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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why do people say a girls body count isn't a red flag for an LTR Different morals and value systems 1) sex has as much or as little value as you assign to it. You could have sex with two people and one means way more 2) no bearing on decision making. Sex is a natural part of human life. Yes she can become pregnant but contraception exists. It also takes two to tango, if a man has sex with 10 women and get all 10 pregnant, does that not say anything about his decision making? 3) I'm secure enough to not care and not compare myself to her previous. I'd prefer s…	/r/seduction	11/09/22 11:22 AM
1	Do you seem to attract a certain type of person / ethnicity more than others? I'm mixed raced (half black half Chinese) and seem to attract black, white and South Asian women primarily	/r/seduction	12/08/22 08:28 AM
1	Lost interest on second day of texting. Now no reply. How to figure out what I did wrong? Not to get your hopes up but she could be busy	/r/seduction	10/08/22 06:17 PM
2	What made you fall in love? What qualities do you look for in a man?	/r/seduction	10/08/22 04:53 PM
59	What made you fall in love? She started to explore Christianity, while I'm agnostic. I went to Church with her several times, and we went to this group thing that was like a Bible study class for a few weeks. Her faith became stronger while my position didn't change. We had a conversation about it where she made it clear that she was gonna make an effort to be a proper Christian and that she wanted me to support her in her journey, which meant me converting. I don't remember her ever mentioning religion before we got toget…	/r/seduction	10/08/22 04:42 PM
90	What made you fall in love? What made me fall in love was her kindness and empathy for others, such a sweet soul What made me fall out of love was divergence in world view. Could no longer see a future with her	/r/seduction	10/08/22 02:26 PM
11	How do you go out with an attractive girl in a 10-day sports session I'd talk to everyone with the intention of creating a social environment. You're going to be with them for 10 days so it's best if you can at least talk to everyone. From there I'd decide if there's anybody there (of age ofc) who I'm attracted to, flirt and see how that goes	/r/seduction	19/07/22 03:49 PM
2	How do you guys tease women without it coming off as a straight insult? Not at all, add a push/pull element to it and you'll do fine	/r/seduction	07/07/22 11:00 AM
2	How to recover strong attraction after Exhibiting signs of Neediness and Insecurity? Re the texting, just dial it back. Get busy doing your hobbies, seeing your friends and family, work, exercise etc - the things you should be doing whether you're dating no girls or 100. You did blunder with the 2nd point but you should be honest without yourself instead of hiding your feelings. Reflect on it - why did the lack of clarity bother you? If you want exclusivity, you won't get it unless one of you brings it up. You need to be prepared for all outcomes though	/r/seduction	07/07/22 10:06 AM
2	How to recover strong attraction after Exhibiting signs of Neediness and Insecurity? Has she noticed?	/r/seduction	07/07/22 09:27 AM
1	Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022? I use YSL L'Homme de la Nuit and Dior Sauvage, both of which net me compliments. I also have Tom Ford Oud Noir but it doesn't seem to be a stand out	/r/seduction	02/07/22 12:33 PM
1	Asked to go upstairs at end of a date great date with some awesome kissing but response was “another time” . Felt a bit awk but gave a goodnight kiss and left. She didn't want to. No problems with that. Set up another date with her and go again	/r/seduction	25/06/22 02:57 PM
2	Help. Guy I like just called me “girly” as in “hey girly” He's gay or you're just a friend. I've never heard of a man calling a woman he's interested in "girly"	/r/seduction	12/06/22 11:20 AM
7	Does playing hot and cold work with women work? Because a man who can give a woman all his time and attention seemingly has nothing else going on in his life. When a man is busy constantly, it means his time is more valuable. This is part of the "demonstrating value" tenet that a lot of posters here talk about. Stay focused on whatever you're doing. Not for them, but for you. Give attention where it's earned, IE no small talk. Don't play hot or cold (or any games or that matter), it's manipulative and you're above it	/r/seduction	07/06/22 07:38 PM
2	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? What would you say is the best way?	/r/seduction	18/05/22 12:39 PM
1	I’m Afraid You have two alternatives - 1) hope that a girl sees you and likes you enough to make all the moves or 2) make no moves and live a life filled with regret If you approach somebody, you can't lose. You either get their contact details and can arrange something, or they're not interested in which case you're unlikely to ever see them again anyway so who cares?	/r/seduction	28/02/22 11:21 AM
16	Who is the greatest seducer you've seen in person and what was his methods? One of my friends. The most confident person I know with great social skills, strong wit, good dress sense, takes care of his appearance, well read and well spoken. He's just super personable. I was hanging with him and some friends and he started flirting with the waitress so nonchalantly, establishing a back and forth quickly because he says what he wants to say, and means it. Eye contact, relaxed, body language etc down to a tee and I don't know if he's ever been on this subreddit, or read an…	/r/seduction	27/02/22 06:38 PM