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This isn't a cheat code mother fucker. this is good for new guys (like me) to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 08:57 PM
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What is S/M vector? The relationship needs some serious dynamic changes, hence my trying to unplug from the beta bitch hivemind. I'm sure like that many men here, I've been a beta to her for years, trying to be compassionate and kind when she is upset or I've done something to offend her, but of course 9 out of 10 times that just leads to her walking all over me and me just laying there and taking it. The point of my post is I have always wondered - what IS the appropriate, loving but firm way t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 08:35 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 08:28 PM
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Thank you. As luck would have it, it's well established in our relationship that she HATES when I ignore her. If I do that she will go nuclear. She is obviously one step ahead of me, I need to establish some serious frame...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 01:58 AM
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Awesome. Thanks a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 02:14 PM
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Who's EIC? Also, this sounds retarded but any advice on where to run into high value females as a married father with a busy schedule? No hotties at my work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 01:38 PM
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Together for 5 years, married for 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 12:50 PM
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Ideally, reverse all those behaviors in her and have a happy marriage. Of course, I now realize I need to stop complaining about her and focus on improving myself. Who knows, in the end maybe she won't respond correctly and I'll have to make some radical life changes. We'll just have to see how a little dread impacts the situation. After lifting weights for the past week she already commented sarcastically "are you planning on leaving me"?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 12:45 PM
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Thanks. Failure to lead. Always trying to placate her, walking on eggshells because I don't want to start a fight. I am often forgetful. She handles most of the bills and household business in addition to our baby. She is pretty OCD and high strung, I am more laid back, but I've let these personally differences become an excuse. I have been lazy and passive, while resenting her for not appreciating the hard work I do. Pathetic i know. Enough is enough and it's time for a change.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 09:46 PM
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Roger.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:59 PM
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Put in the effort. I intend to.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:43 PM
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doesn't really work that way I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:43 PM
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Day one - Wife feels "insecure and inadequate" Men, I write this to confess I have been an absolutely pathetic beta for years. I have been a living example of every self-conscious, pussy beta behavior for my whole my marriage (with the possible exception of in the bedroom where I am dominant, but there is no doubt that my non-alpha behavior has SEVERELY damaged and limited our sex life). Until recently I used porn for sexual and egotistical fantasies, literally to pretend I was an alpha, because…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 04:41 PM
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She's happy ... but not happy enough. Where did you get that she's happy? I see this not as me nitpicking and trying to change something about her, but rather if someone you love is sick, you try and find them a cure. In this case it's true the "sickness" affects me as well, but it's hardly a selfish thing to want my wife to enjoy our marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 07:05 PM
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If you give her a copy of The Surrendered Wife, that's going to come off as you telling her she has a problem and she needs to fix it. She won't believe you're interested in her happiness. She also won't believe she can maximize her happiness by doing something you told her to do - especially if it means giving up power. You're absolutely correct on this. That's the point of my question, but it may be impossible for me to influence this. In any case, this won't wait 3-4 more years! EDIT: to the …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 06:10 PM
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Thank you, this is an answer I can appreciate.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 02:44 PM
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Wow, don't bother reading my polite, sincere foreword - "not meant as a troll comment". Sorry you're so pained by this topic, and apparently such a dick that you can't deal with a simple, polite point of disagreement without resorting to cactus insults.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 10:59 PM
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Hey all, not meant as a troll comment, but when do we take the will of a 4 year old into account about anything? I mean, kids don't like wearing clothes or getting their hair cut or eating vegetables. Parents make these decisions. So to me this seems more of a "children's rights" issue than men's rights.
/r/MensRights18/11/14 12:05 PM
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