| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 303 | Exes. | Snoo_68035 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 08:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | The importance of your attentionHe has no picture of who he's dating, but neither do you. Stop being a weirdo and learn to accept alternative point of views. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 04:47 PM |
| 0 | The importance of your attentionSo a picture of him with his lady on his webpage would suddenly validate what he is saying? What a mediocre way of thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 04:24 PM |
| 24 | 4 Answers To A Simple Problem"The amount of beta you need for a functional relationship is vastly overestimated by men." If you don't remember anything else from this post, remember this. Men assume you need a 50% alpha - 50% beta ratio in a relationship, when it should be 80% alpha - 20% beta. Maybe even 90% alpha to 10% beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Exes.That first heartbreak turns a boy into a man. As men, we were blessed with what is mostly a logical mind: and if a man employs that mind in analysing what went wrong, he will always gain valuable lessons from that breakup. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 05:16 AM |
| 8 | Exes.Glad you brought up Tom Brady. I'm not in his household, therefore I cannot presume to know what happened. However, if I was to make a guess, and also based on unconfirmed reports, he promised his wife he'd retire two years ago but he didn't. Believe it or not, this is weakness. Not being a man of your word is one of the biggest turn offs to women. You must have the strength to back up your words with actions. Go back on a promise you made to a girl and watch how quickly her attraction drops in … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 05:09 AM |
| 7 | Exes.My original post is not telling men not to feel bad that a woman left. It is telling men not to take an ex back that broke up with them. We are all human and men are allowed to grieve a relationship for however long they deem necessary. Moments of weakness here and there might be forgivable in a woman's eyes. Days, weeks and months of weakness aren't. My experiences, both positive and negative, have taught me that hypergamy punishes weakness and rewards strength. Every single time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 08:59 AM |
| 8 | Exes.All the reasons you've mentioned can be summed up into one word: weakness. Physical weakness, mental weakness, emotional weakness, social weakness. Yes, it takes mental fortitude to cut off someone. However, that mental fortitude will eliminate any weakness when dealing with the next woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 08:31 AM |
| 13 | Exes.If you broke up with her, you can choose to go back. The rules are different. Personally, I would never go back to an ex whether she initiated the break up or I did. There's just too many new women to explore for me to be interested in re-opening a chapter I already closed. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 05:49 AM |
| 10 | Exes.Women love a challenge. By giving your commitment too easily, it lost value to her and that is why she was non - committal. A man with options NEVER brings up relationship talk. She basically has to corner you into a relationship. I wouldn't recommend trying out again with this particular woman because you've lost too much frame. She will never be fully attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Exes.If you broke up with her, you signalled the ultimate abundance mindset: you walked away. If you take this ex back, you can do some very unspeakable things to her in the bedroom because her attraction will be sky high. This is why it is easy to get a threesome with an ex you've dumped before. My original post only covers the situation when she initiates the break up. The rules are very different if you break up with her instead. Edit: To make it clear, I still wouldn't take an ex back, regardless… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 12:23 AM |
| 12 | Exes.Alright. Let's say a relationship ended because of long distance. The fact that the man agreed to a long distance relationship is already a slight loss of frame. No man that truly has options would ever agree to a long distance relationship. Women instinctively know this, mostly on a subconscious level. Basically, by agreeing to a long distance relationship, the man signalled he is not pre-selected. That is scarcity. The man is afraid to lose the girl. Which is probably why she broke up with him… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 11:35 PM |
| 42 | Exes.This is where it gets paradoxical: the exes you would "take back in a heartbeat" take forever to come back. Women's intuition is insane. It's almost as if they can sense you pining for them from miles away. Basically, to get them back, you have to truly let them go. By the time you truly let them go, you don't want them back. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 11:00 PM |
| 59 | Exes.She might not even actively have solid options, but if she even believes she can do better, she will take her chances in the dating market. She is wired to do that. Which is why hypergamy is not to be hated, but to be accepted. Nature uses hypergamy to punish inferiority/weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 10:17 PM |
| 13 | Exes.I'm not a fan of blocking. It gives a party too much validation that I still care. I prefer ghosting. But I understand both sides of that particular argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 10:02 PM |
| 29 | Exes.Most likely, the man displayed emotional, physical, mental or spiritual weakness. This is not a post meant to blame women. It is a post on how to respond, once she has deemed your weakness irredeemable. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 09:56 PM |
| 23 | Exes.Facts. Creating new memories and experiences goes a long way in archiving the old ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 09:36 PM |
| 32 | Exes.Because you have never truly accepted that she is gone for good. A part of you, consciously or subconsciously, holds on to the fact that one day she will come back. Grief requires acceptance. And acceptance takes time. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/23 09:24 PM |
| 11 | If you want to know her REAL sexual history...You are actually in an LTR with a woman who has an n-count of 35+? Y'all really learn absolutely nothing from the sidebar | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 5 | No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned.Women survive on validation. To you, it might seem that you're just "using her for sex" but to her, it's "Ha! I'm still attractive to him"...basically using YOU for validation. That's why it's recommended to cut off an ex completely. Ghost the girl with zero closure. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 06:55 AM |
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