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| 11 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts? | ADVICE | SnootyPretzel | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 05:32 PM |
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| 10 | one sided open relationshipHi! I was in a similar boat with my partner so I think I can share my thoughts on this one When I met my partner he also made it very clear he wanted a one sided open relationship. Because I found him very smart, handsome and way more emotionally mature than most guys I'd met, I initially agreed to it. That agreement lasted a whooping total of 5 days x) I couldn't come to terms with the idea that it would be more important to him to satisfy his bodily needs than to nurture a strong monogamous re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?I'm glad it's helping others! I was considering deleting this post since I feel like I've gained enough insight into my issue and how to handle it but I'll keep it in case other people here will find the advice here as eye-opening as I have. In my case I was brought up to think that nothing is ever really good enough, and I tend to expect a lot out of myself(and I don't ever feel like I do/am enough) and then I project that onto the world as well. Quite messed up :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Thanks for the reply! I can definitely see the over-the-top expectations I've put over my poor guy. I feel very silly for having written this post but then again it seems like it was needed. I feel like it all came mostly from a place of anxiety, my mother latches onto every little thing she finds unmanly in him and my little hamster brain wanted to please her as fast as possible. Coupled with the fact that my sister's husband is perfect in her eyes, I downspiraled very quickly into thinking unh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Gosh, I was so in my head while writing this post that it felt like my problems were oh-so-bad, woe is me. He really would be there for me where it matters most. Thanks for taking the time to reply, loved the little bit about your husband haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Thank you! I will emphasise the good over what I perceive as bad, he deserves that | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Thank you very much for the reply! Everyone here has been bringing some sense back into me and it's honestly what I needed. It's really spot on that I tend to evaluate what happens around me a lot. It's definitely not out of enjoyment, it's a visceral response almost. I can see how I will be creating an unfulfilling life if I keep it up like this. Time for me to look inwards rather than outwards. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Any Scandinavian ladies have any idea how to find RP men here?In my personal opinion the best thing you can do is present yourself and act in the manner that would attract the kind of man that you want. Be confident about your wants/needs and gracefully reject any man who does not wish to commit. If you present yourself in accordance to the kind of man you want then you're maximizing the chance of being approached by that type of person. And if it doesn't happen this year, or next year, consider if you would rather start hooking up than to be single until … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 01:38 PM |
| 9 | How do I introduce my friend to RPWHmm, sounds to me that she is confused and possibly with a very low self esteem given that she's willing to go that far to be accepted by a toxic man. It's possibly very difficult for her to pick rationality over feelings. I'd approach the RPW topic with a "Hey girl, it might not be my place to say, but I'm a bit worried that you're falling into a toxic dating pattern. (Do let me know if you think I'm wrong)" And then somewhere down the line drop a "I hope you don't mind if I bring up my own app… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/21 12:26 PM |
| 34 | How do I introduce my friend to RPWYou can't get your advice heard by someone who is not in the right mental space and is not looking at all to make a change in their life. I say that from my personal experience of telling my friends step by step why what they did was wrong, only to be met with a half hearted "yeah, I know" and a soon to follow repetition of the same events that caused them pain before. Maybe I'm wrong and she would be open to change, but then again if she was, you wouldn't have to worry about how to approach the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/21 11:14 AM |
| 5 | What are your favorite subreddits?Oh my pleasure, happy you found something to your liking! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 23 | What are your favorite subreddits?Ooo I'm keeping an eye on this post. As for me, I have to say I love r/CozyPlaces and r/InteriorDesign as they give me inspiration for my future home, whenever that may be! r/catswhotrill to get my daily dose of cute r/tuckedinkitties because my ldr boyfriend sends me a picture from there every time I go to bed r/getdisciplined r/selfimprovement for when I need a butt kick to get my day going r/yoga well, because I like yoga r/MakeupAddiction because I love seeing how amazing makeup can look eve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/21 06:18 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?For being able to be self sufficient with my freelance job, for my ldr boyfriend who is trying his hardest to move to my country soon, for my sister who is always there for me and I love her to death ♥ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 23 | Am I a second choice? Help!don’t think I’ll get back with him anyway I’m just keeping him around because it’s convenient for me as well That's.. a little bit of an unhealthy attitude. Why waste your and his time by doing this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 17 | Is it anti-RP to ask my micro-managing man to give me more space for independence in doing little household tasks?Sorry if I chastised you a little too harshly, I get a little bit worried when people start relying more on what a certain "movement" says they should do rather than their own ability to distinguish right from wrong and make choices to fit their own life. I'm very glad RP has helped you though, it helped me a bunch as well! As for straying off the path, I understand where you're coming from. However, we might walk the same kind of road but we're not stepping on the same exact footsteps :) It's a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 02:30 PM |
| 39 | Is it anti-RP to ask my micro-managing man to give me more space for independence in doing little household tasks?I've gently told him how it makes me feel when I feel that he is criticizing all the little things I do, and this does seem to help, but I've been wondering if this goes against RP strategy? Is there a better way? Why are you relying on RP strategy from strangers when you have empirical evidence that your approach seems to show some results? RP is only meant to guide you in a rather broad sense, but I can bet that every single relationship in here differs from others in more than one way. Have s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 14 | RPW truth: appearance is the most important thingI don't know about you OP, but I for one would most certainly not want to be with a guy who overlooks a nasty personality so long as the chick is hot. That kind of guy would be a doormat to the woman. Do you want a man or a boy with zero regard to anything other than your hotness? Maybe for her standards, the woman you mentioned has won in life. But I most certainly don't see it as a win. The day I stop being able to show kindness because all my mind does is obsess over how I can look more perfe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/20 01:34 PM |
| 28 | My boyfriend talked about a future with another girlI would nope out of that relationship in an instant and take some time to myself( or as they say, go nun mode ) in case the breakup inflicted damage to my self worth( which is very likely in these situations where he chooses the "other girl "). Chin up and follow your gut feelings, and really consider if long term you'd be happy to be with someone who can so nonchalantly maintain close connections with other women and blatantly display romantic feelings for them while you sit in the sideline let… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m really pissed at my bf and I don’t know whyIf you really feel that the irritation just isn't going away maybe consider discussing this with him in a non violent communication method. Rather than saying "you're being inconsiderate", say " I feel alone because I perceive you in X way even though it might not be the case. Help me sort this out " If he doesn't feel like you're accusing him of anything, he's going to be way more willing to communicate I think. We all have our moments when our SO is not on the same wavelength as us and it's co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 16 | Men who call their women bro and says that you're one of his best friends, red flag?Hanging out on subs such as this one can get you to overthink almost everything and anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/20 01:04 PM |
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