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| 1 | What kind of attitude should I carry as a fairly average looking guy?Smoke buddy you will get attitude 🍁 | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 01:02 AM |
| 5 | I have developed some biceps due to gym. I see a night and day difference to how my dates goDude it's just confidence that you get from seeing that difference. Trust me my bicep doesn't even fit in some of my sleeves, veins and nice shape. But as I lack confidence I don't get similar results. And what about dudes who never went to the gym, and most of them still manage a good dating life. It's just how you feel about yourself. If girls fall for big muscles, I mean I am into bodybuilding and friends with a lot of guys who are Into lifting and in great shape still they suffer miserably w… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Dating Sucks? Try This...Checked all those boxes 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | What is it like to be pretty handsome dude, seriously?I was really fat, got in the gym and my lower bodyfat made my face look nicer. I like it now. It gives me different confidence like I can make eye contact easily. People treat me nicer. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people here downplay importance of physical attractivenessI was a bit overweight and ugly looking. 3 years ago, from past 2.5 years working out really hard closer to single digit bodyfat, I am looking the best I have ever been in my life. Dress nice, and keep myself neat, clean. Guys, on social media and random guys at the gym compliment me on my looks. Still single I feel it's just not meant for me. But I agree with it, if you are good looking then things are wayyyy easier for you. You get that natural confidence build up inside your unconscious proce… | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys never approach me? (19F)Very few guys feel confident about approaching, so don't worry someone will. Talk to people and smile. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | I don't want to whine but I do need help.Losing weight doesn't help for men. Meme pages are floored with guys going to the gym, getting ripped looking better but still no success with dating. That's my personal experience with 2+ years of gym+ losing weight+ building muscle journeys. It gives a little bit more attention but not worth the effort, I have closely seen other gym bros life as well. Losing weight getting fit, might increase your confidence a bit but it gets destroyed once you realize you are still not good enough for any gir… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 3 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.That's my bicep Been lifting for 3+ years | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 6 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.Getting one seems a task for life. I mean hats off to guys who can pull more. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I (F20) flirt with guysEven just a smile will work 99% of the time. But don't be a girl who just smiles every time with everyone, the guy will assume you are just nice. He needs to feel that you are doing something, that makes him feel special/different. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveMy heart and soul to those girls! Even small things make my day. I wish things were better. Damn happy for both of you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Success comes in waves. If you expect to never have dry spells or periods of frequent rejection, you will be sorely disappointedYears for that matter. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it more difficult to have a gf when you're a short guy or it doens't matter ?It's difficult overall but being short makes it a bit more difficult. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I have taken the ride?I mean it's good to read, something like this happening to someone! Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingI can understand it from the opposite end. If he is interested in you then talk about this exact thing with him, let him know what you feel. Just tell him that you like him, and maybe hug, he will respond. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Why is it so hard to believe girls like personality?What they mean when they say they like personality is you have other things in place. You're good looking, making good money, job, humour, you need to understand how women think and be able to manipulate them, because they don't want to think, you should be narcissistic, able to play games and ready to dump, and then you have personality, then they will like you. What else are they good at to tell their friends about you? I am fucking this guy because he is rich? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Me too, no success story yet. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Don't take it seriously move on, at least you have a funny story to share. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Whatever move on to the next girl, and don't be angry about he, smile and be friendly It's fine if she doesn't like you back. She still is a person and likes other people. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Should I be worried if I self pity myself and have low esteemThat's common with most guys, even though I have been struggling for years. No answer buddy. Just trying hard to get confidence back. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Sorry for the misunderstanding. There is no time spent together in that entire code thing, what can you do together? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?No it doesn't matter if it's boring to others, do you enjoy it? If yes then ask him to join you, the worst he can say is no. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Ask yourself out of all those what you enjoy most focus on top 2 rest is crap. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?College is just a degree not a career. Unless you are sure what you study is something you love. Even if that's the case, the overall text you will read and write on the test will be lost within a few weeks. Try to keep your debt minimum, go socialize, invest time in things that you really enjoy. Get part time jobs that you are interested in. The goal is to be around good people who you admire. Mentors that's why you are there. Be it your friend professor or co-worker. Someone who you admire. Fi… | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 02:32 PM |
| 14 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Personally I would have started gym and workout way earlier it increased my self confidence and gave me an identity. I would have managed my finances well, like less debt. I shouldn't have missed opportunities to socialize and make friends. If you are a guy, make sure that you have good girl friends don't expect anything from them apart from genuine good, honest conversation. Check your test levels if they are fucked up then you will not feel motivated for dating and sex which will impact your c… | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:30 AM |
| -2 | Encouraging reminder about women's sexualitySounds like fantasy may be true for some guys, good luck to those guys but it's alright. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Spring Break 22Don't go with that expectation you will screw up your trip. Either share your spirit with friends and let them know, they might be supportive and would help you. Or just forget about it for a week and just enjoy time with your friends. Or if you still want to try in spring break go Solo and approach girls, even if you fail no one knows. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Forgot how to make a moveI don't know but shows removed to me. But anyways be confident and go for whatever you want. Good luck 🤞🏼 | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Forgot how to make a moveGreat, happy for you, but why did you remove the post? | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Shy Student, Help NeededGuys understand that if you got balls to talk to girls you still have no right to criticize others who can't do it so harshly that they feel like removing the post. If you are not insecure then just don't reply. If you want to then write something that will help the person, and not to boost your ego. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.Just talk to her, and say you got it totally wrong and it was funny but it's fine. Just try to plan a second meetup. Did you guys talk about what she likes about you or interested in doing things like active Maybe you want to try a new coffee shop, or anything interesting you know that she would like to see? Plan a second meetup, and just spend some time laughing and have fun. Try and keep friendship at least. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.She likes you but might be afraid to do anything wrong, if you want to go for it, you have to be confident about you are not doing anything wrong, she just doesn't want to do it herself. Try again and dig deeper. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Forgot how to make a moveHow good looking are you? 10/10? And 6'? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blueI guess she was feeling low and sent nudes to a couple of dudes and replied to one who she thought sent a better reply and could get what she wanted. Can't be an accident she could have deleted it or said sorry if it was an accident. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | My first approach and afterGreat guy, I feel like doing an approach after reading this. I won't care about the outcome but just to get that fear out of me, I will interact with random girls. Thanks, it was inspiring. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchYeah almost every time! | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend but gave me her numberGreat buddy | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I honestly dont know what Im doing wrong...about to give upSame case brother 28M here. I tried really hard and things got worse for me in life. I am totally clueless, I feel bad for trying. Putting my life at risk for a thing and still no success, no sense of progression. I feel there are really huge mistakes. I stopped trying. I realized that after I became really successful, wealthy and good looking and a lot of other things, learning games, trying. It just feels so fake, like even if I get success or someone likes me, I feel like it's not me. Like ev… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I moved a curl behind his earSomeone is living in heaven! Happy to see it exists for someone. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Living in your own reality is the keyMakes sense, hope that works. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Guys, one of the most important things to women that is never mentioned here is having a HIGH VALUE FRIEND GROUP.Another stupid advice you could get from random guy. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | My top 12 guides I’ve found from Reddit last year to improve faster & attract more girls (2022)This is a lot more useful! | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 36 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?What do you mean by giving signals? 70% of guys have a hard time dating, so they see themselves low. I myself whenever a girl locks eyes with me in the gym or on the street I just assume that she is just looking at random things. I don't have any validation from girls, never been in a relationship. You can't understand how I feel. Whenever I feel that girl is interested and giving signals I feel bad that I can't do anything about it. So many rejections and low self esteem fucked life so hard tha… | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Having male friends is absolutely KEYI am glad that it worked for you, seems like you were just lucky. I have a lot of friends that don't help at all, most of them struggle with dating. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitI think guys like me never feel confident about girls liking them or something like it could happen to them. I guess that's the way it is. Guys who feel confident about it just are present in that moment or feeling that this could happen to them. Life is random and painful. Why doesn't it stop, I mean I just want to accept the fact that it's something not for me and move on and live my life. I am more happy when attractive girls aren't around me or I am not thinking about them. They just make me… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with ageI am feeling low, as usual, your post was something I was looking for. At least there is hope. Best wishes for you man 💙. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 10 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.Its way of connecting with people who are going through similar issues. Sharing some insights, feedback, experiences, positivity and some pain. Whatever its fine if you don't like it you are free to leave. People here feel a sense of connection that's why they are here. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeI mean even if you are not still you don't have an option rather than trying that. I feel I am ugly af but still want to try that not exclusively to get dates or girls but just to make it fair. I mean overall life can't be so unfair. It won't be fair if I don't try. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | [Opinion] Women aren't having a good time dating.I feel that it's too hard to understand women, they have a hard time understanding how they feel and expressing it more difficult. Guys seem to be straight forward most of the time. I just saw a girl dressed in pink in the gym at least 3 guys approached her. She seemed interested in interaction rather than workout. Her gym partner was more focused in workout. Anyways I mean if you have 3 options everyday, even if you consider 90% of guys are crap. Why would it be so difficult to find what you ar… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 0 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Expectations and competition is too high women are picky. Don't blame them for doing that, anyone would do the same if you have options. It's too tough. I can survive as a normal person, eat, work, laugh, enjoy, be creative and live. I mean most manage to do that although it's not a piece of cake it's manageable. Dating is horrible either you are chosen or you suffer. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 3 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!I have been going to the gym and have a postgraduate degree, I read and have a friend circle, family and people at work like me. Travelled 6 countries, creative and sensible person 28 and still sucks. I don't know what's missing | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I land a milf/cougar for a hookup?It's right in the app, in all shortcuts. You should be able to figure that out if you want to fuck. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I land a milf/cougar for a hookup?Just say hi, how are you? Compliment them, listen to what they want, maybe set up a meeting and escalate. I mean if she likes you and wants you then just follow it. Otherwise go along and build connection friendships. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 11:32 AM |
| 6 | How do I land a milf/cougar for a hookup?Facebook dating app. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Getting lots of matches yet no responses on TinderWait buddy have patience, you will get response, you will get link to their snapchat and onlyfans or cashapp soon. Good Luck. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?That's a really great point. More than 90% of men have to qualify themselves for girls, that's the most disturbing realization for me. Girls get to choose, obviously they hold power in game, doesn't mean it's good for them. I guess it's overall in life, things are unfair, that's the game. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?That's life I would choose. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?I mean if girls complain all the time about dating crazy guys, who are narcissistic and toxic. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone, who is doing well in terms of dating. It doesn't matter if you are high quality, it just matters the amount of experience you have. It's like a language, understanding females, once you know it, you can manipulate it, it doesn't matter quality. Just talk to any random dude, most are making good money for themselves, have a healthy life but just lack experience with… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]At one point you start losing hope in late 20s. I attended university until 28, grad program. I lived around campus because of my work and still not success. Its frustrating. Online dating is worst option but if you are inexperienced then it feels impossible to initiate conversation and meet girls in real life. Its difficult, too difficult, and you can not ask for help, its best way to get stamped as looser, you might get some empathy. Things are really difficult if they don't happen in right ti… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Going clubbing alone after casual sexAny updates? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | My first cold approachGreat brother! | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Roommates are having loud sex and I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life. How do I cope?Get studio apartment. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:22 AM |
| 3 | my post about not listening to women's advice was removedBrother what was the advice? Really curious 🤨 | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:09 PM |
| -1 | i am loserI might be to be honest! Let's see | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 03:34 PM |
| -1 | i am loserThings change dude 😎 | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 03:32 PM |
| -1 | i am loserWhy don't you try doing that? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 12 | i am loser😂 sorry dude. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:48 PM |
| -3 | i am loserand you still got laid correct? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:45 PM |
| -15 | i am loserI might have insulted you and was aggressive, but doesn't invalidate what I said, why don't you answer my question? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:31 PM |
| -26 | i am loserDidn't get you, what do you mean? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:28 PM |
| -39 | i am loserYou must be a girl to give that advice. How many guys did you ask out before you got laid? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | i am loserDon't worry dating is hell for most guys. Keep working on yourself and live in hope that things will get better some day, we don't have alternative. Most guys feel they are loosers. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 51 | [deleted by user]I am getting more glances and matches since I started lifting. Its not great, still single but something has improved my confidence as well. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:39 PM |
| 4 | She is rooting for youAlthough I understand it, don't you think these expectations are too much? I myself as person don't know how to make perfect first interaction with someone you are attracted to and are shit scared of approaching? As they get older they accept anything because I guess they learn over period of time that men are not some king of perfection that they expect they as broken, hurt trying to recover and all time in process to make themselves better. At least they get opportunities and options to chose … | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsYou can add note at end: Be single. That's what's going to happen at end if we follow it. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 09:30 PM |
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