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Cool oversimplification. Hope it's made through reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:55 AM
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You liking this answer doesn't make all other answers dishonest... Your implications are really heavy in this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:19 AM
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I can't take y'all seriously because The Pill analogy was created by trans-women and you pretend they didn't (or if they even exist) and you have the audacity of posting AI-generated "takes" which is literally the actual real-life "Matrix" since it's machine-made. Like??? Can you guys not SEE and UNDERSTAND the absolute irony of it all???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:26 PM
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Being stricken with grief from losing a parent and not having the mental or emotional faculties to deal with a toxic relationship is not "playing the victim". You are clearly unempathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:12 PM
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You're assuming so many things about me despite being strangers on the internet. The ex-girlfriend has confided to me, she was at her wits end, many things were working against her and she just lost her mom. I chose to look after her because I genuinely think it was the right thing to do. I look after my brother by not coddling him when he does wrong and offering guidance when he makes bad decisions. I do not protect nor reward morally and ethically bad actions. Blood ties be damned. If you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:11 PM
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I'm loyal to my own principles. I love my brother but that doesn't mean I'll just sit around and watch him hurt loving women. He's still a bad guy, I'm just related to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:32 PM
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I was shocked to find out one of my brothers is a serial cheater. I told his last girlfriend to dump him. I would accept him being promiscuous openly than try to cheat on women that genuinely like him. He's got many things working for him so he's not struggling to get women, but he might not be for long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:18 PM
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PPD comments by the male members are very effective birth-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:51 AM
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Asexual and demi guys are pretty cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:10 AM
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You are clearly tweaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:29 AM
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Not anyone's business. So I'm not answering that. If truly most men "are good" then there might be other factors working against those "good" men. Maybe take a step back, recalibrate and asses yourself about why your methods aren't working. Ask women who know you (if you have them in your life) for pointers, ask people who are in successful relationships, listen to anyone else other than red-pill grifters that feed you dogmas that keep you tethered to rockbottom so they can continue to attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:36 PM
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Be more genuinely good men? Have you tried? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:26 PM
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Then don't go on dates anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:03 PM
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She's become a fatalist ever since my uncle cheated on her and ruined their family and the family business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:45 PM
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My aunt said one time, not in English so I'm probably rephrasing a bit: "Pregnancy is a ticket to three destinations: death, poverty or sometimes a happy enough family. The last destination is more like an urban myth than a scheduled stop."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:51 PM
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I'm posting the link here for the article I quoted from: https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/press/releases/2025/November/137-women-and-girls-killed-every-day-by-intimate-partners-or-family-members-in-2024.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:47 AM
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I was stating the reasons why women should uphold their high standards and then your response was to compare. I got this from the United Nation's Page: "137 women and girls killed every day by intimate partners or family members in 2024 50,000 women and girls were killed by intimate partners or family members in 2024 – one every 10 minutes – according to new data released today by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC) and UN Women, with levels unchanged despite years of global com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:41 AM
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I mean, the context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:05 PM
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Cybertruck Salesman Dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:04 PM
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Shouldn't adults take each other seriously during discussions? Is that not the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:01 PM
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How do you say it? Do you say it to describe her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:59 PM
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What doesn't make sense? I'm not playing an oppression Olympics with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:57 PM
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Women's standards should be high because they have higher possibilities of getting killed by the men they choose to engage with or having their health forever altered by pregnancy. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:55 PM
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If they're already like that then I'm not talking about those guys. There are women who do choose very wrongly. I'm talking about the guys that peacock at the beginning of a relationship and reveal their abusive streak only after they get comfortable. Which is, based on my limited observations, seemingly more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:34 AM
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You should join hobby circles because you like that hobby. They're not hunting grounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:52 AM
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Everyone should feel Kenough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:51 AM
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They don't love choosing them. They give them a chance because they're being lied to from the beginning. It is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:48 AM
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Counter troll to this vague post: what did those male friends do in the first place? What did they say? How were they acting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:50 PM
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We out here promoting Pavlov tactics now? ... About men - people who should have higher levels of intelligence than dogs. Very strange!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:03 AM
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Those are very different things altogether. Why is it almost always a comparison to established systemic issues like racism and sexism? The topic was about one's willingness to slutify oneself for one's enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:02 PM
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I was not ready to read a JoJo reference in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:48 PM
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What a defeatist attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:36 PM
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Hopefully minus the doing sexual crimes in other countries where they imprison you for it part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:39 PM
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Become the additional 0.00001% you want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:38 PM
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Argue with anyone 🤟 just be ethical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:14 PM
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I picked the one who would debate me on topics we didn't see eye to eye on but didn't demean me in the process. I needed to see what hills he was willing to die on, figuratively speaking, and how okay I was with them. Also made sure our basic ethics codes had some commonalities and our personal politics were not too opposite of each other. Also, I actively avoid science-deniers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:04 PM
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I hope men slutify themselves and be happy in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:57 AM
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How is stating the fact that some people do not like or want to engage in coitus "being an asshole"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:24 PM
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Asexual sex-repulsed people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:52 PM
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Going under the knife when the genetics lottery didn't favor you isn't "easy". It's deadly and expensive. Anything under the skin is invasive since it invites the probability of infections.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:41 AM
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Bruh. Bruh So many women here shared their stories. And that's your response?? A very quick internet search about misogynistic practices EVERYWHERE, in every country, in every industry will land you thousands... Millions of stories. People are rarely shocked at news about women gruesomely murdered by men now. I never said men don't have it hard. I'm saying many men are taking it out on us women while we're also having a hard time too. If you're just gonna invalidate all of us women's collective …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:47 AM
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I really don't want to believe that the majority of men are like that too. I fight developing misandrist tendencies, but I will never ever look down upon women who have succumbed to it as a reaction to the very many men who have wronged them. It's so very hard to see men in the same light as when I did after encountering this sub. I realized a little while ago that I don't know any woman in my life that has never had a bad experience with a man: all the women I know (including myself) have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:06 PM
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Therapy isn't supposed to be weaponized like that, and this doesn't have to be gendered: Toxic people, man or woman, will gaslight their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:30 PM
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Oh, I've found that out two days after I got here. I stayed for research purposes and the occasional debate fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:24 PM
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Counter troll: do men even know what actual love is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:20 PM
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I'm sharing a similar experience. I've only joined this sub because I was worried about the dating market my younger brothers and cousins were entering and I wanted to take a peek at what was going on. I've read more posts and rants towards hating women than level-headed dating advices that I now understand more and more why very little of the younger generation are willing to give dating a chance, and very little of the people in my age group even want to get back in the dating market. It's so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:07 PM
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I'd like to understand how it's NOT misogynistic... If most of the chosen victims of some of these men are mainly women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:56 PM
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"No proof"? Okay, sure... I'll suspend my disbelief for a bit... But you can surely see the systematic-misogyny-to-dehuminization-of-women-and-girls-pipeline that makes them easier targets for already murderous men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:47 PM
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... So you're saying... All of you... And you're including yourself... To quote: "Men would do that to other men too if we had the chance. We are equal opportunity offenders." - to be dangerous. Doesn't that justify misandrists and their misandrist agendas more and more?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:34 PM
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And that exact same guy will never say it to another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:13 PM
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It's so telling how every single time equality between genders is brought up, a guy from the opposing group says: "so that means I can hit you now? Since we're equals." They're so excited to make us hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:11 PM
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You bend that the way you want. Interesting example you've chosen. Misogyny makes men kill, exploit, abuse, traffic, gaslight, entrap and hurt women. Misandry is just women going out of their way to avoid men. There is a huge difference between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:05 PM
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You only need to get bitten by one dog to become wary of every dog you encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:56 PM
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Stats like this push me closer to becoming a misandrist because wtf Also, my dad taught me my number one hater will be a man just for the sole reason I can take up space. My dad was a big misandry guide, I think he hoped it would prepare me for how much misogyny I was gonna encounter in the real world. My first love was theoretical mathematics, and he actively discouraged me from pursuing it in college after finding out that 90%+ of the course takers were male - fearing for possible stalkers he …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:27 PM
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There's a difference with talking about facts backed up by studies and talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:21 PM
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Crossing fingers for you. My client also told me her journal + planner keeping habit helped her in getting her health in check. And then when she got the kids she got a separate journal for each of them to document their first 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:51 AM
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I have a client from Japan that told me she and her husband only got financial stability at around their late 30s so they only had kids when she was 39. The kids are doing great, she did have to spend 2.5 years getting healthy for the first pregnancy but she told me they're happy they waited and were responsible about it. I wish you get what you want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:28 AM
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I hope you have a uterus too if you're telling her what she can't and can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:26 AM
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Bro, there are medical papers published for free about this topic. This is just rage bait at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:25 AM
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That doesn't really explain why wanting sex is a survival thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:32 PM
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"Survival mode"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:36 AM
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Nah. Comparison is the thief of joy in this aspect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:36 AM
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Stupid reasoning. Sometimes said by people who started provocations in the first place. How about treat people the way you want to be treated, how about that maxim? You guys make me wish harder that misandry actually start causing things to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:04 PM
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The only people killing women are men, why should we try to understand them? - is also an extremely logical stance then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:25 AM
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I hope the kind of fate you deserve finds you very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:23 AM
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FBI, right here. This one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:08 AM
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People who do "find their person" are akin to lottery winners in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:04 PM
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First date? We don't know each other. I don't want to be a statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:04 PM
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”If I sexually assaulted a woman" whoa whoa whoa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:37 AM
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Is the source of this information directly extracted from their brains? Are you in their brains speaking with authority about their own thoughts and feelings? Hello? What are you presenting to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:34 AM
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Seconded. What is with the rise of fictitious events becoming debate topics on this subreddit? Especially related to questioning women's consent. It is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:38 AM
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I'm reading local news reports from where I am, so they're a mixed bag of information. I've also just seen and experienced more bad interactions than good ones. I've been called "monkey, monkey" by a white man for no reason other than he passed by me at the mall we were both shopping groceries at. I've seen this British man harassing locals to give him a seat at a first-come-first-serve local food market. I've seen this European family scold a bagger at the grocery in English when he clearly can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:24 AM
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I wish that was the case, as I also have family in the States, but many of them don't even bother learning our languages and our culture but choose to live and gentrify certain areas even if they offend or in worse cases cause harm to locals. My uncle is American. He's really racist. You can look into the subs of them, I'm not gonna tag, but they're asking strange things like: how to get an underage girl out of the country or how to find the lowest on the low end of impoverished women to become …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:10 PM
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Minority of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:05 PM
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As someone from a country passport bros frequent (the Philippines), and having witnessed a couple of them either be rude to people working in the service industry or publicly hurt or yell at their "chosen" partners. Their reasons for flying over to poor countries like mine is a cause for concern. A lot of them have been known as sex pests that exploit children as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:03 PM
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I'm so pessimistic about it honestly. I loved teaching, I thought I was gonna retire as an educator. The best thing we can do at the moment is to make literacy culturally "cool" (I am not against the more performative trends relating to reading, whatever gets the kids to read I am for it) but also not make it elitist (we need to be united and consistent about it too) and engaging in art and creativity as part of the process and hope it works. I'm hoping on the neo-Renaissance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:43 AM
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They should work on themselves so they can shoot their shot with people who also do so and is their type. You're allowed to have a preference and go after them (in reasonable ways).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:31 AM
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That's something I see on the regular over here. I quit being a teacher mostly because the stress of teaching things to students who didn't even have the fundamentals of reading down made me so very ill. I'm so concerned it's happening to adults my age or a little bit younger than me. Language is such an important part of communication, using words that have subjective meaning to each other breaks down a bridge supposed to connect us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:20 PM
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Congrats on your baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:55 AM
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<image> Let us proceed to the Class Wars while we still have trees to save.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:54 AM
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I don't mean to be the semantics-police, but so many words on this sub are being given too many new meanings based on ✨vibes✨, OP post as an example. It is both concerning but entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:56 AM
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Very rich older capitalists, more like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:47 AM
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Leader? To lead... Me? Like cattle? What? The definition you've given just sounds like a well-disciplined and mature person??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:43 AM
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I feel highly conflicted about it too but I did learn from very young that "Violence sometimes is an answer" in very dire times. It's sad to know that your dad KNEW about his friends and still brought them around you as a child. I cannot imagine what unpleasant feelings that must have left for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:38 AM
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I feel this. My dad literally pushed me into martial arts and sports in hopes that when (not if) I get attacked by a man, the dude would not walk away unscathed. I've had sit-downs where he told me to specifically kick in a way that could rip their ball-sacks off their body and for me to not feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:56 PM
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There are many extensive studies that link hand to paper journaling to better internal monologue cohesion, memory/information retention or mental organization. I highly recommend watching Ryder Carroll's (creator of the bullet journal) TEDx Talks from 8 years ago talking about the writing habit. You don't have to bullet journal as it doesn't work for everyone, but just take what's useful for you out of his process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:50 PM
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I recommend you journal on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:45 AM
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She doesn't need to worry about me since she raised me well and taught me solid dos-and-don'ts. Like how not to generalize people I know nothing about. Parents are humans too. There's still room to grow and discover for them as well in their lifetimes. They're allowed to change, they're allowed discovery. They're allowed to see their children differently under developing circumstances. Especially if their kid grows up to be a menace despite their well-wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:45 PM
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If there was a chance your mother did find out this is how you talk to people, read the things you say about women like her, do you think she'd look at you with the same loving eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:17 AM
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He's making castles in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:02 AM
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Nah. All women. Stand firm in your generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:52 AM
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Hm. Made up exemption. This muddies the premise you've come to offer up to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:47 AM
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You're making a broad strokes generalization right? All women. Is your mother, that gave birth to you... Not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:44 AM
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I hope his mother knows this is how he is and this is how he thinks about ALL WOMEN. Including her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:10 AM
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I don't know about "common", but if you say so. That's just a quite an odd thing to say for me. I've never heard a friend or colleague express something akin to that. I'm a younger millenial, and as an ex-teacher I've been in contact with a lot of other women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:42 PM
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Your female friends tell YOU specifically that they want a chance to be raped/targetted by these "hot male predators" in private conversations, in a serious manner? Not as a joke that's taken out of context, but an actual expressed desire of theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:18 PM
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Hm. Sure, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:10 AM
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This! I get so sick of the comments when the pedo is a woman! And a teacher at that. Everyone should have a psych evaluation when they're handling younger children as educators is my opinion. I see comments that say: "I wish it was me", "Oh, but she's hot tho", or the worst I saw on insta was "I'd let her violate me any day as an 1X year old" - it's sick. Those poor kids, I can't even think about it without crying. Sometimes when the victims are men and boys they're subjected to such ridicule no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:27 PM
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Clicked on the discussion hoping to shame the kink-shamer and unfortunately stepped into a "scenario" that uses the terminology wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:15 PM
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Right? About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:14 PM
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I'm geniunely in the team of encouraging sex-craved single people who want to have sex to engage with sex workers since they're going to be with actual sex professionals. I wish the very loud religious crowd would just shut up about it and mind their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:43 PM
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To perform mental gymnastics. Badum-tss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:54 PM
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I do unfortunately see the concerns of the disenfranchised men being shoved down as a priority as the pendulum swung so sharp to the left in the past decade or so. It might also be affected by the fact that the left-leaning movement have more artistic and creative figureheads and they get more coverage on the media than most just for how prolific they are in their creative fields (not saying it's a bad thing vs good thing, I myself am an enjoyer of the arts and would like to think I am pro-human…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:48 PM
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I wonder what you're pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:35 PM
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Hyperbole. Used in communication across social media to gain traction and direct attention. It works. But let's dissect it a bit: (not very detailed) The statement "the bar is in hell" is pertaining to their perceived low standards. (keyword: perceived) They are heterosexual women - they like men (sexually, romantically, aesthetically), they will put in effort to accommodate men in many ways. What they are talking about was that they (in a subjective sense) have already made a relationship statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:31 PM
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People can simply scroll down and read your replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:48 PM
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You responding for me to read "real history and not feminist oppression porn" implies that you think I don't know what I'm talking about about women of the past and the lives they've lived and how they were treated by the men around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:34 PM
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I'm asking why you are assuming I am uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:24 PM
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I've been in sports and martial arts in my youth and no matter how hard I trained to get better and stronger a man always overpowered me. The matches I've won were considered "friendly" and I was given some advantages for my safety. It's unfair, but it's how it is (for a lot of us). I've come to accept that. I think for women who have not been in sports and the like, they know that even an untrained man has a high potential of overpowering them when push comes to shove. I think it's good if soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:23 PM
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Using bad faith argument warnings while bad faith arguing with the replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:11 PM
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I'm not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:10 PM
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I did. My grandfather is a local historian. Why are you assuming I am uneducated?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:09 PM
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That's not reasonable for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:08 PM
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All the other thousands of years of humanity women were treated as mere property. I lack understanding why you would make a joke about their lives and their deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:06 PM
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Are safety issues small?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:04 PM
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I've observed it with guys who want "bare faced beauties".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:02 AM
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Is this a bot or like a chat GPT regurgitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:59 AM
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This is a biased oversimplification of what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:41 AM
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Right. A lot of the responses where knee-jerk-y in nature. I think that should have also been taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:35 PM
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The man or bear being on the trail wasn't part of it. It was "in the woods". A lot of your added details muddy the discussion a bit (ex-bio major here, I do appreciate your points).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:12 PM
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They would have never asked a bear to take their photos. But trusting that one random guy cost their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:09 PM
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Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:16 AM
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Do you know what a standard is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:53 AM
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... Their standard is (let me hold your hand while I say this) THE PEOPLE THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:31 AM
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Not everyone is on the apps for different personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:29 AM
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??? So would guys who have an established type? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:39 PM
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Nah, a lot of us still love our cultures. We're just FORCED to learn and speak English for livelihood-security because Westerners refuse to learn our cultures and languages when they come over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:54 PM
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Our specific sufferings are too bespoke to be truly shared 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:32 PM
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I think that number is made up and unprovable since human sexuality and attraction isn't easily quantifiable even for intense researchers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:38 PM
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Nah, nobody should give up their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:31 AM
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Truly, my friends who used to be "proud hoes" (their words, not mine) are too scared to continue letting their freak flags fly in these panopticon times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:40 PM
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So many posts here on this subreddit is just different iterations of this event happening. I mostly joined to checkout the dating pool for my younger cousins and brothers. I joined worried and now I'm closer to being horrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:34 PM
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Jung's ghost: The Anima and The Animus has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:26 PM
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Opinions - Like buttholes, everyone has them. They are not fact. The existence of buttholes are a fact tho. It's okay to have a preference for the people you want to be with. I think what most well-meaning people just want to see when people state their preferences is the decency to not make fun of other people who exist outside of that preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:03 AM
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Why would some people's personal preference for a partner be proof that the whole population of their gender can be generalized as "shallow"? Yeah, a lot of women online say they like tall guys. A lot of those women being interviewed are pretty and might be taller than the average too. Or maybe those kinds of opinions are louder than what the actual common preference is. Isn't it more shallow to assume immediate shallowness of the people outside of you just because you don't want to understand o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:54 AM
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What was even the question here? You are giving an opinion and you want us to agree with you? Wrong flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:43 AM
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Unfortunately, he has a right to be wrong 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:24 AM
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That is surprisingly so much more than my initial guess. No wonder the top "creators" can buy houses and land.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:58 AM
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It's heartwarming to witness you talking about a friend like this :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:35 AM
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This sounds like this earth's Clark Kent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:25 AM
2

Has any data you collected come up with interesting findings? 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:10 AM
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Nope. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:10 AM
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Bi men's existence isn't a debate topic. They just exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:01 AM
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Yes to all (but only if he's nice to me and not an asshole to my friends as I have very few of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:00 AM
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Is this a traditionalist value of yours? What's the merit of a system that doesn't cater to the majority's success in the current modernised culture? Wouldn't it be nicer if more people had a higher success rate of finding what they want (love, sex and everything in between)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:01 AM
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I don't have very actionable solutions. I just think that if a majority of the "players" make a huge stink about how the "game" is outdated, then maybe, just maybe - some (hopefully positive) change will happen. Because, yeah, the dating pool is a pee-lake at the moment for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:57 AM
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Change the game then? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe some parts of the game are too archaic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:49 PM
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How are you so sure I don't go out? (I live in the mountains) How well do you think you know me? Is this how you talk to all women? Or do you just talk down to me like this because you know I'm on the spectrum and you think all of us are incapable of functioning as a human being? Really hoping no woman is around you right now. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:16 PM
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Weaponizing my autism against me. This is new. Still hope there's no woman in your house. You sound angry, and you sound hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:11 PM
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"I have a lot of them". Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:01 PM
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Hope there's no woman in your house. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:38 PM
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No. I was raised by loving parents and two brothers that appreciated me. My grandparents are also loving and warm. I cannot tolerate someone being nasty to me no matter what he looks like, even when there was romantic interests involved. I do not care if that's his way of flirting, that's annoying and rude. Very EW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:58 AM
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I mostly think between dangerous or safe. Sometimes their faces don't register until I feel comfortable enough. But I am hella neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:51 PM
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Fair. We got catapulted into existence without even the option of avatar creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:41 AM
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This is a question for men. It's like asking the gazelle why they're being hunted down by the lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:12 AM
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I know. It got me curious and that's how I ended up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:54 AM
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I wonder if there's a word for this. Two guys told me they liked my speaking voice too, just randomly out in the wild many years ago when I used to do my writing work in cafes and took work calls if it wasn't that noisy. Separate occasions, but both were mostly pleasant interactions. I for sure knew I wasn't approached for my looks, I think I look too plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:37 AM
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I guess 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:32 AM
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Fellow asexual spotted in the sub. Rare encounter outside the ace subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:31 AM
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Oh my gosh, is banging our heads a common thing? I try not to tell people around me about it, I live in a country that chains the mentally-ill in out-houses or pig pens and wait for them to "pass away peacefully" - masking became essential to my survival. I used to bang my head on walls and doors whenever I was frustrated by things I don't understand and interactions I misunderstood. I've had friends recommending me to pad my walls and my table out of concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:35 PM
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I'm an autistic woman: I'd like to share that some of us are also prone to rage - especially when young. I was one of them. I used to use my anger to motivate me to do stuff - breaking things gave me a lot of relief from my stress. I was an angry child, then became a spiteful teenager - I didn't understand my own awful emotions, it would make me shut down. I also scored very low on natural empathy during psych evals, I had to put in a lot of time and effort to learn socialising since I got a job…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:20 PM
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Not anything essential to the conversation, sorry, but I really like your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:45 PM
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And what got them that status? Their humor. Jokes are literally their bread and butter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:05 AM
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This is such a bait post. Almost all comedians get pussy. No average stand-up comic can legitimately make their "I hate my wife" jokes without A WIFE to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:33 AM
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There is no level of attractiveness that would make me choose a right-leaning man. Hell to the no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:21 AM
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Empire builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:29 PM
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They exist. Just not the most common type of socially extroverted women. If you're open to personality system theories and are willing to check them out (there are a lot of subreddits dedicated to them and the possibility of finding dates through their classification systems is not entirely zero) if you're familiar with Big5: women who score high in Openness + Extroversion and that have extremely low Neuroticism have higher chances of being assertive, with MBTI/Jungian typing systems: ESTJ, ENTJ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:27 PM
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I also remember pretending being a guy in game lobbies. Not the best thing to do but I avoided being yelled at and called slurs during item/weapon trades for being a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:29 AM
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Academic question and answer forums. 🥲 I used to frequent them quite often as a math tutor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:56 AM
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Moodeng the baby hippo dominated my algorithm in the beginning of the year and I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:38 PM
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I've not seen those content. I'm going off a conjecture your algorithm is showing you content like that since that's what gets and holds your attention. I mostly see crisis of living and economical crash content because that's what I mostly consume and update myself on these past few months. Now 60% of my recommendations are just those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:59 PM
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I've accidentally made myself sad typing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:15 PM
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Unfortunately, many educational institutions and inefficiently-trained educators have failed to help a huge chunk of the population to truly become literate for themselves by snuffing their interest and wonder for learning. Their curiosity has never truly died and WILL be directed elsewhere (such is the nature of youth), it's just that the entrance point of the pipeline to psuedo-science is neon-sign-illuminated by the toxic radiation of those quack podcasters. In the pitch black of the unknown …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:55 PM
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As an ex-biology major, it is just truly twilight-zone-esque levels of strange for me to see specie-specific terms created to explain animal mating behaviors to researchers to (with so much flaws and very little nuance) legitimize some humans' socio-culturally influenced moral-parameters to each other. Wild. Beffudling. Eternally interesting and will be subjected to further studies by researchers in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:57 PM
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Was gonna comment this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:07 PM
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Bruh, I wish I could. They'd probably hate the meddling though. They might actually be lurking in this sub haha~
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:34 AM
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I hope so. I have some cousins who really want to find a romantic man to spend their life with. It's okay if lust is in the mix but they really have intense emotional needs and yearn for genuine connection - they want the guy to be a reader too and want to have discussions in philosophical matters. We're a family of neurotics, unfortunately. One is really pretty and the other one has natural double Gs so they're getting a little too much attention but they're probably super sick of it already. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:56 AM
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✨ We have a yearner! ✨ Jokes aside, I wish you well in your journey to find romance and true connection. I hear it's brutal out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:37 AM
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If it's a split second they kinda have to make assumptions. I don't know if you read "the context of a dangerous situation" and processed it well enough to make a level-headed response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:30 AM
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They do, just not BAD men - kind women know and understand very well that "not all men" are bad, but the vigilance is necessary for survival. They will protect and prioritise the weak individual in the context of a dangerous situation, and unfortunately most of the time it is another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:40 AM
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I look plain. The girls who were protective of me from men (especially older men) who randomly approached were way prettier than I am. Kind women just care about everyone. Kind women are protective of other women, especially young girls who get approached by perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:39 PM
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I'll be into it if they get creative with it. Fashion! ✨ But if they start wearing the same thing that's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:27 PM
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I don't care very much. Except for the nudity thing, pretty sure that's an actual crime. Just wear deodorant or make sure to shower before going on public transportation vehicles and we're good. Don't be a stinker. And make it ✨fashion✨.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:21 PM
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Sure. I'm too aware of that. I'm on the group of autistic asexuals as well, but some of the autistic girlies I've met while going to SPED class growing up were very boy-crazy and wanted nothing but a boyfriend so I don't want to pretend I don't know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:08 PM
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Useless info of a response since I'm a minority within a minority: autistic asexual. I'm not supposed to "work".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:12 PM
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I understand a little bit, I guess. The one and only relationship I got out of my multiple friendships only happened after 7 years of being friends before any romantic feelings ever blossomed - and I doubt, in this economy, that many would be willing to wait for something to happen or not happen for 5+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:12 AM
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There are some studies that popped up when I casually typed about friends to romance relationships. Also, I don't think it's bad faith, or I hope it isn't, when people advice other people to make establish genuine friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:58 AM
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It seems like it really doesn't happen as often. Or as often as we wish it did. It is quite ideal to have a warm and friendly interaction with men before anything serious to fight off the initial feelings of uncertainty or maybe even the general fear of men. Some more extroverted women might want that novelty factor, that's a fair guess. I also know some women need the sense of familiarity going on to start warming up to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:46 AM
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This is an acknowledgement to all the replies to my question. Thanks for your good faith responses, you guys. I've read each one but I've no proper response for all of them, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:40 AM
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It's anecdotal, but I had more guy friends in college (I joined a geek club) and I may not have slept with any of them but I've "wingmaned" for 3 of them to get together with my other girl friends. It helped when I sort of vouched for how nice they actually were to set my girl friends' minds at ease in the initial stage of their getting-to-know each other. So sometimes it does work. I hope it still does out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:33 AM
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Were some of them good friends to you at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:24 AM
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Why would it be "strange" to want to establish a friendship before anything romantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:22 PM
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I agree but I also cannot fault people who have fears of becoming a statistic. Especially if they've had bad encounters themselves, or have learned about it happening to someone close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:31 AM
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😑 reluctantly nods in autistic woman confirmation and partial agreement 😑 It's easy to "pass" when no one assumes there's something wrong with me and I can hide under the guise of a shy-girl trope. People assume I am shy when I do not want to communicate or have no desire to connect with others in the group. My disinterest in dating has not lowered my chances with men (and bi girls) since I was born from good-looking parents with a mostly proportional face. I have never pursued or approached any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:45 AM
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History is important. History teaches the current developing societies lessons of what works and why we have to further develop in certain directions. History looms over us all. It's a statement beaten close death: "Those who do not know history are doomed to repeat it." It is a wisdom that guides many towards enlightenmemt and continues to ring true over the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:41 AM
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Historical records would confirm that only the elite men were given importance in society. People of lower social standing were all treated as expandables by the elite class for centuries in many cultures. I would like to disagree on the "nothing has changed" statement since in this day and age, there are some places in the "developed" world that allow the commonwealth, men and women, to live with some dignity and not be treated as cattle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:34 AM
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Huh? Huh? Straight women like the male form?? Because that's what being a straight women is about. They do (not that they can do anything about it). They're attracted to the male form, just most likely not attracted to who they are as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:50 PM
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Unconventional looking women get no bodies to add to their counts too. Lotsa lonely unconventional looking women out there that talk about how rough it is for them. Not trying to make light of the plight of lonely sex-starved men, just being fair about the "ugly duckling" girlies out there too. A lot of people are not fucking. A lot of people are undesirable to the commonwealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:30 AM
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Nah. I meant "person". All-inclusive, all encompassing term for a someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:14 AM
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Nah. Never had a hookup before, probably not gonna have one ever. Not an appealing choice to me but I'm not against it as a choice to be made for other people. I tend not to be too judgemental about personal choices done that harm no one (but maybe themselves - I think it's a little bit human to be self-sabotaging from time to time).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:12 AM
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Not really "superior" in an objective sense. In a positive light it's just an okay enough short-term solution to a lot of people in complex situations that desire to have uncomplicated carnal relationships. One way or another, it's going to be mostly a phase for the majority of the people who participate in it. Many aspects of the hookup culture aren't the most sustainable choice for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:44 PM
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They're convenient to some people. They're not a relationship that requires emotional effort for both parties when handled maturely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:27 PM
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Lotsa women like sex. One of the factors why we had such a rapid increase in the world's population the past 100 years. Each person that wants to have sex just has subjective tastes and maybe, just a maybe, many people don't tick enough boxes to qualify for coitus. There's oh so many factors why no one is tripping over themselves to touch you - Maybe a reason is your love for generalisations of women AND men (as ace and demisexual men also exist that don't care for sex or even the casual human s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:48 PM
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Not trying to sound cynical, just genuinely curious about your mindset: what's in it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:31 PM
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Some people raised in centain ways have certain entitled views. It's just how those people end up. Most of us who have gone through the regular-degular co-ed schooling systems would have met or have even been friends with girls that have very demanding personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:16 PM
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Anecdotal, sure, but no one I know who has children my age are happy or feel fulfilled. And that's enough of a warning for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:13 AM
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That's not just "touchy", those kinds of touching is sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:20 PM
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Attention Whore is gender-neutral. You can seek out and receive that validation in unusual places (or subreddits) if you really want it so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:42 PM
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Some women are also not liked by many people. It just unfortunately happens - whether it is the consequences of their accumulated decisions made and not made or just circumstances - it just unfortunately happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:48 AM
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"We're all human, let's be kind" - unless it is towards trans people merely trying to live their very own human lives. Leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:15 AM
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"For most of human history" and then offers an extremely Western-centric bourgeoisie society take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:55 PM
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I am eye-rolling at you since you're just spreading misinformation for the heck of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:01 AM
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Hope we get more songs like that to compete with the legions of misogynistic songs out there. 👌 Maybe then we can have some semblance of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:39 PM
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Oof. Most people aren't that smart. It's a chance game. You gotta win a little bit of the genetic and environmental lottery to be able to cultivate intellectual advantage. The way you just want to spread misogynistic rhetoric is so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:27 PM
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Man, the fiction writers are out and about again. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:18 PM
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Wish you would just journal in private, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:21 PM
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That's their take then. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I hope the men that want that kind of women find them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:50 PM
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I know some women that swoon over the "pathetic man" trope - maybe that's their type. It's not an impossible phenomenon. I see so many women talk about loving the concept of "men that yearn" before the courtship stage. There's so many kinds of straight women out there, they like so many different types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:16 PM
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Some of us just think men that aren't inherently hateful and violent towards women are pretty okay. It's fine to have a point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:13 PM
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"Simps" are the real straight men. They love women. They actually like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:52 PM
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I'm probably on the biased side here since I've only had a few guys around me say they've been "falsely accused" but were actually blatantly lying - what we found out about what actually happened were WORSE (nothing close to murder, but some counts of p3do activities and domestic abuse). It has left such a bad taste in my mouth. They blamed their victims as well and tried to make up more lies to silence them. I don't believe all women, that's ridiculous. There will be liars from time to time. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:37 AM
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Truly! Tuco could have become a somewhat successful rp influencer and we'd be watching expose videos of him and his crimes in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:49 AM
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The way you put together the expression "the coloured minerals" makes me think of Hank from Breaking Bad 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:49 AM
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Nah. Not the same category. One being a procedure one has undergone and the other being intentions towards another person. Not equal things. Weird comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:25 PM
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What even are the "top percentage of men"? Anecdotal, blah, blah, blah - but most of the straight, pansexual and bisexual women I am acquainted with that I've had a casual talk to about their type of men are very much into the "average" (in a stable career, had mediocre academic performance, has hobbies, has a friend grouo, is mostly reasonable as a partner, can be a centrist or mostly left-leaning in their personal politics, can regulate his emotions on his own and has an okay-ish relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:23 PM
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Agreement unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:45 AM
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Some may. Some don't. I'm of the latter as I just hope my partner feels comfortable in himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:26 AM
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Your friend should get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:22 AM
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This. Very few of my longterm interests have more of a female audience than male. I have had the need to have the social skills to become friends with them - for my own comfort and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:09 AM
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Disclaimer. Anecdotal. Blah. I had friends who had been a couple already ever since I started becoming friends with them. I mostly wanted to be friends with the girl, but as she is a driven and self-disciplined career woman who was dedicated to become the best in her field, she was Busy™- and I was mostly hanging out with the guy and our other friends. *He would complain about her behind her back. *He would talk about their sex life when I know that that would have made her extremely uncomfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:42 PM
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The actual plot of Barbie includes the crucial point that Ken is enough. That he isn't just Barbie's accessory and can have a complex existence with other people or by himself, that he does not need her validation to be a worthy person. He used to think he had to center her because he was "made for" (literally, as they are toys) her, but that was a short-sighted view he had of himself. The movie shattered that vision of Ken. His existence had intrinsic value. Always did. He is Kenough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:09 PM
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Congratulations in being cancer free! I hope you get to live a healthy and fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:30 AM
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Anecdotal. My aunt has been a nurse for 30+ years. She's told a bunch of stories about wives in critical conditions or diagnosed with difficult to treat illnesses with husbands that barely care/never showed up/or started affairs. The couples' ages range from late 20s to late 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:13 AM
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They should be put on a watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:57 PM
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??? Huh? Where did I mention them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:24 AM
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I don't know who "they" are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:16 AM
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Goodness gracious. The fiction writers are out and about these past few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:08 AM
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Man. Some people realize they're not gonna be good parents. I'm including myself in this demographic, but a lot of us in the subreddit potentially would be horrible parents - that doesn't stop us from wanting to be in a relationship and share our lives with someone. People are complex. Women are people. Women are complex and can have very niche personal life purposes. Women aren't just baby-making bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:56 AM
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It's actually quite common. Not the majority, but substantially more: https://thecatholicherald.com/ch/why-men-leave-their-dying-wives/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:12 AM
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Based. My dream is we all cease to exist and the earth recovers and hopefully another species better than us gets a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:09 AM
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That's not gonna happen in your lifetime. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:07 AM
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Men's prominent sexual preferences are the reason why the advertisement mantra "sex sells" exists. Prostitution being one of the oldest professions worldwide is also a result of having such a robust demand from the market predominantly composed of men as patrons. Just looking back into history is going to disprove everything you wrote here. A justified pushback from the women, who rightfully so, do not want to be sexualized is not really going to make a big change that's going to be substantial …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:04 AM
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Just because you have strongly held views, it doesn't equate to objective "reality". There are other people who exist on this earth. There are other life purposes aside from having children. Women are not only for child-birthing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:40 PM
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Kendrick Lamar voice: You seem conflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 PM
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What in the fiction writing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:01 PM
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Maybe. I don't really care. It's if we click and grow in friendship that matters. I like conversation and sharing hobbies and interests- And if they're okay with me being asexual that's great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:23 AM
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This isn't very "humanist" of you calling transmen "it".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:31 AM
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Most feminist men I was friends with for brief times were just guys who genuinely cared about other people. They give me hope. I've lost touch with most of them (met most of them in academic circles that I am no longer part of) but I have no doubts they're still feminists to this day - because they do not believe in the things they believe in purely for self-gain, it's just because they think it's the most reasonable set of beliefs they want to align themselves with. Some people just genuinely w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:15 PM
8

Safety, stability and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:06 PM
10

Problem: women have nothing to offer Solution: 👍 stay away from women 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:41 AM
1

And you know that how? What if I'm not even straight to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:02 AM
1

Oof, whatever. You can believe what you want. The answer to the original question is a NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:58 AM
1

Huh? I was a teenage girl and was friends with other teenage girls. You think I don't know what teenage girls are like? You're strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:53 AM
2

This is not very mature behaviour. I was not like this and maybe that's skewing the relatability for me, but I remember girls in school that were like this but we were in our teens. They've outgrown this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:49 AM
2

Oof. Why are are talking about teenage behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:03 AM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:01 AM
1

My experience is similar to this. I was tested a couple of times as a child and was generally more obedient and just followed instructions as long as I understood why. My parents were concerned about me blending in, and so spent more time teaching me about cultural and socially acceptable behaviours. I went to a special education facility for a while, of course I was in an autistic group but the boys our age couldn't socialise in "peaceful" ways so of course most of us kept our distance. It's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:47 AM
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She didn't say "hot" by the way. It's weird you're twisting her words that way. Very bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:37 AM
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A lot of women defend men, that's why society is the way it has been for eons. Many women will forgive men. Many women will love men irregardless of what they do and who they are. A lot of women center men. Maybe not some of us in this subreddit, but a lot of women in the real world will, do and always will do so. A lot of those other women will tear down other women for sport, when the opportunity presents itself. I don't see much men defend women though. I really don't (and I'm sadly sure many…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:32 AM
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If it's "unfriendly" in a very shy/uninterested/apathetic-introverted-personality-sense then I've seen a lot of people have no problem with guys like those. I've encountered them from time to time at work or in hobby clubs, they're okay most of the time. I'll interact with them as necessary, for an activity or an essential task, and I've seen others also have no problem with interacting with guys like this. The kind of "unfriendly" I actively avoid are the ones who do exhibit aggressive behaviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:18 AM
2

It's hard to "have a little compassion" when you don't feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:37 PM
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I just answered the question with how I would feel and think. Also feeling unsafe is instinctual. Consent can be recinded at any point - even after the signing. The signature can feel like a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:16 AM
2

This would not only be such a turn off, it sounds like I'm going to be killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:49 AM
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For the record, I've never really used dating apps. I've always been scared of them. They're so unappealing, they're not even used for "socialising", they're more like sexual solicitation and on the extreme end of it is harrassment. My friends who used to be on them only have horror stories. I am mostly operating on the assumption that a lot of women (myself included) fear the possible interactions on those applications. Maybe, a lot of us also have true-crime brainrot- it's honestly hard not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:15 PM
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We want friends. Actual friends. Platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:35 PM
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One would hope so! Destruction of another person's property is a breach of trust in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:26 AM
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If you date someone that has already had that hobby before you guys started dating, it is pretty weird if you complain they spend time on that hobby even after getting together. It's a hobby. (assuming it's in moderation, of course) I especially hate those videos when a girlfriend destroys a gaming console for views and the guy looks so devastated. Just talk it out??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:17 AM
2

I think friendships have certain levels of platonic chemistry to them, so it doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman- some of the best friendships one can develop might be found in the most unlikely of people. Some people really just click. I had a lot of male friends growing up since I only had brothers, and being a young autistic girl I was shunned by other girls (in their defense I was probably creepy and unusual - in my culture there's a belief of children touched by spirits and we were in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:56 PM
2

You good for DMs? I'm not the most casual with talking about typology in non-typology subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:02 PM
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Oh my gosh I've been exposed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:46 PM
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I wasn't meaning to make fun of you, I'm sorry if it seemed that way. (By the way, as a drummer I highly encourage you taking up drums, it's a workout of an instrument and very fun the better you get.) If a date is what you want, have you tried IRL matchmaking services and events? Some people still participate in it from my part of the world and I have work seniors and clients that found their significant others that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:01 AM
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What if the "fruit" were the lifelong skills and hobbies to love and devote one's time to all along?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:16 AM
2

Just in case you're looking into it again: The online tests are not the most accurate, and the popular ones are based on outdated (1980-90s studies and data) expectations of what extroverts and introverts are. Better to get typed by a specialist or an independent-scholar in these systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:45 PM
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You're welcome. You might also be interested in checking out dating groups based on one's type (Jungian typology, MBTI, BIG5, Socionics or Enneagram + Instinctual Variants). Socially introverted men are quite popular there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:39 PM
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Based on typology and personality typing groups: more introverts prefer other introverts, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:35 PM
3

Oh, it isn't really credible then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:14 PM
0

As an asexual myself, I can't believe I forgot about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:06 PM
0

That makes sense. Especially for the group that has rejection-sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:23 PM
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Maybe a chunk of the "never asked women out" group are gay, closeted or pre-transition that lean more to attraction towards men peeps. Would make sense why they don't have interest in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:21 PM
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"Nothing". He's the one who wanted to drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 PM
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I don't want to think this way but I do know of locals who have since feared white men because of the Peter Scully cases and I cannot blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:26 PM
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The ones I met in Japan and the Philippines mostly seeked out barely legal teenage girls or women clearly doing very badly financially. So I have a bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:56 PM
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I feel a bit weird about that too. I totally understand the apprehension behind the walking-dates for general safety concerns or possible distrust of strangers in general - but to demand to be wined and dined to the nines on the first meeting... It's a lot to ask for. Coffee dates seem okay, yeah, low-effort and uncreative, but they're okay. It's already the most common-knowledge thing that the economy is in a nose-dive and not everyone is doing okay, let the guys who can barely afford stuff cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:52 AM
0

Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:26 PM
2

No. I'll be the next victim. I don't like dangerous situations in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:39 AM
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Unfortunately, can confirm with mostly anecdotes. I'm autistic, I was categorized into the high-functioning level in the early 2000s. I didn't need as much assistance but I was not the most docile child. I went to a Special Ed school for children of different learning and physical disabilities after being rejected by four elementary schools because of my age (4 yrs old) and my higher than average academic needs. 85% of the autistic students were boys. There were only two of us girls in the class…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:44 PM
1

"There is perpetual meaning in the climb". Poet-speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:04 PM
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Yes, you got me. Thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:44 PM
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This isn't lost on me. But there was some nuance to my original comment, yeah? People under the poverty line being the ones still having more and more children despite everything. Yeah, it happens. It's one of biggest issues my country faces (I'm from the Philippines). Of course when I said "we're poor" I didn't mean to say I was in our government's classification of people in poverty - homeless and struggling to feed myself day to day. Man, if I was in the that classification I wouldn't have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:43 PM
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Many of us are poor. Many of us are scared of possible debt tied to having and raising children. There's probable debt in the future if one does not recover well-enough from childbirth and immediately get back to work. I've read research related to recovery from pregnancy and many women need more than 2 years to actually get better and back to functional status, some (due to genes and other factors) might need 7 years or more. Also, for most of us living in the most bare minimum of conditions, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:39 PM
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"Real man" is never an objective thing and most of the time the expectations of what a "real man" can do are unreasonable in this day and age. People are already real - what they could fake are aspects of themselves. You're your real self. Men can choose who they wanna date as well, and if they don't want to deal with other people's children they should be allowed to avoid whoever for whatever kind of reason - there's nothing bad if they're avoiding since no one, hopefully, is being harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:08 PM
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I'm not the best in reading others, I might also not have the strongest instincts except when it comes to danger, so I just try to never have expectations in meeting people. If they're nice it's a pleasant surprise. If they're awful then there would be no disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:40 AM
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No. Criminals should go to prison. No one should be above the law. Period. Weird take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:35 PM
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"Dehumidifying p*ssy" sounds like one of those scam spa services with the essential oils package.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:16 AM
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Ah. I see, I don't have a very good grasp of how hard or easy it is when it comes to dating app communications since I've never used one. Would you say you're good with your words IRL then? Are you just good in reading people? Like, have good social instincts due to upbringing and such?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:19 AM
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Braces are considered a charm-point here in Asia, so I might be biased in thinking that's it's just generally cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:44 AM
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Interesting. Roughly 70 times? Generally impressive. Which try did you start getting more success? Do you study general psychology or read up on books about how to be charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:31 AM
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Okay. What's to debate about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:13 PM
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He can make his own choices if he sees this as a viable route for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:43 AM
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Bruh, I can see you already are white-knuckled clutching on to your biases here and further conversation will not convince you no matter how well-meaning I try to be. Hope this hill you're willing to die on is worth it. Peace out ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:34 AM
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Escapism can become an indulgent hobby. But also, kinda a bad choice of a book to make an example of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:27 AM
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That is not what "nuanced" means and you should know that. I don't know who you're shadow-boxing with in your head, but I have not brought up those points or cast blame on anyone in any of my entries here. Women aren't perfect. They're just people too. There are bad women that totally manipulate men for their benefit, I don't think there's any argument about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:48 AM
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You can't say that for sure. People are nuanced in their attraction and who they are attracted to. All our own worst enemies are ourselves. That's just a human experience. No one needs to lower their standards if they do not want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:50 AM
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Now, I don't really have dating app experience, but is it possible that those women who have the "same complaints" are the prominent (I'm saying this as they're probably the popular profiles) minority (let's put an imagined percentage of 12-15%) of women on dating apps that get the majority of attention from the same group of men that seek out idealized traits and facial features? Probably a huge majority of women who aren't supermodel type of beauties get ignored on those apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:24 PM
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Some of us are underwhelmed. Some disappointed. Some mostly whelmed, partially cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:08 PM
0

Huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:52 PM
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Isn't the question in the title and at the end directed at all women and that's why you're using that particular flair? Am I not understanding correctly? Were you only targeting specific type of women? Did you only want to talk to women who can't stand you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 PM
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Not a contribution or a response - I just like your name, Mr. Common-Ferret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:35 PM
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I can't understand why and how one woman becomes all women in these types of posts. Also, maybe you should consider becoming a steady patron of brothels and sex workers if you seek for something purely physical. Seems like the most logical route for you at this point. #SupportLocalBusinesses
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:31 PM
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Hookup horror story. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:13 AM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:55 AM
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I'm a country bumpkin that grew up in a place where fathers, grandpas and uncles raped little girls. My biological mother is a foster parent for girls abused by their own family members. If you look up statistics there's too much incestuous molestation happening around the world. I'd like to think and believe my dad knew what he was teaching me about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:29 PM
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It has an uncanny charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:32 PM
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It probably boils down to practicality between most couples. Diamonds, despite not being rare, have such a heft price tag. Many of us live paycheck to paycheck and would rather focus on making sure of the next few months than wearing jewelry. Diamonds weren't even a cultural display of love and dedication a hundred years ago, the demand for it was a marketing scheme to sell sparkly carbon by giving it meaning. A lack of originality for some. I know people who want something a little bit more cus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:31 PM
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A lot of our fathers warn us not to approach men. A lot of our fathers teach us to fear unknown men. A lot of our fathers fear for us because they know of some men. Some of us listen. By your logic, men teach the next generation of women to be "sexist" towards men, ergo, other men want to encourage "sexism" against men. This is an unstable jenga tower of a stance, THROWAWAY-ACCOUNT-OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:09 PM
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Nice thought experiment you have there. Good thing nothing bad happened in theory-land. It's wonderful your sister grew-up not experiencing that. I would wish everyone could have had childhoods that preserved their innocence. Or it could be that she doesn't feel safe talking to you about her experiences for whatever reason because you think this way. Man, I have awful memories of being cat-called by the older boys and men I went to church with in the nice neighbourhood my parents worked hard for…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:04 PM
3

Appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:02 PM
6

My algorithm is mostly animal videos, anime edits, DIY furniture projects and cooking clips. The only time I ever see anything related to OF is when I scroll-down to the bottom of comment sections and see those out of place desperate comments that advertise with their links. I think the internet is still mostly okay but I do hate the occasional AI image jumpscares some people use on their posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:34 AM
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University assigned gooners. They're just very well-dressed errand boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:28 AM
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I really thought they legalised mafia-related businesses in this day and age and have become accepted by the majority of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:58 AM
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As a non-native English speaker I thought "gooner" was a recruiter for the mafia for a good 2.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:19 AM
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What a big paintbrush you have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:12 PM
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I think so too. Giving them a space (and incentive but also direction) to start talking about these topics with their peers will be an investment into their growth in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:37 PM
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Non-American chiming in. My idea of an educational structure that (hopefully) benefits the majority of children irregardless of their genders is this: *Provide branches of educational programs or skill-building classes based on learning styles exhibited by children while they're still young. Types of intelligences like interpersonal, kinesthetic, linguistics or mathematical logic can be theoretically observed from ages 3-7. Make sure that they're encouraged to pursue some creative interests they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:59 PM
2

This is such a MENSA entry response, bruv. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:50 PM
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Someone hand OP lenses because he's out here being a giant projector.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:46 PM
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Oof. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:43 PM
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Short answer: NO. Long answer and a bit of spice towards OP's sloppily composed pose: Merriam-Webster's online dictionary defines INTROSPECTION as: "a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's own thoughts and feelings". Standford's Encyclopedia of Philosophy entry says that introspection "is a means of learning about one’s own currently ongoing, or perhaps very recently past, mental states or processes..." It's not gendered, it is simply a process of the mind that occurs in a mind. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:32 PM
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The kind and funny geek man archetypes are under-represented!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:23 PM
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Some people just want companionships and nothing deeply romantic and their relationships are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:59 AM
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Sex-repulsed asexuals HATE sex. A lot of women of a different orientations like sex, they just don't want to be coerced into it and would generally prefer being with someone they like and are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:57 AM
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Anecdote incoming: lesbian friend was threatened corrective rape by some family members to "make (her) straight again". She was homeless for years after leaving home. I doubt this is a one-off circumstance. :/ I get upset everytime I remember what she went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:51 AM
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May not want to hear this from someone close to your age - but, man, you're still young! You gots the time. Genuinely have never used these match-making services myself (I've been dating the same guy since I was 21) but from what I can remember, the better services really have a lax way of conducting meet-ups between potential couples. They do make you talk about the uncomfortable details like salary and work-history. I'm just gonna be talking about mostly Japan and mostly Asian countries here, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:38 PM
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Thanks for answering. 👍 I take it you mean do I have a misogynistic view of women? Yes and no. And no and yes. I try my bestest to not assume the worst of people, but I do (involuntarily) judge people on semantics and general verbiage used. Really was just an open question. Are you setting an age deadline for yourself to achieve romance and married life? Have you tried more traditional match-making services (like, not a dating app)? Context: I work for a Japanese company and sometimes meet clien…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:24 PM
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I see. If you're comfortable with elaborating, why do you desire a romantic relationship? And how do you see women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:56 PM
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Genuine question: why not just pay for sex workers for the sexlesness issue? Societal stigmas aside. Why wouldn't paying for sex services while maintaining singleness and cultivating one's friendships with their fellow men not be a good enough? Since being in relationship with modern women are talked about as bothersome, boring, vapid and not worth it for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:50 PM
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Maybe you can write your stories in your notebook first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:35 AM
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Man, you didn't read and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:59 AM
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"Worse gender" just means "not a man" to you, it seems. But women do have the worse life experiences because of misogynistic, predatory, abusive, hateful, pedophilic, murderous, violent, rapist, lying, stealing and cheating men, so if that's what you mean... Being born a woman is the biggest L, indeed. Too many women get killed by men around the world. Too many. (and I am totally not saying women can't be any of those things, some of them are - but the men win by the sheer numbers). It's a god-a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:55 AM
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five whole rounds of paralysis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:49 PM
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Haaa? Is it so bad to have hobbies?? To be shared with friends???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:45 PM
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Nope. I said "platonically". Or just start a homie commune. Other relationships (usually) not involving the issue of genitals are friendships, companionships and hobby clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:43 PM
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rolls for sanity check on PPD gets a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:09 PM
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Circumsicion of infants is an unnecessary mutilation. If a man wants to be circumcised, it's his phallus, he should decide to get it done or not. Isn't it like a religious covenant or something? What if the kid grows up to be an athiest or wants to be part of a different belief system?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:50 PM
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Wish they would just platonically date each other if they're not gay but also hate all women and are deathly afraid of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:42 PM
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Bruh, if you guys keep saying "not all men" as a chant shouldn't "not all women" be part of your logic too? You sound like you've been unloved for who you are because of who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:30 PM
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Huh?? Do you know the meaning of the words you typed? Are you talking about bisexuals? Bi-romantic people? Pan-romantic people? Cause they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:33 PM
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Just because they want to. There's a lot that actual feelings of love towards a person can do. Also a lot of women (I'm not including myself since I'm unfortunately not a romantic person) are so very much full of love they want to give it away. They're just caring, they're nurturing, they're genuine givers - they just want to do a lot for their chosen partner BECAUSE THEY WANT TO. There are people out there that will stay with their chosen person despite having other options - men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:30 PM
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It can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:24 PM
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I think someone has to be so very jaded to no longer keep track of their bad impressions. Their social sensitivities are so dulled from loss of hope in humanity. The very fact that they're angry or showing discontent actively might be an indicator that they're still holding on to some sliver of hope towards an improvement of their situation. Just a guess tho. Humans are peculiar creatures, even to each other. I know men who have had bad impressions of their relationships with women (and call maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:19 AM
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To a certain degree, it probably does. Highly depending on one's circumstances. Bad impressions are kinda hard to overcome for a lot of people. It is probably more easy to dismiss for women who are in favorable situations and have very good+healthy relationships with the men in their lives, whether it is their spouse/partner or family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:04 AM
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Just gonna name stuff in Asia: *There's much less daughter-murders in Asian societies. Baby girls used to be killed en masse due to the preference for sons. *There's also less child-brides, so less little girls die by being basically raped by much, much older men legally. (although, there is a significant number or weirdos wanting to defend this practice) *There's been an increase in sexual education among tbe youth. *More people are understanding of serious mental health issues (although access…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:20 PM
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I didn't say it had to be. I am genuinely curious. English is a 4th language and I am having a hard time keeping up with the slang.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:21 AM
1

That's a good one. Also sounds like a Viking event.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:59 PM
6

Rake Stage Capitalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:06 PM
6

Hm. From what I understand (and looked up), himbos do not need to go through a "hoe phase" to become a himbo. They just are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:58 AM
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It does have a certain charm to it, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:04 AM
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Ciao. Good luck with life and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:01 AM
2

No argument against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:59 AM
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I'm not into arguing with someone who does not have researched stances. No citations? No academic studies presented to back up your point? Nah. I'm good with this interaction. :) We're just yappers out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:51 AM
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Am I making you emotional, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:46 AM
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You've never fully accessed your amygdala, hippocampus, limbic cortex and hypothalamus, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:40 AM
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looks at the all the historical records confirming how the majority of women were barred from positions of authority
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:31 AM
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Curious, what would be "hoe phase" in the masculine vernacular? Rake Stage? Bachelor Condition? Fuckboi Chapter? Manhoe Chronicles? Is there even one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:23 AM
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:/ That always bothers me. Sad you have experiences like that, man. When it's a guy being harrased many people wave it away as unserious. From what I've witnessed, other guys make remarks like "you're so lucky!" or the sickening "wish she'd do that to me too!" I've only ever lived in Asia so I'm trapped in the cultures here, but sometimes aunties say "save him for me" towards handsome young men AND NOBODY SAYS ANYTHING because ageism has us in chokehold. As if being an elder always makes it excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:02 AM
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looks at the countless wars and unnecessary deaths under the leadership of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:21 AM
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Older aunties and grandmas that are overly handsy with anyone 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:52 AM
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Maybe we should start learning to compose disstracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:20 PM
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Like how many more arrangements of words must be formed to get the message of NO across?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:10 PM
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That's good that you know what you want. Hope you get what you want. I'd rather be nice and polite than potentially harmed. Learned my lesson really quick. This is just my experience, but the one time I was completely honest in my rejection - he stalked me for 2 years. I know I'm not the only one who experienced something like this and I know I'm kinda lucky it never escalated into something more violent. It certainly has stained a lot of my interactions due to me already having an anxiety disor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:08 PM
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Someone else paying for a another's stranger's babysitter is kinda iffy. Like, why would anyone do that? Maybe out of the kindness of their hearts, perhaps. But as a REQUIREMENT. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:27 PM
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OP was providing nuance from her own perspective, there's a subjectivity to all of the posts here. A POV that one does not have access to, isn't something one could effectively elaborate upon. This isn't a creative fiction writing competition. I don't know why this would be considered "tone-deaf"...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:18 PM
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Write it for yourself then 👍 But I think it's clear for the more cool-headed people reading OP's post that she did not write "it to feel superior to most men" but to hopefully explain clear cut rejections women give out and the fear of being harmed by the men who receive such rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:14 PM
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OP was so very clear. Rejections are so very clear. The politeness she had to deliver the message was so very clear and felt. Read it again. Or do you need someone to hold your hand while comprehending clear statements? What is too hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:02 PM
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YOU should read the post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:46 PM
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Chad is allowed to live in one bedroom apartments. It wasn't in the primary description of him to have some hyperspecific type of living condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:58 AM
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1 and 4 seem like unimportant things for me. If I get rid of two things, can I add the GEEK trait so we can go to favorite media conventions together and genuinely enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:59 AM
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Time to walk back into the ocean and wait for the next evolutionary cycle. Maybe they'll get it right next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:19 AM
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Just because you couldn't SEE it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I've not seen the ocean floor yet believe its existence. Why must our subjective experiences become resounding truths for strangers to subscribe to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:26 PM
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"You feminist women" - men can be feminists too when they subscribe to the ideas of intersectional egalitarian humanist philosophies. Men can totally cultivate this if at least 25% of you strive for it. Or at least talk about it amongst yourselves. And as someone who is indigenous (I'm from a tribe from the deep mountainous regions of Agusan in Mindanao, Philippines), there is still a pride in a cultural and/or contextual idea of what masculinity is. It definitely exists out there from outside m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:11 PM
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What's your source? Men that hate us already? It's sad how many of you cry "not all men" but "definitely all women" under the same breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:27 PM
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<image> OP thinks we can telepathically communicate and access the hive-mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:06 PM
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Are you comparing us to insects at this point? Really dehumanising.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:07 AM
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Men run the world. Why don't men make it acceptable?! Tell your buddies that singleness is the new happiness. Make it a thing amongst yourselves. Why do women, who aren't even at the top of society, or even treated as human beings in other countries and cultures, the ones you look to to make this an event? Baffling. You guys are strong and independent men. You can do it. Believe in yourselves! Do it! Do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:03 AM
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Look at international news if you don't see it in your local news.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:18 PM
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They say things like "talk like a b!tch, get hit like a b!tch" and do a surprise Pikachu face when they act like assholes and then proceed to be ostracised like assholes. I used to look up to punks who would be abrasive on purpose to gain attention for their humanitarian or social reform causes. These men just wanna be abrasive for the vibes of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:24 PM
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Huh. Is it bad for different people to give different answers to given questions? Geez. I wonder... What was that term... It's pertaining to "the quality or character of a particular person or thing that distinguishes them from others of the same kind"... To mark one's SEPARATE existence... Ah... Right, a person's INDIVIDUALITY. PEOPLE WITH A DISTINCT SENSE OF INDIVIDUALITY WILL GIVE DIFFERING INDIVIDUAL ANECDOTES. It isn't a "bait and switch", it's just multiple individuals that give multiple a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:27 PM
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I don't care what he looks like. If the goal of the interaction is only to hand me a phone number, I think it's just an interaction I'd rather not have ever. This has been my stance since I was young and single. Still is my stance now that I'm a bit older and with a long-term relationship. I will take a business flier on good days. Will not take a random man's number on even my best or worst moments. Probably because of my upbringing, my great aunt worked for the local police force and handled m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:04 AM
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What are the criteria for something to become an "overwhelming trend"? I think, that because of our dependency on the internet, we get to witness the worst of the worst very easily (whatever that is in our personal standards), and because of the current algorithmic outputs on sites like YouTube or other social media, we are overwhelmingly shown content that we already subscribe to. Probably, there is no "overwhelming" trend in relationships, there are just recorded statistical majorities that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:04 AM
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If you live in a fairly big city and sit around a cafe for a whole afternoon people watching, you can certainly see "unattractive" couples. Whatever dynamic of a relationship you can think of (with a reasonable enough dynamic) has probably happened and most likely exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:49 PM
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Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:33 AM
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Whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:27 AM
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A partially sincere answer to a strange discussion about a theoretical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:18 AM
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I would like to think that the Chaddiest Chad is just out there living life without having to prescribe to either of the "pilled" ideologies. He is based and doesn't know it. And he does not need to. I hope he is out there living a fulfilling life and spread genuine positivity to everyone he interacts with - and when his time comes, hopefully the meaningful relationships he has built in his lifetime make sure he is surrounded by love and warmth as he gracefully passes on. Fulfilled and truly bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:31 AM
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I just think the majority of sane and well-balanced people would agree that housing/shelter is an actual need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:24 PM
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Comparing housing to wanting sex from another person is whack to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:05 PM
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And repeatedly smashing it into their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:27 AM
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Just from my personal experiences when I was still in college and some when I already started working: *Rape "jokes" in casual conversations that were not supposed to be sexual to begin with. (during introductory conversations, discussing group projects, doing a rundown of an activity, and one instance was a derailed philosophical discussion over drinks with other friends) *"Joking" about me getting raped (I just said that I didn't like casual dating for personal reasons). *Being asked what kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:21 PM
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Yes. If it 100% guarantees that, I'd rather be lonely than raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:49 AM
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Never been to a Disneyland. I live in a third-world country in Asia that doesn't update a lot of the rides for budget issues, so we're pretty much still on 1963 (or at least 1980s) standards for the carnival rides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:21 PM
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I didn't have that much standard for looks (as long as they weren't morbidly obese, since I enjoy carnival rides with people and those have weight limits) , but I knew I wanted to be with someone intelligent, have "productive and enriching" hobbies that he could do on his own without being clingy AND be emotionally understanding (or had the desire to become emotionally understanding and patient). I am quite immovable on the intelligent part, as I like having long conversations and the occasional…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:49 PM
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I don't really have a lot of dating experience (mostly because I am ace - so I'm maybe not the data pool swimmer you want) but I have some girl friends that like men (majority of the time) that do have a robust dating life and it seems like they could care less about who's "alpha" or "beta". At a first date they are concerned for their safety and comfort. In a blooming relationship they mostly seek out a geniune spark of attraction and maybe a dash of passion. In a long term-relationship, they y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:30 PM
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They keep asking us this clarifying question, we answer, we give our reasoning, we give the context and cite studies. And we still are NOT BEING BELIEVED. If a bear mauled us in the woods, we'd be believed. We won't be asked what we were wearing. We won't be denied the horrible reality of that situation. We are cornered by the ugly truth of men and our experiences with them, and so we choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:40 AM
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My only issue is that a sizeable percentage of them have chosen to come here to SouthEast Asia. We're getting more and more weary and tired of the ones that are overly eager - I've encountered some culturally-insensitive passport bros that expect us, the locals, to cater to their every whim. They're playing stupid games, in a land that is not their own. Oh, and I hate that the pedos fly over here too, hiding under the cloak of being a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:03 PM
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You're being very purposefully obtuse. :) I am going to ignore all your points now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:34 PM
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I didn't make the theoretical question, someone else did. He chose to ask women. They all intuitively understood it as a theoretical situation of a known and acceptable danger vs. an unknown but heard about danger. And they answered. A huge majority chose the bear. It's not an offense to men, it's a concern for self-preservation(to a certain degree). Yes, both are dangerous. But, as someone poignantly put it into words somewhere else in the internet, at least if the bear killed her: "people woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:31 PM
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I think if the parallel of human VS. Actual Animal is a racist simulation - then it's already not an equal comparison. Pick a shark. Pick a leopard. Pick a tiger. Don't simulate against an actual race of other HUMAN BEINGS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:08 PM
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