Snarkers-Anonymous Archive

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1	My boyfriend keeps telling me how attractive other women find him and it’s starting to irritate me This is attention seeking and/or manipulative behavior. Here’s how I’d handle it I find you attractive, and I’m not surprised to hear that other women share this opinion. That being said, I’m unsure of your intent behind sharing these stories with me. Is there something you need from me, regarding this? (Don’t say this if you do not mean it.) If you’re sharing these stories with me because you’re trying to tell me that you’re thinking of finding something with someone else, I don’t want to hold …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/23 05:45 AM
5	husband doesnt want another baby , I do You can disagree with your spouse on things without it turning to resentment. Your resentment in this case is a choice. You are taking it very personally and I can’t blame you (like I said in my other response, I had the same resentment of my husband for a short while) but you have to recognize it as a choice and not an unchangeable fact. Resentment comes from feeling wronged - betrayed, lied to, etc. So somewhere in your thought models, you feel like your husband has broken a promise or is not …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 07:08 PM
1	husband doesnt want another baby , I do If you’re traditional then he’s in charge of taking care of the family, keeping a roof over your head, providing, etc. His concern about finances is valid and is his domain, and it’s not that you cannot have any input into finances but you’ve also given him the responsibility of making sure your family is secure. Finances are not static. But perhaps he’s becoming even more shut down about the topic of a third child because you’re taking an immature stance. Your reasons for wanting a child don’t …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 06:43 PM
17	Would you date someone that habitually does things you can't stand? Men tend to be on their best behavior during the dating stage, so if he’s already putting me down and acting like a jerk then it tells me he will be even worse once he is comfortable around me and not trying to impress me all the time. Smoking is a no for me as is excessive drinking or over eating junk foods. Laziness is a literal turn off for me, I don’t find lazy men sexually desirable. Why would I? I’m not going to settle down and have kids with a man I can’t depend on to be my equal partner.…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/22 04:43 AM
7	High Body Count Woman (27 years old)-Advice on finding a decent guy where we can accept one another's pasts? Oh, honey. You do not need this forum. Most of the users on here are as lost as you are. The ones who sound confident, you have no idea what their real life is like. And this red pill stuff is wonderful in theory for some, but can be misapplied and often is. You deserve therapy. You deserve someone who will spend hours with you and ask you good questions, and be able to discern whether you have something like PTSD that needs specialist care, and so on. You will find a good man but you have to be…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/22 04:29 AM
3	Starting over at almost 30 Red pill isn’t mental healthcare, which is what you need. I say this respectfully. You cannot even begin to think about your next relationship or having kids right now, and it’s not because you’re “old” it’s because your mental health is shattered from enduring this abuse. You can have a family! But you cannot skip the work you need to do before that, unless you want to bring your issues into the lives of your future husband and children. You need to talk to someone who is trained to speak to vi…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/22 06:45 PM
3	How can I have patience and just be a friend to him? Imagine the best you’ve ever felt around this man. Then realize that you’re going to feel 3 times as good with a different man who can give you what you want. You go through the pain of letting go now, so that you experience the happiness that awaits in your future. The pain is part of the process. You will feel better again. This man will cause you pain one way or another. Do you want the pain that is useful, and allows you to move on? Or the pain of continuing to let him have your heart? Stay …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/22 06:37 PM
3	How can I have patience and just be a friend to him? Girl…if he wanted to, he would. Everyone is saying he’s changed regarding following the strippers. Did they not see the part where you mentioned that after you voiced that this made you uncomfortable, he suggested time apart? Here’s what happened. You brought it up to him, he realized you’re feeling strongly enough about him to desire the bare minimum of exclusivity and feel uncomfortable about his social media habits. He decided that this level of committing to you doesn’t feel right to him and…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/22 04:51 PM