I never said you should be kissing their ass. Just understand that calling someone who suffers from immense levels of self-hate "a loser" is not helpful to anyone.
"Second, I will let you in on another secret about “tough love” —It doesn’t work." from Christina Carter, licensed psychologist, and probably has more experience than someone who claims they "mentor" people on Reddit.
You can't critique people that hate themselves for being ugly in a world so catered towards the attractive. "A 2010 survey by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) revealed that a whopping 92% of responding employers conducted criminal records checks on at least some job candidates, and 73% said that they conducted criminal records checks on all candidates." Source: https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/getting-hired-with-arrest-conviction-record.html It's extremely difficult for so…
