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| 6 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveAnother thing that messes guys up is this idea that you should just keep trying. Most men don’t move on quick enough. They’ll literally be infatuated with the same girl for years. So I actually agree that unsuccessful men need to talk to women more, but they have to talk to other women and not text the same one for 6 weeks and counting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 09:34 AM |
| – | Which pill has had the most success in dating?Red pill. Men who are successful with women usually either naturally have red pill ideas or they started to have red pill ideas. The red pill kind of started with dating coaches like Mystery which evolved in to RSD and others. The blue pill just represents what we’ve all been taught in western culture. People hate the red pill because of certain people in it but on the flip side more men have gotten better results going from blue to red than the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:02 AM |
| 3 | The loneliness epidemic is a myth“Dating is effortless.” Rarely hear anyone say that. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Damn. I honestly don’t have an answer for that. I’m a child of immigrants. That’s why I tell people, regardless of anything, you’re lucky if you’re born in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:58 AM |
| 3 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!No it has to be of actual significance. Like if I told you not to go to the beach because sharks. Don’t be an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Well it’s 45% of women from 25-44. That says a lot considering by 2030 a lot of women who are 20 will be close to 30, which is around typical marrying age in the US, and they will end up in that pool. That couple with what you said about men losing interest completely, the forecast looks grim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!That and other men. It’s crazy how white knights/simps will cape for this BS just so they can get a crumb or attention. Hopefully the next gen has better outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:20 PM |
| 12 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Ok let me spell it out for you. Anytime men make a comparison of how easy it is for women than men to attract the opposite sex, somebody replies with the whole “we get killed” BS. It’s a disingenuous argument or statement that’s used to derail the conversation. The reply maam9243 made was made to invalidate what BeReady6129 said without actually arguing the point. It’s a dumb argument/statement because the vast majority of women aren’t even getting killed on dates to begin with. Just like the va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!It is infuriating. I try to help as many men as much as possible. None of us have all the answers. I found mine but the dating world sucks. Unfortunately there has to be a huge cultural shift for things to get better. With women like her, I don’t think it’ll be our generation though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | I think men's compliments are fakeShe’s right. Especially the last sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | I think men's compliments are fakeYes. We have to take some accountability for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Literally quoted you. “mIsRepResNTing mY WoRds.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Ok. Fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:09 PM |
| 0 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!According to some studies, 45% of them will be single and childless by 2030. They’re going to miserable keeping this attitude up. My mind is just blown that so many can be so delusional. My whole thing is, if it’s some of the men, it’s just SOME of them. If it’s all or the majority, it’s not just the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!What country do you live in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!“I’m not reading all that.” That’s also part of the problem. Too many women just refuse to listen and or try to understand our perspective. Which is funny because, stereotypically, woman are supposed to be the empathetic ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!It’s like talking to a fuck*n wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:35 PM |
| 5 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Did you look at what I was replying too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!You guys just have to hit the gym, get your money up and develop these social skills. You’re going to have to eat shit for a while. As for online dating, get some good pictures. Even get a photographer. Everyone should have professional pics of themselves anyway. Especially for a LinkedIn pic. That way you have more options and you can be more selective. I had to get my second degree, pay for a gym membership with training and go through some women and some heartache before I found the one. I’m … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:26 PM |
| 22 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!The vast majority of women aren’t getting killed on dates. Just like the vast majority cashiers get to go home. Most people go to the beach despite sharks existing. Really tired of this BS argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 4 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!How are you supposed to know you like them? Read their mind across the verse? You have to make the move to figure that out. Women are clueless to men’s dating struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | StandardsIt’s ridiculous to get mad at a guy for sexualizing her body. Attraction is not a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionFor anyone reading this, this is terrible advice. Women flirt with men they’re not interested in all the time. Just be straight forward. Get to the meat and bones so you can stop wasting time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionCompletely agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:40 PM |
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