I’ve not seen that before so reading now. Ok so no I didn’t mean like that. I meant more the friends you have known for a while that then develop. If there are feelings there straight away for one the. Yes that can get painful and so on. I think I need a proper read of these subs before o make comments.
To be fair any tactic is going to get you in the friend zone or relationship... depending on how they like you. You can be however you want and it’s going to be romantic or creepy... depending on how they see you.