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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	You should "choose better" aswell The only 'disagreement' I see in the prominent comments is a stance that some men have to accept what they can get which is more of an acknowledgement and explanation than a disagreement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 03:54 AM
12	You should "choose better" aswell ...Yes? You phrase this as if men would disagree for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 01:40 AM
3	Are we dating the same guy/girl The types of people who frequent those sorts of sites will eat it all up and willingly spread it all around town without a second thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 05:39 AM
1	You are offered 1 million dollars, untaxed. In exchange, you can never have sex/sexual intimacy ever again. Do you accept the offer? Sure, send me that million.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 04:41 AM
1	Are men who follow the Manosphere and preach about women's standards even close to being one? That's the most pedantic justification of a person's failings of all time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 08:02 AM
1	Are men who follow the Manosphere and preach about women's standards even close to being one? r/lostredditors	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 04:59 AM
1	Are men who follow the Manosphere and preach about women's standards even close to being one? It literally is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 04:51 AM
1	Are men who follow the Manosphere and preach about women's standards even close to being one? You chose a loser and want to come here throwing shade at other guys that have nothing to do with your choice to have a relationship with a loser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 04:49 AM
8	QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag? The irony is that every FDS member is in need of extensive therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 09:06 PM
11	What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity? This is what it mainly comes down to, those guys who exhibit these traits that are supposedly abhorrent to women are far more successful on average with women than those who don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:31 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? There are plenty of better words to describe that though - grooming, style, fashion sense etc. Hygiene has an entirely different meaning so the perception is it's misuse in this context is deliberately intended to insult and diminish. Other words are much more precise about what is supposedly being expressed, so why use 'hygiene'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:50 AM
1	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality Well you'd have to untangle their fame and wealth from their basic characteristics to answer that but I suspect they were Regular Joes they wouldn't have merited a second glance from most women other than a curiosity/scope out as a a possible gay friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 11:48 AM
1	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality Because you're the one that dishonestly claimed the original position was 'all' or '100%'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 06:56 AM
1	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality OP - posits theory with some references, clearly states obviously this is in general not absolute Commenter - well not for me and my bf How is that comment relevant or useful at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 06:51 AM
2	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality Who said '100%' or 'all' except you and others being equally obtuse/dishonest?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 06:44 AM
3	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality OP took great pains to state he was not saying 'all women' yet of course the comments are sprinkled with irrelevant anecdotes about exceptions as if he hadn't allowed for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 06:35 AM
5	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality Early teen girls have always liked those safe dreamboat effeminate types, that's nothing new. OP is talking about grown women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 05:58 AM
2	Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexuality He made no such claim, that's entirely your interpretation. Did you actually read what you quoted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 05:55 AM
2	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Posts like that I take with a grain of salt because there are always unspoken standards that are the real problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 02:23 AM
0	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. Women, particularly married women, are overly concerned with how other women (such as Mother in law) will judge their worthiness as a housekeeper. Beyond a necessary level of tidiness and healthiness most men do not give a fuck about this stuff hence waste less time doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 03:04 AM
6	Female Privilege Exists? The biggest one would be the option of just parachuting out of having to build a life/career for themselves and latching on to some guy's life instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 06:28 AM
2	Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for men That never works out well, the guy is just supposed to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 02:38 AM
1	Why do so many men here seem to not enjoy doing things for their partner? The Break Up starring Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 06:14 PM
1	Why do so many men here seem to not enjoy doing things for their partner? At least in that movie she was Jennifer Aniston	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 06:13 PM
1	Could it be that RPers are just aiming for unattainable women? What seems to be missing is a scale of how many/often messages are sent by women. It's all well and good to match up the data for perceived attractiveness v message frequency but if the message n is super low that's not useful data to support an assertion about the overall attitude of women towards men on OLD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 09:42 PM
2	Article discusses the possibility that many sexual orientations are just “a fad”. Women might just be making it all up in their heads. If your primary goal is attention/praise then merely being lesbian isn't sufficient these days. Not to say that there aren't young men and women who legitimately have body dysmorphia but the improbable clustering of cases within social groups, the inordinate praise and attention given to transgender kids, and the pervading sense that it is wrong to counsel caution around transgenderism just keeps adding fuel to the fire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 03:33 AM
6	Article discusses the possibility that many sexual orientations are just “a fad”. Women might just be making it all up in their heads. I think anyone but far-left activists would react to this with a "well... yeah it's pretty obvious".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 03:26 AM
2	Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy? Well spotted, the contradictions are endless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/20 08:52 PM
1	Not everything has to be sexy Perhaps not, but we must confront the world as it is rather than how we wish it was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/20 05:15 AM
1	Not everything has to be sexy You say this like I disagree...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 11:58 PM
1	Not everything has to be sexy You don't seem willing to engage in nuanced discussion it's all extremes and hyperbole. People who get dumped for it must have been vomiters, showing any emotion = immediate cessation of sexual activity... where are you getting this from? The main point is men should be cautious about revealing their emotions in relationships because in many cases this can be the start of a loss in attraction from your partner. If that's not your relationship then congratulations, many others do not have that ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:20 PM
2	Not everything has to be sexy You seem confused, I'm not saying you are the strawman, I'm saying your strawman counterpoint of men supposedly blubbering every day and emotion vomiting on their partners then complaining about being dumped for their emotions is the strawman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:01 PM
0	Not everything has to be sexy Every guy you know blubbers to their partner every day? Get outta here...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 08:36 PM
4	Not everything has to be sexy Nice strawman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 08:23 PM
0	Not everything has to be sexy Perversely, anger is probably one of the 'safest' emotion for a man to express in a relationship if he wants the relationship to continue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 02:50 AM
7	Not everything has to be sexy We can go back and forth about whether it's true or not but that'd be unproductive. You believe it's not the case for you and your husband, congratulations if that's the case. My experience, and that of many other men is regardless of what is said about how women want us to be, the harsh reality is completely opposite more often than not so we should proceed with extreme caution if we want the relationship to continue. Not saying it's ideal but it seems to be how it is for most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 02:11 AM
31	Not everything has to be sexy It may have been a different thread, but a recent popular one along those lines was moreso making the (imo correct) point that despite what women say about wanting a man who shows his emotions, the unfortunate reality men need to understand is this is a high risk strategy that most likely leads to a loss in attraction from her contrary to what we are told by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 01:55 AM
2	Do women even have any problems in dating? I have been the man in this situation and for me I couldn't handle the repeated rejection of simple touch (non-sexual) and my self esteem plummeted as it seemed to me she wasn't attracted to me at all. I don't like rushing to sex so initially I had no problem trying to build a relationship but everybody wants to feel desired. The rejections reinforce the reality that this person may never warm up to you which just eats away at you every hour you're together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 12:20 AM
3	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic You assume this guy was 1. Available and 2. Interested	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 06:05 AM