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I would have been free of her earlier then. Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:21 AM
6

A 30 year old is fully grown. So what? My mom was 28 when she had me. She was still dead by my early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:52 PM
10

Lower libido. More risks (painful sex, assault, pregnancy). Fewer rewards (less likely to orgasm from PIV). More ugly men than ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:32 PM
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You’re kidding. Most men in America are circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:51 PM
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Children should never be born unwanted. That’s generational trauma waiting to be passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:46 PM
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Start lobbying then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:45 PM
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That’s ridiculous. Some is better than none and FGM is far more serious. MGM should be outlawed. Men should start a movement for that. I’ll vote to ban it to be sure. It will be much harder to deal with though since it’s so much more common than FGM in the US. John Harvey Kellogg was such a quack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:42 PM
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Sex is invasive. This can result in bad sex being traumatizing depending on several factors of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:02 PM
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The women who say this make less money and don’t think they should be paying the same share of the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:39 PM
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They could ask for custody, but they don’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:02 PM
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Good for them for getting the help they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:01 PM
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Oh it is enforcing toxic masculinity. Absolutely it is. But they still want gay people to have rights. Both can be true because people are confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:05 AM
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Theirs progressive because they want you to have rights. That doesn’t mean they’d have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:10 AM
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Good choices made in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:32 PM
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This only works if sex for men and women were the same. It’s not. Feeling like we have a target on our backs is not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:31 PM
0

They find these men to be ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:12 AM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:09 AM
1

Women are choosing single. Unattractive men are just as likely to be abusive. Women see no point in dating an unattractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:09 AM
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I’m ace. I’ve made no poor choices. Are attractive men more likely to be assholes? No, I don’t think so. Especially not when you consider the insecurity and resentment festering in unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:05 AM
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They are clearly only attracted to men that are their type. Which is mostly but not exclusively above average. I see plenty of women with average partners. Those men get complaints about them too. What do you think? They’re on their best behavior to hold into a woman? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:05 AM
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And they don’t care. If women don’t get what they want they would rather be alone. What’s the point of an unattractive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:03 AM
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Yes. Here we are. With men lonelier than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:02 AM
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I think the attractive part just goes without saying doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:35 AM
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The harsh truth is this. Women would prefer to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:54 AM
0

The sensible thing is to go for men they are not attracted to? Birth control is very reliable these days. Why would they be single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:48 AM
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And dating an ugly man is a good choice? Unattractive men are just as capable of being selfish and entitled as attractive ones. One of the most baffling things I’ve seen here is this insistence that less attractive men are good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:46 AM
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What are they supposed to do? Date unattractive men? It’s better to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:40 AM
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I will definitely agree with the first sentence and amend my prior statement. As for the rest of it. Yes, we can’t just throw Occam’s razor at every problem. But your assessment of why women end up in toxic relationships is a bit much. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:50 PM
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That’s a lot of mental gymnastics to explain a phenomenon. If we apply Occam’s razor the answer is more clear. Abusive behavior is common in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:17 PM
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There is no friend zone. It’s not exploitation. It’s manipulation on the man’s part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:59 AM
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The lesson here isn’t that women are drawn to this type of behavior. The lesson here is that this type of behavior is very common in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:11 PM
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Edit: Never mind. I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:21 PM
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He can leave, but she won’t like him anymore. Not entitled to good feelings after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:20 PM
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It changes everything because in one case the man is a manipulative liar. Lust is just wanting to get in someone pants. No one should respect lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:13 PM
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You can burn the bridges, but don’t be surprised if all memories of that man are soured forever by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:07 PM
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It’s toxic because he is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:06 PM
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Because no one believes that. The guy pretends to be her friend because he’s afraid to ask her out. Then he wastes his time manipulating her for years trying to get her to ask him out and gets mad when it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:03 PM
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That’s called giving them up for adoption. You can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:56 PM
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There can be an app for that. I’m serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:53 PM
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I would agree to this only for single men. They can have a window of time to to apply for financial abortion. Married or cohabitating men cannot apply. For the men who do end up paying child support, the legal consequences should be more severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:46 PM
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And yet people only drool over the hot ones. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:34 PM
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That’s absurd. Husband material is the same thing as calling someone a keeper. Lots of popular characters or celebrities women thirst over are called husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:49 PM
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That’s fine. Polite indifference is really the baseline that anyone owes anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:08 PM
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I have never had sex and never will. Body fluids are for a microscope slide only. Obviously I’m asexual. I’m autistic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:58 PM
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What failure? My dream was to be a scientist and I am. I knew since I was a kid that I never wanted to have kids so I never did. I find body fluids absolutely disgusting so I’m a virgin. People living their lives according to their own will is their right. If you want to call that selfish go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:09 PM
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Because having kids is misery and sex is pointless and disgusting. Happiness has declined for everyone thanks to the relentless march of capitalism. I’m happy on my own, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:40 PM
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Women everywhere fear strange men. They always have and they always will. It has nothing to do with feminism. Patriarchal cultures will straight up tell women that men can’t help but want to rape them. And if it happens, the women is a whore that has brought shame upon the family. These women live in fear of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:59 AM
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Leaving your husband is not the same as leaving your family. I’m sure she likely keeps the kids. Also, this is confusing. Isn’t a lottery win shared in a marriage? Or is the law different in Sweden? I would think the split the assets in half regardless of who wins. Edit: my bad. I missed the last sentence in the article
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:04 PM
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He didn’t even read the study and the women eviscerated him to the point he deleted all his posts. What a brave hero!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:00 PM
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Oh yes they are. That’s work and you’re not getting paid. It’s unpaid labor. Washing dishes, cooking, laundry, house cleaning is everyday stuff that cuts into free time. If it’s so easy men should go ahead and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:55 PM
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Yes, but how many men actually do that? And how often? That’s only stuff done if you have a house. And people that do have houses often just pay people to do it. It’s also not as often as housework. Go clean your kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:53 PM
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So men can go ahead and do it then instead of plaything video games. Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:51 PM
1

Tell that to all the old Cubans in my family. Love had nothing to with it. Women needed a man to protect and provide. Men needed someone to take care of him. The very idea of dating for 2-5 years before marriage was unthinkable to them. It didn’t matter if you liked each other. Marriage was about survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:01 AM
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And that’s fine to you but for some reason obtaining secret knowledge of a woman’s past where she has more sex with an ex is the straw that breaks the camel’s back?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:41 AM
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Libidos change. For women interested in sex that wouldn’t be such a big deal. Past partners and sex acts just aren’t a huge issue for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:45 PM
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Why? The frustration should start from the incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:43 PM
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Any sane human would be upset regardless of how they were with a previous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:41 PM
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He’s using it as an allegory for bad sex. We know. That’s not what we’re confused by. Men are not expected to stay. They are expected to leave. The woman’s past is irrelevant. You wants anal and she has never done it and never will? Leave. You wants a blowjob and she has never given one and will never do so? Leave. Just leave. It would make more sense if they described wanting a partner that did all those things but only being able to find one that didn’t or else have no sex at all. We get that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:32 PM
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Why? Just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:49 PM
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That wouldn’t happen because women would leave. Why don’t you? You’re not being threatened into it. Why us the second part the deal breaker? Why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:48 PM
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You’re not getting that a lot of women would rather be alone than not have their preferences met.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:26 PM
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So just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:20 PM
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Could you please explain it then? Why are you willing to put up with a partner that has no interest in you? But then decide that the treatment is unacceptable ONLY if they had a better relationship before? Please explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:20 PM
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No that’s not the part women are confused about. We’re confused why “he treated his ex better” is the deal breaker. So what? The first part is the deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:18 PM
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Right, because they’d leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:16 PM
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OP is describing a relationship no one would want in the first place. Then he goes on to describe that this would be acceptable only if the partner never treated someone else better. It’s inane. Just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:15 PM
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Where do you live where fights are common enough to be a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:11 PM
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I say this because that’s how the older men in my family treat the older women in my family. They expect to be treated like King Baby. My father wouldn’t even let my mother have friends or take birth control. And she put up with it because that’s all she knew. All the older Cuban women I have asked claim the husband is supposed to protect her. But when I ask when that’s ever happened they can’t think of a single time. But they were frequently hurt by him. That’s just how marriage was supposed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:30 PM
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You should be against it. People need as much money as they can to make it in this world. I don’t think those men want to provide anyway, I think they want the fantasy of someone they can control. But it’s just a fantasy. Like you were saying before, in this situation, that woman would really want nothing to do with you. The kept traditional woman is really the one that only wants you for your money. She can’t live if you don’t provide. She will leave you when you have no job. There is no love i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:50 PM
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No they didn’t. The loss of unions did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:11 PM
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How is it not 50/50 if a woman chooses a man that makes as much than her? That’s the definition of 50/50. It seems to me that the big issue here is the stupidity of having children. Also, men should not put up with partners that make significantly less than they do. Know your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:08 PM
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The latter is absolutely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:00 PM
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The custodial parent pays more for childcare than the one that pays child support. Child support is a lot less than what they paid for the kids when they were married. Also, a lot of men don’t want custody at all. Men end up doing better financially after a divorce than women do. Usually, because of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:56 PM
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1) A post is not evidence. 2. Tell that to my dad. He was proud to be a slob. Anecdotal, I know. But he was very traditional as far as Cubans go anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:47 PM
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So why do prospective trad wives get called gold digger when they say they want the husband to make all the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:46 PM
2

It did not double. The lower classes have always needed a two person income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:44 PM
2

The loss of unions created this issue. Women have always worked outside the home. They just weren’t respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:43 PM
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That’s how traditional marriage used to be though. A woman would get a stable income from a man and a man would get a domestic servant. Marriage for love was laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:37 PM
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Women sacrifice more. They work. They take care of the kids and the house even when they work. They sacrifice a lot in childbirth. Men just work. They already have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:35 PM
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People have to work regardless of whether or not they have families. Having a job is not a sacrifice. It’s something everyone has to do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:34 PM
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Alimony is not common. The truth is, women end up poorer after a divorce and often with kids to take care of all on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:30 PM
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Are people asking for a 50/50 split here? Typically this is expected when both parents work. For SAHM, they just want some help to take a break and for their husbands to be involved with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:09 PM
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Absolutely how it works. If it didn’t, then people would never live outside of your rules. Mind your own business about how people live their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:07 AM
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People choose for themselves why they were put on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:19 AM
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No such thing as a natural imperative. Life is about living your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:18 AM
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Yes, but it’s good fun honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:32 PM
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Staying with the kids is more expensive than child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:27 PM
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So don’t have kids. If you do, get some alone time to masturbate. I have never had sex and I’m still not dead. It’s a miracle I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:11 PM
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Dude, just get a vasectomy. Your hypothetical wife won’t be so distracted then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:11 PM
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Nor should they.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 PM
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As a present father he would have paid more. If he couldn’t afford child support then how could he afford to be a present father?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 PM
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Too bad. He will. Especially by his children. They will remember. And they will treat him the same way when his time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:04 PM
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Once kids are in the picture that’s what the entire marriage is about. People have to understand that before they choose to have children. It’s about supporting your fellow parent now. You really want you tell your kids you left their mother like that? What will they think of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:01 PM
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Lack of sex is not abuse. People have to understand what having children does to a couple. It’s ALL about the kids from that point forward. Don’t have kids if you don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:58 AM
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And be judged harshly for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:55 AM
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Get a vasectomy and understand that you are not more important than children. Children will always be the priority in a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:54 AM
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Men don’t usually want custody. The custodial parent pays more. A lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:51 AM
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That man would rather die than support his own children and you think he deserves sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:50 AM
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No, but she is sick. The least you can do is take care of the kids instead of leaving a sick woman to care for them. That’s what happened to my cousin. It’s legal to leave. But you will be judged harshly. And no one will ever have sympathy about your lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:48 AM
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No such thing as neglectful to an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:43 AM
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And they will be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:42 AM
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Not usually when they are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:42 AM
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Sexual “neglect” is not abuse. That’s such a disgusting thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 AM
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If you didn’t want a dead bedroom you shouldn’t have had kids. Adults can never be a priority when there are kids in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:38 AM
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Neglectful? You are not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:36 AM
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You do realize that you can’t treat your wife like she’s your surrogate mother and then expect her to be attracted to you. You can’t expect your wife to do all the work of raising your kids and still expect her to be attracted to you. Women don’t abandon their husbands even when they are far, far worse partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:35 AM
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I don’t believe that anyone actually thinks that. all of this is about control. I don’t care at all for sex. But I think it’s supposed to be some goofy thing people do because it’s fun albeit gross. Babies should be born in labs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:09 AM
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Life is about freedom and self determination. Can’t go around telling people what their role is just because of how they were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:51 AM
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Please stop pretending that you think an embryo is a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:41 AM
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Humans don’t pair-bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:41 AM
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Yeah, people have made good points about men in education and homeless men. But that would require more funding in education and social safety nets. Will any Republican administration do anything about that? Never. Especially not this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:17 AM
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Really? Because all the distrust I’ve gained for men comes from watching guys like you on the internet and watching how my dad treated my mom and his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:10 AM
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Those aren’t privileges. Suffrage and abortion are human rights that women were denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:04 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:00 AM
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Is this really about trans people? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:15 PM
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You guys really want to pay child support, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:13 PM
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Unions and labor rights are woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:01 PM
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Most women these days would rather be alone than settle. Stop worrying your pretty little head about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:46 AM
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Because I find this nonsense strange and fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:45 PM
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Where does this back up option thing come from? You guys all seem to think that there is some mysterious Chad that refused to commit in her past. Isn’t it far more likely that she dumped her ex because she thought he wasn’t good enough for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:36 PM
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No, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:33 PM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:02 AM
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For the most part? Yes. That’s what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:24 AM
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They want half. Not the majority. Just do half of the homekeeping and make a decent living.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:12 AM
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Yes, they don’t want to be in a relationship. That’s what peace means. Being in a relationship is bothersome. Personally, I don’t want to have any sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:09 AM
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If they’re involved in crime in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:29 AM
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Saying Mom and Grandma were no angels is an understatement. They hurt me more than anyone else. That said, mom was 17 and escaping from an abusive home. Dad was 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:48 AM
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Yes, because the women are stuck with all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:12 AM
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Mothers don’t choose jobs that pay enough because they need jobs that give them flexibility to take care of their kids. Women without kids are doing fine comparatively. And dads giving nothing to their kids and never visiting them is the solution here? My dad was raised by his dad and a step mom (his mom died after birth) and he still abandoned all six of his kids at some point because he wasn’t getting the sex he wanted. My grandfather came from an intact home and he left during the Cuban revol…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:12 AM
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That’s great! Tell the fathers that. They don’t want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:59 PM
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They have jobs. Jobs don’t pay enough and you know this. The men don’t want custody. They don’t even want to support their kids let alone be part of their lives. Why are men such awful partners and fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:58 PM
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Boy, you guys are obsessed with only fans. None of that should stop him from asking for joint custody at the very least. But he won’t. Because he doesn’t care about his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:08 AM
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As if it’s possible to pick just pick a right partner. You never know who someone is until shit goes down. The situation she’s in is the fault of the father being a bad person. People are not at fault for other people’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:30 AM
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This is some bizarre logic. The parent that stays shouldn’t be blamed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:08 AM
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If it has to be mandated then so be it. The kids shouldn’t suffer because the parents can’t get along. The kids should get as much as or more than before if it all possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:07 PM
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Abs that a miserable injustice. Children should be legally entitled to everything. There is no guarantee that they won’t use on the child either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:02 AM
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Because the parents are supposed to love their children more than themselves and be willing to pay through the nose to lessen their suffering. Divorce is traumatic enough as it is. Why are so many men so unwilling to love the children they bring into this world? The accidental pregnancies I get. But the intentional ones? Monstrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:01 AM
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It should be a concern. The kid deserves just as much as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:15 AM
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The child’s life should be impacted as little as possible after divorce. If he was used to luxuries before he should have luxuries after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:13 AM
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Option one easily. I’m a scientist. I love my career. I live for my career. And I’m an asexual that has never wanted children. As for selfish, why can men get to have both but we so frequently have to choose? When men have families they benefit. When women have families they sacrifice everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:29 PM
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Because sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes it does. People are looking for connection but often just get another memory to regret. Men have overwhelming positive opinions on sex. For women the entire thing is more ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:44 AM
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Because maybe it will be different this time. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it isn’t. Sex for women is a very mixed feeling type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:42 AM
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You say that only because you can’t imagine people having experiences that are not your own. Sex often sucks. And not just in a disappointing way either. Sometimes in a traumatic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:40 AM
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If the sex wasn’t bad then it wouldn’t be described as being used now would it? Would you want to be used for sex by a man? I assure you, most women aren’t as hetero as many think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:54 PM
15

Because sex for women often sucks. If women can’t get what they want from a relationship they’re happier on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:05 AM
3

Apparently it’s about being impressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:37 AM
2

I live with my brother. I make 3x as much as he makes. I pay for most of he bills. It’s not fair to make him pay more. It’s like paying taxes. You make more you should pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:13 AM
6

Opened themselves up to competition from younger women? This has always been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:06 AM
3

As opposed to what? Real religions? As if those exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:04 AM
2

It takes comparatively little effort for a tall man to dunk a basketball. Why should they be allowed to play?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:02 AM
6

I’m talking about Latin America, the Middle East, and religious communities specifically. I’ve had to explain to my awful Cuban family that rape is any nonconsensual sex act. They were shocked. Most places in the world are full of ignorance. I have no idea how anything you’re talking about there is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:09 AM
5

Absolutely not. Women and girls are punished for shaming the family by being raped in just about every society. Whether she consented or not doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:58 AM
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Every single society in human history punished women for being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:49 AM
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To bond with and help care for the child and mother. Parental leave should be a standard thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:53 AM
0

Men go to war because they are forced to go or because there are benefits offered. No one goes for their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:55 PM
0

And lots of men don’t like eating pussy. That’s why the orgasm gap is there. Lesbians go down. Vibrators stimulate the clit. Men don’t want to. If going down is important to him. Sure. Break up. But men can get an orgasm by penetration. Women can’t. That means he’s got to go down or start rubbing that bean. Or else why should she bother with his selfish ass? If there is any kind of an emotional connection he’d get to work. Lots more women than we know are ace. They just don’t realize it’s a viab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:55 AM
1

With men. 30% of women never have orgasms with men during penetration. They have them easily by themselves and with other women. Connection with a person that doesn’t even care enough about you to go down on them? I don’t think so. I’m an asexual. I would never want any of you. A lot of women are like me. They just need time to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:10 AM
1

Why fuck the man if he won’t give you an orgasm? What’s the point? Women can give themselves an orgasm just fine with a vibrator so why put up with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:29 PM
1

Money can buy things that are wonderful and fun. Sex usually isn’t for a lot of women. Just kind of gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:32 PM
1

Then what is the man there for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:28 PM
1

The idea that woman can have self determination, lives of their own, and rights is just a puppet of capitalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:53 PM
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The majority of western society’s problems come from capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:11 PM
4

Men would rather cheat than divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:58 PM
1

Do you understand what anecdotal evidence is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:33 PM
1

The men that get targeted aren’t typically normal men minding their own business. They tend to be criminals being assaulted by other criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:02 AM
1

Yeah. So does everyone. How else would problems get solved unless people direct attention to them? A partner making good money, on the other hand, is the opposite of a problem. More money means a better life. So why do men have a problem with it? Housework isn’t a problem? Great. Men should have no issue doing all of it then after a day of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:12 PM
0

Most men hear SAHP and think it’s playing video games in their pajamas all day. I would love to have an equal number of men choosing to actually take care of their kids. They won’t though. Men whine and complain when their wives make more money. Being the breadwinner is clearly the better deal. What do you mean by doing all the work? Most women work then come home to a second shift. They are already doing all the work. I am a scientist making a six figure salary. I’m an asexual. I never want an …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:19 PM
1

Yes. I want more women to be the breadwinners. Why wouldn’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:02 PM
8

That’s one weird, stingy millionaire. Sounds like the guy has a subservience kink if he insists his wife works a part time cashier and cleans a mansion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:18 PM
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8 hours is 8 hours. Regardless of how much money someone makes, that’s time out of their life that they will never get back. Besides, even when women make more they do more housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:16 PM
3

Wearing make up is a persons own behavior. Telling someone they can’t have friends or go to somewhere is controlling ANOTHER person’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:12 PM
1

More is the pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:35 PM
1

Meh. Only until I get to be a cyborg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:04 PM
9

Fertility? Mate? We’re not animals. How about just not having sex at all? Not with men a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:11 PM
2

Poverty causes trauma. Trauma can cause people to be emotionally dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:30 PM
3

What a strange and magical world you live in where victims are believed and aren’t treated like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:21 PM
2

Then you agree, people should might their own business outside of clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:34 PM
1

Who said anything about clubs? Why would I ever go to a club?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:30 PM
2

I am a sex negative asexual. I don’t see that as insulting. I’m autistic and I despise being touched. We’re not talking about da club. We’re talking about women going about their day. Leave us alone and mind your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:28 PM
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They are not showing appreciation. They can keep that to themselves if they are. They are doing it to make women uncomfortable on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:03 PM
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Each boy band member has a manufactured story and background so that girls can fantasize about being in a relationship with them. Boys, on the other hand, just want to masturbate to images. At least that’s what it looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:52 PM
1

I would say sexuality from strangers is very much an inherently negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:12 PM
2

Being catcalled is being threatened. People do not like being threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:03 PM
1

Like a born child that needs resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:03 AM
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Her body her choice. In my opinion, birth is a stupid choice, but still a choice. Unless they live in a red state. No. The kid is born so it needs resources. Until the government pays it falls to both the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:57 AM
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Children do come out of men’s bodies and men’s actions. They exist because of men’s actions. Pay up because their needs are more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:54 AM
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Men cannot have sex without fear. You are not just responsible for your body. You are responsible for your children. This is about children receiving the resources they need. But men keep acting like it’s about doing women a favor. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:46 AM
2

How do you figure that? Signing something won’t stop it from being born and needing resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:40 AM
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It’s not a child until it’s born. The cut off is when it can be born and live. That is the pro choice position. Before then it’s not a person, it’s a part if a woman’s body. A born child can be taken care of by a person and live. Doesn’t have to be the mother. I disagree with that law. There is no baby. Do what you want. It’s your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:38 AM
1

Kids deserve more than just that. You never know when disaster will strike. I think all kids should receive a UBI just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:35 AM
1

Ok. The fewer years anyone has to work the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:33 AM
2

No. Until a UBI for children is provided they have to pay for their kids regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:33 AM
2

The pro-choice stance is that abortion should be limited to when they can survive outside of the womb. That’s before 9 months. I don’t agree with that ruling. That’s a poisoning. The woman is the victim there. Not an “unborn”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:15 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:13 PM
2

Murdering a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:11 PM
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It’s not murder. It’s assault on a woman’s body. It’s a poisoning. It’s a child when it is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:08 PM
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Compensation is not special privilege. That’s like saying giving a handicapped person a wheelchair is a special privilege. Yes it is. Men have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:06 PM
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What fun? The fun of pregnancy and childbirth? The child only matters now because it exists now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:04 PM
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Why should there be a cap? If the father is rich then the kid gets more just as they would if the father was raising them. The parents are also people, but children are more important people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:01 PM
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That’s an embryo. Not a child. It’s interrupting a process that occurs on the body not killing a child. Why shouldn’t giving a child up for adoption be legal? If the father wants it he can keep it then the mother has to pay child support. In any case, the child is taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:56 PM
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There is no child being killed in an abortion. No one should abandon an actual child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:56 PM
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Biology isn’t fair to women. So the law has to compensate. You’re acting like abortion is some privilege that women have. It isn’t. It’s a burden because pregnancy is a burden. We need the laws to help us with this burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:53 PM
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The dad is never going to come around either way. Better to make him pay so the kid can have more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:36 PM
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There is no kid involved in an abortion. There is only a kid when it is born. No one should abandon that kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:32 PM
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Child support exists to reduce child poverty. Letting the child live in poverty is cruel. One income is not enough in this economy. Abortion and childbirth is the mother’s choice because this process occurs in her body. Once the baby actually exists, it is more important than the parents. The noncustodial parent had to pay their share. I would prefer the government to foot the bill, but until then this is the option we have. Why is it that in these financial abortion questions are always framed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:13 PM
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Healthcare, housing, and food are all human rights that the government should provide. People cannot read minds. With that attitude, women would be safer if they don’t pick anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:06 AM
2

That’s a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:44 PM
1

People have a right to safety. That includes at parties. Those aren’t even the most dangerous situations. The people women know and trust are the most likely to hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:16 PM
2

I would not say an overwhelming majority of people have never been raped. It happens a lot more than anyone wants to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:12 PM
2

Everyone is influenced by external factors all the time. Those external factors are a part of us. Don’t you’re realize that people behave differently according to the culture they were raised in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:09 PM
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They don’t even have to do anything. If something bad happens then the idea is that they must have done something to deserve it. They don’t know how or what, but it must have been something. Anything to hold on to the Just World Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:08 PM
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Yes. This is literally “How dare you, you stupid bitch. I’m a nice guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:46 PM
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The only natural conclusion is that are more entitled assholes out there than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:45 PM
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No. Reagan did that by destroying unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:10 PM
1

Reducing income inequality reduces crime. Of course it will decrease the murder rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:59 AM
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A lot of children are better off after divorce. Some families are too toxic to keep together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:53 PM
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I can’t understand what you are getting at here. I wouldn’t because I have no reason to believe a word that comes out of your mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:51 PM
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A lot the men that get murdered are involved in criminal behavior and that makes them a target. It’s not dismissive. It’s a socioeconomic tragedy. It’s one of the reasons we need socialism. Would it still be appropriate for black people? Of course. It’s still a socioeconomic tragedy. We still need socialism here. Men’s feelings for controlling women’s bodies? I do not take those feelings seriously and I will not apologize for it. It is absolutely insecurity and that’s just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:46 PM
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Because they are more likely to be involved in crime. Women face violence from their sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:00 PM
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The consequences are more extreme. One is concerned about being raped or murdered. The other is concerned about what? That guys might check your GF out? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:58 AM
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That’s because women are not as commonly involved in crime as men. The women are also concerned about being raped. The examples given by the OP are absurd. One is women being cautious like they are always told to do or else it is apparently their own fault if something bad happens to them. The other is men wanting to control women and their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:53 AM
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Death. Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:58 AM
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The part of the word that lives in poverty, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:03 PM
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I don’t think people will be allowed to choose the sex. Roll the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:11 AM
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I’m sure a lot of people will choose to do it the natural way. I just think they’re idiots. Birth does t just hurt, it permanently changes the body and psychiatric disorders are a major risk as well before and after birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:10 AM
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You are assuming people will be allowed to choose the sex of their child. I doubt that. Men want women around for sex at least. Luck of the draw will be in play. Artificial wombs will just help alleviate the complications and misery of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:56 AM
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I don’t think so. Pregnancy sucks. Not that this guy’s post isn’t insane though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:53 AM
1

This fear comes up mostly on dates and other such activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:31 AM
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The fear women express is largely centered around dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:36 PM
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Women aren’t just afraid of being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:32 PM
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Yes, mostly by other men. Mostly because both of those men are involved in criminal activity. On the other hand, women are often in danger in the context of dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:21 PM
2

Johnny Depp was not innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:40 AM
0

Yes. I really don’t care about how horny anyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:28 AM
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I disagree. Some of that sex can be traumatic and that is definitely worse than nothing. Feeling like people want to use us sexually is not as great for us as it is for men. It’s often distressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:24 PM
0

Approximately 1 in 5 is hardly an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:21 PM
1

Empathy for what? Lack of sex? Correct. We don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:20 PM
1

That is not the intent if serial monogamy. People enter a monogamous relationship with the hope that it will last. But things don’t always work out that way because people and circumstances change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:59 AM
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If someone is not happy with their marriage then they should leave not cheat. Just make sure the children are doing ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:55 PM
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Good relationships are between equals. Good relationships are about love and enjoying spending time together. Love does exist and has always existed. People didn’t marry for love back then, but they certainly do now. Women want GOOD relationships. They want their partner to be their best friend. They want emotional fulfillment. If women can’t have that they would rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:43 PM
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Women were almost literally demonized throughout history and every religion. There is even a special hell in Buddhism that women go to just for menstruating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:16 AM
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Original Sin. All women have to suffer menstruation and painful childbirth for the sin of giving humanity knowledge. Women have also been condemned as morally weaker because of the example of Eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:14 AM
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He is not a man and he is not supposed to represent all men the way Eve does all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:11 PM
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Eve represents all women according to Christianity. Pandora represents all women in Greek myth. Mary does not. When women are raped or abused, they are blamed for tempting men in many cultures still. Women have been treated like to root if all evil since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:10 PM
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That’s the question you are being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:43 PM
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Women have been painted as villains for millennia. It’s not an injustice to not receive poon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:42 PM
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Companionship is real love as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:37 AM
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I’m 41 and asexual. Marriages become about companionship. That sounds nice to me. I object to the sex in the “transaction” that is expected here. Better to have a platonic relationship in this economic arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:05 AM
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It’s working very well actually. https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/sep/14/no-stigma-single-mothers-denmark-solomors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:35 AM
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No. The point is to be in love. People can support themselves or with platonic relationships. I would rather change society to prioritize those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:34 AM
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Women don’t want a relationship with sex and no love. Better to live with a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:33 AM
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Women in some Scandinavia countries are choosing to have children with sperm donors and government support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:31 AM
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Relationships aren’t necessarily supposed to last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:27 AM
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Provide economically? That’s called living with a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:26 AM
2

But the entire point of a relationship is love. What else is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:25 AM
2

1 and 4. The world would be so much safer statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:08 PM
2

I like autistic people. More, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:28 PM
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Well duh. No one finds women threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:05 PM
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That’s not going to happen. Women aren’t considered weird and quiet. They’re cute and quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:41 PM
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Introverts aren’t making any moves by their very nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:47 PM
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Good thing introverts don’t abuse just as much. Oh wait. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:07 PM
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Oh yes of course, no reason to ever suspect weird quiet people. Nope. The great of abuse says more about men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:48 AM
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No. Narcissists love great people. They want to imagine themselves as one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:06 AM
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Its being narcissistic and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:35 AM
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The people that worship them want to be like those people. That’s a sign of narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:34 AM
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Women have more emotional intimacy with friends than men do. Men really only have emotional intimacy with partners. Validation that comes with being able to attract a woman also plays a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:59 AM
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I don’t buy it. If that were the case they wouldn’t be so angry afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:30 AM
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It’s not about not wanting to be friends. It’s about the long con. It’s about lying about being friends and then blowing up at someone years later for not wanting anything sexual. That’s dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:29 AM
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I have male friends. We play DND every other week. We go to ren fairs and murder mystery parties. This weird fantasy you have of women asking male friends for rides, food, and protection (protection from what? Bears?) comes from the internet not reality. Friends just hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:22 PM
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There is no difference in maintenance. I do t know where you are getting this from but it’s not from reality. I’m not talking about strangers. I’m talking about enjoying another person’s company just because someone likes them not just because said person wants an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:19 PM
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Bring friends is essentially the antithesis of dehumanization. It’s spending time with someone just because you appreciate their company. Sex on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:03 PM
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It’s dehumanizing to want to be friends? It’s dehumanizing to ask someone over for a pool party or invite them to play DND? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:02 PM
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Where do you live where this is a thing? If a woman wants a plumber she hires a plumber. Friends just hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:58 PM
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We would like our friends to be actual friends and not wolves in sheep’s clothing. I don’t think that’s too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:57 PM
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Then don’t pretend to be a friend. How is wanting to use someone for sex more valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:55 PM
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Where does this paying for meals and doing favors fantasy come from? Thats not how friends work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:52 PM
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That’s absurd. Friends don’t pay for each other or do favors constantly. They go out for drinks and activities regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:49 PM
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People should be considered on an individual basis and not lumped into male and female categories to determine whether or not they could be a friend. I don’t see what you mean by high maintenance. I have female friends I only talk to every few months or even years because they’ve moved away and they are still my friends. If guys here can’t see women as people they would like to spend time with, then they shouldn’t spin the lie that they are interested in sex for the sake of intimacy. That’s a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:47 PM
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The source is the exact same study you posted. Not the majority from the lesbians in the study. But a significant amount. The majority from bisexual relationships are from men though. This is true for both male and female bisexuals. Your weird formula is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:22 PM
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We can conclude because most of the violence in bisexual relationships comes from male perpetrators. The violence in lesbian relationships in this study is more mixed than that. We can’t conclude anything about lesbian relationships because the data is muddled because men are included there. Why would you assume men to be more violent? Despite the lower percentage. Domestic violence in male partnerships are the most likely to end up with a hospitalization though. That is true. That’s because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:37 PM
1

You said lesbian couples experience the most violence. That’s not true. The data you posted shows that this isn’t true. The study clearly shows bisexual women in relationships with men experience the most violence. The study also shows that the 44% number for lesbians are not exclusively from lesbian relationships. They are from lesbians in any kind of relationship. Male perpetrators are included in that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:21 PM
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Your memory did fail you. 61% bi women. Mostly, about 89%, from male partners. Higher than the lesbians. But as I said, the lesbian statistics count both male and female partners for domestic violence as well. About 60% or so were female perpetrators I think. 44% is not for lesbian relationships, it’s for lesbians in general. Including lesbians in heterosexual relationships before they realize they are lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:54 PM
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There are no guarantees. But women do more housework on average. I’m asexual. Why would I want a boyfriend or girlfriend unless they are also ace? And even then…meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:33 PM
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No guarantee, but it’s more likely. Not having to put up with dick is a bonus not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:33 PM
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Nope. It has the highest rate for bisexual women. 61%. Almost all of it from male partners. The study you are referring to included domestic violence from both male and female partners for lesbian women. When male partners are excluded, the rate drops to lower than the rate for heterosexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:32 PM
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It seem obvious to a lot of people that they just want to vent. Because of this, reacting with solutions feels condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:08 AM
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And it hardly works with the same woman. Once you’re written off, you’re written off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:36 PM
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You’re ignoring the fact that there is no benefit on what you are proposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:33 PM
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Why? It’s better to be alone than in a bad relationship. Sweet solitude is fine and dandy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:35 PM
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If a woman isn’t attracted to you now then she never will be. It’s not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:32 PM
1

Because sex is great for men and complicated for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:34 AM
6

The only place where it matters what other people think of you is at work. No one at work knows or cares about any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:49 PM
1

Things are shitty because people keep popping out kids without understanding what a huge responsibility and sacrifice it is. Things will get better when only people who will love their children and not actively traumatize them have them. A lot of people really shouldn’t be having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:16 AM
4

Yeah that’s right. Those countries are far from feminist. But kids are so expensive and burdensome in modern economies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:37 PM
2

That’s a sensation not an instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:35 PM
3

Instinctual biological urges. And we have none that count for much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:58 PM
4

You really just do things without understanding why? No planning? No decisions? You just swim up that river like a salmon because something in your gut says so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:33 AM
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We are not animals. We do things that benefit us. We don’t just follow some bizarre urges to our detriment. For a lot of people, having children gives no benefit. So why bother? I see no problem in being selfish. All we have is this one life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:27 AM
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We don’t have instinctual biological urges. We have a desire to find happiness. A lot of women are happy being mothers and a lot of women are happy with no children. The latter can now live the lives they want. Everything is too expensive now as well. There is nothing wrong with hedonism. Why would we want to do something that doesn’t make us happy? Also, pregnancy and mother hood have just as much ugliness as beauty. Look at all the health complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:58 AM
7

Boy Scouts was opened for girls because they had a problem with very few boys wanting to sign up compared to the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:02 PM
1

The children of immigrants always end up assimilating into the new culture. I’m one such example. I have nothing in common with my Cuban parents and I find their values alien and appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:36 AM
1

How is getting rid of simps going to fix your sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:34 AM
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Women aren’t interested in an infinite supply of men. We are interested in financial independence and good network of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:32 AM
6

Simps? You mean hired professionals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:31 AM
1

Ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 AM
1

I’m bad condition. Yes. People can survive their whole lives without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:11 AM
0

It’s not about zero male attention. Learning that someone you thought was a friend was a manipulative liar the whole time hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:41 AM
1

Women would be happier. Men less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:32 AM
3

Sex isn’t food. It’s not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:32 AM
1

No. It means they are incompatible as a partner. It’s perfectly normal to recognize someone is attractive and not want them as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:28 PM
1

Umm. No. I have a good mix of friends. We got together by playing DND and other TTRPGs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:29 PM
2

Seeing someone as a friend does not mean they are sexually unattractive. It means they are not seen as compatible as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:13 PM
1

No they don’t. Friends just hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:12 PM
1

I can’t imagine ever being fuck buddies with anyone. Or having sex with anyone at all. But I can say, that someone can have multiple friends. But if a person wants to find exclusive relationship they need to give up the fuck buddy. Also, isn’t the equivalent of “you don’t want to be friends so you were never my friend” actually “you don’t want to have sex so you were never attracted to me”? Are you asexual as well? Or do you not expect sex in a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:02 PM
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Why does it have to? I don’t see a sexual relationship as an evolution from friendship. Far from it. A friendship is valuable in and of itself. This is why men are so lonely. You can’t put all your value in one kind of relationship. It’s important to have a support network. Do you have any friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:23 AM
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I don’t see “romantic” relationships or sex as valuable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:10 AM
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Oh really? Would you want a relationship without sex? Because that’s the only kind of relationship I want. Also, If someone doesn’t just want sex, then why would they consider friendship with a woman worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:02 PM
5

Men claim this about men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:33 PM
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Women fixate on sex? It’s men who seem to have a desire to turn every relationship into something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:32 PM
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I’m ace. This would hardly affect my life at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:46 PM
1

Sex is not a necessity. And how do you get validation from marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:29 AM
1

Yeah. It was a business arrangement back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:28 AM
1

In order to have high standard one can also not have a relationship as a priority in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:55 AM
1

Women don’t do this because they think they’re more attractive. They do this because a man is not necessary. So they set their standard high knowing that if those standards are not met they can be alone. No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:52 AM
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I don’t think you understand. Women know it doesn’t matter to men and we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:47 AM
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Trauma for some. Genuine interest in variety for others. Casual sex doesn’t have to be degrading if your partner doesn’t view you with contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:10 PM
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The easier access to casual sex is a result of men’s desperation for sex. It makes women a target. It’s like being a zebra surrounded by lions. Does that mean all casual sex is bad? No. It’s risky but decent partners can be found. Dare I say, not all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:09 PM
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There are women out there that genuinely enjoy casual sex and variety. There are also women out there that are engaging in promiscuity out of trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:08 PM
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People say that and describe being touch starved. But I’m really not very fond of being touched. I am autistic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:32 PM
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Trans men not trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:30 PM
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I literally cannot see how sex is different from masturbation unless there is love involved. It’s an annoying urge gotten rid of in a few minutes. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:28 PM
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I’ve mainly heard of it as a subcategory of porn. There is also MILF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:37 AM
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Cougar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:42 PM
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It doesn’t work out that way and you know it. People change and grow apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:42 AM
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She won’t be sexy forever. I come from generations of traditional marriages rife with resentment and abuse. It was to the point that my grandparents were never allowed in the same room.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:35 AM
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No. Women do not hate attractive men and almost every attractive man gets married soon enough. The phenomenon is not the same at all. In this complex, men hate women who are willing to have sex with him because they see it as debasement. They are not attracted to chaste women that they may marry because they respect them too much for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:32 AM
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Not being able to love the person you’re attracted to and not being attracted to the person you love is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:26 AM
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The majority of women are not satisfied with “provision”. The majority of men are not satisfied with one woman their whole lives. People need to date around to find the partner that is right for them or we just end up in the miserable marriages our parents and grandparents had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:21 AM
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Men with this complex hate the whore. Women do not hate the Chad. A Chad is just an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:12 AM
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The men with this complex don’t see the whore as fun and exciting. They are attracted to them while also despising them. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:11 AM
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No, I don’t see how it’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:12 PM
1

And what was her response? How does one establish grey area?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:22 AM
1

What is stringing someone along? Has he asked her out? Has she said no? Why wouldn’t she think he sees her as a friend too if he straight up claims to be a friend? What is this gifts nonsense? Why do you help acting like male and female friendships involve gifts? Friends just hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:07 AM
1

Yes, I agree. Sex is basically goofy nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:46 AM
1

Sex is not synonymous with intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:48 PM
1

Because they’re always complaining about not getting any anyway I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:50 AM
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So don’t call something so stupid and pointless a need then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:06 AM
0

Why would I ever want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:05 AM
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Not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:41 PM
2

Why in the hell would I ever want to go to a club? Eww. Bad music and bad drinks. No thanks. We’re let in because it brings more men into the club. We’re bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:40 PM
1

I’m asexual and autistic. That would be fine with me. But attraction does increase with fondness. What used to be unappealing becomes appealing with a new perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:08 PM
1

Such things just didn’t happen and it was very sad. Now people can be buddies except for odd internet people who want to impress other odd internet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:05 PM
-2

And then people wonder why men are so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:57 PM
3

Tribe? Utility? JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:52 PM
3

That’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:50 PM
3

I don’t get it. We weren’t even discussing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:49 PM
1

Perhaps you should? Actors do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:48 PM
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No, if a movie is bad then I just rate it as bad. I’m not comparing it to other movies. Do the men they are interested in on the dating app have more money? Do men with more money invest that into their appearance instead of wearing t shirts and jeans all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:46 PM
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And yet men find them attractive for some reason. Go figure. It doesn’t work the same way with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:44 PM
2

She could be attracted to you for your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:43 PM
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Why compare them to anybody? Women are rated more highly because women are generally more aesthetically attractive than men. They just are. Do you want women to not be shallow and look past your appearance or to just be shallow in your favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:42 PM
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Sexual abuse is a real problem. Add on top of that all the number of real problems everyone has like lack of affordable healthcare, income inequality, cost of living increases, climate change etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:38 PM
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The same thing all friends do. Go to a brewery and have a drink, play video games, play DND, have movie nights, go to a festival or theme park. Sir, you are the one that implied it was a demotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:35 PM
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Well, yeah. Most likely no woman will ever be physically attracted to you. It’s no big deal. Do you want them to love you for you or for something as shallow as your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:33 PM
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When your biggest problem is no one wanting to have sex with you then you don’t really have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:34 PM
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That’s hardly new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:32 PM
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Why does rating them low matter? They’re interested in them despite rating them low. Physical attractiveness isn’t everything. Have you considered that most men are truly just not very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:25 PM
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The “friend zone” is a thing because women see men as people and see no difference between having a female or male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:22 PM
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That’s a long list of stuff done by hired handymen mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:45 AM
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In this world. This forum specifically. Have you seen this place? Lots of guys strongly dislike sexual women. Yes, even the women that have sex with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:30 AM
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Accountability for what? It’s better to be alone than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:10 AM
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That’s great. I’m glad women are realizing that because being single is a better choice than being with a man that doesn’t meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:44 AM
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It’s not your fault but is is your problem. We’re fine being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:46 PM
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It really isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:40 AM
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You cut them off because you stopped regarding them as human beings and started viewing relationships as transactional. There is nothing predatory about being a friend. A friend is someone you can hang out with. I don’t know what you mean by a gravy train or any profitability. Are you buying stuff for them? Why? Having a female friend is no different from having a male one. Why would you buy them stuff? The thirsty guy is the one being manipulative and predatory here. He knows the situation and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:36 PM
1

That’s an unusual arrangement and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:32 PM
1

Sure, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:55 AM
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No one can become an AF object of lust. You just are or are not. AF and BB sort of exist, in fact BB was practically all that existed until recently. Most people are neither of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:52 AM
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Both sets of my grandparents had nasty divorces. My dad got divorced twice, turned his back on his 4 previous kids, then married my mom and cheated on her for 30 years. They all despised each other. My maternal grandma and grandpa were never allowed in the same room together it was so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:47 AM
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Or relationships aren’t always meant to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:56 PM
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BB and AF is not all there is. You guys here will never be an object of unbridled lust like you want, but you can have a normal loving relationship if you drop the nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:37 PM
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Is that really ideal for everyone? How many people will vibe with a perfect housewife/supermodel? Settling down means finding someone you love to build a life with. It’s not giving up on life because you’re too old to engage in empty nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:29 PM
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So what I said applies. Whoever anyone can get is their level. The girl a guy can get isn’t very attractive? Then the guy isn’t as attractive as he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:22 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:13 PM
1

Unexceptional people and circumstances don’t tend to be recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:52 PM
1

It’s how it’s always been. Women put up with men for money to survive on and men get a bang maid. This has only changed recently. Women are not looking for BB. They want AB or nothing. You’re either born AF or not. If you need TRP then you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:24 PM
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Anyone someone can get is their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:18 PM
0

Most women in their 20s look for a LTR. When they find a good one, they date for a few years before marrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:17 PM
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Settling down and settling are not the same thing. People play the field until they find someone they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:10 PM
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That’s weird because BB had been the default through most of history. The Cuban boomers in my family just accept that women marry for the money and men marry for the sex and cleaning services. That’s just how it is. The concept of love marriage was laughable to them. It’s a business arrangement. When I informed them of modern expectations they were shocked. What RP fails to understand is that now that women can reliably make their own money they only want AB or nothing. That’s why their expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:08 PM
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That’s a long analogy. Sex is not part of the deal of being friends. It’s more like going to Six Flags and expecting hookers. These men did not change their minds. They were manipulating from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:20 AM
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Someone who has been friends for years has their relationship clearly defined. Regardless of your experience, most of the stories women share are about men who have been known as friends then turn on them. And it’s rarely politely. You have to understand that it is heartbreaking to find out that someone you thought enjoyed hanging out with you was trying to manipulate you the whole time and then got salty that it didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:39 PM
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Then why did he lie about being a friend in the first place? He is certainly a bad person for being manipulative and pretending to be a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:17 AM
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There is no offer. The guys that upset women are the ones that have been their friends for years. Then one day, they start raging at them for rejecting them or for not getting the hint and asking them out. They were lying about being friends the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:14 AM
3

That’s not a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:10 AM
3

Personality and morality are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:23 PM
0

Because men made the rules because they consider women too weak to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:43 AM
1

Because men made the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:39 AM
5

How are they not the fault of patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:39 AM
3

How can it have anything to do with evolution when this varies across cultures? Around the Victorian era, friendships were considered the deepest bonds since marriage was more of a strategic move. It was the Oscar Wilde trial that made people look at these relationships with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:01 PM
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Why? The relationship remains the same either way. You guys would choose to change the outcome because you’re convinced by places like these that you should give in to your insecurities rather that putting them away like a grown up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:05 AM
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That’s not how that works. People change over time. What people want changes over time. If the arrangement is acceptable without having different standards in the past , then it should be acceptable with them changing as well. It’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:50 AM
2

Why? People’s priorities change. And the results are the same in the end regardless of past choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:18 AM
2

Chad for every straight woman it is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:29 AM
2

Well, to be fair. Allosexuals are people that enjoy having another persons body fluids on them and in them. So who’s the crazy one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:27 AM
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Why? Friendship is better. Can’t form a good. relationship without it. Sex? Meh. Marrying someone because they make a good mom and housewife makes a lot more sense than lust. At least those are admirable qualities whereas sexual desire will fade. I don’t see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:24 AM
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I am ace. But most women have a much lower libido than men do. They need more than sight for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:21 AM
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Nope. Romantic love as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:13 PM
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Please explain this to me. Do you want to women to adjust their expectations and date more men or do you want them to only date attractive men? Which is it? You can’t have it both ways. Most men are objectively unattractive. That’s just how it is. If women avoided relationships with men they didn’t find super attractive there would be nearly no relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:58 AM
0

Love can exist without this attraction they speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:54 AM
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Because desire isn’t as important as friendship. Desire is something that naturally fades over time for everyone. Companionate love is what remains. Also, I don’t think women feel the desire you are describing. Not in anywhere close to the same way. Women will never want you the way you want them. Certainly not on sight alone. That’s something you guys need to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:48 AM
2

Depends on who you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:31 AM
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A sexy best friend. That’s what most men want too by the way. That’s what I gather from r/AskMen. You guys and your adjacent ideological spaces are just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:46 AM
1

Wait. I though you guys hated it when women settled. Should women settle like they used to for a guy to pay the bills or not? That’s what marriage was all about for most of human history after all. Also, where do you live that you can get a house for less than half a million?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:45 PM
1

I’m ace. Would the offer still stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:35 PM
2

Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:14 PM
2

They’re too scared to just ask. So they play a game where do random favors out of some courtship display. They can waste years doing this. Then they blow up at the girl when they believe their lies instead of asking the guy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:47 AM
2

Can’t have too many friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:44 AM
-1

Orbiters are stalkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:02 AM
1

That insidious example is hardly a thing. What is a thing is a guy constantly offering favors as a way to ingratiate himself to her. No one is twisting his arm in making these dumb decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:56 AM
3

So don’t pretend to be a friend and this won’t be something to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:54 AM
6

Female friends are the same as guy friends. There is no handbag holding. You just hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:56 AM
2

Having friends sure is terrible /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:32 AM
1

Because no ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:46 AM
1

Maybe. Maybe not. Doesn’t change the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:58 AM
2

So what? Where’s the actual violence? Men do the same thing with detailed descriptions on how they want to get their revenge. And actual incidents occur. So what does FDS do? Clown on men for fun? That’s nowhere near comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:53 AM
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FDS didn’t like feminists. They complained about it all the time. Third wave feminism is about intersectionality. The very most FDS was serious about was not splitting the bill on dates. Oh the horror. Detailed descriptions of men having rape and murder fantasies are always a click away on the internet. And we know they’re serious because they happen all the time. The “Lol kill all men” people have never proven to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:57 AM
7

Just take a look at your comments on this thread. There is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:13 AM
1

Feminism actually has a more rosy view of human nature. There is an attitude there that everything can improve and progress. It’s what men say on the internet that has us more wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:12 AM
0

Both men’s and women are miserable because Capitalism is dooming us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:05 AM
4

Teenagers are kids. And the victim is never to blame no matter how old they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:01 AM
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I think a lot of it is coming from the internet. In an anonymous environment, we see what men really think of us and it’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:59 AM
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All the time. It happened to me and my cousins at the mall when we were about 10. Close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:53 AM
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No. They really, really can’t. There are terrible experiences everywhere. Not just in dating, In school, in families, harassment in public places. You name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:52 AM
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This may be a surprise, but having friends benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:50 PM
1

Is this it? Male friendship is so sad if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:48 PM
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When someone is a friend you get a friend in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:46 PM
1

Orbiters are stalkers. Women want them to leave. Women want friends. Having friends is not exploitation. And what is this emotional tampon business? Talking to friends about your life is one of the big things friends do. Do you guys really not talk to your friends? No wonder men are so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:44 PM
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I have never seen this happen except for listening to problems. That’s what friends do. Friends just hang out. And hanging out involves talking about your life. Are all your friends fair weather? Do you not talk? Female friends sure do. Also, this hypothetical guy you’re describing is a manipulative idiot and deserves all the blame. Just ask her out, take the rejection and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:35 PM
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I’ve always heard it to refer to the relationship after the person finally makes theirs feelings known and the other says they want to be friends. You are using it to mean the stage before. When the person is lying about being a friend. How is the person here being used if they choose this manipulative tactic? They don’t have to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:07 PM
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Is there though? Because people use the term to mean the girl just wants to be friends. That’s it. The lapdog stuff doesn’t seem to necessarily be part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:49 AM
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What’s that specifically? And why would they be doing whatever that is if it’s clear she wants to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:45 AM
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I’ve had several male friends in my life, sir. Currently, we play DND and sometimes we play pool or go to the arcade with the classic machines. I don’t see how this is a lapdog.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:41 AM
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This perspective is baffling. How does being a friend give someone just enough hope when it’s clear they’re just supposed to be friends? What is simping behavior? Friends just hang out and have a few beers and a few laughs. Is that simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:11 AM
1

By hanging out as a friend instead of asking her out on a date. Why would anyone expect a relationship without asking for one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:05 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:59 AM
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It’s usually the other way around. Guy doesn’t want to get rejected so he hopes to get her romantic attention by pretending to be a friend. Then he gets mad when it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:56 AM
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For the same reason someone would have male friends. What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:50 AM
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There are men out there that reject the entire concept of friendship as beneficial and then wonder why they are lonely, depressed, and have no friends. It is a mystery. And for the record, no one can befriend someone “maliciously” like the comments here imply. What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:46 AM
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A lot of women aren’t particularly interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:21 PM
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So an in depth explanation of the difficulties women face in relationships is quantity to you but one line that allows you to speculate without doing any research into the subject is quality? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:21 PM
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So you post the article because one sentence fits your personal bias but wave away all the rest of it as biased? Ok. The housework men stereotypically do has been shown to not take as much of their time. Yard work for example is not done as often and taking out the trash takes about a minute. I don’t think it’s wrong to expect more from relationships. Especially when they take so much time from a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:32 AM
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How so? As the article states, women do most of the work in the relationship and men receive the benefit. Also, women forming longer lasting and stronger friendships is a well known phenomenon. It’s one if the reasons women are not as reliant on romantic relationships as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:26 AM
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I want to be alone. Why should I want someone bothering me? I have my family for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:17 AM
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Ah. Thank you. Lesbians tend to rush into relationships. Hence the joke “what does a lesbian bring to second date? A U-Haul” This leads them to marry too soon and then divorce. Meanwhile, gay men tend to marry later in life and last longer. As lesbians age, their relationships stabilize as well. It’s still weird that you focus on that one quote but ignore the rest of the article explaining the pressures women face in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:11 AM
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That’s the conclusion you come to in that article? The clear point there is that women are expected to contribute much more to a relationship than men are. Relationships are stressful for women as a result whereas men get taken care of. I’m not seeing anything there about lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:59 AM
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Women are told that marriage should be their goal and pursue that. Men are told that marriage is an end to freedom. But once they’re married, it often turns out that men gain a new mom and women gain a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:47 AM
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I think that’s what good people in general do. Use whatever power they do have to help others. These guys just have more power so they do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:11 AM
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Yeah. That’s what heroes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:17 AM
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I’m quite light and airy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:39 PM
1

Money is a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:50 PM
1

Money is a concept. And good men exist. Stop being a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:03 PM
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Abstract concepts exist. If they didn’t we couldn’t discuss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:59 AM
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Abstract concepts exist. But they’re still just abstract concepts. Good men = positive masculinity Of course you can’t be toxic towards bad guys. Unless you join them. That would be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:57 AM
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Sex and gender are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:17 AM
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You keep insisting that good men don’t exist. Why? You can touch money. But why does paper have value? Because we imagine it does. Masculinity is a concept that exists because we imagine that it does. Maybe it shouldn’t. I don’t see the value in it or in femininity but other people do. So go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:15 AM
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It was. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mythopoetic_men%27s_movement https://www.advocate.com/women/2017/12/11/what-toxic-masculinity?amp The etymology of the term can be traced not to academia, but to the rise of the Mythopoetic men’s movement of the ’80s and ’90s — a response to the cultural shift second-wave feminism brought about — where men bonded often in the wilderness and in sweat lodges to attempt to rediscover their “deep masculinity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:14 AM
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Sex and gender are different. People shouldn’t have expectations thrown at them just because of how they were born and should be free to express themselves as they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:46 PM
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Nah. You got that from weird internet memes. If a guy is a good cool dude. Presents as masculine. Considers himself masculine. Positive masculinity! Nothing too difficult there. It is a label. But it’s a label people believe in. Like the concept of money. Just because people invent an idea, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:39 PM
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Not sure where you got that idea. There are rapists and murderers out there. That doesn’t mean everyone is. It seems that you think that’s the case though. How could there be a good dude without positive masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:31 PM
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Teaching people to be kind and letting them express themselves as they wish will make the world better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:29 PM
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So you don’t think there are any good wholesome dudes out there? Everyone is a bully? You very clearly don’t know what feminism is. But you are a misandrist no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:27 PM
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Of course it is. Why wouldn’t it be? Do you think superheroes are the bad guys for fighting the bad guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:26 PM
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Nah. Removing them will solve mental health issues and make people more chill. Masculinity and femininity would be nothing but mere presentation. As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:15 PM
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Being a good dude doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:14 PM
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At bad people. Not as a way to keep his family or loved ones in line. No problem there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:13 PM
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I agree that nothing bad will happen if we remove gender identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:01 AM
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For autism? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:00 AM
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They are. That’s exactly what it is. That and the side effects that come from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:57 AM
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I don’t see why we need concepts like masculinity or femininity in the first place. But no, toxic masculinity isn’t the entirety of masculinity any more than polluted water is all water.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:56 AM
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These are the most wholesome and good characters imaginable. They typically only resort to violence to protect and defend. Not to get their way. Superman dark AUs are a problem, sure. I’m sick of people leaning on them as if they are at all interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:50 AM
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Let’s look at examples in pop culture shall we. Superman, Captain America, and if you want to get more obscure about it, Flex Mentallo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:45 AM
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Agreed. Do what you want without labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:42 AM
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It is. It’s exactly what toxic masculinity is. Restrictive expectations placed on men. And toxic femininity is absolutely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:40 AM
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Paying isn’t. Being offended when a woman pays is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:38 AM
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I just don’t care what people do. I’m just here to try to figure people out cause I’m autistic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:40 AM
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I do agree with you that men who throw a fit over a woman paying is toxic. And women should not be accepting that. And yes, it is well known that women promote toxic masculinity just as men do. Feminists have never said otherwise. Most of us say they don’t do it as often as men do, but I disagree. Women do this just as much and in some contexts more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:29 AM
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Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:26 AM
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Who said femininity is totally fine? Early feminism was about pushing back against the restrictive expectations placed on women. Now it’s pushing back against the restrictive expectations placed on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:21 AM
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You really don’t think there are any unfair expectations placed on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:19 AM
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You don’t think there are unfair expectations placed on men to qualify them as manly? (I’m not talking about attraction here.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:13 AM
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It was invented by a men’s movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:09 AM
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Just like a poisoned apple is an apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:47 PM
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“In order to be a man you must meet this criteria and prove your worth. If you fail to do this, you’re worthless as a person.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:45 PM
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Honestly I think both the concept of femininity and masculinity are pretty worthless aside from maybe mere presentation. Just be you and don’t be a jerk. Why live up to a standard set by anyone other than yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:39 PM
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It really isn’t that difficult. Just don’t try to prove to yourself and others that you’re masculine by dominating and hurting people or putting yourself and needless risk. Don’t expect all men to fit into a narrow definition of what it means to be a man. Just let people be themselves. I don’t understand why people are so interested in masculinity or femininity as some sort of goal anyway. Just live your best life and do what makes you happy without hurting anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:34 PM
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No. If I meant men I would have said men. The article you yourself posted said 44% of porn contained aggressive content. Everyone is viewing aggressive content. I also never said women didn’t enjoy anal. I said it was a humiliation fetish. Whether or not they seek it they find it. And everyone normalizes it. It impacts everyone’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:33 AM
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What does it matter when almost half of all porn is aggressive regardless of what is being searched? And anal sex without a prostate is a humiliation fetish without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:08 AM
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But they’re still finding it. 44% of the porn is aggressive. All the anal sex certainly is and that’s a popular search. And more boys than girls see porn as depicting reality. But regardless, it doesn’t matter who is searching for it. Most men and a good number of women are seeing it and normalizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:58 PM
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Because as another poster showed you. Most men watch porn and most women don’t. That link just proves my point. A lot of porn had violence even when it’s not what is being searched for. And no matter who is searching for it, it’s a problem. The study found physical aggression against women present in 44.3% of Pornhub and 33.9% of XVideos scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:27 PM
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I said people not men. And the most popular porn for the much fewer women that watch it is lesbian porn. Even then, by far more men watch aggressive porn than women ever watch any porn at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:39 PM
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If this is actually the case then hooray for porn! Women dislike porn because it’s often violent and leads people to believe that aggressive sex is normal with no need for negotiation beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:51 PM
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ASPD That figures
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:39 AM
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Controlling you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:23 AM
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This sounds resentful and envious. No one owes anyone the ability to be taken advantage of because they were naive and stupid in the past. Have you ever heard of grievance collectors or wound collectors? Because this attitude rings a bell. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/spycatcher/201509/wound-collectors?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:22 AM
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Oh yes. The sign of a healthy relationship. A PI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:43 AM
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Expecting common courtesy isn’t petty. Resenting it is. It’s a sandwich. Ask her to order you a sandwich later. Splitting up paying and picking up an order is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:40 AM
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What excuse? They’re not being treated worse. They’re treating themselves better and making better choices for their situations. Why pay someone’s bills? Get a better partner with a more equitable situation. This is a tantrum you’re throwing. Sex on a first date? That’s stupid and leads to poor outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:36 AM
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That’s absurd. People learn lessons from their mistakes. This is the reasoning of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:19 AM
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By falling in love obviously, Mr. Roboto.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:04 PM
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That’s absurd. Just get the sandwich and she’ll get you later. Micromanaging a sandwich order is just being petty and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:59 PM
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How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:55 PM
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Not as long as Capitalism is killing the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:16 PM
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My ideal is my freedom. If a buddy wants to be roommates I might oblige them, but only if they don’t cramp my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:34 PM
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So you agree that women are happier without a man that doesn’t meet her standards. Whereas in the past women settled for the first guy that would be willing to keep a roof over her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:29 PM
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They can get companionship from other women. And they’re perfectly content with refusing to settle for a subpar romance. In the past, they had no choice. My parents and grandparents certainly didn’t marry for love and even mocked the idea. They married out if economic necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:25 PM
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Unless I find another ace that I really vibe with then single life is ideal. I dream one day of a peaceful retirement. Learning to paint, garden, and visiting museums. Living with friends or siblings would also be cool since they don’t demand all of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:47 PM
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I’m asexual. I’m just here because I’m trying to understand you guys but I don’t think I really can. Maybe I’d like a relationship with another asexual, but only if they respect that I like a lot of me time. I’ve never been interested. I’ve never seen the appeal of having someone around bothering me all the time. How often do I have to see them? Everyday? Once a week? Too much trouble. Friends are great though. You can go without seeing them for months at a time and they are still friends. I’m q…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:39 PM
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I’ve posted the study sir. The trends reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:38 PM
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No. Women just don’t need men to survive anymore. So they don’t have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:36 PM
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What? That makes it worse. Reagan destroyed everything and everyone after him has carried on by his example. It’s making it too expensive to buy a house, care for children, or retire. Not even with a spouse. Might as well look after oneself then and have no kids. The middle class is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:34 PM
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Capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:26 PM
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So why are men so desperate for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:22 PM
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False. They are more stressed out though. https://www.brookings.edu/essay/are-women-happier-than-men-do-gender-rights-make-a-difference/ Yet while women’s rights undoubtedly improved with a host of changes that occurred during the 1970s, there was a “paradox of declining female happiness” in the decades after gender rights improved, What explains this? First, these trends reversed over time. A later study of women’s happiness in the U.S. based on data that covered a later time period—1985 to 200…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:14 PM
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Enjoying wine does not make someone an alcoholic nor does having a couple of cats make someone obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:06 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:05 PM
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She has a choice to lower those standards. But she’d rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:03 PM
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Well you’ve met one today. Sounds ideal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:01 PM
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Well all right then. You guys seem rather vexed though. Seems like a lot of trouble to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:32 AM
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If you say so. Sex is just pointless and awkward as far as I’m concerned. Masturbation is relaxing and simple. But I prefer to not deal with other people longer than I have to anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:38 AM
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I’m an asexual woman. To my very bones I cannot understand why anyone puts up with sex when practically everything is better. Orgasms are available on tap without having to put up with the women y’all dislike so much. So why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:31 AM
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Of course not. The point of eating is nutrition. The point of sex is an orgasm. You can get that more easily and efficiently through masturbation. I’m ace and can’t comprehend why anyone would put up with the inconvenience of other people or the misery of dating just for an orgasm when anyone could get that done alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:29 AM
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That sounds pretty nice actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:07 AM
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You can touch your own dick. I seriously don’t see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:03 AM
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Can’t you just masturbate and get on with your day? It’s literally the same thing. Just a pesky biological process.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:02 AM
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They don’t struggle. They just want less sex. The sex they do have tends to be more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:28 AM
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That’s because they tend to be religious can’t leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:25 AM
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Well that depends. By technology, economics, and investing do you mean Elon Musk, anarcho-capitalism, and cryptocurrency? Because that’s going to make women run away as far as possible. All joking aside, it’s nuts how often I find people like this in groups where I’m talking to friends of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:29 AM
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Likewise. I’m an ace trying to figure out everyone else. I find them very strange. My apologies for making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:26 PM
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I think men should just find ways to be happy on their own. Maybe fulfill each other’s emotional needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:03 AM
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Really? Aren’t you guys here constantly talking about sex being a need? I agree though that guys should just find other ways to be happy and let go of the sex obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:02 AM
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There is no such thing as acting like a man or woman. They’re just free to act like themselves now. Mind your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:59 AM
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It should certainly be seen as a valid option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:17 PM
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Not everyone. But a lot of women don’t want intimacy from men or think it’s just not worth the time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:15 PM
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Women have closer relationships with friends and family. A lot of us are also not particularly interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:10 PM
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Immigration and eventually automation will take care of that. The global population is way too large as it is. Lower births than replacement level is a good thing especially considering the climate crisis we will be experiencing very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:45 PM
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Parent’s sacrifices are made willingly. They are a gift not a loan. They require no acknowledgement nor repayment. CPS removes children from dangerous situations. They are not needed for adult children to claim abuse. And abuse is not needed for them to refuse to take on the burden of their parents. Most parents in the United States don’t expect help anyway. They plan on living independently and seeing their children on holidays. CPS deserves more funding and reach. Parents get away with too muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:53 PM
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Children should only ever be brought into a world where they are loved and prioritized by their parents. If that means fewer births then that is great. Trauma is horror and cruelty. You’re messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:47 PM
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Lots of parents are abusive and no one gets to decide that but their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:16 AM
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Your goal is to ensure an endless cycle of trauma and misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:15 AM
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People can and do have a good retirement without children. It’s easier to save money without them after all. I live in the wealthiest society that has ever existed. We have plenty of money to look after old people. The problem is that billionaires are hoarding the wealth. Redistribution of wealth is needed. And immigration brings in plenty of workers. Adults should just pay their taxes. It’s not anywhere near as much of a burden as parents are. I will not accept a system that incentivizes people…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:30 PM
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No. They didn’t ask to be saddled with taking care of old people. They should be free to live their lives. Their parents did ask for children though. They knew what they were getting into. No one owes a single thing to their ancestors. They’re dead. Gone forever. People owe everything to their children. They asked for the burden. Their lives belong to their children the moment they are born. Life is not inherently a gift. It’s not a bad thing either. But no one should be grateful just to be aliv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:24 PM
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What you are describing is a matter of material conditions. You come from a poor country where misery and poverty is not just present but commonplace and expected. Family is matter of survival. For developed nations, family is a choice for emotional fulfillment. We are lucky enough to have no need to cling to family if it is abusive and exploitative. We owe nothing to anyone except children because they are vulnerable and dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:39 PM
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Life is not inherently a gift nor a burden. No one should be grateful or angry just to be born. Having children should only be a sacrifice made out of love. All other intentions are corrupt. Love for children should be unconditional. Love for parents is based entirely on their performance. Parents owe everything to their children. They are their priority above all else. Anything else is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:22 PM
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Capitalism is the root cause of our problems. If our attitudes cause selfish people to avoid children and inspire only selfless people to be parents then that is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:20 PM
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That’s abuse. Children did not ask to be born. They owe their parents nothing. They chose to be parents so they have to put up with all that heavy responsibility entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:19 PM
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They were inspired by female warriors in Scythia. Not an all female tribe. Don’t be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:18 PM
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This is exactly what was expected in the past. My father didn’t expect love or attraction from any of his relationships. He saw it as a transaction. He provides money, they provide sex and household labor. You have kids to make them support you in old age. He said this is how things were done in Cuba back in the day. The idea of marriage existing for love or emotional fulfillment was baffling to him. Like I was describing an alien world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:30 AM
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Parents owe their children because they chose to bring them into the world. Children owe nothing to their parents. Raising a child is a sacrifice made out of love. The only benefit is their child’s happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:22 AM
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Marriages are about individuals only. The married couple has every right to tell their families to get lost if they get in the way of their happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:20 AM
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Our parents destroyed the future for our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:19 AM
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Back then, kids were financially useful and inevitable. Now, they are a financial burden and we have contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:18 AM
1

Interesting take from Mr. “Amazons were real” over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:16 AM
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Not unconditionally. No. If the love were unconditional then they would love them regardless of abuse. That’s why unconditional love is actually a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:22 PM
2

Name me a man who loves his wife if she never has sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:21 PM
2

Absolutely not. If a guy doesn’t shoot his shot, his wasted time is his own business. Someone can’t pretend to be a friend and be mad when they are taken at their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:14 PM
2

Male suicide rate is higher because men own more guns https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2020/06/handgun-ownership-associated-with-much-higher-suicide-risk.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:42 PM
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Are women still loved by men when they are unattractive or don’t want sex? Why are women so commonly left by their husbands when they receive a cancer diagnosis but rarely the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:37 PM
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No. Inexperienced young people, virgins or not, have the highest rates of divorce. Religious people have the lowest rates for obvious cultural reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:01 AM
8

There’s nothing wrong with being asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:31 AM
28

They are only less likely to divorce because they tend to be religious. Are you religious? Do you want to live that lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:28 AM
1

That isn’t just juvenile. It’s absurd. Do people who play horror video games want to actually live in a zombie apocalypse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:14 AM
1

Sexual desires are not the same as secret desires for your actual life. They are often based on what people fear or view as forbidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:13 AM
7

Yes. A lot of things are taboo and almost all of it is in porn. The things that bring people to orgasm are frequently the things that they specifically don’t want and even the things that very pointedly frighten them like cuckoldry porn for example. Human sexuality is very strange. Edit: Republicans visiting black or trans sex workers is a well known thing. So yeah, it’s something they want to explore but only sexually and secretly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:15 PM
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Human sexuality is tied to what is considered taboo. That’s why racists and transphobes love interacial and trans porn. It’s also why incest porn and cuckold porn seems to be so weirdly pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:02 PM
5

Are you role playing Mac from Its Always Sunny? Because if you are, it’s spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:21 PM
3

Work? Sure. Own their own money, property, bank accounts, or credit? Usually not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:39 AM
1

Cuba
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:36 AM
16

I’m talking about love being the priority now. Why are you bad at reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:43 PM
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You’re joking. My parents laughed at me when I said marriage was about love and emotional fulfillment. The considered it a business transaction required because men make more money and need a women to take care of their home and sexual needs. They were shocked when I told them that women can make as much money now and expectations were very different for relationships. Sex and relationships are much less transactional now and men are struggling because offering an income is not enough anymore. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:37 PM
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Eh? Careers can be rewarding. Kids can be rewarding. But a mortgage gives me a place to live. Jobs bring money. Kids consume money and most of a parent’s free time. Life would be far more difficult with kids. I just don’t get it unless someone is rich and bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:05 AM
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Why would that be demoralizing? What’s so great about the burden of children? I’m very happy right now. My career is in track. I own a lovely home. I meet up with friends regularly. I’ve known from a young age that I never wanted children and I honestly don’t understand why anyone does. I’m also ace and very happy to avoid the drama of sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:15 PM
1

Well you won’t. And that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:57 PM
8

Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:43 PM
2

Fascinating…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:43 PM
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Creepy, religious people like being religious and creepy. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:43 PM
7

Right! Women should date women. And men should date men. Non-binary folks are free choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:42 PM
4

Uh huh. Meanwhile https://www.vice.com/amp/en/article/gy893x/conservatives-are-whining-because-no-one-wants-to-date-them-vgtrn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:25 PM
3

Single women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:23 PM
4

Why be desirable when we can just live for ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:16 PM
5

Then why do women refuse to date Trump voters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:13 PM
10

Right. Why bother with a relationship if we don’t get what we want? It’s always better to be alone than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:13 PM
7

When do we lose our minds? We just tell you to go your own way already. It’s very obvious that men are desperate for women not the other way around. Single women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:10 PM
6

We get emotional intimacy from other women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:09 PM
1

This has to be satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:49 AM
2

All of them are unreasonable and illegitimate except for the stuff that can be found in any self help book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:48 AM
1

No one says this. How is that even possible with anonymity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:45 AM
1

It’s very strange to me how you people assume abusive men are all attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:26 PM
1

This, but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:29 PM
2

You live in opposite land.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:56 PM
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Because women are ok with being alone if they don’t get what they’re after.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:54 PM
5

That’s because wrong guys are unfortunately very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:53 PM
8

No, not typically. People tend to date within their class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:23 AM
7

They waited a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:12 AM
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Women want to figure out if they like you before they have sex with men. And men tend to ghost women that have sex too soon. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:10 AM
2

You seem to misunderstand something here. Women are ok with being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:10 AM
14

Don’t kid yourself. They hate women that blow them too. And themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:48 AM
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How does that make any sense? She used to like one thing and now she doesn’t. How is that being used? If he wanted a sexually adventurous woman why did he marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:36 AM
-4

Are you seriously comparing rape to a sex tape?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:32 AM
6

No one has to settle. And isn’t settling the worst thing a woman could do in your eyes anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:31 AM
11

They’re fun. It’s like Robin Williams’ character in Mrs. Doubtfire. Charming guy. Fun to be around. Unreliable and selfish partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:59 PM
1

That is not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:36 PM
1

Right. She’s more sexually expressive because if he isn’t relationship material then she doesn’t care if the guy ghosts her for viewing her as a “whore” instead of a “Madonna”. Women are just navigating around the Madonna-whore complex of men. They don’t generally have this particular issue. They have lots of other ones though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:49 PM
1

Whatever you choose to view as HVM here makes no difference. Men in general may be wary of women with high “body count” as you guys put it. And having sex on the first date is an indication of that, so it’s safer for women to wait just in case if they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:04 PM
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Because in their mind sex is dirty Umm no. It’s because men think women that don’t delay sex are sluts and bad relationship material. So these women get ghosted a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:01 AM
1

Who said anything about safe choice? We’re talking being loved because they provide an emotional connection. It’s a good and meaningful choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:09 AM
1

Well, ok then. I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:07 AM
1

You’d rather be expected to maintain something that is impossible to maintain rather than a few things that are possible to maintain? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:00 PM
1

No. I don’t agree with that. Attraction is a spectrum. People are generally more attracted to attractive celebrities than they are to their partners. That does not mean that they aren’t attracted to their partners. The OP is very obviously not talking about choosing a partner she is not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:57 PM
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People that have an emotional connection are genuinely loved. People that are liked just because they’re hot are not. Being hot is just being useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:43 PM
1

No one is talking about zero attraction. I think a lot of you have some black and white thinking going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:38 PM
1

Great. How is that settling? Why does being hot matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:35 PM
0

How is that settling if she’s happy? Hotness just isn’t that important to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:47 AM
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Right, but no one is talking about wealth. She was talking about emotional connection. It seems like you guys are not taking about love but just being lusted after. What makes anyone think the hot guy is genuinely loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:38 AM
0

But looks can never be maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:28 AM
1

Why do you guys keep bringing up money when that’s obviously not what she was talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:26 AM
1

How did you get “money is important” from all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:24 AM
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I see a lot of guys wishing for women to stop being shallow and see past their appearance and love them for their personalities. Would you rather women just be shallow in your favor instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:24 AM
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She’s not talking about money. She’s talking about emotional connection. That’s loving someone for who and what they are. Valuing someone for their appearance is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:21 AM
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Dude, people need to feel heard. This isn’t even a woman thing. My brother does this all the time and I listen. People need to sort out their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:09 AM
2

Never mind the fact that birth control is used for healthcare as well. It’s better for society and less expensive all around to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:52 PM
1

No one said there weren’t any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:29 PM
2

Yes. It gives them control but at the cost of limiting their options in life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:28 PM
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Yes it does. Women are significantly less likely pursue opportunities when they’re taking care of children. Especially not opportunities that take much time away from home. Conservatives will restrict access to contraceptives. https://www.vogue.com/article/anti-birth-control-movement/amp Missouri statehouse, where lawmakers debated whether they needed to restrict Medicaid coverage of birth control and limit payments to Planned Parenthood. They will prevent them from being part of any public heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:22 PM
1

There are fewer conservative women than conservative men. That’s what the entire discussion is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:20 PM
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Do men and women have different gender roles? Roles that traditionally place men at the head of the family? Yes. That’s patriarchy. And it’s bad for everyone because it limits our choices in life. Blaming a system is not the same thing as blaming people. We were all born into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:17 PM
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Banning abortion and limiting access to contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:14 PM
3

Rape culture describes the prevalence and acceptance of rape myths. These myths include concepts such as men can’t be raped because they always want sex, if you were wearing revealing clothing you deserved it, automatic assumptions that rape victims must be lying, entering someone’s apartment means they want to have sex with that person, no means yes, it’s ok to coerce someone into sex they don’t want, rape cannot occur in an existing relationship, consent to sex once means consent to sex always…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 01:07 AM
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The poster you are responding to has bee nothing but reasonable. You are responding with nothing but insults, misinformation, and emojis.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 09:28 PM
3

Buzzfeed click bait articles and a fake video. Great. Such legitimate sources. An accusation is not enough to ruin anyone’s life. Most rapists don’t spend any time in prison even with substantial evidence. And what do you think rape culture is?
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 09:27 PM
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What do you think the point of his picture is? He’s not making a statement about being ok with his situation. That’s for sure.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/20 03:34 AM
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