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I really wish this comment received more attention. You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:59 PM
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Pros: Likely to be sexually attractive Likely confident in her body and sensuality More likely to know what she's doing Cons: She's promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:11 PM
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I shouldn't be disappointed at the result since I know that's how it is in general, but geez. Good that you're in a better environment now though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:56 PM
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Are you keeping a record of these sort of responses and interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:49 PM
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You see it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:21 PM
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Let-Me-Whisper-in-Your-Ear You think you're a Ying Yang Twin? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:20 PM
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Well, the assumption I'm making is that the parents are married, so that would indicate at least some level of success. More specifically, I think having parents who are more honest about what people actually look for and how they actually behave would be valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:23 PM
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Sorry, I'm not sure I understand what you're saying on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:11 PM
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The same people who complain about the state of men in dating are essentially saying the boys should just get it, or it's only their father's job to teach them. Y'all are hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:10 PM
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To be fair, the state of dating appears to be awful, so maybe they should start.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:08 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:45 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12etogr/daily_community_chat_megathread/jfdeb3m/ The exchanges here are a perfect example of what I am getting at when I critique the adversarial women on this sub. The use of equivocation, the subtle taunting, condescension, the lack of accountability, and the unwillingness to apologize for a wrong are all readily on display. There's even an example of a woman covering for another woman's poor behavior. Not to mention that approaching someone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:49 PM
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That's dope. Glad y'all had fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:33 PM
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Yo, how'd the date night go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:29 PM
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Nah, a lot of the loud men here are lazy. The amount of typos, poor grammar, hasty generalizations, and imprecise arguments make it easy for the women here to ask probing, sometimes tangential questions that make the male posters back themselves into a corner and invalidate their positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:26 PM
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I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:31 PM
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There isn't a contradiction because the premise is the woman breaks up with the guy for a better one. She wouldn't be alpha widowed because she would view this new guy in that light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:23 PM
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Evolutionarily speaking, men have always been able to do the same. Actually, you made the claim, so you would have to prove it. I know you are trolling him though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:20 PM
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I'm bemused that you don't think laughing push back accomplishes all three of those goals. I mean hey, if you think it makes sense, who am I, right? I still think it was the nosy thing and having something to argue about lol it's interesting that you never answered if you encountered these people in person. I work with highly educated, generally empathetic people. If they think women are idiotic, emotional, hypergamous bags of shit, they're doing a very good job of hiding it. So "no" lol You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:30 AM
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While I can agree with that in a vacuum, I'm here solely to laugh at men who believe dumbass redpill shit. Nothing is going to be solved by my participation here at this point, I'm not sure you know why you're really here. First it was to defend your way of life, then it was only to laugh at idiots, and now it's to valiantly take a stand against an ideology by making the adherents know there's resistance and offer aid to the voices of the unheard. You're all over the place tbh Also, it's interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:45 AM
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What are you disrupting by being among people whose ideologies you believe are unchangeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:09 AM
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So you got involved because you "have to" since it allegedly impacts your ability to live your life via the dire examples you gave, but you're also only here to laugh at men for their "dumbass" beliefs that you don't believe can be changed? You're just here to be nosy lol It's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:59 AM
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I get being frustrated, but I'm not with dehumanizing her by calling her an "it". It's very clear that she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:21 AM
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From what I've noticed, she does reveal a staggering lack of precision in the fellas' arguments, but her standards on logical argument become rather lenient when it comes to her own She's also like the poster child for what I mean when I say people weaponize example/proof requests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:16 AM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:47 PM
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Nail beds looking like tree stumps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:40 PM
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Tbh, it seems your problem is less with the manosphere and more with white dudes. In any case, what will your participation at PPD do to curb this issue? What does posting Ph.D theses to random PPD dudes who just "yeah but" you accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:31 PM
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Do the Q4M, Q4W flairs inherently place the two on opposing sides? The idea of the sub is RP vs BP (vs. everyone else), but it seems like it's become a gendered thing almost strictly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:20 PM
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Sure, but you're like the first I've seen confirm that; it's validating is all. I appreciate the self-awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:17 PM
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Do you have any concrete examples? This one is a cop-out. I'm asking how the manosphere has impacted your ability to live your life as a woman. Also, are you encountering these people in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:15 PM
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Definitely. I learned a lot from her posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:35 PM
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I feel you; glad you have a good mindset about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:33 PM
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Don't worry about it. I'm glad you've found a happy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:25 PM
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Ok, we'll keep pretending lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:22 PM
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Regarding my marriage, well, its lovely and unremarkable, probably because I vent my mean girl nonsense here. I win 100 points
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:21 PM
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The men who say your experience is impossible; the ones you're shading. Why post it in the first place if you didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:15 PM
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One of the only people I feel was actually honest about their intentions was Poppy. She made it clear multiple times that she was here to dunk on "misogynistic" men and feel intellectually superior (my own words). More people come and stay with that intention than will admit. For both sides. Shout out to the people who are here to have conversations though. It's a fascinating topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:12 PM
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Respectfully, that's not what I asked you though. What do you want them to get out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:09 PM
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There are many posts on AITA, the relationship advice subs, and other media platforms where women begin to feel like "he's not doing enough" after it takes him too long to right-the-ship in their imagined time frame, and the relationship suffers as a result of the lost respect. That's not to say that's where you're headed, but be mindful of that. Hypergamy isn't as simple as "I'm a gold-digger so I'll leave at any sign of financial trouble." Hopefully your situation turns around soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:08 PM
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What do you want them to take away from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:59 PM
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I've noticed that ads are much more openly licentious as of late, and people haven't really said anything about it. And it's not due to what I consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:56 PM
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You see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:54 PM
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For me, it's because the women this applies to use plausible deniability to insult people and try to prop themselves as moral authorities in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:54 PM
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I wonder when the hypergamy was supposed to kick in From what I've seen, it kicks in if/when you begin to feel consistently overwhelmed and lose respect for him. For example, how long do you expect to be in this financial situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:53 PM
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I've yet to see anyone change his or her mind when presented with data on any side. It will always be dismissed as invalid or illegitimate in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:49 PM
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The way women on Twitter were mad during the "still beat" was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:42 PM
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You too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:41 PM
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Then it impacts our ability to live our lives How
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:39 PM
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And at least a passing knowledge of the subject of debate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:52 AM
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I'd grab a swatter so fast lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:48 AM
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I legit think a lot of them thrive off of conflict and negativity lol Like it's a release so they won't do it in their own relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:47 AM
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I'm literally shaking rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:46 AM
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It's hard to accept something that doesn't make sense every time. She said "nuance is hard for me" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:07 PM
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One thing you realize is that early American women who stayed at home were busy as hell! I feel like people would know this inherently if they read more. Literary novels in these settings almost never paint women in as living frivolously unless they are rich rich. At least not from what I recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:02 PM
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I have you tagged as "Knows what she's talking about", so I've probably encountered some insightful comments of yours in the past. This post reinforces that tag. I will say, however, that grocery stores and gym encounters would likely be okay if you've seen each other multiple times. Like each encounter slightly escalates until you finally have a full conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:59 PM
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What about that is supposed to sound attractive to women? This is what you guys don't get. It was never for you. You weren't supposed to be a part of the conversation. I don't even know how women ended up getting involved in the manosphere. It's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:54 PM
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Nobody needs to see all that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:42 PM
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Projection, goading, calumny, and childish insults. You hit the woman argument bingo-card lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:41 PM
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Blatant. Flagrant even
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:48 AM
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Y'all really do make it seem like you're upset that you're not women sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:43 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/128gqs2/dating_an_older_woman_but/ I just think it's funny how...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:41 AM
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Does every single one of them seem like they have visceral attraction to their guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:56 AM
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If I knew how to add GIFs, I would have posted that blinking white guy. That sounds like you dealt with a lot. My condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:33 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense; thanks for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:32 PM
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That wouldn't make sense because your question was about women having complete, fulfilled lives via children, not everyone. Like, that wasn't even a good attempt at a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:27 PM
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What went wrong if you don't mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:23 PM
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I think my ego is insulted by that if I'm being honest. It feels almost supplicating, but I get it. So, am I correct in guessing that, assuming you're indeed in the USA, the shortage of teachers that we hear about across America is likely in poorer communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:00 PM
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Aren't you a teacher? Why are they giving you homework for interviews? Is this like a super prestigious institution?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:54 PM
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Yeah, I could see juggling multiple conversations getting a bit out-of-hand. Hopefully the party turns out well!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:06 PM
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Sounds fun; do you prefer big parties or smaller gatherings?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:00 PM
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Tbh, I'm beginning to realize that most people of any given set of beliefs are not the ones to have discussions with. Most of what I've learned from this subreddit has been from a handful of members, some of whom are no longer posting. I've said it before, but if your goal is to learn, reading archived posts can be much more valuable, especially because of less emotional detachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:59 PM
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I would agree. I've come to the same conclusion about specific men and women in this sub. I will just say that I think it's dangerous to let them inform your opinion of all men in the same way you would likely balk at someone basing their opinion and empathy for women off of the views and vitriol of misandrists. Hopefully you don't allow them to pull you too far down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:48 PM
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You've said this multiple times now from what I can see. Did some of the men on this sub hurt you in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:43 PM
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bby Mexican girl may not be your cup of tea, but if she's getting male attention, some of them like her. And it goes bot Using Rihanna and Beyonce as examples of dark-skinned women is completely tone deaf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:40 PM
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And why are you coming to PPD about this? You aren't the PPD gatekeeper. Relax
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:32 PM
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https://twitter.com/diamondmolar/status/1641108127180365827
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:52 PM
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Look what you're doing right now lol Since y'all like having so much to say, tell me: was my initial observation confined to only PPD women in terms of applicability?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:27 PM
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Spell it out. Stop deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:57 PM
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Spell it out for me. My device can read it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:53 PM
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And if I do, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:50 PM
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Not reading != unable to read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:34 PM
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Yep, step into any of the dating advice subs (especially the ones for over 30s), and you will see this eventually. Has anyone had attraction develop later instead of feeling that initial "spark"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:32 PM
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he says “tummy” in a baby voice Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:28 PM
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Now you're thinkin' I was worried for a sec
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:52 PM
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You do the above a lot, huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:10 AM
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Tbh sometimes y'all just like trying to argue about something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:45 AM
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That lady's goin' through it What's for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:32 AM
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I've noticed a tendency women have of making unrealistic or irrelevant/fringe hypotheticals to try to counter a stated preference, and it's funny to see. It's like: I don't want to date a promiscuous woman. Ok, but what if she wanted you before she was promiscuous but was too shy to talk to you and now she's more confident in herself and her sexuality? That's not attractive? Man, go away lol As soon as those "but what if "s come out, I know it's about to be a ride, and I know y'all do that mess …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:30 AM
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I'm assuming you've been home for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:21 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:26 PM
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I don't know how to articulate this, but I think there's a balance somewhere. I agree that resentment can and does build in the case of reluctant settling. However, I don't think it's as binary as people make it out to be. People compromise a lot in life since many people don't get their first choices in things they want. Half of me agrees that it's best to be someone's first choice, but the other half thinks that's an unrealistic expectation for people to have en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:12 PM
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Fair enough. Appreciate the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:59 PM
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I don't like this trend of comparing the best of men with the average and worst of women and vice-versa. Most men aren't what you've listed either and many are what you say women are in the first sentence. What's your goal in writing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:57 PM
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I hold a similar sentiment, but if you are getting everything you want out of her, why does it matter what she did for her plan-A? Maybe I'm not articulating it properly. I'm still trying to iron out the idea/question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:54 PM
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That's interesting. Why do you feel resentment would grow? Have you ever been content with an option that was not your first choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:52 PM
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Nope. You are fully aware that you were not her first choice. She doesn't treat you like that though. Would that still be a problem? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:44 PM
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I've noticed that you are quietly one of the most effective trolls on here It's wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:41 PM
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I didn't ask if her opinion of you mattered though; I asked if being first choice still matters if you're getting the treatment you want out of the relationship. If it does still matter, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:36 PM
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Gotcha. Thanks for answering; hope you have a great day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:32 PM
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An interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:30 PM
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I knew someone would answer like this. If your interactions with her never made you feel that way, would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:28 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:27 PM
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But I think I get what your implying ? I'd like to know what you think I'm implying because I was asking to understand your thought process. In any case, let's say he responds with a generalization that you disagree with. What then? What if he generalizes to something you do agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:23 PM
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There's really nothing to say at this point lol Women don't like being judged by something that disqualifies a lot of them. Men try to rationalize why they have an aversion to it. Neither side really listens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:15 PM
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In order to do what though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:13 PM
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Q4M: If you are getting everything you want out of a relationship with a woman, does being non-first-choice still matter? If so, why? Ladies, I specifically want the guys' opinions on this but I know y'all don't follow directions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:12 PM
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Like, what are you trying to get him to see/do? I'm asking as an observer, not a critic btw because tone isn't certain online
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:03 PM
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Why'd you type this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:00 PM
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https://twitter.com/Suhmeruh/status/1638976869344112671 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:55 PM
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Hey, hope it works out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:54 PM
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I wasn’t really meaning the study You literally just posted this though And, their are still studies that show men are more likely to abandon than women so this question really should be for the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:45 PM
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Digging holes We even have a theme song (produced by me of course)!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 AM
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You have sense. Or maybe I just agree, and we're both weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:07 AM
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Troy climbing a tree onto Gabriella's balcony at night and telling her to "turn around" was peak romance Definitely not creepy in the slightest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:05 AM
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women should come up with original complaints and stop copying us Whether you're joking or not, this isn't going to happen lol Women copy a lot of things men do (and I'm sure vice-versa to preempt that annoying trend of "___ do it too"). Notice they had to create their own versions of TRP and the like (Pink Pill, FDS, Diabla/Vindicta, etc.). They've even lifted terms like "looksmaxxing" (ew) from the men they claim to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:35 PM
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Are you being facetious right now? If not, you're doing the same thing women do when men make similar posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:13 PM
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-Me when people demand picture proof of my 5-year relationship with Meagan Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:07 PM
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Yeah, I get you; just thought it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:04 PM
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Even though my husband chose me, even though he committed to me, I still felt inferior to her because she was considered higher on the female sexual hierarchy. She was more of a sexual being than I was. She was the sort of girl men lust after…and I was the sort of girl you marry when you’ve had your fun and you’re ready to settle down. Because wives and mothers, we aren’t fun, right? We’re not like Belle Delphine or Riley Reid. We can never compare (sexually) to the women you lust after. Reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:03 PM
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Those movies are fire, so what're you trying to say???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:51 PM
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Please don't use David Goggins as a comparison to any sane human being lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:47 PM
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Tbf, I don't even know how that happened. The manosphere was for the average guy (AFC-average frustrated chump). It was meant to help dudes (who actually put forth effort) "seal the deal". What it is today is a lot of helplessness. Like that one poster who's like Help me! No, not like that #wrestling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:45 PM
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I have 2 PhD's from Princeton and Harvard Lemme see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:29 PM
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Wait, so you are not a moderator of any of these groups, but you are attempting to discredit the shared insight of one who actually was by conjecturing they didn't run it productively? Am I reading this incorrectly? I don't want to misrepresent you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:16 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:30 PM
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I'm not asking how to eradicate it though; I'm asking how to effectively deal with it when it happens. Do you have any ideas or things that's worked for you since you've also experienced it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:23 PM
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Ok then how do we deal with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:16 PM
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At least in todays age. Perhaps. I honestly don't know what to think about it at this point. If it works, great. If not, try something else, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:07 PM
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If they don't completely discredit it, they'll say it's not a big deal, since it's not as important as women being murdered, raped, etc. I literally just said this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:02 PM
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Some of these conversations are pointless in practice imo because most people lack the financial means to bring them into fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:51 PM
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I understand the merits of providing examples in good-faith conversation. This is where plausible deniability comes in because those who do it maliciously can easily pose as those who genuinely want to learn as you do. This sub is meant for people who have different views, people who are only interested in discussing with others who already agree with them on everything have multiple other platforms to do just that. I'm not one of them; what was your intent in including this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:49 PM
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And this is why women can be very dangerous because they are conniving and inflict damage behind the scenes in covert ways. Men are just blunt force hammers that inflict damage in overt ways. So it’s easy to point out when we misbehave. The crazy part about all of this is that they can simply deny it because they're masters at maintaining plausible deniability. That's why I question exactly how weak and defenseless they were in the past compared to the prevailing narrative. If we know women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:45 PM
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Good morning all, I've noticed a tactic that the sub's more adversarial women use that annoys me because men don't see it for what it is. Nearly every time men state an experience or something they've observed women do, at least one of the lovely ladies on this sub asks for an example (they demand it, really). Specifically, on-the-spot, court-ready evidence in the format of their choosing that is unfalsifiable. The reason this is such a slick move is that, socially, it's certainly reasonable (ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:30 PM
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In b4 the female gaslighting that women aren’t abusive like that. I've seen this happen so many times that I've lost count. In my opinion, men at large are unlikely to develop the knowledge to identify women's emotional/psychological abuse or enough self-respect to deal with it even if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:27 PM
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For the lawyers on the sub, Can this be precluded by establishing a written agreement for the duration of the stay? Do apartment owners deal with squatters a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:12 PM
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Generally, people aren't the best with nuance from what I've seen. It's happened multiple times. Then: All women are capable of doing these things, so operate under that assumption/understanding Now: Got it! All women will do this at some point, and I can set my watch to it! Then: Don't put women on a pedestal, sacrificing your self-respect to get/keep her. Now: Men who treat women nicely are simps! And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:29 PM
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She's trolling. There are a few key ones who do that in order to not have a meaningful conversation. Just hit them with a nice "Ok."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:18 PM
3

That's why I had to leave /r/Cooking Like dang, y'all don't want to talk about taxes or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:09 PM
1

Hmm, I'm not so sure. I'll have to think about it some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:13 AM
3

But you should be confident in your life, ability and decisions How will you know when you're wrong or misguided?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:59 AM
1

Am 24 turning 25 Many of your posts are beginning to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:58 AM
4

The concept makes sense, but it also gives way to never admitting a wrong or changing one's mind due to fear of being "beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:56 AM
3

What do you get out of raising skepticism for every dude that claims to be sexually successful? Don't you ever get tired?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:54 AM
1

I respect the honesty. having a good sleep schedule. It's so easy to fall off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:24 AM
2

I genuinely wonder if you all follow the advice you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:09 AM
1

Has anyone else noticed a loose, negative correlation between a) the level of physical attractiveness a woman has and b) the odds she will be a raging feminist? Yes. Like, the outspoken ones. I find that many are reactive and defensive across the attractiveness spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:02 AM
1

Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:23 PM
1

No lie, I saw this lady the other day, and I was like "I think purplish would go insane" I lowkey saw the vision tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:52 PM
2

If it's any consolation, you're one of the more consistently sensible people on here. Don't let it go to your head though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:49 PM
2

If you don't mind sharing, what were you feeling? I understand if you don't want to answer though, especially here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:47 PM
4

Like I said, I still think I'm bang-on, but I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:42 PM
4

Must be weird for a Red Pill guy getting cheated on while being Red Pill. "while being Red Pill" implies that being Red Pill should mean they wouldn't expect to be cheated on. Otherwise, why would it be "weird"? If my interpretation is different than what you are saying your intent actually was, then fine. I don't think I'm off the mark at all, but I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:55 PM
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Read what you wrote above
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:34 PM
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Nope. Your point was that a RP guy would feel weird being cheated on while believing in RP, implying that they think they are un-cheatable men. I came back mentioning the "she's not yours; it's just your turn" line which would imply they are aware and account for that possibility (intellectually at least), so your statement made no sense. You trying to shift to questioning the reason for their investment in relationships is irrelevant to that interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:28 PM
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He's a singer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:25 PM
4

You gotta ask them that. Nor is it relevant to our conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:11 PM
8

Then your sentence makes no sense because they'd acknowledge the possibility of it happening at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:05 PM
14

I don't like his music This is going too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:54 PM
15

"She isn't yours; it's just your turn" is literally a main catchphrase for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:54 PM
1

That was my satirical version of what they end up doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:23 AM
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Yo, reading those posts where an OP gets brainwashed into a public apology is wild. It's one thing to change your mind after considering alternate perspectives, but when it's like: After reading all of your comments, I realize my feelings were invalid, and I now understand that I was wrong for thinking I could have emotions. I will do better to not make this mistake in the future. Come on, man. Why'd you let them bully you into that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:22 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:11 PM
5

Sometimes I really feel like people are only making arguments/statements about caricatures that you see in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:35 PM
2

Sanaa and the other women of the 90s and early 2000s were/are ridiculously fine. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:47 PM
2

Both sexes say this about the other tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:45 PM
2

He's the guy I was saying looks completely normal the other day. Idk why he removed his pictures, but he is far from ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:42 PM
1

Thank you for engaging in good faith on that one. What, in your opinion and observations, are those attitudes and requirements and how do they differ from the attitudes and requirements of men who are successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:56 PM
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By not being delusional. Be more detailed. What is a solution to fix this problem you state exists with these men? What would you have them do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:41 PM
2

What's your goal in saying this? How would you solve this "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:50 PM
3

You didn't get enough appreciation for this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:48 PM
2

"I'm sad. :(" I'm sorry, but that made me laugh LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:44 PM
1

Why is this even a question? Do you think most men have mastered this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:42 AM
2

Both of you back off; she's mine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:39 AM
5

The purplish approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:37 AM
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You need me to copy and paste it again? Still the best interaction I've had on here lol If anything though, I will say your story reinforces the idea that once ladies begin to feel a sense of discomfort or emotional dissatisfaction in a relationship, their defenses around other attractive suitors weakens. Admirably, you seem to have managed to overcome it or are in the process of doing so, and I like your devotion to your relationship and how you go to bat for your husband on here. On another no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:22 AM
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In the spirit of acknowledging contributions, I have learned a lot from the women on this sub. Some were instrumental to understanding how women think (ex. Atlas was amazingly open and frank about this. I only name her because she's no longer on the sub from my understanding). For others, I had to read between the lines a little, but I still learned form them as well. Even the ones who are more emotionally charged, I learned how they tend to respond in certain situations. You can learn a lot her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:15 PM
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That's my thing. It's cool to your suitor to be interested in your work, but disregarding what most men are saying because she thinks it should be another way is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:25 PM
1

Again, Now, I've already said many times that men lack nuance when communicating this point, so no point in arguing about it here. Let's leave it for another time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:23 PM
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Right, that's what I'm getting at. A great career is not a turn-off at all, but that doesn't mean it's an active turn-on. That's what that other poster fails to see. I'm glad you have supportive husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:13 PM
1

That's what's up, but has blood every circulated to his penis from you talking about ball bearings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:06 PM
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Studying bugs is an absolute chick magnet. On a serious note: Now, I've already said many times that men lack nuance when communicating this point, so no point in arguing about it here. I wrote that for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:02 PM
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Morning everyone, Last night, I read a thread of this 47YO woman who was asking if men truly disregard women's careers. Now, I've already said many times that men lack nuance when communicating this point, so no point in arguing about it here. I want to highlight her thought process. Here is an excerpt (highlights are my own): Commenter: You don't have to be vague, just don't dwell on it. We truly don't care wat you do, or how much money you make. We care that you are intelligent and capable of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:55 PM
1

Oh dang. Hope the dude's getting through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:30 AM
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It would begin a very uncomfortable conversation for most people, so I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:03 AM
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It's actually kind of funny how both parties experience the same woes from the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:02 AM
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It may not be too late, but she'd have to be relatively open to being told she spends too much money and taught a better way. If I may ask, would you be comfortable marrying her if she fixed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:59 AM
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I agreed with the spirit of this whole comment, so I'm not going to get bogged down on the details I disagreed with. Thanks for the convo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:30 PM
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I think what you're getting at is that the way he phrased the message signaled some hostility associated with incels. Is that a fair characterization? I acknowledge that tact is important, but there is a balance. From my understanding, the men aren't saying "I cried and was immediately dumped". Rather, they're saying that they noticed their woman's disposition toward them changed considerably afterwards and over time led to behaviors that signaled a loss of respect and attraction. Ironically, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:10 PM
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If there was definitive proof, the operation would be ruined for the guys doing it. Those "are we dating the same men" groups don't exist for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:03 PM
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You're getting caught up in phrasing instead of the message. Also, I understand that you and other women exist who are like this. You are not the default. Otherwise, it wouldn't be a near-universal experience for men. Are you willing to acknowledge that possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:43 PM
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The topic of conversation isn't regarding men being traumatized by women because their mother pimped them out and locked them in a closet for 18 years. Why is that your first example of a man being hurt by a woman? Come on now If it wasn't clear by my first question, I'm interested in why you have this rage because it colors your comments across the subreddit. I also said it's fine if you don't want to share. You responded anyway. If you need to huff and puff in order to exit the conversation, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:40 PM
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I can understand your frustration. Women literally get shat on in this sub for simply saying that they're afraid of men because they've been abused before. I would be frustrated as well. I will ask, however, if you are open to the possibility that men have also been hurt by women? Can it be more than simply not getting their penises serviced as teenagers? It doesn't make sense to resent people you don't know and have never met. I've read many of your comments, and you're doing just that. Intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:28 PM
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That's not what I meant. It's okay if you don't want to share though. I genuinely hope you have a positive experience from men in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:12 PM
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You can't say it's incel-based when thousands of men are relaying their experiences from what happened in their sexually active relationships. That's just dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:09 PM
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Your observation mirrors my own. You see that a lot on subs like AITA or other judgement-based environments. The default behavior is to try to find a way to pin it on the guy. I'm grateful for the women who don't do that on those subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:06 PM
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It may happen because of a platitude of [reasons] I believe the word you're looking for is 'plethora'. 'Platitude' doesn't work in this context. As for your question, one reason could be that women are more likely to assume a relationship with the man they're having sex with. The guy may think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:03 PM
2

I'm genuinely asking this: are you okay, gofigure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:59 PM
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Gotta know that they just like to talk sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:52 PM
7

The second rule is the manliness points rule. Atlas (I believe) really introduced something special with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:22 AM
2

Nearly every time I express a blackpill view, someone assumes I live in my mom’s basement or I’m a virgin. For some reason I've yet to discover, people are uncomfortable with ideas such as these. For them, it's much easier either emotionally, psychologically, or whatever else to be sarcastic and make caracitures in order to, not disprove a point, but to discredit those making it, rendering it unpersuasive to those observing. I'm not even sure I agree all of the way, but you'd have to be blind to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:02 AM
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their jokes aren’t funny but they don’t realize it because dudes simp to them I felt this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:49 PM
2

This is wildly accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:46 PM
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It's like in their heads, they go (Birdman hand rub) I, a terrifying testosterone toter, want to force her to do these acts mwah-ha-ha Instead of Dang, she doesn't seem to value me as much as this other guy. Couldn't possibly be that, ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:37 PM
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I feel like most women either just won't understand it or actively refuse to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:02 PM
2

He have penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:00 PM
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If that's the case, sure. That's a better jumping point than straight-up hideous though tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:57 PM
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First of all, good morning everyone. So after reading the post of that guy on here who hired a dating coach and heavily implied he was some Quasimodo-looking guy, I clicked on his profile. ...literally one of the most normal looking dudes. I would say the style in his "Alter Ego" picture should become his default, and he needs to work on his low self-esteem (stop basing your self-esteem on the opinions/validation of women). I feel like his problem is likely behavioral rather than aesthetic, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:29 PM
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Those are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:47 AM
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I know I teased you the other day, but I genuinely hope you keep a watch out for developing any feelings and emotions toward this guy. That post and subsequent comments about that guy with the gray sweatpants made me a bit uncomfortable. I got the impression that you're repeatedly reminding yourself you're married instead of not being interested at all if that makes sense. I hope you can work through it if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:00 AM
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I'm so grateful to YouTube for showing me static ads of cleavaged middle aged women in lieu of paying pesky YouTubers because they swear occasionally. 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:36 PM
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In many cases, it's to try to trap them into a marriage. Hence why men have stories about her changing after the "I do" You guys keep conflating the presence of something as evidence of pure intentions behind it. It's really naive and/or disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:31 PM
1

Thanks for sharing that; glad it's working out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:49 PM
1

But I just saw a couple in my local Walmart that disproves it, so there!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:39 PM
1

Got you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:37 PM
2

I did alot of soulsearching, deprogrammed myself mentally and its like night and day. I just woke up a few days ago and noticed that i didn't care anymore. You skipped some details, big dog. What was the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:36 PM
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Lonely woman plots to steal married neighbor as a husband. Doesn't see what neighbor man sees in his pregnant wife. Woman changes mind after watching the man's unruly children. Posts to Reddit Husband finds post,connects dots, asks if it's her, shuts her down hard. Lonely woman tries to call him (presumably to run verbal damage control) Her posts and comments are a masterclass in mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:35 PM
2

I truly hope this post is fake. That lady is a mess. My goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:14 PM
4

Yes please. Have it on my desk by tomorrow morning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:51 PM
2

This is a very naive question to be as old as you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:38 PM
2

Have a nice night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:53 AM
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It's all good; hope it gets better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:49 AM
2

Lol don't be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:47 AM
2

I'm sure she would have said the same thing before it started happening tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:43 AM
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Are you likely to get an elite job with an empty resume? Because if i have two candidates, one is an empty resume and one is acrook Have a nice night, ma'am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:40 AM
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It may not have been sudden. She lost respect for him and likely doesn't view him as a "man". It's concerning and a bit disappointing that she doesn't know or seem especially interested in finding out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:38 AM
2

Was that the question though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:34 AM
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This is why I don't take people seriously when they talk about how often they see couples on the street. That doesn't mean they are in a happy, fulfilling relationship. It doesn't mean there's mutual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:14 AM
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Are you likely to get an elite job with an empty resume?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:28 AM
2

TBH, I don't even think it's as dire as people are making it. I think there are a lot of women who enjoy school for the sake of it. Look at how many women come here to argue for its own sake. Career-wise, some pursue for status, I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:19 AM
2

Lady, you see these Starbucks prices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:41 PM
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For the most part, you can tell the difference between male and female posters by writing style, so it would still end up having bias. I like the concept though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:56 PM
1

Personal fitness training for female clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:53 PM
1

why the hell is this guy married Aldabruzzo/LewisCross to a T He had some good comments though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:57 AM
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Do women exist outside of you and your friends? If so, is it possible that they think differently? Possible, but seeing as I observe what I can in the age of internet, it's not super likely. This is easily one of the best exchanges I've had on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:13 PM
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You see, but 40% of women earn more, so that just couldn't possibly be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:06 AM
1

It's honestly a talent at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:14 AM
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People who make posts like this are so lame. I don't even disagree with the overall message.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:12 AM
1

It's easier to paint a narrative than to engage with nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:11 AM
1

Do you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:02 AM
1

Works for me. Tell 'em to bring it back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:56 AM
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I wish certain people never heard the phrase "f*ck around and find out" Another one down the drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:51 AM
1

Were you signed to YMCMB?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:29 PM
1

Did you expect THAT? Color me shocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:09 PM
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I don't know how to emphasize that I simply do not care about your sister dating/rejecting tall dudes. The point was to highlight both your lack of awareness of other though processes and the irrelevance of your sister's experience. I'll be honest. I didn't expect this from an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:59 PM
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In this conversation, I've learned that you don't think women think differently from yourself, and that your sister is a fine, promiscuous mother. I appreciate you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:46 PM
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Your point earlier was that your sister dated whoever she wanted when she was younger. Based on your reply, she was not a mother at that time. Therefore, that experience is irrelevant. Does she have as high of standards today? Come on now. EDIT: And why would I care about her dating tall men lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:43 PM
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If so, is it possible that they think differently? Possible, but seeing as I observe what I can in the age of internet, it's not super likely. Incredible lol Well she dated whoever she wanted when she was younger, including tall guys. They're not turning her down, so it's not "entitled" in the least. Was your sister a single mother? That's what these guys are complaining about. If not, men pursuing her is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:40 PM
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Do women exist outside of you and your friends? If so, is it possible that they think differently? What does your sister allegedly being gorgeous have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:35 PM
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I think it depends on if she wants biological children. Otherwise, I don't think there would be a limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:33 PM
2

You're using a different metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:28 PM
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The idea is that women date across and up economically because they want a man with resources and power. As a result, logically, men are going to be dating across and down by that same metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 PM
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In general, no. The impression I get is that many women think men are failed versions of them. Nor, quite frankly, do I get the sense that they feel an incentive to try to understand. Some are super dope though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:43 PM
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They will say men date down and women date up. From my understanding, they're talking monetarily and prestige.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:41 PM
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That's what I mean by having different definitions. Are you differentiating between teasing and admiration with the romantic undertone, or are you simply classifying it all as flirting? But also, this didn't really address what I wrote. Your social circle of gregarious people doesn't necessarily reflect the average person. I've joked with and teased women I'm not interested in, but I hope they didn't take it as me flirting since I see deliberate flirting as an indication of interest. It's a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:26 PM
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Women have even said that they lost attraction to a guy because he didn't escalate from the flirt. I'm trying to understand why that other poster has never heard of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:15 PM
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Most people flirt with a purpose. That purpose is to attempt to get a potential mate. That applies to both men and women. I can agree with most of what you're saying, but pretending the average person flirts just for the heck of it is unrealistic. Unless we have different definitions of what constitutes as flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:13 PM
2

It's literally taught to children: "When you did that, how do you think that made him/her feel?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:10 PM
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In fact, who people term as "psychopaths" and "sociopaths" are excellent counterpoints to her claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:09 PM
2

But the follow up to hair twirling is not kissing the woman. I just pictured this and laughed at how awkward that'd be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:07 PM
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When a woman likes you, YOU WILL KNOW. You can't claim this definitively when there are hundreds of men who always talk about missing the signs that a woman likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:02 PM
4

Aren't Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy recommended reads in the RP space?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:46 AM
2

I feel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:36 AM
1

Save me a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:57 PM
2

They don't know about that "Gnawledge"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:54 PM
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Also a bit humbling to realise how normal some of us are and to be thankful for the blessing we have and the people in our lives. Definitely feel you on that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:49 PM
1

I'll ask you as well since I'm not sure the other poster will answer: Does any part of you feel a sense of superiority over the posters you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:49 PM
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Dude admitted to enjoying messing with people, and she still let him get to her. They both suck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:37 PM
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That's understandable. However, you may come to find that some men have different emotional needs that are not your own. Thanks for the civil conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:36 PM
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I have no doubt there are men who have this reasoning. Do you disagree with the idea that other men simply find younger women more physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:17 PM
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I think that they should be more honest about why they prefer younger women. What do you think the true reason is? EDIT: Better phrasing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:04 PM
1

Glad I could help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:03 PM
2

Like what? Also, does any part of you feel a sense of superiority over the posters you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:02 PM
1

What part of it is entertaining to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:57 PM
1

He's talking about that interview where that stripper girl admitted to getting enjoyment out of purposefully tormenting men emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:52 PM
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You just called a bunch of men users and abusers, but you are upset with him calling some women whores. You gotta look in the mirror, babe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:51 PM
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If you genuinely feel this way, why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:48 PM
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If you know the young women aren't dating these dudes, then what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:47 PM
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Which would make a financial setback all the more devastating, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:23 PM
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That's why I tell every new girl that I'm a Nigerian prince. Never been to Africa, though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:03 PM
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Progress has been made; it just doesn't look that way. The arguments do recycle (like a lot), but if you've been on here for a long time, you'll notice an sizeable dearth if not absence of what used to be labeled "Blue Pill". At first, it was RP vs BP vs other curious people. Now it's more of a gendered thing. The thing is though, many of the ladies here aren't even really disagreeing anymore with the ideas. They disagree with who says them and how it's phrased. And even then, it's because some …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:22 PM
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See, that's why I'm in there like this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:14 PM
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In other words, red like Russia, so it fits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:53 PM
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Let my hypotheticals fly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:47 PM
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Now that man could have been an aficionado in Russian ballet, but you think less of him for not knowing about 2D pancakes. See how y'all do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:44 PM
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Given the state of our children today, apparently neither. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:26 PM
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When women are bad their usually left to deal with the consequences of their own actions and whist generally bitter about it they accept it was their own doing. When men are bad, it’s blamed entirely on anyone and everyone else, nothing is their fault and they avoid any responsibility Some of y'all are just talking to talk now, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:10 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:38 PM
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Yep. I didn't even know my above comment went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:22 PM
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Is Reddit acting up for anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:12 PM
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This actually goes kind of crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:45 PM
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We need to start calling people like that losers, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:44 PM
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Oh ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:27 PM
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Maybe men should just date eachother and be eachothers peace instead Take this back to Twitter please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:15 PM
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Simple, but not easy for me at least. For me, it's easy not to buy the stuff. If it's there though, I'm likely going to eat it. Even if I resist for a long time, it'll eventually be consumed. They're designed to be addictive and calorie-dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:02 PM
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Pasting a comment I've made on this topic: While there are men who literally mean they couldn't care less, I think generally men mean that a woman's career and achievements do not influence him romantically or sexually. We simply are not as "wowed" by it like many women are. For example, there are many women who take on their husband's achievements as their own because they can subconsciously weaponize it for social standing. Military spouses, police wives, politicians, etc. are great examples o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:53 PM
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-Victoria Justice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:54 AM
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"Look at this beautiful cow. Still like burgers?" Like, yes. Yes I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:52 AM
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The way women on AITA can raise a hypothetical to completely ignore the obvious is incredible to witness. The poster can say "what I saw walked like a duck, quacked like one, and was even shaped like one, so I said it was a duck", and they'd be like Lady 1: YTA. What if it was a dog that was adopted by a mama duck as a pup? Obviously, it would have learned to closely emulate her behaviors and body language. You're making too many assumptions. Lady 2: I agree. OP is clearly wrapped up in trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:51 AM
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Same. I've noticed we tend to assume we all have the same definitions for words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:16 AM
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When you say 'friends', do you mean like legit 'ride-or-die'-type people, or acquaintances?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:36 AM
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Hey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:18 AM
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Slow it down for me; I might get it this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:06 AM
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Y'all find a way to lecture about anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:59 AM
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I can assure you that I'm well aware of where we are. Your comment had nothing to do with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:57 AM
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Why did you tell me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:53 AM
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A lot of Redditors are [redacted]. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:43 AM
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Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:21 PM
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I don't think this changes what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:15 PM
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It's just weird to be like "actually, women are on more meds because they're mentally ill; not because they're single and unhappy. So there!" Like...where are the priorities lol Don't take it too hard though; I just found it funny and was teasing you a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:14 PM
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You're not more concerned about a number of women needing mental illness medication than proving to men that women are happy being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:57 PM
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To be honest, the level of cognitive dissonance it takes to complain about sexual objectification and willingly wear clothing to accentuate sexual characteristics has to be exhausting. I don't know how they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:54 PM
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Venting is definitely helpful, so I can't imagine myself cosigning that "it's useless" train of thought. Hearing someone vent about the same problem repeatedly is annoying, especially if you have a feasible solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:50 PM
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I like that! I have to remind myself of that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:26 PM
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Among other things, definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:25 PM
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IRL people feel like a mix of the two sides with most leaning to the blue. It's like people internally know 'red' things, but would only verbalize 'blue' things publicly if that makes sense. Here, especially years ago, the sides were rather stark in contrast. Can you say a side is extreme if it's the majority and mostly uncontested in mainstream places And yes lol It probably depends on the culture viewing the side though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:24 PM
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Lemme hold a dollar, big money!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:08 PM
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Fair, But how likely do people change their views off one conversation? Very unlikely. I guess I just don't get the point of arguing for its own sake. Oh well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:08 PM
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I imagine both sides of the extremes feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:06 PM
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If pursuing personal satisfaction, sure, but what's the point in "winning" if the same people will make the same tired deflections and character attacks for the same topic at a later date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:38 PM
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That too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:36 PM
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Has anyone witnessed someone change their mind or admit they were wrong on here? I've noticed when a tight argument is made or solid evidence produced, it gets awfully quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:14 PM
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I guess I would tell him. I might get hate for this but IMO his cheating is worse. You were pregnant at the time when he cheated, married and had been together for years. You said you were at your sister’s wedding when you cheated. Were you two even that serious yet if he wasn’t even invited to your sisters wedding? You’re totally justified in being hurt by his behavior even if you had a transgression years ago. The top comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:44 AM
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That's disrespectful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:37 AM
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They're being mad disingenuous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:30 AM
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You could also argue a man who wears cologne is trying to use deception to hide or cover what his natural scent is I highly doubt anyone has ever been deceived by a man's cologne. The funk and must comes through as evidenced by the Axe body spray trend. Come on now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:27 AM
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Grows naturally vs. artificial. I get what you're saying. However, men don't spend over an hour a day "putting on their face". I'm not moving from that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:20 AM
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You cannot equate something men grow naturally to something women deliberately seek and manufacture to make themselves artificially more attractive. I understand James Harden is considerably less attractive without the beard. He still grew it. That's like saying a guy is masking for working out. It's cool if most women disagree; it's in their best interest to do so. I still hold my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:11 AM
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If you don't mind sharing, what are some key points you've learned?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:09 AM
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They got snacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:04 AM
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I disagree with your premise. Denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:00 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:55 AM
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Do you grow makeup? Why do y'all make these tired comparisons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:20 AM
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When you think about it, it's actually rather sad that so many women have to wear fake accessories and make-up to feel good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:32 PM
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She saw herself and her experiences in Pamela and is basically writing about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:16 PM
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Lady you don't know me. Chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:44 PM
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I don't think what I wrote is as widely known as you think given that it's still a point of contention for many women when it's vocalized by those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:37 PM
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It's like the entire idea behind "one-itis" or however it's spelled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:35 PM
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Clearly they meant to take a break from eating buttermilk biscuits and instead munch on some delicious cookies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:29 PM
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Cookies, grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:22 PM
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While there are men who literally mean they couldn't care less, I think generally men mean that a woman's career and achievements do not influence him romantically or sexually. We simply are not as "wowed" by it like many women are. For example, there are many women who take on their husband's achievements as their own because they can subconsciously weaponize it for social standing. Military spouses, police wives, politicians, etc. are great examples of this ("My husband is a [ ] You can't do […
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:23 PM
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wants to make sure you hear all of them I'll pass. Not tryna hear all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:36 PM
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At whatever age the people who think it's uncool start paying your bills or buy you a new wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:33 PM
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That sounds awful. Please don't ruin your life as a result of his actions (as hard as that is). I honestly can't imagine going through that and then reading (and moderating) the more bitter, vile takes on women here. You have my condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:13 PM
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"talk" as in non-platonically court. Like, not "talk" but talk As in, "yeah, we used to talk back in the day". I missed it at first, but I think I get what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:19 PM
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I need to get on that. Never had those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:16 PM
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Ok, but tacos vs. Chinese? Whatcha got
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:08 PM
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Are people still breathing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:51 PM
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Fair enough, I appreciate this perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:02 PM
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Absolutely. I experience it myself. It's just interesting because some women will straight-up tell you they need to be given hard choices in order to make a decision for dinner (something that occurs every day), but would likely scoff at the idea that someone would need to do that for their love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:36 PM
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I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:33 PM
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Everyone's seen, experienced, or heard of women being unable to make a choice for what to eat. Many women on this sub have said that the amount of options makes it near impossible to make a decision. Does this extend to dating? If not, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:19 PM
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"Exactly, that's what I thought." I do agree with your premise though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:10 PM
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"I'm talking to you. Who else?" Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:04 PM
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To be fair, this conversation wasn't supposed to include them at-large in the first place (if at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:45 PM
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I'll see an interesting post title only to see someone typed up a whole CVS receipt. Come on, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:52 PM
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On one hand, I don't know why women care about the love lives of men they didn't want in the first place. On the other hand, I don't know why these men still care about what said women have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:53 PM
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This was a nasty thing for you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:35 PM
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I pretty much always laugh when the "you built like..." comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:54 PM
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I'm partial to the definition listed in this article. Pasting: Confidence develops when you have a deep sense that you can handle the emotional outcome of whatever you face or pursue. Another way to put it is that confidence is the felt sense of a “can-do" attitude. The idea is that it is not something that one develops directly, but is a by-product of emotional maturity and positive self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:51 PM
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You get it. It's interesting to witness. Not even sure what the conversation is about at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:51 PM
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While it is a good question, the idea of asking what a sh*t test is on a forum about debating RP ideas is rather noteworthy. I've noticed people here are generally uninformed about ideas they're debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:07 PM
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