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Or it could be that men are held to way higher standards to begin with.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 01:01 AM
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Well, seeing the comments disparaging ugly and short guys, it made realize that looks are the most important thing to FDS disciples. They are upset that these hot guys are not the "nice guys" they disparage. The crime is being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:56 PM
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I think the messaging of FDS is that if a guy isn't super hot, he is not worth it. He isn't worth talking to, he isn't worth being associated. His good traits are all in vain. Being hot, a good career, and a decent enough personality are the only three virtues. But we know it's about being hot and making good money. Honestly, FDS is pretty shallow but that's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:05 PM
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Actually, being beta buxx is worse than before. Getting married to beta buxx is degrading to most women, which is why when given a chance, most women find more fulfillment in partying and careers. Society used to pressure women but now it is more subtle shaming. Chances are, a beta buxx guy gets almost no attention until he starts earning good money, and even then, he gets piece-wise (or no) sex. Attraction can't be negotiated with. If a guy isn't good looking, everything he does for a woman is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:59 PM
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I didn't mean someone divorced or separated. I'm sorry about the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:00 AM
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Just an observation, but everytime I've heard of a birth complication (mom or baby), the mom was above 30. Miscarriages are also super common too. But I'm sure you have some facts to counter my anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:59 AM
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IDK, but over the past ten years or so, romance has become maligned. It's become part of the "nice guy" routine and being already kind of ugly, I don't want to play into something that will be rejected haha. Although, recently, I see women saying they want romance. I am just baffled at times as a guy. I have to admit though, TRP has ruined my view on romance. But what does romance mean to you? Is it sappy? What is a romantic action?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:56 AM
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I wasn't thinking about people who got divorced in their 30s (although I was ambiguous in my post by saying "single"). From what I've seen though with 40 yo women in the medical field, money is nice but it doesn't buy happiness. If anything, it kind of sucks because working around death and dying people is pretty depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:24 AM
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Obviously, because these older women have lots of spunk and attitude /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:17 AM
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Yeah but I was thinking that if a woman got married at 30, she'd probably feel ready at 32 to have kids (I'm assuming) and assuming sub-standard fertility, she'd have to try hard to get 2 kids by 35. Most times, it seems like 1 kid is the most. That's why it kind of baffles me that if most woman want kids, why are they so reluctant to marry at 30 or meet guys in their late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:16 AM
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I know they want a high quality guy but it seems so futile. Let's say 1/4th of men have a good personality and 1/10th are considered hot. Well, if women want both and if both traits are independent of each other, then only 1/40th of men are good enough for these women. Honestly, most women probably think like that to begin with so a huge portion of women are going for that tiny slice of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:06 AM
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I think it can be any reason really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:37 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that man. I think I'll eventually get to that state with my gf, I wish you the best and hold on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:27 AM
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Weird for me but that kind of turns me on. I have to admit, I have cuck fantasies and I don't think I'd act them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:23 AM
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I can't believe what I'm reading. I have to masturbate at least once a day. The funny thing is, I'm pretty low testosterone compared to the vast majority of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:56 AM
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Good for you man. Idk, if a woman feels like sex is a duty, I'd rather just watch porn because the women on screen can do it better. I'd rather have an enthusiastic horny woman but if I can't get that, porn it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:51 AM
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Just wondering, are you ok with cuddling though? Or is that some stereotype I'm playing into
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:49 AM
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I'm not married so I wondered how this would play out or if it would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:47 AM
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I'm an ignorant guy in general, but imo, masturbating is sex drive. Idk how women see it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:17 AM
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Honestly, I'm surprised women have a sex drive, especially after having kids. A pornstar in an interview once said that she hadn't masturbated in months 😱😱.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:05 AM
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I would hesitate to pursue a woman. If a woman isn't interested when I initially flirty, I'm not going to risk being called a creep. Idk if that's what you'd recommend to do. But what do you consider "pursuing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:53 AM
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Just offering my theory on why women become frigid. Thank you for the answers by the way. I honestly believe a wife would get frigid because the guy isn't superhot. She sees the guy as a human and his flaws that she initially ignores becomes apparent. She has his commitment so she feels she no longer has to work for his approval. She probably had flings with much more attractive men and her husband can't meet that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:48 AM
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You seem pretty mature about this, I'm actually surprised. This is off topic but my brother's gf was upset when he said he watched porn when they didn't have sex. If you look at female dating strategy, they strongly hate porn watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:24 AM
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Christianity considers lust outside marriage a sin. It considers porn and masturbation as sinful. It also doesn't believe sexual rejection is a sin. Married Christian guy must thus keep his balls blue until the lord comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:17 AM
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On the practical side, maybe they have kids. Also, divorce is expensive and a wonderful way to destroy one's social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:12 AM
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Thanks for the answer. I am going off topic a bit though because I was talking about frigid wives. But, I find it odd how a woman's sexual pleasure seems to matter much more in relationship. If genders were reversed, both RP and BP would tell him to lose weight and lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:04 AM
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Well the court of public opinion (which is mostly run by women) matters heavily when it comes to having friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:53 AM
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It's imo a big loophole in Christianity. Woman obviously has the upper hand in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:51 AM
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But in a social circle, if a woman says her husband uses porn so she divorced him, she'd get way more sympathy than if the guy got a divorce for saying his wife was frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:38 AM
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Let's be real, religious guys all watch porn. Utah has one of the highest porn usage rates in the country
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:36 AM
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Divorce court. An angry wife that withholds sex could use the porn excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:33 AM
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It must suck to have a religious wife then. First she'll turn her husband down for sex and then she'll treat porn as a sin. Meanwhile, the guy still has to be a provider and good father. Sounds like hell on earth 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:30 AM
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Idk if you guys know about John Mayer. The man says he watches porn daily and it is mind boggling because the man is good looking, tall, rich, a musician, and has an a*sshole personality that women tend to find attractive. Not even Jennifer Aniston or Taylor Swift can compete with porn. Porn is to 2020 what the pill was to the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:27 AM
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Dating is beyond ridiculous nowadays. Even single mothers have the world at their feet while normal guys are screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:24 AM
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I experienced it first hand with 3 women I dated. It was my face or education (no masters). Obviously, I made mistakes, but I had very little leeway while I had to tolerate lots of bad behavior from them. All 3 are still single, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:15 AM
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