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1

No shouldn't... Obviously some men are more desirable than others. Also still missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:34 PM
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You don't know anything about my story and clearly didn't read my post. All I'm getting from your post is that you are the kind of man who asks women out when they're trying to shop for groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:29 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:35 AM
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Uhhh no, 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:57 PM
1

Soooo untrue...sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:50 PM
2

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:20 AM
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<10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:09 AM
1

They don't want old guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:30 AM
2

I'd probs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:26 AM
1

Thank you, I appreciate it. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:22 AM
1

Umm bc I've experienced what's out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:17 AM
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By looking at em
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:38 PM
2

Nope nope nope plenty of non sex god rude guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:35 PM
1

Yeah it's just men are only engaging with the pump and dump and sexual aspects only so I'm trying to get ppl to look at others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:29 PM
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Dude I didn't just post about that tho Yeah you can feel jealous but expressing it is wrong when you initiated a sex only relationship imo Like this guy got so angry and tried to tear me down for flirting with another man. It was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah you're right. I do most of these already honestly, just thought I'd start a conversation and see what some guys had to say. They've focused on the pump and dump one for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:25 PM
0

Try improving your profile
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:17 PM
1

It's only unfair if he expects her to do everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:15 PM
2

😉
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:06 PM
-1

I don't listen to assholes, especially not male ones who say they actively are horrible to women, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:06 PM
1

No honestly, OLD is a sea of trash, try swiping as a woman Oh right okay, I'm further north. I meant to check out hinge, cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:03 PM
7

Dude it's not. Honestly it's not, it's often the less "attractive" guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:00 PM
1

Btw pump and dump is the less likely to thing to happen but men focus on that one. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:53 PM
3

So why are so many women choosing singlehood over the sea of trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:40 PM
1

That's sad for you but OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:39 PM
2

What about other things than pump and dump. Men are only engaging with the pump and dump one and not the others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:39 PM
0

Men need to do better and encourage that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:35 PM
1

Yeah, if you're a psychopath, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:34 PM
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They happen all the time. In fact I've only been pumped and dumped once while all the others have happened multiple times. So that's why you're all focusing on that?? Omg Think I need to make another post then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:31 PM
1

Yeah so you admit being an asshole to women, this post isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:29 PM
-2

Lmfao. Sorry did you say you're fifty odd and in a relationship with two... Girls? Okay young boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:29 PM
2

As I've said to every other guy focusing on what I said about the pump and dump, I mentioned other behaviour not that alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:27 PM
2

Talk about reading way too far into what someone is saying. That's not what I said at alllll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:26 PM
3

I somewhat disagree tbh, especially for men with options. Some guys simply enjoy one night stands. What about all the other points I made? All the men are on here focusing on my 1 pump and dump point and none of the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:08 PM
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I don't think a man has the right to say he only wants sex then express jealousy and anger when I keep my options open, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:38 PM
1

Alrighty thanks for the suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:37 PM
1

I'm literally not encouraging violence you are completely twisting my words here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:36 PM
0

Because they put themselves out there a lot, probably. We don't actively want shit men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:36 PM
3

Yeah probably women will stay single, don't know about straight up wgtow though, probably just not actively date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:35 PM
3

Well I paid for gold at one point on a deal but it made no difference in honesty. From what I've heard it's same on paid apps. If I could pay a lil money to filter the idiots I 100% would
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:33 PM
-1

Dude really. Bit of a difference there. And you don't have to pay for the date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:32 PM
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It's short term thinking. Doesn't work long term and only works very short term for some. And like almost every guy on here that's the focus, I didn't just post about the pump n dump guy but that's all that's getting attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:31 PM
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Oh my lorddd above why are men only focusing on that 1 part No, men actively try to pump and dump women, I've seen it discussed online loads of times. It's conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:27 PM
2

Yeah. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:26 PM
1

I was born to a single mother, sorry I'm genuinely not sure of your point here lol. Most guys have a few kids at most, not 32
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:25 PM
2

Okay, I'll let you off for this one as you at least acknowledge you should act right, which is more than most men on here! Though I did lol at the trash comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:23 PM
3

Yeah, I've been with men who act angry and off with me if I even flirt with other men, even if they want me for sex only. Other women have dealt with similar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:22 PM
3

No we aren't because men don't listen to anything we say but do listen to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:15 PM
3

Yes they are and women are more flexible than men. Even if a woman wants sex she's probably happy to chill and get to know you first, and won't expect anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:11 PM
0

Todd the rod you have literally been giving me rudeness on here so you're not the one to be talking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:09 PM
0

So you are basically saying in your own words you are now an asshole while dating? Then the post isn't aimed at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:08 PM
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That's not what this post is about, feel free to start another thread tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:06 PM
0

We don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:06 PM
-2

Well, maybe I think your argument is shyt too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:05 PM
1

They're not, because I know I don't choose them, but I still have to deal with them. Same goes for women I know, they barely use the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:04 PM
-1

Not to be rude, but this post is not about women wearing makeup or having filters on their pics. If you wish to start a thread on that, feel free
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:01 PM
1

No need to shout, todtherod. And no they aren't, we leave the apps, we leave men all the time, rather than deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:56 PM
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By mistreating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:54 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:54 PM
1

Sorry but as a woman I am underprivileged in society compared with a red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:53 PM
0

Actually yous kinda did imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:53 PM
1

I just don't believe that men send nasty messages to women and get laid, unless they would have anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:51 PM
-1

It's not about effort, it's about being an asshole and the above. If they don't make effort, eh whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:50 PM
2

Quite possibly. The walking penis argument doesn't fly with me but I can see some truth in this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:42 PM
1

Maybe. But ultimately that's agreeing with what I'm saying, I see it as a respect issue, for some reason men are flinging all types of disrespect on dating apps. Some men are also very against having women as friends so it's a cycle imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:40 PM
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I'm so fascinated. I've made posts about several types of man on the dating apps but almost every single guy who's commented is focusing on the "pump and dump" one only. The rudeness goes beyond lack of knowledge though, like come on, we all know that opening with you're fat and need weight watchers is not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:31 PM
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What I meant was why can't men express self control on the dating apps, lol. In my experience, not generally, more when very young/inexperienced. Thats kinda what my post is about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:29 PM
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I see how guys behave online, you guys like never call each other out and actually encourage the worst of the worst. Not all of course, but most keep quiet or encourage horribleness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:25 PM
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These guys aren't successful with me, most of them aren't sucessful at all but continue on. Regardless, a man with standards wouldn't behave in this way, and those are the men I'm aiming at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:24 PM
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Because it affects you also, as women will simply leave the apps and dating altogether. In fact, I believe people should be about to rely on each other to not be abusive or nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:23 PM
0

So you do have self control after all. Why can men not express this on dating apps do you think? I don't think women contribute to the stuff I listed in my OP, no. If we did that stuff, then we'd be responsible for it ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:21 PM
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We simply leave the apps after experiencing bad behaviour. Also, again I'm not just complaining about pump and dump, there's other stuff on the list. It's up to men to raise their bar, I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:20 PM
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Men that are successful with me on OLD don't do any of the stuff I stated. If a man has any standards he won't behave like this. I'm saying men with standards can influence the men who behave badly, or expect women to date less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:18 PM
1

I think some men who are lower level than total predators can be shamed or convinced into better behaviour. We all know men enjoy sex and endlessly hear this about men being motivated by sex only. That doesn't mean men are walking penises or you guys would be unable to hold down jobs as you would be trying to jump everything in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:16 PM
1

Never said you should care about children being sexually abused, or anyone else. I said clearly, it's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:14 PM
1

It's not just men that are looking to get laid only that are the problem. I know many men say horrible things about women to their friends and encourage bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:13 PM
1

I attract all kinds of men, good and not so good. But there are so many online that are like what I described in my post, I spend endless hours getting rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:11 PM
2

They barely use them because they interact with nonstop idiots too. Well that's good that you do call out bad behaviour, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:09 PM
4

So men will still feel this is the best way to get laid, who exactly are they gonna be laying when women stop dating via apps, other men? Anyway look at my post please, I'm not only saying about the pump and dump guys, but everyone is focusing on that only and ignoring the rest of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:08 PM
3

Okay, this thread is about online dating, you're welcome to start your own thread about Gillette ads if you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:05 PM
1

Can we stick to the topic please, you're free to start your own thread on women and dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:04 PM
2

Way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:03 PM
2

Nope, lower standards and get even worse results
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:02 PM
1

Okay, personally I think we all have responsibility to take care of each other in life and stop abuse. I mean that's like saying I don't care about child sex abuse because its none of my business. But it's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:48 PM
0

Not all though. Stuff can also be called out online, I very rarely see happening. More likely to be applause
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:47 PM
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Nope, many women simply give up on apps and dating after a while of putting up with all this, they don't keep sleeping with assholes. Sometimes I think men are not reading my post at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:46 PM
2

The reason male feminists are more likely to be creeps, imo, is that either consciously or subconsciously, they seek out being around feminist women and have a need to appear as the safe man, while actually being predatory. That doesn't mean all men that are open, caring and call out bad behaviour from other guys are creeps and liars. Those men are incredibly sexy and appealing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:44 PM
2

No, I'm saying it's wrong if he expects her to plan everything and take care of him emotionally in a one sided way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:42 PM
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Idk. For me an attractive average guy might have kind of an average face but pretty eyes and good hair, that's what I like. He might be a bit short, average build. Some men are slightly skinny or chubby I'm okay with that as long as he's not overly chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:41 PM
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Most apps dont allow pics now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:40 PM
3

Dont know what one sole is. It's absolutely none of you business who I have sex with, rude to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:39 PM
2

Yeah, we're talking about real stuff and I can think of a hundred RL examples so I know it's true, men can hold other men accountable You guys really care about each others opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:38 PM
3

I'm not sure, from what I'm seeing, more and more women are opting out of dating, sex and babies altogether due to mens behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:38 PM
2

No, if a guy has nice hair and nice eyes I like that. I'm happy to date/sleep with average men if they have those. I'm also happy to date short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:36 PM
0

Sure sex is important but men are still influenced socially to a big degree. The power isn't entirely out of men's hands, and this attitude is part of why women are giving up on men more often nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:35 PM
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How on earth would you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:34 PM
2

I'd say entitlement is an issue in all of it. I don't behave like this regardless of my personal emotions or horniness levels. I find it extemely easy not to be rude to men on dating apps. To the last point, it's not just "fuckzone" I'm happy to keep a man as fwb while I seek other men. But men expect you to be faithful to them while they keep their options open, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:33 PM
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Huh? It's not my choice in guys, just this is what most men online are like, thats reality. I sift through all this nonsense and more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:30 PM
3

So all successful men are misogynists? What of good looking men or successful men who don't follow red pill or misogynist ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:29 PM
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If a man pulls any of the stuff I listed, I don't sleep with him. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Also if that's secretly how all men want to behave, that doesn't say much for men, in honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:27 PM
0

Trust me, men are invested in other men's approval, I'm sure of it and I'm sure it would make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:26 PM
-2

That's too vague for me to understand what you mean, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:25 PM
6

Nope. I have all kinds in my matches, from model good looking to super average. If a really good looking guy messages me crap or pulls crap on me, I don't sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:24 PM
1

If I feel super lustful towards a guy, I'm extra nice to him, not unpleasant! So no, I don't get it. I wouldn't turn nasty if he didn't want me either, maybe cool down at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:21 PM
2

I see posts online all the time about a lack of women on the apps, women not wanting to meet, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:20 PM
2

Yeah but if you're not super successful on the apps, it baffles me why you'd do any of the stuff I stated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:19 PM
2

We do, we simply say to each other get off online dating or stop dating altogether. Then there's less women on the apps. That's all we can do, men have more power to change this as they listen to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:18 PM
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You don't have to be a male feminist, just say to your worse friends, stop being an asshole and treating women poorly Not true, men can easily influence their friends behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:13 PM
1

Well, if men don't call out their friends, people online etc, women will leave the apps and dating altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:13 PM
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In the UK its a mixed bag
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:12 PM
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Hell no, men try to fit in with their friends all the time!! Come on. Have you never seen a group of guys that all dress the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:12 PM
1

Fair, but why answer then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:11 PM
0

I use tinder in the UK. But from what I've heard it's exactly the same on all apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:11 PM
2

That's not what I said at all. Did you even read my post apart from the pump and dump part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:09 PM
2

Ah okay, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:07 PM
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Yes but all those things women face along with the things I listed above. Apart from maybe the dinner, but you can always split the bill if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:06 PM
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Yes, but it's exhausting dealing with abuse and poor behaviour. That's why less women use the apps. It's actually worse having to waste time sifting through all the things I listed in my OP than nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:05 PM
1

Okay I get it, you don't care about men abusing women online. I actually prefer this honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:03 PM
-1

Possibly not, but most don't, that's the whole issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:03 PM
1

Fair enough, I have no issue if you can admit that you couldn't care less about men abusing women. What frustrates me is the lying and the blaming women for men's lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:00 PM
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I was in a relationship with a pretty attractive guy from OLD for over a year, so don't think they're all looking for sex only. I'm not bitter or anything, just want men to be more supportive of women facing abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:59 PM
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Some might be but I suspect a lot of those guys are LARPers. Regardless, when women continue to face abuse, we won't continue dating, so men should stop complaining about their lack of success unless they are willing to support women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:57 PM
1

Well, I can say if men were facing mass abuse from women online, I would call out other women for this behaviour. Obviously men see it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:55 PM
-4

I would just like men to improve their behaviour so I don't have to sift through 100+ idiots to find 1 decent one, while also facing abuse. This would also benefit men, as women would become more active on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:54 PM
1

Men are a lot more honest with other men than women, wouldn't you agree? How are we supposed to know all the dodgy intentions, before we've had a bit of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:53 PM
-4

One other man said to me just now that he wouldn't challenge a friend as it might affect his friendships, so yes, some men do have friends they could be calling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:51 PM
1

Do you also post comments like this when men are struggling to find or meet women via online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:50 PM
3

So you think an opener of someone being fat is a good way to get with women? That says everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:49 PM
-1

I don't care, its more men on the apps for me. Just tiring shifting through so much nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:48 PM
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I hook up with 0 issue. I'm just talking about the vast amounts of nonsense that I have to shift through. You have no idea what my "attractivity level" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:48 PM
1

Well, don't complain about any lack of success on the apps, because this attitude is causing women to leave and not meet men from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:46 PM
1

I'm not just talking about sex, if you look at my post you'll see complaints about the behaviour of men looking for relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:45 PM
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Well in that case, please don't complain if women are unwilling to meet or you find there's a lack of women on the apps, as this attitude is whats caused it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:43 PM
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But these men are often unnecessary nasty, demanding, they lie and so on. I don't think it's accidental or a communication issue, or none of these men would have friends or a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:42 PM
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I'm not sure. It's easy enough to say what you're open to. The behaviour I listed above is different than just this person wants sex or this person wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:41 PM
1

Are you on online dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:40 PM
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Because women will not be active on the apps, and not want to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:40 PM
-3

I'm not in any hurry to meet anyone in honesty. It's just behaviour I've noticed. Some men are friends with people who send stupid messages, they talk shit about women, they encourage pump and dump. I'm just saying to those men who say there's no women on the apps who want to meet - what are you doing to make it a better place for women to be in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:38 PM
0

Well, I just don't see how men can complain about women not using apps or being unwilling to meet them, then. The same guys refuse to call out their friends on poor behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:36 PM
-1

Well, if that's the case, men can't really complain about a lack of women on the apps or women being unwilling to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:35 PM
3

Don't know why you're linking a Gillette ad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:34 PM
0

That may be true, though from what I've heard less women are using them now. However this behaviour seriously discourages women from using them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:33 PM
1

Not sure what you mean by "unaccountable".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:31 PM
0

Well they are leaving in droves, most apps are 2/3 men or 3/4 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:30 PM
0

Sadly I work in a very female dominated area
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:29 PM
3

That's very rude. Sounds like you'd fit in on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:29 PM
1

Are you a woman? I'm not sure, I think men could call out their friends, not encourage bad behaviour online via the likes of r/tinder, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:28 PM
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Are you a woman? It's not easy putting up with the stuff I listed above, it becomes draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:25 PM
6

I don't send nudes in general, and dont give attention if I see red flags. This is just how most men are on the apps, and it causes women to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:25 PM
1

Okay... So if all women leave the apps, what do men expect from the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:24 PM
5

Yes. Results become even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:23 PM
-3

Soo how can men encourage better behaviour? Like calling out their friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:23 PM
4

I've never had a really attractive man message starting off with an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:22 PM
2

Yeah but women leave the apps due to experiencing abuse. It's tiring going on there knowing someone is going to neg you or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:19 PM
4

Online dating isn't more positive for women, that's my point - that's why we leave it and it's mostly men on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:16 PM
1

Thing is, I don't think all of them are that successful. Yet they continue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:14 PM
14

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:13 PM
2

No, I can see these as red flags from experience. I don't get involved with them. However these are the majority of men online
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:13 PM
3

Yes, attractive men are usually more polite, that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:12 PM
3

Right. Well I hope you don't use it then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:10 PM
3

I mean guys that use online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:09 PM
2

I've seen men discuss ways to fake interest in order to pump and dump many times online lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:58 PM
2

Hey, Im not trying to rant just discuss some things I've noticed. Is there a way I could discuss it without it soundy "ranty" and reupload if its deleted? It's hard to say it in a neutral way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:12 PM
1

Yes but if nastiness is their default lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:10 PM
2

I totally agree. Just trying to have discussion on some of these issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:09 PM
4

It's pretty clear to me that some men fake interest in a woman to have one time sex. Many men discuss this. Some want fwb but some just like one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:07 PM
2

Not without experience you can't, especially if you're trying to "give him a chance" like we're told to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:02 PM
2

Actually I'm not picking these men, I have enough experience now to know the signs. That doesn't change the fact that that's how the majority are acting As another poster says, we can't always intuit a dickhead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:59 PM
2

So putting off women doesn't put off women. I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:54 PM
1

Okay, but the reason we leave apps in droves and give up on dating is for these things and more. There's a reason there's more men on apps despite us getting more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:51 PM
1

Maybe, but ghosting is one thing and we deal with it also. Men definitely send more abuse, even look at reddit, you will get the occasional woman being rude but 90% of the time it's men and they even see it as a sport. R/tinder for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:50 PM
2

I think so, but at the same time, theyre hugely entitled. Also, they then say, why do women not even give me a chance, why are women leaving dating and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:35 PM
2

No, I don't see women doing this as much. Otherwise we would be doing this stuff on these apps too, but that's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:33 PM
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How can men expect women to want them when they act this way. All the things I've described are causing women to leave dating apps and dating in real life, in droves I agree some of them are on the apps just to think they got a great zinger in or be rude af
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:28 PM
1

It definitely explains that bullying mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:21 PM
1

True, it would be good for men to read as well, as long as they are not abusing their partners, haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:29 AM
8

Yep, quite a few speeches by Lundy Bancroft on there too. Wish there were more people who understand this issue as well as he does. We really need more men speaking out on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:16 AM
12

Wow. So glad you are now free from his abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 AM
13

Great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:25 PM
23

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:40 PM
50

Absolutely, this book is also very important for people to read to avoid becoming a pawn in the abusive man's game! It helps you recognise abuse everywhere. Glad you find it helpful also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:04 PM
66

Definitely, teenage and any age to be honest. I'm not sure if I fully would've absorbed it as a teenager, but saved me early/mid 20s. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:56 PM
7

👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:56 PM
162

Mental illness doesn't even cause a rampage like this, people still make their own choices. Even if he's depressed and suicidal, he could have killed himself, not a bunch of others including a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:09 PM
7

I can see why you would think that but tbh, I don't see that as a benefit of patriarchy. I would hope men would be helpful and protective towards others without a patriarchal society. Also the times I see men truly protecting women is pitifully rare, and even then usually its more about their own ego as a father, husband or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:37 PM
10

In what way are women protected under patriarchy? Genuine question. I don't see it happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:26 PM
170

"Being angry" when you bring something up is his way of controlling you. You're not supposed to be angry at him, you're supposed to serve him (in his eyes). Only he is allowed to get mad. He doesn't listen because he doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:21 PM
79

I also cum from PIV and average is fine for me but I was with one guy who was smaller than average, I did notice the difference. I think different people need different things, women are asked to put our own needs majorly on the back burner. BTW for us women who orgasm from penetration, that can lead to issues as well, as we end up settling for the lazier lovers who don't really care about us at times - we think the sex is okay with less effort from him. Whereas women who find it harder to orgas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:09 PM
15

Oh my god yes... I'm from a country where therapy isn't really the done thing, but I've definitely experienced this. Ignoring my gut feeling as I'm gaslighted by female family and friends to 'give him a chance' and that 'most men are decent', which led to a bad experience at best or abuse every time. Its so ingrained in us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:24 PM
23

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:30 PM
43

The only thing I disagree with in this is that it's not just a lack of emotional intelligence. It's a lack of respect, where men just ignore their partners when they say they're hurt or angry. Many of them don't care about our basic needs in a relationship, even if that need is "please stop emotionally abusing me". Then are soo shocked when we leave, and try to get back with us for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:27 AM
89

Absolutely. I saw some stats saying that police officers are even more likely to be abusive than average? Scary stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:10 PM
14

My instinct is foul play of some kind here, if not murder. Apparently he's married as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:54 PM
59

Oh yes. Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:56 AM
74

Wow. My ex used to say this all the time. We were in a serious relationship, but he was abusive. He also used this expression about himself, to make out that I was hurting him by not living up to his (entitled, overblown) expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:12 AM
216

So he expected to not get sick from eating something that had previously been shoved up someone's asshole? Excuse me? Aside from anything else, this guy doesn't know what an STI is. A yeast infection is not an STI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:10 AM
3

Wow, that's so funny. I was just thinking of this myself and now I see that others have had the same idea. It would be fantastic if women worldwide could do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:07 PM
83

I totally agree. People are acting crazier since the pandemic in general. I personally have had some horrific experiences with men over the past year or two when things have been opened up, and hearing others stories seems to confirm that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:12 PM
216

Ewww... This romanticisation of abuse has to stop. These men want unconditional love, while they dish out shit and expect women to be grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:25 PM
71

Dying 😂😂 this is too accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:12 PM
21

Did you miss the part where John lennon emotionally and physically abused his wife and child? Whether Yoko is a nice person is irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:18 PM
49

Either way, you're being objectified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:43 PM
554

Exactly - the hatred of women and the desire to degrade us has turned porn into the exploitative thing it is. Sadly it is shaping today's expectations though, in a vicious cycle of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:40 PM
14

Spot on 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:05 AM
141

He randomly mentioned that if a woman is raped it's "her fault"? That's really worrying. Also be careful. This is potentially a threat. Take care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:50 PM
18

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:12 PM
70

If they would still use her, aren't they the desperate and pathetic ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:11 AM
17

This is an excellent point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:23 PM
15

You don't even need a vibrator. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:58 PM
4

This is genuinely what people are saying now. Sites like Cosmo pushing out articles saying a cannibalism fetish is fine as long as there is "consent". See the armie hammer case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:24 PM
7

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:55 PM
22

So true! Often the only power we have is to say no/walk away. So many men just won't listen and put themselves first without compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:42 PM
4

Painfully accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:19 PM
23

I would add: treats women he dates like trash and tries to FWB them with horrible pickup lines instead of taking them on a real date, then wonders why no one want to fuck/date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:29 PM
14

Can't upvote enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:28 PM
15

Is this really what she views as empowerment for women? Pornhub and other popular porn sites are riddled with child porn or imitation child porn, incest, violent rape porn, visit one of these sites for 5 minutes and you will find all of this in seconds. Yet some people deny it till they're blue in the face. They must be profiting somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:22 PM
39

Full of peados. I mean. By societal standards set by men, we're supposed to be hairless from below our eyebrows (with long head hair ofc) and anything else is seen as too masculine. Yet adult women naturally have body hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:02 PM
70

So true. They can put this amount of effort into finding images and videos of women that fit the tiniest preference yet likely make 0 effort into their relationships with women.🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:00 PM
286

Men who make comments like "women don't like sex" are making clear that they don't see women as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:49 PM
59

That's one of the main problems. If you tell a manipulative or abusive man exactly why his behaviour is wrong/hurtful, he's unlikely to change with the next person, but this is very likely to give him more knowledge on how to refine his manipulative tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:12 PM
10

"Alt right caricature of feminism" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:57 PM
24

Wow...the fact that she says her oldest knows the routine better than her husband so she will remind him. Her oldest is a 6 year old daughter. Is this what she wants to teach her daughters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:29 PM
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