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| 1 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFyeah, if you are in a relationship and you want it to be secure and healthy with no doubts, filled with commitment, there is no need for either the man or woman, to be in the club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFAmen. I think if we all thought about each other a little more and learned to understand the brain processing of the opposite sex, we would all be in a better place. I've spent almost a decade studying the brains of men lol. Also, biblical knowledge as God does tell us this in the bible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFThink about it like this. When you are in a healthy relationship, you are both meeting each other's needs. Women (generally speaking) want to be taken on dates, showered with romantic gestures, etc. Men, are very simple creatures and don't usually think this is necessary, in fact, most men do it because they know it makes their wives/girlfriends happy. These kinds of things (and others, I know) make women feel happy, safe and loved. Men feel loved by being respected. This means not going to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:45 PM |
| 9 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFit's inappropriate to put yourself in a position where people go to get hit on, drunk, dance sexually, look for sex, and look to hook up, that's so rude and disrespectful to your partner, you're basically looking for it. and if you're drinking it's even worse because you could accidentally inhibit your thinking and make a mistake. Or worse, you could be attacked by a predator. A good husband/partner who cares about you and sees you as a treasure would not want someone they love and innately want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFI think it depends on the girl's nights. Like there are girls' nights that are very wholesome. My friends and I do bible studies, cook together, drink wine, paint our nails, and get dinner together. Going to a bar and getting drunk/clubbing/ well now that's innapropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFI definitely see this perspective from a man. He just wants to protect what he loves most by not allowing any risk to it. Which seems to be the innate nature of a man, protective. I think the biggest issue is that there is a misunderstanding in the way we perceive things (female perception vs male perception). But If women want to have marriages, they need to understand that you can't do single-type activities as it actively puts your marriage at risk. I think it's important to find people in ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyyeah, it's just as gross when men have a high body count. Just shows low self-esteem, lack of control and discipline, moral codes, and probably someone who lacks good decision-making skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 12:47 AM |
| – | Why do you desire college educated men?If you're not a college-educated man, you better be making a ton of money in sales commission-based job. All of the serious relationships I've had were with men in sales who never went to college. And after they started dating me, all of their incomes shot through the roof. They all contributed their successful careers to me and told me I gave them purpose. Ladies don't sleep on sales men and be encouraging lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin icearen't married, have never been married, and are usually the most jaded men ever. They also are never marriage material themselves given their lack of moral standards/ faith/ good community of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin icethe majority of people in western culture or people influenced by western culture are not marriage material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceStudies also show that men make more money AFTER they are married. Family gives men purpose. Having a wife is a huge contributor to making more money in the long run as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin icehonestly, the self awareness may actually land you a girlfriend (if you dont have one already) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceit means I came on here, saw my notification, clicked it, responded, and now here we are lol. And honestly yes, I am sexist and don't see an issue with observing biological reality. My hobby today is going to be responding to you. I'll make some time in my schedule to speak to you. You clearly don't have many interactions if some internet stranger responding to you is causing you to have a tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceI had the notification. Given that I actually have hobbies, a relationship, I responded 20 days later. and Yeah you are emotional, you got emotional and are now arguing with me like a female because I responded. You could have just ignored it and gone on with your life but you threw a tantrum and now here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceMoron, I have hobbies so im not on here 24/7 like you are nor do I pay attention to my notifications. So when I came on here, it was there. The conversation is over once you stop responding loll!! Men really are so emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceyea seriously. Do you realize I get notifications too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceand yet here you are AGAIN responding. It's amazing. The only person triggered from responding here is you, given your initial response which was rude for no reason. Stop embarrassing yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.most women are divorcing their husbands for one or more of the reasons listed above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin icedoes it matter when I respond? "get a hobby," says the guy immediately responding to a post from 20 days ago. LOL Because I have hobbies, I responded 20 days later. Aren't men supposed to be the logical ones here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Most women feel this way, the divorce rate proves this. Are you saying ALL/ most of those women have personality disorders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.welcome to the average woman's world. Now you see why women divorce their husbands 70% of the time and why women would rather be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceAlso, it's not ludicrous. I can't imagine why a woman would divorce a good husband then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.on top of that, they lack masculinity, and chivalry, they make our lives more stressful. They lack commitment and husband qualities. You can be a traditional Christian woman and they still go after the only fans and Instagram baddies. Once they're ready to settle down, they come to you with all their trauma from being cheated on and treating you like shit and are cynical towards you over what their jezebel girlfriends from freshman year in highschool did. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menIronically and generally speaking, college-aged girls dating 30+ are usually the ones with daddy issues who will cheat on you, be argumentative, etc,. loll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceI couldn't agree more. Women often do have unrealistic standards, one being expecting people to read their minds and not asking for help. It's a huge issue. Not only do women need to learn to communicate to a man, but men just as equally need to learn to support the needs of their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceit is 100% what is happening..... LOL, if not, prove otherwise please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:54 PM |
| 8 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceSource if it weren't true, women wouldn't be divorcing men 70% of the time, often filing because their husbands don't help despite the fact that the wife also works a full-time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?Also, sometimes you can be the most loving, understanding, patient, loyal person and the partners trauma will see all of this and interpret it otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous?That’s actually a really great observation yes. Typically people who heavily do drugs or drink are coping and running from something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Help understanding how sexually promiscuous women can still feel incredibly possessive and jealous?Many times when women are promiscuous it’s due to lack of love during developmental years so they look for love externally and become promiscuous because in their heads, that’s love. That’s the only time they feel what they perceive to be “love”, any time that love is threatened, of course they would get jealous and possessive. It’s like a rescue dog who grew up hungry and gets super protective of its food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?Frfr most people can’t find love because of their terrible attitudes and outlook on life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfAnd all these reasons you’ve listed are the reason why I don’t pay bills lol. I have so much to offer and do offer that the bills, I just won’t do it. Never dated a man who wasn’t happy with this lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:32 PM |
| – | Question for Women : Would you accept that your Man has Sex with other women (you would be his only Girlfriend/Wife) if he would be MR Perfect?cut him off, that's gross. Thats a man with no morals, no integrity. A man without God is not a man I want or trust to lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedJonah hill is not insecure for wanting a partner who isn’t playing with fire and has respect for the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?Never. I just personally could not do it. The other part is that I want to be the stay at home parent. I enjoy home making and being around a traditionally masculine man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersYup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first place100% the only women who like the hot and cold bad boys are those with mental health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him.Honestly, you are right. The only concern I have is that of abusive men which has been seen historically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why does having "issues" cause women to be promiscuous?A lot of young people simply lack the emotional intelligence. Also, you are missing your frontal lobe basically until you’re 25 which is responsible for long term decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Why does having "issues" cause women to be promiscuous?Because they want attention and in their brains they think/feel the only way to feel loved/admired/wanted is by sleeping with men. Because that’s when they get validation. They’re trying to fill the void they have from lack of real healthy love by getting it in the worst possible way. And I’d argue that most young women due to the lack of emotional intelligence they either figure it out later in their late 20s, even later, or worse, never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:52 AM |
| – | The amount of confidence, personality, game etc needed to attract women is GREATLY overstatedLmaoo!! I actually want to hear your thoughts on 6’a being the most delusional. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: Would you submit to a rich man?There are two ways this go, women who accept this behavior are straight up there for the money or have low self esteem, or both. Generally speaking, those women would accept that. Any woman with an ounce or self respect would be repulsed by that behavior and likely would be able to catch it early on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:39 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Yupp, so you better be nice to your girlfriend and gain some emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 08:09 PM |
| 3 | what's the deal with "nice guy" stereotype and why there isn't an equivalent term for women?I’m not sure what the term is but usually she’s a 304 with low self esteem and no back bone. One of the books would be “Why Men Like Bitches”. I’ve personally never read it but that’s probably what the book would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 02:55 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenFacts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenHonestly yeah. That’s pretty accurate. Subconscious. Can’t even lie about that observation. It can get to you for sure. I think for me it came from girlfriends I had in the past making rude comments about my partners and it really hurt. I also had no backbone then and was incapable of defending myself let alone my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:38 PM |
| – | Attraction over timeYou can absolutely tell if you have sexual attraction and compatibility with someone without actually having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsCool. Obviously it’s an opinion on both ends so you’re free to disagree. Doesn’t make either of us wrong but generally speaking, no one thinks promiscuity is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsPromiscuous men are sooo gross. Equally as gross as promiscuous women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsNot only that but there have been multiple interviews of Amal saying she can’t cook to save her life. You’re not wrong. Being a traditional woman, you have to be careful. The only real high value men are Godly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV The main reason why Dating today is f*cked for Men is not because of feminism/equality. 90% of the damage comes from Online Dating.Are you asking sincerely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV The main reason why Dating today is f*cked for Men is not because of feminism/equality. 90% of the damage comes from Online Dating.So many average guys could easily out compete the 6’3 brad if y’all had emotional intelligence and were emotionally available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:43 PM |
| 5 | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.Extremely. I saw my parents have a traditional marriage and I loved it. Dream of having it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:54 PM |
| 2 | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.Couldn’t be me that’s for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Who is more in responsible for women's beauty standards?The media. Not even gender specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 01:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesIs this your ASPD and ASD showing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesSo, back to my question. what’s YOUR definition of a slut. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dateswhat is your definition of a slut. Curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 04:06 PM |
| -1 | Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?They might be able to get women at first because of their physical appearance but one of two things happen. They either end up in a really toxic relationship with an equally unhealthy partner. Or the female that they’re with sooner rather than later starts to open her eyes up and leaves him because he lacks emotional maturity (under the circumstances that’s she herself is a healed emotionally mature individual) The female becomes turned off. And the cycle repeats itself until we heal. I’ve seen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:05 PM |
| -2 | Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?Empathy. Emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance?Yup. What she said. 26 female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Women who used to post and comment on the FemaleDatingStrategy sub what are some books a man should read?The way of the superior man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about.5’7-5’8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:25 PM |
| 2 | I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about.I’ve been trying to tell y’all. I’ve seen my friends choose the short average guy over a 6 foot 6 figure income earner because the average guy could connect to her emotionally and didn’t have toxic red pill mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - What percentage of the bills would you expect your man to pay if you lived together?I’d expect him to cover more yeah. All the major bills. Because I know If I’m going to be working, I’ll also be home making which I’m excellent at so it wouldn’t actually be 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisybtw I do agree with a lot of red pill content, I'm a very traditional person, I think gender roles are great. However, there are many things the Red Pill Community states that are just wrong and ungodly. I think if he was super skinny or overweight it would have hindered his dating ability. But again, that is personal responsibility. you attract who you are. I think if he was super skinny or overweight it would have hindered his dating ability. But again, that is a personal responsibility. you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyWhat I hear from my female friends and my own experience Positive, optimistic, funny, emotionally intelligent, good conversationalist, hobbies, not being too serious or judgemental, being confident and not insecure, being an uplifting person. I think in general a well-rounded person. I think this goes for both men and women. People treat you the way you treat yourself. Also, if you end up attracting a girl who doesn't appreciate these things, or is playing games with you, please do yourself a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyIt is easier to attract anyone when they're good-looking and have status. I don't disagree, however, the way the majority of red-pill men talk about women is a huge red flag and their demeanor/attitude towards women (usually even modest good ones) pushes women away. The majority of my friends are good Christian girls, with low body counts, traditional-minded, hot too, and the second they meet a red pill guy, they're turned off. Usually, the guy has quite a terrible approach. Very black-and-white… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastI think sometimes we have to look internally. (Speaking for myself too) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastyou and all the red pill men. but like attracts like so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyI think it depends on the type of woman you’re dealing with. In my experience, only unhealthy, emotionally unavailable toxic women act that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyEhh idk I disagree. You’re not a female. That’s like me saying I know what a man wants more than a man himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyI’m a woman with many female friends who talk to me about their relationships and I see their relationships play out. They’re traditional women who pride themselves in making their man happy. Many of them are gorgeous fit women who have chosen the “average” dude because he was emotionally intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)Even if you're putting in 80 hours at work, women are still doing more than that because the day begins usually before you even leave for work. As women get up, make you breakfast, feed the kids, dress, them, bathe them, etc. Likely pack you lunch. Then she is the child care taker until past the time you come home from your 80 work week. She also takes weekends, so are you really working your ass off more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)THANK YOUUUU FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyI think the same thing about your opinion. But ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastthose sound like some really unhealthy and disrespectful girls. Probably toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyI’ve seen things play out the opposite. That’s not true. I’ve dated some “ugly” people because their personalities were great. I left a Chad who was absolutely top 1% of men but he was emotionally unstable and jaded. Your outlook on life and your perspective is more important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyThe emotionally healthy women I know do a lot to make sure their man is happy. Key word here, is healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisythat is super extreme, and couldn't be further from the truth. I've seen chads get dumped because they lack emotional intelligence and have nothing to offer except their looks. I've seen gorgeous friends who are sought out by many men, choose the average shorter guy over the 6-footer because the average dude had a good personality, made her laugh, was kind to and respectful to her, and treated her like a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisywell I wouldn't say im the spokesperson but I do know that it's a rather large consensus for feminine women that we like a man who knows what he wants. I'm a girls girl with many many feminine female friends and we all think this way, you see it all the time online. It also seems that I have some votes on my comment telling you to speak for yourself so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyyou have a post that says "Help me I'm jaded from having to do all the pursuing and turning to red pill". Even if women are out-earning men (this is sad btw), feminine women do not want to be men. It's not laziness, it's energy. In the same way men don't want to be with an independent woman who can take care of herself. Energy. I'm not sure what your flair means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyyou yourself have said you are jaded. This comment shows that. It also shows why you may be having a hard time attracting and keeping women. Which further perpetuates the cycle. The red pill ideology is just as bad as feminism is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyIt does. It’s saying literally to speak for yourself. All the women I know and in general, most women want a man who knows what he wants. That’s inherently masculine and attractive to feminine women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyThat happens after the initial courting phases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyAmén | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyWhen in history have women every done anything to woo a man? When do women pursue? That puts women into a masculine role and men usually get pushed away by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyLiterally never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisySpeak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyRed pill men are only the bottom of the barrel men , men with trauma or men who cant get women so they go online to YouTube and become key board warriors.Also a lot of men don’t have social skills. I’ve seen average guys attract my beautiful friends because of their social skills. Ive seen chads repulse my friends, because of their social skills. Red pill men want to blame women without ever taking a look at themselves. The ultimate form of victimhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:11 AM |
| 19 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyThis is how men end up in sexless marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastI don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who complain about a man’s lack of sexual past. I have ALOT of female friends. ALOT. And not once has this ever been a topic. Please do tell me y’all’s experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?Lmaoooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Thank you 🙊🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:03 PM |
| 9 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?I’m looking for my life partner. I have been since I was a teen. I want to be a wife and a mom. I’m looking for the stability and security of being with your person. I want someone I can laugh with and do simple things like go to the grocery store and the gym together. Long walks and hikes. Someone I can go to church with on sundays. A man who appreciates that i wake them up with kisses and a hot latte to start their day and is thankful that I pack them lunches and they come home to a smile and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?thanks! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?Men are inherently pursuers and conquers. That’s in your biology. It’s masculine to initiate, plan, LEAD. If women start to do this then we step into our masculine energy.en don’t seem to like that either and it tends to push men away. If you don’t lead, then women think you’re not interested. And healthy women won’t chase you. Emotionally unstable women with low self esteem might step into their masculinity to imitate more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 02:07 PM |
| -1 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+Amen (f) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Should women be nice to beta males?Everyone deserves respect and kindness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:48 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Most men who sleep with a lot of women are not chads they just have better social skillsWomen like emotionally intelligent men they can connect to. Chads are out the door once we get to see their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why older men date or hook up with younger womenMen complain about modern women being ran through yet you’re admitting here that older men target younger women because they don’t ask for commitment and for casual sex. Y’all know that younger women are more vulnerable and have a harder time asking for their needs. So it’s predatory? And older men are literally using young women for this and then complain about their sexual pasts when they’re older??? Y’all are ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Being attracted to 18 year old's is comparable to a high n count womenThis is pretty good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyAmen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Nothing. Women don’t need to do anything. It’s your job as the man to make sure you’re respectable and a good man and prove you’re worth her time. It’s entitled to think that you can just show up to a girl and expect her to just like you. What have you done to even earn that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Men should strive to be godly men so they can attract godly women. Godly women who are pure (speaking for myself) don’t want a man with this attitude or a “high status” man who sleeps around. It’s repulsive. If y’all want pure women, become and godly man. That’s more attractive than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, mat Walsh. Any man who is a provider with a happy marriage that is godly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessYeah… we need each other because we’re biologically different with different strengths and weaknesses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessYeah because feminine women want to be soft and nurtured so we aren’t forced to step into a masculine role. The masculine role inevitably pushes men away. Because she becomes controlling from feeling like she has to be in charge. Women aren’t natural leaders and most don’t want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Can you explain the thought process of this guy obsessed with my body count?Good for you. Self love. 🤍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:06 AM |
| 3 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVBahahahhha finally someone said it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:59 AM |
| 7 | The equivalent of fat women is fat men, not short men.Not trying to justify fat women but you can’t compare apples to oranges. No other country in the world allows as many preservatives in their food as the U.S. does. The preservatives in our food are making Americans across the board fat. That’s why you can eat pasta and pizza every day in Italy and still lose weight or remain slim. You could never do that here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Men work hard to get sex so they're entitled to promiscuity100% godly women do not want ungodly men. Doesn’t matter that they’re rich. Our morals and values convict us and that life style is actually repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for men:) Have a good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly finewhy does this trigger you so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineBahahahhaa God bless you! 🤍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineI can tell you are emotionally incoherent. The whole post is about men. Mentally unstable men and women cannot take accountability. Mentally stable women and men sure can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineI never said they didnt. This whole post is literally about men and their egos. So I commented that their ego based choices lead to heart break. I thought men were supposed to be good at taking accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menWell, that’s your opinion and your thought process. I won’t argue with you about it or try and convince you because I know who I am and I know that I am. ¯_(ツ)_/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineAnd that’s why y’all end up with unstable women and then cry on podcasts that all women are bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menI’m mentally stable.. I know a lot of mentally stable people. It took 5 entire years of non stop self reflection and healing to get to this place. It’s possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:15 PM |
| 15 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menMale attention is only like air for UNHEALTHY WOMEN. Women who are mentally stable don’t need male validation or validation in general. Stop generalizing all women due to you past crappy choices and inability to spot red flags in UNHEALTHY women. Grow up and deal with your trauma. We have all been hurt. Just as many women have been hurt by shitty men and vice versa. Heal so you can attract a healed partner. Holy shitake mushrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersOkay, whatever you think! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersDude chill out. Saying things like that will push people away. Work on yourself and stop making excuses. It’s never too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 03:50 AM |
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