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| 5 | How to avoid Interview mode when approaching?Bounce off things shes says with short teasing remarks / things which create rapport. "That's what they all say" "Ah that's true, but then again everyone knows that XY so Z" with a grin; ask her questions which elicit responses about how she FEELS about something; create a complicit situation i.e. "we should totally take over the world together / rob a bank / X now that we know that we both Z". So many things. Improvise, don't stick to a script or it will sound like you're sticking to a script. … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone asked for brutal feedback from a failed date?Makes sense, thanks. I wonder if it really is beta qualifier though. If she feels it's not coming from a place of neediness (it isn't), that I've written her off in my mind, and I'm completely comfortable with critique. It would then become a exercise in frame control with the bonus of getting useful information. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone asked for brutal feedback from a failed date?Thanks for the helpful answer. Did the feedback surprise you at all? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone asked for brutal feedback from a failed date?Interesting. In my specific case I did take her home and fucked her several times that night and in the morning. Many compliments about the date and me came my way - and then she became flakey a few days later after very little texting / opportunities for me to fuck up. It's a new / unique situation for me and I'd like to diagnose it correctly to avoid repeating it. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone asked for brutal feedback from a failed date?She shits on him because he'd ask her for feedback or because the feedback itself was that he was generally shit? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone experienced the complete 180 after a first successful date?Thanks for the reply. I'd wager the same. Higher value male? Impossible..;) But yeah, sucks as she presented the lowest amount of red flags I've seen in the past 15 girls I've been with, by far. Guess this has saved me from a potential one-itis situation. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with sudden loss of attraction in bed - especially if it's the first time?Yeah no porn or masturbation for me in a while too. Don't want to be relying on Viagra though! | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Plate sends pictures of guys she's seeing. How to deal?Thanks for the reply. I have been struggling with conflating frame control and indifference to everything. This is a good example of this. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 12:42 PM |
| 1 | 18yo HB9.5 plate who has boyfriend - often seeks emotional validation via textBy replying "I would miss me too?" | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Gamed her friend after she lead me on - now it's blowing up in my face?The content isn't important, it was more just a 'hey we are totally catching you out gaming two girls at the same time' thing. Ugh. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Gamed her friend after she lead me on - now it's blowing up in my face?Haha unfortunately that kind of optimal outcome is most likely out of reach. Would be fun to try though. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Gamed her friend after she lead me on - now it's blowing up in my face?Planning on doing this. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 02:30 PM |
| 3 | On the inadequacy of a 'one size fits all' approach - and the need to return to a more measured, Machiavellian frame of mindCheers, glad you do. I'd be interested in seeing more sidebar worthy material dedicated to discussing and implementing such nuances. I think much nuance will depend how you want to portray yourself, and what kind of girl you're dealing with. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 06:33 PM |
| – | On the inadequacy of a 'one size fits all' approach - and the need to return to a more measured, Machiavellian frame of mindI'm surprised that that's how it came across. As I replied above, I am making the point that rather than being 'GO GO GO' 100% of the time in every interaction with women, rather give less of a fuck, and know when to vary the speed, intensity, and content of an interaction. Basically use the full spectrum of 'speed' available to you when appropriate, rather than being stuck in the mindset of 'if I don't fuck her on the first date I fucked up and she sees me as a pussy beta faggot'. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 03:02 PM |
| – | On the inadequacy of a 'one size fits all' approach - and the need to return to a more measured, Machiavellian frame of mindI agree with your general point. All I am advocating here is balance, and detachment. Knowing when to rev the engine to full throttle, and when to keep it in first gear because that is what will deliver the best results, instead of crashing into a wall. I absolutely agree that most barriers to action are rooted in fear. And I do not condone non-action - just more measured action that is not self-paralysing, but on the contrary conducive to success. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Where I was - Where I am - Where I will be.I've known I need to go nofap for a while - I guess I needed the extra push. Why rock climbing? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Where I was - Where I am - Where I will be.I agree with everything you said here. Thanks for the reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Rare "good" girl is legitimately busy, not sure if she hard/soft rejected me. Serious oneitis with this one, cannot believe how much I cant get over this one, it’s really pissing me off. In your opinion, can this be salvaged at all? [kind of a long ass post with the text messages inside]Yeah that's a full on rejection. She obviously liked you enough to give you a shot - you will have ticked some boxes for her, and she wanted to see where it was going. Somewhere along the line though, you just didn't make the cut. Could have been the neediness she felt. She sounds like a catch but the problem with these is that she has higher standards than most. She will also have attracted the highest calibre guys with whom she's had some wild experience. One or two of them are probably still … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 12:19 PM |
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