a deep sense that you can handle the emotional outcome of whatever you face or pursue. Another way to put it is that confidence is the felt sense of a “can-do" attitude. The idea is that it is not something that one develops directly, but is a by-product of emotional maturity and positive self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:51 PM
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