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But not as difficult as men over forty. Shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:33 PM
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“ If enough average women see enough average men look to other developing cultures where the women are not as demanding, then there will likely be a change of some kind.” Why? Apparently seeing women with higher valued men hasn’t made men change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:00 PM
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So you rewrote her comment and added words to change its meaning. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:58 PM
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Chickens are really nice pets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:56 PM
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It’s another implicit threat. We’ll take your rights
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:55 PM
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Lmao. What? If you can’t get W1 or WW2 straight maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:52 PM
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Wow. Yes ladies - your only value is your looks. JFC. I wouldn’t date a man with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:51 PM
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So cats are better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:50 PM
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Here is our disconnect I think. I agree you wouldn’t want someone to marry you for your wallet. I wouldn’t like it either. My now husband was very gun shy himself over this. He liked that I was independent and had a good career because it meant I liked (and now love) HIM. BUT, that doesn’t lead to your next premise - “ They should have invested early and helped to build something together instead of waiting at the finish line to date whoever crosses.“ I don’t think so. That sounds like the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:01 PM
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Looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
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I worked as hard or harder than most men and succeeded in a highly competitive field. I worked far harder than my ex. My now husband also worked really hard. Did he have to work “harder” than me? No. And how could I “ignore him” or these girls “ignore you” if they didn’t even know you back in the day? You guys really REALLY reveal yourself with these comments. You think men buy women. Men that earn lots of money and want to buy the best looking most agreeable woman as possible. If that’s the dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:10 PM
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But if she didn’t know you or reject you when young how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:00 PM
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Because many dudes wanted ONS and casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:29 PM
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Yah not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:28 PM
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This makes me laugh - especially the chocolate. High five girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:26 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:24 PM
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If you always insist on your way or the highway, then yes. But if you occasionally swap off then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:23 PM
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My relationship is the same. I’m married to a smart and strong willed man. We work cooperatively. He doesn’t lead; neither do I
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:21 PM
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So yes, you did it to hurt her. Get therapy. Stop taking out your anger and insecurity on random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:02 PM
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You should see how pissed guys get when they fuck you and then expect to date you and you say no. L-M-A-O.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:00 PM
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“ That’s never applied to any other quality like height, financial status or weight” It most certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:58 PM
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Or she gets FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:56 PM
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Pair bonding is for voles and birds, not humans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:54 PM
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“ If it's the truth, it is the truth whether it is spoken or not.” And this is the insecurity right here. Best man is opinion. But you think there is some objective truth you can divine and you will hold on to it no matter what the girl says.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:52 PM
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Like right? I married husband two even though he was shorter because he was better than everyone, including husband one who was 6’2. He was and remains the best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:51 PM
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Like dude, her boobs aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:42 AM
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Hehe YUP!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:40 AM
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Lmao. The internet is full of women who say they don’t need 6-6-6 but you ignore them. You hear what you want to hear and ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:39 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:28 PM
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Uh. We see plenty of dudes shirtless or nearly shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:28 PM
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Me too girl me too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:14 PM
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Damn dude. Feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:12 PM
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I agree with the wife. Someone wrote an article on it on bluesky that was good - the before guy is still pretty in shape but looks like he’d be a great ride and snuggle late on a Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:10 PM
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That’s it. And lots of guys here advocate lying and using women to lose their v card and then just moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:27 AM
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I think this was a great essay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:52 PM
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Going to another country to pick out a bride. The Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:50 PM
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You know, fuck YES
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:49 PM
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Considering the idea of marrying for romantic love is a very recent development, I’d say that your views are factually incorrect and demonstrate a deep naivety of the past. Marriages were business relationships first and foremost. It was rare to get a love match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:41 PM
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What the hell, woman. This? This is shitty pick me behavior - not OPs post but THiS. Just because other women choose differently doesn’t mean they’ve never been in love. One of the marriages I personally know that went the whole distance - married in their mid twenties until he died at 83 - was one where the woman generally wore the pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:37 PM
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Lots of women in there too, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:33 PM
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Eh I bet she finds it restful - no responsibility, no decision anxiety .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:31 PM
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“ I believe in " freedom in discipline" especially when it comes to health.” YES “ I've been a caregiver since a very young age. Have to know how to do it all when one of your parents is disabled.” Fuck dude, are we twins? SAME. Except when my parents split, I was the one child left with the disabled parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:29 PM
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This is what you need to understand. A lot of us aren’t cut out for that. I stayed home for a short period as a SAHM. I like doing traditional female things - I liked cooking (still do) and don’t mind cleaning. I painted and gardened and became so fucking depressed I wanted to sleep all the time. Here is the other thing - men are human. They cheat, they die, they lie, they can become abusive - JUST LIKE any human can become, so I will never ever give over the reins of my life to anyone else. Nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:22 PM
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Men don’t want kids either. Stop blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:26 PM
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If you are outside of a committed romantic relationship, you have to give all of your earnings that exceed the poverty line to the state. lavender marriage. A romantic partner can file a complaint with the ministry of loneliness and sexlessness, documenting issues with sexual frequency that are based in the other partner's willingness to have sex. so that all that matters is sex. Nice. Way to show you don’t understand and have never been in a relationship. So long as the spouse can counter file …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:32 PM
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“That is the problem. Like patriarchy arguing: we have patriarchy, we have the right to oppress women.” - and that was how it was for years. More than that, we had governments that imbued kings with divine rights and stripped large groups of people of any rights. - this is why men need to think twice about stripping women of their rights. There have already been grumbling about stripping poor men or takers of their rights. - so to comes down to enlightened self interest. “ I am also a biologist …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:21 PM
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Correct. We don’t pressure them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:15 PM
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Are you 70?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:10 PM
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a one night stand ghosted you. Correct. Is anyone trying to make that illegal? your date didn't pay for your dinner or give you a ride home Correct. Men are not obligated. And fuck I wouldn’t want it either. a man didnt walk you home or to your car or take care of you when you were drunk Correct. you don't get paid as much as a man who works more hours at a more demanding job Correct - it’s called equal pay for equal work. Do you think the rules are different? your male co-workers like to social…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:09 PM
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“ Men's natural, somewhat untamed sexuality and energy supect? Check.” Good. I don’t get to run around like an untamed ape, so neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:04 PM
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Why is it that a man can call a girl a whore and talk around behind her back? People gossip. Ir sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:03 PM
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“ feminism that make women act entitled and treat guys like shit.…” People refusing to date you is not treating you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:02 PM
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Women have the same access to the dating market that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:35 PM
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Yes, I’m not risking pregnancy and STDs for your ten seconds of pleasure. So yes, fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:34 PM
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“ here's a general societal effort to make women independant from men, but to keep men dependent from women.” Really? Tell me how men are dependent on women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:28 PM
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We have the right of free association. And ugly people aren’t a class of protected people. And there are limits where we shouldn’t let government trespass. One of those areas is the most private and intimate humans have - intimate relationships. We don’t force racists to marry black men or women (or vice versa, a black woman marry a white man) Do you want to be financially pressured into marrying a fat single mother? No? Because that is what you are inviting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:23 PM
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Go to bed and re-read 8 hours of deep sleep. This type of post is what I mean about men having fallen for the Disney BS, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:16 PM
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Not the man, but the older person - at least that’s my view. But again my brother was groomed by a female teacher twenty years his senior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:48 PM
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I mean, read twilight. Bella is pretty formless. Edward is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:30 PM
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No for the dude it’s being a hero and getting all the hot chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:28 PM
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Oh it was a very useful question - because it shows that men refuse to take “just anyone.” You put the bar at “horrifically ugly.” The above guy says “ is not actively ugly…” As always looks matter. And yet men still complain that society gaslit them into thinking that being nice was good enough. It never has been. And they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:13 PM
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“ is not actively ugly, ” Yup exactly. Character isn’t enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:09 PM
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Right, and look at the shit stains in the administration - pure white male DEI hires
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:26 PM
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Is it just in men’s natures to be violent predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:22 PM
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So weird. I am a busy lawyer and mom, and I have a writing group, knit, play soccer, and DnD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:18 PM
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Scott Galloway has donated beaovoup bucks to make it easier for poor people including men to get into college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:17 PM
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“ Women typically wear makeup, even though most men hate it, and then claim that it isn't deceptive at all. You are purposely wearing makeup to change your appearance. How is that not deceptive?” Men like makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:13 PM
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“ Also, personality is overrated when it comes to causal sex, which young men disproportionately want.” To hell with them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:10 PM
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Women aren’t more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:09 PM
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Once again, Whiskey has to start talking about fat chicks. Dude is obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:05 PM
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Hey sorry about your mom, man. That’s sounds hard all around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:03 PM
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And the teachers are going to be encouraging too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:01 PM
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This needs to be upvoted a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:00 PM
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Esmeralda didn’t end up with Quasimodo. And I hate Beauty and the Beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:59 PM
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Nobody going to click some link to a random person’s ranting on Wordpress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:56 PM
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Did they really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:55 PM
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Bahaha not in the movie are you kidding me???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:54 PM
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You literally ADMITTED it’s about confidence and charisma … YOU And humor, passion, ambition, and superlative communication are all wrapped up in charisma. So those girls, by your own standards, aren’t lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:53 PM
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Why do they expect to get a hot girl when they aren’t hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:50 PM
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Yah, men have to stop pushing that nerd fantasy bullshit. It’s like having a 70 year old Stallone play opposite some 20 year old like he’s still an action star.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:49 PM
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“ a subset of girls angry that they were told that they were beautiful at every size.” Bahaha no you won’t. You have no idea the sea girls and women swim in when it comes to weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:47 PM
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I see you sis. Although none of my friends acted petty like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:46 PM
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always blaming the mothers. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:44 PM
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The same men who snarl meanly at women that they need to “choose better” even at 19 are simultaneously whining that no one told them that being physically attractive and charismatic attracted girls. But no, girls are supposed to know automatically who the bad guy is FROM her first relationship but never boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:42 PM
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I mean, I’ve got kids this age now. And they are ALL talking about who is dating whom. It’s the water they swim in. My youngest hates it because she is not into boys at all right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:38 PM
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Damn I’m a chick and my brother told me the score - “lose weight.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:36 PM
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This is healthy. And ask yourself - would a good character girl be enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:35 PM
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I LOVED THAT MOVIE. And it totally set my male Chad kink - Harrison Ford - hot and intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:34 PM
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The Hunchback of Notre Dame is an amazing and iconoclastic Disney movie. Took dead aim at religious hypocrisy. And they took all these detailed measurements of Notre Dame they were able to share when it burned. Such a wonderful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:32 PM
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He did what … who is the comedian who said it - that conservative men go after strong independent beautiful women to cage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:30 PM
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Tangled and Frozen broke the mold. And in Frozen Kristoff criticizes Anna for insta love - and is entirely right. But keep in mind, Kristoff is still big tall and athletic and rugged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:28 PM
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You guys just love your black and white thinking there buddy. Let me know when women ever said we were the “exact same.” We deserve the same legal rights, we are very similar, we are the same species. But we are not in fact identical twins. You making the same amount of money or scoring the same girls as a tall Chad? No? Congratulations, you just discovered that men aren’t all identical, either. Not all men get to make money as professional athletes, actors, or models. Guess you need to bar them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:33 AM
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As a Xennial this doesn’t surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:42 PM
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And boy did they love their Valium and booze
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:36 PM
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But apparently pressuring a girlfriend into premarital sex is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:34 PM
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A lot of Muslims don’t. Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:34 PM
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This is a great point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:33 PM
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And he had a bunch of affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 PM
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Let me know when you decide Chad should be accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 PM
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If you don’t care if women have sex, why are you trying to punish (oh I’m sorry force “accountability) them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:30 PM
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Being second class citizens for women wasn’t great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:29 PM
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Then don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:27 PM
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What a tell. In your world man = independent and woman = dependent. Hi, I’m going to be just like men - earn money any way I can that’s legal. Men get to use their biological advantage for certain jobs like oil rig worker and make bank. Why should a woman not use her biological advantage and be a cocktail waitress, bottle girl, pin up girl, model, or only fans worker? If there is a market, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:27 PM
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Who said a 10/10 baddie? I said, “only if a prettier one isn’t available.” And it’s quite clear, going outside, women absolutely date men under 6 feet. My bro is 5/11 and scored a cute blonde general surgeon. My husband is 5/7 and scored a cute blonde lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:02 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:55 PM
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Sure I don’t mind . We are Xennials, white, Americans. Me: lawyer. Him: D.Sc. he hadn’t even finished his B.S. when met him. He is stereotypically male - ex mechanic, a scary shot, adores soccer. Likely on the spectrum (runs in both our fams). Built like a tank. Short MF but so am I. Treats me like a god damned Queen. I had been married before him. I did what redpill said you are supposed to do. Married a guy at 22 (he 25) right out of undergrad. He was 6/2 out of the business school. On paper h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:22 PM
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Feel free to enact laws to control male sexuality if you think it’s a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:38 PM
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Tell me how much you judge promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:27 PM
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Let me know when women start high fiving each other like men do every time they score.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:25 PM
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Sorry to tell you that men don’t have a monopoly on him being able to enjoy sex anymore. So sad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:17 PM
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I hear that a lot. But I can’t get the thought out of my head that Women are less happy than they’ve ever been, at least by any metric we can measure. And a LOT more have mental health issues. Men are on the decline too, just at a less dramatic rate, and could directly be tied to women. Of course, it’s all women’s fault that men are so super depressed. It couldn’t be the complete erosion of good paying jobs the rise of gig work, or the following out of the middle class, which was perpetrated by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:16 PM
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“ Actively wanting to be home makers and mothers. Bonus points for not actively trying to compete with their spouse in all walks of life.” They had no choice so wanting had nothing to do with it. Just because I have a job doesn’t mean I compete with my spouse. You all have toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:11 PM
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Whereas men were always sluts and are sads they no longer have the monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:03 PM
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Lmao. They were hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:02 PM
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What double standard? This always cracks me up. I i’m expected to have a job and be able to support myself? So a man should as well. Where do you get this idea that women get to not have jobs or get to sit at home at their parents house doing nothing but stuffing their face with bonbons until rescued by some man? And getting a decent man requires you to be a decent woman, including being gainfully employed. My husband expects me to be faithful and not cheat. I expect my husband to be faithful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:58 PM
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So was mine. He and my grandma were married to different people when they met. He was born in 1899. (I’m the youngest of the youngest child). He then hit on one of his step daughters. My parents divorced because my dad cheated with one of her friends. This was the early 80s. My mom always told me I should be a virgin when i married. Yet her marriage was a shot gun wedding. Which they hid until my brother, in his mid forties, found their marriage cert in a courthouse basement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:05 PM
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“ and if bettering yourself was something that one could learn in high school.. why didn't you follow suit.. could've been better. better be a butterface than a dumpy.” Lmao. Let me spell it OUT for you. Here is the difference between me and you. I learned in high school that looks were king, that I was not the traditionally hot girl and I never would be no matter how skinny I got due to my morphology. And sure I was mad about it - in HIGH school. It’s not fair! I’m nice! I’ll treat a guy right!…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:34 PM
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God, you guys believe Disney films and rom coms and it is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:10 PM
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She was a racist piece of trash. You conquered nothing but a garbage pile. And clearly you don’t get into successful relationshipS since they keep failing. And if your current girlfriend was attracted to you because you are a jackass, then she is too. Water seeks its own level. “ and FYI.. SHE Hated black men... I am indian.. she never hated me or my race.” Then why did you say this? “ this woman who hated black men (I am of east indian origins mind you)” Why brag that you conquered a racist POS…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:05 PM
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You could still find your guy as a virgin young girl, its just that what might've appealed to you was not what the average guy was. No, I couldn’t. Me being a virgin was BAD. Boys knew I wouldn’t put out and they weren’t dating for marriage. I mean if I just wanted to be some guys cum bucket, I’d get USED. But I wouldn’t get “my guy.” No one would commit to me, just fuck me, laugh at me, humiliate me, and leave me on the side of the road. You were a dumpy chick who expected her prince and was un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:55 PM
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“ Men will get with a woman being nice to them unless she's horifically ugly somehow.” Only if a prettier one isn’t available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:21 PM
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InSANE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:19 PM
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“ ed my brazen devil may care attitude... and I did some heavy raceplay based sessions with this woman who hated black men (I am of east indian origins mind you)” You stuck your dick in a piece of trash. Well shit dude, if all you want is to fuck a bottom feeder that considers your mother subhuman, knock yourself out. The rest of us don’t want a racist piece of trash. Let me know when you get an actual high quality woman who you’d want to raise your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:56 PM
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No, sorry, no. You know who believes in the Disney bullshit? MEN. Not women, not girls, MEN. You all believe Cyrano de Bergerac wins Roxane. As a woman, I was told that I had to stay a virgin until marriage and be a nice girl and treat guys nice and dress nice and guys would like me. I’m pretty tone deaf but I KNEW by fifth grade that pretty trumped it all. I still thought by being a good girl, a nice guy would want to wife me up. L-M-A-O. By high school I knew that was wrong. It was all sex app…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:51 PM
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Is it? We got hitched at the courthouse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:15 PM
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This dude is either larping or is a reincarnation of Claude Frollo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:13 PM
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That last sentence - 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:11 PM
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This literally has nothing to do with the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:23 PM
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Except women are being blamed. Thats the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:21 PM
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I also blame men when their wives dump them. Those men should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:20 PM
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I think this post is aimed toward a certain type of person who literally froths at the mouth disparaging single moms rather than those, like you, who recognize it’s just not the ride they want to take. When I was a divorcee, I refused to date single dads for the same reason. I don’t rage about them online. IE look at the post below
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:17 PM
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That’s just smart. Whether or not she had a kid, her pattern is not great
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:15 PM
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Ah yes, as always, men prove they don’t give a shit about the paper the constitution is written on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:51 PM
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I didn’t ignore shit. You think that by making some dough, eVeN iF yOu DoNt WaNt To, you have the right to demand her body if she doesn’t want to - that’s worse than prostitution, that’s slavery. A prostitute can say, take your money and shove it. But I’ll let my husband know that since I pay bills, don’t cheat, and keep my job, he’ll have to eat me out until I drench him no matter how he feels at that moment whenever I ask. And if he doesn’t, I’ll just cheat. No fucking respect and I hope to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:50 PM
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A lot of boys are actually like this in their formative years, I wonder why it's so different with girls. Haha NO. Boys in general are NOT like this at 15. Goddamned, I’m around a bunch of 14-15-16 year olds. None of them are thinking long term or what makes a good marriage partner. 15 year olds are in 9th grade! There is a reason why men marry at 30 and women at 28 on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:38 PM
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No we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:29 PM
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That would be a loser, wouldn’t it? If he wasn’t a Chad, he doesn’t deserve a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:29 PM
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Uh. That is literally what happens. That was the story of my life and a lot of mid’s lives. I was not a hot commodity at 19-22. When I came back on the market at 28, I couldn’t believe all my options. The difference? A lot had gotten over chasing the party girls and were looking to settle down. I fit the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:24 PM
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I think pure love is the man loving me whether or not I fuck him. He should marry me and stay loyal to me and love me even if I only have sex with him once a year because he should love my authentic self says no man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
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This, lady, and I’m so glad you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:16 PM
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Same for men like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:08 PM
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Nods
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM
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And “lvm” like OP are also deeply damaged by their resentment and perceived lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM
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And a lot of virgins like this guy posting are rife with neuroticism and baggage, a lot of it isn’t so subtle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:05 PM
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This is dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:03 PM
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Lmao. You are just super beta bux aboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:02 PM
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Yah that’s why it’s so successful…. Oh wait, checks the stats, nope…. Romeo and Juliet was a TRAGEDY for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:01 PM
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I mean, isn’t it a thing of beauty? All the latent misogynistic bullshit just comes flooding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:00 PM
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“ Yes men hate other assholes, how's that shocking…” No, you are deeply envious of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:57 PM
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“ If another person especially a shitty asshole got to test drive my car, for free I'd be salty but hey maybe that's just me.” The money shot, right there, you give away exactly what you think of women- that we aren’t people but possessions. This is revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:56 PM
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“ She can be as old as she wants as long as she doesn't have a history of dating men who I would approve of if we're their parent or sibling,” Same same, boyo. Oh wait, you haven’t dated ANYONE at all? I guess that takes you off the field if no woman at all thought you were worthy. You need to decide whether you want to be judged by the past or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:54 PM
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“Personally I like an angry mid thirties man that hates women for dating” said no women ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:51 PM
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“ You have a right to be wanted for you, to feel desired beyond the safety and security you provide. Don't let anyone tell you different.” I agree with this. This is 100% right. But keep in mind, the corollary for what OP is saying is that women are only valued based on how many penises they’ve touched - and that’s pretty toxic. He also needs to value the woman based on HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:50 PM
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This is really a fascinating and different view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:48 PM
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YES bird this -> “ some men view women as basically interchangeable supporting characters in their lives.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:45 PM
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But they aren’t necessarily. I’ve known personally two chads. One I dated. One was my husband’s best friend. The one I dated was decent, honest, hot, and asked me to move in. Sure he didn’t promise commitment or marriage. It’s why I moved on - but he wasn’t toxic, he didn’t hurt me. The one who did the worst to me was my first husband, who did commit to me…. But was WORSE than Chad. The second Chad was a cool guy. I liked him and he liked me. Great guy. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:44 PM
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“ from the get go. That's the entire point. That they should treat partner selection with the seriousness it deserves from the get go.” For a man who couldn’t get anyone to choose him, maybe you should stop throwing stones, boyo. You expect women to be picture perfect from day one and choose perfectly when it is CLEAR you’ve been choosing women out of your league and thus chosen very badly. You should have chosen the ugly fat girl in the corner, right? Or the nerdy mid? But you didn’t. So obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:40 PM
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Beats being never chosen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:19 PM
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Puppy for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:17 PM
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You guys are CRAZY MAKING. Do you think Ronaldo came out of the womb playing perfect soccer or do you think he fucked up a bunch along the way? Do you think you rode your bike perfectly the first time you got up or did you get training wheels or those pedaless versions and fall some and then figure it out? Did you date a girl in HS and maybe fuck this or that up and then did better the next time? There is this stupid idea, always seemly held against women but rarely men, that they should automat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:16 PM
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In the US, men receive affirmative action to go to college. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:02 PM
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Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:01 PM
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“ The same applies to sex.” Then get a prostitute. Because that is what you are demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:20 PM
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“ Besides I'm boring with my baught and paid for home ,stable life retirement and pension good credit no criminal record and I'm way to short at only 6' 😴 and to broke since I don't make 500k a year.” Would you date a fat women or an obnoxious one just because she owns her own home, has a great job, stable life or pension? “ Meaghan Good was married to a pastor she left him for a man convicted of abuse…” Well it’s clear her picker was broken if she married a pastor. I’ve googled and I have no id…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:18 PM
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And here we go again. What does fun have to do with building a relationship? Everything. Do you think men date women they don’t have fun with? No. This is a marriage. We must work together over decades to bring up our children, day in and day out. That means we MUST enjoy each other’s company - we MUST be good companions and friends. Lust goes. Sex drives drop. Men sometimes get a paunch. A woman who carries children will get stretch marks and her boobs change. They will both age. You’ll be trap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:06 PM
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Nah, men are just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:18 PM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:09 PM
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You can stop telling women what is acceptable and what isn’t, thanks. Women don’t like high body counts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:03 PM
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The studies show differently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:00 PM
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There are MANY accounts of medieval sex work. And bishops ran brothels in medieval London.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:50 PM
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Actually no. Women - like men - tend not to like promiscuity in their mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:42 PM
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No, just that they are more likely to indulge in extramarital affairs and also get bored with the same body. And all of that is just… averages. You may be different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:40 PM
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I’ll go 15 to 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:07 PM
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I’ll go 15 to 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:07 PM
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Lean and toned (visible abs with decent muscle definition) - think Tom Holland or Harrison as Hans Solo. Dad bod - older Harrison. Middle aged Tom Hanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:05 PM
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Hey, we are all learning. Hope it’s gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:38 PM
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So glad you are doing better dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:36 PM
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“ The boys fathers aren't relevant.” Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:32 PM
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Not in my family. In my family, the women all succeed in traditionally male occupations. We have an IT developer, a lawyer (insurance coverage), a scientist, a surgeon, and a pilot. 💅 med school and law school have been 50/50 for a while. AND female surgeons have better outcomes than male surgeons. Take your pick me bullshit and fuck off. Not all women are as incompetent as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:31 PM
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I think it’s good to have men in teaching because representation matters. It’s why it’s good to see a woman as a scientist or a doctor for girls. I agree all teachers should be paid better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:19 PM
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Shit yes. One of my friends is a rural mail carrier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:25 AM
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I call it stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:24 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:22 AM
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Ouch dude, that sucks man. And yes some women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:13 AM
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I’m friends with three teachers. One makes more money than her deputy husband. One is unmarried and supports herself. The other is a dude and supports himself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:06 AM
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And every comment you’ve written is incredibly disdainful towards women and girls. Stop being such a snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:04 AM
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No he couldn’t. Thanks bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:58 AM
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“ The top priority is children, not politics amongst adults.” Then all the money must go to women, as they are the ones who are primarily responsible for the upbringing of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:56 AM
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They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:53 AM
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You know, I’m not sure anymore. Women do still get baby rabies, but I also know many women who have shrugged that off, gotten to their late 30s, and are glad they didn’t have kids. It used to be that you’d see a wife pressing her husband to have kids. That seems to have changed over the last two decades. But that’s just an impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:23 PM
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I love a self deprecating humor. It’s attractive. I wish you good luck and good karma
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:16 PM
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Then stop exaggerating. You know for damned well that not all men pamper their wives or take bullets for them. But I’m glad you love your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:15 PM
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Reins. And no, I don’t want a man to be submissive to. Give me a break. It’s not in my nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:13 PM
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“Wait so your whole argument is that women would go for mid guys but they are oh so societally pressured.” Not exactly. Only that men can’t pretend that their actions don’t also shape the dating market. And, the demands that men place specifically encourage these kinds of results. In other words, men here tell women to settle for the best they can get when they are young because “here comes the wall.” And men tell women that they can’t have a high n count. That means that women are pressured to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:11 PM
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To the contrary, young or old, all the male teachers I know are married or dating. Dude in my writing group, single male teacher. Guy always had dates and an active sex life with age-appropriate women. Some of them had jobs like veterinarian. He was in shape, an athlete, but only about 5/8 and bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:17 PM
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Yup. Want smart kids, need a smart mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:45 PM
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Now, the surveys show that women want kids less than men. That bio urge? That craziness over babies? Generally doesn’t trigger until actual pregnancy. I never much liked babies and only babysat because I had to. Then I had a kid and all those hormones swept in. I like babies now a lot. There are a lot of women I know who have gone through the same. They were neutral or negative toward kids until they had their own. And the birth process is so unpleasant and young kids so much work they stop at o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:43 PM
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“ At best what you can do is wait until 30-40 until women are done "having fun" and are ready to settle. Which, yeah no thanks.” As men here like to tell us - any woman over 30 is used up and and a has been and our greatest value is at 20-25 and it’s all down hill. They tell us we need to find the very very best man - and to consider men in their 30s and 40s if “established.” So why would they settle on a mid in their 20s? Why waste the time. And if men are going to complain about n counts or re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:38 PM
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Because you and many men do not love women enough to pamper them or take a bullet for them. You haven’t done it; you’re just trying to claim what other men have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:48 PM
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Because it’s not based on biology (women are weaker) women are genetically stronger from the XX. It’s why we live longer. You only look at muscle strength. But we simply endure better. https://today.duke.edu/2018/01/women-survive-crises-better-men morality (women are less morally developed), is that why women commit less crime? Is that why people entrust their children to women and not men? LMAO or intelligence (women are very average). you all never recognize that there are more types of intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:36 AM
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“ Then what is it based on? Because it’s not based on biology (women are weaker), morality (women are less morally developed), or intelligence (women are very average).” Wow why won’t any woman breed with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:27 AM
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Men only enter relationships for their own benefit too. My husband didn’t ask me out because he thought he’d make my life better. He did it because he thought I was cute and funny. “ Many were never really interested in true partnership, but rather a way to manifest/increase her status and brag about it …” And that’s how we know you are chasing 9/10s. No mid girl is dating a mid guy for status or bragging rights. He has to be really rich, a model, a performer of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:15 AM
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Not in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:44 PM
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You always are the funniest commentator.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:32 PM
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Women do not automatically like babies. Got news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:32 PM
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Love. I mean what? I’ve been married for 18 years. He loves me. He takes care of me when I’m sick. He scratches my back. He never ever ever forgets my birthday. We divide and conquer the world together. We lean on each other. We fuck each other. Like he’s my closest person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:31 PM
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People need to read you more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:26 PM
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So for most of their life they have no regret? Sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:17 PM
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I appreciate the acknowledgment. I don’t devalue motherhood but I live in a capitalistic society where my future is secured by the all mighty dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:09 PM
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No, you aren’t. You are dealing with another person, not a car or a dishwasher. You only get when someone else decides to give. That is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:06 PM
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lol, we watch what men do not what they say. And they like the made up and well turned out women in the short skirt and high heels. My husband adores it when I get my nails done and wrap them around his cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:04 PM
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If you knew history, you’d know that the idea of a single wage earner supporting a non working spouse existed only for a brief span in middle class and upper middle class predominately white families. Before that time, women always worked unless one was rich. They just worked shit jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:02 PM
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Yes, my right to go to the same university as a woman is the same as having to SHARE my body with a man. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:50 PM
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You all never present one iota of evidence to support this “women have such inflated heads” narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:44 PM
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You all say we have all this malice, but most of us are paired up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:43 PM
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My generation - GenX (actually more like Xennial) - was really the first where women had free and equal access. My mother was a perfect 4.0 student but because she was a woman, UVA refused to admit her as a first year. But they admitted my dad, who was not a 4.0, dicked around, left, came back, and basically did a mediocre job. My mom entered as a third year and went straight through her masters - perfect 4.0. When I was admitted as a first year, I was in the first class where women outnumbered …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:37 PM
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I make money and live with my husband. We support each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:43 PM
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“ Woman aren't forced to work, those things were provided for them before…” Lmao. No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:42 PM
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Men have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:41 PM
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They aren’t having that much sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:26 PM
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Ahum, as a mother “SOCIETY devalues motherhood.” That includes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:25 PM
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Most of them. Gen z is having FAR less sex and that’s a long term trend. Seems GenX was the absolute horniness. I know multiple girls that never had casual sex. Or maybe had casual sex in a short relationship - six weeks - but that’s it. The stats show that about 20% of the women (and men) out there are having tons of sex - mostly with each other. The rest not so much. It’s why married people have the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:17 PM
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Then she’s shit out of luck. But here is the thing, all these men here tell us we are washed up has-beens at thirty, and how men only want the young 20s girl, and how they need to settle down in their mid twenties if they expect to get the best…. So why wouldn’t those girls be setting the standard as high as possible? Why waste her youth and beauty on a poor short man? Sounds all red pill to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:10 PM
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I mean I know two girls, religious, who made that decision in their mid THIRTIES after a lot of lame dates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:06 PM
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“ relationship if you're going to neglect the other person's sexual needs with no intent of doing anything other than sweeping the problem under the rug…” I mean sexual desire for men and women ebbs and flows over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:00 PM
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Maybe maybe not. I’ve read enough at deadbedroom to see guys complaining when they don’t get laid more than once or twice a month or they don’t get laid for a couple months after giving birth. It’s in the eye of the beholder And there are plenty of ladies complaining over there over no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:57 PM
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Okay this is an actually nice response. So here is my recommendation - go read 50 pound above - she’s a size queen. What was the BIG difference between the big dicked guy who rocked her world and the one who didn’t? Experience and willingness to please. I’m not a size queen and I’m telling you that for an average dicked man it’s about how he moves it. I don’t know what kind of rocket nature put into your pocket, but I do know that dick enlargements aren’t easy or safe. But take heart, because if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:05 PM
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Women call men pencil dicks because it hurts, not because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:59 PM
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Normally I enjoy what you say but you aren’t the only woman in the world to have had earth shattering amazing sex with multiple organisms. The very best sex I’ve ever had has been with a perfectly normal sized man. And no I’m not inexperienced. And yes I’ve fucked big men. The single difference between the amazing sex and shitty sex has been whether the man knew what he was doing and took the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:58 PM
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Riiighhhttt it’s the women lying, not the men. The men who constantly compare dick sizes and think hitting a cervix is about “her” pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:50 PM
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Lots of different angles. Can get the ball slapping going. Easier to deep throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:49 PM
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So discount Beta Bux
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:44 PM
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Really? I wonder why men remarry faster than women after a divorce? There have been a few and one near divorces in my cohort among my friend’s group. Of the four I am thinking of, three was the man who wanted out and wanted out for another woman. Oh wait, include my brother and that’s four. Two were cheating - literally monkey branching. Two moved on very very quickly to new women. I see them all over Facebook. I am the one female driven divorce I know. I’ve seen several other divorces but I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:42 PM
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I was thinking the screwtape papers? Great CS Lewis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:30 PM
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I think so. I don’t do it as a woman for a multitude of reasons. But yes attention. and old people are entitled as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:37 AM
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This is really not reflected in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:22 AM
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Why are you assuming that a woman who goes 50/50 is promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:21 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:10 AM
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Nope, you are the guy who claims my education has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:09 AM
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Still smart. You and your lady take a high five
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:59 AM
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Both adults didn't used to need to work. Partly because men are happy to support their wife. Men striving to earn money, to attract and support a wife (who has innate sexual value, so he wants her regardless of her income) is a paradigm which works. that was only for a very short period of time post WW2 in the US middle and upper class. For most of human history, women have always worked. So actually it was a paradigm that didn’t work and didn’t last for more than a generation. You should go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:57 AM
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Very few people get “gender studies” degrees. Rolls eyes. Too bad you didn’t take advantage of the opportunities you were given
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:52 AM
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Complete logic fail: “ But even in situations where the man and woman are earning the same, it's usually the woman benefiting.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:50 AM
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So you are just going to ignore everything she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:44 AM
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I’ve been with bigger dudes. It hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:42 AM
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Who says they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:42 AM
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Stop listening to porn. I have NEVER had a “cervix” organism. I HAVE been hit in the cervix and it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:41 AM
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Yah those last two things. And hitting the cervix does suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:39 AM
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“ picky—they actually understand their bodies. They’ve been with a guy who can reach deep spots like the A-spot, G-spot, and even the cervix—things smaller guys often can’t hit with the same intensity or fullness. So bigger guys can achieve those orgasms much more frequently than smaller ones .” You don’t know shit about female anatomy. The g spot, the clitoris, and the a spot are not (for most people) deep in the vagina. The clitoris is actually pretty large and rings the vagina and is more for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:35 AM
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No dear - I’m consistent. I think it’s gross when old men or old women hit on 20 year olds. I don’t care if a fat guy hits on me - the have- and I don’t call them creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:14 AM
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“ . The sexual part of women does want a dominant man who leads and they can submit to.” I love it when men tell me what I want or don’t want. It’s like you’ve never heard of dominetrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:09 AM
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I want a capable man. I am a capable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:02 AM
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“ It does, otherwise you have coercive speech where you cannot express your speech due to fear of retaliation.” BY THE GOVERNMENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:51 AM
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They aren’t. You piss me off but I am 100% with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:49 AM
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Nazi’s hated unions: https://www.tuc.org.uk/blogs/ninety-years-nazi-ban-free-trade-unions-lessons-remain-relevant-us-today#:~:text=The%20Nazi%20ban%20on%20free%20trade%20unions%20not%20only%20deprived,rule%20of%20terror%20and%20antisemitism. Nazis hated commies and socialists https://www.thoughtco.com/was-adolf-hitler-a-socialist-1221367
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:45 AM
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The Nazis weren’t Marxist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:43 AM
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So… you can speak however you’d like - you just can’t do it within a certain distance of the abortion clinic. I’m sorry, but is a violation of my free speech rights if I show up at your prolife rally in some church with a blow horn and you kick me out? Just checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:42 AM
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“ Feminists absolutely try to tone police and steer the conversation in a way that favors women. Especially on this site of all places lol” Downvote me all you want, snowflake, but you are literally complaining that feminists are using SPEACH - written communication. That IS the essence of the first amendment. You want privileged speech - you want to say whatever you want and no one gets to say a word back, just like the incredibly fragile Musk. You are the one who is trying to stifle free speec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:41 AM
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“ Right, whatever advancements college gives, to young men it's not worth it vs working right out of high school” As we know, teen boys are famous for long term thinking, measured cost-benefit analysis, and rational decision making. That’s why their car insurance rates are so low. As to whether higher education is shit and isn’t geared toward men, who says? Because immigrants from cultures that value education sure want their kids attending. And the children of Trump and JD Vance are going. In f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:31 AM
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If they are both earning the same, why do you assume he’s supporting her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:00 AM
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Nice. You all did it smart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:55 AM
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My clients love my education - as much as an insurance company can love - but I’ll tell all those blue collar construction workers they are out of luck when Rodrigo leaves a hammer in the mainline and causes millions in damages. “Sorry, my education is worthless.” And when the roofer takes a tumble and suffers a few fractures - no thanks nurse, no thanks doctor - your “education” is worthless. Meanwhile foreign students beg to get into our universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:52 AM
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This is pure whatabouttery I'm a lefty and what these people did is disgusting. I can say that and still vote against Trump. You seem like you can't. No, dear, it’s that I actually understand what IS a real risk to free speech and what is disenginuous hackery. It seems you can’t. There will always be dipshit college students who pull fire alarms or use blowhorns. But those are private actors with little to no power acting up like college students always have. They aren’t people with power, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:51 PM
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Well too bad. That isn’t your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:05 PM
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And that’s why they have shitty marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:03 PM
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I don’t want to be supported q100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:02 PM
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Well if you are Charlie Kirk and say women should be kicked out of college and go make babies, people don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:01 PM
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None of the ills of which you speak are caused by women or by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:56 PM
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Good job. You’ve fallen for the right wing propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:53 PM
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The Trump government is right now punishing people for writing op eds. Sit the fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:45 PM
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Show me one article where black men focus on white men’s issues. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:43 PM
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You are the one who has failed ro make one connection between feminism and the draft or the rest of the ills you raise. Do you even understand logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:42 PM
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Men retire 3 years later, but live 5 years less. the retirement age is the same. That men choose to work later has nothing to do feminism. The life expectancy is due to a multitude of issues that the government pre Trump tried to address. Too bad the CDC and NIH and OSHA and the VA was gutted and they are pulling down the suicide hotline. Who did that? Was it the secret feminists in the trump administration? I see the miners - predominantly men - are suing over the end of black lung protection a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:40 PM
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Ah so you are mad that women use their own speech? How sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:29 PM
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It is not the opposite of reality. But just like conservatives, you won’t care until it’s you disappeared to a gulag in another country without due process and beyond the reach of the court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:28 PM
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“ Just because someone can be a nazi, doesn't mean you should strip everyone's right to protected speech.” Who is doing that? Oh wait, you think your employer’s right of association should be limited, forcing them to keep employing you? Even though it will lose them business and make other better employees quit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:51 PM
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“ Why does someone have to fear being fired, shamed, or ridiculed over something they said, especially if it's years ago?” But I thought you wanted to support free speech and here you are - bitching that someone is using their free speech to criticize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:49 PM
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You sound like a common Californian. That is one of the few states with such protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:47 PM
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So you are good with people getting fired. Sit the fuck down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:42 PM
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That’s called free speech boyo. Why are you against free speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:41 PM
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Lmao. No. And fuck JK Rowling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:40 PM
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So there are literally articles about it? But it’s not acknowledged that some white women are white first?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:39 PM
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So only the first speaker has a right to speak? Never those who object? Thats the same bullshit where Trump supporters can be hateful but if anyone protests, they get arrested. It’s the right that is cutting off funding to universities. It is the right is disappearing people who protest and sends them to Latin American gulags.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:35 PM
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As a white girl I’ve only managed to avoid aging by extreme care around the sun but damn black women look amazing forever. Men age faster usually. My husband has been mistaken for my father several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:31 PM
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Because your post was derogatory to older women. Big shock people don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:28 PM
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Dude, we see fit guys regularly bitching about fat cows hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:25 PM
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If some old lady posted how she needed a 25 year old man for kids because all the men her age were genetically damaged and lousy fathers, she’d get shit. If this guy was lamenting he waited too long to have kids, we’d have sympathy as we would to a barren woman. But instead he’s pretending his shit doesn’t stink (it does) and trashing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:21 PM
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No I think they end up divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:22 PM
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So it’s not just hot and submissive. It’s hot and submissive and will do whatever he wants in bed no matter what. So poster is right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:21 PM
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If she’s pregnant she puts out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:20 PM
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Um. No. The guys I picked to have no string sex with were guys I really wanted to fuck. That’s why I fucked them. And no I wasn’t interested in a relationship. Lmao. This is the one thing that TRP seems to get right and here you are denying it…. Women ride chad because they have sexual desire toward Chad. That’s why they fuck Chad. And since there are many flavors of Chad (like a Tyrone here or there). I know it probably makes you get all shaky and insecure, but I guarantee you that even if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:17 PM
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They never bother to learn about other cultures where women are considered highly sexual and absolutely get around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:01 PM
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So a man won’t have FOMO if he scores a really hot woman? Or, more likely, you think sex is unimportant to women so if she scores a rich hot man, she won’t care if he’s shitty in bed. LMAO, no. Queen Cathrine Howard scored the absolutely best man she could - the king of England (granted he was way past his prime) - and she cheated on him. 💅 That’s just a historical example. Go to the dead bedroom Reddit. Women say “my husband’s great but….” And plenty of them are super religious types who haven’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:00 PM
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Especially to know what you like And don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 PM
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I disagree. It’s like guys insisting they want a caring girlfriend. Caring how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 PM
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They are in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:52 PM
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“ It's like how a guy can sit and do nothing and be happy or how we can literally not be thinking about anything at all. You're just not built to get it.” Boy none - NONE - of the men in my life are like this. They all are busy curious people. None of them sit and “do nothing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:48 PM
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The problem is that society has some very clear guidelines on "how a man is supposed to treat women" but the reverse has been systematically destroyed over the last 40-ish years. i disagree. I think one of the big problems is that men DON’T want to know how to treat a woman. They want to do what their dads did - just bring a paycheck and let her deal with the rest. If you want to piss off a zoomer, ask her how a woman is supposed to treat a man. She immediately goes into fight or flight mode. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:46 PM
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This too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:39 PM
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As I said, it all depends on how you define caring or respect or what is encompassed in the “etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:38 PM
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Such imprecise language. Always makes me laugh when men insist they are so analytical. Where did I say he was the problem? 💅 Where do you see the definition of caring? How do you think a trad husband defines a caring wife? The same as a generally progressive dude? No? Then you now understand my point. Ps before you sign a contract, always ask your self, how are these terms defined. You might surprise yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:36 PM
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You crack me up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:12 PM
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Yeah, let’s make up shit. It’s not like there aren’t a zillion examples of men fucking around on their perfectly decent wives for the chance of strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:10 PM
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He said “caring, ETC.” that ETC can encompass quite a bit? Caring HOW? Doing what ever he wants in the bedroom, including FMF? Doing all the household chores? Doing home cooked meals every day? Or does that mean meeting him at the door naked? Or is it just giving him a back rub every Tuesday? Does it mean moving where ever he wants? It all depends on how these terms are defined and how they change over a long marriage. It’s a game play using a vague term “caring” which can be defined and redefin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:08 PM
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“ don’t believe women can do the same.” you are wrong. To the contrary women - now that there is more financial equality - cheat at the same levels of men at least when they are in their twenties and thirties. I know many women who can have no strings sex for the fun of it. I’m one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:59 PM
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It’s a thing for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:57 PM
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lol. Men always claim it’s a dead bedroom. But you are making the point - it isn’t enough she be hot, no kids, and agreeable. She also has to be willing to give him the sec he wants and when he wants - even if it is kinky shit she doesn’t like. Oh and smother him with complements
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:57 PM
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Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:55 PM
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“ just want an attractive woman who has no kids and is not crazy.” Most women (like men) are over weight. Most women last a certain age like men have kids. And that term crazy is doing a lot of heavy lifting. What is crazy? The truth is, your standards are not simple and they are - depending on your age range - quite high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:54 PM
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“ The thing women cannot fathom is that we just want someone who is nice to us.” Lmao. You read the post and still say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:51 PM
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“ As women are fond of saying to men: if you can’t put in the effort to keep your partner interested, then you have no one but yourself to blame when (s)he cheats.” I have never heard a woman say this.(fn) Anyone who cheats - male or female - are selfish assholes. Fn - I’m sure there are women who do - but not enough to be generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:49 PM
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So not simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:48 PM
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Feminists who say the patriarchy also hurts men do acknowledge that society affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:46 PM
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Sorry. I work and I work in a demanding profession. I expect my husband to also work. He can make less but he needs to work too. Why exactly am I required to give up my feminism card if we both work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 PM
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But this term “provider” is vague. Personally I think men are morons to marry a woman that doesn’t work or doesn’t want to. I don’t think I have to cough up my feminist card if I expect us both to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:41 PM
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Because life is expensive and child care falls mainly on the woman. And pregnancy can leave a woman disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:39 PM
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You can train what you find attractive by monitoring your own social media usage and deliberately going after different traits than you typically find attractive. Nah. I’m not changing my social media habits for men until they do the same. Men need to stop watching Rollo or Tate. Ban men from visiting sites that say women are inferior or should have their rights stripped. Tell men they need to date uggos and fat girls to change their taste. And not just fuck and discard. They need to date those …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:38 PM
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So glad for you! I love a love story :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:40 PM
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Generally yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:39 PM
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She is losing HALF too - you understand that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:38 PM
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Just yikes all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:37 PM
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Alimony is rare in the US too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:34 PM
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I always love to hear a happy love story. Warms the cockles of my cold dead heart. So glad for you guys (seriously).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:32 PM
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Just remember - divorced men are faster to remarry than divorced women. If it was really that bad they wouldn’t be anxious to remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:31 PM
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Nah. Men regularly express standards or preferences here of having skinny young women who aren’t career driven. We may pour out why that is dumb but we don’t infringe on men’s right to have those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 PM
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Look it’s simple. I bring home 6 figures and have for years. I expect a man to ALSO financially contribute. Not to six figures necessarily but he needs to be gainfully employed. And here is the thing - I didn’t expect my husband to fully provide either. I also expect to be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:20 PM
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Fuck, lady, I’m so sorry. That’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 PM
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I don’t expect my husband to punch some guy who randomly insults me. Lmao my husband got into it with another guy over a parking lot. Just trading insults. I stood next to his woman and we looked at each other and stepped into dose-escalate the situation. You all really give away that you all live around trash or date trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:15 PM
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Yes because men will target single women. That’s why women will say “I have a boyfriend.” Men will keep away from other men’s “property.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:13 PM
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Never been to a Walmart I see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
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No, that isn’t the “consensus” - that’s what people post to get attention and your algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
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What studies? A GQ article?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:08 PM
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Right - you see it constantly. Man assets all women are x or want x and EVEN if you come forward with a study that contradicts it, it becomes “all women are lying.” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:07 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:20 PM
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Good on you and your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:58 PM
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I thought nice = precise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:59 PM
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Dudes need to re-read this a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:55 PM
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This. Dude the bastards are the ones who lie. Wanna be causal, go for it, so long as you are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:53 PM
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Damn did not realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:22 PM
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You think most would?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:01 AM
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I mean I’m fine with men being out of the dating market - I don’t care at all - unless they start trashing women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:55 AM
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I think the problem is that a lot of guys are laser focused on looks when they ought to consider other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:52 AM
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But that’s the truth. It is ALWAYS a crap shoot. So okay, tall muscular and blue eyed guys are more attractive right? But I never found Paul Newman that attractive. Robert Redford? Wow. Brad Pitt. Not really. I don’t like his face. And never liked De’Caprio. You all treat this like a job application at Walmart - if you have x, y and z, sure you are hired! But it’s much more like becoming a member of a small partnership - you need to meet certain criteria and they need to LIKE you. That last part…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:48 AM
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This is, you know, really an ugly way to look at the world. People are shitty about Pierce Brosnan’s wife because she’s so fat. You think he’s desperate and can’t get better? Maybe the dude was fat and lost weight. Maybe she was skinny but contracted covid or was really sick and gained weight. Maybe he’s a chubby chaser. But this type of bitterness toward people you don’t know - wow. As if all that matters is a girl’s waist line. Why would any woman want to date someone like that - you gain weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:41 AM
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First, women can disagree about looksmatch, so no one is gaslighting you. Second, you get what you get. It is a market. If all you get is garbage, then that is what you get. I have a friend, god bless her, who is an ugly fat woman. And she never could get what she wanted, so that’s how it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:34 AM
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No. Features that look good on men may not on women and visa versa
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:29 AM
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Oh please. One girl says that and you believe it? And why in the hell is asking my question downvoting? People are so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:15 AM
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Fuck YES
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:55 PM
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Man proves he is a bad man that lies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:25 PM
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You just proved the OPs point - it doesn’t what women pick, they are doing it wrong. If they pick a good guy, they are exploiting. If they pick a bad guy that’s because it’s what they really want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:23 PM
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This again. You’ll need to come forward with data that women are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:22 PM
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“ how many men would pick an average-looking woman with a good heart and a modest figure over a selfish woman with a curvy body, big boobs, or an hourglass shape? Most would.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:19 PM
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Do tell me how ordering dessert or opening an umbrella violates traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:09 PM
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Show me a man who wants a butch lesbian with a beard. Seems like gender roles apply to women too? I am a lawyer. I have a lot of masculine interests. I wear skirts and high heels and knit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:54 PM
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“ women. Then Just look at the women with 4-5 kids by multiple men.” Stop dating trash. I know ONE woman in my social circle with kids from multiple men. Just one. She had a kid with her first husband and then another with her second. you all live in bubbles. In my world, rich or poor, women arent towing around three kids from three fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 PM
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If men looked for the same thing there wouldn’t be so many hit it and quit it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:13 PM
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Because women aren’t looking for just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:10 PM
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4 ft 2????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:29 PM
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“ a dildo museum in Prague older than the White House” that shit is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:26 PM
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“Allowed”? Yes. Just like men are allowed to have as much sex as they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:24 PM
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Sigh: “ Beginning in 1839, individual U.S. states started passing laws known as the Married Women’s Property Acts. These laws helped to overturn coverture in the late 1700s that designated women as the property of their husbands. The law allowed married women to own property, keep their own income, and engage in business.” Note that was only in THOSE limited states. Otherwise, when a woman married all of her money was handed over to her husband and she had no independent recourse. “ California p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:22 PM
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Yes but my husband does. Not everything is about you, darlin’. There are so many other better men available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:06 PM
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Which is why men murder each other and always have, spreading death and destruction across the world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:04 PM
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“I won’t talk to you !” He says, while stomping his foot like an angry toddler. Men are very logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:03 PM
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It’s amazing how weak you think men are. Obviously, women should rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:02 PM
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Walks outside, sees plenty of short men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:59 PM
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Your personal feels are not facts. I recommend a remedial logics class to discuss how to lay a factual foundation supported by data for your opinions rather using your personal fears and insecurities. As an example, college aged men and women are having significantly less sex than prior generations. That is evidence. And that evidence demonstrates your opinion is garbage. https://www.economist.com/culture/2025/02/11/does-more-education-lead-to-less-sex?utm_medium=social-media.content.np&utm_sour…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:57 PM
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This is my point. And I’m sorry and I hope you can get it spiced up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:51 PM
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I don’t get this. I want to look my best. Just in general. Like a good haircut and my make up on right. I’ll wear cute work out clothes and have my hair up (but rarely make up). Like why wouldn’t a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:24 PM
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My husband deliberately goes to a black tailor because only black men seem to care about style.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:22 PM
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“ Obviously women don't find that clever or funny, but women also don't find the "bumbling, incompetent dad" trope on sitcoms funny, either. That's actually infantilizing and infuriating.” God I hated that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:17 PM
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We do view men as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:16 PM
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A lot (not all) women spend a fair amount of time watching their weight and grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:12 PM
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Guys? Aren’t you tired of dudes like this trying to shit on all women? Don’t you want a woman who is still athletic and has nice legs. Or do you want a frump?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:10 PM
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My soccer league keeps my legs peak. My husband is NOT complaining. You sound like a stick in the mud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:09 PM
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“ When women believe that their dating value is higher than it really is (see our discussion above)” You all state this as a truism but I’ve yet to meet any women who don’t know that men will fuck anything. Men think women are crazy about them just because they sleep with them. They are the ones who labor under the misconception that their casual sex status is equal to relationship status. Quite a few men are floored when the gal they slept with isn’t the least interested in another round or a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:07 PM
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Humans are not inanimate objects
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:04 PM
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“ picture it - a women that is indepedent/owns her own place wearing a form fitting sundresses highlighting her curves/great body making a spaghetti carbonara dinner form scratch while having a intellectual conversation. Yeah. she's going to be going after the top 1-5% of men easily and will likely completely gloss me over. NOT trying to self-disparage - just pointing out facts.” I’m middle aged now but that was me at 28. I wasn’t going after the top 1-5% of men. But I’ll also point out this - m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:58 PM
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“ The average young guy goes to the gym, has decent hygiene, and pays attention to his style.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:54 PM
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Flirting has been a documented thing in literature since the Middle Ages. In books mostly written by men to be read by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:48 PM
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I agree entirely. And very high promiscuity of either sex can be a turn off. Despite what men think, women don’t like very promiscuous males either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:43 PM
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Man makes wide insulting false generalizations about women. Man: “nothing I said should offend you.” Men are very disingenuous, insecure, and cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:42 PM
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“ Again, porn sickness, cuckholdry is from pron. Did he want you to fuck bbcs too? Thats quite common.” > oh boy, Google “key parties.” Swinging existed long before the internet did. Just wow. You have the ignorance of youth and think that only the internet age discovered sexual depravity. He learned it - btw - from his older cousin. That cousin is now a preacher. You should research vintage porn and stop flouting your ignorance. and whatever once was, porn is easily accessible. Pretending that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:35 PM
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“ This used to be completely standard and the vast majority of married men received this treatment.” how do you know? Do you have any studies to back that up? Any data? Or is this the same false nostalgia where white men in particular pretend the 50s were better because they are completely ignorant of the experiences of women or minorities? Because what our mothers and grandmothers told US is entirely different. Because in the past (less) women didn't have casual sex and hunt for men out of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:17 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:06 PM
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All women really have to do is not talk about their past partners, and be honest about what sluts they are, so that men can make informed decisions about whether they’re worth the shit on their shoe. this is a complete contradiction - do you want us to talk about it or not? Women lying and deceiving men about body count is a large reason that men will never respect women. and your jealousy and insecurity is why people won’t respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:06 PM
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“ If he was not pornsick then you two could have worked together to enhance each others sexual highs and thrills.” You think by pressuring me to perform acts to improve HIS sexual highs it would have been better? Think so? After all, it was his constant pressure on me to improve his sexual highs that led right to our divorce. Guess he shouldn’t have pressured me into swinging so I could learn what a truly wonderful lover was like. “I know if a woman has sex with a sexually charismatic man with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:06 PM
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Women weren’t “settling.” of course they were. Ask your grandmas. They’ll tell you. How about we take away your right to have a decent job, a bank account, or a bank loan and see how pressured you are to marry some woman so you don’t starve. They just weren’t spoiled for choice like they are now. Being “stable but boring” wasn’t the death sentence for men that it is now, because women understood that there’s more to men than dancing monkeys. sure, because men are looking for “stable but boring r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:52 PM
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“ Hopefully you can take this statement and see how this notion would apply to newlyweds who had not fucked 10 different men that set their "sexual template.”” why is it bad that a woman gets experience and learns what she likes or doesn’t? I had much better sex once I gained some experience. why is it fine for men to gain sexual experience and have a “template” going into marriage than a woman. I know btw from PERSONAL experience that the sexist assumption you are making about women is wrong - …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:43 PM
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You need to come to the south, son. Our daddy’s made sure we could handle a gun and change a tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:54 PM
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“In a relationship.” Can understand the difference between a stranger and your girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:53 PM
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I’ll say that now mechanics use those pneumonic nut wrenches, those fucking studs can get hard to get off. Last time I had to jump on the wench to get the studs off. Still can fucking doing it. Dad made sure. And I’ve done the same for my oldest who’s learning to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:52 PM
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“There are far more people staying fat than people on GLP-1’s. A lot of those people are also in for a rude awakening when they realize GLP-1’s make their bodies look like shit anyway.” of course GLP-1s are very expensive and constantly out of stock. Not everyone can afford it. And you are missing my point: if everyone thought fat was awesome, there wouldn’t be so much money to be made in that industry. “And what’s infuriating? I just think fat women need to be a lot more realistic with themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:07 PM
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Ah I’m so sorry about that last lady. It sounds like you’ve got a good relationship going. I don’t understand why you expect women in your age group to settle down though when you too are enjoying the field. God forbid something happening to my husband, I’d probably just lightly date and never commit after that. Also a blue eyed blond who passes for a decade younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:54 PM
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“ people won't participate in that kind of society when they aren't gonna have any romantic or sexual fulfilment -> an unatural system needs to be in place that provides those things to the majority of men that by human nature wouldn't get that naturally…” Why wouldn’t starvation motivate them to contribute to society? Those men who have opted out in Japan? They are still earning money or - my understanding - supported by their parents? When those parents die….. Looking at the hierarchy of needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:49 PM
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“ But the amount of people being brainwashed into fat being beautiful very much is. Body positivity, fat acceptance, HAES, etc are all female delusions pounded into their head because of the social media they consume.” Facts not in evidence. If people were being brainwashed to think that fat is beautiful, the GPT-1 medications wouldn’t be constantly out of stock, the wellness and weight loss industry wouldn’t be a multibillion dollar industry. It just infuriates you that some people, sick of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:18 PM
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But YOU too are still on the market. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:10 PM
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“ Now I've realized the shear hatred women here display to incels and it gives the high body count woman a bitter taste in my mouth.” Im curious? Whet hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:30 AM
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https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:26 AM
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A lot of men don’t want a virgin either. There is a difference between a promiscuous person and a person who has had some sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:24 AM
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No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:19 AM
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You think misogyny went away? Let’s see, I could hate men because a fifty year old preyed on my virgin ass at 17. Or the two cooks that used to grope and pin me between them and draw pictures of me sucking their dicks. Or the men who post here that women are stupid, takers, deserve to have their voting rights stripped. Misogyny NEVER went away. And we see it and experience it. You are so desperate to avoid your own responsibility you are WILLFULLY blind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:18 AM
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“ Unattractive men are vilified ..” Turning you turn for a relationship is not vilification. Being shitty while turning you down is a bad person. You have dodged a bullet. I know it hurts, but it doesn't mean all women are shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:06 AM
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I think people are misunderstanding you - I think you are explaining what some men do - not that you do it. I’ve definitely known men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:22 AM
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Women don’t like male whores either. Studies show…., https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:20 AM
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Which I think is good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:18 AM
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Which says you have never been a good person or seen women as people, just sec dispensers. I could have been hell on men when I was younger - athletic, curvy, blonde, blue eyed, highly educated, with a dirty mind. I could have screwed so many men out of meals and drinks and money and trips. But I see men as people and I’m not a user. I know what it’s like to be on the other side. So I didn’t get as much bling. But I sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:16 AM
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“Rightists and men fail to realise that feminism itself has come about precisely because of the permeation of misogynist zealotry within society and politics.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:12 AM
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Pass that along to Op. He apparentky thinks men never say or do anything misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:10 AM
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But this guy says it’s entirely justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:07 AM
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This is dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:05 AM
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Girl I SEE you. Let me tell you how much the dating scene changed from 19 to 28. I was the nerdy boring good girl, completely ignored … And then men decided they wanted a wife. They were all over me. I could have been enraged. I wasn’t. Because people need to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:05 AM
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Like literally. These men proudly say they only care if a girl is really hot and agreeable. They don’t care if she’s smart, shown discipline, worked hard, all signs that she will be a good and responsible partner on the long term. And then are FURIOUS those beautiful girls have shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:02 AM
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“ The poor soul, has been sitting there with his homemade lasagna waiting in the sideshows, offering her a life full of love, respect, and stability and still being overlooked for exciting chad.” Why is he hanging around? Why isn’t he moving on to someone who appreciates him? Why is all this pining for unrequited love. Oh wait. She’s hot. As usual men can be shallow and lust after the hottie and ignore the basic Betty. A guy can MAKE the choice to wait around rather than moving on. And then blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:59 AM
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And you guys validate radfems every day. And I feel bad for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:53 AM
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By this reasoning, all Radfems are completely justified hating men. After all, women can point to systemic long term misogyny that NEVER STOPPED. It’s like you think there was some golden era in the 90s when men weren’t misogynistic. Lmao tell that to the cooks that used to pin my ass between them and squeeze my boobs and butt. Or when they drew pictures of me in the kitchen sucking their dick. So take a bow. It’s all your fault, men. Or grow the fuck up like I did. There are good men (or women)…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:51 AM
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“ Women have the potential to control and judge us through sex. They show no ability to rein this in. They laugh about who they fuck. Why they fucked them. Mock guys who don't get sex. Give sex away to guys for things or status. And then without batting an eye, expect us to not care about n count, their past, or whether I'll still get any on a consistent basis for committing to her. Giving her exactly what she wants.” You are literally - literally - judging the fuck out of women “through sex” in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:45 AM
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Be fair, that wasn’t what the poster was saying. It was that she only found two men that met her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:05 PM
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Getting fucked and tossed aside isn’t a relationship. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
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Man: “women are fragile hypocrites” women are “fragile cry babies.” And women especially were “melting down” Logos: have compassion! His spite of an entire gender is understandable! Me: dude is “lashing out”. Logos: grabs pearls. How dare you use language that “envoke(s) fear of violence…. Stop treating him like a ticking time bomb.” So, lets just cover it children. A man calling an entire gender indiscriminately fragile hypocrites or cry babies - totally FINE. But if I point out that one man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:00 PM
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Funny as shit and high five - you got the two most important - alive and consent. I’d hang with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:06 PM
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“ weight is the easiest thing to change about your looks and probably the most important health-wise, so its a reasonable standard.” If it was most men and women wouldn’t be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:03 PM
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“ I know that a lot of women want the man to make them feel special, but it would be a very obvious deception because most women are not special in any way, and they know it, the man knows it, the bystanders know it, and the woman knows they know.” Fuck this. No. If my husband thought I was an easily replaceable widget, then I NEVER would have wrecked my body to give him kids. NEVER. And men want to be treated as special, too. Why else do they worry about whether their girlfriends are attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:58 PM
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Some of you do. The more well adjusted ones. Others will go out with anyone for sex. Remember all the complaining about chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:53 PM
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Because men will pay for sex. Jesus. Stop conflating sex with relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:52 PM
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I’m an introvert. I did fine during the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:45 PM
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Lmao. Some people had crash outs. Why are you claiming that they represented the entire female gender. Should I assume this vicious women-hating rant is representative of the entire male gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:43 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:33 PM
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So where are your rants against men being such POS? Honestly go to a different country. Lots of men form long and deep platonic friendships with other men. It’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:32 PM
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“ because unlike low value women who still easily join friend groups and find romantic relationships, low value men are thoroughly ostracized from all social circles.” Where are you rants against men then? Where is your screed about how men are hypocrites? Why aren’t you hanging out with the other LVM? Why is it you think WOMEN should be sympathetic but men shouldn’t? 💅 One of these days you’ll need to grow up and recognize that life isn’t fair. I wasn’t born a 5/8 Stacey like my beautiful bombs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:30 PM
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God it was so awful. I’ll never forget the “crunchy placentas” of pregnant women who contracted Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:26 PM
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Yah it killed women’s employment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:25 PM
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“… but no female loneliness epidemic…” Actually there is. Women report the same or more loneliness issues that men do. It’s just that women don’t go on shooting sprees. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:24 PM
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Because you’re advocating for someone who is lashing out at an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:19 PM
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No the spite isn’t understandable. Because he is lashing out at women as if it’s their fault he’s a sexless kiss-less virgin with no friends. firstly, PEOPLE - male and female - suffered from the isolation. This bullshit attacking women as we were such weak crying wimps because PLENTY of men were unhappy (justifiably) about the isolation too. Misogyny gets no compassion from me. secondly, the pandemic was enforced. People had no choice. This angry spiteful man has a choice. thirdly, people misse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:18 PM
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You and she both sound pathetic. Ooooo you yelled at some Karen. How studly of you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:08 PM
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“Without those jobs being done, civilization is not sustainable. Without civilization, women are in extreme danger from both nature and other humans.“ The people who really do not understand the social contract are the angry keyboard warriors who think they can live off the grid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:07 PM
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There is no constitutional right to security and you can’t sue cops for failure to protect (except in some very limited situations) - at least in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:04 PM
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No, we do. We just disagree that the social contract requires women to give up our bodily autonomy in exchange for security. Are men forced to marry? Are men forced to fuck some fat granny? No? Are men forced to perform fellacio on the cops that show up at their house after a break in? No? Then stop demanding it of women. Women pay taxes. So do men. And cops get paid. That is your social contract. No more; no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:03 PM
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There is no social contract that requires me to get up my bodily autonomy. In fact our social contract by and large bars that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:00 PM
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You are one of those people who will reduce slavery to an economic investment proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:59 PM
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No we don’t. I’ll be polite and respectful. But no one - no one - has a right to my love except my children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:58 PM
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Or people who think they have the right to threaten my life for their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:57 PM
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“ Women are still having kids and families in third world countries.” Not really that much more than here. Almost every country is below replacement. “They just need to settle for less because they now need protection.” Really I can’t image WHY you have trouble getting women. “Fuck me or I’ll leave you to die!” As if you could. If it goes to hell, the men will just kill you the second you try to take their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:56 PM
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Bystander affect LONG predated Penny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:47 PM
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By men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:46 PM
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Lmao, another Ukrainian Larper. Don’t you feel bad stealing the valor of better men? Do a little fucking reading in history. It can and will get much much worse for men, especially weak, short, poor, ugly, nerdy, and very young and very old men. You all think you are beta now? Bahaha. You’ll be sexually servicing your masters and dying in the mines. It amazes me how so many keyboard warriors here think they’ll be buff thirty years olds with a stockade, medicine, and a harem of adoring women. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:42 PM
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But BIOLOGICALLY this is untrue: Having less body hair then becomes associated with femininity <<<< hair is one of the signs of fecundity in women. The point is that it’s really easy to claim that men love women at age x because biology but then realize that men selection can be highly socially mediated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:58 PM
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Actually I agree with you cat dog
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:43 AM
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God created man equal. Sam Weston made man equal. If you are some beta who can’t score women NOW, you’ll be easy pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:35 AM
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“ The State is a collective of men who have decided to follow some rules.” Men and women. “ There is nothing you can do if The State changed the rules that took away your safety.” Same for you, little man. You’ll just be some serf sent to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:33 AM
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“ Doctors, Policemen, and Soldiers hide the truth from you. Gasping for air, drowning in your own blood. Taking cover because some fucker decided to un alive his family. Wiping your friend's brains off your helmet. You don't have to see these things. You get to pretend you have immortality and safety and will live forever if you hug bears.” Doctors are about 50/50 female dude. Everyone one of you came screaming in on a flood of blood and pain. Women are VERY VERY aware of hanging between life an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:30 AM
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Of course, you think a bunch of cherry picked videos is “evidence.” Show me an actual study, not cherry picked bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:57 AM
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Thank you. That’s exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:51 AM
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“ We've also organised society to deny men sex/romance.” I bet you claim you are “logical” too and not “feeling driven.” Oh are there laws that keep men from having sex? No? Are there laws that keep men from marrying? Not since Obergafell. Are there laws that keep men from getting dates? No? Nothing in society is preventing men from marrying or dating or having sex. All they need is a willing partner. And society isn’t keeping them from a willing partner. Shit, I married twice! I wish the state …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:51 AM
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Bull fucking shit. Do you show up on Musk’s front lawn and claim he’s actively hurting you by refusing to give you a million dollars. Do you put a gun against your head and scream at IBM for not giving you a job? Do you show up at the football captain’s house and tell him he’s hurting you because he won’t be your friend? No you fucking don’t. But you are going to claim some woman is causing you harm because she won’t touch your dick? Take that manipulative crap and flush it. No man owes me sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:40 AM
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Ted was a total sleaze
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:23 AM
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“ And drunk sex was normalised.” Thank god we don’t do drunk sex anymore. That’s better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:21 AM
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Men also select among a million options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
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Sure you do…. Hundredsssss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
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Pretty typical. Men say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
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Omg so many men here post that a girl that is too quick in bed is the opposite of relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:12 AM
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I fucked the guys I was attracted to. I’m not a whore. I never thought “well if he buys me five dinners, I’ll fuck him.” I thought - do I trust this guy enough? Am I horny? Do I want to see him naked? Some of it was how much alcohol I had in my system, which was very much part of how much I trusted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:11 AM
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why is it that Stacey gets flights to Las Vegas but Basic Becky gets roses if she’s lucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
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You think those beta bux husbands never have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
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Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:06 AM
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No. Men are like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:04 AM
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No it isn’t . What???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:03 AM
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Yup. I responded to that one. They are such fools. They don’t realize how much protection they get from society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:37 AM
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This is really some fucked up reasoning. The man who ignores me isn’t hurting me. The man who kills me is. Like this is why so many guys here struggle and come across as entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:35 AM
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No one said you should. But stop stealing the valor of better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:31 AM
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Lmao. They get amazing perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:30 AM
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A lot of cops are women too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:29 AM
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“ Men can bring back anarchy. The reason women are entitled to safety is because its provided by state. Sex is not provided by state. Many men are infact looking for more freedom from state i.e Libertarian movements and moving toward decentralization of power.” You all always think you are going to be the warlords in your mad max delusions. But you won’t. Even if you climb to the top, someone is waiting for the old lion to falter, and then he comes in, kills the lion, murders his progeny, and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:29 AM
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“ Well actually i kinda do i know women like you just like saying that to men regardless if it applies or not.” Why assume that? I mean, I’m happily married and a HLW and enjoyed fucking men in my bad old days. Like people see feminist and think I hate men. Like no. I love men. I think I misunderstood your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:17 PM
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Tell me how much you appreciate your teachers and daycare workers and old folks workers and nurses and all the predominately female trades who taught you math and how to read and wiped your butt and take care of your dad as he dribbles off into Parkinson’s. Do you praise the essential work all of them do? I pay my trade men well. I respect they work hard. I speak with respect. Just like I do the waitress at waffle house and the line order cook. I chitchat with the janitor in my shitty Spanish. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:10 PM
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I like a lot of what you have to say. I don’t necessarily agree with all of it but I think you’ve thought through these things with nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:00 PM
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That women are just inanimate objects to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:48 PM
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Everyone does, honestly. Because it’s a reflection of men’s relationship to society at the present moment. and men keep blaming the wrong people. That’s why it’s getting worse. They put people like Trump and musk in charge, who promptly start destroying the agencies that keep capital from turning labor into serfs. The overwhelming attitude of the current generation of men is “This shit just isn’t worth the effort”. For relationships specifically? It’s “I resent women because all I even want from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:46 PM
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“ You take for granted the machinists, oil riggers and the roughnecks, the linemen, and the loggers. The jobs that make this country turn are all hazardous and done by men.” You get MONEY. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:40 PM
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And yet they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:37 PM
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This is very astute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:08 AM
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Jesus this is so damning of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:07 AM
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“ You can't have it both ways. If women deserve praise for spending more/disproportionate time on raising children, then naturally women deserve criticism and scorn for the outcomes as well.” Nah those would be the absentee fathers. Let me know when you have a shred of blame for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:46 AM
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Then don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:44 AM
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“ fighting age men.” If you guys were healthy enough to fight, you’d have women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:43 AM
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Talk to your bros who say if they don’t get their dicks wet they are going to strip us of our rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 AM
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No brah, I PAY for those tradesman devices. Just like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:41 AM
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“ Joker and his followers in burning down Gotham, but they also won't fight to stop that collapse either.” The guys who don’t get chicks? Those low level betas? They get strung up when the barbarians are at the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:40 AM
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We don’t get pensions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:38 AM
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17 % of construction is now female. That number is growing. I regularly see women out as part of construction crews. Buena
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:37 AM
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My sister ran a landscaping business - and yes did the work. She also ran working farms. She now keeps the Internet infrastructure up at her job. All traditionally male jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:36 AM
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You are the guys trying to claim women - can’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:34 AM
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Men aren’t more logical and rational than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:33 AM
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“ One, who do you think does the majority of jobs that keep the world comfortable and running.” men like air conditioning too. as WW2 showed, woman can do those jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:32 AM
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It’s completely misandrist. I swear red pill are some of the most misandrist men. Tesla didn’t do it for the pussy. Neither did Newton (although they suspect he was gay). Augustine didn’t become a serious philosopher until after he gave up chasing tail. Men do stuff to better society, too. Not just for tail. And good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:31 AM
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What “petty” reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:12 PM
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This all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:48 PM
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It really looks at people as if they are widgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:43 PM
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“ These are highly autistic takes on relationships. "Me 3. You 3. We go date now." And anyone who approaches human interaction so...clinically...is setting themselves up for failure.” THIS!!! And this is why they don’t understand women’s standards (or people really). I wanted someone college educated. So a “standard.” But I turned down a lawyer at a different firm and went on a date with my now husband even though he hadn’t completed his degree. Why? Because he was smart as hell and witty (befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:42 PM
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And did I have fun with it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:41 PM
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Young marriages end in divorce: https://ifstudies.org/blog/age-at-first-marriage-and-marital-quality-updating-outdated-social-wisdom#:~:text=One%202012%20study%20found%20that,marrying%20at%2025%20or%20older. “ he vast majority of 65yo men are either fully functional, or dead.” If true, viagra wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:40 PM
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Awww so happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 PM
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Older men are bitter as fuck. I and a friend have been trying to figure out what happens with men when they turn 50. It’s like a man-o-pause. I think that’s why a lot of older men are like, fuck no, not re-marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:38 PM
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Wow did she really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:36 PM
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Because then you guys melt down and accuse us of lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:34 PM
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I call it stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:33 PM
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and women aren’t radicalized by what men say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:32 PM
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Yes. Apparently you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:23 PM
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lol. True enough. I donno I guess I differentiate between weird and creepy. I might find it weird that a 30 year old is dating a 46 year old but it isn’t creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:16 PM
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“ 2-3 years really IS an age gap. If the average is 2-3 then 7 is as frequent as -1.” That isn’t how math works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 PM
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People can discuss trends without it being applicable to everyone. You’ve stuck me as the most level headed. I’ve been critical of age gap relationships when one of the partners is under 25. Over that eh. My brother married a woman a decade younger. I have dated older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 PM
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Look dude, lots of conservative dads suddenly have an issue with their daughters dating much older men too. This isn’t something you can wave away based on wokeness since it LONG predates that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:09 PM
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You should ask yourself this: “I mean, why would any (man) prefer a naive or inexperienced partner to a wise and experienced one?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:08 PM
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As you get older the age gap means far less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:05 PM
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If we are talking averages, the average age gap in the US is 2.2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:04 PM
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Hmmm I had tons of guys interested in me in my late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:02 PM
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If women dated for “resources” the gap would be far more than 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:00 PM
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The more egalitarian the country the narrower the marriage age gap. Thus, women not under financial pressure to marry tend to marry those close to their own age. “Patterns (and reality) exist, no matter how much you may wish that they didn't.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:58 PM
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Lmao. Sorry you can’t handle people who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:18 PM
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I’m a big history nerd. Henry VIII - king of England? - married as his 5th wife Catherine Howard. She was 17 or 18. He was…. 49. He was besotted with her. She was cheating on him with a much younger man named Culpeper in a year. Strangely enough his next wife was far older, 32, and successfully survived being married to the nut. She was a smart one. Still an age gap, but Catherine Parr had already been married twice and that experience showed. I have an inherent … suspicion of significant age ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:02 PM
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“ However, SOME women that are young (the smart ones) will cash in their chips & settle down before hitting the wall…..and obviously they are more likely to prioritize resources over looks, in general.” The smart ones will have their own careers and make money, because relying on another person is to be in a position of perpetual powerlessness. But good to know you recommend beta buxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:47 PM
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“ Lol, how jealous and spiteful you must be.” Ah yes, let’s roll out the ad hominem right? You can’t actually defend your position so you have to start smearing anyone who critiques you as “jealous.” And yet, the rule of thumb - half age plus seven - has existed since the 1950s as a rule of thumb - developed by the Nation of Islam no less. So clearly there has been consistent decades old criticism of significant age gap relationships. Jealous of what? My first introduction to an age gap relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:46 PM
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Uh no. I still have sex with my husband regularly once or twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:02 PM
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4 years older really isn’t an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:00 PM
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They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:56 PM
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It’s cope. We are all “jealous!” Why I would be jealous as a happily married women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:55 PM
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Daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 PM
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But they don’t. That’s why the age gap for marriage is 2.2 years in US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:53 PM
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“ Men get better looking from their early twenties all the way to their late 30s. Only after 45 does it change.” Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:51 PM
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“there is also political pressure” - what political pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:50 PM
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There is a difference between a five year age gap and a twenty year one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:49 PM
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I think men want to settle at 30-33, and women at 27-30. So you see a lot of 32 & 28 mixes. Or 30 and 25. At 28 I met a ton of marrying type men at 32 33 including own husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:47 PM
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Because if you dated a bunch that means they were a bunch of short terms. Not working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
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“ Yet, here they are, happily dating a man over 30. I just don’t think women really understand who or what or why they are attracted to until that attraction is right there in real life.” Apparently not since they’ve broken up with you. “ I just don’t think women really understand who or what or why they are attracted to until that attraction is right there in real life.” Silly little women don’t know their own minds. LMAO. So fucking patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
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Lol. You crack me up. I have a thing for the weathered look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:06 AM
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Except there are guys who post here you say you are entirely wrong, that they do care about the woman’s career not just their breast size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:04 AM
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Very gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:03 AM
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Uh, my family hit the ceiling when my 19 year old brother started dating a 42 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:02 AM
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It’s used in porn as well. It’s a porn genre for ephebophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:01 AM
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Ah yes. are you the 19 year old who talks about how the ex got fat and denied her husband sex and you are all HL and skinny and fit? And the one who was completely wrong about fertility? And confidently said no man should marry a girl in her 30s if he wants kids? And you can’t even understand why your parents were concerned. I can see why they were concerned. But whatever. Hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:40 AM
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Especially fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 AM
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“ are women ever called pedos for dating down” Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 AM
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False. Women’s fertility does not begin to decline until 30-32 and does not significantly drop until 37. https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/committee-opinion/articles/2014/03/female-age-related-fertility-decline The ideal time for pregnancy is actually late 20s. https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/childbearing-age I was able to have two the NATURAL way at 31 and 35 and I am in no way abnormal or unusual. Most of my friends had kids in their early 30s. One friend started …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:33 AM
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Considering how wrong your post is from top to bottom, I deeply question your personal judgment that your own age-gap relationship is healthy. No, women’s fertility does NOT drop off in their mid twenties. It begins at 30-32 and accelerates at 37. https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/having-a-baby-after-age-35-how-aging-affects-fertility-and-pregnancy#:~:text=A%20woman's%20peak%20reproductive%20years,getting%20pregnant%20naturally%20is%20unlikely. And the most ideal time for a woman to carry …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:28 AM
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The more egalitarian the society, the closer in age husbands and wives. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/ That tells you that women - on average - don’t necessarily prefer a significantly older man. And as many men are here admitting, the women are attracted to his “stability” - ie his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:40 PM
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Okay, let’s look at actions. In egalitarian societies, age gap relationships are Mich smaller. In the US, husbands and wives are 2.2 years apart. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:37 PM
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More fit. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:34 PM
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“ I did and do, they seem like kind of the optimal ages throughout history, men are established and thriving, women are fertile and energetic, it's perfect.” Odd how in egalitarian societies gap relationships are rarer. It’s like when women aren’t forced to marry older men, they don’t want to. Apparently women don’t consider it ideal to waste their time with some old fat dude that doesn’t have the energy to chase kids. Sounds like they aren’t natural. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:31 PM
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“ This entire debate revolves around the fact that older women aren’t finding partners because the men their age want younger partners.” This is nothing but cope. And it doesn’t matter how many times you slimy predators try to get us to shut our mouths by accusing us of jealously, we WILL NOT stop warning the younger naive teens of both sexes away from much older predators. Why your shaming won’t work? dude, I’m married and have been for twenty years. I have no interest in attracting men to marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:24 PM
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Right? I don’t think anyone had an issue with Hackman and his wife because she was in her 30s when they met. I mean - not for ME - but it doesn’t come across as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:13 PM
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No one is bragging about perfect relationships. Did you read the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:10 PM
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“ If the point is to have children, you kind of need a woman of a specific age range, irrespective of the age of the man.” The age of the man is ALSO very important if you want kids. - men’s sperm quality declines and old sperm is associated with certain increased risks of birth defects and autism. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9957550/ men also DIE. My brother has a twelve year old and had a heart attack two years ago. He’s in his mid fifties. He has been skinny and a runner all his …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:09 PM
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No one here (I saw your GenZ links) cares about an age gap that is “a few years older” unless she’s 12 and he’s 16 (or the reverse). Why is it that many men here deliberately and disingenuously claim that people (not just women) have an issue with a 22 year old dating a 26 year old? Why can’t you defend what people have concerns about - a 22 year old dating a 40 year old. And it isn’t just “younger women.” I will continue to beat the drum that we were all very upset and considered it JUST as pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:11 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:15 AM
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He needs to read this but he won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:13 AM
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That’s not a win dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:12 AM
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They are rage farming. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:09 AM
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Why does it require a nuclear option? I really like your proposed statement - especially about “accumulating stress” - dead the f on. That said, why does the spouse/so/bf/gf required the explicit threat of leaving to take action? firstly, when one is MARRIED with children, just moving out isn’t that easy. It’s expensive and causes tremendous hurt. secondly, ultimatums get old for everyone. If you don’t follow through, they will simply be ignored. And the person receiving the ultimatum often feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:37 PM
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Nah, man. Asking “please do the dishes” is clear, perfectly clear. What some men are complaining is “NOT” clear is the threat - “if you don’t do the dishes, I’m leaving.” But that threat shouldn’t be necessary in a relationship where a partner cares about the other person. I do things for my husband because I love him. I’ve seen men say that the wife has too high of cleaning standards, ergo the nagging over cleaning is not reasonable. If that is true, fine. But then you need to directly communic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:28 PM
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Sure, women be lying right? 🙄 If you find what he describes attractive, you are broken and that’s why you are attracting broken chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:41 AM
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Yup this 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:38 AM
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How nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:34 AM
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This sounds like heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:34 AM
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I have kids but boy this: “ Why does people always put the nose around childfree people? why do they care so much about others life choices?” Whether someone chooses to have kids or not, some asshole is going to say they are doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:31 AM
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I wholeheartedly support anyone to be child free. I was for my entire 20s. But with all kindness, pets are not a substitute. That said, again, it is an entirely valid decision to choose a different path. My sister is childfree and happy along with several cousins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:30 AM
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Lmao. Dude I have two kids. They’ll be flying the coop soon, and I’ll have twenty years I hope of further life to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:07 AM
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Says everything where you won’t look after the house equally with your mate unless you get sex for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:01 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:00 AM
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Let me know when I get those traditional benefits. Except for a four month period I’ve worked every day of my life since 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:59 AM
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If you are taking drug addict losers you aren’t solving your problem. Holy shit dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:57 AM
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Let me know when men start wiping old people’s asses in homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:55 AM
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“ When I broke up with my ex, I didn't start claiming every women is the same as her lol.” Let me know when I said that? 💅 my EX was like that. Not every man is like that. I’ve been happily remarried for quite a while and have none of these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:40 AM
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I’m the woman who said it - and it was introspection. Jesus I wish some of the guys here would stop being pathetic give me a crumb of pussy and have some boundaries and standards. Anyone who is a doormat invites people to walk on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:37 AM
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“ Yeah but that's the same as saying "my flaws is that I don't know when to stop working " when asked in a job interview.” I don’t know about you, but no one I know likes to admit they are a doormat. Let me know when a man admits that. 💅 I personally found it humiliating. “ This is exactly like the nice guy syndrome, so you're telling me, you were this perfect wife, and you never felt entitled to be rewarded in any way, you never got frustrated, you always communicated your expectations? And thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:34 AM
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Stop dating trash women. We aren’t all like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:22 AM
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There are people who are just perpetually unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:21 AM
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You are right. He did seek treatment after I left though and tried to get me back. He had a lot of demons that one, and they won in the end. But I think it was a great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:21 AM
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My fun has been watching guys think they have me because they fucked me. And me walking out the door when they act up. Men always think that if a girl fucks hon she wants to marry him. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:15 AM
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“ Having the raw desire of a woman to get her hooked and imprinted essentially means he can get the best of both worlds.” Yah if you don’t give a fuck about destroying someone else’s heart and wrecking a few kids in the process. Imaging reading that and seeing it as anything good to emulate. Broken women do this. Not healthy women. He has a train wreck raising his kid. And I’m sure that kid has enjoyed the screaming, the accusations, the tracked phones and broken dishes. I know - E-X-A-C-T-L-Y- …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:13 AM
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“ There's one that comes to mind, she's the mother of his two year old now, and he's cheated on her... I don't know, a dozen times that I know of. She knows, she's just kind of, hooked on him.” This is such an insightful comment. I have found that in some toxic relationships - people get this insane endorphin rush from a pattern where the make up is a rush from the low of the break up - and it’s like an addiction. I’ve been through it. I went away for a week and it actually was just like detoxin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:02 AM
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Yah one of my girls is 5/2 and the other is 4/11. The 4/11 is mad as hell at how short she is. Oof sorry, gal .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:13 PM
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“ This fact means society isn’t a patriarchy, it’s a meritocracy.” Ah so tall men are just naturally BETTER - that’s why men pick tall men as CEOS. Well, good. You’ll stop complaining about women preferring height. No one can look at Charles II of Spain and think Kingship has only a passing familiarity with meritocracy. As to William, he was very competent. He also was conveniently the bastard son of Duke Robert I of Normandy. But the mistake the aristocracy made is thinking that competence was …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:06 PM
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I’m not my husband’s jailer. If I have to threaten, I need to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:19 PM
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She recognized that she was weak. Isn’t that recognizing that she too was part of the negative dynamic? Or do you assume if she did something wrong - failing to enforce her boundaries, that means he’s pure as driven snow? I regularly admit that I was way too accommodating and tried to be the super amiable wifey that guys here insist are ideal. Literally had only ever had sex with him - I was a goddamned virgin. End result i was walked on. So sure part of the break down was on me. The day I raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:17 PM
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If you are hitting the destruct button every time there is a problem, then you are a shitty partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:43 PM
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Yup yup yup. The way my ex cried….
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:42 PM
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Yup, that’s what men do- ignore what their women is saying as “nagging,” and then pikachu face when she leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:42 PM
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Of course it’s never 100%, but it’s not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:40 PM
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“ Mostly because they haven't slept with their wives in months/years.” That’s what they tell their mistresses… and the mistresses are stupid enough to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:38 PM
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Sure, except for all evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:37 PM
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I upvoted because this is really a smart analysis about culturally influenced “dissatisfaction tolerance.” But I do disagree with this statement: “ Unless the woman said in literal and direct language that she will leave him if he doesn't straighten up, she wasn't speaking his language any better than he was speaking hers….” I was a walk away wife. I spent years trying to get my ex to seek mental health treatment. He wouldn’t. I never thought “I’m going to leave him” if he didn’t. But we had thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:36 PM
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Ah good on you. You’ll be a better partner in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:24 PM
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“ They are good if you use them well instead of using them as a last resort.” Ultimatums ARE by definition a last resort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:21 PM
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That’s badmouthed as an ultimatum
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:20 PM
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I was a walk away wife. There is no question I expressed my concern. He just didn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:19 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:31 PM
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Men CHOSE their leaders. That’s why white slave owners lived in terror of a slave revolt. No man is a king if no one chooses who to follow him. William the Bastard became William the Conqueror because more men and better fighting men choice to follow him and he defeated King Harold. If women flocked to the Bastard it was because men crowned him. And kings were deposed when their barons decided not to support them. Some died with a poker up their ass - allegedly. You all act as if men like up beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:30 PM
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MEN choose who leads them boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:23 PM
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Right here. One of the most Chad men I knew was a friend of my husband. Attractive physically sure, and reasonably tall - like maybe 5/10. But fucker was a nat 20 on charisma. Just got along with everyone. All social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:20 PM
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Bieber was poor/middle class. He got powerful because women liked him (even if he was short). Tom cruise wasn’t born a rich movie star. He got that way because he was hot - even tho he’s short.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:17 PM
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It’s really terribly sad that we have abandoned the humanities, especially history. This is the kind of reductionist bull that children spew when they use Hollywood tropes as a substitute for academic education. Five minute YouTube videos from “Neanderthal Man 403” and 10,000 BC aren’t rigorous studies of preindustrial society. Raquel Welch was not running around in a fuzzy bikini in the Neolithic era. It’s hilarious that you praise men for picking “pretty” but then complain that women choose ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:13 PM
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This is insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:53 PM
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Remember, foot binding was considered sexy. And the ideal beauty form in medieval Europe was small breasts, a little stomach pooch, and a nice butt. For the face it was an extremely high hair line and no eyebrows (they’d pluck it!) and a tiny rosebud mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:51 PM
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Oh shit yes. My mom tried very hard to teach men how to appeal to high quality men. Something I haven’t done for my girls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:48 PM
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I mean honestly hypergamy is less now than in earlier generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:47 PM
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Of course we need each other - it takes us both to keep society running. Please tell that to OP. Apparently only men count
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:45 PM
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All I see is men blaming women for their own decisions. Take some personal fucking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:44 PM
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Lmao. And women and men make the world safe too. Look at that. We work together
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:42 PM
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“ No people choose to hang out with who they want. We interact daily but people choose to sit in cliques? Why because women push for this behavior.” Dude never heard of gangs. No woman is making a man join a motorcycle gang or the Bloods. Dude, like use an ounce of critical thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:41 PM
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I’m five foot tall, dude. E-V-E-R-Y fucking man is taller. I married a man 5/8.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:40 PM
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No, if more men weren’t cowards and challenged the Chads, patriarchy would fall. They don’t though. They slavishly follow the high status males and make the tall men CEOs and then try to punch down on females. C-O-W-A-R-D-S
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:39 PM
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As if only WOMEN SELECT. And yet; it is clear that in preindustrial Europe, which you’ve sited a zillion times, women did not select.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:37 PM
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“ In which historical time are we talking? Last time I checked Men in general have always been disposable. Cannon fodder for the women children and a small percent of powerful men.” ignores child soldiers, children sent to work in mines. ignores that the “small percent of powerful men” were the ones making the decisions - not the women or children, but continues to blame women. Welcome to why the patriarchy is bad. In the patriarchy, anyone of a lower hierarchy was disposable. And it was always …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:35 PM
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Just say you believe the dreck Hollywood feeds you and have never read a single scholarly article on the day to day life of the average preindustrial family ONCE in your life. women have always worked and worked HARD DEMANDING work outside of the house. Husbandry, milking, slaughtering, food preparation, beer making, food growing. women hunted. You all think “caveman hunt the mammoth.” Please. When it comes to food in bellies thank your fucking maternal line. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/article…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:31 PM
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Seriously good point Leonardo Da Vinci comes to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:10 PM
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Ye gods. Yes, I want someone confident and assertive, because I am confident and assertive, and I only have so much energy to put into not rolling right over someone Girl fucking YES. I C U.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:09 PM
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It’s like chubby chasers. Some guys won’t date the fat girl because they are concerned with what their friends will say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:08 PM
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“ I began lifting, standing up straight with my shoulders back, and asking for what I wanted…” Imagine, getting shape and speaking directly gave you better results
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:03 PM
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But a lot of men will get the advice that you need to do all of the above, but also, you need to be confident, dominant, assertive etc. You need to do the asking. You need to decide what and where the date will be. You need to pay for it. I’ll put myself - or did in the dating days - in the path of a guy I liked. And I’d flirt and touch hair but wouldn’t ask out because men will fuck women they have no interest in. I don’t see how you change that dynamic. But I don’t get the angst over planning …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:02 PM
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Happened to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:07 PM
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I got pregnant on the pill. It’s 99% accurate when used perfectly but shit will mess it up like antibiotics or not taking it at the same time every day or missing one pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:04 PM
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A miscarriage of justice. Like rapists who can get joint custody
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:02 PM
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My ex attempted to baby trap me. It’s bullshit when a man does it and it’s bullshit when a woman does it. And yes some women do it. A prior girlfriend attempted to baby trap my now husband. That ended that relationship. Interestingly enough, I got babies rabies in my mid twenties but my ex didn’t want kids. A coworker - a male one - told me to go off bc and just not tell him. I didn’t. And then that same ex tried to baby trap me when he realized I was leaving Edited to add - as someone said belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:01 PM
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Cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:47 PM
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You learn to read more closely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:46 PM
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My study is not from China. It uses data from the US’s National Educational Longitudinal Study of American children. You completely beclowned yourself and destroyed your credibility entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:43 PM
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I bet you think you are logical. Your personal anecdotes don't invalidate the systemic discouragement men face. Just because your husband mentors, doesn't mean it's the norm. The only way you can call that anecdotal is by ignoring the rest or my comment outlining numerous programs that engage in mentorship off the top of my head. And you are changing the argument. You claim that society “discourages” mentorship. It does not. You’ve simply never investigated all the available programs and opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:38 PM
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Damn fucking straight. A lot of unsung everyday heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:22 PM
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Family courts? A joke. They're designed to screw men over. Custody battles? A rigged game. One would think a self professed data analyst would actually, you know, analyze the data. This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:20 PM
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“ make my life a living hell, how am I helping anyone by just be there to suffer and be humiliated…” Because you want it better for your children. That’s the protecting part of man duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:19 PM
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Read this. Read this again. Read this a third time. It is really underscores how much men “pretend” they are “protectors” or providers when they are anything but. They give up on their children. They leave their children to metaphorically burn because mom is difficult. They wash their hands and cut their losses and toss their children away because those children are disposable. Mothers don’t do that. In fact mothers will often REFUSE to leave abusive men because they are terrified that they won’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:18 PM
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Look dude, I get it. I’m a white chick. People don’t realize I’m half Cuban because I’m blonde and blue eyed and don’t tan too well. I get tired of hearing white women being smeared by conservatives as spoiled privileged social justice warriors with purple hair And I get smeared by democrats as suburban wine moms who support the Republicans because they think being white will keep them privileged. But then, I also was never accused of being less intelligent, a diversity hire, or a Cadillac welfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:03 PM
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Oh boy do they have it coming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:05 PM
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Looking at the posts it seems you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:02 PM
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What races?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:00 PM
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I thought he was gay? But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:58 PM
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Dear data scientist do you have evidence to back this up? Data shows that multigenerational households with single mother produce equivalent or better outcomes than two parent households. https://muse.jhu.edu/pub/13/article/9382 “ ut it will not be unconditional like a father.” That is not my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:48 PM
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Why, that’s all you’ve done. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:39 PM
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You aren’t using in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:38 PM
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Even Jeremiah Johnson got it right, when his squaw wife killed turkeys with rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:38 PM
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Talks about “single moms”. People point out that means absentee fathers. Screams that this trashes men. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:36 PM
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My uncle is like that. My husband also has devoted significant time to teens through soccer. Your dad is a great man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:34 PM
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Ah so when confronted with evidence there are mentorship programs, you sweep them away. All I see I someone who wants to criticize, has done no research or education in a complicated socio-economic situation, and has no solutions of his own. You want to sit on the internet, complain about the women who ARE investing their children, and do nothing. In other words, “sound and fury, signifying nothing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:32 PM
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Have any studies to back that up? Because that is not revealed in the studies: https://www.forbes.com/sites/roberthart/2023/03/06/kids-raised-by-same-sex-parents-fare-same-as-or-better-than-kids-of-straight-couples-research-finds/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:28 PM
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Don't give me that bulls*it. 'Just men doing better' is a lazy-ass cop-out. You think individual guys are gonna magically solve a problem created by systemic failures? Wake up. (What systemic failures? You are sweeping in all single moms to blame but you never discuss the reason for single moms - widows? Divorce? Man abandoned her? She shut man out?) You're ignoring the fact that society actively discourages men from taking on nurturing roles. We're told to be emotionless robots, not mentors. (N…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:22 PM
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You’ve got a great nuanced take
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:11 PM
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This argues for a male role model not a father per se. An uncle, grandfather, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:10 PM
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https://muse.jhu.edu/pub/13/article/9382
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:08 PM
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The children of single women who remain with their family have outcomes comparable to two parent households. See eg https://muse.jhu.edu/pub/13/article/9382 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8200351/ This indicates it is more about support and money BUT I will that in the hands of the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:07 PM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ so many people here talk out of their ass. I wish people had more respect for the limits of their own knowledge. That includes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:59 PM
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I’m not criticizing anyone who voted democrat last election. Not men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:58 PM
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“ Relatedly, no one being able tp ponder that there are some things which women may innately be better at - school is one such area where boys are struggling more and more but there’s little to no recognition of it nor adjustments even proposed to the structures of education to even things out” Men get affirmative action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:14 PM
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Men have less to loose financially than women. Thats the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:11 PM
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Because gay men are last likely to marry and also tend to have open relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:10 PM
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And THIS is why statistics rock. It blows my mind because I would have thought the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:06 PM
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The problem is that you confuse initiating divorce to be the same as the one who destroyed the marriage. Unless you wouldn’t divorce your wife if she cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:05 PM
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That’s a good one. I mean everyone butchers statistics. What is galling is that many men will simultaneously claim to be the “logical” sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:04 PM
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I actually did tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 PM
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Seriously. It’s like, nah man, my dad was a dick and really selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:01 PM
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That is cinematic gold. This is what my husband and I have. We always turn to each other. It hasn’t alway been perfect but it has been wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:58 PM
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Tesla wasn’t interested in the ladies and was apparently straight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:55 PM
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If you can’t you won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:54 PM
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I hope they listen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:54 PM
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Seems good to me. One thing redpill seems to get right is the scarcity mindset. It’s a dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:49 PM
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Then live by their schedule and stop telling WOMEN to change to suit their convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:26 PM
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Yes. Exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:21 PM
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This I agree with. I’m American and I always went (or tried) to go Dutch the first date. She isn’t a lady for shitting on him on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:15 PM
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And you wonder why you all never get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:11 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:09 PM
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This is hilarious - man calls women trash for having sex and YOU are complaining at a woman for turning it around on him. Yah misogyny loud and clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:09 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:00 AM
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And why buy a pig if you just want a little sausage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:51 PM
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“ Men do not care about the status granted by an education.” Good, so no more handwringing over more women getting into college or men failing from the likes of Richard Reeves. “ Because unlike women, men actually want to achieve things. Not just have the appearance of achievers.” So you admit that I was entirely right - men ARE chasing status through achievement. I mean otherwise why would you brag about a wiki page? If you don’t care about status…. Smile. I’m sure you’ll default to your “real …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:33 PM
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But remember girls, it’s women who are emotionally driven, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:24 PM
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Imagine thinking that conservative women aren’t promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:21 PM
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Men beat women to force them to miscarry. Or slip abortion meds in their drinks. Or kill their babies. But go on, tell me about the nobility of men. Men are so noble they fuck dead bodies: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/nov/04/david-fuller-man-admits-murdering-two-women-and-sexually-abusing-corpses Men are so noble they impregnate coma patients https://abcnews.go.com/amp/US/phoenix-police-make-arrest-connection-woman-gave-birth/story?id=60568859 And mentally disabled women with the bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:19 PM
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Hold up, we have the man police here. Some rando on Reddit has been sent from God on high to share his outsized intellect and brag about his Wikipedia page. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:09 PM
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You make this kind of fact free, emotionally driven, easily disproven argument and then pretend you are so much more intelligent than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:04 PM
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No true Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:02 PM
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What common manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:01 PM
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“ guess what, women are not entitled to a man's commitment or resources either.” and yet it’s OP crying that women won’t commit. Tell him to stop complaining about women refusing to settle down. of course we aren’t entitled to men’s resources. That’s why I have a career
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:00 PM
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Common trend? Are you trying to claim that it’s a common trend for a PORN star to turn herself into a born again bubble thumper to marry a pastor. Jesus you all take a rare situation and try to convince people it is “common.” Very few girls are OF, porn stars, prostitutes, or pole dancers. And if preacher man had taken time to get to know her AND her past, he probably could have avoided this. My husband met my family and people from my past. He knew I wasn’t an ex prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:56 PM
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Wait wait wait - I thought you said a PROVIDER man. Not a man who wants to “settle down” or a LTR. So goal post moved. All this is yet another example of men trying to convince women to settle for whomever is desperate and mid when SHE is at her highest value. L-O-L
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:51 PM
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Men who are provider minded are often overlooked for more exciting men that are better looking and/or richer especially when women are young and have the most options. These men often are too eager to commit and women dont see them as a challenge or appreciate it. The RICHER men are the ones who could provide. Any woman who is chasing a RICH man is literally doing what men claim they want - pursuing a provider man. You all are so emotional and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:48 PM
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I see no reason to be traditional if I’m still working
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:44 PM
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“ Women are the more willing party and selector in dating. Its not hard to see that they would be the ones actively holding up thr path to marriage, especially when 63% of men are single in their 20s and the number dropd to 25% 30+.” Guys here LOVE to take completely contradictory positions whenever it suits them. So NOW women are also the gatekeepers of commitment as well as sex? Where are all the men who brag about how they can wait for ever and snag a nubile 20 year old in their forties?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:43 PM
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“ Men are getting married later as a direct result of women delaying marriage with men closer to their looks match.” This is funny. The only guys that I’ve met who’ve wanted to settle down in their early 20s are deeply religious types.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:39 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:37 PM
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“ They spend their youth pursuing things that grant them status and good feelings.…” Whereas men in their twenties become monks who devote their life to helping the less fortunate for charity work. 💅None of those men are chasing tail. None of those men are pursing things that grant them status like education, a professional career, or climbing the corporate ladder. No way no how.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:36 PM
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THIS! In Jane Austin’s day, men were around 28 when they married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:30 PM
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“ So what this means is that women are not: 1. Investing their youth and time towards a guy that is a realistic LTR option 2. Women are actively spending their youth on more desirable men for the hopes of commitment from them which often fail.” No, women are investing their 20s into their career, like I did. They aren’t thinking about LTRs per se as being a housewife with kids is no longer the goal. I mean, it’s just like men?!?. Go to college, get a profession, start building … then around 28 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:27 PM
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“ You shouldn’t be able to live off of child support as an adult single parent.” You all think you are temporarily embarrassed millionaires and it shows. Jesus. Most men aren’t bringing home 150k.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:58 PM
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Come pick up your legacy. I’ll see you in six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:55 PM
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“ How many divorced women you hear complaining about their ex husband not paying for his kids? ” A ton. It was a huge problem among me and my friends. Our dads wouldn’t pay child support. And our mothers married before they carried. It’s very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:55 PM
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See I’d have so much fun with you. I’d be sure to make sure you took 50/50 of the time load.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:51 PM
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In the US it’s generally 50/50 but a lot of men don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:49 PM
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Right? Clearly they weren’t raise to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:52 PM
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Meanwhile man infantizes men by claiming he has no responsibility since she can just get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:51 PM
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The irony is that you all are fine with claiming the MAN had no agency or responsibility because she can just get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:49 PM
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You need to go back to court and get it adjusted by demonstrating you have the kid the most
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:48 PM
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We have default 50:50 custody in most states
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:47 PM
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There are dozens of stories on here which explain why many man do in fact want to get out of paying child support
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:46 PM
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It isn’t in many states. Prolifers changed the law in some states so they could make your disenginuous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:44 PM
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“ All this hemming and hawwing about pregnancy and how hard it is, is nonsense. There's women who don't even realize they were pregnant until they fart the baby into the toilet.” Have you been pregnant? Pushed a baby out? No? I have. If you think it’s easy, WTF do you think so many women died from it. JESUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:43 PM
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We can strangle live babies? Or do - and the great legal scholar Chappelle - not understand the concept of bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:41 PM
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We have equal rights. You have full bodily autonomy. You can get snipped or take the male BC pill (I think that’s in the works) or wear condoms to control your own body and no woman can say a word about it. She has equal rights to control her own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:40 PM
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You know how much money it costs to force men to pay child support? And to chase them down with they don’t? Thousands and thousands. But thanks for proving OP’s point - a lot of men don’t give a shit about their kids. I’d fucking kill to keep my kids. KILL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:37 PM
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Baby trapping means the kid IS his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:35 PM
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Some times… some times… karma comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:35 PM
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Not really. It costs money for the women to get lawyers to take them to court, and they have to fuck up s lot, and then maybe finally, after a few more hearings, rhey’ll hold them in contempt. A lot of people do get paid under the table or work sporadic jobs. And if they own their own business, so much fuckery can go on. Sure the ex wife might make some hay but again SHE HAS to pay for the attorney - thousands - to get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:33 PM
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My dad did the same - fucked off with his mistress and didn’t want to pay a dime for us three kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:22 PM
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“ It also encourages people to get pregnant by rich dudes who can help pay for kids without having access to them, which is all kinds of shady. …” Why wouldn’t they have access?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:21 PM
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Most mothers don’t prevent ex from seeing kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:20 PM
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Awwww
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:08 PM
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I’m glad you have a great relationship. Preferences are usually not hard and fast - for men or for women. Edited I have never liked really big dudes. I don’t mind dad bods but I hate beer bellies (sorry guys). My husband has a big ass beer belly because he wrecked his knees and feet playing soccer and struggles staying physically active. Don’t. Care. Ride him like a stallion. Love him anyway. I think it really bothers some people here - especially certain guys - that there is a lot of gray in pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:08 PM
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No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:29 AM
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Dont know why I was downvoted. It was honest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:28 AM
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Mine was temptation island. And then there was that cheaters show where they’d send out pi’s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:25 AM
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Because men are very promiscuous and have high reward low consequence. Women don’t look at sex the same. Thus having some random man hassling us for sex is like some panhandler hassling a dude. Fucking rude and obnoxious. That’s why OP doesn’t get to hassle women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:22 AM
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Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:19 AM
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You are responding to an argument I didn’t make. I didn’t criticize those songs - I just pointed out they exist so his bitching over one song that talks about finance bros is bad faith. The Big Butts song is one I enjoy with my husband because I have a great ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:18 AM
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“ enough woman who got smacked in the face and put in there placE.” Man who smacks me in the face gets arsenic. I’m not your child to discipline .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:10 AM
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Gen z has a lot less sex so that’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:05 AM
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Lmao - I hope they start with your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:44 PM
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Jesus this is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:43 PM
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Look accept people’s explanations - you asked for them - and atop proselytizing children or disparaging those who choose not to have kids (Have two myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:41 PM
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You all don’t know a damned thing about communication and human psychology and it shows. My bro as an example had broken winged bird syndrome. He loved to rescue broken women and would land himself in bad relationships as a result. Just telling him “choose better” was worthless. What was he missing? Why did he have a blind spot? That takes a lot of work to undo years of poor relationship style, all the way from our mom, the ultimate broken winged bird. and saying something like that? Well people…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:32 PM
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“ Dating western women feels icky and transactional.” Imagine saying this while lauding SEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:22 PM
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“ Since thats the case most men are afraid of saying anything about womens standards and pretend to be accepting of all women no matter the age,look or size inorder to not be demonized.” Let me know when men have ever NOT complained about women’s standards? It is constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:21 PM
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Yah it amazing how little men believe in equal rights and the rest of the enlightenment. They just put a match to the Declaration of Independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:18 PM
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Men aren’t villainized for wanting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:16 PM
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With equality, we can ask for x, y and z, and the man can agree or not. Same the other way - a man can ask for x, y, and z, and the woman can agree or not. Work it out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:13 PM
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Your post is nothing but a fact free screed. You get back what you put in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:44 PM
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No it isn’t. That’s why young marriages divorce more often
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 PM
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Ah yes, prove a negative… Why don’t you prove that it IS? Otherwise it’s just your worthless opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:40 PM
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Any proof that it IS? I’m sure you have some peer reviewed studies of humans where this shows up, right? Not voles, not birds - humans
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:39 PM
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THIs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:38 PM
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And divorce rates skyrocket with promiscuous men too - oh did you miss that? But since you think sex is so important why are you mad women won’t give you any?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:38 PM
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And the 6-6-6 girls do too. Man you guys can’t handle the littlest bit of chaff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:32 PM
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Damn boy you are almost perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:30 PM
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Women can and always have expressed their desires and men haven’t batted an eye lid. 6 figures, 6 feet, 6 pack etc. have always been women’s mantra. Men kvetch about this NONSTOP here, YouTube comments, at PPB and they’ll tell women that those women are lying if we dare point out that most girls don’t have those standards because some hag on TikTok said it. I mean every day we get a post here about how we need to drop these standards mRecently a global song was trending with the chorus being “I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:28 PM
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“ No, biologically, women should go for the man with most resources. The fact you don't even acknowledge this illustrates how spoiled modern women are. They can easily, and legally, extract everything they want from men, while providing nothing in return. As such, they don't even need to care about the primary things they need men for.” Resources are a social construct. Any resource you point to - money, gold, slaves, titles, plots of land? Social construct. Men value hot and young for ONE reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:01 PM
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Sure. But the point is that it isn’t some automatic bonding experience and a man asking for it isn’t looking for bonding - necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:41 PM
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Stop giving people money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:35 PM
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“ it means to give access to sex only to guys that are potentially good long term partners and not only hedonistic short term pleasure partners.” Why? Men and women should enjoy short term pleasure if they like and, once they meet the right person, settle down. “ So the last guy pays the most and it feels like you are being a sucker.” Then don’t marry her. Move on. After all, if all you value about her is her vagina and how quickly she fucked some guy five years ago, you clearly don’t value her …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:34 PM
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You just contradicted your self - you said “choose financially stable” but “don’t choose wealth.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:25 PM
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Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:24 PM
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“ What we mean when we say "choose better:" quit bitching about men as a whole and choose a guy who treats you right.” Why don’t you stop bitching about women who make shitty decisions. Here start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:23 PM
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“Why don’t women admit they are abusers too” We’re waiting - why don’t you admit to being an abuser?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:22 PM
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Ah yes, it’s just “natural biology” men favor young and beautiful. It’s just “how it’s supposed to be.” LMAO, and “biologically” women should favor the man with the best genes - that means TALL, SMART, ATHLETIC, and YOUNG. They need to be in tip top shape to defend me from other men and predators. They need to be young enough to help raise the kids. They need to be young am strong enough to work long long hours. In other words - CHAD. Not some weak mid short ugly passive male. Now you’ll squeal …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:16 PM
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No the lack of comprehension is YOU. Dating isn’t just buying a car. The personalities need to match. Sometimes they don’t. I won’t date every man that happens to have A, B, and C because I don’t LIKE every man who happens to have A, B, and C. And sorry there is no way to quantify the dynamic interaction of two personalities when they mesh and when they don’t. It’s not a science, it is an art. I have no idea why my grandparents adored each other. They just did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:55 PM
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Let me spell it out for you. I’m not looking for a car. I’m looking for someone to fluid bond with and spend my LIFE with. That means my standards may be A, B, and C but I’m not going to date A, B, and C. I had pretty loose standards. Man needed to be gainfully employed with a career and I’d consider anyone 5/5 ish and over. Couldn’t be really religious. Wanted a professional, but not necessarily college educated. Wanted someone semi in shape, but dad bod fine. Did need to be socially liberal (N…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:52 PM
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It’s a free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:41 PM
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More like. “Fine, just will live the single life.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:41 PM
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Your therapist, friend or brother is offering the advice because (1) they know YOU and (2) have your best interests at heart. Some idiot online has no idea if you have a pattern of choosing poorly (a thing) OR if you were taken in (also a thing). The online poster is saying it to shit on you - ie your victimization is your fault. Imagine going online to a series of men who just found out that their wives - the mothers of their children - have been cheating with some guy at work after 20 years of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:39 PM
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Men choose based on looks, almost entirely.* And then they cry when they have to pay child support or “lose half their assets.” Why don’t you tell your fellow man to choose better when THEY are the ones who over focus on physical attraction and are proud of it. Approach ugly girls and fat girls and ran through girls and girls who are 30. Tell guys to screen for girl with a good job and a great personality. After all men is the gender over focused on looks. *not all, obv. Like my hub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:33 PM
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Lmao. And look at the men still in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:25 PM
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That one person said one thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:13 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:11 PM
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Look dude, get some counseling for your insecurities. Trying to put your fears on to other people isn’t going to make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:10 PM
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“ No, he's just under 6 foot; His point is that personality doesn't matter "Women are obsessing more over things that are purely aesthetics and superficial" So you are describing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:06 PM
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Not everyone is as immoral as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:05 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:04 PM
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The irony in a man saying this: “ There's a clear imbalance. Women are obsessing more over things that are purely aesthetics and superficial but want high efforts from partner. It's not that much complicated that in the end you will get what you chose and compromiseon something.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:03 PM
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Also men: yah I just hit it and quit it. Go sell this to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:00 PM
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I’m not a troll. Elon Musk is hideous. I think the idea of beta bux is bull but I am pushing back on the concept of BetaBux per red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:21 AM
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Aw I bet she thinks you are sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:20 AM
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Wow, girl. Sounds like you are honest. Not for me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:19 AM
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Boost this healthy view
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:17 AM
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Potentially yes. I like penis. Will there be penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:15 AM
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I did in the bad old days and found my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:15 AM
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This needs to be boosted. It is a cost benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:14 AM
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Phew so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:14 AM
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“ For a man to be fully satisfied with a Madonna, all she has to do is get better at sex, literally follow his instructions in bed. A few years of relationship and they'll be good forever.” Follow his instructions in bed. Oh lord is that what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:46 PM
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Read whore as promiscuous woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:45 PM
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Except the stats tend to show the opposition. Married men make more money, get more sex, have better relationships with kids, live longer, and are happier. That puts aside the value of pooling resources and efforts. This is why men remarry so quickly after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:42 PM
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Stability takes money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:39 PM
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Stability takes money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:39 PM
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“ The difference is, the Madonna get's treated like a prized horse.” No they don’t - or at least not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:48 PM
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“ The male fear is that their women had past lovers, in her prime, that simply created a significantly more exciting sexual experience than he can. And that she thinks of this fairly often.” “This assertion has to be addressed factually and empirically for men to get past it. Is it true? If so, how common?” The problem is that you think ANY of this can be handled rationally or empirically when it has nothing to do with facts or logic and everything to do with emotion and insecurities on the part…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:43 PM
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And average man can’t afford to be a beta bux. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:23 PM
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My husband is a confident man with his shit together. He isn’t an abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:52 PM
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My mom relied on fast food to feed us. I had to learn to cook as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:50 PM
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Damn girl. So sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:49 PM
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RICH and HOT. Are you rich and hot? No? Sorry women won’t like the promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:45 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:44 PM
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“ But I never see women upset or disappointed when a man has a past as a man whore. If anything, they’ll feel it’s an accomplishment to get the man that’s so desired by many women to commit.” Nope. https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:44 PM
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Women also choose whom to marry. Men here regularly clutch pearls over it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:43 PM
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“ phase whereas men would still always be attracted to the Madonna if she offered herself a hookup.” Then she isn’t a Madonna, is she. That’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:42 PM
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Sex =\= affection. “ The long-term woman who lands a high-quality man can get everything the short-term woman gets and more.” NOPE. You want to know how many wives discover their husbands are buying mistresses gifts, jewelry, and vacations? Or are spending insane amounts on OF? That they’ll wine and dine the mistresses while leaving their wives at home, washing their dirt underwear? All the time. It’s regular for mistresses who become wives to bitch that he starts treating HER like furniture. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:41 PM
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That’s wild. And I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:34 PM
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Madonna is the beautiful woman BUT NONSEXUAL) and the whore is the ugly prostitute BUT SEXUAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:33 PM
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“ don't like hookups,” well if she got off for them, she might have a different view. You are ascribing morality to what could be due to sexual pleasure. Women regularly report they get little sexual satisfaction from hookups. It’s not hard to avoid something that gives you no pleasure. Would men be fucking woman as much If it didn’t give them sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:30 PM
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I agree completely for men. And I in fact praise anyone who considers more than just sex for long term mate prospects. I believe the male concern springs out of a fundamental misunderstanding of the opposite sex (note - this happens with women, too) - studies demonstrate that women consider more aspects (like charisma) for attractiveness as part of mate selection when compared to men. Men - on average - seem to care more what a woman looks like than what comes out of her mouth. after babies, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:27 PM
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It for sure happens once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:10 PM
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“ Anyway, the short-term dude receives genuine affection.” No, he receives SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:51 PM
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So you didn’t know your ex wasn’t sexually attracted? How did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:50 PM
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“ IMO the short-term dude and the long-term woman have it the best.” Men only value sex. Women only value services and don’t care about sex. Woof are you wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:49 PM
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“ My point is that a beta is the low-dating-market value of a man, a low ncount is the high value of a woman.” Not at all. We see people post here all the time about hot broke dudes fucking. As soon as you start talking money, that’s not alpha per se. That’s beta bux unless of course you think Bezos is sexy. Bezos is high value according to RP because of money, not looks. Raw sexual desire has nothing to do with wallets or beta buxs would be the Chads. They aren’t. Your millionaire is the sexy M…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:47 PM
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In general, latte, I agree with your responses, but here you’ve missed the mark: The problem with this equivalence though is that it’s not 1:1 the same. You can be a Madonna and still be sexually wanted by a man (given that you present yourself as sexually available). When women do AF/BB, they are not typically sexually attracted to the turbo beta she chose for marriage; she used to him to fill in a generic “husband slot.” You have absolutely no evidence to claim that women aren’t sexually attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:18 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:54 PM
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Because they were forced
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:28 AM
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“ hat’s fine, until you need to draw a line. Say Furries. Identifying as a ‘cat’ a reasonable gender?” Typical pearl clutching of conservatives. Allowing gay people to exist in public didn’t do shit to society. If people want to dress up in fox suits to fuck, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:25 AM
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This right there. And she’s been caught in some seriously shitty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:23 AM
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You were the one chatting them up. Weird if they were “miserable cunts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:14 AM
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I feel like way too many people focus on TikTokere and extremely hot people around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:11 AM
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I think to a certain extent you are correct. That said, I learned A LOT about social interaction and flirting. I was a chronic fucked up nerd on my early 20s and then figured out how to be flirty, charming, and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:08 AM
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Interesting you’ll do it for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:19 PM
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Because apps are the worst place for men. Because while looks matter, women will also value charisma and personality too whereas that seems to be far less of a consideration for men. My husband and I met on an app. I was only on there a week or three. And he was deliberately targeting brand new faces to be sure he was so to speak at the front of the line and not inundated. He got my attention by having a sense of humor. He only had one pic and not a great one. But we did a meet and greet for a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:18 PM
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I was going to say - look at China
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:53 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:32 PM
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She is dead right. I made the same mistake. I chose horribly the first time at 22. I chose much much better at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:31 PM
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Stoicism is good but a lot of these people don’t practice it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:27 PM
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I am as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:55 PM
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Not really. Women may speak more than men in certain age groups: https://news.arizona.edu/news/do-women-talk-more-men-it-might-depend-their-age In work settings they talk less: https://www.imd.org/research-knowledge/leadership/articles/women-talk-too-much-simply-isnt-true-data-show/ https://money.com/men-interrupt-talk-more/?amp=true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:51 PM
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Oh please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:45 PM
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Men should get some standards. Maybe if they have to deal with pregnancy they might be a bit more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:57 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:51 PM
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There is no automatic child support enforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:49 PM
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And having eveyone’s dna on file ensures we get those cases solved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:47 PM
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France.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:20 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:54 PM
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Where do you see her complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:39 PM
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Yah that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:56 PM
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I also have girls. I think my advice would be the same for boys tho - be a successful and healthy person. In other words, take care of your body and health, find and explore interests, be involved with your community, treat people well, work to be a productive member of society. Be kind to your friends. Understand give and take and good boundaries. Learn about people, learn about healthy relationships, learn about resolving conflict in a positive way. Be out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:56 PM
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“ You're projecting the opinions of other men on my post. My primary point was that men want a display of genuine interest and excitement from the woman they're taking out on dates.” Then don’t post fake YouTube clips. Jesus fucking Christ stop being manipulated by strangers on the internet. The number of people I have had to help out of being conned by some polish girl or some Russian chick…. Women too get conned….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:12 PM
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I don’t think about men I don’t want to date. That isn’t hate.’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:05 PM
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“ This is true… however, when these men are financially ruined and their lives made a living hell due to their poor choices in said women, SOCIETY DOES NOT CARE ONE BIT.” Oh they complain and complain and complain - usually about the court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:36 PM
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And yet….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:34 PM
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BUT you just said you’d go for the skinny bitch so you aren’t using fat to screen for poor mental health. Btw, citation? I’m actually pretty curious to read that article
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:33 PM
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So she was trash too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:30 PM
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The rule is most people are in the same social economic status
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:08 PM
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I don’t know that hot assholes do the best - it just seems that hot good guys get snatched off the market. One of my coworkers is a hot tall jag lawyer, very good looking, very sociable, and a frat boy. He is also an absolutely good guy and DEVOTED to his wife. I’m sure his n is much lower than hot shitty guys because he has been off the market. Red pill judges men’s success solely on how many women they DO get, not how many women they COULD get if they tried. But that number alone really isnt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:36 PM
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But women abandoned them first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:27 PM
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(You are not wrong about American culture)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:26 PM
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Or, stick with me, you value the PERSON, not what value you can mine from her body as if she’s a resource to be used. This is the inherent dehumanization that selfishly sees people as mere resources to be used up and discarded when no longer valuable to you, like a mountain strip-mined of its value. My husband married me not because I could “give him children” or “my youth.” In fact, we discussed what we’d do if we had no children. Because my value to him wasn’t my youth, it was ME. He doesn’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:40 PM
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Why women don’t give sex to guys just because they are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:21 PM
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Well of course I would. I can get all of the benefits you mention on my own and therefore I have no use for you or anyone else bringing them to the table. Those are of no benefit. You only become an incel if you choose to become one. That is ridiculous. The one that decides if I am or not an Incel is the woman that decides to date me or not to date me.” So if you are concerned about being an incel that admits that you have no benefit to a woman at all - even less than she does “past her prime.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:19 PM
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I hope she knows she has no more value to you now that she’s past breeding and you are just keeping her around because she was willing to have your kids. Just fucking GROSS. And before you start it, I had two kids with my husband in my early 30s. I guess he has no investment in me and shouldn’t keep me around because he didn’t have me in my “prime”, even though we didn’t meet each other until I was 28. Just what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:11 PM
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“ If I got my partner's prime that means I am in her debt and will remain with her even when she no longer has any youth to give.” That’s just revolting. If my husband said that, he’d never touch me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:07 PM
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Sex with hot women. That’s all these guys value and yet they’ll claim they are good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:05 PM
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One right below in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:04 PM
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Woman, but not flared. Kids Husband Exercise Writing/friends My husband? Making more money Kids/me - probably more me over the kids because he knows I am exerting much thought on kids Exercise Soccer/MPOGs depending on the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:03 PM
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That is what SCHOOL used to be like - when designed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:46 PM
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What freedom have you lost in the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:43 PM
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They are related I find
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:39 PM
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you’d have to be blind, deaf, and dumb to think that attractiveness (looks plus sociability) don’t matter to women. We all know who the popular boys were in school. who designed the apps? Women? Then why all the animosity toward women. My comment was directed to the poster, though, who continues to ascribe morality (bad instead of good) to female mate selection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:35 PM
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Oh yes, Trump is bringing back stagflation, just you watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:29 PM
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Again 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:27 PM
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“ As a fellow oldster, there has been a pretty significant shift in social acceptance of long term singleness and women’s autonomy and self determination.” Seconding this. As a xennial, I was still raised by my mom to think an unmarried woman was a LOSER. My dad called me in college to find out whether I was dating and there were major discussions about my sister reaching her mid twenties without pairing up. I remember being worried about going out to a restaurant alone as it would indicate I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:20 PM
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And dude, a lot of us are short and married to short men. I never turned a dude down based on height. Other things yes. Not height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:15 PM
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Thank you - 100% right. Many other cultures have Men who are much closer to one another
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:13 PM
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“ Like this woman showed visible excitement and joy sitting in this guys company…” She KNOWS HIM before this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:05 PM
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It’s real because it’s some random comment on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:03 PM
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“ EDIT 2: To those who claim it's staged, are all the military men in the comments saying they experienced the same thing from overseas also staged? What about the men who are saying they met their wives overseas or the ones who are saying their parents met in a similar way…” Shorter Diet Tyrone - “look I know the video was faked but the comments are TOTALLY REAL GUYS!” Look, my mom is Cuban. My dad remarried a German lady. I have an expat cousin who married a Japanese gal and a step bro expat m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:57 PM
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And perhaps men conflate women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:50 PM
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Women also date who they can because they don’t get their ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:49 PM
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“ internet users to admit women care about men's looks as much as men care about women's looks” But women don’t - they care - but not as much as men according to the studies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:48 PM
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See fat is a bigger sin to a guy than mentally damaging his own kids with antisocial behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:47 PM
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Stop watching internet grifters then who try to encourage you to stay in bad relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:46 PM
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Nah, I’ve watched men date chronic shoplifters and drunk drivers because they are “hot.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:45 PM
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False and - frankly - the type of reasoning children use. You absolutely choose who you pursue and who you marry. You aren’t a mindless animal. Stop acting like one. Once again, men are allergic to accountability (isn’t that what men always say about women?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:44 PM
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Fucked up women are drawn to serial killers. Fucked up man are drawn to crazy women. Case in point: Casey Anthony. https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/casey-anthony-stole-married-man-165315246.html https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/casey-anthony-stole-married-man-165315246.html And no his wife isn’t some ugly fat harridan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:41 PM
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I just realized that your post - and many of those here - are actually just a mirror image of the just world fallacy and equally bullshit. You point out - correctly - that (generally) women don’t reward good little social cogs with sex. But you then proceed to commit the exact opposite reasoning error - that (generally) women reward dark triad assholes with sex. And I see this error everywhere on here - that Chads (ie attractive dudes) are “bad” or users while ugly or mids are “good.” This is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:30 PM
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I upvote because now I get your point. I don’t actually agree though because people are not rational actors and the divorce process itself poses significant barriers to either party filing. It was far easier for me to dump a boyfriend than a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:36 PM
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So it was feminism that made me leery of significant age gap relationships, not: (1) me watching a twenty year older female teacher beginning to groom my brother in 9th grade? OR (2) the fifty year old boss that got my 17 year old ass drunk to sleep with me? Nah it’s the feminists fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:28 PM
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“I thought you said it was impossible to tell because people don't talk about salaries ;).” No I didn’t say that. Why would you think I did?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:19 PM
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Look, your situation isn’t the same. You are in a position where you can’t. That is entirely different than someone who is keeping someone else down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:15 PM
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I am ambiguous on it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:13 PM
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The problem is whether peaceful/supportive is all in one direction. She supports you, she never argues with you, she goes along with you. Do you do the same? Support her goals and dreams? Avoid fights with her? Go along with her and her desires
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:12 PM
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Glad it is working out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:08 PM
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Too bad you never cite any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:07 PM
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“ Women embody the problems of their great, great grandmothers so they can whine and complain.” More imaginary women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:06 PM
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I’ve never said that relationships cannot exist when women make more. We’re simply looking at the behavioral data of what occurs when a dynamic changes. (Data which you conveniently don’t cite. Nor have you proven the causative agent. Those are your biases). Some of the most fun I had while dating was with older women who were legit killers in their careers. In those instances, men have to lean into other elements of hypergamy to make it work (You mean by being a good partner or a good stay at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:04 PM
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Yes well we’ve already seen your true colors - “women over 30 are miserable!” I bet they are with men like you. I don’t give one shit what you’d date. That has nothing to do with my comment. My comment is that fathers take a very different view when it is their daughtersz
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:36 PM
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No, dear, I just don’t AGREE with you. And you don’t have an answer which is why you keep resorting to attacks on my intelligence. It’s no wonder why you target young naive women. You are impossibly soft and weak yourself. Pathetic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:33 PM
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Once again proving the points of all the posters here who say that the older partner is targeting the more naive younger one because - in large part - the power imbalance. How dare a woman have her own values and standards rather than just go along with what you want? Amirite? Can’t have the little woman get ideas of her own. Because we all know that when a woman magically crosses the line of 30 she bursts forth, from her sweet cocoon, into a full grown harpy. I’ll have to ask my husband if I tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:24 PM
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Lmao. You ask a dad how he feels about his 18 year old daughter dating a 40 year old man. I’ve seen in a friend’s family. Not pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:12 PM
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You agreed with a post that trashed 30 year old women and called them leftover… Because you are magically “incompatible” with a 30 year old woman. She was talking about you and you proved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:06 PM
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Right there with you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:02 PM
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Yah yah, it’s the “progressive intelligentsia” that is keeping middle aged men from their adoring teen lovers. I’ve said it and I’ll say it again- my brother was groomed by a teacher. She was his teacher in 9th grade. She was over twenty years older and has a son only two or three years younger. She stayed in contract and the second he was legal, they were dating and then married. The marriage did not last. It was predatory. And despite what you may think, people were VERY squicked out. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:59 PM
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Why is it do we need to pass age of marriage and consent laws to prevent mainly men from marrying 14 year olds? My youngest is 14. I will castrate any grown man who comes near her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:40 PM
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Thanks for proving her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:38 PM
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No they didn’t. They mocked those women like they mock Leo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:37 PM
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You all think this is some kind of gotcha but my brother was groomed by a teacher at 16, he dated her as soon as she was legal at 18 or 19, and they married when he was 22. Twenty year age difference. People were revolted. In fact I find people are more squicked out by a 45 year old woman marrying a 22 year old man than the reverse. There was an absolute family revolt against my brother’s wedding. Women are more likely to be grossed out and condemn a women teacher preying on a teen boy than men …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:36 PM
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And men like you want to pretend that their own biased personal observations are the gospel truth…. It’s comical how emotional men are, especially when they are desperate to be right. The US government used to train women spies to be deliberately wrong because men just HAVE to set a woman right. https://bsky.app/profile/garius.bsky.social/post/3lkl3posobg2w I’ve know several marriages where the women make more, and the husbands aren’t getting left. In one of them the husband was a cheater and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:22 PM
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So you reject one explanation as a “trope” but then insist another trope - women don’t respect men who make less money - is the god’s gospel truth. So much so that you categorically reject people either telling their own stories or that it’s complicated. And I bet you’ll claim you are logical and fact driven. Not everyone has a kink for dominance and being better than their wife like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:12 PM
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The situation isn’t usually so obvious. Friend A - librarian with sheriff deputy husband - who makes more? She does. Friend B - fed policy expert with lawyer - who makes more? Trick question. He did at first and then took a government job. She rocketed to the top Friend C - lawyer and lawyer. She did made more consistently. You might think he makes more than she because he’s in the trades but then you learn that SHE has the health benefits to counter act that salary. My friend the rural mail car…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:40 AM
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Well that’s fine too. My oldest girl likes the lady team better. I shouldn’t have assumed you were necessarily fully straight. So I’ll just say you deserve someone in your life you wants to watch you soar. ;). In your lovely cabin by the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:31 AM
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More ranting about imaginary women in your mind, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:29 AM
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Why do you need to trap a woman to get her to stay. I’m not trapped. I’m married to a short guy who is likely on the spectrum. It’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:21 AM
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No, she’s leaving him because she isn’t financially dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:14 AM
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You can have a collaborative marriage. So many of these guys are hooked on leading and it’s so silly. It’s like they cannot fathom that a man could decide to follow his intelligent wife. Yet my brilliant aunt largely led the marriage and my uncle doted and adored her. The truth is that if your first husband had let you lead and followed, you likely would still be married. The problem is that he tried to lead YOU right into a ditch. (I’m sure there were other problems too) By myself, I made good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:03 AM
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It’s hard. It really is. I lucked out when I married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:49 PM
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I’m not a PhD in forestry in part due to his behavior. The Dean of the envisci school wanted me to go to Yale for graduate school in forestry after I took a grad school class with him on nitrogen cycling. He offered to make calls. One of my great regrets. My husband now is 100% behind me on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:38 PM
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Oh yes. My mom made sure I understood. And I’ve told my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:34 PM
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Fuck I bet my husband had a similar schematic for me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I mean down the line. All the way to living frugally and saving tons of cash. He is short tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:17 PM
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Lol. It doesn’t matter what a woman says, you are just going to believe what you want to - it’s like you are in a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:12 PM
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I was 22 when I married my first husband. He also tried to sabotage my career at multiple steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:10 PM
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“ hardly escaped my notice that he was threatened by my economic independence, and tried to remove it from me.” That is the kicker isn’t it? It becomes really clear why women fought so hard for economic access.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:09 PM
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“ Would you do this other people in your life? You get a promotion and now you're gonna look for a different friend that's on your level?” I’m not financially tied to other people in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:07 PM
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Go visit one of the subs and report back. My cousin went to Japan to teach English, met and married a lovely Japanese lady. My step bro met and married a lovely Swiss girl and now they live there. Passport bros go to poorer countries and use the exchange rate to inflate their financial standing to either fuck through the local population like a super rich guy would or to find a trad like gal who will stay home and raise his kids. The latter isn’t necessarily bad. Wtknight is one and seems to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:06 PM
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Yah, bad personalty hits different than bad math skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:55 PM
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“ Honestly I’m not convinced Neurotypicals would even have been able to come up with the wheel, they’d have been too busy gossiping about the fact someone made the wrong facial expression in response to someone else’s insincere compliment and “OMG she’s so annoying and weeeeird”.” God, the f-king ARROGANCE. I am NT with a daughter who is ND and have several family members who are ND. Do me a favor, drop the bigotry of high functioning autists who think they are intellectually a cut above and oh …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:53 PM
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And women don’t like finding themselves dirt poor at 45 when they can’t recover. And? Why must the woman carry all the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:13 PM
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This is incorrect. It is actually even more favorable to the person making the money (which men always assume is the man). Only certain states are community property - those part of Mexico originally such as Cali or TX. In those states it’s considered a 50/50 split of money/assets accumulated during marriage. I believe for Cali that only kicks in after a decade of marriage. * Most of the other states are separate property which absolutely factors in who made the money during marriage during asse…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:00 PM
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No one loves unconditionally and if men expect that they need to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:17 AM
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First and foundational error - you don’t get to determine other people’s goal in life. This idea that we all must marry and have kids is wrong. To the contrary many never married or had kids but still had meaningful lives. They became aunts or uncles, nuns or monks, wise women or hermits, priests or priestesses, prostitutes. Tesla, Hildegard, Newton. I know several women - one of whom was proposed to - who are almost forty, unmarried, no kids, and happy. They live good lives that help others. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:11 AM
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Excoriate how?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:58 AM
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Yup. Hub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:56 AM
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Aging is a significant issue. I don’t know your situation but please plan. She is as sharp as she ever was but her body has rendered her almost locked in. This from a woman who lived independently and went to college before the ADA. She also can tell some stories about the institutions where the disabled used to be warehoused - and will again if the DOE is destroyed. She’s dx spastic CP from a birth injury. Ps she also married and has three kids and divorced so a normal life so to speak. Good lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:55 AM
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I mean you may not yet be there. It’s normal to still have a period at 52. I’m on estrogen. I might get T because it takes so much longer to get places. I was lucky to be a high L lady. I’ll look at linen Ty for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:47 AM
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He’s just pissed his wife left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:03 AM
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“ you personally may not fall out of love, but many women do, especially with good men. Many women can't understand this feeling of detachment from their partner and believe they need to find another man who they can "bond" with. This happens to many good men out there.” Fuck this infantilizing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:02 AM
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“ You know, hormonal birth control might be the number 1 driver in broken homes. The number of women who marry a guy, pop out a kid, hormones truly regulate and they find him unfuckable is astonishing.” I mean, sure if you are talking out of your ass with no basis. “I’d also say it’s every married man’s prerogative to have his wife get her hormones checked in her 40s.” I mean, sure, if you refuse to acknowledge that women are actual independent humans with their own rights to medial privacy or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:01 AM
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“I, a sex doll salesman, have a better understanding of endocrinology and its long term effects on female satisfaction with partners more than endocrinologists and On/Gyns because I knew a woman who had thyroid cancer and Chat GPT helped me.” Are you f-king kidding me. You are so far out over your skis, I’m shocked you haven’t hit the pines yet. Shakes head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:56 AM
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It’s not the “truth.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:48 AM
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I probably did misunderstand and came across too harsh. I don’t find your age gap unreasonable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:37 AM
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I knew you for sure would have a clear idea on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:34 AM
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My daughter really struggles. Also the ADHD/spectrum mix. She has finally started to develop a ring of friends because we moved somewhere better. She’s also sharp as a needle. Edited - I have ADHD too but likely not on the spectrum. It’s my sister and father…. And likely my husband. Lmao. But it’s just different between boys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:30 AM
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My dad is likely on the spectrum - but he’s of a generation where those who are grifted as he clearly was, aren’t labeled that. FN I also ended up marrying a man who is fucking brilliant (computers, let’s just be a stereotype) and likely is also ND. My point? My husband is a great guy and not a misogynist. My dad was a fucking asshole and a boor and struggled with social relationships for years, including at work. Some autists act in ways that are shitty and that can be due in part with the diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:27 AM
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No they are shamed for calling fat chicks names
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:10 AM
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This. They label women shallow and heartless and mean. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:09 AM
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A ND woman may have less problems getting a man’s attention but getting commitment? It’s been very hard for my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:08 AM
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❤️❤️❤️❤️ Much compassion. My mother has CP. it’s been quite a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:07 AM
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I work a lot with my daughter on masking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:05 AM
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ND are not defective - you are entirely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:04 AM
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I am neurotypical from a family where my father and sister are not. My husband is also highly likely neurodivergent although he’s never been so diagnosed. One of my daughters is ND. I get that you educate NT on ND and I admire that. Yet I find that often ND-ND doesn’t work. But that is my impression - it could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:03 AM
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I’m now in perimenopause. I took myself to the doctor to address wild episodes of crying and my sex drive suffering…. Because I wanted that back. It wasn’t my husband sending me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:49 PM
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Days like this I bless my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:45 PM
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We get that from medical professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:43 PM
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“ actually, total opposite, this is to empower women to choose their birth control which can be beyond hormonally based drugs.” We do - with our medical professionals, not Chat GTP content
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:42 PM
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Not really. Do we need to accept that men are simply violent because of testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:39 PM
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“ Women could spend 5-10 years chasing top men, fail, and settle for their league.” Men spend 5-10 years chasing women, fail, and settle for their league. I guess men are hypergamous too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:37 PM
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It’s men who remarry faster after divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:31 PM
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Why is it countries that are the most egalitarian have the lowest age differences while those that repress women’s rights have the highest. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:28 PM
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Sure. Your opinion is “truth.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:21 PM
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“ I've said before this is a jealousy thing, some women genuinely can not stand to see a man succeed in any capacity.” Or, you know, we’ve experienced it and want to steer others clear AND that includes both young women and young men. Not all of us are petty cats like you and care about other women. Go on, tell me I’m jealous. I’ll keep looking at this massive rock on my finger, searching for that jealousy of mid middle aged men when I landed my top husband years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:09 PM
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Oh yes it’s girl math when I watched my brother at 16 get preyed on by a 40 year old female teacher. It was girl math when my parents tried to talk him out of marrying her at 21. Rah rah! We all thought she was awesome!!!! No dude, no. Male or female, it’s gross. There is no brainwashing bullshit when the most egalitarian societies have the lowest age differences. And the ones where old men marry 14 year old girls are places like Iran and Afghanistan. And no one gives a shit about 4 years once p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:03 PM
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Men regularly married widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:23 PM
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King Henry married a woman already married twice as his last wife. His first wife was married to his brother
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:22 PM
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Because it was a FANTASY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:11 PM
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Yes!!! So glad you mentor these young dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:04 PM
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“ Meanwhile a 40 yo man dating a 29 yo is accused of "grooming" or being "attracted to a power dynamic" by women his age.” Nah. I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:59 PM
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5 years older is not that significant once you are 18. It gets less so as you age. No one blinked at my husband being five years older than me. 18 and 23 okay. 16 and 21 - vomit. Can we please recognize human development?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:59 PM
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Here is the deal. A lot of us had old men preying on us at 16 and 18. I had a man in his fifties try to get me drunk at 17. My brother was preyed on at 16 by a much older woman, his teacher. This is why we warn women (and young men) about it. Despite what men want to think, I’m not “jealous” - I’m happily married and have no interest in the dating market for myself. Instead I want to give younger men and women the benefit on my hard won experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:57 PM
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Here is the deal. A lot of us had old men preying on us at 17 and 18. This is why we warn women (and young men) about it. My brother was preyed on at 16 by a much older woman, his teacher. Despite what men want to think, I’m not “jealous” - I’m happily married and have no interest in the dating market for myself. Instead I want to give younger men and women the benefit on my hard won experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:54 PM
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Have you been to a gym lately? I just went to group class today - packed with women. So was the gym. Back when I wasn’t a member of a gym, I played soccer three times a week (miss it). I go outside and oodles of women are walking, running, etc. all over the neighborhood. For YEARS, women have been more focused on body image and losing weight. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2692706/#:~:text=Previous%20studies%20have%20consistently%20observed,report%20trying%20to%20lose%20weight. https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:17 AM
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You get called sexist because do sexist things. Going your own way isn’t sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:08 AM
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Lmao. No. “women have criminalized and stigmatized sex work ever since they got the right to vote.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:07 AM
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It really isn’t two sides of the same coin. Women also choose to commit or not. And I’ve watched friends of mine (and I have also) walked on men wanting more commitment or wanting us to remain committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:06 AM
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Yes. Like I agree with this guy - raise your standards. Stop looking at only whether the girl will fuck you and consider whether she carries her own weight, makes her own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:03 AM
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This is one area I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:58 PM
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Christo-fascists aren’t simps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:58 PM
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“ the flip side, a lot of women get validation and attention no matter what they do.” Not really. Maybe on line but not in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:57 PM
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“ When you want to make passionate love to someone....and have no one to do it w/ is the real pain.…” This does not compute. I want passionate LOVE with my husband or the men I’ve dated. Without the love, it’s just sex. How can you want passionate love when you aren in love with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:42 PM
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Men pretend they are so analytical but they just refuse to see this risk benefit analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:36 PM
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Moving goal posts now that you realize your metaphor is trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:17 PM
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It’s not homophobia. It’s an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:24 PM
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So YOU are the homophobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:21 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:20 PM
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“ I agree that women take more risks from sex, but that doesn't change anything.” It changes EVERYTHING. Hey you’ve got a life time supply of cyanide laced almonds! You are SO privileged. For most men there is limited downside to sex. It’s all good even if mediocre. For women? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:19 PM
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“ That's the thing, she will likely drink the popular trending brand and gain clout for it by her peers….” Stop confusing women with men. Men give each other clout over fucking women. Women don’t high five their friends over fucking some dude. Maybe if she slept with some actor or famous pro athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:44 PM
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It’s not homophobia. The point is that you don’t want it. It doesn’t matter how much is available it is. That doesn’t make you privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:41 PM
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Sure. But she doesn’t WANT it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:39 PM
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That really isn’t like sex. Because good sex requires a great partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:37 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:36 PM
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Ah yes, the no true “passport bro’ing” argument. How many men do think went over there and dated the girls, didn’t pressure them for sex, and waited until marriage before bedding them? 1%? 3%? Did you? Did you at least wait until you were engaged? No? Then all you are doing is importing the exact same dating strategy that led to what happened here. Hypocritical. Because most people just serially date. They dated in high school and maybe lost their virginity at 16. They dated two guys in college …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:25 PM
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“… ready to date someone on the same level of attractiveness, personality, and stage in life.” Who says you are at the same level of attractiveness or stage in life? What gets me is how many men here think they can dictate attractiveness or demand that because that he thinks I’m a 6.2 and he’s a 6.3, I’m somehow required to date him or find him attractive. AND here is the thing - all those men are chasing the same 22 year old skinny girl? That means her value is higher than a mid but skinny 22 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:06 PM
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“ There has never been a time in history where men have displayed to women the sheer hatred and vitriol that women show to men today.” So you’ve never cracked a history book huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:52 PM
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“ Women want and create patriarchy through what their vaginas get aroused by. Men compete to get vagina.” LMAO. So men are really so weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:49 PM
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“ We want to because we've been conditioned by the gynocracy to crave female validation….” This is why roll my eyes when men claim that it’s women who are the sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:48 PM
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You are just advocating that men become betabux on steroids right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:43 PM
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Ah yes, PPB, where the women are all “traditional.” Except most of those men don’t want to be traditional. I’ve spent a great deal of time an interest on those subs. Why? My mom is Cuban and my step mom is German. One of my brothers is an ex pat in Switzerland. A cousin is in Japan married to a Japanese lady. My family is stock full of people have married internationally. You know what I see on PPD? Men going over there, using the strong buying power of the dollar, to jump themselves up to a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:15 PM
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Fuck yes king
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:02 AM
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So you’ll just settle for “any woman” as long as she’s average?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:01 AM
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And women have always competed against pin up girls and porn. Even more so now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:00 AM
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Who is flashing their dick on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:59 AM
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So you expect a woman to be entirely reliant on you monetarily and then be completely destitute and screwed if - god forbid - you are hit by a bus or cheat. I guess you are looking for a fool. My husband gets a wife, two kids, and a sex life, and money money money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:38 AM
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“ I went to sleep after getting home from work. Have a temporary condition in which half my face is paralyzed and feels like my nerves has been hit by a train and a boxer at the same time. So I take a quick nap when it feels the worst.” Ooof Bell’s palsy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:21 AM
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Or you know, men can just be less promiscuous. … it is always very telling to me that men insist women control themselves to keep MEN in line. Tell Chad to keep it in his pants. But you won’t because, You think Chad is awesome and don’t have one problem with male promiscuity. You want to be Chad. Some men hope that they will hit the lottery or go to SEA and use financial arbitrage to become a real Beta Bux and indulge in all the promiscuous sex you want. 3.. Chad will laugh at you. I see no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:18 AM
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“ I was all-around a much colder man, I had SO many more women confess stronger feelings towards me compared to pre-glow up. Even women who I knew before my glow up that saw me when I was a happier and better person, had all of a sudden developed strong feelings towards me. ” So do you now understand why women are sick of hearing how much better we have it just because men want to use us for sex? I mean, according to most men, we ought to be THRILLED to be so sexually desired. But you weren’t th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:08 AM
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“ Women love romance in large part because they receive the vast majority of benefit AND control with less investment. Look at romance novels or films: love triangles where a woman is choosing between two suitors bending over backwards to offer love, women exiting committed relationships to pursue another guy because the spark is gone, men “yearning” (hear that all the time, “bring back men who yearn”) for a woman. You’re the princess in the tower, the man has to slay the fire-breathing dragon j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:04 AM
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“ but because they’re being TAUGHT to be REPULSED by them.…” For all the complaining about women getting fat, have you seen what has happened to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:00 AM
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“ they eventually start expiring biologically speaking (don't blame me for this, blame biology), yet mix of self-delusions and hypergamy prevents them to settle down.” Or maybe they don’t really want kids. Then there is no need for settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:59 AM
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“ Well back in the past it wasn't hypergamy, since women were relatively broke compared to men and men generally had higher status by default. So the women brought.” This is false. Hypergamy was more common back in the day. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a38495515/hypergamy-definition/ Since women could not themselves have jobs they were forced to marry for money or social standing. It was first identified in Hindu class systems, hardly modern day. Now women can make their own money, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:58 AM
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Hey as long as you all know the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:50 AM
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-Entering into a legal contract that puts a metaphorical gun in the woman's hand pointed straight at him. Whenever she wants she gets half of everything he earned and half of everything he will ever earn. (This isn’t the least accurate. As an example, when I split from my first husband, I paid him 2k to go away. We both were poor. No alimony. No nothing. And why do you keep assuming all the money is YOURS? You don’t think women make money? That user Aberxon or whatever always points out that in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:49 AM
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long answer: casual sex is more fulfilling/enjoyable and less risky for men and men enjoy sexual variety more (in general/on average). (Irrelevant to my point. Very few men choose to forgo sexual activity out or worry that some woman in the future might find their promiscuity upsetting. That men indulge in casual sex more than women is irrelevant.) women's biological clock is ticking faster than men's, so prioritizing committed monogamous relationships earlier in life makes sense. (Irrelevant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:33 PM
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It’s just a glimpse into their extremely low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:14 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, boyo. I like a ripped man, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:12 PM
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Only tweens and the men of PPD believe that love is unconditional. And of course the men of PPD seem to expect unconditional love, not give it. Adults know that unconditional love is for children and is an invitation to abuse. A man treats me bad, he loses my heart. My brother’s ex was physically abusive. I danced the day he walked out. You can sell your Disney fantasies elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:11 PM
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If she wants it to be lack that, I have no urge to torch her view points. I’d never stay with a man who hit me. I’d expect him to leave if I did
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:38 PM
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I don’t consider that sucking. No love should be unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:21 PM
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“It’s just theirs no benefit to being with a woman in old age.” This reaffirms that women should sacrifice nothing for men. No wrecking their body by pregnancy. No marriage. No taking care of the house. Just work on their careers, sugar baby to feather their nest when young, ride some chads, and accept perimenopause and cats with pleasure. Thank god my husband is a prince
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:19 PM
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So do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:15 PM
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“…. First, many in the manosphere believe that if women were not on the CC from a young age, and if there were no OLD, as well as other cultural changes….” Stated another way - Look women would find me hot if they knew they had no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:13 PM
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“ No, the solution is that they settle down with their attractiveness match and either stop having “fun” with higher value men that will make their future long-term partners of the same attractiveness upset….” Do you think one man has ever turned down hot sex because he’s worried that some speculative woman in the future might not like it? No. Way. In. Hell. Why should I care one iota about what some unknown man might think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:11 PM
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