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| 2 | If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ?Damn now I feel stupid for texting my ex happy mothers day after debating whether I should or not. Thought it was a step towards healing and being the bigger person, but now......... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Question for introverted menThey can smell the pain like dogs can smell cancer. /s | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for introverted menThere's nothing special about this guy's answer, but, I can testify w/out even knowing him that it is all true. 46m, 2 kids, almost 2 years since. Just spent my 1st "real" holiday alone. Decided to not stay home and volunteer. Was one of the best days ive had in a long while. I will say this though OP, why do you have to change? Stay introverted if you like and are comfortable with it. You dont have to be outgoing if you dont want to. Live your life, not what everyone else thinks it should be. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Be True to YourselfThis is great, but, doing the work can be a double edged sword. In some, maybe even most, you find what you need to make a relationship work. However in cases like mine, you discover that you're just way too of a disruptive person to be able to maintain an intimate relationship. Be prepared for that possibility. Im still doing therapy and finding my joy and life in other places. In some ways im almost happy I discovered this about myself, it does make things clearer for me. But I'll never hold s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Ex wants to send my son with a locked phone that notifies her if it’s accessed — looking for thoughts before I respondCan I ask what is the danger here of a cell phone. I dont want to hijack this thread, but im kind of in a similar situation. I just bought my daughter a phone. Me and her mother have no stipulations around it other than parental control. I can understand it can be difficult if you have a contentious or difficult relationship with the x/stbx. But if all is ok, is the phone itself a danger in divorce proceedings? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | First thanksgiving aloneI second this. I know im late to this party, but I just spent my 2nd Thanksgiving w/out the stbx and the kids and spent the day delivering food for a church. Hands down one of the best holidays I've had in a minute. Definitely going to do it more moving forwards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Please check in on your friends going through a divorce.That's why I wanna move back down closer to them ASAP, cant do 50/50 from where im at | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/25 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Please check in on your friends going through a divorce.Well to be precise i didn't loose them per se. I can see them when I want or have time. But I lost my family due to depression. Its a gut punch since I miss my kids like crazy. 2 times a week isn't enough | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Please check in on your friends going through a divorce.To be honest, I feel this is as good as its going to get. I'm looking forward to an apartment with my dog, but I know that will only last so long. My life has lost the light my kids brought me and im avoiding marriage and women like the plague. This next chapter of my life is called accepting your fate and living (not theiving) in it. Kinda depressing, but makes things more manageable for me at least. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/25 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Please check in on your friends going through a divorce.Hey man, just checking in on you. You ok? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 01:26 PM |
| 22 | Please check in on your friends going through a divorce.Going thru it now, I lost EVERYTHING, kids, house, job. Only thing I got to walk away with were the clothes on my back and my car, and my dog. My stuff is still in the house I pay for and can't even live in. Throughout all of this, I realized I should check in with my contacts and make sure they're ok and be more grateful in general. None of them have checked on me. I have no support system aside from my dog, who seems to be the only one looking out for me. He has stopped me 2 times already from… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 01:22 PM |
| 8 | It gets betterJust turned 47 and after 2 years of no progress moving on from her, I resigned myself to giving up on women completely. I know it sounds defeatist, but I lost everything in the seperation except my dog. And she still won't give me a divorce. I'm just accepting my lot in life and try to keep focusing on my kids. That's all I have to look forward to now anyways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 09:45 AM |
| 6 | So many grief cyclesI'm 45, 2 kids and going thru much the same. I got depressed and lacked vision or purpose which cause me to either take the wrong action or inaction. I became sedentary and morose, and I stayed in it for far too long. Mainly because I didn't even realize I was depressed, thought it was just life and I was lost until the shit hit the proverbial fan. Now I lay in bed wanting her back, but knowing that if the subject is even considered she'd shoot it down without a second thought. Yea we both made … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Who else felt like they were forced to initiate the divorceFeel and am going thru the exact same thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/24 03:13 PM |
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