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3

Did you flirt? I couldn't imagine being in that situation with a woman I'm attracted to and not flirting..
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:26 PM
3

Sometimes people do cute things or look cute. Other times they're sexy or hot. I wouldn't want to be with a girl who's only sexy/hot.. Cuteness is amazing!
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:31 PM
251

Yoga, brunch and binge drinking
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:50 AM
1

How are you matching in ig?
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:38 AM
1

I don't think that's old.. Its just random luck.. I mean it can work but you've usually gotta have some idea she's game
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:03 AM
3

Coke approaching is actually easier for many. I don't actually like powder up my nose but otherwise spot on report my dude
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:11 PM
2

That stuff isn't that common but wild shit does happen, especially if you have fun friends
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:09 PM
3

This is the answer
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:56 PM
1

Idk man I've alwsys found making friends very easy. Probably even easier than meeting girls for sex just because there's more options and I'm kinda picky about hookups. Maybe join some meet ups for interests you have or a rec sport (mostly are really about drinking and hanging out). Just talk to ppl, I met a new friend on another friend's rooftop the other day cause he put on a song I like by a not super popular dj. Make genuine female friends all the time and often after an initial hookup. I've…
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:24 PM
1

Why do you want to ask her I'm going to date? You should just start flirting with her in Friendly situations and gauge interest
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:16 PM
0

Lots of beautiful women aren't the nicest people. She was giving you a shit test and you failed. But.. Do you really want to be with such a bitch? Like I get that you're tired of always being approached but that's kinda part of the reason we go out.. I'd probably have just moved on. But if I wanted to play games with her I'd say something like this: "so like a murder suicide thing?? Oh you're coming with me! - it's like beauty and the beast but with cyanide"
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:23 PM
2

Yup. Time to Bible up bruh
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:13 AM
1

Wtf is wrong with ppl! That shit doesn't matter fuck those fools! If nothing else just do 50 puchups every mourning and some stretching and sit-ups. Do that for a few weeks and you'll get some base strength to feel a bit more confident
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:49 AM
1

The gym is the perfect place to get that fuck it mentality. Nobody is looking at you real talk. It's all in your head. In the gym and in life. Everyone alwsys thinks everyone else is thinking about them but the sad reality is nobody gives 2 fucks about you..
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:44 AM
3

You've gotta spend time with more emotionally mature people. My friend group isn't judgy like that..
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:41 AM
1

I'm sure lots have lied and many more I never asked but serious gf all but one have had less partners than me. And yes, I'd definitely consider myself top 20%
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:39 AM
2

Is that true? I've almost always had more sexual partners than my gfs.. 🤔
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:21 AM
1

What, no. Top 10% gets top 10-30% or so I'd say...
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:39 AM
18

It doesn't just start when you get to your place. It's a vibe that's always there. You know how for many guys just being near a beautiful woman makes them want to have sex with her? It's not like that for people who have a lot of options. For those people (some men and most woman) you need to create attraction through interaction. Some people just vibe better and naturally flirt with each other. Starts with eye contact. I look everyone in the eyes while talking to them but the WAY I look at my m…
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:05 PM
0

Yeah that loan is fucked. Hopefully you vote Democrat and cross your fingers for November. If they win you might get some real relief. Best of luck, things could get worse before they get better..
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:48 PM
2

Yup
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:41 PM
1

What are your expenses? Gas or college loan is probably the biggest. Phone? Help with bills? Car note/insurance? I alwsys bought olger cars with cash i saved and have never paid for an auto loan. It's a monumental waste of money..
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:28 PM
4

Learn to play guitar
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:00 PM
1

Bravo 👏
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:41 PM
1

Yeah this place can be a cesspool
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:40 PM
3

No it's completely useless douche vomit..
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:39 PM
2

Hahah you made it further than me!
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:39 PM
6

Wtf is this nonsense. It reaks of douchebag and lies.. What's your purpose? Also, paragraphs bruh. Paragraphs.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:39 PM
1

How to this possible? Do you eat out often? Buy ANYTHING from places like 711/gas station (other than gas)? It's all those little things that add up..
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:29 PM
-2

Get a job and move out
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:28 PM
5

This is the answer!
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:17 PM
3

Yeah you're 100% right, they can sense that you don't have a lot going on. So change that. Get some hobbies, start working out regularly, maybe go to some meet ups for things you're interested in to meet others who share your interests. Become a more interesting and full person..
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:03 PM
1

This is much more legit imo. It's group based and not for profit
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:25 AM
1

Yup and probably more useful in this arena
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:35 PM
3

Yup! Enjoy the ride cause it ends before you know it
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:34 PM
2

I spent my teems a s beginning of 20s with this problem. Friends but couldn't make the jump. I later realized many were just waiting for me to make the move. I finally learned how to flirt. It's a different eye contact, slightly different jokes and touches. Watch Ryan Reynolds in his movies but be WAY more subtle..
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:29 PM
3

Cause he's a YouTube looser lol. Wake up and realize a scammer when you see one. ANYONE can rate ppl its called old
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:26 PM
2

Yeah that youbube dude nonsensical and absolutely trash
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:25 PM
1

Hahahah this link is laughable!! Wtf is wrong with ppl nowadays. Tinder is all the rating system you need lol
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:25 PM
3

To add to this, emotional maturity takes time. They're just realizing who they are and have no idea what they want and/or need in a partner at this point. It's just a mess hormones, trial and error..
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:22 PM
6

Honestly from the post and responses I feel like you're a bit antagonistic. Sure Dudes post was cringe af but just let it go. I know at under 25 everything seems so important but in reality none of it is. Just enjoy your youth. Make good friends. Focus on your career and hobbies. The dating thing will fall into place, I promise you 🤗
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:29 PM
1

What?? Please stop you're not helping anything bruh
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:22 PM
4

Read my reply..
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:14 PM
115

I'd say it has something to do with how you come across. I'm sure you're a nixe, sweet person but you don't necessarily sound like it from your post. So it’s not me, I’m not sitting here and blaming myself. No, it 100% is you. Eveyone should blame themself for their dating successes and failures. Sure dating is difficult but there are good people out there. I remember my grandfather saying: "if you think everyone you meet is an asshole.. You're the asshole".. 🤔 P.S if I feel anyone coming at me …
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:13 PM
1

Oh yeah it's frustrating af! Dating is tough
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:55 AM
0

23 and just wants dick not a friend a relationship Edit: nothing at all wrong with this go get yours girl!
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:05 PM
3

10 a month mimimun. I'd say more but you're an introvert, don't burn our your social battery
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:43 PM
1

Not everyone is good physically. Also not eveyone is compatable. What he's doing might please some but not you, or he might just be inept sexually like some are with other physical things. Some people will always struggle with simple things like tying their shoes because they are not dexterous. Same with sex.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:04 PM
11

At 20, lol! This HAS to be a joke! Many people are virgins at 20. No worries at all
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:53 PM
7

cuz I'm magically delicious
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:09 AM
2

Who knows maybe the relationship is having issues. I'd say be professional until he actually says or does something to really let you know
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:57 PM
2

thought those were clear signals especially as they were intensifying Possibly but do you really wanna be with someone who's not able to really communicate? If he's in an open relationship why not just ask you out? If it's not open why would you be interested? I'm sure he's not the only guy watching your story and selfies..
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:24 PM
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Love when it's a guy trying to get a girl in a relationship eveyone here is like "go for it bruh!!" and when it's the the opposite everyone is like "no, you bitch"... Fucking reddit...
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:14 PM
2

But then he keeps doing that shit What, liking photos on ig? Think you're reaching for straws here and even if he is into you I'd still advise you against doing anything with him. If he's not actively trying to talk to you, is in a relationship (maybe ENM so no judgment yet) and thinks liking photos is a good way to pursue you he's a douche and waste of time..
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:12 PM
1

This!!
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:44 AM
4

You can flirt with female friends, I have friends I'm cuddly/flirty with and never hooked up with. Others I have hooked up with and keep the same flirty dynamic
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:36 PM
2

Cause he's actually a good person
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:28 PM
7

My issue is that texting is sooo boring but kinda necessary nowadays. I just want to use it to make plans but need to keep attention going so end up too often falling into the boring how's your day type bs that's boring for eveyone involved. How do you guys find things to talk about over text? In person of video chat it's no issue, conversation flows perfectly. Text is just weird and annoying imo
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:08 PM
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This is toxic masculinity at it's worst. Plesee don't listen to this rude and incorrect comment..
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:45 PM
2

Yeah bartenders and strippers are often the same. Nice lesson to learn early in life
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:55 AM
4

Nobody's asking the real question: does she feel the same way? Cause then it's on!
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:21 PM
2

What's up with all you ppl who don't talk to you partners?? My partner is my best friend and I tell her everything. Maybe just talk to her like you talked to a bunch of random people lol
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:49 PM
6

This will work for fwb or girls who aren't into a real relationship. Try this with a high value girl you want wife up and she'll ghost and move on. Like you said, very early on this could work
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:58 PM
7

Came here to say this. Wawa food is the real assasan here
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:13 PM
67

Bro I've had the exact opposite experience in Vegas. The only women approaching me there were sex workers and the ones I talked to all seemed more interested in free drinks or drugs they could get than the people. Seemed vapid and depressing to me.. But I don't gamble.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:37 PM
13

Probably because you have difficulty communicating from what I see here..
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:25 AM
5

Lol that doesn't always happen. I was in a great place in life and at the top of my game, having a great time in a bar that I felt like I owned (knew many staff). My point is that you can make yourself more attractive by being genuinely happy, having fun and living your best life. Not eveyone has solid 8s fall into them. Some get 10s some get 4s. Contrary to what many on this sub believe looks do matter and if you're a 2 you won't be getting 8s..
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:55 PM
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Idk man when I have fun I can't help but attract women. They've literally fallen into my lap to get my attention. You must have some unattractive qualities you're bit aware of. Hygiene? Clothing? Fitness? Well put together overall? Humor or some interesting conversation skills? If you've got all that and still have no interest from any women I don't know what to tell ya.. Do you have female friends?
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:03 PM
2

Get out more. Meet more people. Spend at least 3-5 days/nights away from home doing something other than work where you'll meet ppl
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:29 PM
3

Just takes practice. Keep talking to people and practicing social interaction. You'll notice the eyes. I'm sure at some point there's been a girl who's had a thing for you. Maybe not someone you're into but whatever. Think about the way she looked at you. Smiled at you. It's different than other looks. You See Hollywood/ig females do it all the time. It's smiling with your eyes and is subtitle but very effective
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:11 PM
1

Just get to know her and be genuine. Seems like she's not interested in playing stupid games (since she's messaging a lot and not waiting for your response)
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:26 PM
3

Every situation is different but yes, start respectful and learn how and when to escilate. Eye contact is HUGE and often overlooked on this sub. You can tell when someone's giving flirty eyes vs friendly eyes and with practice know which eyes you're giving too. The first few minutes is ALL about the eye contact and body language. You can tell if she's into you from those 2. Then escillate and gauge her response. Rinse and repeat. It's not rocket science but ya'll make it into just that..
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:21 PM
5

This is good. So much of the advice here reeks of toxic masculinity. This is just how to be a better person! Nice post
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:51 PM
1

Yes. Tom cruise is shorter. Many celebrities are and still considered sex symbols. You're making excuses. Loose the weight and tell us how you feel/how women respond to you. You got this my dude
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:46 PM
0

Smh at the ignorance and short sighted mindset. You're not making genuine connections in life and missing out on so much. Sex isn't hard to find when you're living a genuine, successful life. Good humans are.. You're going the opposite direction and think you're some pua genius.. Its sad lol
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:40 PM
2

Yup, and fwb, gf, friends, succeed in business and life...
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:25 PM
1

Loose weight. This should be your # 1 priority for a number of reasons. Get a bit of muscle and loose the fat and you'll be looked at very differently
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:17 PM
6

Yes! This is the only sensible reply
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:47 PM
42

Yeah you're very confused. Just connect with some girls as humans, you nerd female friends cause you don't understand them at all. Most people have different sides to their personalities and women are no different. She wants to be respected in everyday life but desired and turned on too. Lots of people find it very hot when others take charge and show dominance. I'm pretty dominant but I'd be lying if I said it's not how when a girl takes charge and let's me know what she wants (rare but hot lol…
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:40 PM
1

Tell me you're single without saying it
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:08 AM
1

If you're getting ghosted by someone who calls herself your gf you're doing something terribly wrong and should look inward..
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:57 PM
430

He's an asshole and not worth your time
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:40 PM
2

Idk man, good communication is attractive. Sticking strong to your beliefs is attractive as long as those beliefs aren't just plain wrong. Being confrontational in a way that pisses people off is not attractive it comes off as childish. I used to be abrasively confrontational and it definitely doesn't make you more attractive. Being confident and a natural leader does but a confident leader inspires people to follow by building bridges not tearing them down.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:08 AM
20

Don't be a douche and you won't be called out on it Me: Yeah, you look disgusting (with a smile)
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:55 PM
15

I'd go further to say that having female friends dramatically increases the amount of women you meet who will actually give you a chance vs cold approach which will only work with a certain %
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:27 PM
4

Being tall is a chest code with women. It literary unlocks the highest levels without the exp. This is all you bro. Look at yourself objectively and see what you see. Might be as simple as smiling/looking happier but only you know the answer..
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:21 PM
2

This is the only comment in this thread. Everything else is fluff and bs. Well said!
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:00 PM
1

How tf long are you dudes beating it? Isn't it a quick 10 min break the back to your day?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:41 PM
1

Oh I'm not always calm lol. But I find when I can remain calm the outcome is better
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:03 AM
1

I'd rather not be so emotionally tied up to external factors. I used to be an angry person often and I realized it was only hurting myself. Justice can usually be achieved without getting angry
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:34 PM
-2

Difference is sadness is an acceptable response for an adult. Anger is an immature response for a child. Don't be a child.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:29 PM
0

Hard dissagee!! This is the shit that gets your tires knifed lol. Why not reach boys to be men instead of deceiving little bitches?? Your advice is to keep stringing her along instead of an adult conversation?? Fuck this double talk bs! You're the reason men and women have so many issues! The real answer is to sit down with her and explain how you feel. Maybe you're not into monogamy, tell her that, or better yet, tell her BEFORE you sleep with her. Why does so much of this pua bs include decept…
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:28 PM
2

Good luck and I think you're on the right path. Sure dm and I'll give you my opinion
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:29 AM
2

Sounds like you have a great life and are being the best version of yourself possible! I'm not sure why you're having difficulty with women. Are you trying with women who have similar looks to yourself (like 1-10 scale)? Meditations is amazing and if you're actually following through with what's written in the book you should be on the right path. It does teach people how to be decent humans (ie liberal education lol). It's amazing how many men are out of touch with reality these days..
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:29 AM
5

If you can't get a single woman to sleep with you I Gurantee you can't get someone who's in a relationship. Look in the mirror first my man - You sound pathetic. Work on yourself and stop trying to find out how to get someone to cheat with you. It's a weak mentality and weakness begets weakness.. Seriously, better yourself first then try to seduce someone. Read philosophy, every day. Work out. Become a better man. There's no shortcuts in life.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:14 PM
2

Sounds like you're getting frustrated and starting to fall into some negative and toxic mental loops. Once you improve yourself and improve your friendships the women you meet will be higher quality and more interested in you. Study some philosophy and keep active. It's not about being too nice, women love people who are nice, it's about living your life for others. That's always go be pathetic. Have a big, amazing life and women will want to be part of it
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:32 PM
2

Jsut touch then more. Hold longer eye contact. Learn to flirt with your eyes as opposed to stare.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:00 AM
0

What lines do you think are better? I've heard complaints but you're not offering anything.. At least they're trying..
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:08 PM
2

I've never, ever heard anyone say that lol
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:50 PM
2

Please do and update us!
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:48 PM
2

Meet women through this new friend. Tell her you want a gf, women LOVE setting ppl up
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:47 PM
2

More touches, hold eye contact a bit longer than usual.. More touching.. You got this
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Yeah that's probably true. It's much hard in lower populated places..
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:28 PM
1

You need more options. Why do you even remember her after a week of no response..?
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:17 AM
0

Many obvious red flags.. Her bf controls who she's friends with.. Fuck that shit
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:51 AM
1

You just neo level doged some bullets. The world works in mysterious ways but this time in your favor
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:13 AM
-3

No. It's like saying a women looks like a whore.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:01 AM
22

Underrated reply.. Actually.. Only reply.
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:59 AM
2

Definitely!
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:14 PM
5

Nah I've tried many many types and sizes. If you think it's the same you're not very sensitive. Make genital mutilation is a huge issue in America.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:11 PM
6

Definitely not worth the risk unless it's a long term partner and you've both been tested!
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:31 PM
28

Unfortunately this is just 100% false. Yeah it's safer and the right move but no.. It doesn't feel in any way the same. It's a huge difference!!
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:14 PM
3

Dude just start flirting..
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:01 PM
4

Incel. Go home.
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:22 PM
2

He's a butt hurt reb pill incel lol. Don't waste your time with looses like this lol
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:22 PM
12

You're issued with women are due to you being a shitty person not your height. Go back to school and study philosophy. Learn how to be a good human and your life will improve..
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:21 PM
35

Those women are worthless. Find higher quality people to spend your time with. Life is way too short to waste on ignorant fools..
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:19 PM
7

Yeah it helps a lot! There are a certain % of women who just won't look at guys under 6' or 5'10 or whatever height qualifications they have. It's usually the women who consider themselves to be in the top 10% in overall attractiveness. They have enough options that they can just disqualify anyone they want and it's often shorter guys. They also often have a minimum they'll accept for facial attractiveness but what's considered attractive is much more varried from person to person.
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:17 PM
2

Put on like 5-10 lbs of muscle. It will change your world
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:09 AM
1

Oh, very iteresting! Plesee share links cause I haven't seen this and might totally change my opinion
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:46 PM
1

You're hanging out with the wrong people lol
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:31 PM
2

Sustained eye contact and flirting.. Takes practice to escalate and notice her reactions all in real time. Just start touching her and holding eye contact just a bit longer than normal. It all takes practice and eveyone learns Ata different pace
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:30 PM
1

Some of them I hooked up with then became friends. In that situation it's easy because we've already done it and have closeness from the friendship so it feels safe. When it's friends first it really depends on the individual relationship. Some are definitely friends only. Others.. There's always a flirty or at least playful nature to the friendship that's a bit different from other fully platonic female friends. It usually starts with the hugs and cuddles becoming more frequent and longer (I'm …
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:43 AM
2

Isn't that the point of this sub (s)
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:35 AM
3

Well put, thank for pointing that out and adding to the conversation. Her updates definitely make the whole thing seem less preditory. Still, going balls to the wall like that can definitely have bad consequences. Especially for 5's
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:34 AM
3

You lack empathy. Study philosophy. Read the books from a philosophy 101 syllabus then expand from there. Meditate. Volunteer for charity. All of those things will help to grow your empathy.
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:32 PM
2

People of value don't judge others on things like that imo..
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:40 PM
1

Yeah not all people expect the same type of connection. I need to share a decent amount of interests with my partner but that's not eveyone. I'm glad it's working out for you!
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:39 PM
3

Well written and thought out post. We need more of this in the sub!
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:19 PM
7

Just read your post and the comments again. And again. And, if necessary.. Again.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:45 PM
12

There's a lot of butt hurt to unpack here. 1 - everyone's top 10%will be different so you definitely can be top for some and not others. 2 - you should expect a be with women on your level and you seem a bit down on yourself. How can you expect to be with someone who you value higher than yourself?? It's a recipe for disaster. Know your self worth and act accordingly.. 3 - improve yourself and gain self confidence. Nobody wants to be with someone who considers themself to be less desirable. Own …
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:44 PM
70

Yup this works very well for young and/or low self esteem women. Confidence is always sexy, being over confident or pushy isn't. I was at a birthday party with friends last weekend and I invited a female friend to tag along. She's 30f and absolutely stunning. One guys at the party did exactly what you're describing and the results were hilarious. She became increasing put off by his constant attention and overbearing attitude (too touchy with no reciprocation), hands on her chair, even offered t…
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:24 PM
1

This probably won't work long term, it's a honeymoon phase. People need things in common and your arguments are getting weaker and weaker. I agree some of the toxicity in this sub is gross but so is hating on others for their desire for deeper or shallower connection..
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:00 PM
1

You're all over the place lol. I highly disagree with this. You're putting your values onto others and it's just as disgusting as the misogynistic comments from the men. Stop slut shaming!!
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:55 AM
1

Nonsense. I've been able to be picky for years. Many men I know turn down sex with BEAUTIFUL women reguraly. It's all about where you swim. Get out of the kiddie pool and join us in the ocean. It feels endless..
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:53 AM
-1

Only misogynistic men think like this.. And yes, there are many here..
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:50 AM
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This is utter nonsense and a perfect example of the toxic misogyny in this sub
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:49 AM
1

Nah my dude, just individual preference
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:46 AM
1

I agreed with lots of your posts but not this. It's a personal choice and trust me when I tell you that lots of women truly enjoy sex with multiple people, often. And there's nothing wrong with that!
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:45 AM
0

Thanks for adding some sanity to this thread!
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:39 AM
0

This does not represent all men. Just weak, confused children..
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:38 AM
2

No this comment is written by a butt hurt chil lol
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:37 AM
1

Thanks for immediately proving my point my dude
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:36 AM
48

Yup, very bitch move imo
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:36 PM
215

Who tf has time to report people on tinder lol
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:35 PM
4

It's just hitting on people during the day. All that 5/10 and top 5% is nonsense. Very rarely do 5/10 people end up with 9.5/10 people no matter the situation. Lil Wayne doesn't even get 9.5 women imo and he's fucking Wayne..
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:31 PM
1

But you can tell if they can play. Sure their post game might be unreal during game time but you can tell the difference between someone who doesn't play and a high level athlete very easily..
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:52 AM
4

It's his flow guys. He's mad smoth and if you don't get it that's one of your problems.. Also in my experience it's not 10s that are into him. It's solid 7-8s which ABSOLUTELY checks out imo Edit: flow = lyrics, swagger, tone, style and overall vibe..
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:54 AM
2

Yup lots of attractive people out there. They like to show you the best first to hook you in too. Keep swiping and you'll see more average people too. But in NY there are a lot of very attractive, educated and fun people. It's competitive at the top
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:20 AM
1

I've never known anything like this. You're probably missing something. Seems like you have a lot of issues with his lifestyle tbh
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:52 PM
4

Yeah obviously lol. What kind of question is this? Can you tell if someone is good at basketball just shooting around?
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:10 PM
1

Not pressed like many in this sub tbh but I remember times when I was. Life's a process and if you're not continually learning and growing you're stagnating..
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:07 AM
2

Gotta heavily dissagee. 99% of cases a guy isn't going to lose his attraction because of something abstract like "chemistry". Not the guys I'm friends with. We, for the most part, have enough options to be choosy and expect chemistry to be interested in a second date. Sex isn't that hard to get lol
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:24 PM
1

That's good! Maybe if you get the chance ask her about it. Communication is key, and a turn on to many women
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:30 PM
3

Maybe she likes hanging out but not the sex And idk is she orgasm means no my dude lol. That's your problem right there
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:19 PM
7

Most people can tell if there's a chance by 3rd date.. If there's no chance then they'll next ya
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:55 PM
31

Is there a reason for this? Yes. She didn't like the chemistry between you two either physically, personality wise or emotionally. Not eveyone is a good match. I'm sure there are women you see a few times but don't want to continue after a certain point..
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:54 PM
5

where it could’ve went wrong? Seems like she didn't enjoy the sex. Did she orgasm?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:57 PM
1

Get over the ego thing, I get it and am similar but for me I just loose attraction when she's clearly not into me so the problem solves itself
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:22 PM
1

Yeah the second paragraph was unnecessarily mean but the point is correct. Just be friends with people you get along with, nerve know what the future holds..
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:20 PM
2

This
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:13 PM
3

Maybe if you're 15 lol
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:01 PM
5

A few things: 1 - don't expect to meet people while in uniform. Tbh anyone who would try to hit on an officer in uniform is probably not someone worth dating. 2 - police aren't super popular in society right now so depending on where you live that could immediately exclude a large % of potentisl dates. Are you conservative? If so maybe meet people in groups/events that will attract similar people. If you're a liberal leaning cop in a liberal city it might be a bit difficult. Not an easy time in …
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:06 PM
1

That's a tough one. If you're not already aware that she feels the same way she probably doesn't. I think after 5 years you either have that flirty friendship or not
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:00 AM
3

No idea why they'd think you're cold or mean 🤔
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:38 AM
35

Tdlr - if you act like friends with a girl she'll become a friend. I somewhat disagree because I've hooked up with lots of friends. Sometimes one of us is in a relationship when we meet so become friends first. Just because you're friends doesn't mean you can't hook up lol Edit: I probably am too flirty with attractive female friends but whatever I like to flirt and have fun.. I'm also there for emotional (and sometimes physical) support
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:53 AM
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Each person and situation are different. Sometimes it means she's really into you like you say.. Other times she's still trying to decide. Seduction, like life is amazingly complex. I will say, when the sexual chemistry is so good she just CAN'T wait for the second date, it's a good thing for this sub. Not necessarily open to a ltr but if you play your cards right almsot guarantee she will be. People tend to fall hard and fast for the ones they have very strong sexual chemistry with. Especially …
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:14 PM
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One easy way is to make friends with women you're not attracted to. Easy to keep it friendly that way. I'm also friends with lots of ex gf and hookups but that's a bit more tricky.. Gotta end things on good terms which takes practice and won't work in every situation
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:53 AM
2

Let me pay 4500 for a douchebag to teach me how to be a douche.. Fucking donkey
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:37 PM
2

gotcha bro
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:03 PM
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Yeah social awareness is important in life. But on the flip side how many times have you seen that guy literally wear down the girl and in the end she goes home with him?? Presistsnce does work.. But sometimes in a creepy, kinda rapey way
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:38 PM
0

Right! Were you righteous or jealous.. 🤔
/r/seduction01/06/22 07:17 PM
1

Same with women.. And.. Edit: I'd say almsot anyone can be a 6.. 7 takes some natural attractiveness
/r/seduction01/06/22 07:09 PM
2

The hotter she is the more I try not to immediately validate her appearance. It's hard not to look tho for real
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:29 PM
2

No, seduction has nothing to do with manipulation when done correctly and ethically. You're doing it wrong and will only meet toxic people. Wasn't saying it's the same, just a similar argument..
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:11 PM
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Anyone over 18 can date whoever they want. I only hate on people who are hypocritical about it..
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:09 PM
1

The gas lighting and manipulation aside You can't just put that aside! Aside from the murders Ted bundy was a handsome dude with gsmae! Wtf bro.. 🤔
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:31 AM
1

Yeah and she's not really as attractive as he is.. Saying it can go both ways..
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:46 AM
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Yeah back in like 2008 lol The world has changed a lot. The new generation is different. Also even back then lots of that bs only worked for very young women with low self esteem
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:39 AM
2

But looks matter for getting into that deep relationship 🤔 And yes, many serious relationships
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:37 AM
1

Cool story
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:36 AM
0

Not much these days as I have regular sex from enough different and new women. In the past, lots. 10+ per week for years. Much more in the beginning when learning social skills..
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:26 AM
15

True. It's always been a HUGE turn off for me if a girl isn't into me so I have no issues walking lol
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:25 AM
20

Or don't reach out at all if there's no reason. If she's cool and becomes a friend maybe but I don't chase or care about her (sexually) once she shows lack of interest
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:24 AM
1

It's only awkward if you're a douche like many in this sub seem to advise. Just be friendly and not creepy..
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:24 PM
2

People are there to get in their reps and go home. It can be very intrusive. Not like a bar or event where people are often there for socializing
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:22 PM
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That's a good mentality to have but I wouldn't burn bridges.. I literally can't count the number of women I've had this happen to only to forget them and have them reconnect and try very hard to meet up at a later date. Everyone has stuff going on, don't take anything personally and be genuinely nice and respectful to people who are respectful to you. Good things will happen if you respect your fellow human..
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:56 PM
2

I feel ya, I always wanted to move to California but not as much last few years with the fires and crazy inflation..
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:37 PM
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He's attractive and 6'2" Pete Davidson is a great example.. Other than Ariana (everyone gets lucky soemtiems) his women are at best 8.5 and he's like a 7 so it's not a huge gap.. I don't think Kim k is that attractive... It goes the other way more and more these days. Hugh jackman..
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:36 PM
2

Dam you nailed this on every angle. I think the 100-500k is the sweet spot. Not too big and expensive but enough ppl And don't get down on yourself. There's always time to change where you live and I'm sure you've experienced many worthwhile family/friend relationships that you couldn't have enjoyed elseware. You seem like a good dude! Best of luck
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:31 PM
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OK dude.. Sure 😂🤣
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:28 PM
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Most of this is spot on and EXACTLY what lots of guys need to hear.. but I don't necessarily agree with this: Looks matter to a small degree, but they really only open the door for you. Looks matter, a lot. Very few 10/10 women will be with a 5/10 guy. It just doesn't happen often, even with $ and status. Look at the gf of lil Wayne and other unattractive celebrities.. But yeah, confidence goes a very long way and looks do just open the door.. But they can open doors that are locked for unattrac…
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:51 PM
1

Nice try Lance 😂😂🤣
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:36 PM
1

Medium city but large metro area. I don't know how people in small towns meet ppl! Most of my friends from smaller towns have left because of that and other reasons..
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:28 PM
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Idk man, I'm older too and as I continue to better myself more and more women are interested in me. I find it progressively easier to attract beautiful women every year.. Edit: I do look young and keep myself in good shape. Always making new fun friends and enlarging my already strong social circle.
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:10 PM
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It's not about lieing about caring. Its learning that her acceptance or rejection isn't that important. You must have a stronger sense of self worth so that you ACTUALLY don't care..
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:55 PM
1

Even Michael Jordan was nervous at some point but he kept putting himself in uncomfortable situations, learning competence and confidence until he was no longer nervous. Be like Mike.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:52 PM
1

Get out there and socialize! Meet people, get fun hobbies and social activities. Make friends! Then as your confidence begins to grow start approaching women you find attractive. No pressure just conversations. Escalate in your mind and in the world from there.. You got this man!!
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:33 PM
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Of course you don't.. Good luck baby bird
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:26 PM
10

Says the literal sport spoiler 😂😂🤣
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:25 PM
11

A lot of what's good about sex is the connection between the 2 individuals. They test that connection by getting to know men BEFORE they immediately sleep with them, thus answering your original question.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:20 PM
27

Nobody wants to help such an obviously shitty person or shit post. Go home
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:15 PM
2

I've found the exact opposite but I'm a man.. I do know many women in their 30s with very fun, active dating lives. At some point you have to look inward. Like if everyone you meet is an asshole...
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:11 PM
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For men it's hard to get sex for women it's hard to get good sex. They're trying to go through the difficult process of selecting a man who will actually please them..
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:08 PM
1

take them out on dates, be respectful, listen to their problems, This isn't an equally exchange, it's being a douchebag and will only work with young and/or immature women. Trouble..
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:49 PM
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Elaborate..
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:34 AM
13

after a few negative experiences you start to either become bitter and introverted, or you grow alligator skin and treat them like they’re all cum dumpsters That's the reaction weak men have. Strong men realize that if they better themselves they'll be attractive to better women who won't treat them like that.
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:11 AM
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This is what this sub needs. Thanks!
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:10 AM
2

Like most things in life both have positives and negatives. Not trusting is safer but you might miss out..
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:52 PM
2

Yeah that's true and makes a point for teaching this stuff to men over women. Somehow they can deal with the stuff society throws at them without killing lots of people..
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:02 PM
1

Thought it referred to hip hop clothing which is cool if that's your thing but if it is you wouldn't be posting about how to achieve it.. Not trying to be a dick just saying I'd focus on other things before diving into a style just to impress women
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:54 PM
1

You insulted yourself in the post and comments. Focus on bettering youslf and wearing fitting clothes first. Not drip..
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:51 PM
1

I'm not the one posting for advice. I'm giving advise on how to get better with women...
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:41 PM
2

I have many beautiful women that regularly have sex with but cool story about drip bro
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:38 PM
4

Says the overweight dude posting about drip..
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:33 PM
19

This HAS to be a troll post
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:14 PM
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Probably a bit of both. You can be genuine and vulnerable without being needy and weak. It's about how you respond to adversity. Do you rise to challenges or complain and make excuses? Also timing is everything, don't open you're whole like to someone you just met. That's the time for fun and playfulness
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:55 PM
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No,he's misogynistic
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah I feel ya.. We've all met people who haven't treated us well. Kinda why I advocate for just being genuine, obviously the best version of yourself possible but not conniving and misogynistic as many in this sub seem to prefer..
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:09 PM
4

What? So you don't think there are differences between people?? Or are all women just the same. I'm not quite understanding you..
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:44 PM
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This totally works to sleep with young, emotionally immature women. You all know the type, the ones who you see on the YouTube fight videos with the guy getting knocked out by the bouncer. The ones who poke holes in condoms and falsify rape charges. Glad you guys are taking them off my hands and leaving the quality women for me. Seriously, thanks!
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:17 PM
1

1 is banter 2 is not funny negging. There's a big difference
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:40 AM
0

Well said, we'll see what this sub thinks...
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:06 AM
1

Yeah it could help minus the division of men and women. Philosophy from a young age would also help society greatly
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:35 AM
1

School is social skills class my dude
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:45 AM
1

Gotta be a troll post lol
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:09 PM
2

Where are you located? I've never had a problem in NY, LA, Seattle, SF, DC or any medium/large progressive city..
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:09 PM
1

But then all the grimy pua stuff in this sub won't work! Nah, fuck that I'm gonna get me another bartender (s)
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:07 PM
-1

Why not just make friends and go out with them?
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:51 PM
2

Maybe you stare and it makes them uncomfortable. Maybe it's nothing. Definitely not a sign of interest.
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:53 PM
2

Not all chicks are crazy and not all high value women are sane I mean by my definition high value = sane. So yes, not all women or men are crazy, but some are. Check what? She got pregnant and decided to keep the kid
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:10 PM
1

This feels very spammy What are you selling bro 🤔
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:17 PM
4

Crazy for one. I don't want to deal with crazy. They will fuck up your life quick. Not worth it imo. A good buddy of mine has a 6 yr old from a crazy 10/10 hot girl he met at a bar. They were drunk. He swears he wore a condom..
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:38 PM
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They're getting low value women. That's it. I wouldn't bang those women with Florida man's dick
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:18 PM
2

Wtf?? Nonsense imo. Just improve yourself.. all this fake it is fine but if you don't actually do the work you won't see the results. It's just like the gym dude
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:52 PM
2

Stop listening to the nonsense on this sub. Be genuile. Don't use PUA stuff like negging or not being friends with women. Start having genuine connections with everyone in your life. It will get better.. and literally the 2nd-3rd message is me asking when and where are we smashing. Try not saying this but instead learning about who they are, what they like, etc. Quality women aren't dumb, they can smell a player a mile away and while they'll fuck a fuck boy they don't want to date one..
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:05 PM
1

I like to date women closer to my age too but I really enjoy younger sexual partners from time to time
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:34 AM
1

Dam who fucked your girl bro?? Salty as the fuckin ocean my dude
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:07 AM
1

Sorry you've been hurt or are bitter but that's just not true. Spouse or gf can be stronger bond than family. I've seen it. Stories and songs have been written about it for ages..
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:06 AM
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older, you realize the dating market shrinks. Women are getting snatched off and the dating pool goes down and down Not if you keep improving yourself. Why do you think you see so many beautiful young women with guys 10+ years older. Sure $ plays a role but not always. My good friend is a 10/10 lawyer and she's dating a guy 15 years older. I can date more 21 yr olds now than when I was 25. Wayyy more..
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:01 AM
2

You're missing the point. I'm not friends with every hot girl I meet or date. I'm friends with the people who's company I enjoy. Sometimes I've hooked up with them at some point before or during the friendship. Life it's all about sex but if you keep a strong social circle of both genders you'll meet way more people to potentially have sex with. Trust me when I tell you an introduction from another hot girl is the best opener out there.
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:30 PM
1

I've had sex with women I've been friends with for years. Usually after breakups as emotional and physical support. Actually had a threesome with a college cheerleader friend 2 weeks ago. She had just come out as bi. First time we've done anything other than drunken makeouts in college a decade ago Edit: many of these woman also started as people I slept with or dated
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:47 PM
1

If you wanna be one of those people get female friends.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:55 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:40 PM
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and I don't want my friends to find out about her yet Find out what, that you took her number and are talking as platonic friends? There's nothing to find out, yet. It's a good first step though. Lots of people will tell you not to be friends with girls, I dissagee for many reasons. Get to know her, maybe set up a study session just you two.. Get to know her. Decide if you like her.. Start being more flirty and touchy.. Go from there
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:05 PM
1

Rejection is normal and okay but don't be a creepy douche. Read the room and stop escilation when she's not reacting properly. Learn how to meet people and get people to like you and women will like you. They are people..
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:59 PM
2

Yup being genuine is definitely the best
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:21 PM
1

Sounds like you guys are young (study). Nothing you do in your 20s really matters and tbh you're still children. Grow up and realize that healthy people have friends of both genders.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:42 AM
1

Take ig, never know
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:34 PM
1

Just loose the weight everything else will get better. It's like 90% diet.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:33 PM
1

Don't vote?
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:30 PM
1

Are you a republican?
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:25 PM
1

Really? To be fair, I'm mostly concerned about my own pleasure so hey... So you're admitting you're bad in bed. You're right. So you're admitting you're bad in bed and no women want to have sex with you repeatedly? That's not subduction.. Its pathetic and you'll end up alone. Gurantee you're a republican.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:25 PM
1

Really? To be fair, I'm mostly concerned about my own pleasure so hey... So you're admitting you're bad in bed. You're right. So you're admitting you're bad in bed and no women want to have sex with you repeatedly? That's not subduction.. Its pathetic and you'll end up alone. Gurantee you're a republican.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:25 PM
1

Can I ask you a question and will you answer honestly?
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:21 PM
1

Have fun with the scraps then. Quality people are emotionally mature. Crazy people aren't. Enjoy that..
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:13 PM
1

Hahaha they definitely are. My male AND female friends and I have been there for each other through many difficult times. They constantly tell me about the douchebag guys they meet. In their 20s they'd fall for your shit and sleep with you a few times - Trust me when I tell you I've heard countless stores of dude bros just like you over talking and underperforming in bed.. and in life. By 30 they learn to just avoid guys like you so you age out and end up alone and bitter. Gueantee you have a sm…
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:12 PM
1

Because I have female friends?
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:06 PM
1

Why?? You want some drama filled fool?? Have fun with holes poked in your condoms bro
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:05 PM
3

Women don't care about whether or not you have female friends because you're not sexually attractive My point is that they do. No matter who you are having female friends shows you're a regular person not some incel weirdo
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:02 PM
1

Varying levels of closeness.. Some are close like family.. Others are more acquaintances. If I trust and respect them I call them friends.
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:58 PM
1

Someone who you associate with and keep in touch with. Can varying levels of closeness
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:03 PM
2

In any case, if you don’t know how to be sexually attractive women don’t even think to at far about you. If you are sexually attractive, they don’t care anyway. What?
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:02 PM
1

I mean sure lots of my female friends started as dating partners. Others I have hooked up with at some point later on in the friendship. If everyone's emotionally mature it's all good. I do also have attractive female friends in haven't and wouldn't hook up with cause the vibe is just friends.. And others that it may happen in the future. The value they add is being awesome people with whom I enjoy epending time with. I get your point too, just seems maybe a bit limiting for the best life and so…
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:01 PM
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I guess. Seems weird though.. Like who only has friends of their gender? Maybe people who have very few friends in general but in my experience those people aren't good at seduction but rather luck into a relationship and stay there..
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:46 PM
1

I don't know anyone without friends of both genders and haven't since high school
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:37 PM
2

Show me one guy in a healthy relationship who doesn't have female friends. Show me one guy who consistently gets attractive, decently emotionally mature women who doesn't have female friends..
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:01 PM
4

If women don't wanna be friends with you why would they want to date you or be around you?
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:30 PM
1

I like women who are emotionally intelligent and kind first and foremost. After that, I'm attracted to many/all "types" but I guess less attracted to very slim (like no curves) women and not at all to overweight women. Much more attracted to natural look vs plastic/fake
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:21 PM
1

Between the 2 and 4 second mark show a slight facial expression. Maybe a coy eye smile (look it up if you don't know, it's how women look sexy without outwardly smiling) or slight grin/smile
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:33 PM
7

To add to this, have woman friends. Guys who only have male friends are a huge red flag to most emotionally mature women.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:30 PM
3

I have multiple partners who all enjoy oral so I guess I exchange.. orgasms..? I don't really get your point. I strive to achieve genuine connections and relationships with all people in my life. When you achieve real connection and experience the joys of sex without your tricks and cohersion you will understand what I'm saying. Read some self help books and study some philosophy to get started. You don't have to fake it, trust me. You deserve something better and with work can achieve it. 8 bel…
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:38 PM
2

Yeah I get upset when people teach others to treat women poorly. It should bother you too!
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:16 PM
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Nobody says just be yourself, we say be the best, most genuine version of yourself and DON'T be some pua douchebag using bs tricks to get young, low self esteem women to sleep with you
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:54 PM
5

19m.. Serrching for years. Your math is wrong. Talk to me when you're 25. You're just entering actual dating age. Focos on your depression and anxiety now and don't worry about girls. Lots of men at 19 don't have regular sex. Most I'd wager. Just do you. Get some hobbies, exercise. You got this bro!
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:41 PM
10

Being attractive as a man has to do more with your fitness and frame than you looks. There's a lot of guys who don't really have an attractive face, but they are shredded and confident and have lots of pussy. I'd fully dissagee here. A good looking face helps everyone imensley. There's really noting more important physically. But, a good looking face won't be enough by itself. Can't be too fat or the face no longer looks as good. Sure hit body ppl are attractive but imo attractive face goes much…
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:24 PM
17

This is solid advice!
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:19 PM
3

Nice post!
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:07 PM
27

This is the best reply! You will never be a 10 for eveyone. Just focus on being attractive to the type of people you enjoy spending time with
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:21 PM
2

No, you're garbage so the people you attract are too.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:50 AM
6

This is absolute nonsense. Everyone is in apps at some point. This is coming from some butt hurt dude who can't meet anyone OLD Edit: changed auto correct word
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:49 AM
1

Hahahah! Not this sub lol. Just try to gravitate towards genuile people and if unsure don't sleep well him too quickly. Douchebag dudes (many populate this exact subreddit) won't wait too long 😜
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:48 AM
1

Yes, females want sex just as much as males. Sex itself isn't immoral or creepy. The way many people go about getting sex can be both.
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:34 PM
1

I feel like hand holding is more of a 2nd-3rd date thing. First time meeting solo maybe just be fun and physically escilate but don't hold her hand. You're not her bf. Just be light and playful.. Arm, hip touches with flow of conversation and go from there based on her reaction...
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:27 PM
1

I get the first half but.. For the physical aspect women do date less attractive men from my experience, the women is usually like 2+ points above the mans appearance Could you elaborate on this...? Are you saying that women are more likely to date men less attractive than themselves? If so, why?
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:34 PM
9

Absolutely true. That's why I alwsys caution against the douchebag advice often found on this sub. Just be the best version of yourself and everything else will work out.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:32 PM
3

You're the man! Almost made a friend, close one bro
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:41 AM
1

No. Drinks, coffee a walk..
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:16 PM
2

Well adjusted people don't find aragonce attractive. It's young/broken behavior..
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:17 PM
1

Han is a complete dick. Don't be a dick
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:13 PM
1

Means she's young and/or very immature. She'll be trouble and probably toxic. Be careful..
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:09 PM
2

Barmaid?
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:04 PM
3

Maybe you're just an introvert who needs space. Maybe you just haven't met someone you truly care about yet.. I have friends and romantic partners I can spend lots of time around. I'm also an extrovert.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:34 PM
2

Seems like she was initially attracted but you haven't done enough to increase it and/or create sexual tension. Flirt more, tell a bit risqué or raunchy jokes (gauge her humor before of course). Be unpredictable but reliable. Be strong but vulnerable. You got this!! And if not always a good learning opportunity..
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:12 PM
2

Yup, you're on the right path bro! The more enjoyable and full your life is the more woman (and people) will want to be a part of it
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:58 PM
4

Yeah I feel ya. I used to get way into my head and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Just keep yourself entertained and things will work out. When you're having fun and genuinely enjoying life others will want to be part of that
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:03 PM
2

Are you humerus? I think humor is very key to turning the corner from friends to a possible sexual partner. I use sexual jokes and playful banter all the time to gauge interest and build attraction. It also helps me decide weather in into her of not. If she doesn't get any of my jokes it's probably not gonna work out anyway. I choose to sleep with people who's company I enjoy. If humor isn't your thing there are other ways. Deep, mysterious, smoldering.. Or sex king with all the toys/ropes, etc.…
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:35 PM
3

This is one of the best posts I've seen on this sub. Please read this! Especially young people
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:28 PM
1

Yeah I get it. I once paid for bumble premium and didn't get a single real conversation going for over a month. Realized my pics and profile were shit. Researched writing profiles and OLD communication, hit the gym, took better pics and made it work.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:39 PM
4

Anything can work. I don't usually do old but went on tinder for literslly a week last summer and met an amazing girl I'm still fwb with. I've also used tinder/bumble for months without any lasting connections. Also had women super like me and was having sex that day. Like everything it's all about timing and how much work you put into it. Rule 1 for old - don't take it seriously at all. It's just to fuck around and see what happens. Just like cold approaches.. All timing and numbers game, have …
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:34 PM
1

I believe you're the one with his dick on your mouth lol. I think he's trash and would never associate with someone so far below me like that. His EQ is extremely low. Like a child.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:25 PM
1

I'm pollyamorous but actually understand what it means. You and Mike will end up in one on one circle jerk by 35 at the rate you're going. Trust me, this guy is a tool and fraud. Connect with humans on a real genuine level and you'll understand what life can be. Trust.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:20 PM
2

Yeah he's a total looser
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:18 PM
6

Op please don't follow this trash. We don't need any more bro dude douchebags. This Mike dude comes off very poorly in the first few paragraphs. All HUMANS are naturally pollyamorous not just men, Mike. This fuckin guy...
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:54 AM
4

Probably 6'3" too lol. I've seen women act ridiculous for tall mediocre dudes. Height is a better cheat card more than $...
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:04 PM
1

Wasn't the norm 10 years ago and I knew more 19 year olds then..
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:31 AM
2

This is the best comment
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:50 AM
22

Dude you had a gf at 19! That's a huge win by itself. You're young and on top of the world
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:11 PM
5

Talk, look him in the eyes, touch him while talking, smile, laugh..
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:29 AM
2

Better you are at making friends the better you'll be at attracting women
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:33 AM
3

How about making a friend? New wingman? Wingman for the night? If you're ONLY focusing on sleeping with women it gets thirsty and pathetic real quick
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:32 AM
1

Where does it say that? I've seen 510 and he looks taller than 59 next to people
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:31 AM
-7

Or just not be a creepy thirst trap and talk to humans for reasons other than sex..
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:33 PM
1

510 is not short lol
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:48 PM
1

No, it makes ons woth 9-10 women more difficult. That's all anyone's saying about height..
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:48 PM
3

Depp is 510
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:47 PM
1

Dude you're 5 10. You can't speak on this. You're not short. Lots of women won't date short guys. Idk how you don't get that this conversation has nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:46 PM
189

Just talk to people! Why limit yourself to only girls? You might make a new friend so just talk to everyone!
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:41 PM
3

Yeah that's what I'm realizing.. I think I've always been alpha enough due to my strong personality.. Even though I do fall hard for girls and am more of a relationship person. Just realized I've never really been too nice (even though I thought of myself as a 'nice guy' looking back honestly, that hasn't always been the case...)
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:13 PM
2

Yeah maybe.. I'm a pretty aggressive/assertive person but I've also always been very generous and loyal to people that I trust. I've had to learn to be more calm and gentile as I get older. It definitely helped with women vs being more of a selfish jerk when I was young but everyone's experiences are different.. Edit: also most of the ass hole guys I know are divorced and single..
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:18 AM
3

Yeah, stands out as an asshole. Trust me any worthwhile woman will not fall for this frat boy bullshit. Maybe girls under 25 with low self esteem but imo they're also a nightmare to deal with
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:23 PM
4

there's always going to be someone better. With that mentality, definitely. I don't think there's anyone better for me than my current partner and she feels the same way. When you make genuine connections you'll be amazed how loyal people can be.
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:49 PM
5

tightens ropes
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:38 PM
4

Be better than the other guys. Most people don't have a very high IQ or EQ. You can control and change your EQ. Just don't listen to top comment and be an ass. Lots of ass holes out there, that won't make you stand out and won't help with any quality person.
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:19 PM
3

Women can get sex basically whenever they want, not men. There should be a relationship version for both sexes that focuses more on establishing healthy long term relationships.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:34 PM
2

She needs to file a restraining order. Simple.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:00 PM
0

Ya'll grasping at straws and thirsty af! Sometimes people just like to people watch. Go say hi and find out.. Or don't. But this post is a waste of time
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:49 PM
8

Depends on you. I know a guy who's 45 and gets more quality women than any of the douchebag pua artists out there or on this sub. It's all about you my dude. Eat right, work out, use lotion (no it's not femine, it's preventative). Keep your mind, body and soul strong. I'd take a quality 35 year old woman over a shitty 21 year old so why wouldn't they do the same.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:21 PM
5

You're thinning that paying for stuff and buying them things will create attraction. That's not how it works. Sure money and gifts help bit you need some level of attraction. Or spend wayy more money and probably find them on different sites just sayin
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:13 AM
3

Woah buddy this is r/subduction not r/personal growth!?! These dudes think EQ is a black market viagra
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:11 PM
1

Close but I don't agree with this part: Women evolved to like the feeling of confidence even when nothing backs it up. Tons of losers with nothing going for them get women because they act confident. Those are the douchebags I speak of and they'll rarely get quality woman. Just be genuine and life your best life. Woman will follow. Guaranteed.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:09 PM
2

100% nonsense. Cringy douchebag stuff comes across as arrogant. The stuff you see from "pua" artists and lots in this sub is cringy.. But that's not real confidence. It's bs arrogance and is painfully obvious for anyone with a decent amount of EQ. So if you're faking confidence it will be obvious, yes.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:06 PM
3

Go the fuck home looser. You get 3 meals a day in your mom's basement. Plesee leave this sub as you never have anything of substance to add.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:15 PM
3

Your sisters are associating with the wrong women. I don't have that experience with the women in my life but they, for the most part, have very high EQ. Edit; wording Eidt: there's one woman in our circle who does this and everyone tries to get her to understand to no avail. Should be the outlier not the norm. Choose new friends.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:20 PM
1

Only douchebags. Real men will love it!
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:45 AM
2

I hope you find the good ones. There are lots out there, especially in big cities (just lots of people so numbers wise)
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:32 AM
26

When you meet a real woman this shit won't happen. There are genuine people put there, meet them with open vulnerability and all of your relationships will blossom to the next level.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:01 PM
2

It should happen naturally.. This isn't something you can pre plan or you'll seem like a jerk. Just tease/banter with her as you get to know each other. It takes practice, tbh the best way is to be friends with woman..and men but if you're not used to female energy that would help.. Then you'll naturally feel more comfortable and act natural around them..
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:09 PM
1

Hopefully someone else can answer this. I've seen good posts here but don't think I saved them..
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:06 PM
1

This is true but the term "game" bothers me.. I see way too many posts from dudes who probably can get low self esteem woman to sleep with them through weird behaviors and tricks but they'll never be happy long term because they're not genuinely connecting with people. They wake up at 30 and realize they've learned game but have no idea how to be a decent genuine person..
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:43 PM
1

I don’t put women on pedestal I never simp I am aware of tactic “don’t chase, attract” Get all this pua nonsense out of your mind. That's what's hurting you, you're way too in your head about it and I feel you're putting pressure on picking up women. If you don't like clubs don't go, you'll never attract someone in a situation that you're not happy and having fun. Do things that you enjoy and meet woman through that. Make a stronger friend circle that doesn't enjoy drinking like you. Meet people…
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:41 PM
16

This is the type of seduction post the sub needs. It's not that different that the douchebag ones on the surface but when you actually read through its way better. This contains actual info on what to do not just "don't be a simp and have confidence"
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:08 PM
2

I'll take how to be a complete douchebag for 1000, Alex
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:58 PM
1

Nobody says just be yourself. It's just be your BEST self and don't desperately chase women for the sole purpose of sleeping with them like some creepy perv. Not complex my dudes.
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:48 PM
5

Turning point for me was flirty jokes. When I transitioned from regular humor to flirty jokes/banter with women I found attractive everything changed
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:35 PM
4

This was my biggest issue when yoing. I had no idea how to create attraction from women. The links shared are good. It's about escalation and flirty banter. Push pull isn't all pua douche nonsense even though the way its often presented here comes off as such. Keep on the path
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:19 PM
2

Yeah that pua nonsense is definitely a ploy to get $ from low value men. Be better at life and you'll be better with women.
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:57 AM
1

Why is eveyone stuck on that lol The thing that impresses women is having a life and not being a thirsty pua douche
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:04 AM
1

Idk why you're hung up on one point It's all about not focusing on girls and focusing on yourself. 100% that. You seem weirdly obsessed, did you have hygiene issues as a kid?
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:49 PM
1

I dissagee.. I would have appreciated reading this in high school. Lots of people could use this advice in the college or way later in life. I see so many posts that reek of douchebag. Those dudes may get laid but they'll never meet anyone quality
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:48 PM
0

The advice is to stop the bs pua nonsense and be you, do you and women will find that attractive
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:33 PM
0

Who cares if it's true, it's good advice! Why be a dick for no reason?
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:01 PM
-2

Bro you're wise beyond your years! Stay the path and you'll be king!
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:53 PM
22

This needs to be copied and replied to 90% of the posts in this sub
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:13 PM
2

I'd read the room better or have a better approach. Probably a shit test that you failed. Just keep trying and it will get easier and more successful
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:04 PM
2

See this is good seduction advice that's not cringy or some alpha pua nonsense. Well said! This is exactly what people in this sub need!!
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:38 PM
3

Neither. It's often just a fact. Funny story, about 10 years ago I met a beautiful young woman outside of a bar. She was super sweet and talketive but had a bf. I was polite and took her number just as friends. We never really chatted much but I tried to keep in touch. She randomly texted and asked me out about 2 years later. We were fwb for about 6 months as neither of us wanted a ltr then.. Just be real and genuine and appreciate human connection. Good things will happen..
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:45 PM
2

I have higher standards than Charles Manson. I wouldn't want to be with any of those women.
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:27 PM
1

Yeah there's that side of self improvement than there's the 7 habits side where you just become more successful by becoming a mroe emotionally and socially intelligent and moralistic person.
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:16 PM
-35

Please don't follow this advice.. He's a complete douchebag. Don't be a douchebag.
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:38 AM
1

Yeah that alpha, perfection nonsense is infuriating and definitely leads to self doubt cause nobody can be that perfect..
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:28 AM
12

I like the first paragraph you lost me in the last 2. I think a lot of the macho, Alpha PUA stuff in this sub is nonsense.. Being truly be happy with oneself is the key to life and seduction.
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:16 AM
1

Probably because they're mid 30s and not looking for a real, long term relationship. It's a huge red flag that the man is immature. People like making fun of immature people. Edit: I'm saying that I don't think society cares about the ages if other dynamics are above board
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:08 PM
1

Unfortunately this just isn't true. For the women who consider themselves to be 9+ height IS often a big deal.. because they can choose ANYONE they often never have to look at guys under 6' or whatever their own personal cut off is. When shes 30 and been literally fucked over by many tall dudes she'll learn height is a stupid and unnecessary qualifier.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:13 PM
17

Apps are good for stereotypically good looking guys. Otherwise kinda waste of time.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:35 AM
1

Yup, lots of confused men here lol
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:09 PM
2

Totally agree. Toxic bs 💯
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:07 PM
0

Problem is this is the exact advice many on this sub would classify as simp or beta behavior.. Lots of nonsense, toxic pua trash here.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:05 PM
2

I'm sorry but everything you say is nonsense. You need to look inward and grow up.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:06 PM
1

Yeah that's tough but there are wayy more non monogamous people out there now then when I was in university! Keep doing what you're doing and you'll have a few awesome fwb soon enough. Also learn how to really notice the reactions to what you say and gauge your escalation off that. Everyone's different and some women immediately respond to witty, confident banter while others need more warming up..
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:45 PM
1

You hate the bs "game" and pua nonsense. The "professionals" reek of douchebag and are not good models for human interaction. You seem genuine and already have a strong social circle. Just keep doing what you're doing. Most normal, decent humans who are looking for other decent people don't bat 1000. There will be wins and losses..
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:35 PM
1

This guy gets it
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:48 PM
4

Those dudes have no idea how to get a quality woman. They're jokes and seem like insufferable jerks who'd stand no chance with educated, intelligent women.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:46 PM
2

Wait until you meet someone who makes you feel like you can't resist any longer. Someone who you know a bit before too. It's an intimate act and much better when the two people know each other a bit and have some mutual care/respect
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:36 PM
1

Not a male vs female thing. It's an interesting interesting, engaged human vs auto pilot human thing. Are YOU making conversion with random people? Are you constantly on your phone or do you make eye contact with eveyone around you? This stuff is all in your control.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:56 PM
2

What? Yes. Obviously
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:55 AM
103

Hahaha yeah sure tell that to the hundreds of millions of people who've met in dating apps. I'm still very good friends with women I've met on apps and met SOOO MANY people irl through the connections made on apps. You're just making excuses. Meet people wherever you go!!
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:34 PM
1

Not be a douchebag like many in this sub recommend Just connect with humans, make friends and good things will happen Also hobbies and improving yourself
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:54 AM
6

This sub is actually being infiltrated by douchebags. Be careful and learn how to notice the differences. When men make blanket statements about "women" that are absolutely bs like: you know women cannot teach you how to get women Obvious red flag that the writer is immature and struggles with actual human connection.
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:41 PM
1

Dude you're doing great, amazing from what you say. Keep on the course, these women are below you and have their own issues that you're not responsible for fixing. Good women will 100% notice and respect the MAN you are while these lost souls will continue to chase violent, shitty boys.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:14 PM
7

No. 80% of douchebags do it. Not men lol
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:57 PM
0

These girls are all in relationships Sorry op but you sound like a douche. Women can smell slime..
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:55 PM
6

Hahah yeah the 6' women don't care about height.. Its the 5' ones lol
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:46 PM
5

Yeah but I LOVE bit tits..
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:45 PM
0

Hahah haha sure bro.. If will is a simp.. Maybe it's a stupid word/idea and anyone who thinks about it is probably a beta bitch deep down 🤷🏻‍♂️ Will has fucked more than you ever will. Guarantee.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:12 PM
1

Definitely depends on location too. I'm talking about major cities not suburbs especially not conservative suburbs..
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:22 PM
2

I'm telling you bro ever since me too the whole douchebag thing has REALLY gone out of style. Only very young, immature and/or low value women go for that shit these days.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:20 PM
1

I don't agree. A confident nice guy who's emotionally matchure and even self depreciating will win over a jerk any day of the week. Source: Pete Davidson and Kanye.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:16 PM
1

Then find better people. I was with dozens of beautiful AND emotionally mature women in my 20s. I also spent many nights alone wondering why that perfect 10 in the club wasn't interested. Certain people are only surface deep and those will definitely choose looks, confidence and money over everything else. But nobody wants to be with a complete jerk who doesn't also have other desirable qualities.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:10 PM
2

It gets better closer to 30 but there are women your age who should be into decent people. Not always gonna be the type you're immediately attracted to in the clubs though
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:51 PM
3

How old are you guys?
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:34 PM
10

If people constantly view you as low value you're either associating with the wrong people or are low value. Look at the things you can control and your decisions. Keep making better decisions and you'll be rewarded in every aspect of life.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:00 PM
14

I don't even know where to begin here: emotional vulnerability This is probably the most attractive feature when combined with confidence and living your best life. If she's acting like you're low value it's probably because you're not confident or are obviously lacking in sexual prowess or not an interesting dynamic person.. Why does it seem like women only like jerks more than ever? I'd argue the opposite. I feel like women appreciate vulnerability more than ever. Even 10-15 years ago society …
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:07 PM
1

Lol this reaks of douchebag
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:51 PM
13

Well put! I am typically somewhat the alpha type and since I've cooled that nonsense down I've had MUCH more meaningful connections.. And more sex.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:51 PM
6

Agree with your two. Being genuine and looking for real connection in every facet of life will yield better results than any of the "seduction experts" advice.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:50 PM
12

As a over 35 male I'm realizing I'm VERY lucky and unique to get turned on, cum, stay hard and be able to go again or wait and almost always be ready to go. I do LOVE sex and women.. Maybe too much lol
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:29 PM
23

It's practically guaranteed
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:25 PM
1

Gotta be genuine, friendly and talketive with everyone you meet. Fake it tell you make it.
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:44 PM
0

When you are truly living your best life.. Or a no fucks left life.. Women will swarm to you. Different types of women for each senerio..
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Sounds like your on the right path. The key is to find a way to connect with people on multiple levels but always be genuine. The relationships coming from living like that are amazing!
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:03 AM
1

Why would you WANT to presume a girl like thst??
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:21 PM
7

Gain social status, go out with groups, make female friends (that last one is often overlooked here). If you can't/don't want female friends you probably aren't going to be successful long term (obviously exceptions to everything). It's about being comfortable in the presence of femenine energy and IS a game changer.
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:40 PM
1

I do unless the guy is particularly cringy then just make fun lol. Not everyone deserves help...
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:38 PM
1

Dissagee.. The second dialog feels cringy like a frat boy trying to neg his way into someone's pants. Texting is for setting up dates imo.. All that bs is a waste of time for me until I get to know you
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:54 PM
8

Everyone has certain physical standards. Either you're attracted to someone or not. Personality comes into play after that minimum physical threshold has been met. So basically out of the people she's attracted to, personality matters. Think tinder, the top 10% of guys (looks) get something like 90% of the swipes.. But if they don't have personality those swipes won't turn into dates. The guys with the best personality will end up with more dates even from that 10% who doesn't swipe on the hotte…
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:49 PM
23

I mean, use eye contact to bring them in and escilate. You're obviously a good looking dude, when you learn and master the look.. Its over
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:38 PM
71

I've always had a hard time with dance floor game. Try using eye contact when you get a chance.. You can tell a lot about people from how they look at you
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:25 PM
1

Why don't any of you dudes want actual friends?? I don't see why this is a loss or why you'd cutoff.. Please elaborate..
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:38 PM
6

I'd probably call the restaurant and request any tip back becsuee that's not good or professional service. Possibly even ask for a full refund..
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:21 PM
1

They don’t like it when men are weak, that isn’t their fault the same way I don’t like it when women are morbidly obese See I fully 100% disagree with this. I was just talking to a (beautiful) friend this past weekend and she was saying how she was so much more attracted to a new potential partner because he was very vulnerable and cried about some deep family stuff the last time they saw each other. She was on the fence before that becusee he didn't seem emotionally mature and open.. The women …
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:56 PM
0

I mean, I know people who are like that.. Just not the people I decide to keep in my life. I'm all about genuine human connection with all of my relationships so maybe just shy away from that type of person..?
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:34 PM
1

Dinner isn't a first date option for me. Drinks or coffee for the first date.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:52 PM
1

I've dated 50+ women in my life and never experienced what you're describing. I do have a serious aversion to the "soriety girl" types or any girl with long fake nails, hair, etc. Might save me from this type of person..? Kim k and that la/ South Beach type are not on my radar. I'd rather the hot rave girl who's suepr sweet and emotionally mature 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:47 PM
-1

Ya'll are soooo lost... Its honestly very sad..
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:44 PM
1

This is some incel bullshit bro. Males and females are people. Stop trying to divide and instead become more comfortable with your fellow humans. I 100% guarantee it's something you're putting out there because most women (people) have an amazing capacity for love and warmth on many levels and for many people.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:43 PM
1

Nah you're a pro dude
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:03 PM
1

Yeah obviously look matter. But you can't change your looks gotta do the best with what you've got). You can be a genuine, decent person. It goes a long way..
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:48 PM
2

You guys just don't get it. Obviously looks matter but only so far as to get you in the door. After that you've gotta have personality to stay..
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:37 PM
6

You're 100% wrong. I feel bad for you.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:20 PM
2

I'd take the friendship down a notch or 2. Be friendly but aloof and stop caring about her or what she's doing. Look at her like you look at one of your boys. Treat her like a dude. You got this fam
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:04 PM
2

Y'all don't get this at all. Looks are something but not everything. There are good and bad people everywhere. No one person matters that much just be yourself and be genuine and it will work out
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:00 PM
1

Lots of bad info here. Rogaine (Minoxidil) does work. There are other options too. It's important but not the only thing. Humor and confidence are key, so is being a genuine, decent, person. That's lost on this sub
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:16 PM
3

Start slow. Make friends. Be a normal social person. Take care of yourself. Start talking to random people. Work out. Eat healthy. Meditate or center yourself in some way.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:00 PM
3

You're not a good kisser to her.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:23 PM
3

Ya'll don't get it. This subreddit often misleads men and possibly creates some toxic situations/intentions. It's not about constantly scoping our girls to "cold approach" it's about becoming a sociable, friendly and confident person. Fuck yeah it's intimidating to go out there with the whole perpose being to "game" women. Because it's creepy and not how you should approach the situation. Just be friendly and talkative to EVERYONE! See a dude wearing your favorite teams jersey, tell him it's sic…
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:16 PM
2

Game is not selecting a prostitute from a list..
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:17 PM
4

It's morally wrong to not tell her he has a gf
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:33 PM
19

Why are you posting? Why are you friends with someone like this??? Just ask ehr out, fuck him! Or better yet, "unintentionally" let her know he has a gf. Maybe invite them ALL out to an event without letting them know 😈
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:32 PM
22

Not you, tinder.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:12 PM
35

I swear it's all bots now lol
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:08 PM
2

You have shitty life experiences if that's the case. It's about growing as a person..
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:07 AM
11

This 100%. Read and learn.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:43 AM
13

Hahah! That IS your age
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:42 AM
2

It does if you're constantly improving yourself
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:41 AM
1

Wrong. 100%. It about life experience.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:40 AM
4

Has been wayyy easier for me every year. Mid 30s now. But I've always looked really young
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:38 AM
-2

It's only vague if you don't try to understand. It's about meaningful human connection and once you experience it you won't want bs interactions anymore. Trust the process.
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:42 PM
0

Yup. This is how to achieve meaningful relationships of any kind
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:40 PM
-1

Don't make unfunny comments. Sounds like you're turning them off with subpar humor. Sorry if this is too blunt but lots of ppl are clueless in terms of human interaction. Be yourself, be open and vulnerable and find someone who's vibe matches your own. Not rocket science ppl...
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:08 PM
-5

This should be more up voted but the betas don't like to belive its all internal so they blame "advice from women"... Another cop out incel bs excuse imo. Treat people like people and life gets better..
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:06 PM
19

They don't mean wait forever... They mean stop frantically looking for pussy! Women can smell the slime. But, if you're genuine and connect with people on a real level you won't have to look. Trust me, they will come to you.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:04 PM
0

You're a lost cause. You should absolutely take dating advice from women, if you want to date women. Yes, be open and honest with people, isn't that obvious. Idk what you're even saying tbh..
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:02 PM
2

Probably have a creeper stare lol
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:04 PM
1

This guy gets how to human. Take notes fellas ;)
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:56 PM
1

Not eveyone can get what they need form one person. I know I can't.
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:28 PM
2

Or if the friendship vibe is still there be friends but don't post this shit..
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:22 PM
50

What is this? You're married why do you care?? Edit: just judging by the tone and content of this post, I think you are suffering from low confidence. Why else would you be posting this...
/r/seduction14/02/22 03:55 PM
2

Agreed. This mentality is why guys need a suductiin sub.
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:45 PM
3

This somment is true but a bit oversimplified. Assuming you're living your absolute best life... Everything in life works well when you're doing the things in the first paragraph. Obviously when living to the fullest everything is on easy mode.
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:33 PM
1

This but also with height.. Personaity, humor.. Etc
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:14 PM
1

You're completely misunderstanding the thread here. Either you're deliberately trolling, you're not trying to understand or you're unable to grasp simple concepts. Im saying that all things being equal - take a guy with exactly the same looks, personality, humor, etc and make him 5'5" or 6'2" the taller version will have more women attracted to him. That's it. Not that height is most important, blah, blah blah... Do ya feel me dog?
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:11 PM
1

What's your point? I'm just saying that all other things being equal, height does matter. Over 6' gives you more options. That's a fact.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:28 PM
1

Oh yeah 100%
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:04 PM
1

I'll feed ya baby bird https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/after-service/201909/5-reasons-why-women-and-men-care-about-height
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:21 PM
2

That's statistically not true
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:56 PM
2

Lil Wayne is like 40 lol. He's directly in his prime!
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:19 PM
1

It would. He'd also have developed different attractions if we was 6'..
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:18 PM
6

Sure it will entice some women. But if Jacques was 6' the amount of women would be next level. Imagine lil Wayne at 6'.. He wouldn't be with plus sized models.. He'd be with Arianna grande or Kim Kardashian...
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:56 PM
11

This isn't true in my experience. It's about how the girl views herself. Many women who think they're an amazing catch just won't look at guys under 6'. Black and mixed women seem to less into height but I think it's just personal experience at that point. I'm sure in Miami, Vegas or LA a grater % of women would be the type you describe. Source: short white guy who's dated many attractive women of all different ethnicities. If I was 6' I'd be pulling 9-10 exclusively. Now it's more like 8-9s mos…
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:52 PM
11

This is very true for women who view themselves to be in the top 5-10% and who are under 30. They'll put up with tons of bad and selfish behavior until they realize these tall guys will never respect them. People who have always been considered attractive aren't often forced to develop their personalities or emotional intelligence.. And it shows.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:31 PM
2

Nah I think general decency is the social contract we all sign when swiping right.. Or at least after meeting irl or lengthy convo
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:39 PM
4

To add and simplify for both genders: just meet people as people and look for connection and/or friendship. If that's going well the sexual part will follow naturally if the vibe is there..
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:23 PM
2

Yup. And with that mentality you'll be happily alone with nothing owed to anyone.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:14 PM
12

I agree but why call it "girly" and make so many gender generalizations? It's a bitch move for a man or woman. It's not respectful or mature but why drag women down in the process? It's this mentality that brings about the shitty side of feminism...
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:12 PM
1

I see so many posts like this with some dude trying desperately to create a vibe or connection where there is none. What do you like about her personality? Why are you two a good fit? I feel like lots of guys are just horney which (unless you're top 5-10% in looks) isn't enough for attractive women.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:21 PM
22

You seem like a douchebag.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:00 PM
2

If you have to ask..
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:12 PM
3

Ahhh yeah I agree! Nice to learn that one young
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:32 PM
25

Nope. If you're with someone you actually like and get along with the sex usually improves for the first few times as you learn each other.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:18 PM
6

And.. What's your point?
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:16 PM
4

I'd expect they're salty, jealous or shitty people.. Or you're not treating the women you "date" with proper respect.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:18 PM
3

This! She's working so you've gotta tread lightly. Look for signs, slowly escilate.. Then ask for her number when you're sure she's into you.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:31 PM
16

This guy...... Pays therapy bills
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:58 PM
2

Not if you read the situation and day it at the right time to the right person. It's all about reading the room
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:34 PM
1

You don't have to, I just did
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:56 PM
5

Just say hi
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:35 AM
1

Hahahah! Yes, it happens every single night of the year.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:35 AM
1

I agree with South Asian brown men. Middle Eastern men are another story..
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:33 AM
1

Before be was a celebrity..
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:05 PM
1

It's 100% what this is about and if you don't understand that's your biggest problem. Our own mind is one of the biggest hurdles..
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:30 PM
2

This! It's the attitude. Indian and middle eastern men who are just regular Americans pull like nobody's business. Immigrant brown people with heavy accents, big cultural differences don't. Also no religious people are seen as attractive in big cities.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:05 PM
0

Middle eastern men are in VERY huge demand in big liberal cities. Wayyy more females I know (white mostly) are smitten with anyone who looks like they might speak Arabic 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:03 PM
1

Hahaha in many liberal cities being non-white is a bonus nowadays. Eveyone is bored with the white male.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:02 PM
5

Hahaha tell that to Kevin heart. Guarantee he got women before he was famous and dudes like 5'2 lol
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:00 PM
2

I disagree. Everyone looks different but taking steps to better ourselves, be more interesting, sociable and confident is relevant for all people. Men and women.
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:58 PM
6

This! Then whatever the friend says you relpy with "yeah, okay... Anyway" and talk about a fun place around the block! Level 100 shit.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:29 PM
2

Ignore her. You two had plans not her and her friend. She should have told her friend to leave without you asking.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:28 PM
1

Idk if reddit upvotes are any indicator you seem to be insufferable and wrong.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:14 PM
1

Then why are you here complaining??
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:02 PM
1

Hahaha you 100% missed my point but okay just trying to help lol. I think you're talking to low value guys with WAYYY too much time on their hands 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:52 PM
3

Hahah! Nah they're talking to other women (and each other) about nonsense all day
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:49 PM
3

In my life it's the women around me who are constantly messing and "phone locked" (my term for it). Most guys I know don't enjoy communicating with our thumbs and just use as little as possible
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:41 PM
1

I feel the exact same way but for some reason people wanna have a whole relationship via text nowadays 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:38 PM
1

Makes me calmer and a bit more outgoing. 2 drinks after a few hits is perfect
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:29 AM
0

Exactly!
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:16 PM
12

Sounds like she's a great catch but probably won't fall for any "game" techniques because she's too intelligent and confident. Just be real and approach her like a human for friendship. If you're not able to do that I'd move on to the next.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:05 PM
1

You're so wrong here it's sad... If that's how you view your interactions with the opposite sex you're going to have a lonely life
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:48 PM
4

Probably didn't enjoy kissing you and didn't feel sexual chemistry. I've done that with women but only la handful of times
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:52 PM
37

Nah, it's that women in their 20s don't have the confidence or life experience to go for what they want. 30+ women are also just hornier, it's biology.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:50 PM
2

Are just bragging?
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:49 PM
0

As soon as you forget they'll be way more interested
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:23 PM
1

Just start touching him. Like alot when you're interested. Make eye contact and touch him. It will happen
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:39 AM
1

My issue isn't in person but over messaging aps. How do you create attraction only through texting???
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:39 PM
2

Sounds like he was just his natural douche bag self and it kinda played itself out
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:27 PM
1

True, take away Boston
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:43 PM
13

Yeah I used to be all gas too I get it
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:17 PM
27

True. I find the woman in Vegas and Miami to be mostly gold digger types with boring personalities and fake looks. Much more difficult to talk to and hook up with than liberal arts NY girls. But everyone is different. I'm sure the kid Rock type has better luck in Vegas.
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:02 PM
9

I've never enjoined that type of woman's company but to each their own
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:57 PM
15

That "game" bullshit only works for low self esteem, young and low value women. Try being genuine if you want real friends and relationships. It's MUCH better I promise.
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:26 PM
26

Missing Washington DC. Tons of new people all the time and hugh # of single young females
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:24 PM
85

Yeah but they're all fake. Looks, personally, job, all fake. Not my type. East coast cities (and all big cities really) like NY, phili, Boston have lots of educated, attractive and worthwhile women.
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:22 PM
2

Not surprising to me at all. Obviously it is to some
/r/seduction11/01/22 05:44 PM
3

I've seen lots of those guys end up divorced and alone
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:40 PM
-23

Guys are the same way. Often times you'll see an aging 30 year old guy who thinks he's something special just waste the next 10 years being an immature jerk, chasing 24 year olds and end up old, fat, bitter and alone. Happens all the time.
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:00 PM
0

You sound like a douche bag and don't deserve her. Why slut shame? Would you expect her to feel the same way if you slept with someone else?
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:02 PM
3

ideologies like incels and black-pill, These aren't ideologies they're ignorant beliefs held by the same losers who never got laid in any era
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:56 PM
1

This one
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:05 AM
0

What the literal fuck!?! You seem weird and creepy. Why not just talk to her like a normal person? Why not ask her if she wants a kiss? Fucking ppl, smh..
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:31 PM
3

Wait until he's 30
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:16 AM
8

Alll people have to work for quality sex and especially relationships. Women just have different problems like weeding through douche bags negging them.
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:11 AM
3

regardless, I also found that some of the girls that are fully attracted to you, like you can really see it, they fucking love you, like I had this asian chick, clearly investing in me, like a lot alot, but like i just wasn't attracted to her at all really... seemed a bit dumb, and too much makeup... and i felt like i could have easily fucked her, but ehhh i don't think i could get my dick hard etc... Yup, for people who think like this it's 1/100 at best. Girls can smell douche bags a mile away…
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:10 PM
3

He's the major winner here. No contest.
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:11 AM
1

Nah that technique was huge BEFORE cell phones. Rules 1&2 ppl. Follow rules 1&2.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:21 PM
2

Ahhh follow rules 1&2. Gotcha.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:19 PM
1

Nope. 1 be attractive 2 don't be unattractive
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:39 AM
10

Get off this sub reddit and try to genully connect with eveyone you come into contact with. Not just pretty girls but everyone. Don't be arrogant. Confidence is understanding that you can learn something from every single human. Be curious. Make friends. It will happen. There's absolutely no rush
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:56 PM
2

Looks like you followed rules #1 & 2
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:44 PM
2

Wait, you got a response on tinder?? Gotta stop there cause the whole thing sounds made up
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:28 PM
10

Nah it's about reading the room bro.
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:46 PM
35

Better title: How to be a douchebag 101
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:38 PM
7

You're a dick with shitty advice dude.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:38 PM
13

Girls will chase men who only care about themselves. Do what you want and she will be addicted to your attention You obviously only date and know girls. Women are much more complex and individualistic. Real, quality woman have enough going on in their own lives to not chase douchebags who only care about themselves.
/r/seduction31/05/19 11:47 AM
9

This ^
/r/seduction31/05/19 11:43 AM
2

Think the porn thing is a younger generation thing. I'm mid 30's and watch porn but it doesn't negatively effect my dating life. My peers have similar experience. The rest of the list is spot on! Well done!
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:12 PM
3

Trying to be the "gamey alpha type who pushes past the no" only works in the stories of bullshit bloggers and and YouTubers. It doesn't work in real life Not true. It's just difficult to do while not seeming way too into her/the outcome. I have friends who are masterful at pushing past the first shit test or 2. It takes a certain careless, fun, positive personality but some girls thrive on this push/pull dynamic. I'm a bit too lazy/self important for that as I usually just move on at the slighte…
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:35 PM
9

There's a lot to unpack here: 1 - First, "game" is definitely a skill. It's mainly the skill of bettering one's self. 2 - Like any other skill there are individual limits on how much you can improve. I'll never be as good at basketball as LeBron James. Doesn't matter how much I prectice. (ex. Physical attributes, face symmetry, etc) 3 - Confidence is key. 4 - With age we (should) gain confidence. 5 - Confidence isn't necessarily being "ballsy" but I can see how the lines can be blurred. And hone…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:26 PM
2

Go ask him a question doesn't matter what. Smile and touch him. Just small touches on the arm but keep doing it. If he touches you back, game on (90%+- some ppl are just touchy)
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:46 PM
-1

Even a blind squirrel finds a nut 😉 Seriously tho, Ariana sucks.
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:50 PM
1

Never the intent but some things are unavoidable lol
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:39 PM
-2

I'd adapt that jsut a bit. Going out to meet people and have fun while sober is totally cool. I've seen too many guys who are only interested in meeting women to sleep with. That in itself is creepy.
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:32 PM
2

Yeah they are! Just tired of thirsty duchess who only go out to hit on girls.
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:15 PM
2

I've been trying to do this lately. Thanks for the reinforcement. Alcohol is definitely more of a crutch than anything for game.
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:02 PM
13

Don't drink when you go out Where are you going out then? I also hit rock bottom (5+ years for me. Divorce, etc) and put some serious work on myself. I'm well socialized, live in a large city and have a very fun and attractive friend circle. When we see a guy at the bar, not drinking and actively hitting on girls it screams creep. My female friends will clown that guy so hard he'll loose all social value and have to move locations. I've seen it countless times. Do you have friends who you're wit…
/r/seduction17/03/19 12:54 PM
7

This! Don't over commit a any point. Telling her you've already made your choice puts the ball wayy too much into her court. I like the I'll have to see response much more.
/r/seduction25/02/19 04:00 PM
1

Nothing is worse than high school.. Except maybe middle school lol.
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:01 PM
5

I have had WAY better luck after college. College is basically hs part 2. The tall, muscular, good looking guys get all the attention
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:14 AM
1

Not necessarily. If a women can choose almost any guy she wants, she has no need to even consider a man who doesn't fit her physical preference. She may be limiting her options, thus lessening her chance to find the best overall match. But that's her choice and doesn't mean she's not a good catch. Just maybe a bit shallow. Like many, many, many seduction gurus.. And most ppl in general.
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:05 PM
2

Completely agree.. But some guy never have a chance to get in the door.
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:26 AM
1

But.. Many women will be impossible without them..
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:26 AM
74

Nonsense. Dodge that bullet bro. She's a shittest.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:04 PM
1

Good point!
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:56 PM
0

Cool thanks
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:10 PM
0

Pics or it didn't happen. Seriously. I'm only talking about looks here. There are no 10's overall. Just an individual, physical rating method. I've very rarely seen a 5 guy with a 10 girl who he wasn't heavily financially invested in. Maybe musicians. Or athletes. Sometimes ugly college athletes pull but they're semi-celebrities. Height hurts too it can be overcome as long as you're not too short. Kevin hart never got with 10s until he got famous. Seduction helps but not as much as being tall an…
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:04 PM
0

It's definitely a skill! 100%. Just not a miracle maker. Seduction also only helps you jump a point or 2. Still very rare to see a 5 guy with a 10 girl. Unless he's giving her tons of $. Which happens a lot...
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:42 PM
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I've seen good looking guys with 0 game get the girl over decent looking guys who are better than any of the "suduction" gurus out there. Looks are definitely more important than any single other factor. Same with us - girls looks tend to be the #1 factor. Ppl are shallow.
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:41 PM
1

This! Well said sir.
/r/seduction12/01/19 03:43 PM
1

This! A fine line between improving one's self and becoming a self serving douchebag. Just be yourself ppl, smh
/r/seduction05/11/18 02:09 PM
6

Nice post and spot on, but this only works for attractive men.
/r/seduction12/09/18 11:27 PM
2

I do find beauty in most women so maybe just speaking from a personal perspective.. I still come fast often and it's not my first rodeo lol
/r/seduction27/08/18 05:22 PM
1

I have the exact opposite problem! I can masterbate for hours but a beautiful female will make me come wayy too fast..
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:30 PM
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Girls height is meaningless in this area unless she's really tall. It's her overall attractiveness to society that matters. Many times it's the very short girls who "refuse to date anyone under 6“. Top 5% of females seem to be socialized to perfer height over other attributes. Probably because society tells them taller is better and they have always been able to attract tall guys so they come to believe that's they're "type" and overlook shorter guys who would be better matches.
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:20 AM
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But everything else being equal height is a limiting factor. The 5'6" guy won't be viable to 25% of the most attractive women. Period. I've asked countless beautiful women about this and about 25% won't consider a man under about 5'11"
/r/seduction11/06/18 07:49 PM
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Height isn't an end all just a huge bonus. Like being born extremely wealthy is for overall economic success. Not the only factor but by far the most important.
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:30 PM
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Question op... How tall are you?
/r/seduction11/06/18 02:44 PM
1

Right on there!
/r/seduction06/06/18 08:25 PM
4

New ppl, friendships and love are an amazing experience. I get it. Everyone has and is a truly unique individual. So many super cool, beautiful ppl. But I also hope one day you feel that the person you're with is the absolute best (and really the only) person you could ever be with. I didn't have that feeling with my ex wife but I do with my current girlfriend. I honestly didn't think it existed, and would have totally agreed with you until I had it. I do understand the draw of the unknown and d…
/r/seduction06/06/18 06:43 PM
2

His edit clarified everything.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:36 PM
6

I'm all for having a happy and healthy self first but if you think all relationships fail and never learn to count on and depend on another you will live a sad, lonely life.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:35 PM
3

You're why seduction gets a bad name. The whole point is to fall in love with the girl. So sad bro..
/r/seduction06/06/18 02:40 PM
24

This guy gets it
/r/seduction06/09/17 11:40 AM
2

Yeah but you said it nicely ;)
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