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Agreed; however since it's a choice between all celebrities they're all famous with high status. With status being equal, it's interesting to see when and how charisma/persona/certain talents/personal preference trumps straight up attractiveness. And/or how much the personality of the characters they play matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:34 PM
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So why would it be different? Lesbians I've met seem to agree with straight guys on who's the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:27 AM
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Think about what men are actually selected for: height, muscularity, race, education, social status, wealth, charisma, popularity with other girls - all culminating into a nice, convenient grade we give ourselves that's hard to fake called confidence. This is how we "show off" and compete with one another as males, and the ones on top are the most selected. ​ Now if you're in the group of selected males (coughtop20%cough) you become a selector yourself. You can get casual sex easily for your qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:52 AM
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The examples you gave for women's desires and men's desires are world's away. Are they? Do you not understand what I meant by requirement? ​ Women are near universally attracted to tall men because height is an indicator of good health, low estrogen and strength/physical advantage in a fight There's a massive difference between only wanting a man who's taller than her, and only wanting 15% of the male population in terms of height. ​ Women near unniversally look for men who can provide and prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:26 PM
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Men can easily construct a long laundry list of qualities if we wanted to: Must be able to sing Can't be a pound over 125 Hair must be real, medium-long length, natural color Must have 2+ years experience snowboarding/skiing Must show an interest in quantum physics But we also already know that most of these qualities are superficial and minor perks at best. They're not actual requirements. The requirements are young enough to have children, pretty enough to want to have sex with her, nice enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:02 PM
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Damn...and all this time I thought sex was about both giving and receiving pleasure, and a woman's orgasms were just a wonderful part of the journey for both parties. Oh well! Good thing this article came out because I now know better - making a woman orgasm is toxic! From now on the only one orgasming is me, and next time some girl says she's about to I'm immediately removing any and all body parts/tossing her off me for her own good. I'm sure she'll appreciate it #heforshe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 05:23 AM
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If she's doing errands for her dad, she obviously has daddy issues. You need to teach her who's her daddy by plating her - in fact, find her mom and plate her too. Then while spinning both, ask her dad for her mom's hand in marriage to really show your gf you mean business
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:43 PM
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Sex with a partner is so extremely important to a man that it's vital to the relationship. It's not "getting your dick wet". It's how a man expresses love and even more importantly feels love from his partner, and the crucial reason they even get into a relationship in the first place. You know the need women have to feel cared for? To feel listened to and for their partner to be present? A connection? To feel like your partner still loves you? That's what sex is for men. ​ He literally felt lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:47 PM
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Everyone on this planet and their grandmothers already knows AMALT: When she told you “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” - AMALT. When your mom told you those clothes are too revealing - AMALT When your dad told you boys only want one thing - AMALT Young men need the same courtesy about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:55 AM
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Hormones in the womb: https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2012/12/homosexuality-may-start-womb It makes a lot more sense when homsexuality can be a sliding scale (gold star lesbian, lesbian, bi, bi-curious, I kissed-a-girl-and-I-liked-it, straight) rather than a (group of) gene(s) turning off/on homsexuality like a light switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:39 AM
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Any average woman can take the time to learn what men actually find attractive, what they look for, and what they cherish in a long-term relationship and work on those things. Ever heard that age-old saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"? Mind-blowing, I know. Any average woman can have hobbies that help make her fit and healthy. Any average woman can take that fitness to the next level and then dress to kill in any occasion she wants to attract a certain man. Any average woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:30 PM
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What you're looking for is this book: The Female Brain, by Louann Brizendine, M.D. "Every brain begins as a female brain. It only becomes male eight weeks after conception, when excess testosterone shrinks the communications center, reduces the hearing cortex, and makes the part of the brain that processes sex twice as large. Louann Brizendine, M.D. is a pioneering neuropsychiatrist who brings together the latest findings to show how the unique structure of the female brain determines how women …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 01:35 AM

https://news.utexas.edu/2015/08/06/genders-differ-dramatically-in-evolved-mate-preferences According to the study, men favor mates who are younger and physically attractive. Women seek older mates with good financial prospects, higher status and ambition. “Because women bear the cost of pregnancy and lactation, they often faced the adaptive problem of acquiring resources to produce and support offspring, while men faced adaptive problems of identifying fertile partners and sought cues to fertili…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 10:07 PM

But first of all you need to be very clear about what "Dual Mating Strategy" means. It's not AF/BB. It's from the long line of theories about why women cheat. It's not about STR vs LTR selections. So "Dual Mating Strategy" is about cheating. ​ I have no idea where you're getting this idea from. Most women do not cheat. Maybe 10%-20% do. If dual-mating strategy was only about cheating, it would make absolutely 0 sense to apply it as a generalization to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 09:48 PM

https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/behavioral-and-brain-sciences/article/sex-differences-in-human-mate-preferences-evolutionary-hypotheses-tested-in-37-cultures/0E112ACEB2E7BC877805E3AC11ABC889 ​ For 27 countries, demographic data on actual age at marriage provided a validity check on questionnaire data. Females were found to value cues to resource acquisition in potential mates more highly than males. Characteristics signaling reproductive capacity were valued more by males than by females…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 09:45 PM
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That "very small" effect grows wider as women are more willing to engage in casual sex. What else would hypergamy be about besides female mate preferences and an individual woman's ability to capitalize on those preferences? And it is robust without ovulation fluctuations. Here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 09:38 PM

Menstruation cycles affecting mate preferences is not the same thing as mate preferences themselves. Your article disproves one, and supports the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 09:12 PM

Quick aside: are you aware that everything you have about women in these comments is very likely true for men? So much for AWALT. ​ So your argument is that "yes this may be true but men are like that too"? Feel free to try to prove to me that men place less emphasis on looks when looking for a relationship. ​ Hypergamy: Your explanation for the fairly unexciting phenomenon that some women are slightly more interested in handsome men if they those women are considering a short term relationship,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:52 PM

Your link doesn't disprove dual mating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:43 PM

https://www.psypost.org/2018/06/sexually-unrestricted-women-distinctive-short-long-term-mate-preferences-51349#prettyPhoto/0/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S019188691730065X ​ Sorry, the dual mating strategy is very much alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:29 PM

AF/BB: Nope. The whole concept of AF/BB is that women put men into distinct categories - one category for short-term relationships with attractive/masculine men, and another for long-term relationships with comforting/providing men. The ideal is finding a man with both, but behavioral cues between the two categories are so radically different that it's basically impossible for one man to be convincingly both. Menstrual cycle fluctuations have nothing to do with this life-long categorization, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 07:45 PM

Analyses showed no compelling evidence that preferences for facial masculinity were related to changes in women's salivary steroid hormone levels. Furthermore, both within-subject and between-subject comparisons showed no evidence that oral contraceptive use decreased masculinity preferences. However, women generally preferred masculinized over feminized versions of men's faces, particularly when assessing men's attractiveness for short-term, rather than long-term, relationships. from your own a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 07:02 PM
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PPD in a nutshell: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6157bo/heres_a_bunch_of_studies_providing_ample_evidence/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 06:18 PM
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Purple pillers basically know TRP is true, but don't like the fact that it's true/won't admit it. So this whole sub is a giant sugar coating factory complete with a deflection/diversion/distraction machine to go back to talking about men's flaws (like society doesn't do this enough) and how men are the same (they're not) or how they're worse. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 01:14 AM
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I would bet money it's because these women don't go to the average bars, clubs, events, etc. where they would be constantly hit on (or even harassed) by average dudes. If these women are only going out to buy groceries, walk their dog, and out once a month to small social events related to work - then of course they don't get hit on much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 09:37 PM
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Or you can date women in their late 20s instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 08:14 PM
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Well...it's a little different with men. LTR'ing is a way more important decision. Young men would have sex with a tree if it had a C cup, a tree hollow, and no one was around, so being a man's "Stacy fucks" isn't exactly a compliment. ​ Men get more choosy as they get older - especially with relationships. We're not only looking for looks like before, but also a pleasant personality and minimal baggage. Younger women, in general, just so happen to have those three things more often than older w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 12:32 AM
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What do you answer when she constantly brings up that you truly don’t like her for who she is? ​ I would answer that I wouldn't be in a committed relationship with a woman who I don't like for who she is. ​ What is your answer when she asks you why you didn’t indicate interest in her 5 years ago? ​ I was chasing Stacy 5 years ago with no desire for a relationship. Now that I'm older and wasting money to chase around girls in clubs is not as fun/exciting, I can now show interest in a girl who's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:45 PM
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No it doesn't. An ugly guy at 20 will have, let's say for argument sake, a 2% chance at dating a 20 y/o model. That same guy at 35 will have a 4% at dating a 20 y/o model. Why? Because he's still ugly, but now he has other things going for him that accumulate with age - personality, status, wealth, skills, and most importantly the confidence that comes with the accumulation of all those things. Do models never date producers, managers, and businessmen in the modeling world? ​ Yes, I agree our 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:21 PM
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Lemme tell you the real red pill, the real truth: No guy in his mid 30s with any amount of money or life experience is more sexually attractive than a hot guy in his 20s. ​ How many times does this need to be explained: the mid 30s guy is generally more attractive than himself at age 20. That hot guy in his 20s you mentioned? Also generally more attractive at 30 when he's more mature, stable, and has another decade of life experience. ​ No one is saying some ugly middle aged dude will start magi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:16 AM
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Rather than physically competing with other men to get the woman they want, the manosphere wants to look over here at women’s side and compete with us. Um...what? The only reason they're looking over to the women's side is to understand. That's it. All the descriptions you've read of AF/BB, the Wall, hypergamy, etc. are theories based on observation and/or experience. They're not meant to shame or scare you. Your grandmother told you not to give away the milk for free to scare and shame you. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 01:46 AM
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Just look at fashion shows and other high fashion stuff. It's all strange and not meant for the average not-in-a-fashion-industry person. Modern art is very similar. Art people see pure genius while the average person will see his neice's colorful rendition of dog vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:49 AM
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Don't worry OP, I'll explain it to you. Women are attracted to multiple traits. There's not nearly as much emphasis on looks. Men's looks definitely can and do fall as they get older, but so many other attractive things usually develop as they get older - maturity, experience, developing himself and his skills, knowing who he is, what he wants, and going for it all building up to that holy grail known as confidence. Confidence is the most sexually attractive trait to women period, and I doubt an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:19 AM
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So you have a society of attractive, well kept women Pfft, what society is that? I need to move there because I know it's not America. The life y'all live is a direct result of women constantly being told to compete, thus raising our SMV and giving us a better selection of men and higher standards. Sorry. Women are constantly being told to compete, yes. But instead of actually raising your SMV, you're using snapchat filters and pouring money into makeup turning Kylie Jenner into a billionaire. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 12:48 PM
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They don't understand male sexuality. They see it through their female perspective and therefore Leo must have mental problems. The underlying argument is that according to them he should want a smart, mature, capable, accomplished, independent 40 y/o who can challenge him and be his professional equal; however, all of that is what women find attractive - not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 04:53 AM
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I'd tell her she should never settle and break up with her. Who's advising these women to settle? That's exactly what pisses all these dudes off and is a recipe for disaster. She should chase her Chad and try to get him to commit. If her list is a mile long, her version of Chad happens to be the real life Christian Grey, and she will feel like anything less is settling well...all I can say is good luck- I hope she's young, been hitting the gym, and has been watching those makeup tutorials becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:14 AM
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When I say AMALT, everyone knows what that means already. Wanting sexual access to multiple attractive women is our evolutionary programming at work. Sex is so important to us that it's intertwined with our egos - and I doubt anyone needs a lesson on male ego. The common refrains are men are only about looks, men only care about sex, are pigs, etc. and at the extreme end of the spectrum we're all just emotionless, narcissistic rapists. These heuristics can be harsh and can go way too far, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 05:56 AM
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No problem. Trying to use logic to argue against an emotional definition won't work though. You might as well be arguing against the term "eewww"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:42 AM
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I'm glad you asked, OP. Toxic masculinity is a term used to very specifically describe all cisgendered, heterosexual, socially inept/unattractive, upper middle class men. These men are the true cancer of society - with the way they mansplain things with their deep voices, constantly manterrupt women, and manspread their toxicity everywhere. Disgusting. The word sexism is too general. Toxic masculinity perfectly describes that ugly, balding guy in the office pretending to be cordial with his fake…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:08 AM
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How? You want a nice girl to marry, and not-nice girl to have sex with. As long as women realize being chosen to have sex with is not the same as be chosen for a relationship, there's no conflict. Also both should be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 06:16 PM
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Because 23 year old men aren't looking for a relationship. Find me a man who's considering/looking for a long-term relationship, and I'll find you a man who would appreciate niceness in a (hot and younger) girl for said relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 06:06 PM
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As much as men say they want one thing, they really don’t do it in practice. All the girls I know who were gigantic hoes married well, and the nice girls are either still searching for good relationships or getting out of bad ones. Try being nice at 23 instead of 43 and see what happens. Men want a nice girl to have a relationship with, yes - however nice doesn't come before being hot, sexy, young and able to have babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 05:42 PM
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No sane person is an advocate for sexual assault and rape. The problem is we shouldn't be painting all these stories with one brush. What happened to everyone's their own individual/different? If everyone's unique that also applies to rich and powerful men - which means each story is different and deserves to be looked into and judged accordingly. For anyone who has looked into this it's quite clear that rich and powerful men are blackmailing young vulnerable women into not reporting sexual assa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 05:35 PM
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The puzzle piece you're missing here is male selection. Men select for promiscuity in women for short-term mates, and men select against promiscuity in women for long-term mates - for reasons that are both biological and fairly obvious. This is not changing anytime soon, so get used to it. The root of TRP's frustration comes from women behaving like short-term mates, but pretending to be/expecting to be treated as long-term mates. Their solution in a nutshell is to allow women to behave however …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 04:42 PM
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You already know what we're going to pick - Submissive, Low body fat, Pretty face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:04 PM
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What's the reasoning behind this considering women are choosier? Women only get to choose who they have sex with. Men choose who to commit to. Successful men choose women hotter than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 05:25 PM
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Believing the theories of random bloggers simply because they make women look worse than men is like the opposite of enlightenment in my opinion. When I think of Enlightenment I think of ideas centered around reason and the scientific method, and of ideas relating to liberty, progress, tolerance. In my opinion basing theories solely on sexist stereotypes and hurt feelings is like the exact opposite of enlightenment.If they were rational they would be basing ideas about "female nature" on actual …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:50 PM
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This question is too easy. Even ignoring what makes a man attractive vs. what makes a woman attractive, think about what being attractive means in the first place. If you're an attractive man, it means women (are more likely to) want to engage in an act with you that can result in reproduction. That means the few days or so women are ovulating, they're more active in getting that attractive dude. The rest of the time they'll be way more passive; that biological drive to reproduce just isn't ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:25 AM
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You know what she's saying and there's no room for you to try to dance around her words. She says there are "socially constructed norms", like being physically strong, being unsentimental, and being assertive for example, and these descriptions define toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:57 PM
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They are defined as masculine traits ("that define masculinity") and toxic masculinity is build upon masculinity. They even mention Machismo and hypermasculinity as examples of toxic masculinity. She says they define toxic masculinity in her very next sentence. You can't make this up: ....think physically strong, unsentimental, and assertive. These descriptions make up the traditional image of men and define the term “toxic masculinity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:35 PM
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https://femmagazine.com/feminim-101-what-is-toxic-masculinity/ Deeply embedded in the patriarchy are the socially constructed norms that define masculinity; think physically strong, unsentimental, and assertive This is the epitome of irony. The three traits that the link defined as toxic masculinity are universally attractive to women. It's no secret that women love physically strong men, and physically strong looking men. I don't think this needs to be argued. Sentimental men are just seen as o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:24 PM
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Oh no problem, it's actually very refreshing having a forum we can freely talk about women's real fantasies and sexual needs/desires. It's almost like what we learn from our friends, families, women themselves, and society is not even close to the full story and men have to come online and have a non-PC discussion amongst ourselves to find out what's actually going on in women's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:43 AM
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We all know she really means OP: Why aren't these tall, dark, handsome, strong, smart, rich, charming, talented men who love dogs, marathons, babies, and brunch trying to woo women like her? They should be completely ignoring the other 50+ options they have, and instead be doing anything and everything to get this one girl he met last week to marry him. Buy her clothes, purses, new shades - whatever it takes. In spite of themselves, hitting the genetic lottery and working hard on themselves for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:42 AM
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Interesting. I had 2 so far, so all I need is to get 0.76 of a woman to sleep with me and I'll be a Chad for 2018.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:21 PM
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This. I HIGHLY recommend "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" as well, not only because it's one of the top books floating around here, but because it explains everything you're experiencing and theorizing. An entire chapter in the book (Chapter 3) is based off showing vulnerability and is called "Power of Vulnerability" if you have any doubts. Vulnerability has always been a point of contention here and with men in general, which is because the difference between vulnerability and weakness i…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:06 PM
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While I agree with OP, there are certain conditions to this. Deliberately putting a girl in the friend zone could cause her to start having feelings for you or make her realize those feelings already exist. Hooking up with her friends could cause jealously and do the same thing. The only 3 scenarios I think can mitigate this is She's your friend's gf/ ex gf She's extremely hot so she already has a plethora of options aside from you She's your mentor/superior/boss Outside of those scenarios this …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 02:36 PM
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Good post, sounds really nice. I think deep down we all still wish this sort of relationship was possible. That one sexy and caring woman willing to support you through thick and thin and stay loyal no matter what? I wish man...I wish. There was this one guy I'm familiar with who let and wanted his girlfriend to stay home. He has a good job and bought a house for the two of them, and was preparing to propose. She would make dinner for him everyday, do all the laundry, clean, etc. How do I know a…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 05:05 PM
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+1 Completely agreed. Not much else needs to be said.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:07 PM
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You should lurk more. Hypergamy is a dual mating strategy, it's not just about marrying up or going for high status men. Watch what they do, not what they say. Not even being that guy with a six pack, 6'3", making 300k will save you when your wife feels tingles for the ski instructor she met on your vacation. Or the mailman. Or the poolboy. These memes exist for a reason. No amount of public policies can change this, it's innate, and will always be up to her to act (or not act) on her own instin…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 03:18 AM
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I've been there. The bottom line is don't get emotionally involved with women who don't find you sexually attractive/won't fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:07 PM
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muscles - go to the gym, lift, and repeat. skills - pick one, practice, and repeat. game - approach, put your balls on the line, and repeat. money - get a job, save and invest, and repeat. confidence - do all the above, and repeat. all of it is covered by TRP.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:57 AM
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Money, like everything else worthwhile (muscles, skills, confidence, game), takes time and effort to build.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:39 AM
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I understand what you're saying, but you have to keep in mind what the M stands for in SMP - Market. Any individual SMV is relative to what's available in that Market. A girl in her 20s with a decent BMI and a decent face is probably more attractive than 80% of the rest of girls in their 20s. If you consider her a 5/10 personally, that's perfectly fine but you just be aware what your scale means. While you're saying "hmm, she's a 7 maybe I'll hit on her" she's getting texts from Chad, Brad, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 10:32 PM
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It happens, and honestly the memories will never fully go away. But over time you'll notice those thoughts pop up less and less frequently. You'll reach a point where they start becoming fond memories of your experiences and growth, rather than just pain.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:02 PM
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Maybe I'll love you one day, maybe we'll someday grow
/r/askTRP25/01/18 08:44 PM
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Lol sounds like she's messing with you for revenge. Why not just say "congrats! who's the father?"
/r/askTRP25/01/18 08:39 PM
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"Let's have a kiss." On a side note, this would considered sexual harassment if it came from a straight male #MeToo
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 05:32 PM
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The different "personas" you're referring to are just the end results of all the general TRP advice. You're talking about the chicken while this sub focuses on the egg. How did your 28 year old felon example get to become "alpha"? He started lifting in his early 20s, found a mission that speaks to him (guns and stealing) and focused on that over women, and shows off what he aqcuired (his muscles and guns) for social status. All of this is TRP 101 if you just do a little reverse engineering. You …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 04:05 PM
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Damn, and here I thought it'd be Johnny Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 12:39 AM
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She's twenty years old. All she cares about how wet the guy makes her, and all other reasoning is retroactive. You know what it really is, he is a 30 year old blue collar machinist making 50K and he will never be promoted to make more. On top of that I realized I want to get married and have 3 kids and have a family, and he doesn’t want any kids or even get married!” yeah! He is studying engineering just like me so he will be making more money than my ex and he said he also wanted 3 kids" All of…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 09:11 PM
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Why the hell are you still with this girl? Why are you even wasting time writing all this? You don't even need TRP to tell you no physical attraction = no relationship. Break up with her immediately. Tell her you're just not feeling it anymore, radio silence, go lift, and hit on new girls. If she crawls back to you, ignore her ass. She had 7 years worth of chances. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 02:23 AM
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An interesting side note about this - I just started making a six figure income. I'm 28. Everyone talks about reaching this bench mark like it's the definition of success. Idk how many times I've heard "we gotta chase money man, then the girls will chase you!" As if a parade of girls would now come sniff me out and start fighting over me, and there would be a queue outside my apartment door every day of girls wanting me to take them to fancy dinners. None of that happens. Even with girls I've be…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:29 AM
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I'd have stayed and tried to bang her, but she's already made it clear she's not gf material. She sounds like a sociopath - perfect plate material.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 06:10 PM
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Give a salary range at first to give yourself leeway later on during the interview. Let them give you a salary offer. Don't accept right away. Show excitement and be grateful, but say you'll talk it over with your wife/parents/dog Next time you speak - then it's time to negotiate. Don't start off with salary, and ask questions talk about all benefits.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:16 PM
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speed-dating allowed them to contact each other after the event This is the problem. They have nothing to go by besides looks. This might as well have been a Tinder experiment to see who gets the most swipes. We all already know if everything else is equal, the extremely attractive dude wins. Give each guy an actual date where he's responsible for asking her out, holding frame, escalating, and calling her back and then see the stats.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:32 AM
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It's not about lack of intelligence. I've personally dated girls who were very intelligent, graduated from top schools, and were "on my level" and I'm an computer engineer myself. It's about how they experience life in general through their emotions first. Men take their life situations and process them logically first, it's our modus operani. Do we have emotions? Of course, and in some instances they can be even stronger than women's. Men take longer to get over breakups for instance (coughonei…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 05:46 PM
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Women care about context, not content. You're learning one of the side bar lessons the hard way. You mentioned TRP and post on TRP = you're the enemy/misogynist/rapist. That means anything you post is misogyny and needs to be purged - no matter what the actual content is or how much sense it makes. How interesting that the "you're all rapists" brush that you paint us with, no matter how much sense we make with our content, is now the same one the askfeminists are painting you with. Irony at its …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 01:43 AM
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I agree with you to a certain extent. Exposing your boundaries can come off as a weakness and can be exploited. When it comes to plates I think your approach is much better. However the whole point of having a gf is to test out being exclusive with one woman - if you can't even set those exclusive boundaries with her and she can't respect them then why are you even with her? If you can't set boundaries without worrying the next week she's going to get pissed and break them to spite you, well...c…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:00 AM
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That your mind works in the same way, but you blame only women, as if they were the only category in this world to behave in that way. Wrong. I have to put conditions on love because of the flighty nature of women's love. Just by saying "well men are like that too!!" tells me that you completely agree with my original statement about women, and that you don't understand men. No because that is true. The former example on the contrary is prejudice. It's a very similar statement. You can very easi…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 03:13 PM
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Fuck that man. What guy wants to approve/disapprove every little thing she does or friend she has? If I had a gf I would also give her total freedom - just lay some some ground rules too: no kissing other men, dancing too close, getting some guys number, etc. If she breaks those rules and you find out about it then she's no longer your gf. Pretty simple. With a wife making out with guys at a club you're basically fucked. "Omg you're going to divorce me over one little kiss?" then you say "Fine, …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:45 PM
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So, no, you don't. What's your point? You understand that there are many people in this world and they are not all alike, don't you? We're all more alike than different. I'm just making an observation. If I said "people tend to develop darker skin the closer they are to the equator" would that offend you too?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:25 PM
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Yes for "I only like girls". "I love you" is obviously more conditional, however a man's love is just not nearly as conditional and capricious as a woman's love: https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/ https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 10:03 PM
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If there's anything I learned about women on here it's that you always have to put a "subject to change" disclaimer on everything they say and do: "I'm a lesbian" means "Right now I'm a lesbian". "I love you" means "Right now I love you". It doesn't take away from the fact that she can completely 100% be a lesbian, and 100% be in love with you at that particular moment in time. But will the same be true tomorrow? Maybe, maybe not. Not even she knows.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:10 PM
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The Boner Test. If she's attractive enough to make you hard while escalating, then game on.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 09:26 PM
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I live in NYC where we pay New York state tax on top of New York City tax. Someone at $80,0000 here will still be making more than $4,200/mo after taxes. He must be including his rent, have a high contribution in his 401k, and go to a strip club weekly. Either that or he doesn't make 6 figures.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:18 PM
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Hold on. Can someone please enlighten this American on what is so moral about avoiding meat? Plants are just as alive as animals are. Just because animals have a face and higher state of consciousness doesn't mean you're not killing shit so you can live. The "not causing pain" excuse is stupid too. Just because a plant's system is not as developed doesn't mean it doesn't react and try to make certain of its own survival. Any "morality" reasons to be vegetarian or vegan seem like complete bullshi…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 06:18 PM
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I mostly agree, however Game is for the 'maybe' girls in the middle of your two categories. There are certainly girls who are just automatically attracted to you where it's on autopilot - if you just don't horrendously fuck it up . And there are girls who will reject you no matter how many fiery hoops you jump through. But there's also that middle ground where she may be thinking "He's kind of cute...let's see what else he's got." She could easily be dating around, have other options, have her o…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 02:46 PM
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There's pros and cons. I got a great education in my all-boys highschool that definitely helps me earn money ten years later. However I was a virgin going into college and didn't know jack shit about women, arguably even ten years later. Hence why I'm here. All in all, I think the pros outweigh the cons if the son doesn't impregnate some girl the second he gets some. Many of my fellow classmates have ten year olds now.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:54 PM
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If you have a baby face like me that might be the issue. Guys think it's attractive and girls think of it as cute - but not the "I want to fuck him now" type of cute. Your attitude and how you act is what can turn that around.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:41 PM
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Read it all, learn how to filter out the garbage, and keep what's actually the truth and useful to you. Every human culture has some sort of bias against other races/castes/sects/statuses/socioeconomic classes - skin color historically being one crude way to determine that. You really think you're going to escape all that just by being on the internet? Black guy as well btw.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 05:32 AM

Sounds like perfect plate material.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:22 PM
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The problem is they're trying to replace the original heroes. Female Thor? Latino Spiderman? Muslim Ms. Marvel? It's the laziest shit ever. As a black guy I'd love to see more heroes who are black, but I want them to be NEW characters. I don't want black Captain America. Who the hell wants the same storyline as Steve Rogers rehashed just with Stephan Freeman instead? I want heroes like Black Panther - a hero who was created from the beginning with his African lineage in mind. It makes it a genui…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:48 PM
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I like to have female friends when I can't get with them anyway. My friends' girlfriends, my coworkers, and girls my close friends have already been with. No eskimo bro status for me. The rest are fair game.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 11:08 PM
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Lesson learned - either be born a 6'2" jacked white guy, or learn game and you too can fuck OP's sisters.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:20 PM
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The real problem here is OP's first assumption - your girl. She's never yours, it's only your turn. Now you can bring her anywhere you want, she's free to hop on any cock she wants at anytime, and you'd just shrug/laugh and move on.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:35 AM
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Girls have options, especially hot ones. Whenever you get advice about keeping plates/non commital relationships it's always under the assumption that she's spinning you too. Personally I don't really pursue girls who say they have boyfriends. If she really wanted the D you'd find out she had a boyfriend after sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:58 PM
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OP, you did well, and let no one tell you otherwise. You took all your bottled up feelings for this girl and left them out in the open for her to mercilessly stomp on them. The best part is that it's all out of the way. It's over. You can take a sigh of relief knowing there's nothing else you can do besides move on and work on your own self. Weeks/ months/years from now she may contact you and try to rekindle some sort of relationship (friends or otherwise) but you'll always know you offered you…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:05 PM
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This reminds me of this girl I was orbiting in my early 20s. She was self conscious about her tits, started dating this older rich dude, he bought her new tits, then she cheated on him. Moral of the story: Don't raise her SMV for her. Hypergamy will start kicking in overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:38 AM

What hasn't been "linked" to cancer? Being alive is linked to cancer because the dead get cancer.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 02:17 AM

This. Amused mastery. Push/pull. Assume attraction. Always be closing. It's her loss. Its our version of make up. We're all just learning how to act like that blissfully happy, jacked dude with an 8 inch cock and 7 figures in the bank.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:16 PM
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Call me a typical American but I'm all for letting women do what they wish. If she wants to slut it up and bathe in the ocean of degeneracy, I defend her right to do so. In the same vein, I also defend my right to never even consider marrying such a woman. Rather than trying to restrict and regulate peoples' sexual behaviors we should educate them on reality, what exactly the consequences of those behaviors entail, and let them make decisions on their own: "If you're a whore, no man will want to…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:58 PM
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This is less about your looks and more about your vibe. While you're trying to come off as "alpha", it sounds like you're over doing it and coming off as aggressive/a threat. In her and her friend's perspective she sees this tall, fairly muscular (3x as strong as her), dark skinned dude not saying anything and just putting his hands on her. Girls are always on high alert about their safety- they're relatively weaker so they need to be. Smile, be friendly, dont take shit seriously, and don't try …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 08:17 PM

Disagreed. While going from homeless and starving to middle class will certainly make anyone immensely happy, there's diminishing returns. It's a logarithmic growth. At a certain point, getting more money just doesn't make you happier anymore.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:42 PM
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That video actually made me feel bad for her. It just seems like she wants to be comforted, wants to feel safe and secure, told nothing bad will happen, and told that's she a cute girl (at the end she actually asks the audience to reaffirm that she's cute). It's very adorable. Even in her late 40s it's like she's a little girl wanting to be lifted up and held.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 07:36 PM

Women do this to other girls everywhere. You've never heard a girl say "eww look at that girl's dress" or "omg I like her shoes" as she passes by on the street? it's how the compete and size up their competition. They judge each other by how they look, what they wear, and how they present themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 08:07 PM

I don't mind fucking a chubby chick with a cute face, but from what I've seen it's not any easier than fucking a nice-figured girl with a cute face. They're still girls. They still dream of being swept off their feet by Chad TC - only even taller and more muscular so he can actually lift her ass up. You still need to be an attractive, high value dude with tight Game. She just might have 120 matches on Tinder instead of 150 like her bff Jill - in the end it's all the same shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:09 AM
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Wrong. I don't have any desire to be attractive to, seduce, and fuck men.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 03:44 PM
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That's exactly how women think because they have a biological clock ticking. "Now that I'm in my late 20s it's time to settle down and stop the random hook ups!" All their friends are getting married, her family is putting pressure on her to find a husband, etc. So of course our culture would follow the female perspective on this. But we're men. We don't have to follow the same script. A 29 year old women is eagerly searching to settle down with a safe and secure guy while a 29 year old man is f…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 10:16 AM
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Don't worry OP, she's just trying to get a rise out of you and there was no damage done - just keep going on your path. I recently got a "I miss my best friend" text from a girl I used to orbit years ago too (I ignored that shit). It's like they're programmed to send you a "you know you want to be my personal beta again...I got a new collar for you and everything" text every so often to see if they can reel you back in.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:03 PM
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My theory is this paradox is the core of Game. The dance between alpha and beta, value and comfort, push and pull, interested and disinterested, pursuit and walking away, etc, etc. It goes by so many names but it comes up every time we talk about attracting women - because women are always out to get one, the other, or a combination of both. I'm still figuring this out myself but I think you're always going to end up implementing both strategies - the percentages just depend on the woman you're …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:42 PM
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The explanation is much simpler - his comment made her feel like a slut. "hitting that" = Mac is only in it for sex = she's a bad choice for a relationship = slut. That's exactly why she goes off and starts talking about love and respect in their relationship a.k.a. I'm not a slut. Even while doing the most degrading sexual shit for some dude she just met an hour ago, girls still need to have that narrative that she's a good girl and never does this and is totally wifey material.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:49 AM
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This. Think about it - your 5'8" shorter than average friend can get better results than you, who was born with height and good looks. He does this by working his ass off at the gym and having better game. If anything this proves that looks DON'T matter as much as we as guys tend to think.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 11:27 PM
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Sounds like OP is a guy with a square jaw trying to convince me guys with square jaws are automatically alphas
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 07:40 PM
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Dude, how the hell do you bench 265lbs? I'd need to see it to believe it. I'm 150lbs and I'd be happy to get to 225.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 04:05 PM
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She's manipulating you with sex and you're falling for it hook, line, and sinker. Fucking her again when you don't have the willpower to not get attached again was mistake number one, but a forgivable one. The unforgivable one is mistake number two - letting her move in again, and giving her an open invitation to control you. You're out of your mind if you think living in the same home with your ex wife and fucking her daily isn't being together.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:40 AM
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This happens to me all the time...and I'm still trying to figure out what to do about it. Girls who seem really into me when giving me their number. I just say "hey this is Snowiceolated from xyz bar" - radio silence Girls who text back but when I say we should get a drink - radio silence Girls I've been out with, kiss, and on the date they mention they want to see me again...when I text them again - radio silence It's like this giant funnel where you get 50 numbers, 25 answer, 10 go out with yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:49 PM
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Very interesting. It gives us more insight that no matter what race, religion, creed, or time period- AWALT. It also shows how information can be taken to extremes and turned corrupt. The countries today that practice Islam take lessons like this and try to control their women almost to the point of slavery. Just like the discovery of splitting an atom. It can be used to create energy as nuclear reactors, or create a nuclear bomb. Knowledge is amoral; it's what you do with it that counts.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:20 PM
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http://hkdatecoach.com/2015/07/20/my-affair-with-married-chinese-woman-its-really-easy-and-fun/ Just gotta look under the surface
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 04:18 AM
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Chinese culture simply shames women for acting on their feral nature. They're not actually attracted to pussies.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 03:27 AM
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Because you can find all that other shit so easily all over. You can talk to anyone about or read about work, friendship, health, hobbies, and/or self-improvement. In how many places or with how many people can you freely talk about wanting to fuck girls and discuss the strategy on how to do it?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:23 AM
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"By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." -Socrates Since now we have the internet and know it's a bad deal, we can skip the first step.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 02:33 AM
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Let's use chess an an analogy. When you play chess you have to analyze the board, look at the current pieces you have, know what your opponent has, look at your positioning, and formulate a strategy to win. This is your frame. If you're down a few pieces you don't start crying. If you come up with a good plan you don't start smiling and hopping up and down. You make your move calmly and take the result as it comes - bad or good. This is a DGAF attitude. Now, building a reputation can be one stra…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 06:40 AM
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seeing three guys at once before he proposes does as he is told Jesus Christ I feel sorry for this guy...
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 05:30 AM
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Start with The Rational Male. It's where I started. Both of these are on the side bar too: https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:49 PM
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You may be hotter but your attitude sucks - guys can smell it a mile away. So they go for your friend who isn't as attractive, but is still attractive and probably more fun to have a conversation with. I'd say the one thing that is just as or even more important than looks is femininity: being humble, compassionate, considerate, cheerful, empathetic, affectionate. You sound like you have -6 of these traits just based off the paragraph you wrote. You come off as more jaded, defensive, and competi…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:01 AM
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As a 5'5"-5'6" male, I appreciate this post. I really need to know about the dynamics though. How many of your lays were "meet at bar - bring her back same night" vs. "get her number - invite out next week"? Personally, I have a problem with execution. I can approach and get numbers and/or a make out, but then its like it fizzles out. I get a lot of "I'm with my friends but here's my number" where they seem genuinely interested (at least in the moment), even just giving me her number without me …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:43 PM
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That's because women take into account the whole package - looks, height, muscularity, race, clothes, wealth, job, status, attitude, and game. All of these are indirect indicators of power and indirectly increase your confidence. You're right that having 7 figures in the bank by itself won't directly get you laid...but neither will wearing a suit, having a six pack underneath, approaching her, or having a cocky attitude. But take a guess what happens when you put all those things together. Wealt…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:30 PM
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Indian and Asian dudes already have this deep-seated, culturally enforced complex about not being fair-skinned. Then throw them in a country with a majority white population that worships blondes as the hottest? Game over man...it'll take another century or three for them to get out of blonde girl pedestal mentality. It even took us black dudes until now and we're still weening off white girl worship.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 04:13 AM
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Let me get to that point and I'll let you know
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:30 PM
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I don't understand why you guys conflate RP knowledge and politics. Politics is about money. Who gives a shit if Donald Trump understands women's biology? What I care about is my meager, middle class salary is getting taxed higher than Donald Trump's bourgeoisie class. You can work on getting laid and not have a TRPresident
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:03 PM
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I have to agree man, she's not even all that attractive to me and I'm some average not-rich-not-famous-non-athlete. If he's gonna fuck up and knock some chick up, she could be a Victoria Secret model or something goddamn. This is a fuck up of all fuck ups...
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 07:12 PM
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This sounds like heaven to me. My problem is going from getting her number to getting her out on that first date - so many girls who were excited to meet me in person suddenly don't text back, flake, have boyfriends, are fully booked until 2018, realized they can't be banging brown dudes, etc. Anyway once you have sex it should be cake for you to get her out again. The roles completely reverse. My suggestion is keep the pillow talk light, teasing, and fun. Don't even mention if you will see her …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:55 AM
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