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| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhatever you say. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's silly to expect men to pay more for something she's given away for less. She's free to do whatever she wants, but we don't have to accept it. I've explained this multiple times and at this point you're intentionally not getting it. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:41 PM |
| – | From a male perspective, do you have a hierarchy in negative traits in women?3) Being hyper individualist in relationship dynamics and refusing to do things like cook you dinner occasionally because you should be able to do that by yourself. 3 is the worst. What do you add to my life except stress and extra obligations? I can do all my own stuff without limiting my options. Why would I take a woman like that on? 2) Having no college degree and stuck in retail jobs: They have no plans or realistic prospects of escaping their financial situation. I can deal with this. Her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt is, even if you don't think so. It's silly to men, you know, the target demographic? We get to decide if it's silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 7 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAgain, she can decide whatever she wants. I'm not obligated to stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you do the following chores?All of it and fairly often, because I live alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:49 PM |
| 8 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think it's great when women will admit that they don't hesitate to lie about it. Because they know it matters, no matter how much they say it doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 9 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's comical to demand other people pay more for what you've given away for less. Again, she's free to do whatever she wants. It's just gonna result in any man worth his salt laughing and walking away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 9 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDon't want to be laughed at, don't have comical expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 9 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOh she can do whatever she wants. She doesn't get to demand I accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:51 PM |
| 12 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI only care when she puts arbitrary restrictions on me that she didn't place on other men. If you're going to tell me that I have to give you three months of dates before I have sex with you and you've eaten ass behind the Arby's on a whim, I'm gonna laugh as I walk away from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Expecting men to pay on the first date is the same as expecting women to have sex on the first date.If you want to pay for pussy go find a prostitute No objections here. Just don't shame men for doing it when you clearly presented it as an acceptable option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongWait until you tell people that twins prove astrology isn't real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?He isn't the only man who thinks that way, he was just brave enough to say it Oh you suddenly gained the power to read men's minds? Amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:27 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?I did misread that, my bad. It read as sport bitching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:32 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?Women go for their most desirable options So do men. Congratulations, you discovered how dating works! You guys that can go 50/50 on an online date and still get a hookup, got way more game then me. So much I don't even really believe it. You don't know these men personally. You're just making assumptions. In the current incarnation of social media and dating apps there's nothing you can do. Except get in shape, get a life, and take pictures of you doing cool things. /Gasp You mean that you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | It is great to be born a man.I agree with this perspective because I've spent my life understanding the pros and cons of being a man and building myself up within those constraints. Men who don't have that understanding and haven't done the work are miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would you date?Bottom tier guys. Ftfy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Which of these women would you date?It's telling that the options you presented are so fucked up that heterosexual men are thinking "well, Ken seems nice." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeAgain, I'm not discussing alimony because I don't disagree with you on that. But this should tell you a lot: Men will typically make up what they lost in a divorce in less than 5 years. Because it's men who are the ones who are earning the massive share of the resources in the marriage. Moreover, women statistically do not marry men who have lower income than them. I don't fault them for this, but women are very clear that "economic viability" is a must when looking for men that they want to mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeOh the cosmological argument. You know this doesn't get you to a specific god, or even a god at all. All it does is get you to a "cause". The error here is that the theist will then ascribe attributes to the cause without providing sufficient evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Or get hotter People don't want to say it because it's painful, but sometimes one of the partners lets themselves go to shit. If I gained 80 lbs of fat, I wouldn't expect my girlfriend to have any attraction towards me because "no fat chicks" is also "no fat dudes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?That's one thing that the RP directly tells men - desperation is a turn off. It also says that you aren't owed sex. If you want sex, you have to be attractive enough for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?My girlfriend Sockalania is very upset by your racist comment. Kidding, obviously. I think op is equating the empathy gap that we usually mean to a sexual access gap. Usually there are some bad takes here but most of the women (most) responding are correctly pointing this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:54 PM |
| -1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?So you take the comment of an extremely damaged individual and make that your excuse? Should we pop on over to FDS or two-x and see what the broken women there say and apply it to all women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeSo you're gonna pretend that there's not asset division that is, usually, disgustingly one sided? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeAll I ask when I meet a theist are two questions: Can you define your god? Can you provide evidence of it's existence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeUntil you can name one tangible benefit that a man gets married that he cannot attain through other means, it remains a bad deal. With a LTR, if she gets bored and leaves, she doesn't take half of your stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 4 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketBecause we know the difference between sex with women and what pornography says sex with women is like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketPornography has ruined everything. Women suffer from terrible body image. Men, especially the inexperienced ones, have unrealistic sexual expectations. Pornography (and smut like 50 shades) only serves to fuel degeneracy and expectations that cannot be met. For the people who have sufficient experience and aren't easily influenced, it's harmless but most people don't fall into that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Question; do you judge people based on the people they have previously dated and does that give you an idea of who they are?100% do, especially if I'm vastly different from them. If the difference is minor, I don't really put too much thought into it. If it's massive, I have questions: Are you trying something different because you learned from your past mistakes? Am I a fetish that you want to explore? Are you just using me for security because the kind of men you prefer didn't give you that? A person's past preference usually indicates what they like, and - sadly - the kind of person that will always present tempta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:07 AM |
| 5 | To RP men, here's why your mom, even if she gave dating advice, it won't work for youAnd she interacts with those people as a woman, which means that her experience will be, by default, fundamentally different from a man's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?Children are the responsibility of both parents. Even after our divorce, I have my son every day (when I'm not working). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?Well I literally can't do that pregnancy, birth, and breastfeeding part. Biology is just unfair that way, no? I mean, she did understand that when she said "I want to have a child with you" so I'm pretty sure that she knew that going in. She is a smart woman after all. What I can do is make the pregnancy as easy as possible by allowing her to not work, paying all the medical costs associated with it, and doing that thing where I take care of our child so she can rest. Really, it's a bit unfair t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Do Most Redpillers Here Consider Themselves “Alpha” Or “Beta”?If you want to debate, please do so honestly. Strawmanning a position not only demonstrates an unwillingness to debate in good faith, it fosters animosity between debaters and generates resentment with onlookers. Edit: In fact, I'll point out how you're intentionally doing it by quoting directly from the comment you replied to. The truth is that all men have some proportion of alpha/beta, and both are necessary to maintaining long-term relationships or marriages. In fact it's said that relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?Your personal arrangement is between you and your spouse. Girlfriend, but yes. Each relationship dynamic is different and couples need to do what works for them. Most women work and want to work and are often times the higher earner these days and are still expected to do the majority of the domestic labour and childcare, that is unfair. I don't factor in children because children are the responsibility of both parents - I believe that children need the active involvement of their fathers. And w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:42 PM |
| 0 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?A child, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 11 | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?Men want to be loved too. However, men will accept being seen as sexual objects because sex for men is something that we have to work to gain access to. The female equivalent would be having men who want to lavish you with gifts and attention and affection, but don't see you as someone they want to have sex with. Sure, it would be nice to have it all, but you'll take the stuff that's harder to get over nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Do Most Redpillers Here Consider Themselves “Alpha” Or “Beta”?That's a good strawman, because that isn't at all what he said. Edit: you're right, she | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 12 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.Basically if you destroy the doomer red piller / black pill delusion that social skill don't matter Stop. That isn't part of RP philosophy. That does apply to black pillers, but those people have given up. RP is fully aware of how social skills matter. We just admit that attraction matters more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:29 PM |
| -2 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?I agree. Domestic labor should be divided based on income that the partners bring in. In my relationship, I do 100% of the income so I don't cook or clean unless I choose to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?Name one thing that men get from being married that they cannot get through other means. The fact is that western marriage is nothing but economic downsides for men. Sure it can be beneficial but the fact is that every woman has the option to break the arrangement at will and receive benefits from doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:24 PM |
| -2 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?As an aside, maybe nobody should get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?We do believe them. most agree that a woman working a full time job then having 100% of the domestic load is unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:40 PM |
| 7 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?And unhappily married people are worse off that both groups. The cost/reward for men says "don't get married". While the ceiling might be a bit higher, the floor is far, far lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:26 PM |
| 4 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayIt's not different at all and happens quite often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Ah, my mistake as well. And while there are cases where obesity is beyond a person's control, most cases are from over eating and under exercising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 11:09 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.What's misandrist is your obvious hatred of men and how it clouds your ability to reason. It's a real mind poison, I hope you find your way past it one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.What's misandrist is your obvious hatred of men and how it clouds your ability to reason. It's a real mind poison, I hope you find your way past it one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I don't have any sympathy for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?You're still removing accountability from people. These people aren't victims. They just don't give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Nobody is jealous of single moms. They're in hell and they hate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:54 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.That's how a misandrist would see it, especially after it has been explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:50 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Address his argument. I'll copy it for you: If woman can choose to have an abortion even though the guy wants to keep it ... men should be able to walk away from a pregnancy or child they do not want and have 0 responsibilities to that child, including no child support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.I notice that you can't argue the point. I'm just applying your logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Do people not have the agency to determine what goes in their bodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Technically the first step is eating too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:17 PM |
| 5 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.She made the kid, isn't it her responsibility to raise it? Literally every argument for/against abortion can be used to argue for/against a man opting out of his responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 7 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Her body, her choice. See siding with baby killers. We can be hyperbolic over here too. Address the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.The "hatred" comes from women demanding men accept a bad deal and shaming us for not doing it. There you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 6 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Exactly. The kid can cry to their real father about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:12 PM |
| – | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.It's funny how "think of the child" is never said to the woman when she is contemplating paternity fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I'm not angry at all. All the feelings are on your end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?If you don't have the wherewithal to feel ashamed for putting yourself into a shameful position, that's on you. But your responses (and this rant) give away the lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I sense that you're personally invested for some reason. It would explain the subtle attempts to insult me, but I don't know why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Yes, actually. And she isn't fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I don't. Shame is a thing that people feel internally. They should be ashamed of themselves, but if they aren't, then that's on them. I, however, will not date a fatty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I don't have an opinion on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Everyone, not just women, should be ashamed for being fat. That's what I said. What you said was an attempt to lie about what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?I said what I meant. Sorry that you need to strawman my position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?Nope. Women like that don't need a dating service, they get taken off the market quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Everyone, not just women, should be ashamed for being fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Smoker. #nofatchicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 11:37 AM |
| 11 | Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child?You missed what I said. It's hard to ignore the deception. It would be a conflict of my feelings against the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child?Irrelevant. As the child, I wouldn't be the one punished by the deception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 12 | Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child?No. But at the same time I wouldn't be able to love them because I'd know that love was based on a lie. Id care about them and wish them well, but they would be a constant reminder of the deception and it would probably break me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 08:36 PM |
| 4 | What are your opinions on beards?It absolutely is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | What are your opinions on beards?The more you post, the more I love you (not a flirt) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 07:43 PM |
| 5 | What are your opinions on beards?It isn't controlling to cater to the desires of someone who loves you and reciprocates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on beards?Well played | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)It's a huge difference really. We can afford to live in the better school district, we have jobs that let us take the time off we need to attend parent/teacher conferences, we can afford things that make his life easier and allow him to explore his hobbies. Just the other week, his mom took him to a summer camp for children with developmental disorders and I spend every day with him during the summer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)I'm really grateful that my son (who is also autistic) has the support of a good community and two parents who earn decent money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)My family now? No. Then, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)I was in special education all the way through highschool. Thankfully, I'm smart and test well or my life would have taken a much different trajectory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Video of women dancing in an office ignites gender war onlineWhat a silly thing to get riled up about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Assuming somehow, someway, your concerns are alleviated, do you have anything against an AI/Robot girlfriend?That's an unexpectedly sane response and I didn't expect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.https://preview.redd.it/7bg5w8mqbkcd1.png?width=864&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a1a04e34cd790e0fd664a30141db0b408bb72718 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.I called you what you are, and you saying I'm a misandrist then calling me uncivil is the peak of irony. I can't block you because of the rules of the subreddit, but we're definitely done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.Since you didn't follow the conversation, I'll Barney it up for you. Anyone can make the demand, but only virgins are right to do so. I even went on to say that the men who didn't respect a virgin doing so are assholes. Sorry (not sorry), but if you had sex before marriage and now you're making a man wait, you're asking an unfair price and he's right to walk away from the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.I don't go through people's posting history in new debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 09:15 PM |
| 9 | Which gender has it far worse when it comes to being cruelly rejected?It's telling that you have to invent a wildly implausible scenario in order to contrast it to the lived experiences of many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.Read the rest. Shame you have to be dishonest to debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 04:11 PM |
| 8 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.There you go again, assuming you know how we feel. I'm not here to argue against your feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 10 | Women expecting to be paid for dates makes their dates worseYour problem is that you're compensating for a lack of interest. If a woman isn't interested in you, she will demand more from you. That's why you're out here paying for dates. That's why you're out here having to buy gifts and trips. Try doing the following: Date women at your level. Date women who make an effort to get to you (as opposed to the other way around) Improve yourself to the level of women that you desire. Get comfortable dating down. Most men throughout history have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingI don't think that people who are doing what they're told they should be doing in the dating market (waiting for marriage in your case) should be punished for it. It's grossly unfair to you and people who are waiting that they're told to wait while watching relationships slip through their fingers. For what it's worth, I'm sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:33 PM |
| – | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.You really should have read that whole conversation thread. I'll let you try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:28 PM |
| – | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateI didn't say it was hard, I said I didn't like it. Some men aren't going to jump through your hoops for your entertainment. Get used to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateYou know what I don't like? Having to use math to Frankenstein a dream girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:21 PM |
| 11 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.If you say so. I'm not here to argue with your feelings. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.Whatever you say. I'm not here to argue with your feelings. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men?Because he isn't attracted to them? Just because you can't have something doesn't mean you stop wanting it or will settle for things that you don't want at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.You have nothing to back this up. You go with this assertion because it's convenient for you and fits your biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 9 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.Thank you for telling us how we feel. You understand that is also a bit dishonest, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingI appreciate that you're empathetic. And yes, you aren't owed a relationship but those men are what's wrong with our dating environment. We cannot demand virgins then run from them because we want to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 11 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.It's a bad premise because you're claiming that the only source of information we have about women is the media we consume and it purposely ignores the fact that we are in contact with women every day in real life. Again, faulty premise. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingThis is true, but in this example they're the assholes, not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 17 | Guys here wish the only women that existed were those with nasty attitudes for a confirmation bias.You're at -14 because you have a terrible premise and you're a dishonest interlocutor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingVirgins absolutely get to make that demand. You are literally walking the walk - you have a boundary that you've held, unlike women who have had sex then demand chastity from other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingWhat's hilarious is that you're outright lying about men not wanting relationships when men are the ones that control access to relationships and 68 million American men have done so. Edit: and that's just the married ones, there aren't statistics for the ones in long term monogamous relationships. Look lady, if you're just accustomed to being PnD, then just say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingWomen, generally, don't fuck unattractive men. This is true. But make no mistake, women ARE having lots of casual sex. They're all just fucking the same kinds of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingOnly virgins get to make that demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingThe 67.85 million married men prove you are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingI think that you should have that right. What you don't want to accept is that casual sex can only exist in an environment where women have the sexual freedom to fuck whomever they please when they please. Men have always wanted casual sex, but there were barriers that prevented us from doing so. Women's "sexual liberation" destroyed those barriers (thanks for the orgasms, I guess) and now women are blaming men for hook-up culture. If you want hookup culture to end, just stop hooking up and dema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingTwice as many women reproduced because men like killing each other. A lot. Cool assertion. Doesn't invalidate the point that most women have reproduced whereas most men haven't. Moreover, you have ZERO data to support your point. Haven’t read the Bible lately, have ya? “Slay all the males and take the women for yourself” Irrelevant to the discussion. Women didn’t control access to sex. Their dads and male owners did Also irrelevant. You're doing your best to dodge the fact that women decide who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Whatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingRoughly 89% of women have reproduced whereas only 40% of men have. Because women control access to sex.. Men have sex when women allow it. https://historum.com/t/throughout-human-history-40-of-men-have-reproduced-compared-to-89-of-women.197048/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 11:02 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?If you cannot follow your own logical leaps, I can't help you. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingWho decides who has access to sex and reproduction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?By your logic, if something bad happened to you then it was entirely your fault and that you deserved it because they got away with it. You're pretty brave to take the stance that victims deserve what happens to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:52 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Why would I expect women to not commit paternity fraud? Yeah, I guess I'm the asshole for expecting decent behavior from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:39 PM |
| 8 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?It's a wild take to say "men, demand a paternity test" and not "women, don't commit paternity fraud". But at least you're admitting that women are scandalous. That's progress I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:36 PM |
| 14 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?You're essentially arguing that paternity fraud is fine if the woman can trick the man. Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingI have no idea. What I do know is that men can't have sex with women without women allowing it. Women, not men, are responsible for casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingIt's irrelevant. If you don't like men having casual sex, your problem is really with the women (who control access to sex) that allow men to have casual sex. But it's passe to tell women to control their sexual urges, so you blame men for women allowing them to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingI'm sorry, can you explain that in a way that makes sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:49 PM |
| 18 | Self improvement - is the lemon worth the sqeezeSelf improvement isn't to get women, it's to have purpose and fulfillment in your own life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingThe percentage that has it with men. If you want men to stop having casual sex, tell your sisters to not have casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingThe solution to this is simple. Women should stop offering casual sex. But y'all won't do that, now will you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Let's be honest, women look better with makeup. It's the whole point of makeup and your personal preferences isn't really refuting that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)You have a fair point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discriminationThe people who are complaining about women dating older men are women who are losing at dating. Winners don't complain about the rules of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)I'm actually autistic. Admittedly, I've had years to work on social calibration but there are some things I still can't shake. I still talk to myself when thinking, I still get extremely irritated over social situations and loud groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:33 PM |
| 17 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?Men have a burden of performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?They can do both. It just results in eternal spinsterdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Debate: What is more important for dating as a man: being physically attractive or being neurotypical (non-autistic or "normal": i.e. being able to naturally socially conform)Definitely physically attractive. I'm autistic AS FUCK but being 6'0" and a muscular 215 gets me a lot of tickets to the bedroom ballet. I've learned that, generally, women just want you to look good and fuck well far more than they care about scintillating conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:30 AM |
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