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I work out (full body lifting 2x a week + 1x per week of rock climbing) and gained muscle mass because I hated seeing the scrawny 65 kilo weakling in the mirror and I got sick of it. I don't work out to please the ladies. I do so to feel better in my own skin, but it definitely helped attract women though. There's no denying that. The confidence I gained might gave played a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:56 AM
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Hold on, after orgasming, you still enjoy PiV? Shit I need to eat out my girlfriend more often pre-sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:28 AM
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I'm tall well above average, but I sympathize with short men who often get rejected due to their height. I have no solution for them other than to simply own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:27 AM
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Never had sex with a girl that loved any of those things. I mean yeah women love to be fucked by their boyfriend, one of my exes loved getting fucking pounded but hair pulling and shit, no, never had any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:25 AM
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I'm just very disappointed you didn't use Mario and Wario for your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:14 AM
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I said 95% of the cases because I only do this with women I'm in a relationship with. I don't do casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:25 AM
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This is exactly why I eat the girl out before we fuck in 95% of the cases. That way, if she doesn't orgasm from PiV, at least she still got pleasure from oral and I'll feel less guilty. I still love to cuddle after sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:55 AM
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My girlfriend is relatively small and she says that if my dick was just a little bit bigger, it would probably hurt. And my dick isn't particularly large. Maybe in the higher average, but still in the average. So yeah, I can see how too big can definitely be a problem too. There have been some studies that show women get aroused more by a larger dick simply because of the pyschological effect: the idea that she's fucking a big dick is arousing, but physically, it doesn't really matter all that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:51 AM
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I don't understand why "sausage parties" are bad anyway. I love spending time with my bros, even if there are no women. Not everything we do needs to have "getting chicks" in it's scope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:56 AM
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Which is an instant hard pass for me, no matter how hot she is or how cool her photo's are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:32 AM
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Just no. I'm 6'3, athletic build, have a remotely decent looking face, was told by several women I have a very beautiful smile and beautiful eyes, I've even been told I have a warm, manly voice. I can assure you, while it's easier, it's not "tutorial mode". I think I get less than 5 matches on Tinder per month, most of which never reply or just instantly unmatch and I never notice any women checking me out in real life and I can count on one hand how often I've been approached by women the last …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:04 AM
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putting yourself in uncomfortable situations to improve your social skills, adopting an outcome independent mindset ect... it might be much harder depending on the hand you are dealt but such is life. Well that's the problem for many men: we have to put in so much fucking effort, it's just exhausting and demoralizing. And many of us are sick of having to put up with this shit about just put yourself out there, be witty, be funny, be confident, learn to escalate properly but not too fast and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:58 AM
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My heart hurts just reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:46 AM
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For me, it's more the betrayal of my trust. I'm absolutely capable of trusting people, but if you betray my trust, you will not like my reaction. Even if she goes "it was purely for the physical part, not for the emotional part" which my ex gave me as an excuse, my reaction stays the same: you betrayed my trust, pack your shit and get the fuck out of my sight, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:46 AM
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When I went from 65 kilo to 85 kilo thanks for lifting weights, I can tell you people stopped trying to walk all over me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:37 AM
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I got a vasectomy and it benefits me more than it does women. I can't get a woman pregnant so I won't be fathering any kids I don't want nor can a woman ever demand child support, because the kid can't be mine. Not to mention it's fucking cruel to father a child you have no wish for. What kind of family is the kid gonna grow up in, if he's unwanted. And when we both the woman I'm fucking and me don't want kids, I don't have to wear a fucking condom (assuming we know each other and we're free of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:55 AM
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Reminds me of that one quote who is allegedly from Al Capone: "Do not mistake my kindness for weakness. I'm kind to everyone, but if you're unknind to me, weakness is not what you will remember of me" With this I mean I won't whack someone to death with baseball bats if he does me an unkindness obviously, but being a kind man doesn't mean I'm gonna take shit from anyone and it certainly doesn't mean I can't get pissed and angry if a woman tries to turn me into her second choice beta doormat. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:40 AM
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I don't care. Men being with men? Women being with women? I don't give a shit. Do whatever makes you happy. I will treat you as I would any hetero person: equally and fairly. But I won't give you special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:05 AM
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Talk to him. Ask him clearly why he seems uninterested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:25 AM
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Basically, you pretty much need to carpet bomb the dating market to have a few hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:18 AM
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Because most men feel the ned to be desired, which a robot won't give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:29 AM
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That's not creepy, that's terrifying and depraved. Generally speaking, an attractive guy is snot seen as a creep, until he does something actually really creepy. And ugly guy will be creepy for just standing there and, God forbid, glance at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:19 AM
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How many men do you know talk about waxing their private parts, or are watching what they eat cause they don’t want women to think they are fat? Or wondering if the outfit they are wearing is in appropriate? I do actually. I don't wax my private parts, but trim it because it's just cleaner and yes, I assume women don't enjoy giving blowjobs to dudes who have an amazon forest down there. I also watch my food and exercise. One part because I just want to feel good in my own skin, other part becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:53 AM
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Dude, I'm 1m91 and I have fairly big arms due to lifting weights and rock climbing. Especially my forearms are very toned; veiny and muscular. As a matter of fact, my entire body is athletic. It doesn't turn you into this hot sex beast that all women lust after. That, or they do and I never notice it, which I doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:21 AM
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Incel has indeed lost it's meaning. It's just a generic insult people use for men who say something that goes against their opinion when it comes to dating. Don't get me wrong, actual hateful, mysoginistic, women-hating men still do exist and still refer to themselves as incels, but the term has largely become meaningless now. And then there's also the hypocrisy of saying how virginity or lack of success with women is nothing to be ashamed of, yet still use incel as an insult. It's like how we'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:47 AM
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My boss. She's a lady over 50, married and obviously I have no attraction for her whatsoever. But boy do I admire her. She's an excellent boss, she's smart, knowledgeable and I couldn't have asked for a better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:30 AM
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No. If being in a platonic relationship with a woman you're attracted to is painful, then end the friendship. I mean it's kinda like being hungry and seeing your favourite meal, but you can't touch it. And worse, occasionally you see someone else eat it. I mean fuck that shit. It's just painful. It's not nice to the woman who was just looking for a friend? Yeah well that's too bad, but your happiness is is just as important as hers. If for you being just a friend is painful, then fucking leave. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:39 AM
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Me confident in my body? Ha! That's rich!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:30 AM
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I often see "tan, dark hair, dark eyes" I'm really tall and fit, but fair-skinned with big blue eyes and pretty much bald with a buzz cut and blonde hair (what's left of it) Bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:52 AM
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It really depends: if it's for purely the physical pressure relief, then it's fine. If you're looking to be validated and to feel desired, escorts won't give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:43 AM
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I thought I did the bare minimum of cleanliness, but boy was I mistaken. I've seen some single dude homes that were so filthy even a pig wouldn't live in it. But I would say it's still rather an exception that the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:42 AM
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9 fucking months? What the fuck is this? "How to be a total simp"? If a girl is attracted to you, she's not gonna have you wait 9 months. Your "friend" really needs to set a few things straight with this girl and break up. This chick is clearly just stringing him along and he should restore his dignity by telling her to fuck off with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:14 PM
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What the fuck is a square, beyond the geometrical shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:11 PM
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Yeah but I've heard women say "wElL iN tHe AniMaL KinGdOm, MaLeS dO tHe cOuRtInG tOo aNd fEMaLeS jUsT gEt tO pIcK ONe" Yeah well in the animal kingdom, lions will straight up murder the cubs of a lionness so he can fuck their mom, certain octopuses rip of their penis and throw it at the female in an act of "go fuck yourself" and dolphins frequently engage in the gang-rape of females. You don't hear us bring up this stupid argument do you? "We're not animali"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:02 AM
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What's also kinda unfair, is that women love to "break the gender roles" when it fits them. But they're all too happy to keep the gender roles when it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:06 AM
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True, but that doesn't mean they're not unhappy/depressed or feel undesired. It really is the worst feeling: feeling undesired
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:04 AM
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Too many women are like "Me? A princess? Bitch, I'm a QUEEN I deserve only the top of the top" when in reality, both personality and looks-wise, they're in no position to be that picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:59 AM
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So basically, would it also help if you talk to women, even without the intent on flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:30 AM
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Those are all toxic traits. Why do women love this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:26 AM
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1- LOL we don't do that here 2- Hard to give a grade if there's no frame of reference, but she'd need to be a 6-7 at least 3- That's even harder, but I'd rate me a 7 4- Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:55 AM
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Ya, so 2 yrs of dating the beta got "im not ready" rule, and within 2 weeks of dating, that rule was broken for the Chad. That sounds more like a she-problem. I would not forgive her if she pulled that shit off with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:54 AM
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I've never had a girl freak out on me if I asked her out. I haven't done a lot of cold approaches, but the few times I did like in the gym or at the climbing wall or even in a bar, they were really decent and just said something like "Thanks but I'm sorry, I already have a boyfriend" or something along the lines. No public freakout or anything. To that I would reply something along the lines of "OK I understand, I wish you the best" and then just disengage and leave before things get awkward. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:11 PM
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1m91 or 6'3" So I realize I got the good genes when it comes to height. It's just that my confidence is lacking. For a large part because of the years of bullying at school when I used to be very skinny and even though I lift weights and look fairly athletic/fit now, the lack of confidence got better, but never really disappeared completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:05 PM
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Except for me feeling humiliated, no. And that's not her faut, it's mine, though if she actually does roll her eyes and tell me to fuck off, I will indeed tell her there are friendlier ways to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:58 PM
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Fuck. When I read some of the ways guys approach women (with sexual, gross and inappropriate shit) I can't help but think I'm really a tame, polite person. I wouldn't even think of doing it that way. Also if a woman says no, I disengage immediately. The main reason being that I just don't want to be seen as a creep. I'd rather be seen as an asshole or a distant and aloof guy than a creep. So if I approach a woman in, say, the indoor climbing gym, I guess I can just say "Hi, you come here often?"…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:27 AM
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It would take balls of the size of the Chicxulub asteroid to approach a girl so directly in the gym. I assume that if I'd do this to any of the cute girls I see in the gym (and there's cute girls there every single time I go), I'd be met with awkward rolling of eyes and possibly a request to fuck off. I mean I guess I don't look too bad (really tall and athletic build) but I have by FAR not the confidence to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:20 AM
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You don't owe me a relationship, that's true. And I don't owe you my friendship. So if you think I'm not nice because after you reject me I lose interest, that's your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:19 AM
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We actually do judge them. On other criteria such as weight and boob size. But apparently, we're shallow pigs/misogynists for doing so. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:16 AM
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Considering my physique which isn't all too bad, I guess I'm just born without it. Like completely without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:10 AM
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You only want someone that can lift you? Lady, I'm afraid Thor "The Mountain" Bjornsson is not available.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/22 09:01 AM
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Who will have more success? - A fat guy with bad face lottery that is also short - A fit, muscular guy with bad face lottery that is also short No the gym won't fix everything, but it will get you closer to being a better version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:44 AM
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A better description would be that we're simply invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:30 PM
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Yep. Basically, your life should be a really big, nice, beautiful cake. The woman is the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:40 AM
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Dude. I'm 6'3", look athletic, have a body fat hovering between 12-14%, my waist size is well below the unhealthy threshold, I lift weights so I'm decently muscular, I also rock climb so I have muscular, veiny forearms so many women say to love and my face, while not being model-like, I would say is not repulsive. True, I'm balding, but fortunately I have a skull shape where the 1mm buzz cut works decently well with. I can assure you I'm absolutely not a 9+/10. That implies I would be drowning i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:10 AM
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Damn. Such empathy. I can appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:00 AM
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Shit apps like Tinder made it even worse. Even 5/10 women get so much fucking attention that they think themselves of being KWEENS that deserve no less than 8/10 - 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:59 AM
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It used to be. Right now, it's a chore more than anything, hence I'm taking a break for a yet to be determined amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:57 AM
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Women wait at the finish line and screw the winners You... this... shit I have never seen a phrase so simple yet so accurate to describe the situation. As for "adapting and improving", I agree. The thing is, a lot of men, including myself, have grown sick a fucking tired of trying to become that winner that pleases the ladies and prefer to become the winner that pleases ourselves. If run into a woman that can live with my own winning conditions, that's welcome, but I won't go out of my way any m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:47 AM
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I live in a country where it's legal and the best way to describe it, is to say that for those who desire a relationship, going to see a sex worker is a quick and easy temporary solution to their desire. It's like putting a band-aid on a big wound: it will stop the bleeding for a while and provide temporary relief, but ultimately, the wound still needs to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:50 AM
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For women, the average men are invisible and of no relevance whatsoever to them so... why would they bother discussing it? Hell, even attractive men don't give a fuck about the average men. This would pretty much just be an echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:45 AM
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I have a healthy weight, my waist size is well below the threshold for being unhealthy, I lift weights 2x a week, practice martial arts and rock climb. It took a while to put on muscle on my tall frame, but I got there and I don't look like a bodybuilder, but just athletic. My body fat hovers between 12 and 15 percent. I've had two long term relationships so far and a couple of shorter term flirts here and there but I've never noticed a woman checking me out in public places. So being in shape a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:22 AM
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The fuck are you all talking about? Men are a lot of work in a relationship? Yeah well so are you women. You have no idea how much effort and time we have to invest in a relationship. All men live in filthy homes? Speak for yourself. My home is clean. Men have no friends and no social circle? Speak or yourself. I have several close friends I open up to. Men have no hobbies? Speak for yourself. I have several. We're not some helpless puppies that need a woman to keep us alive. Don't be delusional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:14 AM
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If it's a purely sexual, physical urge for sex, I'll go see an escort. It's legal here anyway. What men crave, is just the same as what women crave and get much more easily: feeling desired by the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:45 PM
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This is a wholesome thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:57 AM
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You know, some introverts do these "introvert" things because they simply enjoy it. And most introverts are not social outcasts but also enjoy social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:20 AM
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The girlfriend of my best buddy never understood why I was struggling in dating. "You're a good looking dude, you're tall and athletic don't you drown in pussy?" No I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:10 PM
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How about a bit of fucking empathy? If women would at least acknowledge that for the average man, dating is a rigged game and can be a self-esteem-crushing experience instead of giving us the "lol get over it" thing, we'd appreciate it. I mean it's easy to say "well I know this one guy who gets women all the time" when that one guy happens to be one of those guys in the top 20% The other 80% are shit out of luck. These 80% are invisible for women. These 80% get little to no positive attention fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:00 PM
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For women there is one REAL boogeyman for them. And that’s a hoe. They assume ANY man can find some “easy hoe” to fuck. The men they know seem to find one in a pinch and the ones they fuck/date always seems to have one or two hoes throwing themselves at their Chad who is near the top of the SMP. What they can’t understand is how there are men who genuinely can’t even get a hoe to fuck them. Because even hoes have standards. Now this is a big fat 15 kiloton truth bomb. I would even add that the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:00 AM
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Fucking scammers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:11 AM
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If you're not interested in me any more, that's fine. Just fucking tell me. Don't be a cunt and ghost. It's basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:11 AM
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Going to the gym is not just to "get muscle and be swole", it's about feeling good in your own skin. Men want to be strong. It's our nature. Little boys at school measure themselves to each other with strength. Lifting weights will make you feel better in your own skin and raise your confidence. That's the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:46 AM
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That's what I said: genuine MGTOW's (like you or me seem to be) are fine. The ones that spends their days complaining about women online all the time, they're the ones that really ought to learn to really go their own way and just enjoy their life as a single without obsessing over women. And yeah radical feminists like you describe aren't doing women a favour. I mostly just ignore them to be honest. I have much better shit that's deserving of my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:57 AM
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I think a lot of you guys miss the point. If you lift and work out the bigger picture is not "get big mussels because chicks luv big mussels", the idea is to feel confident in your own skin. A man instinctively wants to be muscular/athletic because that's simply how our male nature works. Little boys at school measure themselves to each other by strength most of the time. In nature, it's the strongest males who get the females. When you're muscular and strong, you fulfil that instinctive desire.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:35 AM
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Because the MGTOW crowd doesn eveything except ... you know... going their own way. It's fine to go your own way and not date, but what these guys do, is "go their own way" and then proceed to bash women all day long on their circlejerk forums. I mean if you wanna go your own way, go your own way. I go through no-dating periods often so I'm "going my own way" then, but you don't hear me complain about women or relationships all the goddamn time. As for the genuine MGTOW'ers (like me), that is me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:44 AM
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I used to be chivalrous, but it kinda died out for me too because of two reasons: - Many women just take it for granted and I got sick of it. Not to mention women want equality, well then you got it. - Many women think I'm trying to hit on them, even though I'm not. So ehh, I'm still chivalrous with old people because they seem to still appreciate it. But other than them, fuck it. I give women the same treatment as men on that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:21 AM
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It really depends on the playing field. Average men in OLD don't do well. Average men in real life do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:22 AM
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The problem was that Ginger was a gold-digger. She didn't go with Ace because she loved him. He went with him because of the money. She was a hoe before that and she remained a hoe. And in the end, she fucked Nicky mainly because she wanted his protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:14 AM
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Yeah whenever I look on Tinder, over half the profiles demand a man taller than 1m80. For me this isn't a problem, but it really does show that looks matter. I'm not saying this is bad, but it's hypocritical to say that looks don't matter. They do, for both sexes. Tinder and other shit like that have given women so much male attention they have a completely warped sense of their own value and will only settle for men in the top 20% even though with their average looks they're in no position to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:07 AM
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6.3 athletic dude that also does martial arts and rock climbs on top of having a permanent whatever the male version of a resting bitch face is. This is true. A lot of women just assume I'm probably asexual and harmless as soon as they see my chivalrous, kind-hearted side and a few assume I'm trying to flirt. But listen here: if I'm chivalrous, it's because my mother raised me to be chivalrous. This means helping a lady carry something heavy, keep the doors open for them or offering my seat to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:06 PM
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I'm a manly man and I came to realize there's a lot of male stuff even I don't understand. Like why so many men think with their dicks. I mean sex is fun and I love having it, but if I'm not having it, I'm not going to die. And I'm not going to let my dick do the thinking either or sacrifice my pride to get it. Perhaps I just have a low sex drive (which can be a blessing if single or a curse if in a relationship) I'll also never understand the alpha male thing. I don't give a shit if I'm better …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:29 AM
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I'm a man and I don't think it's gay. You most definitely should clean your butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:25 AM
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Saying "7/10 chick with nice ass" to me can mean two things: - He either doesn't give a fuck about the girl and is just interested in getting pussy - He does care about her and saying stuff like this is more to brag and sound "tough" but he actually really does care about her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:23 AM
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Ehhh, in a way, sex workers kinda do that. They provide men with sex or "the next thing" so to speak. That is, if the physical pleasure of sex is the only thing you're after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:30 PM
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There's nothing new about that. I also heard the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:41 AM
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Grey hair? Jokes on you! I lost my hair 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:10 PM
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And all of this can be avoided if, you know, you don't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:15 AM
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Honestly don't even understand why there's that N-count thing here on this sub, let alone a whole megathread dedicated to it. Who gives a fuck what your "N-count" is? Is that what this is all about? Just how many people you put your dick in/how many dicks you got put in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:54 AM
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"I only want men who have muscles and are at least 1m80" VS "I only want women who are not fat and have at least a C cup"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:11 AM
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I agree. If both parties enjoy it and nobody is getting hurt in the process, I don't give a fuck how much a woman or man sleeps around. But don't be a hypocrite on Tinder and say that's not what you want and then proceed to only show boobs and ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 09:57 AM
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Ah yes, the women with the "no ONS nor FWB!!" in their profile and then only show cleavage, ass, no face and no further info in her bio whatsoever. Look here if you want to have casual sex, that's fine. It's your right, but don't be a hypocrite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 09:07 AM
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I'm not a woman, but I could imagine a couple of reasons: - Overabundance of men that show interest. Especially in OLD, they have so much fucking choice they simply have. In Dutch we have a word for that: Keuzestress. Don't know how it's said in English but it's basically the stress you get from having too much choices and not knowing which choice is good or not. The same way average men get too little attention, average women get too much. - Their hilariously high standards that pretty much put…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:00 AM
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I'll talk for myself as a reasonably good looking, tall 39 years old man who's into sports and is athletic. I quit OLD. It's mostly because of how unfair OLD is for men. I've had had decent success with Tinder pre-covid but ever since covid, it has turned into a shit show. Somehow, women have these ridiculously high standards and demands. "I want a man that's at least 1m80, he must be able to cook, must love to travel, has to start the conversation, must sweep me away and has to make me laugh" I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:46 AM
21

Split. Always. If women want equality, then they have to accept this. If they take offence by this, I'm no longer interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:18 AM
2

This is one of the reasons why shit like Tinder and Bumble are terrible: the only thing women can rate you on, is physical attractiveness. Your personality has no say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:17 AM
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Look here, if a man thinks I'm weak because I show emotions, then what would I give a fuck? If a woman thinks I'm looking for a mommy when I show emotions even though I'm not, then that's their fucking problem. I'm a human. Humans have emotions and there's nothing unnatural about that. And my masculinity is robust enough to not be damaged by some men I don't give a fuck about thinking I'm weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:11 AM
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(Lol, just to give you an idea of how bad my dating life is: this girl i asked out (she turned me down) texted me a few months later, ‘how are you’, ‘are you seeing anyone’ etc… lots of texting/questions, finally after a couple days she asks me to send her a selfie and I sent her one, and she ghosted me) That sounds more like she was the problem, not you. I mean it's fine for her to turn you down, but recontacting you, asking for a selfie and then ghosting you is not really a cool move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:40 AM
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Or cheat on me and then tell her kids, with whom I had formed a close bond over the two years we were together, I left her because I was sick of the kids even though I absolutely wasn't. Fucking bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:36 AM
14

It depends on my mood really. If I'm just horny and crave the sexual satisfaction but don't feel like dating or going on dates, I'll go see a sex worker. If I feel like dating , I'll date, but my desire to spend so much time and energy in dating is decreasing sharply these days. There are periods where I don't mind going on dates and I do it. If this ends up in a relationship I'm happy in, then that's nice, but most of my dating has ended in either nothing or in just a really short term fling. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:26 AM
5

One of my Tinder dates, back in summer 2021, after one date said she didn't want a relationship, but she did mention that in the past she seemed to attract only bad men (which was evident when she told me the stories of her ex, the father of her kids). Then she literally said "But I feel like I'm missing out on such a good catch like you. You're a good looking, honourable, honest man. I'm gonna keep your number and if it turns out that I only meet bad men in the future and get sick of it, I'll c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:59 AM
1

So basically, women do like going for bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:52 AM
2

So you're a 6'3 guy that clearly has an athletic body many men would kill for and she calls you "just normal dude" I hope you told her that having such ridiculously high standards is not gonna make it easier for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:24 AM
1

Just look at those superhero actors, or any actor that has a 5 minute shirtless scene in a movie: he'll have to bulk up and cut, usually with expensive supplements, expensive personal trainers, a strict diet and often steroid use. The same way women have these unrealistic beauty standards, men have them too. And I'm not even gonna mention all the body positivity that's virtually inexistent for men. It's accepted that a woman doesn't want to date a dude that's shorter than 1m80, yet men are pigs …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:20 AM
2

I have a very strange relationship with body dismorphia (AKA Bigorexia) There are days where I look at myself wearing a sleeveless shirt on vacation and think "damn, I'm actually quite muscular and athletic" and then there are days I look at myself in the mirror and think "wtf I'm still skinny" even though, objectively speaking, I'm pretty damn sure I look way more athletic than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:50 AM
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You shouldn't be hitting on women in the gym anyway. Most people are in the gym to work out, not to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:48 AM
2

Tuna. I can eat tuna straight out of the can. Must have been a cat in a previous life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:47 AM
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Yeah but the least they can do is at least let the other one know you're no longer interested though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:15 AM
1

Oh please. I'm a man and I have more emotions than those 4 you mention. What are we, primal apes? I'm tired of people thinking men are some primitive beings whose only interest is emptying their balls and filling their stomachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:41 AM
1

I'm a man and I trim some of that hair. But shave? No. ANd I've never had a girlfriend who demanded that I'd be clean shaven, but most do appreciate when there's no amazon forest on these areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:17 AM
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My mother taught me male chivalry. And some women assume I'm hitting on them when I hold the door open or offer help to carry something heavy. Most women appreciate it, but some assume I'm hitting on her. Don't kid yourself though. I'm just doing what my mother taught me. Doesn't mean I want to get into your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:11 AM
1

Well, I'm going to be honest: I don't want a relationship. Or more precisely, I don't want any of the drawbacks of a relationship. And for me, at the current time, the drawbacks outweigh the benefits. I haven't always been like this. I mean I was very happy with my ex for a long time before things went sour, but right now, I don't want to deal with the drawbacks of a relationship. Occasionally, I do want sex though. So I could go on Tinder or some other dating app, swipe the shit out of tons of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:08 AM
1

I don't really have a deathstare (unless I'm actually angry) but I have a fairly stern, neutral looking face. It's hard to describe. Cracking a genuine smile feels so... creepy. Though this might have to do with my insecurities (no matter how often one tells me it's not true, I still think I don't look attractive) I guess I'll just have to practice.
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:17 PM
1

I often hear naysayers complain that TRP just either hates women, or we just "stereotype all women, call them all sluts and think we know better". I agree that there is the occasional asshole post here but the general idea is noble: we tell men to improve themselves and build confidence. Not to become an arrogant douche, but to improve our lives with women and with ourselves as well (this point is equally as important if not more, than seducing women) So when that person complained I gave him an…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 09:17 AM
1

I've been in a happy relationship for over a year now. But I still lift. I still rock climb and I still do martial arts. You could say I do the latter two purely because I enjoy them which is true, but lifting is extremely important to me even though I find it boring because it just gives me so much confidence to know I'm no longer that skinny, toothpick-armed, weakling little fuck I used to be as a teenager but that I'm a tall, muscular guy now. In no way bodybuilder-type, but enough muscle to …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:17 PM
1

I agree with martial arts and lifting. It will not only make you look more intimidating, but it will boost your confidence. Confidence is the best bully-repellent.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:22 AM
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Good point. I'll put it to asktrp too.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:16 PM
1

YOu didn't miss anything, believe me.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:25 AM
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It's posts like these that make outsiders think we're all a bunch of whiny, woman-hating cunts.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 01:39 PM
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The show was Sonic Boom, the episode where Dr.Eggman, after seeing Tails make a fuck out of himself when trying to seduce his crush, tells him that "dont pretend to be something you're not. Be yourself and be confident in you own pelt." Still a show I like because it's full of satire
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 09:22 PM
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Yay! I knew someone else would guess
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 09:19 PM
2

My mom shows typical woman behavior: My parents are divorced and we were talking about relationships and shit and she literally said she doesn't like athletic bodies on a male because it's "too hard" and loves having a man with a soft pot belly to cuddle. A bit later she said that she doesn't want to go on dating sites because, and I quote, "all those guys there of my age are fat lazy slobs with a beer gut who don't take care of themselves" I love my mother and she's the sweetest woman I know, b…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:53 AM
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Thanks mate. Also, these guys were all higher grades than me, but still fairly low in the hierarchy of belt color. They were probably still kinda inexperienced and thus, more easily intimidated than a higher belt. If one of those guys was a brown or black belt, I'm pretty sure they would not have made that remark and would have kicked my ass. In fact, I sparred against one of the Sensei's aides (Sensei is the title you give to the trainer/teacher) who is a brown belt last week. He's not as lanky…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 01:50 AM
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I remember reading something on a fairly decent fitness related website, I think it was leangains, saying that one should apply the 90/10 rule: if 90% of the time your diet is in check and clean, the occasional 10% indulgence aren't gonna fuck everything up. I eat clean, but I do indulge on potato chips one a week when i'm at a friend's and I do indulge in a couple of cocktails per week too.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 08:06 AM
0

If you're ballsy, acknowledge and amplify to ludicrous degree: "yeah, I'm short. I took growth inhibitors because my childhood hero was a dwarf from Lord Of The Rings"
/r/askTRP28/12/17 03:17 PM
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6'3 here and back when I was 20kg lighter, I received no respect and I got bullied at school. These guys were just much more strong than me and I didn't stand a chance against them. Now... I recently saw one of my former bullies again but I'm much more muscular than I used to be, I looked more muscular than him. He couldn't even properly look me in the eye. Tall + muscular = great combo
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 02:42 PM
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I keep saying it: yes, you have to be yourself when it comes to attracting women. Don't pretend to be something you aren't. Very cliché indeed but, there is a big "but": you have to be the best version of yourself. You have to feel good in your own pelt, be happy and proud of who you are. If there is something in your life that makes you insecure and makes you uncomfortable in your own skin in a significant way: forget about women for the time being, find out what it is and find a way to fix. No…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:31 PM
1

"But womenz like dad bods and sensitive bois! Muscles are gross!" I still wonder why people try to feed us this bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:25 AM
2

Actually, we study a mix of Jiu Jitsu and Karate. But the reason I do it, is not to be able to kick anyone's ass. It's because I enjoy it. Thai Boxing, Krav Maga and Jiu Jitsu are much better for purely developing one's ability to kick someone's ass. Those guys did fairly well against me though. They had reflexes that were much better than mine and I ended up just absorbing lots of blows in my arms (which is fine, since your arms kinda act like your shields) and here's where that additional musc…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:20 AM
3

Trump is alpha because he's rich. There's no way his wife would find him attractive if he wasn't rich.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 08:00 AM
2

I'm about 190 lbs, with a fairly low BF percentage for a guy my age (13%). So I'm in no way a big hulk with a huge bodybuilder's physique nor was that ever my goal (got a lot of respect for the guys who have the dedication to reach that though), but I'm definitely more muscular than I used to be and when I go rock climbing, I'm the most muscular one of the group.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 07:46 PM
2

I have a huge problem with ankle mobility since I'm tall. But I'd rather deload than sacrifice form.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:28 PM
5

Give my money to women? Fuck no. You want my money, do something for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:27 PM
2

As a left-leaning centrist, I am absolutely disgusted and ashamed of what the left has become in 2017. Can we not, you know, treat each other with respect, discuss differences with your political opponents, compromise and fucking TALK?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:36 PM
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Exactly. I started lifting weights not because I wanted to become a big bulky beast, but because I was fucking sick of hating the image I saw in the mirror. I'm 20 kilo's heavier now. A little more body fat (14% which is still fairly OK) but much more muscular. In fact, I rock climb as well and some of my fellow climbers, who are on the skinny side but are still wiry and ripped, say that I'm actually rather muscular for what you'd expect from a climber. I do lift weights though. And since I also…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:47 PM
1

It kinda depends though. I used to weigh 65 kilo for 1m93 height... I had 10% bodyfat and I looked like shit. You do need some bulk on your frame for muscles to show up.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:03 AM
2

Lifting itself won't get you far. It's the confidence of being in a strong body that helps. It's like martial arts. I believe that if a child is bullied, one should make him go to a martial arts school. Not so he can beat every bully up, but simple because it gives confidence. Confidence is the best bully-repellent there is and by the same occasion, the best chick-attractor.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:05 PM
2

claps hands Best trollpost in a while.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:19 PM
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I was raised by my mom and my older sister and I couldn't agree more. I have a pretty nasty childhood scar. It's kind of along story, but making peace with it has helped tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:11 PM
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In other words, the guy was trying to be an alpha with the girls by dominating the other males but failed to do so. You called him out on him, and you won. Good. Very good. You know why you won? Because during the entire read, I pictured you as that laid back guy who didn't give a flying fuck about this wannabe alpha. I literally pictured you like that from the moment you wrote you just waited him out. And that's why you won. You clearly didn't give a fuck about how alpha this guy was.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:04 PM
3

For me, the best one will be this: Make sure your entire happiness depends on having a woman in your life. You can not be allowed to be happy and feel good in your own skin as long as you don't have a woman. Also, don a dad-bod. Make sure you acquire a beergut, flabby arms and manboobs. Bishes love dem dadbods. Be an orbiter. Never approach a woman you are interested in. NEVER. Just creep around her like a desperate little dog while other dudes fuck her. The waiting game always works.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 11:56 AM
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Anger can be very useful sometimes, but chronically hating all women for just being women, is stupid. It makes you look bitter, pathetic and typical Nice Guy-ish. It's fine to be angry if you got dumped, or cheated on, or rejected. Be angry, go punch a wall, let it out of your system and carry on. Focus on being so comfortable with yourself, that basically don't give a fuck any more if a woman gives you shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 10:56 AM
0

I agree. I never fail to go to the gym for example. If I'm really too lazy to go today, I'll make sure I catch up by going another day I normally wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:42 AM
2

This was fucking painful to read. One part of me wants to slap the shit out of you for being such a beta wimp, but the other, more compassionate, part of me thinks you learned your lesson and hopes you'll take the steps to not be like this any more.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:52 AM
1

I think some guys go through the douche phase but end up finding the correct middle of the road. Ever heard of the parable of the man without a spine? Look it up, it's pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:12 AM
1

Some bitches attach importance to marriage with some dude that can provide for her and then she goes cheat on him when she simply wants something else sexually. That's pretty much it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 08:01 AM
1

Google image "skip leg day" and laugh at how ridiculous these guys look. Believ eme, that's the best deterrent to skip leg days. Some people, like me, have genetically cursed calves. I have long legs and thus skinny calves, but you can see a defined muscle, even if it's not huge. People that skip leg day don't even have that definition. This looks silly.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 10:20 AM
2

Lifting is just one of the aspects of TRP. It's not about looking "swole" or whatever, it's about feeling more confident. A fit, athletic body breeds confidence, confidence is like catnip on a woman and just makes you feel good overall, confidence is the essence of TRP. The confident man won't let a woman dictate his life. He won't feel the need to dominate her either. He'll have a healthy relationship with one, if that's what he wishes. He'll be fine with staying single, if that's what he wishe…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 08:50 PM
5

Of course a lot of women are aware of it. Consciously or subconsciously. Just like men are perfectly aware that once you pass your thirties, you can't keep your twenties lifestyle and diet and expect to remain in shape. Men over 30 realize it will take effort and dedication to remain fit, athletic and genetically desirable. Women realize their hotness start to fade around their thirties too and need to take better care of themselves to remain attractive, just like men do. Unfortunately, a lot of…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 08:44 PM
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Reminds me of my best buddy's ex. He was so whipped and a real beta provider for his high maintenance girlfriend. I remember once day we were having a drink all three of us (despite him being whipped, I came along with her fine) and she bluntly mentions "I used to date guys for their looks all the time, but I grew tired of it and now I went with Sam (my buddy) for the brains" Translated: "I spent years fucking all the hot guys I wanted to fuck, now I've hit 33 years of age and I want to settle s…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:22 PM
1

What in the ass? Her BB is a complete beta cunt. What a complete utter überloser! What the actual fuck? How can he allow shit like this to happen? Any man with a iota of dignity would end this right now if his GF would do this. I love how you owned the girl by calling out her bullshit and bluntly tell her she keeps BB around to be that money-machine (or whatever other shit his beta-ass does for her). This... this is a whole new level of beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:55 AM
2

Men putting the Pussy on a pedestal is not only in America. Here in Europe it's the same, but not as extremely as in America. I see plenty of "I'm pretty and I know it so I can be a bitch" women here too. There's this one chick at work, fairly hot, she knows it and acts very entitled. We were talking casually while her colleagues were there too. She teased me, not in a bad way, just banter. I teased her back and called her a bitch at a certain point, again somewhat in friendly way. She replied "…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:41 AM
1

82 kg. That's what? 180 lbs I think? And about 13% bodyfat.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:35 AM
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There are some good dating sites... usually the expensive ones. But PoF and OKC are both cesspools of self-entitled cunts, Nice Guy pussies and fat bitches who hope to score a fit, athletic man. Online dating is a crapshoot: post tons of messages without putting too much time into it and perhaps by carpet bombing it, you'll get a few hits. But don't make it your main means of meeting women.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 08:54 AM
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I think it largely depends on what makes you non-confident. For me it was being skinny. I was a tall, skinny pile of bones with some skin on, no strength and weak. The only redeeming physical quality I had, was having a normal face (normal as in not abnormally ugly) and being 6'3 tall. However, being tall is not gonna do shit if you're skinny as fuck. I weighed 65 kilo (143 lbs) for that height. I had the arms of a little girl. I started doing sports and lifting weights, which changed that. It w…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 08:38 AM
1

Any man can be put in the friendzone. The only thing a woman does, is how you the door to her friendzone. It's up to the man to say "nah" and not take it. Pure and simple. You got feelings for a woman? You want to fuck her? She says "I just want to be friends with you nothing more"? Kindly tell her you're not interested in friendship and leave.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 01:23 PM
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Funny you should mention this. I just dumped a woman for precisely this reason. Long story short, she feigned interest by allowing kissing and rather innocent stuff but wanted me to work in her house that she just bought. She needed a male to do chores like drilling holes, digging holes, painting, etc. Basically, holding a carrot to keep me interested just enough in the hopes I'd follow my dick and be her free labourer. But I said "fuck that" and next'ed her.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 01:21 PM
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