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SnooCupcakes9990/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:19 PM
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Sexual Market Value
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:35 PM
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Even as a RedPill guy, I can tell you women do not hit the wall between the ages of 25-30 lol. The only thing is that women tend to lose more SMV after 30 because men and women have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:38 PM
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So it's easy for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:36 AM
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I don't need anyone, lil bro. I'm educated with a good career, I keep fit by going to the gym every day, I have lots of hobbies, I make my own income... My standards are actually low. No one overweight and no single moms. The rest is personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:02 PM
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Well, guess what? i don't think they are on my level, and only I can make that conclusion, no one else. Have you thought that perhaps they can also overestimate themselves? lol 😆 Meh, I can live a happy life without them, I've been doing just fine 🙂 Kinda hilarious, tho little bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:30 PM
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100% ragebait post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 PM
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These women are not on my level. Wtf is this shit? Most women just think they are on a higher level than most men until their 30s, and then the game flips. I
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:35 PM
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You are right, I realized that i did not explain myself properly. What i meant is: Women should be okay with being direct with men by telling them they don't do casual sex unless they want more. If you aren't clear, then you can't blame the other person. You have to blame both. Women should also not treat men who are straightforward about their intentions badly. Their is nothing wrong with wanting just sex. It's a human need. If we acted this way, this would be less of a recurring event. I recen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:51 AM
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I didn't say women are deceitful at all. I replied to the OP posting explaining why men can be deceitful and given a reason as to why, a valid one as well. If men weren't treated this way for being straightforward, then maybe their wouldn't be a reason for them to be dishonest and deceitful. You want a behavior to change, well make sure you don't contribute to the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:27 AM
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I didn't reply to him after, did I? I just called him out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:22 AM
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This is pointless because you're just deviating everything when I quoted you many times and explained my perspective to your comments. This is also a very good reason why men shouldn't invest their time and efforts into women before having sex. It also proves why men should follow the RedPill, saying "sex before love.""
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:21 AM
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So i guess it's okay for me to call some women whores or sluts because they shouldn't care what i have to say anyways eh? Is this the direction we are going as a society? It's okay to treat people badly because we won't see them again. Just be a good person and say "I don't do hookups, or I am looking for more." It is so simple and genuinely kind. If you act like man are deceitful towards casual sex but then turn around, treat them badly when they are opened about it. You are contributing to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:07 AM
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I am not making it complicated, I am just trying to explain why men would act like this by showing the alternative if he doesn't. You can't just complain about men being deceitful when you encourage that behavior by your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:03 AM
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Haha, you couldn't be more wrong, but go ahead. Is this the lies you tell yourself to avoid accountability or reality? Trust me, I ain't obsessed with you and couldn't care less because I don't you. But I call the truth the way it is. I guess maybe it's based on my personal experiences of being lead on by women (which is truly a fucked thing to do to a men) Don't say women aren't shallower when in fact they are exactly like men. They sleep with guys they find attractive even when not compatible.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:01 AM
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Nah, I know people like him very well. I have never meant someone in my life that as said, but"respect is earned, not given" to be a good genuine person. They are assholes who won't take accountability for their behavior and change to become better people. You should respect everyone until they prove you otherwise. I guess you don't like good genuine people in your life based on your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:53 PM
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Nah, I know people like him very well. I have never meant someone in my life that as said, but"respect is earned, not given" to be a good genuine person. They are assholes who won't take accountability for their behavior and change to become better people. You should respect everyone until they prove you otherwise. I guess you don't like good genuine people in your life based on your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:53 PM
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Lol, I wouldn't be in your dating pool. Don't worry. By what i read today, you're the type of girl to hook up with but not date. How can I make that assumption? Well, the fact that you hook up with guys without them putting effort because of their attractiveness tells me you don't value yourself and you are not high value. A high value woman doesn't just do hookups with men because they are attractive only. These men need both and need to actually show her she's worth the effort. If any girl tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:31 PM
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Okay, but when I do not lie about it, I am called a pig, I only see women as sex objects, or I am a pervert. So what is a guy supposed to do then? If he's honest, he gets insulted, and if he's not, he's viewed as deceitful. I don't care that they give to me or no. I do care the way they reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:24 PM
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So you believe that if I make my intentions clear that I only want sex from a woman, that I am considered a pig...ect But then you come here and say men are not straightforward in their sexual intentions. Geez, I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:09 PM
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So yes, women are as shallow as men and care about looks more than they say they do. Thanks for confirming it. Please stop saying you care more about personality than looks when you do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:07 PM
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The fuck? Are you mentally well? So because you believe respect is earned, you get to be disrespectful? Get the fck out of here, I can already tell you're a POS by your comment and won't entertain you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:06 PM
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There is a way to make your preference known without insulting or berating others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:51 PM
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If that were true, why, when I am straightforward with women that I only want sex i am called a pig, a pervert and i only see women as sexual objects and not humans Care to explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:45 PM
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I want to ask women here. Why do you think that is the case? Could it be that women are misleading and aren't forward about their preferences? Maybe because women are also deceitful?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:29 PM
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So guys that you are attracted to but not compatible with, don't have to invest their time and efforts to have sex with you? But the guys that you are attracted to and compatible with have to invest more into you for you to sleep with them? Why tf would a guy in their right mind be the second one when the first gets you for nothing? This is exactly why I do not invest in any girls until we hook up first. I can't trust them. At least when we hook up, I know that she's into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:24 PM
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Oh alright, my bad, I understand now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:19 PM
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I'll end this on what you first said before I replied, particularly this line right here. "Women care about a lot more than just looks - how does that make us the shallower gender, exactly?" What did you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:14 PM
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" The fact that divorce rates are higher for people in their 20s is the biggest proof." Yes, it proves that looks are more important than personalities because it that was the case, the divorce rate would be lower. Ffs why rhe capping 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:57 PM
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Bruh, I just quoted you, lol You say women aren't shallower and selective in personality. Except you contradict yourself by saying you fuck men who you find attractive but aren't compatible. Which, in other words, means you ain't selective in personality like you say your truly are. If you were, you wouldn't have admitted that you fuck man that are attractive but not compatible with you. Idk how clearer can I be at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:49 PM
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No quote eh? I choose to fuck men based on whether I think they're attractive Not others I also don't subscribe to notions of "better personhood" I'm either attracted to you and compatible with you, or I'm not If you're attractive but not compatible, you qualify for casual If you're attractive and compatible, you qualify for dating Who wrote that me or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:42 PM
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No, you can be contradicting by what you are saying and what you are doing. Like i said, if you didn't find a guy attractive but he had a great personality, would you fuck him or date him? You probably wouldn't be based on your replies. You just won't admit it. It's okay if that's case, nothing wrong with that. Just stop pretending personality is everything when you fuck guys you're attracted too without be compatible with, because that is being contradicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:40 PM
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It's not about they way you said it. It's the meaning of your words and how they are perceived. You keep contradicting yourself but playing with words. Like I said, personality matters when you are attacted to these guys? If you aren't, you don't hookup with them or date them...correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:02 PM
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''I choose to fuck men based on whether I think they're attractive Not others'' LIKE WTF??? Did someone else write this and you did not know about it? I mean others have told you, you are conflicting yourself, not just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:15 PM
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I used your own words and even copied and pasted them. Like unless someone else is typing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:13 PM
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''And being more selective obviously isn't just about looks'' So what you mean is if a guy is very attractive but an asshole he does not need to pass these ''selective test'', according to this and your previous comment. ''Unless you're trying to seriously argue that men don't care at all about looks, women also caring about looks doesn't make us shallower than men'' No, but the difference is that men are straightforward about it. We do not go around saying to less attractive girls personality m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:11 PM
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Oh really now? lets see. ''Women aren't shallower'' ''Women care about a lot more than just looks - how does that make us the shallower gender, exactly?'' ''And obviously women are more selective.'' ''I choose to fuck men based on whether I think they're attractive'' Here you go, your own words, not mine. Now let me fix it for you and actually be honest on your behalf. Women are as shallow as men and care about looks. Women also care about looks as they wont consider a guy based on his personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:47 PM
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Sounds like more of a compliment if you qualify for casual then. I wouldn't have to put efforts and id sleep with you without commitment. This is what women do not understand where we come from. And also you just confirmed looks before personality. You do not fuck men based on personality over looks. My entire point as been proven. Is it hard to just be accountable and just say it how it's supposed to be said? If you are attractive and have a great personality, you qualify for dating If you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:37 PM
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Have you ever chosen a guy who was less conventionally attractive but a better person then a guy who was attractive? That means hookups too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:05 PM
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When we speak on this forum, we call agree that we speak on the majority of women or men. How do we know? Well social media, online dating, online dating statistics, marriage and divorce statistics, articles, personal stories and Reddit, the amount of stories I see on Reddit showing the oppose it of what you say, is enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:01 PM
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OP do not listen to these advice. Honestly most women won't admit it. The best way to get a real answer is too not listen to what they say, but look at what they do. Its like women who say ''I would date a short guy'' meanwhile they have been seen only dating taller men. Like bruh common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:50 PM
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When I read these comments I get so confused on why women keep saying looks don't matter as much as personality. If you all could stop capping, that would solve so much issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:49 PM
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Holy shit, listening to this women makes me want to jump off a bridge. She must of been burned really bad to talk like this. I think she's one of those that keeps getting hurt by dating shitty guys and doesn't realize her mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:43 PM
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If the manosphere was so wrong about this, why do we keep seeing it happen all the time and why are we even having these conversations? I often think some people like to live in disbelief from reality, but the reality is that these questions and these discussions are taking place because it is actually happening to many men,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:41 PM
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Why are we downvoting OP for asking a question? Like for real, lol
/r/seduction05/03/25 11:01 AM
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I read all this expecting to learn something, and I came out learning absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:07 AM
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I have oily skin, so I'll stay looking younger for a while
/r/seduction28/02/25 04:40 AM
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This is why you never stay in a relationship where the sex is bad or non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 AM
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Overweight is not average, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:40 AM
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Theirs nothing wrong with dating a 3/10 guy when you are a 3/10 girl yourself ☺️☺️☺️☺️
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:01 AM
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Same can be said for the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:30 AM
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So an average guy should just commit to this girl knowing that she always wanted these hot guys and we're fucking them 🙄. Seems oddly depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:28 AM
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Stop capping 😒 I see it every day. Hell, we have two girls in our friends group going thru this right now. They know the guy doesn't want to date or have more than sex, then they cry how they are the victims. Nope, it doesn't work with me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:27 AM
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Yeah like 1% if you're lucky aren't willing g to Only fuck them. Assuming the girl is very hot herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:25 AM
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The key word her is "wanting to bone you." Yes, men are more horny, but that doesn't mean they will date you. Most of the time, we hear moaning about this, or some guys allow themselves to he settled with women who clearly never wanted them over these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:23 AM
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Cool, so if I am an average looking guy is it okay if I don't want to commit and just want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:37 PM
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How are these hot, fun men 100% honest? Would you say the same if it was average looking men who would be 100% honest to have fun without committing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:22 PM
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That looks matter and stop downplaying it. You always make it look like it's all personality, but most of you wouldn't even dare to give a chance if it wasn't for looks. Or you give sex away so easily to good-looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:17 PM
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I am starting to see this, and I am almost 30. I am rarely attracted to women my age or over. I also don't want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:38 PM
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They honestly don't get that we are mad at the lies. Be honest and take accountability. That's it! I don't like overweight women. I ain't afraid to say it and I'll stick by it. Like be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:12 PM
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"The average woman is more attractive than the average man," Correct until their 30s. That's why men date younger women when they are at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:09 PM
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I didn't call anyone a liar. I simply challenged the notion of "high standards." And explained why I challenged it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:05 PM
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It's good that you know what you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:54 PM
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I'll try to make it simple for you. We are talking about standards, specifically women having high standards. If that was the actual case, single motherhood would not be so high right now. Allot of these women say they have standards or they only go for this or that, but clearly for allot of them what they say, isn't true, because we have an abundance of single mothers. Either the standards are flawed, or we are being fed lots of BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:53 PM
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Good, and I agree, men should, too. So i shouldn't be looked bad for not dating single mothers or overweight women. Those are some of my standards. It's great that our generation and those after us will live without families or relationships because of "settling for mediocrity. That's why I am approaching my 30s and having money, getting physically fit, educated, and having a good career...ect. I won't settle for less either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:48 PM
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No, both comments are separate completely. Trust me, if the 1% applied to single mothers, their wouldn't be as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:39 PM
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The problem is if those standards are only good for 1% of men And if you all have standards, what's the problem with the abundance of single mothers all over the place? Shouldn't good standards prevent that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:21 AM
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Just curious, did these preferences apply before you were married or found this men to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:27 PM
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Hit the nail on the coffin buddy. I honestly do not care if that's the case, I just hate the gaslighting and lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:23 PM
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I have learned throughout my experiences that this is a load of crap. The amount of women that chase and fall for fck boys or the best looking man while getting pass around and mistreated as shown me that this couldn't be more far from the truth. I just wish the gaslighting and dishonesty would stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:21 PM
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Yes! But finding excuses towards rejecting good guys is better than taking accountability for the decisions we make. Bad boys have the worst motives. I have zero sympathy for girls who date bad boys, and it goes wrong. This is your own doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:28 PM
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You lost all credibility at "bro's fucking Canadian" Didn't bother reading the rest of whatever you were spewing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:26 PM
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Zero apparently
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:29 AM
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Oh, hell, nah 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:48 PM
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So, if someone can not control something, they are considered a low level man automatically? And if that's the case, why are we blaming men for being low level or incels when clearly it isn't their fault? If they are unattractive, they are already considered low level no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:22 PM
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That's true. If I am pursuing a woman and I learned that she had dated many of those guys, i am yeeting the he'll out of there. A woman dating these guys is never a good sign and shows a lack of good decision making, which in return could have a big impact on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:06 AM
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He actually did, but you being a women wouldn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:46 AM
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He's right. Men should choose better and stop being desperate. I'm not sure what's wrong here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:45 AM
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We dont need to ask. The truth always comes out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:42 AM
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That's why you should never settle and just keep improving yourself. I think a lot of the younger men in my generation are doing this. I am at 30, and in my 20s, I guessed I must have been considered a "low level man" (even if i don't believe it). I was working my ass off, not doing any crimes, getting educated, and planning for my future, but that makes you a low-level man today. So now at 30, I dont see how a relationship would make me happier or why should I settle and be miserable. I just wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:41 AM
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This is spot and exactly why I don't feel like dating or trying at the age of 30. Took me a while and lots of pain too notice this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:23 AM
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Nah, man, I can't have standards in 2025 Only women can, and they are so good 70% of them end up in divorces Hence, why at 30, I totally gave up on women. Hit the gym, travel the world, invest, and just do what I want. The older I get, the less interested I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:53 AM
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I'll keep trying. It is what it is. But I kinda figured it out she wasn't interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:37 PM
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Actually, one. This was her reply. "Lol, thanks," There's not much to play here to keep the convo going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:31 AM
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Yes, i know. But I am from Canada, which is the complete opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:28 AM
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Trying. I've been hitting the gym almost every day to get in shape. I also feel that if I am going to put so much effort into improving, I want a girl to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:12 AM
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I have a large group of friends, and most of them keep telling me my personality is one of the best. They are all surprised why I am still single and they don't understand. I've asked tips, and no one can answer. I have no problem with women having preference, I have a problem with them denying it and gaslighting like its the men not having personalities or something else. I see guys who have the emotional maturity of a 10 year old with adhd and have zero personality get girls. Guess what? They …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:57 AM
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Try being 5,4ft. You are the death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 AM
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No, they like men's who throw tantrums for any other reasons and can't control their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:02 PM
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Never seen so much. Capping in one statement. Every statistic proves otherwise... but please go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:31 PM
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The gym is one place I wouldn't risk it and approach a girl. They are already on high alert, and their has been so much social media post about this. It's not a good idea. Go look at Joey Swoll. His page will explain everything I just mentioned. Unless the girl approaches me, I ain't risking it at the gym out of all places.
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:11 AM
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Exactly! I'll stay single for life before I even attempt that. I can only imagine how miserable and bitter I would be in a relationship where I was an option or a fall back guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:21 PM
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I have seen many posts on this page, but this is by far the most accurate and honest posts ever. This is exactly what is happening. Hence why I am no longer emotionally invested in women, I just don't care anymore. They will never admit this, but statistics and social media will show it. Most guys should just give up! I no longer chase women and I am so confident and happy now. If I try to get one and she does not reciprocate, i stop right away. Took me awhile and allot of painful experiences to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:05 AM
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That is why I started going to the gym everyday, becoming less patient and nice, not playing around with girls I am attracted too, I refuse to be friends with a girl who rejected me to protect myself. I do not care about dating anymore and I am way more picky in personality. Before id date at least 80% of girls I knew, now barely 20%. I am being more assertive and less patient. The red pill helped me, not the one that hates on women, but the one that actually helps men become more assertive and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:49 PM
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Only problem, is girls expect so much more from the 2nd type of guys but won't remotely give anything back like they do for the first guy. I can't even count the amount of times ive seen this. It hurts and it's frustrating. Hence why I no longer care about finding a girl approaching my 30s. As I keep improving myself, I want a girl that also is improved and most women are not in their 30s if you look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:41 PM
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Its weird because every single girl I am friends with and even those in my friend group, keep wondering why I am single. Truth is I get no attention from girls romantically, but they all want to be my friend because of my personality. If women cared more about personality, I highly doubt id be in my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:38 PM
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So allot of guys are too good for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:36 PM
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This is why I think body count matters. I rather be single forever then being a guy she ''settled'' for because she got tired of giving in to the hotter guys and now wants something stable. Nobody wants to be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:26 PM
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I will stop you right at the first sentence. Refusing to date/have sec with ''shitty men''. That is completely false by so much. It's the opposite today actually, most women will have sex, give attention and date shitty men because they show ''confidence'' traits. They won't even acknowledge or give a slight of a chance to the good guy with good values that actually wants a real relationship and want to pour their heart out for said women. Why? Well because women have been thought throughout the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:54 PM
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It just sucks being on the leftover of all that. Knowing your girlfriend or wife slept with so many guys and then chose you because she was tired of it all. It doesn't sit right with me. I would rather be single than in a relationship knowing this. I don't want to be a backburner option when they get tired of being played around and had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:22 AM
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Every woman is different. My sister got in a serious relationship young, and now they're married. I'd say by experience that the smart ones with a good upbringing with a good family tend to make good dating decisions. Again, this view has been my personal experience throughout my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:51 PM
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That's the part I fail to understand, too. A lot of them will be at the end of their 20s after having lots of failed relationships with shitty guys. I know, because I have lots of female friends and I hear about it all the time. It's constantly on repeat. Same mistakes, same type of guys, they know it isn't good, but they still do it. Until they had enough, but most decent guys will be gone or not interested by then, so they'll have to settle for a guy they don't really want. At my sister's wedd…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:38 PM
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No, it's because of hypergamy and lots of options they have in their early 20s. Trout me, if they went for average guys, they wouldn't be let go in their 30s. The only issue is that the average guys tend to glow up in their 30s when they have good careers and other stuff, and they they're no longer interested in these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:04 PM
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I ain't in that culture then 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:02 PM
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Try 2 years. Not that I actually put any effort into pursuing hookups, thought
/r/seduction23/11/24 07:46 AM
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You guys get to talk to women on dating apps? I have more chances of chatting with the locals at the cemetery...
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:31 AM
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It's not because they refuse to be simps that they are broke. I was a simp for long and it got me nowhere. Now my money I spend it on myself.. You're the dummy buying these girls' drinks for nothing.
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:58 PM
0

WWIII is coming, it will be over soon...
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:56 AM
1

Welcome to my life. I am approaching 30, and I have lost all interest in women or dating them. I've been hurt so much that I want to avoid falling in love now. I do not trust modern women. I actually don't even pay attention to them anymore. I used to go out of my way to be there for them, and it slapped me in the face so many times. Now, I only focus on myself and can't care less. I know so many other guys like me So good job to these women for making guys become emotionally unavailable today, …
/r/seduction08/03/24 04:44 AM
2

Don't want a virgin either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:49 AM
0

This! Say it louder for the people in the back and the blue 💊 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:28 PM
4

"Who cares about her past?" lol When you get a loan of any sort, what do they check? Your past financial statements and spending. Why do they do it? To analyze the risks of having the loan default or suffering consequences. Same thing here, her past determines the type of person she is and the choices she can make. It determines the risk of getting hurt, cheating on, divorced, or other events. If you can't see that part, have fun divorcing, fighting for custody, or being in a sexless marriage wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:25 PM
1

Well, obviously, that would make most guys feel like they aren't desired. Do you want to wait for sex suddenly? It's not a problem. I'll see other girls meanwhile, and we can split the bill on dates. I am sure that ONS guy must have given so much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:20 PM
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You're not complaining particularly, but I have never meant a woman who hasn't. That's precisely why i have given up on women. I just end up being discouraged and bitter. I accept that I may be single forever, and I refuse to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:38 PM
0

What you said is perfectly true. But please don't come complain about it. Like someone who eats junk food all the time and complains of their fat or has cavities. Women treat men like they are disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:30 PM
0

Great, but we're no longer caveman, and we haven't been for thousands of years. If that's the case, then I don't want to be an option or back burner... So go ahead and go for these guys, but for the love of God, stop complaining about the choices you girls have made. I think that's where men are pissed. It's the constant complaining when their are so much better, and you girls refuse to even acknowledge them because of your "primal instinct." "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:06 PM
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If that was the case, explain why we have so many single mothers? Not only are their offspring without a father to provide for the child, but they now have created a situation where their offspring have a huge disadvantage in life from financial, social, health, and psychological. Explain why women constantly complain about their exes and past relationships? Seems like they have a bad idea of what a high value man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:16 PM
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Because women are having sex with the top 20% of men who are also having sex with lots of these women. It's time for men to have standards and not accept girls with this kinda of behavior, bad choices and past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:58 PM
0

Women have higher standards than men in general, so they shouldn't even speak on this topic. Their standards are unreasonable and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:10 PM
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I usually judge them based on the type of guy they sleep with or give in. It speaks a lot about them and their type of choices, especially when they complain after, I am having none of that. If you have a pattern of choosing shitty guys, then I strongly believe me, and you won't be able to make it work. I was raised with good values, and I am very caring. This I do to protect myself from being hurt or being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:03 AM
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Yes, I will not accept being settled for. Just the thought of waking up every day knowing my significant lover isn't that much into to me is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:12 AM
1

So anyone under average height to you is automatically below average? I disagree but fair enough. I wonder what is an average women to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:07 PM
1

You must be good looking cause most guys never get near this in a life time.
/r/seduction02/02/24 12:21 PM
1

Damn since I am short, I guess I am automatically below average. Doesn't matter if I work out or have everything else, lol A bit far fetched but alright...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:59 AM
1

Then they complain that their is no good man or all of their exes are narcissist and abusive. Please spare us the lies...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:28 AM
2

Lots of single mothers without the dads in their lifes looking for simps to take over. Allot of men will have AI girlfriends or dolls as technology will be so advanced. Pretty much the dating market right now but much worst....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:13 AM
2

I am short, so thats the only physical thing working against me the most. For some reason height is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:29 AM
5

Damn I have all of this, but I get "I only see you as a friend." Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:03 AM
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It's a sad world when being an asshole gets you girls. I better never hear any women as "Where are all the good guys?" Like STFU, you pushed them away, now deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:23 AM
1

This is a way for women and their enablers to not take accountability for the choices they make in man. Find someone to blame it on. Let's do it on the "nice guys" because we can't possibly blame those we sleep with. They talk like the guys they choose to hook up with, and that leave them hanging. They wanted more than sex. If that's not true, why aren't you with them? Where are they now? They need excuses to avoid taking accountability. Let's blame the nice guys. I am at a point in my life. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:23 AM
3

So basically your dad is being used and settled for? Damn my worst fear in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:04 PM
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Yea, except we were no longer apes, and we are civilized now. Nobody gave you the memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:57 AM
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We aren't, not in this generation. We should learn to be happy and accept being single. Work on yourself and never accept being an option or settled for. The majority of women will either be forced to settle for less because they took too long and were too busy trying for guys over their league, or they will be bitter in their 30s and single. Their is actually a research that states that by 2030, most women will be single and childless. It's time for man to not accept being settled for and be ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:30 AM
1

Men need to start sticking together and stop simping. Their is more at stake here then we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:18 PM
6

In my short life of 28 years I have learn this with women, - They want the sweet, attentive, caring and good guy, but will choose the opposite over him. (What they say, it the opposite of what they do) - They will never take accountability for their choices or actions, and I mean it, I have never meant a single women who has, this includes colleagues, siblings, friends and my god damn mom. - The more you care about them, the more they will run away. I have been discarded over another guy who end…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:16 PM
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Muscles matter, looks matter, but without personality it doesn't go far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:16 PM
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How would you feel if you were used by someone just for something? To know that the person you're in love with was never into you in the first place? Just the thought of it makes me sick, I couldn't be in a relationship knowing this. That being said, for me, I choose to stay single because the other alternative is painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:24 PM
3

Its not that the value increases for men, its in fact proven that they reach peak value in their late 30s vs women in their late 20s. Women will start declining in SMV after 26 while allot of men will start peaking at 30+. That being said, if you are a man that does not take care of himself, you will not peak. I am way more attractive then I was in my early 20s and I get more attention from women because I worked on myself. Not fully done but getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:41 PM
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I have a big problem with the settling down thing. If I worked on myself in my early 20s and was not attractive back then to them, why should I accept to be settled down for, for someone who as not put as much effort as I did? It seems like a bad deal for me, I am leaning to remaining single by choice and just following my dreams of traveling the world with my pups. I couldn't be in a relationship bitter knowing that she only is with me for stability and all the other guys she had back then. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:36 PM
6

In all honesty, women focus heavily on looks in their 20s, so I think it's fair that men do a bit of the same in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:04 PM
2

You are not wrong. But if we can't participate, we don't want one who did. She should find another guy who was part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:34 PM
1

You're all over the place, bud! I won't take advice from a guy who sees women as sexual objects and is obsessed with reddit porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:26 AM
5

You literally told the guy that he got his feelings hurt because he doesn't want to invest more in a relationship if others won't reciprocate. I mean, it's called personal boundaries. Learn them. The common sense is out with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:31 AM
11

Nah, I see it more as respecting myself and being treated with respect. If you like being used, then by all means go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:27 AM
10

I think he's telling you that you should allow yourself to be used like he gets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:07 AM
9

Well, women love the guys that spin them around, so they become like that. If women took accountability for the choices they make in men, this would completely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:05 AM
1

So if we are not worth casual sex, what are we worth? Being used for stability in a sexless marriage? Seems depressing just too think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:36 PM
0

No one is stopping you from wearing heels but yourself. I am a 5,4ft guy and if you wanted to wear heels id walk in public right with you and I wouldn't've give two fucks if they looked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:37 AM
10

Well, honestly, when you were younger, I am sure you were very picky. So far, all the girls I know at my age (28) they only care for looks. They couldn't care less if the guy is a player or an asshole as long as he's good looking. If you average looking or short, then good luck, straight in the "friends" section, while they screw these hotter guys. They get mad when you refuse to just he friends and be a pawn for them. I can no longer see women the same way as before. I do not trust them and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:23 AM
2

Well, honestly, when you were younger, I am sure you were very picky. So far, all the girls I know at my age (28) they only care for looks. They couldn't care less if the guy is a player or an asshole as long as he's good looking. If you average looking or short, then good luck, straight in the "friends" section, while they screw these hotter guys. They get mad when you refuse to just he friends and be a pawn for them. I can no longer see women the same way as before. I do not trust them and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:23 AM
1

You should also note, that women your age back then were not as shallow and cold as women today. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:31 AM
0

Isn't what most women do in their 20's? They chase all the high value man? If you are so worried about misogyny or wtv you say, have you looked into dating or sleeping with average looking or short men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:28 AM
2

Hookers or divorced losing everything...make your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:24 AM
2

No, we can not normalize women being as beautiful as 20 something girls because it's unreasonable and unrealistic. How about we normalize women going for shorter guys before?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:32 AM
1

Damn man, you couldn't have wrote it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:00 AM
2

So basically, we average men are being settled for and just used. God damn, every day I live, I can't see any good reasons for dating anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:58 AM
3

Any woman who says their is no go men should he avoided at all cost. They must be terrible at making decisions and seeing opportunities. This will cost you long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:40 AM
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Blackpill, redpill, bluepill and all these other pills exist for a reason. People have to stop denying that what some of these communities are saying aren't true. If it was not true, these communities would not exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:50 AM
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The realistic solution, is to give up, you will just drain yourself and go into a hard depression. Use that energy to workout and improve your physic, use that energy to learn new skills and get better at something, use that energy to find ways to improve your income, use that energy into your hobbies. And no matter what, never settle as this will just bring bitterness and the girl will never love you as much as you think. Keep improving yourself and only accept women who do the same. If no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:48 AM
1

Stop capping 😒 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:19 PM
2

Here we go with the M word. I won't even debate with you since you pulled that card.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:04 PM
3

And my bad, I was actually better... Worked on my career, got more educated, work on myself physical, financially and emotionally throughout the years and now I am supposed to accept a women that has done the opposite, given her best years to others who are no longer around and receive less in return? How would you like to be in that position? I choose single for life before I even accept being settled for or settling for less! If she can't offer that, then their is absolutely nothing she can of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:01 PM
2

If their level is so fucking good, why not stick with them? Seem odd to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:46 AM
0

Nah, I want the fun from the 20s, the same fun she offered all these other guys... if I can't have that, then what is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:33 AM
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Not true because biologically, men have a glow up in their early 30s. They reach their attractiveness peak at the end of their 30s. It's been long proven that men age better than women. Why do you think their is so much business's in botox, nails, beauty...ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:26 AM
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Yep, because most women peaked in their 20s. Those who were smart are now married and in stable relationships. You're dealing with the leftovers, or as we like to say, "career women" This is why, for men, it's a disadvantage to be in a commitment relationship in your 30s. Men age better than women, and that proven biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:21 AM
0

I once never had any problems with a woman's autonomy in my life. I think every human should be given the same opportunity and chance in life. But I guess I am a misogynist now because I struggle in dating, too? Don't we love blaming everyone and everything to avoid any sense of responsibility for our choices and actions? No, most men aren't dating and struggling because the majority of women today have delusional requirements while offering anything of the same value. In fact, they will cheat a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:24 PM
2

Nope, it's not. I have lots of friend girls and boy friends. My good-looking male friends have hundreds of choices in their DMs. But hey, let's pretend it doesn't happen, so it makes us feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:15 AM
1

You may be right, but it's also the one that puts you in the most vulnerable positions and also the most miserable ones. The big issue is that you stick by her while she's sleeping around with all these men that couldn't care enough about her. And suddenly when she is less attractive, she comes for you. It seems like you are being used and are just a second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:54 AM
-1

A fairytale involves something not true or realistic. Unfortunately to many men have seen it happen to be not true or unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:08 AM
-1

Focusing on their careers and riding the chads. That's what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:04 AM
2

Or those man could work on themselves too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:11 AM
2

Pretty simple, If man raised their standards and actually kept them, women would have to be making different choices to meet these standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:07 AM
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Simple answer, because lots of women are dating the same guy who's in the top 10% of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:35 PM
2

Wow! That is the best answer I have read so far. You go well into details and actually question things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:51 PM
1

You are right. I'll give you that. What do these girls have to offer me now that I don't have? Are they still attractive? How's their personality? I don't care about their money, I can earn that on myself. As long as they worked on themselves and made good choices, then I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:50 PM
2

I believe it, haven't found them yet. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:47 PM
3

Ah, the classic answers to not holding yourself accountable. Do what you want, but allot of guys aren't gonna be interested. What is husband material? A guy you can use and not be attracted to and make him beg for your attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:46 PM
-1

This guy is insane and Argentina just did a huge mistake.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:15 PM
1

I had had to stop reading after the first paragraph as how infuriated I am. Do the men a favor and fck off! Every time i see a post like this, it reminds me why being single is such a great thing in today age and why I'll never date a single mom. It's exactly proven my point. They make bad decision and are a liability. Poor guy :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 09:05 AM
3

If what you say is true, why are a lot of women sleeping around with guys that are players and couldn't care less about them. It makes no sense 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:54 AM
5

That doesn't mean I have to accept a girl who only wants to settle with me. I want love, not to be a back burner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:42 AM
5

Except most girls my age or over 30 don't have what I want, I want a girl with values, who didn't sleep around with deadbeats being young, has emotional intelligence and takes care of herself physically. I go to the gym everyday so I think it's fair. And most men become pickier as they get older because they have achieved more in all other aspects (Men that actually worked on themselves) What can a 30 years old women who's less attractive then she was at 25 offer me now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:30 AM
0

I'll call bullshit on that. If they are trash then they wouldn't be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:06 AM
1

But to have value, one must also have value themselves. And looks are what is valuable in women. As a man, I don't care about your money, education, or social status, I can achieve that all by myself. I care about your values, personality, and looks. If she slept around and kept dating careless men, then her values automatically don't combine with mine. Nobody wants to be a back burner and that applies to any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:06 AM
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You hit the nail on the coffin, my man! I wasn't pursued being younger, started working allot on myself every day, and achieved more success in finance, physically and emotionally. I refuse to be a fallback for a girl. I choose single for life before that any day. How would they feel if they would be treated that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:02 AM
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No, because most young women wouldn't even be able to see what's good if it was standing right in front of them. And your logic makes no sense, those man that hooked up with them and left them behind, I guess they were good? Truth as a man, I get pickier as I get older, I also worked on myself so much, I want equality, or else I am staying single. You had your chance and didn't make the right choice, stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:59 AM
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NO, the career excuse is completely bullshit. They made wrong choices, and now they cry about It. If it was the career, then they wouldn't have been dating anyone or hooking up. People have to stop bullshiting and assume responsibility for their decisions. Now, most of them arwnr interesting or worth pursuing. Should I have done that when you had a chance? Ask the guys you hook up so easily with if they wouldn't want you for life? Let's see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:52 AM
14

Damn you just eliminated 99.9% of today's women.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 06:58 AM
3

So, if more men are single then women, that means that women are sharing the same men? The mathematics doesn't seem right here, and nobody is questioning it. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:38 AM
0

Haha! Straight up my boi!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:37 AM
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Actually, that sounds like a bad thing. Women have a certain time to have kids, men do not. This won't be a nice thing to see, but I can't say I didn't see it coming,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:35 AM
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I dropped out of dating a long time ago. I am approaching 30 years old. I spent a decade working on myself allot, physically, financially, emotionally and learning different skills, and now at my age most women aren't very interesting anymore. Most women that are single near my age did not take care of themselves when they were young or are single mothers. Sorry but I did not improve every aspect of my life to end up with that. There is no point anymore, I am happier single and also, I have no d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:32 AM
2

Women control sex. When you control something, you bear the responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:58 AM
11

Please let us know what rights a men has that a women doesn't have in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:29 PM
6

It seems like everything is one-sided. Always what women want and never about what they offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:40 AM
3

This is why I will never date a single mom. I don't feel like being used or just being a backup option. Nobody should be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 PM
5

If women are programmed to find the best suitor, explain why so many single moms with deadbeat dads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:24 PM
6

Who the fuck said wanting a woman shave is pedophilia? Like these people need to get real! 🙄. If I am going to eat your coochie, don't make me feel like I am a cow eating from a stack of hay!
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:38 AM
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Based on other gens prior. Women with great personalities at my age are married by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:08 AM
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Because man peak in their 30s and 40s. That has been proven multiple times in dating articles and statistics. Women age faster then man biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:07 AM
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No 👎 I am a millennial and approaching my 30s. I started working out on myself physically and financially at 25. Most women that age have enjoyed their fun early on and had so much attention that they couldn't care about working on themselves. Now the game has changed. Those who were actually very good women are married and have kids now. Most of the others are broken, have not improved themselves, are single moms with nothing much to offer anymore. I cannot settle or find that appealing. Go loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:05 AM
2

In my experience, this is an excuse for them not to take accountability for their decisions and choices. It's easier to blame. I don't believe that for one second, a wise woman would not see red flags of abusive man. I've worked with both sides in my field of work, and I can easily notice traits and behaviors that make me believe that person would be abusive. As soon as I hear this, I roll my eyes. Anyone with an IQ would notice these things. It's plain ignorance and denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:58 AM
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You are right, man. I am approaching 30, and I can't even meet a girl that is anything of value to offer. I stopped looking since the options aren't too good. Whatever value they had before, they gave it all away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:02 PM
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They can sleep with a good-looking guy but not be committed to him. They value themselves on sex which is not realistic. That's why, as I get older, body count matters to me. It shows a lot about a person. If you get angry because of that preference, I'd ask yourself why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:00 PM
4

They want to be loved, but the choices they make are the opposite of it. You have no idea the number of times I've seen women past on an amazing guy giving them a chance just to turn out being hurt and put down afterward by another guy. They overlook everything and then complain, and when they get over 35, they whine that their is no good man available, I swear this gets annoying to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:58 PM
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I think your point is very valid, except we live in a society where people love seeing human trafficking instead of legalizing and protecting those who want to work in this industry. Notice one thing about those in this thread against your comment is that their comments are completely based on emotions and not logic. They also have no good reasons to be against it. Little did they know, it's way more dangerous when it's unregulated, as we can see right now with the human trafficking cases. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:35 AM
1

Well, a majority of women to, especially after their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:03 PM
1

Well, we totally have a different definition of a real man. Thank God I refuse to he a betabux, I can't even imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:57 AM
1

In a fantasy world, yes... unfortunately for you, we do not live in a fantasy world. So "real men" must provide, and you are entitled to use them, but they can not expect anything. Where do you people come from? Do you even hear yourselves? So sick!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:46 AM
1

You are not worth anymore replies. I hope you find counseling and learn coping strategies to understand that others have preferences and that the world does not revolve around you. You will not tell me what to do, and you know nothing about me. Start by respecting others before speaking. I love my career and have received awards for doing a good job with my clients. I will not allow someone from reddit who is angry and unable to accept others' choices to dictate what I can and can not do. Your t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:44 AM
1

I have no bitterness or hatred towards women. That is your narrative and the way you see things. I only have preferences... Why am I not allowed to have preferences? Is it because I am a man? That's pretty sexist of you! I am sorry for being such an awful person because I have preferences in not dating single mothers. Geez, how horrible of me. Thank God Reddit is anonymous. People like you are disgusting, trying to ruin the life of others because you do not agree with them. Perhaps you could use…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:49 AM
1

Why are you so bothered by my comment? Is because you have nothing to offer and you expect everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:28 AM
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I have a reason to be "naive." I work in psychology, so I get to meet different people. I know how most people think. I get to see on a daily basis certain types of people and how they are. I know for a fact that most single mothers without the fathers are around tend to be reckless in their decisions and are more emotionally prone than logically. I see a pattern often. There are some exceptions to this, of course, but 90% of the clients I meet tend to have these personality traits. It's my job …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:07 AM
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Well, guess what? I don't agree with your opinion. What you see as an issue, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:41 AM
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Well, guess what? I don't agree with your option. So what you see as an issue is not one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:38 AM
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I do not think OP would be, and that thought has never occurred to me. But to answer your question, I pursued a good career, got educated with an advanced degree, and completely remade myself physically, financially, and emotionally. Spent my 20s, grinding and becoming better constantly. Now, if a woman doesn't want a man like that, then I am shocked. I know I want a woman to be like this and not have too much baggage. I refuse to be an option or a backburner! Keep trying to put me down with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:37 AM
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I don't believe that, unless she was raped which is trafic and wrong. You make a choice to sleep with someone. You are aware of the potential life changing scenarios. And before even having a child with a man, you should have been informed and had a pretty good idea of the person he his. This is a way to deviate responsibility for your choices and blame it on society. I didn't take care of myself before I was 26, didn't go to the gym, didn't pursue a career, that is my fault, and no one is too b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:30 AM
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I'm pretty sure I am as real as I can get. It's not my fault you don't like the way I see things. That's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 AM
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What do these women bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:42 AM
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It's not necessarily a bad opinion. It's just that I don't think it's right for me to be used just so you can be stable. Nobody wants to be a second option. They made choices in their past, and I believe they have to live with them. I worked on myself and kept improving while most of them never bothered looking in my direction. Now that they have a kid without a father around, they want to have a better person instead of looks. It's unfair for me, and I don't think being in a relationship with r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:09 AM
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I pity all the beta bux. Have so respect for yourself ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:52 AM
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You may want to read again. You can have one night stands, but I will not accept to lower my standards and be a back burner to take care of you and your child. So fuck whoever you want, go after the hot guys if you want, but if you have a child and he's not around, it's big red flag for me. Should have made better choices in men. I won't accept being a backburner or second option. And to your little insult, I couldn't care less if they want me or not, I don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:49 AM
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This is precisely why I refuse to date single mothers. You want to have one night stands only and chase the 9 and 10s, that's fine, you're aloud, but when you get pregnant and have to raise a child I hope they pay child support. Choices have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:27 AM
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What about a beej in back of the horse carriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:55 PM
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We'll the attraction scale changes in our 30s. I find men way more attractive than women as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:07 AM
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I honestly gave up completely on dating, like I don't even want to try anymore. I am also not lowering my standards even if I have to live single for the rest of my life. I've seen too many men lose everything, it's just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:25 AM
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I am a bit part of the Red Pill Community to gain more confidence in myself, but not once did I believe a women had to be exclusive to me. It's unrealistic to be honest. Obviously we should both be loyal to each other if dating. My issue is with high body count... like over 20 is allot for me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 06:50 AM
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You can laugh all you want but she's not too me. Doesn't matter if I am average or below average. This women as more plastic and makeup then what sephora as in stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:26 AM
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Wait a minute... she's a hard 5... everyone needs to calm down here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:11 PM
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They are no longer in control so they are looking for things to make men feel bad. Don't allow them to control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:53 AM
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You are actually right. Just look at women above 30s on Tinder, and most of them aren't attractive. Some exceptions, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:06 AM
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Most liberal women are also not marriage material 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 10:27 AM
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But what about average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:56 AM
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The best advice I have ever heard when it comes to dating is... Never listen to a women's advice on dating, what they say they want, is the opposite of what they pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:32 PM
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So everything that was said by Random923828 is debunked then! Hot guys = Can treat us like sexual objects Average lookin guys = They must treat us like human beings and not only want us for sex. See the hypocrisy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:55 AM
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Something many men asked themselves everyday when we see it all the time....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:53 AM
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i've been friends with women and still am, I see them giving up so easily on hot looking guys all the time. This literally contradicts everything you just said. If they really wanted everything you just said, they wouldn't do one night stands with hot looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:52 AM
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We DID cover what to do: treat women as human beings with respect and value them, instead of as objects. That is first and foremost, and it covers the most ground. ​ It still does not explain why women sleep around with hotter guys without getting to know them first. I have a good looking friend who sleeps with 2-3 different girls every week from Tinder without getting to know them. This contradicts you're statement. I am just tired of seeing women lie about it. BE HONEST! They want all that whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:49 AM
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If women want to be seriously considered, answer this? Why are allot of them promiscuous in their early 20s and give in to sex so easily with hotter guys? That's not the definition of someone who wants to be seriously considered 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:53 AM
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The answers you are going to get are "no." The real answers are they would never reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:41 AM
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It's actually a page full of femcels, the opposite of incels for women. Read at their comments. It's hilarious and makes no sense half the time.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:53 PM
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Women should be a shame for sleeping around with the hot looking guys so easily in their young years without having to know them. If women can do that in their 20s, then men can do that in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:17 AM
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Well, offline, you get a feeling before making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:49 PM
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My question is, what happens when these women are no longer attractive? Biologically, women age faster than men... just look on Tinder at women over 30. Most of them are not attractive. Some are, but that's the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:45 PM
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So are we just going to ignore the fact that the men also has spent his time, energy, money and got ready for you not important...what is his payment for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:26 PM
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Online dating is only good if you are a top looking guy. If you hear otherwise you are being lied too! My buddy is a model looking guy on Tinder and he sleeps with 3 different girls almost every week. They do not even go on a date. First time they meet it's sex right away. If you are a average looking guy, it will destroy your confidence. You will not be getting any matches and when you do, talking to them will be like talking to a rock. IRL is way better as most women do not get hit on all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:21 PM
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''Women do not care about looks that much'' is the biggest lie ever told to mankind. I have a friend who's 6ft tall, dark haired that hook ups with 3 different girls on Tinder almost every week. They don't bother getting to know him first. They do not even know him much and they invite him over to their houses for the first time meeting. If looks aren't it what makes them do this and personality is out of the question as they haven't even got to know each other...the what is it? A magic instrume…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:31 PM
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Well I think the nice guys are forced to wait aren't they? They cannot compete against Chads on the looks, so automatically that puts them at a disadvantage. You cannot really blame them? I have a very good looking friend and hooks up with 3 different Tinder girls every week, they do not even bother knowing him, first night they meet it's sex. Why? Well its obviously his looks! Saying otherwise would make you a liar, considering the fact that they haven't even got to know him yet for his persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:11 PM
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I just know that if I ever find out the girl I am dating at a big promiscuous past, I will not be able to see her differently. Id have to leave. No problem with lots of sex, but swinging dick to dick is a big NO!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:03 PM
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One thing I learn too late in life is.... NEVER LISTEN TO WOMEN ADVICE WHEN IT COMES TO DATING, THEY WILL TELL YOU THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT THEY REALLY FEEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:44 PM
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But why is a chad enough then? makes no sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:43 PM
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Yes but most of them aren't even worth it by the time they find that prince
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:35 PM
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You are right in some sense but let me be very clear on something here... If I am going to work on myself and invest so much effort in becoming my best version while most girls ride the Cock Carousel, then you better bet I wont even bat an eye for 95% of these girls when they turn in their 30s. The amount of women I see complaining in their 30s that their is no good men around is laughable. Sorry but like you said if I men works on himself he shouldn't settle for women that no longer have much t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:14 PM
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They have until you become like me, No longer care about women, I actually gave up even trying to ask or chase any. Because no matter how you try, you're not good enough. So they dont control me psychologically anymore,. In fact, they don't control me at all like they used too. Before I would always try to pleased them and do things to make them want me. This equaled to failure for me. Now I just do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:13 AM
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We all know you ain't getting shit, so spare us the BS!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:15 PM
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Actually it does exist. Go look at women in their 30s on Tinder vs 20s? Man are more attractive as they get older then women until about 50 where everyone goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:34 AM
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Because settling for guys is not advantageous and because most women will be ran like a train in their early years and finally decide to settle down with the good guys. It's very unsettling and honestly disappointing. Those good guys also have more options in their 30s if they worked on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:49 AM
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She was done being all the other boys cum dumpster and finally decide to settle down? Poor Chris.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:46 AM
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So in other words women aren't smart enough to see thru someone. They are emotional creatures while men are logical creatures.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 06:12 AM
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Would stop being simps for women, it's ruining the entire dating for every man out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:55 AM
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Nobody knows how women think...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:29 AM
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Correct I would say no too Rihanna because that would imply me dating her just for her money. I am not attracted to her. She's a great signer and all don't get me wrong. I can't really choose what I am attracted too so even if you get angry at me it won't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:31 PM
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Got milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:54 AM
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I am 27 and this just kicked in and idk why it took so long :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:52 AM
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Cannot do overweight and mean women. I also cannot accept to date a single mother, if I wouldn't have a child in my life at this moment I don't think ill be dating you. I also want to travel as much of the world as possible, so a child would limit that. '' But you wont have to take care of him/her" We all know that's BS so cut it, that child will be seeing me often and will get close to me so you can stop now. I am not attracted to black women, nothing racist, idk how to explain but I am not att…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:45 AM
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Well just to be fair...majority of women in my psych class said Ted Bundy was more attractive then the other average guy...so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:51 AM
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So true! I used to be that guy! I am still not getting much women (wont lie) but fuck am I happier and more confident. I pursue what I want and if I women doesn't like it then too bad she can find someone else. If I get left on read I don't bother even with her anymore. I am not afraid to ask as much anymore and if I get rejected I accept it because I know the prime of my life is starting. I am 27 got a good paying job, working on my fitness and travelling the world as much as possible. I know m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:46 AM
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Zero! None! Nashi! nikto! žiadny! Rien! keiner!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:38 AM
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This statement couldn't be further from the truth. Majority of people I know are females doing the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:35 AM
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And that's amazing. It was a match meant to be :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:18 AM
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Idk If it wasn't for the infection I couldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:02 AM
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Women can insult a guy on his height, but if a men insults a girl on her weight then all he'll breaks lose. Fuck it I still do it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:01 AM
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No! The planet as too much population for what it can supply. We are at a time in our planet that this will be the most populated time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:59 AM
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You are lucky he stayed, because if I have to wait that long I'll just assume their is no sexual chemistry and specially if I found out you have given sex too lesser men quicker and easier I'd be not only bitter but also I'd feel like your treating me less then the other men's you gave it quicker too. Screw that, I am out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:00 AM
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I'll get allot heat for this, but I am ready... Women are emotional creatures, not logical ones. They make allot of decisions base on their emotions, especially in dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:54 AM
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Absolutely 0%! Buy a powerball, you have more chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:48 AM
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Not gonna sugar coat it, extremely hard. Past 2 years only sex with one female because she was a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:39 AM
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Simple answer yes! It's overevaluating women and devaluing good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:54 PM
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Idk man, numbers speak for themselves. You can flip it how you want, but it doesn't change the fact that the numbers are what it is. So maybe you need to read more if this is the dumbest argument you have ever read poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:23 AM
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So tinder doesn't think I am attractive eh? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:23 PM
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I feel like most men who were rejected in their 20s should be players in their 30s. Should be there time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:50 AM
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Do women love short man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:28 AM
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Well the poor short ugly dude could always work on himself and the overweight women could also lose weight? Now that would be ideal for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:59 PM
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Oh I just got out of a nice 2 year relationship so I am okay. I am just stating the facts. And t Then this doesn't only apply to dating, but to everything else. Example: Every female manager I had I got repremended or fired at work, I've never been fired by a male manager and instead got promoted. So yes female make decisions base on emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:56 PM
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Absolutely not, but Chad obviously didn't care much about her, Chad was probably able to sleep with other women at the same time and was doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:53 PM
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Well I think with most guys in my case, we have accepted the fact of never settling and we are fine with that. We keep taking care of ourselves and following other passions. Now I am I not saying I wouldn't settle for a girl that has an a great personality and similar interests as me. I in my case couldn't do a single mother or overweight, as for others idk. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:49 PM
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What we are trying to say is that we won't accept settling down for an aging women while we are at our peaks. It's like telling you ladies take a chance with us before it's too late and your less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:37 AM
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Honestly if I knew she slept with Chad the first night and waits longer for me that's fine, but I ain't paying for her dates or putting as much efforts. Why would I when your giving me less then what you gave lesser men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:33 AM
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Honestly, sleep around...so I don't blame the males, I blame the females for letting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:31 AM
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I agree and same for men! I can't find myself to be attracted to fat women or single mothers. Just can't. Oh and I am short it would be awful in bed with a overweight women, I experienced it before. So no can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:07 AM
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The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:54 AM
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Here is my take in this. I spent my teen years and early 20's getting rejected by women, but not just rejected which is no issue, it's the way I was rejected, the insults, the blocking just for asking a girl out, the laughing at me. I wasn't the most attractive I agree. So I gave up and instead started working allot on myself, I got my acne problem dealt with, I hired an hairstylist to find a new look that would be nice, I started working out which I still too, I took care allot of my face to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:52 AM
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All the time. They cheat on them too! Best bet for that dorky guy is too get fit in his 30s and play the field or else you will be heart broken
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:13 PM
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Or the short poor ugly dude is expected to settle with this single mom who has nothing of value anymore. I rather play the field when I am older. Get in shape and travel then settle for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:54 PM
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Women are emotional so they do the opposite of what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:52 PM
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Dont lol. Relationship seem very nice until you've been in one for a year. It's not as fun as everyone says
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:31 PM
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Pete Davidson is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:22 PM
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