TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

SnowyCherryBlossoms Archive

View 0 posts and 1,572 comments by SnowyCherryBlossoms on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 1,572 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

God damned, I feel for your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:04 PM
1

No but they scream and break shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:03 PM
1

Most people are “invisible.” Like wrf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:58 PM
1

“ If men were as opportunistic, selfish and egotistical as women we would still be living in mudhuts.” Gee why do you have bad experiences with women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:58 PM
1

Because OF and scammers are on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:56 PM
3

“ and the fact that merely being in the vicinity of a woman in a work environment is extremely dangerous for men…” This is such bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:55 PM
1

Women worked factory jobs - holy shit. And always have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:53 PM
-1

Want to reverse women’s rights
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:51 PM
3

Five years isn’t that significant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:49 PM
3

That’s your cope but strangely fathers don’t like their daughters dating much older men either. Guess those dads are all jelly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:48 PM
5

15 years? Lmao? No try 60 years. No, lots of women voted for him. It was an anti-incumbent backlash due to post pandemic malaise and was world wide. He’s dismantling what RED STATES have depended on for fifty YEARS and I love it. Suicide rates up among Idaho farmers. Veterans tossed out of the Va. West Virginia losing black lung protection. The red state “fuck women” brigade is going to get slammed so hard. Me, I bought all new IT before the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:46 PM
1

“ I truly believe this sort of “stop moaning and get on with it” attitude towards single men is the reason why Trump won and why conservatives are slowly taking over.” Women voted for him, so no. GenZ dumbass men who voted for him get to graduate into a stagflation and recession. And conservatives are not slowly taking over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:42 PM
5

Yes. He should. If he wants an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:40 PM
0

Look at what they do not what they say. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:39 PM
16

every time a man bitches that a woman needs to lower her standards, marry early, give shots to the mids, or tell her she’s going to die alone with cats, that is men remote-managing women’s decisions. Why don’t you stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:36 PM
0

Lmao - “manipulation”. Nah that’s just the girl code whisper network that warns women away from trash. You wanna know why older women do this? And I absolutely do? Because we’ve seen the red flags and we give a shit about our friends. You just don’t like it because it makes it harder for you to manipulate. Here is a warning to you - any man or WOMAN who tries to isolate you from your friends or family (ie support network) is an abuser in action. My brother was married to an abusive woman and she…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:25 PM
1

Yah, your friends are shitty. Imagine how much more quickly men might actually move on from users or bad matches if their friends warned them the girl was bad news. My family and friends tried to steer me away from husband 1. I should have listened. He was shit. My family and friends loved my now husband. They adored him, although one friend kind of wished I’d dated her brother. My husband is a gem. In HS, there can be mean girl competitiveness. But decent women with decent friends grow out of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:19 PM
1

None of this makes any sense. Let me spell it out I get to decide whether i endanger my life and my body by fucking a man. There is no FAIR when it comes to a person’s body. I didn’t get to fuck any man I wanted to fuck. You don’t get to fuck any woman you want. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:55 PM
1

“ man wanting a specific woman and it's about women being allowed to adapt to the man's demands.” Conditions? What? If a woman wants to fuck a specific man, is he required to do so? No? If a man wants to fuck a specific man, is he required to do so? No? So why is it different for a woman? Why does she need to “adapt” to shit? Just like the man she has the right to say NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:52 PM
1

This is a complete non sequitur. This is not gendered. Men and women have the same legal rights when it comes to sex. A man can agree or disagree to a woman’s request for sex. A woman can agree or disagree to a man’s request for sex. Legally the same. You are mad that you want sex with women who don’t want sex with you. So? That doesn’t change our legal equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:49 PM
2

It proves your point is dumb. Water or food is in no way analogous to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:45 PM
1

Not to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:36 PM
1

Are you making that money now? Or in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:34 PM
1

“ Men, like it or not are the backbone of society, the way you keep men invested in society is by giving them a family, religious leaders figured this out many thousands of years ago.” No they aren’t. If they were you wouldn’t have to bribe them to participate. Women are the backbone of society. They are the ones who birth the babies and raise them and maintain the social structure. And as you point out - they are what can keep men as part of that society too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:28 PM
1

Yes they are. All mammals abort or practice infanticide like mutherfkkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:24 PM
1

Cool. I’ve read about Fourth Turning. It’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:21 PM
1

Look if all you want is a companion like a pet rather than a partner, stop complaining that she wasn’t willing to be your partner when she was 22 and you had nothing. You are saying, “I don’t want a partner - I’m not looking for a partner.” While at the same time complaining that these women weren’t willing to be your partner when you were poor. This is what it all comes down to - you wanted a super cute agreeable trophy wife - and are mad that you couldn’t attract one until you made money. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:15 PM
1

“ You're quite literally telling men to be happy missing out on dating over their entire young adult lives as if that's nothing.” Grow the FUCK up is what I’m saying. I was born in the impoverished side of a wealthy family. I got to watch cousins go on ski vacations and trips to France while I dug through second hand clothes stores. My cousin was/is a certified Stacy. Fucking blonde bombshell with huge natural boobs. She dated all these rich trust fund babies and was taken on fancy trips (she al…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:57 PM
2

There is nothing more abused on the web that the misunderstanding of the fall of the Roman Empire. It ignores the difficulty of administering something so large, the need to have essentially two (and then four) emperors, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:44 PM
1

Oh sure. But they are also great little pets. You’ll see!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:41 PM
1

“ A woman can go to a bar or club and get overwhelmed with attention.” Like no. This is such a give away. A mid does not get this attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:40 PM
1

I know MEN who ridicule others for needing help. I’ve rarely seen a woman do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:35 PM
2

Boy Scouts abused the fuck out of their kids and were destroyed by multizillion dollar lawsuits. The GS never had that and sells crack (aka thin mints)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:34 PM
2

“ mid Becky will do in these cases.” Meanwhile men here: “I don’t want to be settled for after she fucks around with Chad!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:28 PM
8

Men should probably think beyond just sex and good companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:27 PM
0

This is a bit crazy making. I am committed to my husband and I intend on it being a life time commitment. I also understand that tomorrow is promised to no one. Maybe he cheats on me (boggle my mind), maybe we fight too much or become incompatible. Shit happens. It’s a long road. I’ll do my best to keep my heart in and treat him right. He’ll do the same. But if the worst happens, I’ll get up and keep on living. Because there is another sunrise I want to see. And another country. And another pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:21 PM
9

Society in general cares more about women's mental health than men's. (False) There are many more easily-available resources for women, (As the mother of a daughter with depression- every option she has, so do boys and men. Intervention at school. Gender neutral suicide lines. Special vet lines primarily for men. Tons of churches have men’s and women’s support groups and divorce groups. I found out that the USDA used to have suicide lines for farmers (mostly men) but then Trump cut it off.) wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:11 PM
3

I actually agree. My husband is more romantic than I am. That’s why I laugh over this guy claiming that men are less emotional. They aren’t. Women tend to be the pragmatic ones, especially with kids. This is why we have guys here squealing over whether his gf thinks he is the biggest dick they’d ever fucked in bed, and women are like “sure; he dated a prettier woman but that was ten years ago. I’m good.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:05 PM
2

Who coined the term “ball and chain?” Was that women? No it was men… FROM THE FIFTIES. This revisionist bullshit does not fly. Men have always bitched about having to “commit” to women or being forced into marriage. And it’s been like that for DECADES.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:03 PM
3

Is that why men abandon their kids and women don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:01 PM
1

This shit is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:00 PM
2

Men in the fifties were calling their wives the ol ball and chain. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:59 PM
0

Who coined the term “ball and chain?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:59 PM
2

“ It’s not that women dont want stability. It’s that theyre more fine in chaos.” Jesus fucking Christ. Have you been married or in a LTR? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:57 PM
5

“ Central theme with men is they want stability because theyre not emotion driven. Basically once they commit they want that to last.” This is hilarious. Men are just as emotionally driven as women. Men are notorious for wanting to “sReAd ThEiR seed.” The kings of cheating are middle aged men. Men are - due to socialization and testosterone - bigger risk takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:55 PM
–

“ creating systems of social shame around women being mean to men who initiate (not for saying no, but for saying "gross, fuck off")…” While l have always encouraged my girls to be polite rejecting boys, it’s hard to stop this kind of meanness. And sometimes the polite rejection isn’t heard. I’ll note I’ve never had a bad experience turning down a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:50 PM
5

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:44 PM
–

[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:43 PM
–

And it really does reveal one of the reasons they might struggle. Like dude, I’m married. I STILl don’t owe my husband’s body. He HAS turned me down for sex. And that is his right - because I don’t own his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:40 PM
–

Women aren’t billionaires dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:38 PM
–

I think this is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:36 PM
–

Men absolutely can and do sue for equal rights. There was a case where I live where white men successfully sued a county for discrimination. And this was in the early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:06 PM
–

There are no men with 0 available women. Just go to Nevada. (This is kind of hilarious btw - my daughter is gay. Any gay man or woman will tell you that in a small town they have ZERO potential partners, which is why they go to places with significant communities like Atlanta, San Fran, NYC, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:05 PM
–

“For reasons”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:03 PM
–

Enough men have access to consenting females that we don’t need additional vaginas. Glad we agreee!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:02 PM
–

My body is not an inanimate object like water or air
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:00 PM
1

Women are not privileged in marriage or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:58 PM
–

Same same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:57 PM
1

Women try to help the less fortunate men. Those men claim they are lying. Rinse and repeat. I don’t bother trying anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:57 PM
–

I’d want to read that study because i know two women who are down right bottom of the barrel who never could get a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:56 PM
–

Very few, actually. All I see are conversations about men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:54 PM
–

So a gay man should be able to use your body since sex is a resource, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:52 PM
–

My BODY is not a resource you ghoul
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:51 PM
–

We’ve been trying to convince boys for years to not cat call, stalk, or scream vulgarities at women. Tell me how well that’s gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:49 PM
–

“ on career; no longerr contributing beyond their own basic survival needs …” Like no. All you all demonstrate is ignorance of history. There have always been men and women who hovered at subsistence levels. Men don’t just strive for sex. They also like having money for computers and a decent car and a roof over their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:48 PM
7

Uh consent to sex is sex on each person’s terms. Men get to decide whether they have sex or not with a consenting partner. If you don’t want to have sex, that is entirely your choice. Same for women. No one can force you to sleep with a sixty year old fat smoker. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:45 PM
–

Hey a lot of women - including me - are fine with outlawing circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:41 PM
30

“ Then get out of societies that are built by men. You drive cars made and designed by men, you eat food that was grown by men, you use electricity that was harnessed by men. You get the pattern.” Then get out of schools, get your kids out of our day care, get out of restaurants, out of hospitals, and out of the court system. All places kept running by women. See how dead you’d be without nurses. You wouldn’t have crispr or understand DNA without women. You wouldn’t know how to fucking read with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:39 PM
2

You insult my husband. Sorry no one cares enough about you to defend you online. “ But that doesn't mean he wouldn't prefer fewer negatives.” You want SO BAD to convince me that my husband just doesn’t quite love me or want me as much as he would have had I had a lower n count.That I’m just not quite up to snuff. You keep trying, post after post, to keep slipping in that insecurity - that I just won’t quite be loved enough. I’m sure if he was here, you’d be whispering in his ear about how he’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:48 PM
–

But not as difficult as men over forty. Shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:33 PM
3

No advice dude, just hugs. My husband met me when he was 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:14 PM
–

“ If enough average women see enough average men look to other developing cultures where the women are not as demanding, then there will likely be a change of some kind.” Why? Apparently seeing women with higher valued men hasn’t made men change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:00 PM
–

So you rewrote her comment and added words to change its meaning. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:58 PM
–

Chickens are really nice pets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:56 PM
–

It’s another implicit threat. We’ll take your rights
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:55 PM
–

Lmao. What? If you can’t get W1 or WW2 straight maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:52 PM
–

Wow. Yes ladies - your only value is your looks. JFC. I wouldn’t date a man with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:51 PM
–

So cats are better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:50 PM
5

“Even in your worst case scenario where a woman was dumped for a new wife she would still be entitled to half of his assets. She wouldn’t be SoL and nobody is saying to be a stay at home wife.” Not every state is a 50/50 asset division. Most aren’t. Half of nothing is still nothing. He jettisons her before he makes the big bucks as a doctor, she gets nothing. They have to have assets to split it. This happened a lot in my mom’s day. Women investing in his business - time and free labor - it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:46 PM
2

“Her money and labor are meaningless when you’ve already built a life for yourself.” Wow. Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:03 PM
–

Here is our disconnect I think. I agree you wouldn’t want someone to marry you for your wallet. I wouldn’t like it either. My now husband was very gun shy himself over this. He liked that I was independent and had a good career because it meant I liked (and now love) HIM. BUT, that doesn’t lead to your next premise - “ They should have invested early and helped to build something together instead of waiting at the finish line to date whoever crosses.“ I don’t think so. That sounds like the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:01 PM
–

Looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
–

I worked as hard or harder than most men and succeeded in a highly competitive field. I worked far harder than my ex. My now husband also worked really hard. Did he have to work “harder” than me? No. And how could I “ignore him” or these girls “ignore you” if they didn’t even know you back in the day? You guys really REALLY reveal yourself with these comments. You think men buy women. Men that earn lots of money and want to buy the best looking most agreeable woman as possible. If that’s the dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:10 PM
–

But if she didn’t know you or reject you when young how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:00 PM
2

I agree with this. 20% of each sex. But for ME? Like .001%. My husband has ruined me for other men. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:57 PM
18

I agree with this. 20% of each sex. But for ME? Like .001%. My husband has ruined me for other men. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:57 PM
3

No, they’ll FUCK more women. But for a relationship, men have a much higher bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:50 PM
2

He doesn’t realize what bad sex is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:42 PM
3

So you’d be willing to forgo having orgasms forever so long as you are getting uncomfortable boring sex every three to four days? That’s what bad sex is for women. It’s not “oh missionary again but I’ll orgasm.” It’s no orgasm and it’s uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:41 PM
7

Red pill communities are ALSO a biased sample. But this isn’t about the longevity of marriage - but about getting into a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:38 PM
1

Those are great traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:36 PM
3

Damn I need to find that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:33 PM
4

Men constantly say they want “agreeable” women on this sub or submissive. But man they’ll date a bitch if she’s hot. So you can stop being so self righteous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:31 PM
18

It’s interesting. Someone posted studies that show men and women cheat equally in their twenties - and maybe even women more - but middle aged men are the emperors of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:30 PM
6

Men: women need to spell out that they want hot men. Stop gaslighting! Women: ideally I want 6/6/6 Men: wahhhhhhh, women’s standards are too high. Like women know men want the hottest mid twenties girl they can get. And we know because of high school, movies, and society hammer it home. Men don’t put that shit in their profiles. But somehow men miss the memo even though the football star got the cheerleader.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:28 PM
6

And that is a problem with online. But men don’t want to invest a lot of time either it seems. Like long letters or careful pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:13 AM
12

Are men dating women that they aren’t attracted to physically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:10 AM
2

Oh I just care that you support equal rights. Not that you need to do anything for women. Do women not even want to be your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:16 PM
3

My man is .000078!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:14 PM
5

“ There’s a lot of ugly dudes who have pulled great looking girls by being funny, charismatic, caring, etc.” Why is the award always the pretty girl. Why can’t they just date the ugly girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:55 PM
2

“Those actually compatible with us were told and taught compatibility incorrectly and men have to settle.” Yes only women are aimless sheep unable to gauge their compatibility. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:52 PM
3

Okay. I was with a lot of late bloomers I guess. I married (disastrously) at 22. Most of my close female friends married at 28-32. I married the second time at 31. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:50 PM
0

Yes that is what you whine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:46 PM
4

This has been exploded a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:46 PM
-1

Yes we understand that men don’t actually believe in equal rights or the lofty ideals of the constitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:45 PM
8

Yes they do. As soon as you say don’t be fat, be young, and be agreeable, you’ve just eliminated a huge swath of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:44 PM
7

Yes it is. It’s MY LIFE. I don’t owe ANYONE the time of day. No one pity dated me or gave me a chance in high school. I was the wall flower nerd girl. No man goes out with a girl he doesn’t want to fuck. When I glowed up, I wasn’t obligated to give a guy a chance when he looked past me to the cheerleader.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:42 PM
8

I think it’s probably shifted to mid 20s now. But I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:32 PM
6

My husband’s was: is she military friendly? is she gun friendly? is she dog friendly? is she gainfully employed? does she think I’m funny? is she a decent weight and reasonably athletic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:31 PM
16

Ding ding ding. I dated using Match when online dating was still pretty young. It was POF, Match, eHarmony, and Chemistry. I don’t think Tinder had rolled out. I had a rule that I’d meet a man quick and not mess around with a lot of texting or messaging. This was for two reasons. First, I look better in person. Second, I had done considerable research due to Romeo and Juliet scams into how the internet creates a false sense of security. There are so so many things that photos cannot capture. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:25 PM
–

Because many dudes wanted ONS and casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:29 PM
1

Yah not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:28 PM
2

This makes me laugh - especially the chocolate. High five girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:26 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:24 PM
1

If you always insist on your way or the highway, then yes. But if you occasionally swap off then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:23 PM
2

My relationship is the same. I’m married to a smart and strong willed man. We work cooperatively. He doesn’t lead; neither do I
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:21 PM
5

This hits and has been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:18 PM
1

Right? It’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:16 PM
3

“ You have to uncouple a powerful, evolutionarily wired behavior sex from its historic emotional implications: bonding, attachment, exclusivity. That requires a level of emotional override, not neutrality.” No it really doesn’t. Sex has the value that we give to it. It can be deeply intimate or a fun romp in the hay. And people can have different views on sex even in the same week. Make up sex is the BEST most emotionally charged. The sex I had last night with my husband was purely about my plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:15 PM
4

Any evidence to back up your claims? Especially when claiming women are more susceptible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:08 PM
–

So yes, you did it to hurt her. Get therapy. Stop taking out your anger and insecurity on random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:02 PM
–

You should see how pissed guys get when they fuck you and then expect to date you and you say no. L-M-A-O.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:00 PM
–

“ That’s never applied to any other quality like height, financial status or weight” It most certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:58 PM
–

Or she gets FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:56 PM
–

Pair bonding is for voles and birds, not humans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:54 PM
–

“ If it's the truth, it is the truth whether it is spoken or not.” And this is the insecurity right here. Best man is opinion. But you think there is some objective truth you can divine and you will hold on to it no matter what the girl says.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:52 PM
–

Like right? I married husband two even though he was shorter because he was better than everyone, including husband one who was 6’2. He was and remains the best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:51 PM
3

I’ve been approached in front of my dad. It was awful, awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:04 PM
2

Why do you assume it’s a woman’s primary goal to get married as soon as possible? Why do you assume it’s a woman’s primary goal to have kids? I have tons of friends who either didn’t want to have kids or only wanted one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:56 PM
1

If attraction is relative, the fact that “ average men not putting the effort that they need to put in appearance wise and socially in order to make themselves attractive” means that women are relatively more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:50 PM
3

Fuck that. I’m mid and got a 17k engagement ring 18 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:56 AM
1

Oh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:48 AM
3

There is an old saying - and if my aunt had balls we’d call her my uncle. Look he could have picked my sister. She was interested. She’s his age. She’s even a little prettier with a n of 2. Oh wait, then he’d have to deal with a real prude. That girl is about as fun a plank of wood. He got fucked in plain sight in the middle of Lake Tahoe for our honey moon. That’s what you always forget about buttoned up virgins. They often stay that way. Stop trying to neg me. I’m not a Barbie doll sealed in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:47 AM
6

Like dude, her boobs aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:42 AM
4

Hehe YUP!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:40 AM
10

Good attitude. It makes me appreciate my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:32 AM
1

Wow. You should tell your wife what you say here. She should see how you speak to women contemplating pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:52 PM
1

Okay, you made me laugh. Nah, you are right. It just pisses me off because a lot of people downplay what pregnancy does to a woman, but then wonder why birth rates are falling. At least we have octopuses beat - we don’t automatically rot away and die after giving birth - but jees, it is hard on the human woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:50 PM
2

When we sneezed, when we got into pushing matches, when we really put power on the ball, we’d get a little leakage, yup. I would pee immediately before playing and during our half time. https://www.pregnancybirthbaby.org.au/amp/article/bladder-weakness-after-birth I can’t help it that you guys are so completely and utterly ignorant of what happens to women. But honestly it’s no shock women don’t want to have kids anymore. Why would we ever want to have kids with people who shit on us and laugh a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:46 PM
4

So men are so weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:11 PM
1

Plenty of stupid women voted for him. Load of dumbasses
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:10 PM
1

I think it’s fine for black people to refuse to date white people and vice versa. Myself, I don’t like that super white skin attractive despite having really really white skin. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:08 PM
1

It isn’t okay for anyone to pour a drink on you for saying “I’m not interested.” Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:06 PM
2

List these “numerous studies.” Because studies show that MEN have an inflated ego. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:03 PM
2

Men do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:55 PM
1

I shower once a day at least. But people with curly hair often already have dryness issues so they need to use soap less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:55 PM
1

Swimmers or a heavy outdoor job. I dated a master electrician. He showered two or three times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:53 PM
5

That is crazy making. I’ll go outside without makeup all the time. But I have beautiful skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:49 PM
4

So you are going to aim at the billionaires right? So you need to aim for the chads. Shame the guys who whore around. Shame the guys who cheat, who lie to women, who go trolling, who refuse to commit. After all, if Chad would settle down and not whore around, then women wouldn’t get to waste their time. You won’t though. Because you want to be Chad:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:47 PM
3

Or let the market speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:40 PM
3

Lmao. The internet is full of women who say they don’t need 6-6-6 but you ignore them. You hear what you want to hear and ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:39 PM
2

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:28 PM
3

Uh. We see plenty of dudes shirtless or nearly shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:28 PM
2

Me too girl me too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:14 PM
6

Damn dude. Feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:12 PM
12

I agree with the wife. Someone wrote an article on it on bluesky that was good - the before guy is still pretty in shape but looks like he’d be a great ride and snuggle late on a Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:10 PM
0

This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:08 PM
5

I was going to say. I was “part” (ie had friends in the lifestyle and visited clubs) and they happened but were rare. Threesomes and swaps tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:06 PM
1

You sound like a really cool and interesting person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:00 PM
1

Cucking and hotiwifing is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:56 PM
4

My first experience with male sexuality was in first grade when a boy kept rubbing his crotch on my butt (had on shorts). I ran away from him because it was deeply unsettling. He was in my school class though and messed with me several times. As an adult, I wonder WHAT THE F was going on in his house. I had to have a conversation with my girls about the scenes in the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:53 PM
2

Brava great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:50 PM
1

He just can’t wiggle away from his own latent misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:50 PM
1

Ah yes, it is fine to call a virgin year old a slut because … you didn’t get the hot 23 year old. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:45 PM
1

“ Nobody chastizes (GUYS) for wanting sexual experiences, especially not the women who desire them.” I don’t chastise guys for wanting sexual experiences so long as they are seeking them from someone who wants them. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:43 PM
1

I love your comments even tho I am NOT down with ass play
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:40 PM
1

Number 2 makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:39 PM
5

I deliberately did not pursue one guy with a very high n count because I thought he was a bad long term bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:38 PM
4

I think this is a really good point thar guys miss. A man who is attractive and has a high n count has enough pluses to override the negatives. This is why, despite men’s shaming or high n count girls, they still get married. The most promiscuous girl I know IRL married several times. And it was because she was sweet and smart and good looking. The other one just married once and remains married. Because she was GORGEOUS and a good mom and treated her husband like a king once she settled down. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:36 PM
2

In my personal experience, men don’t like virgins that much IRL. As an older teen, boys didn’t want to mess with virgins because they are clingy and stalky. So the only boys interested were those looking for serious LTR and when you are young, not many guys are. The girls who were virgins in college were usually weird nerdy and needy types (again boys aren’t looking for that type of issue) or deeply religious. Although not as bad as men, women who are virgins late late are usually odd or deeply …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:29 PM
2

Girl, this is how my husband and I have run our life. And it is SMART.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:21 PM
2

Stop pretending every place is Ukraine. Eastern Europe is famous for holding on to traditional gender norms. Look at Hungary and Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:20 PM
10

Most women work. And they work after marriage and after kids. Men disparage that, but the truth is, even if she’s only making a third of the money, that money is very much needed to keep the roof over their heads and gas in the car. The man can’t do it himself. If he can’t do it himself, they are both providers. I mean, I married a masculine man who could support us alone. I still work. I worked and supported my ex while he went to school (and I’m 100% fine with that). So I’m over this silly “wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:16 PM
4

Clearly, you suck at math and actuarial planning. I have spent the last seven years deeply involved in the insurance industry. Long term planning considers not only the most catastrophic results (dead mother) but the other serious results (mother disabled several years, mother has stroke and can’t work, child is ill and requires constant medical and time investments) all of which could impair the earning potential of one or both spouses. These are actually far more common. I had to take reduced …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:06 PM
2

“In 2023, one hundredth of one percent of women who gave birth died. That's the reason your response is "It doesn't matter".” that ignores the substantial long term injury and disabilities women experienced. Every one of the women who had kids on my soccer team (athletic women) had urinary incontinence issues. I ended up with HTN. Women end up in chronic pain, broken hips, and permanent injuries from birth. Multiple pregnancies actually SHORTENS a woman’s life. https://abc7chicago.com/pregnancie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:58 PM
5

You have got to be kidding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:35 PM
2

He isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:05 AM
3

No we don’t. Prove that. I’ve been consistent defending both young men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:04 AM
1

Eh I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:03 AM
1

No feminists do not do that. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:01 AM
10

Lots of comments are really supportive of the second guy. I don’t get it. Are you mad that the comments didn’t specifically say “if she wanted to she would?” They are very critical of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:59 AM
2

No women are not more emotional than men. This is tiresome: https://lsa.umich.edu/psych/news-events/all-news/faculty-news/are-women-more-emotional-than-men--not-really--study-finds.html “ As for autistic people sure they can be emotional, but their outbursts tend to stem from difficulty vocalising how they feel OR because they're extremely passionate about their hobbies/beliefs. For example I've seen my fiance get a little heated over someone getting the classification of an animal wrong.” So th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:55 AM
3

It really says a lot that you consider women who have sex previously as spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:29 PM
5

“ Very few women have the emotional capacity to regulate the fact that it was a one time thing and they shouldn't let it ruin regular men for them.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:27 PM
2

Holy shit - why not just broadcast that you have a tiny penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:26 PM
2

So? I see oodles of men paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:24 PM
4

“ The endless whining about the behavior of the minority of men who are most desirable. The average penis size being notably less voluminous than what we’re best able to surmise to be most women’s preference.” So nothing but your fee-fees - not data, not systemic studies, just rage bait social media nonsense. No matter how much you try to dress it up, you have made it clear that it is pure emotional insecurity that drives men’s desire for low n count girls. And then guys wonder why women avoid v…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:24 PM
1

No that’s the insecure decision
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:17 PM
3

Lmao. And men can’t have the most sexually satisfying women. We should all just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:14 PM
2

Strange how men aren’t subject to these pressures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:12 PM
9

Daily reminder to men, It doesn't really matter why women prefer taller, more handsome, and charismatic men. It's a valid preference (whether or not it makes sense to you), we're entitled to our preferences, and there's nothing you can do about it. End of discussion. We can close up PPD now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:10 PM
7

1. https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ It’s funny that the gender that claims to be so logical is the exact opposite. Just like the church fathers who rejected Copernicus’s heliocentric model of the solar system, you think your personal opinions and feelings can replace data. Think about it. If you don’t know if a child is yours, you are less likely to kill it, especially in a small tribal society. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:07 PM
11

Reminder, current studies indicate that paternal uncertainty actually improved social cohesion in Neolithic tribal society. Our ability to work together is an artifact of paternal uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:45 AM
1

Mine is…. 10. After 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:43 AM
1

How dare they decide to settle down ain’t another consenting adult!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:42 AM
3

“ Most men aren’t great in bed and don’t match women’s best experiences even when they maximize their performance.” How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:38 AM
4

Stuck in my head now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:33 AM
1

She’s a trad lady. Neither she nor me are spokesmen for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:30 AM
2

But they looked better. (And yes I prefer it now)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:29 AM
1

Good, tell that to all the men bitching here that women want good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:28 AM
4

“ mate value rank among women is lower than yours among men.” You guys suddenly don’t understand how markets work do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:27 AM
4

Or be particularly happy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:26 AM
3

Yeah, they are super welcoming until you come out as gay. You claim that men look “masculine” and women look “feminine,” but then you claim a short awkward Asian man with some hot woman. He isn’t masculine then is he? Some bald dumpy guy with another hottie? He isn’t traditionally masculine then is he? I’ve seen the stats. You want a marriage that lasts you get a college educated girl and marry in your late 20s. “ what I noticed belied what I've experienced in dating most my life living in more …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:25 AM
4

Me too. I have no idea why I was downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:22 AM
3

That’s it. And lots of guys here advocate lying and using women to lose their v card and then just moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:27 AM
1

Yah, that is one of the things that helped break my sister lady - being unable to handle men’s aggressive sexuality. It left her deeply scarred. My fourteen (she’s now 16) year old autistic daughter was targeted and stalked by a boy for months. It was bad ju ju and I was up the school’s grill. My daughter is now terrified of men. TERRIFIED. They don’t know how to pick well, lady, or read the interest of boys well. It’s nothing but threatening. I’m just glad my daughter wasn’t raped like my siste…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:21 AM
6

I agree with encouraging men to go into care fields and education. We had a male pre k teacher. People gave him the side eye. He was great!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:58 PM
3

I agree with all of these
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:55 PM
31

Me too. Here is the funny thing - when I was pregs and we didn’t know if it was going to be a boy or girl, I did all this research and came out against it. Hadn’t even crossed my hub’s mind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:55 PM
3

Circumcision and selective service
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:54 PM
2

I think this was a great essay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:52 PM
1

Going to another country to pick out a bride. The Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:50 PM
2

You know, fuck YES
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:49 PM
2

“ This is why i hate feminists.” Girl, you are the one telling people they’ve never been in real love and spitting complete ahistoric pablum about the past. But when it all goes to hell, you’ll thank god for the path blazed by feminists, just like this Mormon trad wife: https://youtu.be/10hkLw-2pqg?si=Uqi7Se5wMwGmKDYL Why a Man is Not a Plan. Good luck lady, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:46 PM
2

Considering the idea of marrying for romantic love is a very recent development, I’d say that your views are factually incorrect and demonstrate a deep naivety of the past. Marriages were business relationships first and foremost. It was rare to get a love match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:41 PM
3

What the hell, woman. This? This is shitty pick me behavior - not OPs post but THiS. Just because other women choose differently doesn’t mean they’ve never been in love. One of the marriages I personally know that went the whole distance - married in their mid twenties until he died at 83 - was one where the woman generally wore the pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:37 PM
2

Lots of women in there too, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:33 PM
1

Eh I bet she finds it restful - no responsibility, no decision anxiety .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:31 PM
2

“ I believe in " freedom in discipline" especially when it comes to health.” YES “ I've been a caregiver since a very young age. Have to know how to do it all when one of your parents is disabled.” Fuck dude, are we twins? SAME. Except when my parents split, I was the one child left with the disabled parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:29 PM
2

This is what you need to understand. A lot of us aren’t cut out for that. I stayed home for a short period as a SAHM. I like doing traditional female things - I liked cooking (still do) and don’t mind cleaning. I painted and gardened and became so fucking depressed I wanted to sleep all the time. Here is the other thing - men are human. They cheat, they die, they lie, they can become abusive - JUST LIKE any human can become, so I will never ever give over the reins of my life to anyone else. Nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:22 PM
–

Men don’t want kids either. Stop blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:26 PM
2

Im fine with unsuccessful men being turned into eunuchs and slaves - for the good of society dontyakno - to slave like worker bees in the bullshit fields to support the genetically superior males. After all, dive human rights are irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:25 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:20 PM
3

Dragoncon. You are not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:17 PM
4

Wishing that young man the best
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:12 PM
2

My sister is ND. I promise you it is hard on women too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:12 PM
0

You are posting this under someone who claims to be ND and admits to engaging in pure manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:11 PM
1

It’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:09 PM
0

That last paragraph …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:09 PM
6

That’s a man who his learned to play to his strengths. My man never ever ever ever forgets a birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:08 PM
2

Anyone who closes themselves off to all modes of communication is a fool. Middling poker players know better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:07 PM
6

As someone who’s daughter, sister, and father are autistic AND who is married to someone very likely on the spectrum, I laugh. Yes, they are very smart. But they are every bit as emotional. In fact they are often unable to recognize or regulate their own emotions as effectively. They are every bit as likely to get their feelings hurt. Watch what happens when two oblivious autistic people try to date. Holy fuck they stop all over each others toes. Of course there are people like my husband and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:04 PM
17

Taps the sign: The boy scouts opened to women in order to stop from dying. They were in deep bankruptcy because of decades, long cover-up of gross and systemic sexual abuse Of boys. If they did not get girls in there and participating, the Boy Scouts would’ve been gone as an institution. Frankly, in my opinion, they should’ve gone. The systemic, abuse and cover-up of boys was absolutely unacceptable and an example of the free market speaking. Girl Scouts are fine. Have been fine. And continued j…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:17 PM
28

The boy scouts opened to women in order to stop from dying. They were in deep bankruptcy because of decades, long cover-up of gross and systemic sexual abuse Of boys. If they did not get girls in there and participating, the Boy Scouts would’ve been gone as an institution. Frankly, in my opinion, they should’ve gone. The systemic, abuse and cover-up of boys was absolutely unacceptable and an example of the free market speaking. Girl Scouts are fine. Have been fine. And continued just fine to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:16 PM
4

If you are outside of a committed romantic relationship, you have to give all of your earnings that exceed the poverty line to the state. lavender marriage. A romantic partner can file a complaint with the ministry of loneliness and sexlessness, documenting issues with sexual frequency that are based in the other partner's willingness to have sex. so that all that matters is sex. Nice. Way to show you don’t understand and have never been in a relationship. So long as the spouse can counter file …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:32 PM
2

“That is the problem. Like patriarchy arguing: we have patriarchy, we have the right to oppress women.” - and that was how it was for years. More than that, we had governments that imbued kings with divine rights and stripped large groups of people of any rights. - this is why men need to think twice about stripping women of their rights. There have already been grumbling about stripping poor men or takers of their rights. - so to comes down to enlightened self interest. “ I am also a biologist …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:21 PM
2

Correct. We don’t pressure them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:15 PM
0

Are you 70?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:10 PM
-1

a one night stand ghosted you. Correct. Is anyone trying to make that illegal? your date didn't pay for your dinner or give you a ride home Correct. Men are not obligated. And fuck I wouldn’t want it either. a man didnt walk you home or to your car or take care of you when you were drunk Correct. you don't get paid as much as a man who works more hours at a more demanding job Correct - it’s called equal pay for equal work. Do you think the rules are different? your male co-workers like to social…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:09 PM
2

“ Men's natural, somewhat untamed sexuality and energy supect? Check.” Good. I don’t get to run around like an untamed ape, so neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:04 PM
4

Why is it that a man can call a girl a whore and talk around behind her back? People gossip. Ir sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:03 PM
5

“ feminism that make women act entitled and treat guys like shit.…” People refusing to date you is not treating you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:02 PM
0

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:38 PM
1

Nuance. A little money for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:31 PM
7

Women also can fail
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:28 PM
0

I won’t touch a religious man with a ten foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:26 PM
7

I mean, men swear up and down here that they totally wanted to wife someone up at 22 or 25. I tend to see it as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:25 PM
3

This is a perfect example of why older women warn young things away. But any woman who falls for the bullshit at 28, eh that’s on her. “Lying and manipulating is fine so I can get pussy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:21 PM
10

Old men have baggage. That’s why it’s cringe when they try to date young things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:18 PM
3

Nice personal attack. I’m sure the mods will step in. Right???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:18 PM
1

Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:17 PM
7

Nope. My brother was groomed by a teacher. No one was happy about it. and it won’t seem to post but I listed tons of articles that use the language in the headline sexual assault and rape for when female teachers abuse male students.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:17 PM
4

NOPE - you are just biased and talking out of your ass. First my brother was groomed by his 9th grade world history teacher. No one NO ONE thought it was fine he was targeted by a 20 year older woman. Second, Samples of recent headlines: https://people.com/teacher-accused-sexually-abusing-15-year-old-allegedly-wrote-disturbing-note-11708619 https://queensda.org/teacher-charged-with-rape-of-14-year-old-student/ https://nypost.com/2025/04/01/us-news/christina-formella-breaks-down-after-being-charg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:14 PM
4

Nah, we criticize the fuck out of older women for doing the same thing. Come up with a different card to play to try and shut us up - try ageist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:05 PM
8

Women who date significantly older men are often shamed. We’ve had a few women in May-Nov relationships talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:03 PM
14

And most older men aren’t looking for a woman to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:00 PM
3

Women have the same access to the dating market that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:35 PM
6

Yes, I’m not risking pregnancy and STDs for your ten seconds of pleasure. So yes, fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:34 PM
2

“ here's a general societal effort to make women independant from men, but to keep men dependent from women.” Really? Tell me how men are dependent on women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:28 PM
7

We have the right of free association. And ugly people aren’t a class of protected people. And there are limits where we shouldn’t let government trespass. One of those areas is the most private and intimate humans have - intimate relationships. We don’t force racists to marry black men or women (or vice versa, a black woman marry a white man) Do you want to be financially pressured into marrying a fat single mother? No? Because that is what you are inviting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:23 PM
-4

Go to bed and re-read 8 hours of deep sleep. This type of post is what I mean about men having fallen for the Disney BS, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:16 PM
3

People don’t like it when a far older women is dating a 22 year old man either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:13 PM
3

No, dear, we feel the same about young men being preyed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:10 PM
8

My brother was preyed on by his high school teacher (a woman). I also was preyed on at 17 by my 50 year old boss. I get so mad at this narrative that older women are jealous. No, we are just experienced. Once a person is 24/25, I get a lot less concerned about age gap marriages (ed or relationships) .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:08 PM
5

We’re infected by Calvinism and Puritanism. I’d work a lot less demanding job if I didn’t worry about medical care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:03 PM
3

European runs into American expectations. Mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:02 PM
2

This is a good nuanced take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:00 PM
5

No, dear, it’s just that we’ve had the experience of being the the younger woman. I don’t like it when much older women hit on very young men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:59 PM
4

“ Women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships.” If men are so slave to their base desires then they should be kept out of all leadership positions. The next pope should be female.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:57 PM
19

My 50 year old boss got me drunk at 17. Totally fine (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:51 PM
8

Not the man, but the older person - at least that’s my view. But again my brother was groomed by a female teacher twenty years his senior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:48 PM
1

I mean, read twilight. Bella is pretty formless. Edward is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:30 PM
2

No for the dude it’s being a hero and getting all the hot chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:28 PM
3

Oh it was a very useful question - because it shows that men refuse to take “just anyone.” You put the bar at “horrifically ugly.” The above guy says “ is not actively ugly…” As always looks matter. And yet men still complain that society gaslit them into thinking that being nice was good enough. It never has been. And they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:13 PM
1

“ is not actively ugly, ” Yup exactly. Character isn’t enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:09 PM
–

Right, and look at the shit stains in the administration - pure white male DEI hires
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:26 PM
–

Is it just in men’s natures to be violent predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:22 PM
–

So weird. I am a busy lawyer and mom, and I have a writing group, knit, play soccer, and DnD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:18 PM
–

Scott Galloway has donated beaovoup bucks to make it easier for poor people including men to get into college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:17 PM
–

“ Women typically wear makeup, even though most men hate it, and then claim that it isn't deceptive at all. You are purposely wearing makeup to change your appearance. How is that not deceptive?” Men like makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:13 PM
1

“ Also, personality is overrated when it comes to causal sex, which young men disproportionately want.” To hell with them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:10 PM
0

Women aren’t more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:09 PM
2

Once again, Whiskey has to start talking about fat chicks. Dude is obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:05 PM
1

Hey sorry about your mom, man. That’s sounds hard all around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:03 PM
1

And the teachers are going to be encouraging too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:01 PM
2

This needs to be upvoted a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:00 PM
3

Esmeralda didn’t end up with Quasimodo. And I hate Beauty and the Beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:59 PM
-2

Nobody going to click some link to a random person’s ranting on Wordpress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:56 PM
1

Did they really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:55 PM
0

Bahaha not in the movie are you kidding me???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:54 PM
3

You literally ADMITTED it’s about confidence and charisma … YOU And humor, passion, ambition, and superlative communication are all wrapped up in charisma. So those girls, by your own standards, aren’t lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:53 PM
1

Why do they expect to get a hot girl when they aren’t hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:50 PM
3

Yah, men have to stop pushing that nerd fantasy bullshit. It’s like having a 70 year old Stallone play opposite some 20 year old like he’s still an action star.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:49 PM
1

“ a subset of girls angry that they were told that they were beautiful at every size.” Bahaha no you won’t. You have no idea the sea girls and women swim in when it comes to weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:47 PM
2

I see you sis. Although none of my friends acted petty like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:46 PM
0

always blaming the mothers. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:44 PM
9

The same men who snarl meanly at women that they need to “choose better” even at 19 are simultaneously whining that no one told them that being physically attractive and charismatic attracted girls. But no, girls are supposed to know automatically who the bad guy is FROM her first relationship but never boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:42 PM
1

I mean, I’ve got kids this age now. And they are ALL talking about who is dating whom. It’s the water they swim in. My youngest hates it because she is not into boys at all right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:38 PM
0

Damn I’m a chick and my brother told me the score - “lose weight.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:36 PM
11

This is healthy. And ask yourself - would a good character girl be enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:35 PM
2

I LOVED THAT MOVIE. And it totally set my male Chad kink - Harrison Ford - hot and intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:34 PM
6

The Hunchback of Notre Dame is an amazing and iconoclastic Disney movie. Took dead aim at religious hypocrisy. And they took all these detailed measurements of Notre Dame they were able to share when it burned. Such a wonderful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:32 PM
2

He did what … who is the comedian who said it - that conservative men go after strong independent beautiful women to cage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:30 PM
6

Tangled and Frozen broke the mold. And in Frozen Kristoff criticizes Anna for insta love - and is entirely right. But keep in mind, Kristoff is still big tall and athletic and rugged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:28 PM
3

You guys just love your black and white thinking there buddy. Let me know when women ever said we were the “exact same.” We deserve the same legal rights, we are very similar, we are the same species. But we are not in fact identical twins. You making the same amount of money or scoring the same girls as a tall Chad? No? Congratulations, you just discovered that men aren’t all identical, either. Not all men get to make money as professional athletes, actors, or models. Guess you need to bar them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:33 AM
1

As a Xennial this doesn’t surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:42 PM
2

And boy did they love their Valium and booze
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:36 PM
3

But apparently pressuring a girlfriend into premarital sex is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:34 PM
1

A lot of Muslims don’t. Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:34 PM
1

This is a great point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:33 PM
3

And he had a bunch of affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 PM
1

Let me know when you decide Chad should be accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 PM
2

If you don’t care if women have sex, why are you trying to punish (oh I’m sorry force “accountability) them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:30 PM
3

Being second class citizens for women wasn’t great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:29 PM
2

Then don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:27 PM
2

What a tell. In your world man = independent and woman = dependent. Hi, I’m going to be just like men - earn money any way I can that’s legal. Men get to use their biological advantage for certain jobs like oil rig worker and make bank. Why should a woman not use her biological advantage and be a cocktail waitress, bottle girl, pin up girl, model, or only fans worker? If there is a market, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:27 PM
1

Who said a 10/10 baddie? I said, “only if a prettier one isn’t available.” And it’s quite clear, going outside, women absolutely date men under 6 feet. My bro is 5/11 and scored a cute blonde general surgeon. My husband is 5/7 and scored a cute blonde lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:02 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:55 PM
2

You’ve already made up your mind. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:29 PM
1

Gonna whip out the measuring tape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:27 PM
1

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:27 PM
2

Sure I don’t mind . We are Xennials, white, Americans. Me: lawyer. Him: D.Sc. he hadn’t even finished his B.S. when met him. He is stereotypically male - ex mechanic, a scary shot, adores soccer. Likely on the spectrum (runs in both our fams). Built like a tank. Short MF but so am I. Treats me like a god damned Queen. I had been married before him. I did what redpill said you are supposed to do. Married a guy at 22 (he 25) right out of undergrad. He was 6/2 out of the business school. On paper h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:22 PM
3

Feel free to enact laws to control male sexuality if you think it’s a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:38 PM
3

Tell me how much you judge promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:27 PM
5

Let me know when women start high fiving each other like men do every time they score.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:25 PM
4

Sorry to tell you that men don’t have a monopoly on him being able to enjoy sex anymore. So sad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:17 PM
3

I hear that a lot. But I can’t get the thought out of my head that Women are less happy than they’ve ever been, at least by any metric we can measure. And a LOT more have mental health issues. Men are on the decline too, just at a less dramatic rate, and could directly be tied to women. Of course, it’s all women’s fault that men are so super depressed. It couldn’t be the complete erosion of good paying jobs the rise of gig work, or the following out of the middle class, which was perpetrated by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:16 PM
5

“ Actively wanting to be home makers and mothers. Bonus points for not actively trying to compete with their spouse in all walks of life.” They had no choice so wanting had nothing to do with it. Just because I have a job doesn’t mean I compete with my spouse. You all have toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:11 PM
7

Whereas men were always sluts and are sads they no longer have the monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:03 PM
1

Lmao. They were hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:02 PM
3

What double standard? This always cracks me up. I i’m expected to have a job and be able to support myself? So a man should as well. Where do you get this idea that women get to not have jobs or get to sit at home at their parents house doing nothing but stuffing their face with bonbons until rescued by some man? And getting a decent man requires you to be a decent woman, including being gainfully employed. My husband expects me to be faithful and not cheat. I expect my husband to be faithful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:58 PM
12

So was mine. He and my grandma were married to different people when they met. He was born in 1899. (I’m the youngest of the youngest child). He then hit on one of his step daughters. My parents divorced because my dad cheated with one of her friends. This was the early 80s. My mom always told me I should be a virgin when i married. Yet her marriage was a shot gun wedding. Which they hid until my brother, in his mid forties, found their marriage cert in a courthouse basement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:05 PM
1

“ and if bettering yourself was something that one could learn in high school.. why didn't you follow suit.. could've been better. better be a butterface than a dumpy.” Lmao. Let me spell it OUT for you. Here is the difference between me and you. I learned in high school that looks were king, that I was not the traditionally hot girl and I never would be no matter how skinny I got due to my morphology. And sure I was mad about it - in HIGH school. It’s not fair! I’m nice! I’ll treat a guy right!…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:34 PM
4

God, you guys believe Disney films and rom coms and it is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:10 PM
0

She was a racist piece of trash. You conquered nothing but a garbage pile. And clearly you don’t get into successful relationshipS since they keep failing. And if your current girlfriend was attracted to you because you are a jackass, then she is too. Water seeks its own level. “ and FYI.. SHE Hated black men... I am indian.. she never hated me or my race.” Then why did you say this? “ this woman who hated black men (I am of east indian origins mind you)” Why brag that you conquered a racist POS…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:05 PM
3

You could still find your guy as a virgin young girl, its just that what might've appealed to you was not what the average guy was. No, I couldn’t. Me being a virgin was BAD. Boys knew I wouldn’t put out and they weren’t dating for marriage. I mean if I just wanted to be some guys cum bucket, I’d get USED. But I wouldn’t get “my guy.” No one would commit to me, just fuck me, laugh at me, humiliate me, and leave me on the side of the road. You were a dumpy chick who expected her prince and was un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:55 PM
1

“ Men will get with a woman being nice to them unless she's horifically ugly somehow.” Only if a prettier one isn’t available.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:21 PM
1

InSANE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:19 PM
5

“ ed my brazen devil may care attitude... and I did some heavy raceplay based sessions with this woman who hated black men (I am of east indian origins mind you)” You stuck your dick in a piece of trash. Well shit dude, if all you want is to fuck a bottom feeder that considers your mother subhuman, knock yourself out. The rest of us don’t want a racist piece of trash. Let me know when you get an actual high quality woman who you’d want to raise your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:56 PM
7

No, sorry, no. You know who believes in the Disney bullshit? MEN. Not women, not girls, MEN. You all believe Cyrano de Bergerac wins Roxane. As a woman, I was told that I had to stay a virgin until marriage and be a nice girl and treat guys nice and dress nice and guys would like me. I’m pretty tone deaf but I KNEW by fifth grade that pretty trumped it all. I still thought by being a good girl, a nice guy would want to wife me up. L-M-A-O. By high school I knew that was wrong. It was all sex app…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:51 PM
1

Just 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:17 PM
2

Is it? We got hitched at the courthouse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:15 PM
3

This dude is either larping or is a reincarnation of Claude Frollo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:13 PM
3

That last sentence - 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:11 PM
0

This is exactly my view
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:10 PM
8

Welll it’s not like they base their opinions on facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:09 PM
-2

No, i want male lust to be freed, nah, men and women need to control their lust. also so women dont get dumped old by a lusty man who saw booty elsewhere legalized prostitution in no way solves this issue. I’m not marrying or staying with a man who fucks someone else - whether a prostitute or the WaWA girl. I do want prostitution legalized and regulated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:09 PM
1

While I disagree with your views, you make a good point - not like he’s married any of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:26 PM
6

This literally has nothing to do with the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:23 PM
5

Except women are being blamed. Thats the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:21 PM
15

I also blame men when their wives dump them. Those men should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:20 PM
7

I think this post is aimed toward a certain type of person who literally froths at the mouth disparaging single moms rather than those, like you, who recognize it’s just not the ride they want to take. When I was a divorcee, I refused to date single dads for the same reason. I don’t rage about them online. IE look at the post below
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:17 PM
7

That’s just smart. Whether or not she had a kid, her pattern is not great
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:15 PM
3

I agree but with a twist. I think some men have this fallacy that if they did - a., b., and c. - the world would hand them a woman. I see it all the time here - well, I’ve got a good job and I’m reliable so why can’t I get a woman? But that isn’t life. I was extremely unsuccessful as a teen and young adult with men. Like could not attract one. I was like, I don’t understand! I’m a bit dumpy but I’m smart and I’m loyal and I’m a virgin and I’ll adore him forever and make him cake! I’ll be loyal a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:21 PM
3

Men only go through TRP because they want the result - sex and/or wife. Why should women if they don’t want the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:14 PM
1

Thanks for the kindness. We never should have married but I am very sorry he died. I wish he could have had a happier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:09 PM
2

This. Girl once you’ve seen it, you can’t unsee it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:58 PM
1

I believe men with these attitudes end up in the graveyard and the widows are merry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:53 PM
1

Ah yes, as always, men prove they don’t give a shit about the paper the constitution is written on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:51 PM
1

I didn’t ignore shit. You think that by making some dough, eVeN iF yOu DoNt WaNt To, you have the right to demand her body if she doesn’t want to - that’s worse than prostitution, that’s slavery. A prostitute can say, take your money and shove it. But I’ll let my husband know that since I pay bills, don’t cheat, and keep my job, he’ll have to eat me out until I drench him no matter how he feels at that moment whenever I ask. And if he doesn’t, I’ll just cheat. No fucking respect and I hope to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:50 PM
1

I know what would make a relationship stable for me - and I don’t assume to know what makes a relationship stable for someone else. But I won’t marry without happiness and enjoying my spouse. Nothing requires me to marry or have children. So I simply won’t pick up those duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:41 PM
2

A lot of boys are actually like this in their formative years, I wonder why it's so different with girls. Haha NO. Boys in general are NOT like this at 15. Goddamned, I’m around a bunch of 14-15-16 year olds. None of them are thinking long term or what makes a good marriage partner. 15 year olds are in 9th grade! There is a reason why men marry at 30 and women at 28 on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:38 PM
1

No we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:29 PM
1

That would be a loser, wouldn’t it? If he wasn’t a Chad, he doesn’t deserve a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:29 PM
2

Uh. That is literally what happens. That was the story of my life and a lot of mid’s lives. I was not a hot commodity at 19-22. When I came back on the market at 28, I couldn’t believe all my options. The difference? A lot had gotten over chasing the party girls and were looking to settle down. I fit the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:24 PM
2

I think pure love is the man loving me whether or not I fuck him. He should marry me and stay loyal to me and love me even if I only have sex with him once a year because he should love my authentic self says no man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
1

This, lady, and I’m so glad you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:16 PM
2

Same for men like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:08 PM
1

Nods
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM
1

And “lvm” like OP are also deeply damaged by their resentment and perceived lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM
2

And a lot of virgins like this guy posting are rife with neuroticism and baggage, a lot of it isn’t so subtle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:05 PM
1

This is dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:03 PM
1

Lmao. You are just super beta bux aboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:02 PM
1

Yah that’s why it’s so successful…. Oh wait, checks the stats, nope…. Romeo and Juliet was a TRAGEDY for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:01 PM
1

I mean, isn’t it a thing of beauty? All the latent misogynistic bullshit just comes flooding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:00 PM
1

“ Yes men hate other assholes, how's that shocking…” No, you are deeply envious of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:57 PM
1

“ If another person especially a shitty asshole got to test drive my car, for free I'd be salty but hey maybe that's just me.” The money shot, right there, you give away exactly what you think of women- that we aren’t people but possessions. This is revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:56 PM
2

“ She can be as old as she wants as long as she doesn't have a history of dating men who I would approve of if we're their parent or sibling,” Same same, boyo. Oh wait, you haven’t dated ANYONE at all? I guess that takes you off the field if no woman at all thought you were worthy. You need to decide whether you want to be judged by the past or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:54 PM
1

“Personally I like an angry mid thirties man that hates women for dating” said no women ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:51 PM
0

“ You have a right to be wanted for you, to feel desired beyond the safety and security you provide. Don't let anyone tell you different.” I agree with this. This is 100% right. But keep in mind, the corollary for what OP is saying is that women are only valued based on how many penises they’ve touched - and that’s pretty toxic. He also needs to value the woman based on HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:50 PM
1

This is really a fascinating and different view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:48 PM
2

YES bird this -> “ some men view women as basically interchangeable supporting characters in their lives.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:45 PM
1

But they aren’t necessarily. I’ve known personally two chads. One I dated. One was my husband’s best friend. The one I dated was decent, honest, hot, and asked me to move in. Sure he didn’t promise commitment or marriage. It’s why I moved on - but he wasn’t toxic, he didn’t hurt me. The one who did the worst to me was my first husband, who did commit to me…. But was WORSE than Chad. The second Chad was a cool guy. I liked him and he liked me. Great guy. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:44 PM
2

“ from the get go. That's the entire point. That they should treat partner selection with the seriousness it deserves from the get go.” For a man who couldn’t get anyone to choose him, maybe you should stop throwing stones, boyo. You expect women to be picture perfect from day one and choose perfectly when it is CLEAR you’ve been choosing women out of your league and thus chosen very badly. You should have chosen the ugly fat girl in the corner, right? Or the nerdy mid? But you didn’t. So obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:40 PM
2

Beats being never chosen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:19 PM
2

Puppy for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:17 PM
1

You guys are CRAZY MAKING. Do you think Ronaldo came out of the womb playing perfect soccer or do you think he fucked up a bunch along the way? Do you think you rode your bike perfectly the first time you got up or did you get training wheels or those pedaless versions and fall some and then figure it out? Did you date a girl in HS and maybe fuck this or that up and then did better the next time? There is this stupid idea, always seemly held against women but rarely men, that they should automat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:16 PM
1

In the US, men receive affirmative action to go to college. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:02 PM
3

Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:01 PM
2

“ The same applies to sex.” Then get a prostitute. Because that is what you are demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:20 PM
1

“ Besides I'm boring with my baught and paid for home ,stable life retirement and pension good credit no criminal record and I'm way to short at only 6' 😴 and to broke since I don't make 500k a year.” Would you date a fat women or an obnoxious one just because she owns her own home, has a great job, stable life or pension? “ Meaghan Good was married to a pastor she left him for a man convicted of abuse…” Well it’s clear her picker was broken if she married a pastor. I’ve googled and I have no id…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:18 PM
0

And here we go again. What does fun have to do with building a relationship? Everything. Do you think men date women they don’t have fun with? No. This is a marriage. We must work together over decades to bring up our children, day in and day out. That means we MUST enjoy each other’s company - we MUST be good companions and friends. Lust goes. Sex drives drop. Men sometimes get a paunch. A woman who carries children will get stretch marks and her boobs change. They will both age. You’ll be trap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:06 PM
3

I doubt he has all these women in his DMs. Why would he waste any time worrying about fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:09 PM
2

Then get on men to be honest instead of bitching at women for a clear rejection. A woman saying, “no date” is not the same as man saying, “sure let’s date.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:06 PM
2

I’m a Xennial and found my husband through Match. I watch my kids (z’s) and I’m friends with some people a decade or more younger. I try to make friends across generations . I think dating IS different. I also think Men are a bit rudderless because of it. I think women have REALLY rejected mom-wife as a career path. My mom still groomed me quite a bit to be a wife. I got a lot of “do this to be a good wife and attract a good man.” She wanted me to dress a certain way and told me I needed to golf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:49 PM
4

Hey women can be dicks too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:38 PM
3

Lmao. You are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:26 PM
9

Nope you don’t understand risk benefit. Chernobyl caused about 30 deaths. I get ZERO benefit ZERO telling a man what he’s done wrong. Therefore any cost is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:25 PM
5

Nah, men are just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:18 PM
2

Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:09 PM
–

You can stop telling women what is acceptable and what isn’t, thanks. Women don’t like high body counts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:03 PM
–

The studies show differently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:00 PM
–

There are MANY accounts of medieval sex work. And bishops ran brothels in medieval London.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:50 PM
–

Actually no. Women - like men - tend not to like promiscuity in their mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:42 PM
–

No, just that they are more likely to indulge in extramarital affairs and also get bored with the same body. And all of that is just… averages. You may be different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:40 PM
6

By whom? Nah you’d rather sit on your ass and scream about fat woman even when the fucking post has nothing to do with fat women. You are so fucking obsessed. The running and gym aren’t helping buddy. You are still obsessed with fatness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:25 PM
6

Then he needs to talk to older men married men or his dad, uncle, mentor or go counseling. Here is the thing. Women are tetchy too. My sister is likely on the spectrum. She’s like a fucking landmine. The work I had to use to advise her how to dress corporate casual was mind numbing. Not doing that for a stranger. And the guy needs to also take initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:18 PM
5

Lmao. Jesus dude get counseling. No one says you are shallow if you don’t date a fat girl. Block the assholes in your DMs. That said you aren’t entitled to a skinny girl either. No one is entitled to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:03 PM
6

Your hate of fat women (and of yourself when you were fat) is really scrambling your brain. You probably need counseling but won’t do it. I’ll warn you that I grew up around people like you - formally fatties who despised themselves and everyone fat - and it is really toxic. No one here has said that fat women are entitled to ANYONE. They aren’t. So where is that coming from? They are allowed to lust after skinny in shape men. That doesn’t make them a hypocrite unless they insist that they ARE e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:43 PM
4

Lmao. Plenty of beautiful women get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:28 PM
2

If they bitch they can’t get Chad, I’ll pass that along. But if they are just lusting from afar, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:27 PM
5

No it isn’t. I don’t really think you understand the term hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:26 PM
–

You are incredibly soft. That’s why you keep accusing people of being liars and psychopaths. So very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:24 PM
7

“ No one said it needed to be. Just don’t be a liar.” Exhibit A why this is pointless. Telling someone “no I don’t want to date you” is not a lie. Neither is answering “I don’t want to” to the question why. And why don’t people engage with you and answer your questions? Because you call them a liar. In case you’d like the definition of lie: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/lie “ No one said to have a conversation. Just don’t be a liar.” Again, “no.” Or “I don’t want to date you.” Is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:22 PM
1

I’ll go 15 to 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:07 PM
1

I’ll go 15 to 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:07 PM
-2

Lean and toned (visible abs with decent muscle definition) - think Tom Holland or Harrison as Hans Solo. Dad bod - older Harrison. Middle aged Tom Hanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:05 PM
2

Hey, we are all learning. Hope it’s gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:38 PM
4

So glad you are doing better dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:36 PM
3

“ The boys fathers aren't relevant.” Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:32 PM
4

Not in my family. In my family, the women all succeed in traditionally male occupations. We have an IT developer, a lawyer (insurance coverage), a scientist, a surgeon, and a pilot. 💅 med school and law school have been 50/50 for a while. AND female surgeons have better outcomes than male surgeons. Take your pick me bullshit and fuck off. Not all women are as incompetent as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:31 PM
3

I think it’s good to have men in teaching because representation matters. It’s why it’s good to see a woman as a scientist or a doctor for girls. I agree all teachers should be paid better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:19 PM
14

No matter how many times you claim it’s dishonest, it is not dishonest. “I don’t want to date you” is NOT a lie. And if you ask why, “because I don’t want to” is also not a lie. Refusing to engage is not a lie. You just are too emotional to accept that you aren’t OWED answers or explanations by random people. And you know this. You know you don’t have to give some random guy in the elevator a ride home if he asks. You know you can say “no.” And move on. “ But members of the less privileged sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:15 PM
5

Then he needs friends, first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:06 PM
4

You are proving the PPd women’s point. If you call them a fat cow, they react badly. Shocking. And men also react badly when we say “nah you’re too fat.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:03 PM
6

Dude is talking about being shitty to women to “take them down a peg.” He’s demonstrated exactly why we don’t give reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:02 PM
4

You guys must over the Stacey’s too. I’d say YOU are the one demonstrating a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:56 PM
5

This exactly - it’s one more obstacle to overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:55 PM
11

You are doing EXACTLY what these guys do. We’ve told you that we won’t engage in explanations for a multitude of reasons. Rather than accept that, you call us liars, tell us our reasons “aren’t good enough,” or make some silly appeal to changing to societal morales. You aren’t LISTENING to the no. You aren’t really considering the reason. Here, fine, it’s a debate, but my decision to decline a date is NOT a debate subject to discussion with the guy. This is what many men do. They don’t LISTEN or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:52 PM
10

This. This is why a “no” is so important. There are so many people (one of my kids is like this) who use the “reason” for the no as just another obstacle to overcome. They’ll just argue that the “reason” isn’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:44 PM
17

It isn’t dishonest. Unless they are specifically asking, one keeps one’s opinions to oneself. The fact that you can’t - or refuse - to understand this - leads me to the conclusion that it would be absolutely crazy for any girl to engage you in the why’s and wherefor’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:41 PM
7

No, just pragmatic. Criticism from someone who just hurt your feelings is not likely to be appreciated. Like do you know people? No one wants to hear that their baby is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:38 PM
13

You all just don’t understand the concept of risk benefit do you? Nuclear reactor meltdowns are very rare. But when they happen, they are very very veeerrry bad. Therefore, nuclear reactors have multiple failsafes just in case. Read midnight in Chernobyl for a great discussion of these. Men blowing up are also rare. But (1) the blow ups are bad; (2) telling them anything critical is likely to lead to very bad feelings; (3) which means it won’t change anything - hurt people don’t listen well; (4)…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:59 PM
17

Yup. And frankly, it’s not the woman’s job, it’s the dude’s friends’ job. This is why having male and female friends is important. The only time this is different is if you’ve been dating someone for a while and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:53 PM
1

Shit yes. One of my friends is a rural mail carrier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:25 AM
1

I call it stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:24 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:22 AM
5

Ouch dude, that sucks man. And yes some women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:13 AM
4

I’m friends with three teachers. One makes more money than her deputy husband. One is unmarried and supports herself. The other is a dude and supports himself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:06 AM
9

And every comment you’ve written is incredibly disdainful towards women and girls. Stop being such a snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:04 AM
6

If that’s an example of logic for men, no I don’t think men should be teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:00 AM
6

No he couldn’t. Thanks bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:58 AM
10

“ The top priority is children, not politics amongst adults.” Then all the money must go to women, as they are the ones who are primarily responsible for the upbringing of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:56 AM
5

They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:53 AM
1

Right here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:30 PM
1

So you’re a girl ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:27 PM
2

You know, I’m not sure anymore. Women do still get baby rabies, but I also know many women who have shrugged that off, gotten to their late 30s, and are glad they didn’t have kids. It used to be that you’d see a wife pressing her husband to have kids. That seems to have changed over the last two decades. But that’s just an impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:23 PM
1

I love a self deprecating humor. It’s attractive. I wish you good luck and good karma
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:16 PM
2

Then stop exaggerating. You know for damned well that not all men pamper their wives or take bullets for them. But I’m glad you love your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:15 PM
2

Reins. And no, I don’t want a man to be submissive to. Give me a break. It’s not in my nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:13 PM
2

“Wait so your whole argument is that women would go for mid guys but they are oh so societally pressured.” Not exactly. Only that men can’t pretend that their actions don’t also shape the dating market. And, the demands that men place specifically encourage these kinds of results. In other words, men here tell women to settle for the best they can get when they are young because “here comes the wall.” And men tell women that they can’t have a high n count. That means that women are pressured to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:11 PM
1

To the contrary, young or old, all the male teachers I know are married or dating. Dude in my writing group, single male teacher. Guy always had dates and an active sex life with age-appropriate women. Some of them had jobs like veterinarian. He was in shape, an athlete, but only about 5/8 and bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:17 PM
1

I hope things are going well in your life. There is a lot of smart advice in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:48 PM
3

Yup. Want smart kids, need a smart mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:45 PM
2

Now, the surveys show that women want kids less than men. That bio urge? That craziness over babies? Generally doesn’t trigger until actual pregnancy. I never much liked babies and only babysat because I had to. Then I had a kid and all those hormones swept in. I like babies now a lot. There are a lot of women I know who have gone through the same. They were neutral or negative toward kids until they had their own. And the birth process is so unpleasant and young kids so much work they stop at o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:43 PM
1

“ At best what you can do is wait until 30-40 until women are done "having fun" and are ready to settle. Which, yeah no thanks.” As men here like to tell us - any woman over 30 is used up and and a has been and our greatest value is at 20-25 and it’s all down hill. They tell us we need to find the very very best man - and to consider men in their 30s and 40s if “established.” So why would they settle on a mid in their 20s? Why waste the time. And if men are going to complain about n counts or re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:38 PM
4

Because you and many men do not love women enough to pamper them or take a bullet for them. You haven’t done it; you’re just trying to claim what other men have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:48 PM
-3

Not really. When all you have to go by is looks - that is what you do. Men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:50 AM
4

I know several girls at 40 who have n of 1 or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:49 AM
–

Because it’s not based on biology (women are weaker) women are genetically stronger from the XX. It’s why we live longer. You only look at muscle strength. But we simply endure better. https://today.duke.edu/2018/01/women-survive-crises-better-men morality (women are less morally developed), is that why women commit less crime? Is that why people entrust their children to women and not men? LMAO or intelligence (women are very average). you all never recognize that there are more types of intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:36 AM
6

The rich men wil send them to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:28 AM
–

“ Then what is it based on? Because it’s not based on biology (women are weaker), morality (women are less morally developed), or intelligence (women are very average).” Wow why won’t any woman breed with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:27 AM
4

Talk to men then. 💅 They’re the ones who who always had to be dragged kicking and screaming into having kids. If men don’t care and don’t want to pay child support and want financial abortions, leaving women screwed in a country w/o social safety nets, why should women care. Sorry. We won’t be doing unpaid and unappreciated labor keeping society running.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:24 AM
6

Men only enter relationships for their own benefit too. My husband didn’t ask me out because he thought he’d make my life better. He did it because he thought I was cute and funny. “ Many were never really interested in true partnership, but rather a way to manifest/increase her status and brag about it …” And that’s how we know you are chasing 9/10s. No mid girl is dating a mid guy for status or bragging rights. He has to be really rich, a model, a performer of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:15 AM
0

Online, not necessarily on an app
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:08 AM
0

Dude online, we only have pics to go by. In person you may look better. Also if we meet at a coffee shop, you may charm us. Like this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:08 AM
1

Not in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:44 PM
1

You always are the funniest commentator.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:32 PM
8

Women do not automatically like babies. Got news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:32 PM
2

Love. I mean what? I’ve been married for 18 years. He loves me. He takes care of me when I’m sick. He scratches my back. He never ever ever forgets my birthday. We divide and conquer the world together. We lean on each other. We fuck each other. Like he’s my closest person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:31 PM
2

People need to read you more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:26 PM
–

So for most of their life they have no regret? Sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:17 PM
–

I appreciate the acknowledgment. I don’t devalue motherhood but I live in a capitalistic society where my future is secured by the all mighty dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:09 PM
–

No, you aren’t. You are dealing with another person, not a car or a dishwasher. You only get when someone else decides to give. That is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:06 PM
–

lol, we watch what men do not what they say. And they like the made up and well turned out women in the short skirt and high heels. My husband adores it when I get my nails done and wrap them around his cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:04 PM
4

It is the majority. Most women work. Most women are not SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:03 PM
–

If you knew history, you’d know that the idea of a single wage earner supporting a non working spouse existed only for a brief span in middle class and upper middle class predominately white families. Before that time, women always worked unless one was rich. They just worked shit jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:02 PM
5

She said MIDDLE CLASS to wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:55 PM
–

Yes, my right to go to the same university as a woman is the same as having to SHARE my body with a man. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:50 PM
2

Are you fucking kidding me? She was under the control of her husband. If he said no she was shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:45 PM
–

You all never present one iota of evidence to support this “women have such inflated heads” narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:44 PM
–

You all say we have all this malice, but most of us are paired up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:43 PM
7

Really? Because plenty of men are just fine letting the mother raise the kid and take no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:41 PM
–

My generation - GenX (actually more like Xennial) - was really the first where women had free and equal access. My mother was a perfect 4.0 student but because she was a woman, UVA refused to admit her as a first year. But they admitted my dad, who was not a 4.0, dicked around, left, came back, and basically did a mediocre job. My mom entered as a third year and went straight through her masters - perfect 4.0. When I was admitted as a first year, I was in the first class where women outnumbered …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:37 PM
1

Listen dude, get some counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:45 PM
–

I make money and live with my husband. We support each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:43 PM
–

“ Woman aren't forced to work, those things were provided for them before…” Lmao. No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:42 PM
–

Men have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:41 PM
8

That isn’t what the studies show. They show that both men and women are having less. Your feelings and FOMO aren’t facts. https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2023-08-03/young-adults-less-sex-gen-z-millennials-generations-parents-grandparents https://www.technicianonline.com/news/why-generation-z-is-having-less-sex/article_ff14868c-c55f-11ee-aec7-8ba8cdd38686.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:39 PM
–

They aren’t having that much sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:26 PM
–

Ahum, as a mother “SOCIETY devalues motherhood.” That includes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:25 PM
6

That’s just your insecurity and FOMO talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:18 PM
–

Most of them. Gen z is having FAR less sex and that’s a long term trend. Seems GenX was the absolute horniness. I know multiple girls that never had casual sex. Or maybe had casual sex in a short relationship - six weeks - but that’s it. The stats show that about 20% of the women (and men) out there are having tons of sex - mostly with each other. The rest not so much. It’s why married people have the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:17 PM
–

Then she’s shit out of luck. But here is the thing, all these men here tell us we are washed up has-beens at thirty, and how men only want the young 20s girl, and how they need to settle down in their mid twenties if they expect to get the best…. So why wouldn’t those girls be setting the standard as high as possible? Why waste her youth and beauty on a poor short man? Sounds all red pill to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:10 PM
–

I mean I know two girls, religious, who made that decision in their mid THIRTIES after a lot of lame dates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:06 PM
–

“ relationship if you're going to neglect the other person's sexual needs with no intent of doing anything other than sweeping the problem under the rug…” I mean sexual desire for men and women ebbs and flows over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:00 PM
–

Maybe maybe not. I’ve read enough at deadbedroom to see guys complaining when they don’t get laid more than once or twice a month or they don’t get laid for a couple months after giving birth. It’s in the eye of the beholder And there are plenty of ladies complaining over there over no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:57 PM
1

Okay this is an actually nice response. So here is my recommendation - go read 50 pound above - she’s a size queen. What was the BIG difference between the big dicked guy who rocked her world and the one who didn’t? Experience and willingness to please. I’m not a size queen and I’m telling you that for an average dicked man it’s about how he moves it. I don’t know what kind of rocket nature put into your pocket, but I do know that dick enlargements aren’t easy or safe. But take heart, because if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:05 PM
2

Women call men pencil dicks because it hurts, not because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:59 PM
1

Normally I enjoy what you say but you aren’t the only woman in the world to have had earth shattering amazing sex with multiple organisms. The very best sex I’ve ever had has been with a perfectly normal sized man. And no I’m not inexperienced. And yes I’ve fucked big men. The single difference between the amazing sex and shitty sex has been whether the man knew what he was doing and took the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:58 PM
1

Riiighhhttt it’s the women lying, not the men. The men who constantly compare dick sizes and think hitting a cervix is about “her” pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:50 PM
1

Lots of different angles. Can get the ball slapping going. Easier to deep throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:49 PM
5

Yes I’ve fucked really big guys. The best is around average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:48 PM
4

So discount Beta Bux
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:44 PM
5

Really? I wonder why men remarry faster than women after a divorce? There have been a few and one near divorces in my cohort among my friend’s group. Of the four I am thinking of, three was the man who wanted out and wanted out for another woman. Oh wait, include my brother and that’s four. Two were cheating - literally monkey branching. Two moved on very very quickly to new women. I see them all over Facebook. I am the one female driven divorce I know. I’ve seen several other divorces but I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:42 PM
2

I was thinking the screwtape papers? Great CS Lewis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:30 PM
0

I think so. I don’t do it as a woman for a multitude of reasons. But yes attention. and old people are entitled as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:37 AM
5

It’s amazing how the default person is always male even though women are the slight majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:24 AM
6

This is really not reflected in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:22 AM
4

Why are you assuming that a woman who goes 50/50 is promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:21 AM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:10 AM
1

Nope, you are the guy who claims my education has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:09 AM
2

Still smart. You and your lady take a high five
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:59 AM
3

Both adults didn't used to need to work. Partly because men are happy to support their wife. Men striving to earn money, to attract and support a wife (who has innate sexual value, so he wants her regardless of her income) is a paradigm which works. that was only for a very short period of time post WW2 in the US middle and upper class. For most of human history, women have always worked. So actually it was a paradigm that didn’t work and didn’t last for more than a generation. You should go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:57 AM
-3

Very few people get “gender studies” degrees. Rolls eyes. Too bad you didn’t take advantage of the opportunities you were given
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:52 AM
1

Complete logic fail: “ But even in situations where the man and woman are earning the same, it's usually the woman benefiting.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:50 AM
8

So you are just going to ignore everything she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:44 AM
2

I’ve been with bigger dudes. It hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:42 AM
5

Who says they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:42 AM
10

Stop listening to porn. I have NEVER had a “cervix” organism. I HAVE been hit in the cervix and it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:41 AM
4

Yah those last two things. And hitting the cervix does suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:39 AM
–

Nah your statement is dead on. I think she means the OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:35 AM
2

“ picky—they actually understand their bodies. They’ve been with a guy who can reach deep spots like the A-spot, G-spot, and even the cervix—things smaller guys often can’t hit with the same intensity or fullness. So bigger guys can achieve those orgasms much more frequently than smaller ones .” You don’t know shit about female anatomy. The g spot, the clitoris, and the a spot are not (for most people) deep in the vagina. The clitoris is actually pretty large and rings the vagina and is more for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:35 AM
3

No dear - I’m consistent. I think it’s gross when old men or old women hit on 20 year olds. I don’t care if a fat guy hits on me - the have- and I don’t call them creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:14 AM
1

“ . The sexual part of women does want a dominant man who leads and they can submit to.” I love it when men tell me what I want or don’t want. It’s like you’ve never heard of dominetrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:09 AM
1

I want a capable man. I am a capable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:02 AM
–

“ It does, otherwise you have coercive speech where you cannot express your speech due to fear of retaliation.” BY THE GOVERNMENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:51 AM
–

They aren’t. You piss me off but I am 100% with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:49 AM
–

Nazi’s hated unions: https://www.tuc.org.uk/blogs/ninety-years-nazi-ban-free-trade-unions-lessons-remain-relevant-us-today#:~:text=The%20Nazi%20ban%20on%20free%20trade%20unions%20not%20only%20deprived,rule%20of%20terror%20and%20antisemitism. Nazis hated commies and socialists https://www.thoughtco.com/was-adolf-hitler-a-socialist-1221367
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:45 AM
–

The Nazis weren’t Marxist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:43 AM
–

So… you can speak however you’d like - you just can’t do it within a certain distance of the abortion clinic. I’m sorry, but is a violation of my free speech rights if I show up at your prolife rally in some church with a blow horn and you kick me out? Just checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:42 AM
–

“ Feminists absolutely try to tone police and steer the conversation in a way that favors women. Especially on this site of all places lol” Downvote me all you want, snowflake, but you are literally complaining that feminists are using SPEACH - written communication. That IS the essence of the first amendment. You want privileged speech - you want to say whatever you want and no one gets to say a word back, just like the incredibly fragile Musk. You are the one who is trying to stifle free speec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:41 AM
1

“ Right, whatever advancements college gives, to young men it's not worth it vs working right out of high school” As we know, teen boys are famous for long term thinking, measured cost-benefit analysis, and rational decision making. That’s why their car insurance rates are so low. As to whether higher education is shit and isn’t geared toward men, who says? Because immigrants from cultures that value education sure want their kids attending. And the children of Trump and JD Vance are going. In f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:31 AM
0

If they are both earning the same, why do you assume he’s supporting her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:00 AM
2

Nice. You all did it smart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:55 AM
3

My clients love my education - as much as an insurance company can love - but I’ll tell all those blue collar construction workers they are out of luck when Rodrigo leaves a hammer in the mainline and causes millions in damages. “Sorry, my education is worthless.” And when the roofer takes a tumble and suffers a few fractures - no thanks nurse, no thanks doctor - your “education” is worthless. Meanwhile foreign students beg to get into our universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:52 AM
–

This is pure whatabouttery I'm a lefty and what these people did is disgusting. I can say that and still vote against Trump. You seem like you can't. No, dear, it’s that I actually understand what IS a real risk to free speech and what is disenginuous hackery. It seems you can’t. There will always be dipshit college students who pull fire alarms or use blowhorns. But those are private actors with little to no power acting up like college students always have. They aren’t people with power, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:51 PM
3

Well too bad. That isn’t your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:05 PM
2

And that’s why they have shitty marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:03 PM
1

I don’t want to be supported q100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:02 PM
5

Well if you are Charlie Kirk and say women should be kicked out of college and go make babies, people don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:01 PM
–

None of the ills of which you speak are caused by women or by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:56 PM
–

Good job. You’ve fallen for the right wing propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:53 PM
–

The Trump government is right now punishing people for writing op eds. Sit the fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:45 PM
–

Show me one article where black men focus on white men’s issues. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:43 PM
–

You are the one who has failed ro make one connection between feminism and the draft or the rest of the ills you raise. Do you even understand logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:42 PM
–

Men retire 3 years later, but live 5 years less. the retirement age is the same. That men choose to work later has nothing to do feminism. The life expectancy is due to a multitude of issues that the government pre Trump tried to address. Too bad the CDC and NIH and OSHA and the VA was gutted and they are pulling down the suicide hotline. Who did that? Was it the secret feminists in the trump administration? I see the miners - predominantly men - are suing over the end of black lung protection a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:40 PM
–

Ah so you are mad that women use their own speech? How sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:29 PM
–

It is not the opposite of reality. But just like conservatives, you won’t care until it’s you disappeared to a gulag in another country without due process and beyond the reach of the court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:28 PM
2

He put it out there publicly, didn’t he?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:03 PM
2

Here is the deal. The employer was welcome to keep the guy. And the buyers of their product were welcome to go elsewhere. Boycotts are ALSO protected speech. You don’t want equality - you want PRIVILEGED speech. You want to limit the right of the employer to manage its brand or ensure work environment cohesion. You want to stop people offended by this guy’s gross tweet from exercising their right to take their money elsewhere. Frankly, you all need to grow up. You put your comments on public bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:03 PM
1

Stop being shitty in tweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:52 PM
–

“ Just because someone can be a nazi, doesn't mean you should strip everyone's right to protected speech.” Who is doing that? Oh wait, you think your employer’s right of association should be limited, forcing them to keep employing you? Even though it will lose them business and make other better employees quit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:51 PM
–

“ Why does someone have to fear being fired, shamed, or ridiculed over something they said, especially if it's years ago?” But I thought you wanted to support free speech and here you are - bitching that someone is using their free speech to criticize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:49 PM
–

You sound like a common Californian. That is one of the few states with such protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:47 PM
1

The complete incompetence of this administration is a complete vindication of DEI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:45 PM
–

So you are good with people getting fired. Sit the fuck down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:42 PM
–

That’s called free speech boyo. Why are you against free speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:41 PM
–

Lmao. No. And fuck JK Rowling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:40 PM
–

So there are literally articles about it? But it’s not acknowledged that some white women are white first?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:39 PM
–

So only the first speaker has a right to speak? Never those who object? Thats the same bullshit where Trump supporters can be hateful but if anyone protests, they get arrested. It’s the right that is cutting off funding to universities. It is the right is disappearing people who protest and sends them to Latin American gulags.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:35 PM
1

As a white girl I’ve only managed to avoid aging by extreme care around the sun but damn black women look amazing forever. Men age faster usually. My husband has been mistaken for my father several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:31 PM
4

Because your post was derogatory to older women. Big shock people don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:28 PM
5

Dude, we see fit guys regularly bitching about fat cows hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:25 PM
3

If some old lady posted how she needed a 25 year old man for kids because all the men her age were genetically damaged and lousy fathers, she’d get shit. If this guy was lamenting he waited too long to have kids, we’d have sympathy as we would to a barren woman. But instead he’s pretending his shit doesn’t stink (it does) and trashing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:21 PM
2

No I think they end up divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:22 PM
4

So it’s not just hot and submissive. It’s hot and submissive and will do whatever he wants in bed no matter what. So poster is right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:21 PM
3

If she’s pregnant she puts out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:20 PM
4

Um. No. The guys I picked to have no string sex with were guys I really wanted to fuck. That’s why I fucked them. And no I wasn’t interested in a relationship. Lmao. This is the one thing that TRP seems to get right and here you are denying it…. Women ride chad because they have sexual desire toward Chad. That’s why they fuck Chad. And since there are many flavors of Chad (like a Tyrone here or there). I know it probably makes you get all shaky and insecure, but I guarantee you that even if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:17 PM
2

They never bother to learn about other cultures where women are considered highly sexual and absolutely get around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:01 PM
3

So a man won’t have FOMO if he scores a really hot woman? Or, more likely, you think sex is unimportant to women so if she scores a rich hot man, she won’t care if he’s shitty in bed. LMAO, no. Queen Cathrine Howard scored the absolutely best man she could - the king of England (granted he was way past his prime) - and she cheated on him. 💅 That’s just a historical example. Go to the dead bedroom Reddit. Women say “my husband’s great but….” And plenty of them are super religious types who haven’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:00 PM
2

Especially to know what you like And don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 PM
2

I disagree. It’s like guys insisting they want a caring girlfriend. Caring how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 PM
1

They are in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:52 PM
6

“ It's like how a guy can sit and do nothing and be happy or how we can literally not be thinking about anything at all. You're just not built to get it.” Boy none - NONE - of the men in my life are like this. They all are busy curious people. None of them sit and “do nothing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:48 PM
3

The problem is that society has some very clear guidelines on "how a man is supposed to treat women" but the reverse has been systematically destroyed over the last 40-ish years. i disagree. I think one of the big problems is that men DON’T want to know how to treat a woman. They want to do what their dads did - just bring a paycheck and let her deal with the rest. If you want to piss off a zoomer, ask her how a woman is supposed to treat a man. She immediately goes into fight or flight mode. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:46 PM
7

This too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:39 PM
6

As I said, it all depends on how you define caring or respect or what is encompassed in the “etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:38 PM
6

Such imprecise language. Always makes me laugh when men insist they are so analytical. Where did I say he was the problem? 💅 Where do you see the definition of caring? How do you think a trad husband defines a caring wife? The same as a generally progressive dude? No? Then you now understand my point. Ps before you sign a contract, always ask your self, how are these terms defined. You might surprise yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:36 PM
3

Yah less children. Complete focus on career.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:14 PM
2

You crack me up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:12 PM
12

Yeah, let’s make up shit. It’s not like there aren’t a zillion examples of men fucking around on their perfectly decent wives for the chance of strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:10 PM
12

He said “caring, ETC.” that ETC can encompass quite a bit? Caring HOW? Doing what ever he wants in the bedroom, including FMF? Doing all the household chores? Doing home cooked meals every day? Or does that mean meeting him at the door naked? Or is it just giving him a back rub every Tuesday? Does it mean moving where ever he wants? It all depends on how these terms are defined and how they change over a long marriage. It’s a game play using a vague term “caring” which can be defined and redefin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:08 PM
7

“ don’t believe women can do the same.” you are wrong. To the contrary women - now that there is more financial equality - cheat at the same levels of men at least when they are in their twenties and thirties. I know many women who can have no strings sex for the fun of it. I’m one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:59 PM
3

It’s a thing for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:57 PM
12

lol. Men always claim it’s a dead bedroom. But you are making the point - it isn’t enough she be hot, no kids, and agreeable. She also has to be willing to give him the sec he wants and when he wants - even if it is kinky shit she doesn’t like. Oh and smother him with complements
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:57 PM
1

Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:55 PM
8

“ just want an attractive woman who has no kids and is not crazy.” Most women (like men) are over weight. Most women last a certain age like men have kids. And that term crazy is doing a lot of heavy lifting. What is crazy? The truth is, your standards are not simple and they are - depending on your age range - quite high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:54 PM
14

“ The thing women cannot fathom is that we just want someone who is nice to us.” Lmao. You read the post and still say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:51 PM
12

“ As women are fond of saying to men: if you can’t put in the effort to keep your partner interested, then you have no one but yourself to blame when (s)he cheats.” I have never heard a woman say this.(fn) Anyone who cheats - male or female - are selfish assholes. Fn - I’m sure there are women who do - but not enough to be generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:49 PM
10

So not simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:48 PM
3

Feminists who say the patriarchy also hurts men do acknowledge that society affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:46 PM
4

Sorry. I work and I work in a demanding profession. I expect my husband to also work. He can make less but he needs to work too. Why exactly am I required to give up my feminism card if we both work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 PM
3

But this term “provider” is vague. Personally I think men are morons to marry a woman that doesn’t work or doesn’t want to. I don’t think I have to cough up my feminist card if I expect us both to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:41 PM
5

Because life is expensive and child care falls mainly on the woman. And pregnancy can leave a woman disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:39 PM
6

You can train what you find attractive by monitoring your own social media usage and deliberately going after different traits than you typically find attractive. Nah. I’m not changing my social media habits for men until they do the same. Men need to stop watching Rollo or Tate. Ban men from visiting sites that say women are inferior or should have their rights stripped. Tell men they need to date uggos and fat girls to change their taste. And not just fuck and discard. They need to date those …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:38 PM
1

So glad for you! I love a love story :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:40 PM
1

Generally yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:39 PM
5

She is losing HALF too - you understand that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:38 PM
2

Just yikes all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:37 PM
1

Alimony is rare in the US too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:34 PM
2

I always love to hear a happy love story. Warms the cockles of my cold dead heart. So glad for you guys (seriously).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:32 PM
7

Just remember - divorced men are faster to remarry than divorced women. If it was really that bad they wouldn’t be anxious to remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:31 PM
2

Nah. Men regularly express standards or preferences here of having skinny young women who aren’t career driven. We may pour out why that is dumb but we don’t infringe on men’s right to have those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 PM
-1

Look it’s simple. I bring home 6 figures and have for years. I expect a man to ALSO financially contribute. Not to six figures necessarily but he needs to be gainfully employed. And here is the thing - I didn’t expect my husband to fully provide either. I also expect to be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:20 PM
0

Fuck, lady, I’m so sorry. That’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 PM
1

I don’t expect my husband to punch some guy who randomly insults me. Lmao my husband got into it with another guy over a parking lot. Just trading insults. I stood next to his woman and we looked at each other and stepped into dose-escalate the situation. You all really give away that you all live around trash or date trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:15 PM
9

Yes because men will target single women. That’s why women will say “I have a boyfriend.” Men will keep away from other men’s “property.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:13 PM
9

Never been to a Walmart I see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
4

No, that isn’t the “consensus” - that’s what people post to get attention and your algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
7

What studies? A GQ article?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:08 PM
17

Right - you see it constantly. Man assets all women are x or want x and EVEN if you come forward with a study that contradicts it, it becomes “all women are lying.” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:07 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:20 PM
8

Good on you and your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:58 PM
2

I thought nice = precise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:59 PM
2

Dudes need to re-read this a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:55 PM
3

This. Dude the bastards are the ones who lie. Wanna be causal, go for it, so long as you are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:53 PM
2

So if one man assaults a woman, that makes all men look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:49 PM
2

I got downvoted for making the same point - go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:35 PM
3

Damn did not realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:22 PM
2

Uou think tailors were as rare as Joan of Arc? Ever heard of the Mad Hatter? You know why? Because haberdashers used mercury and were very common and MALE. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/mad-hatters-disease It’s simple - if men do it, they deserved to be paid - thus chefs, tailors, and haberdashers. But if women do it, nah that’s women’s work. No money. The first computer programmers were WOMEN. And they were paid crap, until men got involved. https://www.history.com/articles/coding-u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:21 PM
5

I agree with that. But it keeps getting expanded to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:06 AM
–

You think most would?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:01 AM
–

I mean I’m fine with men being out of the dating market - I don’t care at all - unless they start trashing women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:55 AM
–

I think the problem is that a lot of guys are laser focused on looks when they ought to consider other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:52 AM
–

But that’s the truth. It is ALWAYS a crap shoot. So okay, tall muscular and blue eyed guys are more attractive right? But I never found Paul Newman that attractive. Robert Redford? Wow. Brad Pitt. Not really. I don’t like his face. And never liked De’Caprio. You all treat this like a job application at Walmart - if you have x, y and z, sure you are hired! But it’s much more like becoming a member of a small partnership - you need to meet certain criteria and they need to LIKE you. That last part…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:48 AM
–

This is, you know, really an ugly way to look at the world. People are shitty about Pierce Brosnan’s wife because she’s so fat. You think he’s desperate and can’t get better? Maybe the dude was fat and lost weight. Maybe she was skinny but contracted covid or was really sick and gained weight. Maybe he’s a chubby chaser. But this type of bitterness toward people you don’t know - wow. As if all that matters is a girl’s waist line. Why would any woman want to date someone like that - you gain weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:41 AM
–

First, women can disagree about looksmatch, so no one is gaslighting you. Second, you get what you get. It is a market. If all you get is garbage, then that is what you get. I have a friend, god bless her, who is an ugly fat woman. And she never could get what she wanted, so that’s how it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:34 AM
–

No. Features that look good on men may not on women and visa versa
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:29 AM
3

Yah that’s really jerky behavior on their part
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:26 AM
–

Oh please. One girl says that and you believe it? And why in the hell is asking my question downvoting? People are so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:15 AM
–

Fuck YES
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:55 PM
4

So the OPPOSITE of validation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:54 PM
4

“ Nothing we're discussed is quantifiable, so the "evidence" you're ask for is odd.” If you have no evidence that women are deluded, then stop calling them deluded. It’s not odd to demand evidence - and this conversation proves you don’t have a career that requires intellectual rigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:53 PM
12

“ The point is that some women especially those constantly pursued regardless of effort or compatibility start to internalise that attention as proof of higher value….” Women are in high demand - for SEX. “That can lead to inflated egos despite body image issues or insecurity.” But they are in high demand for sex. So if they get the pick of the litter for SEX. Like I do not understand why you don’t see this - men want to fuck. A woman who is willing to fuck is in high demand because women don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:52 PM
5

Really? Do we have stats that it is “plenty of women?” How many women as a percentage are getting pumped and dumped by Chad? As versus dating a guy six months and it didn’t work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:44 PM
10

Seriously. My ex used to tell me I looked like a man and no decent men would want me. Boy was he wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:41 PM
5

This is what you said: “ The point is that some women especially those constantly pursued regardless of effort or compatibility start to internalise that attention as proof of higher value. That can lead to inflated egos despite body image issues or insecurity.” If someone is constantly pursued, even for sex, that is her value. If I can have a night with some mid or a night with a young George Clooney, I’m taking Clooney. If I am hot enough to be constantly pursued - especially in the real world…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:39 PM
–

Man proves he is a bad man that lies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:25 PM
–

You just proved the OPs point - it doesn’t what women pick, they are doing it wrong. If they pick a good guy, they are exploiting. If they pick a bad guy that’s because it’s what they really want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:23 PM
–

This again. You’ll need to come forward with data that women are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:22 PM
–

“ how many men would pick an average-looking woman with a good heart and a modest figure over a selfish woman with a curvy body, big boobs, or an hourglass shape? Most would.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:19 PM
1

My brother wooed his women by being an excellent cook
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:18 PM
2

“ You mentioned sewing, cleaning and cooking.” Tailors, haberdashers, and professional male chefs have always existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:18 PM
3

“ I’m still hitting and quitting though, that’s for sure.” I hope you aren’t lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:10 PM
–

Do tell me how ordering dessert or opening an umbrella violates traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:09 PM
1

So? How many women date a man who hides his politics and then it comes out of the blue. They have the same choice as you - leave or not. If a gal develops an ick, move on. Honestly do you want to date some idiot woman that would dump you over ordering dessert. Either she’s a vapid flake that you couldn’t build a life with OR she’s lying, which you also wouldn’t want to build a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:08 PM
1

Is this you? “what OP is pointing out is how many women who claim to be "non-traditional" or who are non traditional in other aspects of their life(career/politics/religion/etc), still hold men to their traditional gender role standards” I am progressive. So why is it I’m not allowed to date and marry a man that has certain traditional masculine standards? Why does that make me a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:04 PM
0

Show me an analysis that demonstrates these icks correspond with old school standards and that a majority of women feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:56 PM
–

Show me a man who wants a butch lesbian with a beard. Seems like gender roles apply to women too? I am a lawyer. I have a lot of masculine interests. I wear skirts and high heels and knit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:54 PM
1

Why exactly should we have to accept negatives? So in order for me to have my competent intelligent husband who is great with a drill, I have to be a stay at home mom who can’t do math or “follows his lead?” Where exactly is that written? If I’m an attorney, why do I have to pass on the hot construction worker? It’s such bullshit. A guy can be like my brother - outdoorsy, IT, great at construction and all sorts of manly things, and be married to a surgeon. You guys are so so rigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:53 PM
-1

You are way too invested in your girlfriend’s sister’s sex life. And she is ONE person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:46 PM
4

No really, a lot of us aren’t attention whores. Why is it you’ll scream “not all men” but then will insist some attention farmer looking for engagement through clicks is representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:42 PM
2

“ women. Then Just look at the women with 4-5 kids by multiple men.” Stop dating trash. I know ONE woman in my social circle with kids from multiple men. Just one. She had a kid with her first husband and then another with her second. you all live in bubbles. In my world, rich or poor, women arent towing around three kids from three fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 PM
3

If men looked for the same thing there wouldn’t be so many hit it and quit it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:13 PM
4

Because women aren’t looking for just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:10 PM
1

I have never met a woman who dumped a guy over opening an umbrella. I don’t see any pattern here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:55 PM
2

No it is outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:51 PM
0

Yes they do - oh she’s nagging, she’s hormonal, she’s too emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:50 PM
0

Why am I required to date a man who can’t change a tire because I believe that women should have the right to pursue an education or a career as a lawyer? Why am I required to date a man who likes to knit because I believe that women should be able to have their own bank accounts? Why am I required to date a man that wants to stay at home and vacuum the house because I think women should be able to be a plumber? I married a dude that is traditionally masculine. He’a in IT and used to sup up cars…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:44 PM
-1

I know how to change a tire and fix a faucet. So why would I be offended if a guy displayed such feminine characteristics? Oh you think fixing a faucet is somehow encoded in the Y chromosome?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:26 PM
10

Get some self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:23 PM
1

God damned YES - especially about the cannibalization
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:22 PM
5

So you’ve decided that women have deluded self worth based on nothing other than your feelings. Good job buddy, you are a misogynist. “ What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence.” Hitchens Razor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:19 PM
8

Downvote me all you want but you will see in the last two weeks a ton of posts about men needing to raise their standards and women agreeing. But you don’t look like you do research or seek out data before developing an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:16 PM
3

“ If you want peer-reviewed studies showing how unearned validation impacts self-perception or how male dating behaviour influences female selectivity on apps, they’re out there.” Then cite them. “ But something tells me you’re not here to engage with them. ” Cop out. One more example of you using your own feelings as a substitute for real argument. “ You’re here to deny any framing that asks men to take responsibility for what they feed into the system. That’s fine just don’t call it logic.” Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:14 PM
4

Average Chad brings the point about data. This all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:07 PM
10

Man calls women deluded and with inflated egos. Then gets mad that man is called shallow and stupid. Are you listening to yourself? This post along with a dozen others calls women as a whole deluded fools and you are upset that women point out this makes men sound terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:04 PM
13

Yes but you are wrong about the undesired effect. You -wrongly - claim that it inflates women’s egos. You’ve presented no evidence to that effect. The better analysis is what I saw about lemons. If women are having terrible experiences with overly thirsty men, they simply decide all men are lemons. It’s not an inflated sense of self worth. It’s a reasonable if incorrect conclusion that those approaching equate to the dating market as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:02 PM
18

“Some women.” Women “endlessly pursued.” I’m sure Angela Jolie was endlessly pursued. Does she have an inflated value? Isn’t she “too good” for most men? If a woman is an 8 and is endlessly pursued IN THE REAL world (rather than DMs on insta saying “hey”), isn’t she better than most men? Everyone loves to cite the OK Cupid data on 80/20, but it also shows that MEN spend MOST of their attention on the very hottest girls. Men aren’t going after their look matches. Doesn’t that mean that the girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:56 PM
4

You haven’t offered any evidence to support your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:45 PM
2

With what kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:41 PM
7

Women say it all the time here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:40 PM
4

“ And when attention comes easy, even if it's from men they don’t want, it still subtly reinforces the idea that they’re in demand.” In demand FOR WHAT. That’s what you keep missing. FOR WHAT? Sex. Not relationships, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:40 PM
30

Another day and another claim that “women” are deluded as to their value because they mistake male sexual attention as relationship interest. It’s repeated here like gospel and I have YET to see one iota of evidence to back this opinion up. Men place a huge value on female sexual interest for many reasons 1) men have higher libidos and low costs for sex, 2) if a woman wants to fuck a man that usually means they are also open to a relationship (not always), and 3) women are far more cautious abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:35 PM
1

4 ft 2????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:29 PM
8

“ a dildo museum in Prague older than the White House” that shit is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:26 PM
3

“Allowed”? Yes. Just like men are allowed to have as much sex as they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:24 PM
3

Sigh: “ Beginning in 1839, individual U.S. states started passing laws known as the Married Women’s Property Acts. These laws helped to overturn coverture in the late 1700s that designated women as the property of their husbands. The law allowed married women to own property, keep their own income, and engage in business.” Note that was only in THOSE limited states. Otherwise, when a woman married all of her money was handed over to her husband and she had no independent recourse. “ California p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:22 PM
1

Yes but my husband does. Not everything is about you, darlin’. There are so many other better men available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:06 PM
2

Which is why men murder each other and always have, spreading death and destruction across the world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:04 PM
3

“I won’t talk to you !” He says, while stomping his foot like an angry toddler. Men are very logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:03 PM
2

It’s amazing how weak you think men are. Obviously, women should rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:02 PM
4

Walks outside, sees plenty of short men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:59 PM
6

Your personal feels are not facts. I recommend a remedial logics class to discuss how to lay a factual foundation supported by data for your opinions rather using your personal fears and insecurities. As an example, college aged men and women are having significantly less sex than prior generations. That is evidence. And that evidence demonstrates your opinion is garbage. https://www.economist.com/culture/2025/02/11/does-more-education-lead-to-less-sex?utm_medium=social-media.content.np&utm_sour…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:57 PM
2

This is my point. And I’m sorry and I hope you can get it spiced up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:51 PM
4

I don’t get this. I want to look my best. Just in general. Like a good haircut and my make up on right. I’ll wear cute work out clothes and have my hair up (but rarely make up). Like why wouldn’t a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:24 PM
2

My husband deliberately goes to a black tailor because only black men seem to care about style.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:22 PM
2

“ Obviously women don't find that clever or funny, but women also don't find the "bumbling, incompetent dad" trope on sitcoms funny, either. That's actually infantilizing and infuriating.” God I hated that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:17 PM
3

We do view men as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:16 PM
2

A lot (not all) women spend a fair amount of time watching their weight and grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:12 PM
1

Guys? Aren’t you tired of dudes like this trying to shit on all women? Don’t you want a woman who is still athletic and has nice legs. Or do you want a frump?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:10 PM
–

My soccer league keeps my legs peak. My husband is NOT complaining. You sound like a stick in the mud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:09 PM
1

“ When women believe that their dating value is higher than it really is (see our discussion above)” You all state this as a truism but I’ve yet to meet any women who don’t know that men will fuck anything. Men think women are crazy about them just because they sleep with them. They are the ones who labor under the misconception that their casual sex status is equal to relationship status. Quite a few men are floored when the gal they slept with isn’t the least interested in another round or a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:07 PM
1

Humans are not inanimate objects
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:04 PM
-1

“ picture it - a women that is indepedent/owns her own place wearing a form fitting sundresses highlighting her curves/great body making a spaghetti carbonara dinner form scratch while having a intellectual conversation. Yeah. she's going to be going after the top 1-5% of men easily and will likely completely gloss me over. NOT trying to self-disparage - just pointing out facts.” I’m middle aged now but that was me at 28. I wasn’t going after the top 1-5% of men. But I’ll also point out this - m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:58 PM
0

“ The average young guy goes to the gym, has decent hygiene, and pays attention to his style.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:54 PM
8

Flirting has been a documented thing in literature since the Middle Ages. In books mostly written by men to be read by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:48 PM
14

I agree entirely. And very high promiscuity of either sex can be a turn off. Despite what men think, women don’t like very promiscuous males either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:43 PM
6

Man makes wide insulting false generalizations about women. Man: “nothing I said should offend you.” Men are very disingenuous, insecure, and cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:42 PM
4

“ Again, porn sickness, cuckholdry is from pron. Did he want you to fuck bbcs too? Thats quite common.” > oh boy, Google “key parties.” Swinging existed long before the internet did. Just wow. You have the ignorance of youth and think that only the internet age discovered sexual depravity. He learned it - btw - from his older cousin. That cousin is now a preacher. You should research vintage porn and stop flouting your ignorance. and whatever once was, porn is easily accessible. Pretending that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:35 PM
4

“ This used to be completely standard and the vast majority of married men received this treatment.” how do you know? Do you have any studies to back that up? Any data? Or is this the same false nostalgia where white men in particular pretend the 50s were better because they are completely ignorant of the experiences of women or minorities? Because what our mothers and grandmothers told US is entirely different. Because in the past (less) women didn't have casual sex and hunt for men out of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:17 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:06 PM
5

All women really have to do is not talk about their past partners, and be honest about what sluts they are, so that men can make informed decisions about whether they’re worth the shit on their shoe. this is a complete contradiction - do you want us to talk about it or not? Women lying and deceiving men about body count is a large reason that men will never respect women. and your jealousy and insecurity is why people won’t respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:06 PM
10

“ If he was not pornsick then you two could have worked together to enhance each others sexual highs and thrills.” You think by pressuring me to perform acts to improve HIS sexual highs it would have been better? Think so? After all, it was his constant pressure on me to improve his sexual highs that led right to our divorce. Guess he shouldn’t have pressured me into swinging so I could learn what a truly wonderful lover was like. “I know if a woman has sex with a sexually charismatic man with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:06 PM
7

Women weren’t “settling.” of course they were. Ask your grandmas. They’ll tell you. How about we take away your right to have a decent job, a bank account, or a bank loan and see how pressured you are to marry some woman so you don’t starve. They just weren’t spoiled for choice like they are now. Being “stable but boring” wasn’t the death sentence for men that it is now, because women understood that there’s more to men than dancing monkeys. sure, because men are looking for “stable but boring r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:52 PM
8

“ Hopefully you can take this statement and see how this notion would apply to newlyweds who had not fucked 10 different men that set their "sexual template.”” why is it bad that a woman gets experience and learns what she likes or doesn’t? I had much better sex once I gained some experience. why is it fine for men to gain sexual experience and have a “template” going into marriage than a woman. I know btw from PERSONAL experience that the sexist assumption you are making about women is wrong - …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:43 PM
2

You need to come to the south, son. Our daddy’s made sure we could handle a gun and change a tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:54 PM
1

“In a relationship.” Can understand the difference between a stranger and your girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:53 PM
2

I’ll say that now mechanics use those pneumonic nut wrenches, those fucking studs can get hard to get off. Last time I had to jump on the wench to get the studs off. Still can fucking doing it. Dad made sure. And I’ve done the same for my oldest who’s learning to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:52 PM
2

“There are far more people staying fat than people on GLP-1’s. A lot of those people are also in for a rude awakening when they realize GLP-1’s make their bodies look like shit anyway.” of course GLP-1s are very expensive and constantly out of stock. Not everyone can afford it. And you are missing my point: if everyone thought fat was awesome, there wouldn’t be so much money to be made in that industry. “And what’s infuriating? I just think fat women need to be a lot more realistic with themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:07 PM
2

Ah I’m so sorry about that last lady. It sounds like you’ve got a good relationship going. I don’t understand why you expect women in your age group to settle down though when you too are enjoying the field. God forbid something happening to my husband, I’d probably just lightly date and never commit after that. Also a blue eyed blond who passes for a decade younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:54 PM
7

That’s why it’s coffee, and you pay for your own if he lets you. Look, you may hit it off as friends. I ended up being friends with one of my dates. But if you don’t like him at all, I’d cancel nicely. Here is what it comes down to - if he’s a decent guy, either route you use, whether to cancel before hand or after the coffee date, he’ll take it well and be a gentlemen so long as you are respectful, clear, and kind. If he’s a jackass, either route you use will result in him acting like a jackass…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:36 PM
3

“ people won't participate in that kind of society when they aren't gonna have any romantic or sexual fulfilment -> an unatural system needs to be in place that provides those things to the majority of men that by human nature wouldn't get that naturally…” Why wouldn’t starvation motivate them to contribute to society? Those men who have opted out in Japan? They are still earning money or - my understanding - supported by their parents? When those parents die….. Looking at the hierarchy of needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:49 PM
3

“ But the amount of people being brainwashed into fat being beautiful very much is. Body positivity, fat acceptance, HAES, etc are all female delusions pounded into their head because of the social media they consume.” Facts not in evidence. If people were being brainwashed to think that fat is beautiful, the GPT-1 medications wouldn’t be constantly out of stock, the wellness and weight loss industry wouldn’t be a multibillion dollar industry. It just infuriates you that some people, sick of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:18 PM
3

But YOU too are still on the market. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:10 PM
-3

And yet we are still less shallow than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:51 PM
4

Just have coffee and say it isn’t working for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:49 PM
10

THIS is me to a T as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:48 PM
0

And no one is punishing men who lie about their intentions either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:37 PM
2

It says a lot about you that you think this statement is incoherent: “ Every person has a choice. No one is forcing anyone to settle.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:31 PM
2

I mean if you are going to just pull random numbers out of your ass, I think 80% of men are bondage fetishes that want to be pegged. Every study indicates that men have higher body counts than women and the average body count for both sexes is still under seven. I’ve known some promiscuous women in my life. Nobody has fucked 60! What the hell? I also know some girls who are almost forty with an n count of 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:30 PM
8

She was offering alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:23 PM
3

This is an example of misogyny. You don’t treat women as human
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:14 PM
2

And men exhibit violence broadly therefore all men should be treated as the violent monsters they are. Same “reasoning,” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:12 PM
–

“ Now I've realized the shear hatred women here display to incels and it gives the high body count woman a bitter taste in my mouth.” Im curious? Whet hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:30 AM
–

https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:26 AM
–

A lot of men don’t want a virgin either. There is a difference between a promiscuous person and a person who has had some sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:24 AM
–

No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:19 AM
11

You think misogyny went away? Let’s see, I could hate men because a fifty year old preyed on my virgin ass at 17. Or the two cooks that used to grope and pin me between them and draw pictures of me sucking their dicks. Or the men who post here that women are stupid, takers, deserve to have their voting rights stripped. Misogyny NEVER went away. And we see it and experience it. You are so desperate to avoid your own responsibility you are WILLFULLY blind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:18 AM
1

My husband got furious when rats chewed up wires in his vet. He put his fist through a wall. I could claim that all men “exhibit violent behavior.” You have an opinion that is non falsifiable. Perhaps you should take some courses on logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:10 AM
2

“ Unattractive men are vilified ..” Turning you turn for a relationship is not vilification. Being shitty while turning you down is a bad person. You have dodged a bullet. I know it hurts, but it doesn't mean all women are shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:06 AM
1

I think people are misunderstanding you - I think you are explaining what some men do - not that you do it. I’ve definitely known men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:22 AM
–

Women don’t like male whores either. Studies show…., https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:20 AM
0

Which I think is good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:18 AM
2

Which says you have never been a good person or seen women as people, just sec dispensers. I could have been hell on men when I was younger - athletic, curvy, blonde, blue eyed, highly educated, with a dirty mind. I could have screwed so many men out of meals and drinks and money and trips. But I see men as people and I’m not a user. I know what it’s like to be on the other side. So I didn’t get as much bling. But I sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:16 AM
8

“Rightists and men fail to realise that feminism itself has come about precisely because of the permeation of misogynist zealotry within society and politics.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:12 AM
1

Pass that along to Op. He apparentky thinks men never say or do anything misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:10 AM
1

But this guy says it’s entirely justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:07 AM
14

This is dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:05 AM
4

Girl I SEE you. Let me tell you how much the dating scene changed from 19 to 28. I was the nerdy boring good girl, completely ignored … And then men decided they wanted a wife. They were all over me. I could have been enraged. I wasn’t. Because people need to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:05 AM
13

Like literally. These men proudly say they only care if a girl is really hot and agreeable. They don’t care if she’s smart, shown discipline, worked hard, all signs that she will be a good and responsible partner on the long term. And then are FURIOUS those beautiful girls have shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:02 AM
12

“ The poor soul, has been sitting there with his homemade lasagna waiting in the sideshows, offering her a life full of love, respect, and stability and still being overlooked for exciting chad.” Why is he hanging around? Why isn’t he moving on to someone who appreciates him? Why is all this pining for unrequited love. Oh wait. She’s hot. As usual men can be shallow and lust after the hottie and ignore the basic Betty. A guy can MAKE the choice to wait around rather than moving on. And then blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:59 AM
2

And you guys validate radfems every day. And I feel bad for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:53 AM
17

By this reasoning, all Radfems are completely justified hating men. After all, women can point to systemic long term misogyny that NEVER STOPPED. It’s like you think there was some golden era in the 90s when men weren’t misogynistic. Lmao tell that to the cooks that used to pin my ass between them and squeeze my boobs and butt. Or when they drew pictures of me in the kitchen sucking their dick. So take a bow. It’s all your fault, men. Or grow the fuck up like I did. There are good men (or women)…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:51 AM
6

“ Women have the potential to control and judge us through sex. They show no ability to rein this in. They laugh about who they fuck. Why they fucked them. Mock guys who don't get sex. Give sex away to guys for things or status. And then without batting an eye, expect us to not care about n count, their past, or whether I'll still get any on a consistent basis for committing to her. Giving her exactly what she wants.” You are literally - literally - judging the fuck out of women “through sex” in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:45 AM
3

Be fair, that wasn’t what the poster was saying. It was that she only found two men that met her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:05 PM
2

Getting fucked and tossed aside isn’t a relationship. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
–

Man: “women are fragile hypocrites” women are “fragile cry babies.” And women especially were “melting down” Logos: have compassion! His spite of an entire gender is understandable! Me: dude is “lashing out”. Logos: grabs pearls. How dare you use language that “envoke(s) fear of violence…. Stop treating him like a ticking time bomb.” So, lets just cover it children. A man calling an entire gender indiscriminately fragile hypocrites or cry babies - totally FINE. But if I point out that one man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:00 PM
2

Funny as shit and high five - you got the two most important - alive and consent. I’d hang with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:06 PM
4

“ weight is the easiest thing to change about your looks and probably the most important health-wise, so its a reasonable standard.” If it was most men and women wouldn’t be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:03 PM
5

“ I know that a lot of women want the man to make them feel special, but it would be a very obvious deception because most women are not special in any way, and they know it, the man knows it, the bystanders know it, and the woman knows they know.” Fuck this. No. If my husband thought I was an easily replaceable widget, then I NEVER would have wrecked my body to give him kids. NEVER. And men want to be treated as special, too. Why else do they worry about whether their girlfriends are attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:58 PM
3

Some of you do. The more well adjusted ones. Others will go out with anyone for sex. Remember all the complaining about chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:53 PM
1

Because men will pay for sex. Jesus. Stop conflating sex with relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:52 PM
2

I’m an introvert. I did fine during the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:45 PM
1

Lmao. Some people had crash outs. Why are you claiming that they represented the entire female gender. Should I assume this vicious women-hating rant is representative of the entire male gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:43 PM
1

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:33 PM
3

So where are your rants against men being such POS? Honestly go to a different country. Lots of men form long and deep platonic friendships with other men. It’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:32 PM
2

“ because unlike low value women who still easily join friend groups and find romantic relationships, low value men are thoroughly ostracized from all social circles.” Where are you rants against men then? Where is your screed about how men are hypocrites? Why aren’t you hanging out with the other LVM? Why is it you think WOMEN should be sympathetic but men shouldn’t? 💅 One of these days you’ll need to grow up and recognize that life isn’t fair. I wasn’t born a 5/8 Stacey like my beautiful bombs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:30 PM
2

God it was so awful. I’ll never forget the “crunchy placentas” of pregnant women who contracted Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:26 PM
2

Yah it killed women’s employment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:25 PM
2

“… but no female loneliness epidemic…” Actually there is. Women report the same or more loneliness issues that men do. It’s just that women don’t go on shooting sprees. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/aug/21/young-single-women-lonelier-than-ever-community
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:24 PM
3

Because you’re advocating for someone who is lashing out at an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:19 PM
6

No the spite isn’t understandable. Because he is lashing out at women as if it’s their fault he’s a sexless kiss-less virgin with no friends. firstly, PEOPLE - male and female - suffered from the isolation. This bullshit attacking women as we were such weak crying wimps because PLENTY of men were unhappy (justifiably) about the isolation too. Misogyny gets no compassion from me. secondly, the pandemic was enforced. People had no choice. This angry spiteful man has a choice. thirdly, people misse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:18 PM
7

No it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:12 PM
8

If it’s fine for men to lie about their intentions, it’s fine for women to lie about their intentions. After all if your concern is genetics. So is the woman’s. She can lie about being on birth control. “
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:11 PM
2

You and she both sound pathetic. Ooooo you yelled at some Karen. How studly of you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:08 PM
2

“Without those jobs being done, civilization is not sustainable. Without civilization, women are in extreme danger from both nature and other humans.“ The people who really do not understand the social contract are the angry keyboard warriors who think they can live off the grid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:07 PM
-2

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:05 PM
1

There is no constitutional right to security and you can’t sue cops for failure to protect (except in some very limited situations) - at least in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:04 PM
2

No, we do. We just disagree that the social contract requires women to give up our bodily autonomy in exchange for security. Are men forced to marry? Are men forced to fuck some fat granny? No? Are men forced to perform fellacio on the cops that show up at their house after a break in? No? Then stop demanding it of women. Women pay taxes. So do men. And cops get paid. That is your social contract. No more; no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:03 PM
3

There is no social contract that requires me to get up my bodily autonomy. In fact our social contract by and large bars that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:00 PM
2

You are one of those people who will reduce slavery to an economic investment proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:59 PM
2

No we don’t. I’ll be polite and respectful. But no one - no one - has a right to my love except my children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:58 PM
2

Or people who think they have the right to threaten my life for their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:57 PM
2

“ Women are still having kids and families in third world countries.” Not really that much more than here. Almost every country is below replacement. “They just need to settle for less because they now need protection.” Really I can’t image WHY you have trouble getting women. “Fuck me or I’ll leave you to die!” As if you could. If it goes to hell, the men will just kill you the second you try to take their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:56 PM
2

Bystander affect LONG predated Penny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:47 PM
1

By men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:46 PM
2

Lmao, another Ukrainian Larper. Don’t you feel bad stealing the valor of better men? Do a little fucking reading in history. It can and will get much much worse for men, especially weak, short, poor, ugly, nerdy, and very young and very old men. You all think you are beta now? Bahaha. You’ll be sexually servicing your masters and dying in the mines. It amazes me how so many keyboard warriors here think they’ll be buff thirty years olds with a stockade, medicine, and a harem of adoring women. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:42 PM
7

But BIOLOGICALLY this is untrue: Having less body hair then becomes associated with femininity <<<< hair is one of the signs of fecundity in women. The point is that it’s really easy to claim that men love women at age x because biology but then realize that men selection can be highly socially mediated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:58 PM
2

Bzzzt please try again. I’ve been married for 18 years. Men like me. Ive also watched a significant age gap relationship play out and was targeted at 17 by a 50 year old and watched my brother crash and burn in an age-gap relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:07 PM
5

Actually I agree with you cat dog
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:43 AM
4

Dude you are so fucking pathetic. It’s so clear you’ve never done one worthwhile thing in your life. It’s why you keep having to steal the valor of better men. Like many stupid men, you under estimate your opponent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:42 AM
4

“ a women was say attacked, and there a bunch of male onlookers near by there 100% is an expectation that one of those men help out, that’s a fact.” Nope. No woman expects this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:37 AM
6

14% police are women. And the police protect all genders and the weak and the old. Stop stealing the valor of better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:36 AM
11

God created man equal. Sam Weston made man equal. If you are some beta who can’t score women NOW, you’ll be easy pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:35 AM
13

“ The State is a collective of men who have decided to follow some rules.” Men and women. “ There is nothing you can do if The State changed the rules that took away your safety.” Same for you, little man. You’ll just be some serf sent to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:33 AM
15

“ Doctors, Policemen, and Soldiers hide the truth from you. Gasping for air, drowning in your own blood. Taking cover because some fucker decided to un alive his family. Wiping your friend's brains off your helmet. You don't have to see these things. You get to pretend you have immortality and safety and will live forever if you hug bears.” Doctors are about 50/50 female dude. Everyone one of you came screaming in on a flood of blood and pain. Women are VERY VERY aware of hanging between life an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:30 AM
4

You are trying to pretend all men deserve to be treated the same as the few tremendous men who sacrificed themselves on 9-11. Stolen valor. When you step up and go above and beyond for more than a paycheck let me know. Because just because a man is carrying a badge doesn’t mean shit - cough -Uvalde. What about the female teachers who used their bodies to shield children from gunmen? https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-61593071.amp What about the woman who talked down a school shooter by her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:18 AM
5

Of course, you think a bunch of cherry picked videos is “evidence.” Show me an actual study, not cherry picked bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:57 AM
2

Thank you. That’s exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:51 AM
7

“ We've also organised society to deny men sex/romance.” I bet you claim you are “logical” too and not “feeling driven.” Oh are there laws that keep men from having sex? No? Are there laws that keep men from marrying? Not since Obergafell. Are there laws that keep men from getting dates? No? Nothing in society is preventing men from marrying or dating or having sex. All they need is a willing partner. And society isn’t keeping them from a willing partner. Shit, I married twice! I wish the state …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:51 AM
10

Bull fucking shit. Do you show up on Musk’s front lawn and claim he’s actively hurting you by refusing to give you a million dollars. Do you put a gun against your head and scream at IBM for not giving you a job? Do you show up at the football captain’s house and tell him he’s hurting you because he won’t be your friend? No you fucking don’t. But you are going to claim some woman is causing you harm because she won’t touch your dick? Take that manipulative crap and flush it. No man owes me sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:40 AM
5

Ted was a total sleaze
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:23 AM
1

“ And drunk sex was normalised.” Thank god we don’t do drunk sex anymore. That’s better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:21 AM
0

Men also select among a million options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
1

Sure you do…. Hundredsssss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
3

Pretty typical. Men say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
2

Omg so many men here post that a girl that is too quick in bed is the opposite of relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:12 AM
1

I fucked the guys I was attracted to. I’m not a whore. I never thought “well if he buys me five dinners, I’ll fuck him.” I thought - do I trust this guy enough? Am I horny? Do I want to see him naked? Some of it was how much alcohol I had in my system, which was very much part of how much I trusted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:11 AM
2

why is it that Stacey gets flights to Las Vegas but Basic Becky gets roses if she’s lucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
1

You think those beta bux husbands never have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
3

Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:06 AM
1

No. Men are like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:04 AM
5

No it isn’t . What???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:03 AM
5

“women by and large still expect men to uphold what society would consider a men’s duty protecting women is one of them so your this first point is blatantly wrong.” Nope. I avoid strange men like the plague in questionable situations. I hang with women. Women will band together and protect each other. We’ve all heard of the woman assaulted in broad daylight and no one steps in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:54 AM
3

Whiskopalian here feels seen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:45 AM
2

“ Women though will also believe the tale that they are truly stunning supermodels and never be aware that most of the men on her inbox mostly want sex.” Nah, women are taught from toddlerhood that men will lie, cheat, and steal to get sex. And they don’t get a swollen head over getting a 100x identical “hey m” messages. They get overwhelmed with sorting the wheat from the chaff and abandon the sites. That’s why they are sausage fests
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:44 AM
9

Yup. I responded to that one. They are such fools. They don’t realize how much protection they get from society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:37 AM
15

This is really some fucked up reasoning. The man who ignores me isn’t hurting me. The man who kills me is. Like this is why so many guys here struggle and come across as entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:35 AM
7

Stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:32 AM
1

No one said you should. But stop stealing the valor of better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:31 AM
6

Lmao. They get amazing perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:30 AM
4

A lot of cops are women too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:29 AM
16

“ Men can bring back anarchy. The reason women are entitled to safety is because its provided by state. Sex is not provided by state. Many men are infact looking for more freedom from state i.e Libertarian movements and moving toward decentralization of power.” You all always think you are going to be the warlords in your mad max delusions. But you won’t. Even if you climb to the top, someone is waiting for the old lion to falter, and then he comes in, kills the lion, murders his progeny, and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:29 AM
1

“ Well actually i kinda do i know women like you just like saying that to men regardless if it applies or not.” Why assume that? I mean, I’m happily married and a HLW and enjoyed fucking men in my bad old days. Like people see feminist and think I hate men. Like no. I love men. I think I misunderstood your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:17 PM
6

Tell me how much you appreciate your teachers and daycare workers and old folks workers and nurses and all the predominately female trades who taught you math and how to read and wiped your butt and take care of your dad as he dribbles off into Parkinson’s. Do you praise the essential work all of them do? I pay my trade men well. I respect they work hard. I speak with respect. Just like I do the waitress at waffle house and the line order cook. I chitchat with the janitor in my shitty Spanish. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:10 PM
1

I like a lot of what you have to say. I don’t necessarily agree with all of it but I think you’ve thought through these things with nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:00 PM
5

Crabs in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:24 PM
14

Fuck YES
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:20 PM
6

When a woman tells me I look good it’s for no other reason than to make me feel good, to be encouraging. A man does it… And you guys are always like “we give so much female validation.” Nah man, you give a very narrow subset of women a lot of female validation. No man is giving most fifty year olds the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:14 PM
5

This. Dudes read this and read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:49 PM
2

That women are just inanimate objects to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:48 PM
2

Everyone does, honestly. Because it’s a reflection of men’s relationship to society at the present moment. and men keep blaming the wrong people. That’s why it’s getting worse. They put people like Trump and musk in charge, who promptly start destroying the agencies that keep capital from turning labor into serfs. The overwhelming attitude of the current generation of men is “This shit just isn’t worth the effort”. For relationships specifically? It’s “I resent women because all I even want from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:46 PM
6

“ You take for granted the machinists, oil riggers and the roughnecks, the linemen, and the loggers. The jobs that make this country turn are all hazardous and done by men.” You get MONEY. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:40 PM
2

And yet they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:37 PM
6

“ The pussyhounds wouldn’t exist in numbers if there weren’t slutty broads giving it up for a Cosmopolitan and a cab fare..” Bull shit. They have always existed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:41 AM
1

No you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:38 AM
3

Men are also calling police to safe their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:38 AM
2

Top to bottom dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:32 AM
2

PREACH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:31 AM
2

All I see here is you saying men are weak and women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:26 AM
1

He’s not. I went in coffee dates all the time. Low pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:23 AM
1

Dude I talk to strangers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:21 AM
1

Name fits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:19 AM
2

This is very astute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:08 AM
2

Jesus this is so damning of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:07 AM
4

“ You can't have it both ways. If women deserve praise for spending more/disproportionate time on raising children, then naturally women deserve criticism and scorn for the outcomes as well.” Nah those would be the absentee fathers. Let me know when you have a shred of blame for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:46 AM
2

Then don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:44 AM
5

“ fighting age men.” If you guys were healthy enough to fight, you’d have women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:43 AM
3

Talk to your bros who say if they don’t get their dicks wet they are going to strip us of our rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 AM
3

No brah, I PAY for those tradesman devices. Just like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:41 AM
7

“ Joker and his followers in burning down Gotham, but they also won't fight to stop that collapse either.” The guys who don’t get chicks? Those low level betas? They get strung up when the barbarians are at the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:40 AM
2

We don’t get pensions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:38 AM
2

17 % of construction is now female. That number is growing. I regularly see women out as part of construction crews. Buena
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:37 AM
1

My sister ran a landscaping business - and yes did the work. She also ran working farms. She now keeps the Internet infrastructure up at her job. All traditionally male jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:36 AM
1

You are the guys trying to claim women - can’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:34 AM
5

Men aren’t more logical and rational than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:33 AM
2

“ One, who do you think does the majority of jobs that keep the world comfortable and running.” men like air conditioning too. as WW2 showed, woman can do those jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:32 AM
5

It’s completely misandrist. I swear red pill are some of the most misandrist men. Tesla didn’t do it for the pussy. Neither did Newton (although they suspect he was gay). Augustine didn’t become a serious philosopher until after he gave up chasing tail. Men do stuff to better society, too. Not just for tail. And good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:31 AM
5

Many of us love our husbands deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:09 PM
14

I always preferred a coffee date as a woman. Low pressure for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:51 PM
3

Girl YES
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:16 PM
1

Hey I’m really glad she could be there for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:14 PM
1

Why you little perv! I love it! You do you, king. I love it when people make it work with their little kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:13 PM
8

“ Women were never oppressed, it's something they just want you desperately to believe.” Laughably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:15 PM
7

lol. Sure paying for a few dates is completely equivalent to placing your entire trust into another person not to devalue you as you age and kick you out of your home to struggle in poverty when you have little time (say in your forties) to re-establish yourself financially. Whole lotta people right now are sweating bullets over the threats to social security. I had that - I have a man who makes bank and who absolutely was willing for me to be a SAHM so long as I took care of the house hold and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:11 PM
2

It didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:02 PM
3

No one is shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:01 PM
2

Back up plans are smart for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:58 PM
3

It’s a reversal of all the women hating screeds we get that claim women can’t love or are hypergamous or monkey branch. Are those all bait? It’s an exaggeration post, just like those are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:57 PM
2

I mean, sure? And it’s not like my beer-bellied husband is the hottest thing I see walking around? You remind me of guys who post here absolutely unable to handle that he isn’t the hottest thing his girl has ever smashed. And through their insecurity they demand that their girl either be super low n count or that they do everything they ever did plus some with the new boyfriend. All things being equal I like 35 year old guys. All things being equal I see new guys I want to smash occasionally. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:54 PM
0

What “petty” reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:12 PM
–

This all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:48 PM
–

It really looks at people as if they are widgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:43 PM
–

“ These are highly autistic takes on relationships. "Me 3. You 3. We go date now." And anyone who approaches human interaction so...clinically...is setting themselves up for failure.” THIS!!! And this is why they don’t understand women’s standards (or people really). I wanted someone college educated. So a “standard.” But I turned down a lawyer at a different firm and went on a date with my now husband even though he hadn’t completed his degree. Why? Because he was smart as hell and witty (befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:42 PM
11

No, cheating remains entirely relevant. As discussed above - purely anecdotal - my friend’s husband cheated on her and left. She filed for divorce. HE didn’t want a divorce. He convinced her to dismiss the proceeding and marriage counseling. Funny enough until divorce became a reality, he hadn’t wanted to engage in marriage counseling or the rest. Are you going to blame her for wanting to divorce or out of a marriage. Would you blame a husband for wanting a divorce if his wife cheats? Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:33 PM
2

“ Just that they didn’t have to.” Oh hell yes they did have to work. Jesus. “ Mainly just pondering what might be better about being the opposite sex, frankly.” Then you should start reading about what life was actually like for women. Or hell, even men. I highly recommend Eleanor Janega’s three videos on life in the Middle Ages. Pay close attention to those on serfdom. Look also into her video on Beer Making in the Middle Ages. She and Kate Lister have also done videos on sex work in the Middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:22 PM
–

Yes, many men here love to post based on their fee-fees. It always makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:46 PM
3

And did I have fun with it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:41 PM
2

Young marriages end in divorce: https://ifstudies.org/blog/age-at-first-marriage-and-marital-quality-updating-outdated-social-wisdom#:~:text=One%202012%20study%20found%20that,marrying%20at%2025%20or%20older. “ he vast majority of 65yo men are either fully functional, or dead.” If true, viagra wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:40 PM
2

Awww so happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 PM
4

Older men are bitter as fuck. I and a friend have been trying to figure out what happens with men when they turn 50. It’s like a man-o-pause. I think that’s why a lot of older men are like, fuck no, not re-marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:38 PM
2

Wow did she really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:36 PM
2

Because then you guys melt down and accuse us of lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:34 PM
0

No one goes through the hell of divorce unless they are pretty miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:33 PM
4

And also of course, a wife can have her husband committed and gelded for “male-steria”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:32 PM
11

“ I think what people talk about is that women are quick and proud to initiate divorces.” What evidence do you have that women are quick to initiate a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:30 PM
14

100% agreed. I filed for divorce from husband one. Husband one married someone else and then HE filed for divorce. It was smart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:29 PM
35

Friend’s husband cheated and moved in with his lover. She finally filed for divorce and he had a conniption. Who broke the marriage? He did
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:28 PM
2

“ Women now leave relationships out of boredom” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:27 PM
7

The people here who claim that women initiate divorce for frivolous reasons or at the drop of a hat are (1) bitter assholes who never got over their wife leaving or (2) people who have never been married or gone through a divorce themselves. These people need to watch James Sexton, a well known and very well spoken divorce attorney. https://youtu.be/o5z8-9Op2nM?si=K4z8JyZj3Ei0fAXv Attorneys and other officials (ie family law judges, guardian ad listens, etc) who spend their lives dealing with di…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:27 PM
9

Are you citing reality tv as a reliable source
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:19 PM
11

Lmao. Again red pill man making a woman up in his head to be mad about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:19 PM
3

It’s like… who died in the triangle shirtwaist factory?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:18 PM
5

“ I’m not saying it was great. I’m saying these are notions that a lot of men have and you do deserve to know.” You mean completely ignorant and deals notions unsupported by actual history? That men are suffering a delusion regarding what marriage used to be like for women? This is why we need the humanities. Right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:16 PM
7

I call it stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:33 PM
4

and women aren’t radicalized by what men say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:32 PM
4

Nah it’s about money. That’s what all these guys mean when they say “stability” and “resources.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:29 PM
0

To the contrary, unfortunately women tend not to have access to the same lucrative careers that don’t require an education as man, such as the trades etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:19 PM
2

College educated women divorce the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:16 PM
0

The men in my life disagree. But then they aren’t insecure. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:15 PM
1

Yes. Apparently you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:23 PM
1

lol. True enough. I donno I guess I differentiate between weird and creepy. I might find it weird that a 30 year old is dating a 46 year old but it isn’t creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:16 PM
2

“ 2-3 years really IS an age gap. If the average is 2-3 then 7 is as frequent as -1.” That isn’t how math works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 PM
1

People can discuss trends without it being applicable to everyone. You’ve stuck me as the most level headed. I’ve been critical of age gap relationships when one of the partners is under 25. Over that eh. My brother married a woman a decade younger. I have dated older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 PM
1

Look dude, lots of conservative dads suddenly have an issue with their daughters dating much older men too. This isn’t something you can wave away based on wokeness since it LONG predates that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:09 PM
1

You should ask yourself this: “I mean, why would any (man) prefer a naive or inexperienced partner to a wise and experienced one?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:08 PM
1

As you get older the age gap means far less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:05 PM
1

If we are talking averages, the average age gap in the US is 2.2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:04 PM
3

Hmmm I had tons of guys interested in me in my late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:02 PM
5

If women dated for “resources” the gap would be far more than 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:00 PM
5

The more egalitarian the country the narrower the marriage age gap. Thus, women not under financial pressure to marry tend to marry those close to their own age. “Patterns (and reality) exist, no matter how much you may wish that they didn't.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:58 PM
0

Nah you are smart
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:23 PM
2

Actually, it’s more like - for long term relationships, women with professional success bring significant positives. - more financial stability - college educated women have the lowest divorce rates - less financial pain at divorce. No alimony. Less child support obligations. - better child outcomes with educated mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:22 PM
2

Thanks. I think men deserve a good life balance too. We all do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:06 PM
3

“ You could be a doctor who owns her own practice or a janitor who mops the floors at that practice and have exactly the same chances when it comes to finding a partner.” Absolutely false. When many professional men look to marry, they look to women with the same values. Smart successful women = smart successful children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:00 PM
2

The marriages that survive are the ones with college educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:58 PM
3

“ When women make money, they throw people away, reciprocate nothing for men, and build nothing for society. And they're happy about it.” College educated women divorce the least. So the data doesn’t support your position
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:56 PM
4

“ And since you are the one who pays for the most things, the relationship should be about you.” Why women need to always have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:55 PM
6

But there are posters on this thread that actively disparage successful women as being not feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:51 PM
3

“ This is not a belief it is reality.” Considering college educated women are the ones married and in stable long lasting marriages, it is not “reality”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:49 PM
5

It’s just another way that men try to trash women. Who wants to date someone who considers success unfeminine. Shaking my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:48 PM
4

And yet I have all three. You just can’t pull a total package like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:45 PM
19

“ the reality is most successful people are very self involved, very disagreeable, competitive and not loyal at all because they'll have a "it's just business" mindset.” Weird how men don’t want this reasoning to apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:44 PM
1

Lmao. Sorry you can’t handle people who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:18 PM
2

I’m a big history nerd. Henry VIII - king of England? - married as his 5th wife Catherine Howard. She was 17 or 18. He was…. 49. He was besotted with her. She was cheating on him with a much younger man named Culpeper in a year. Strangely enough his next wife was far older, 32, and successfully survived being married to the nut. She was a smart one. Still an age gap, but Catherine Parr had already been married twice and that experience showed. I have an inherent … suspicion of significant age ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:02 PM
6

“ However, SOME women that are young (the smart ones) will cash in their chips & settle down before hitting the wall…..and obviously they are more likely to prioritize resources over looks, in general.” The smart ones will have their own careers and make money, because relying on another person is to be in a position of perpetual powerlessness. But good to know you recommend beta buxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:47 PM
1

“ Lol, how jealous and spiteful you must be.” Ah yes, let’s roll out the ad hominem right? You can’t actually defend your position so you have to start smearing anyone who critiques you as “jealous.” And yet, the rule of thumb - half age plus seven - has existed since the 1950s as a rule of thumb - developed by the Nation of Islam no less. So clearly there has been consistent decades old criticism of significant age gap relationships. Jealous of what? My first introduction to an age gap relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:46 PM
3

Uh no. I still have sex with my husband regularly once or twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:02 PM
3

4 years older really isn’t an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:00 PM
-2

They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:56 PM
6

It’s cope. We are all “jealous!” Why I would be jealous as a happily married women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:55 PM
7

Daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 PM
9

But they don’t. That’s why the age gap for marriage is 2.2 years in US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:53 PM
8

“ Men get better looking from their early twenties all the way to their late 30s. Only after 45 does it change.” Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:51 PM
6

“there is also political pressure” - what political pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:50 PM
14

There is a difference between a five year age gap and a twenty year one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:49 PM
3

I think men want to settle at 30-33, and women at 27-30. So you see a lot of 32 & 28 mixes. Or 30 and 25. At 28 I met a ton of marrying type men at 32 33 including own husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:47 PM
1

Because if you dated a bunch that means they were a bunch of short terms. Not working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
9

“ Yet, here they are, happily dating a man over 30. I just don’t think women really understand who or what or why they are attracted to until that attraction is right there in real life.” Apparently not since they’ve broken up with you. “ I just don’t think women really understand who or what or why they are attracted to until that attraction is right there in real life.” Silly little women don’t know their own minds. LMAO. So fucking patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
2

Lol. You crack me up. I have a thing for the weathered look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:06 AM
2

Except there are guys who post here you say you are entirely wrong, that they do care about the woman’s career not just their breast size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:04 AM
0

Very gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:03 AM
2

Uh, my family hit the ceiling when my 19 year old brother started dating a 42 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:02 AM
2

It’s used in porn as well. It’s a porn genre for ephebophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:01 AM
7

Ah yes. are you the 19 year old who talks about how the ex got fat and denied her husband sex and you are all HL and skinny and fit? And the one who was completely wrong about fertility? And confidently said no man should marry a girl in her 30s if he wants kids? And you can’t even understand why your parents were concerned. I can see why they were concerned. But whatever. Hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:40 AM
4

Especially fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 AM
1

“ are women ever called pedos for dating down” Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:36 AM
4

False. Women’s fertility does not begin to decline until 30-32 and does not significantly drop until 37. https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/committee-opinion/articles/2014/03/female-age-related-fertility-decline The ideal time for pregnancy is actually late 20s. https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/childbearing-age I was able to have two the NATURAL way at 31 and 35 and I am in no way abnormal or unusual. Most of my friends had kids in their early 30s. One friend started …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:33 AM
6

Considering how wrong your post is from top to bottom, I deeply question your personal judgment that your own age-gap relationship is healthy. No, women’s fertility does NOT drop off in their mid twenties. It begins at 30-32 and accelerates at 37. https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/having-a-baby-after-age-35-how-aging-affects-fertility-and-pregnancy#:~:text=A%20woman's%20peak%20reproductive%20years,getting%20pregnant%20naturally%20is%20unlikely. And the most ideal time for a woman to carry …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:28 AM
0

Aw I’m sure she adores you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:59 AM
5

I was married to a 6/2 man. I’m 5 feet. It actually kind of sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:57 AM
2

I also said no Trump voters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:55 AM
1

All around same view on the CT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 AM
1

Close for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:51 AM
1

I’m a woman but not flared. Minimum height. 5-5 Minimum fintness level. better be able to hike seven miles. Better be able to work out with me three days a week. You don’t need to come with me but I want a fitness level there. Don’t need to be skinny. Minimum income. 75k and a profession. Master mechanic, master electrician, lawyer, doctor, nurse, teacher. But you must have a brain. MUST. You must be as smart as I am. I’ve dated autodidacts. One of the smartest men I knew never spent a day in co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:49 AM
10

This. I’ve seen this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:29 AM
4

Aw I wish that aunt had beat it. And what a great husband, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:26 AM
3

The more egalitarian the society, the closer in age husbands and wives. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/ That tells you that women - on average - don’t necessarily prefer a significantly older man. And as many men are here admitting, the women are attracted to his “stability” - ie his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:40 PM
3

Okay, let’s look at actions. In egalitarian societies, age gap relationships are Mich smaller. In the US, husbands and wives are 2.2 years apart. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:37 PM
1

More fit. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:34 PM
2

“ I did and do, they seem like kind of the optimal ages throughout history, men are established and thriving, women are fertile and energetic, it's perfect.” Odd how in egalitarian societies gap relationships are rarer. It’s like when women aren’t forced to marry older men, they don’t want to. Apparently women don’t consider it ideal to waste their time with some old fat dude that doesn’t have the energy to chase kids. Sounds like they aren’t natural. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:31 PM
3

“ This entire debate revolves around the fact that older women aren’t finding partners because the men their age want younger partners.” This is nothing but cope. And it doesn’t matter how many times you slimy predators try to get us to shut our mouths by accusing us of jealously, we WILL NOT stop warning the younger naive teens of both sexes away from much older predators. Why your shaming won’t work? dude, I’m married and have been for twenty years. I have no interest in attracting men to marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:24 PM
2

Right? I don’t think anyone had an issue with Hackman and his wife because she was in her 30s when they met. I mean - not for ME - but it doesn’t come across as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:13 PM
10

No one is bragging about perfect relationships. Did you read the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:10 PM
13

“ If the point is to have children, you kind of need a woman of a specific age range, irrespective of the age of the man.” The age of the man is ALSO very important if you want kids. - men’s sperm quality declines and old sperm is associated with certain increased risks of birth defects and autism. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9957550/ men also DIE. My brother has a twelve year old and had a heart attack two years ago. He’s in his mid fifties. He has been skinny and a runner all his …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:09 PM
2

And it isn’t true. I wasn’t approached by men that much in my 20s because I worked with much older men, married men, and women. I had to put myself out where there were single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:21 PM
8

This comment section is an entire microcosm of toxic masculinity and why it hurts men. Most women are like, good idea, and that’s smart! They are supportive of OP and that he lives his life in a way that makes him happy. But there is a subset of men who are attacking his manhood, claiming he’s a woman, and accusing him of having low testosterone or transiting to female. So for all those guys who complain that some want some Gigachad ultra masculine guy? Who is telling you that? And are they real…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:17 PM
11

No one here (I saw your GenZ links) cares about an age gap that is “a few years older” unless she’s 12 and he’s 16 (or the reverse). Why is it that many men here deliberately and disingenuously claim that people (not just women) have an issue with a 22 year old dating a 26 year old? Why can’t you defend what people have concerns about - a 22 year old dating a 40 year old. And it isn’t just “younger women.” I will continue to beat the drum that we were all very upset and considered it JUST as pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:11 PM
3

THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:15 AM
2

He needs to read this but he won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:13 AM
1

That’s not a win dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:12 AM
1

They are rage farming. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:09 AM
2

Most people have little problem with 28-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:05 AM
2

I’ve seen the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:22 PM
1

Yes this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:20 PM
3

Complementing men is fraught as a woman. It can be misconstrued as sexual interest or an invitation. I can tell you we certainly discuss hot men amongst ourselves and compliment our male lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:20 PM
5

I am bi. I’ve had relationships with women in my early 20s. I agree it’s a bit more sexually fluid for women. But I love dick too. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:14 PM
3

He is not okay. He apparently was preyed on at 15 by a 36 year old. It’s really fucking sad actually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:09 PM
3

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:08 PM
2

This is gross. You are gross. I have a 14 year old and a 16 year old. No the fuck way would I let a 40 year old near them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:07 PM
1

“ No, I climb with her father which is how we met. They arent angry resentful and unhappy people like the majority of this sub.” More projection. Just because people think what you are doing is revolting doesn’t make them angry or resentful…. Just sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:05 PM
1

Why stop there then? Is it whatever is acceptable to you? 25, 30, 35? nice changing the goal posts there. I’m waiting for you to whine that I’m against a 70 year old dating a 90 year old. But I’m not. I’m against 19 year olds dating 40 year olds. It isn’t the age gap itself, but the experience levels of those involved. Once someone is fully launched and has some relationship experience and independence, round about 25, I care a lot less. It’s absurd what you're claiming and not rooted in biology…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:02 PM
2

You know, you should actually - LEARN - the facts of a case if you want any credibility at all. Fortinberry hasn’t YET BEEN convicted (or pled out) so you have NO IDEA how she is going to be punished. That restraining order? That’s pending the criminal prosecution. These are the CHARGES: “ He added that the five Level 1 child molestation charges could carry a penalty of 20 to 40 years in prison for each count. Fortinberry is also facing 24 counts with Level 4, 5 and 6 offenses, which carry sente…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:35 PM
1

No it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:10 PM
6

Yup. This is hilarious as someone who has spent years studying the Roman Empire What about the Roman empires absolute failure to have a smooth transition of power? What about the fact it’s size prevented effective sole ruler ship, which is why we have two emperors and even at one point four.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:09 PM
1

No sped up and women started inventing things!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:59 PM
5

A woman also invented Crspr, one of the greatest bio-tech discoveries in recent history. A woman also developed the foundation of the MMR vaccine, now being used to cure some forms of pancreatic cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:57 PM
8

But society was BETTER. Rome was built on slavery. So was China. Just admit society flourished when YOU were treated like a beast in the field. I mean how SELFISH of you to think your desire for individual rights supersedes the forward march of the white men. After all, it was the white man who brought civilization to the Congo. That millions of people died in rubber plantations for the King of Netherlands was just an unfortunate side effect. /s Of course all of that above is pure unmitigated bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:52 PM
5

“ Women definitely care more about protecting feelings than about the naked brutal truth that academic work should be about, which is very destructive.” What unmitigated bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:44 PM
5

“ (especially since plenty of women will still nag a perfectly good provider man).” Ah yes, it’ll be great if men finally learn that they need to take care of the house even if they work rather than coming home and sitting on their asses
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:42 PM
1

“ and the large number of degrees in useless fields (Grievance Studies etc) that women have…” Facts not in evidence. Despite the hysteria of the right wing, our institutions are not cranking out numerous degrees in “gender studies.” “ I CAN see a man resenting that. Not because she's "more educated" than he is but because she's more indebted and studied what is basically a luxury field.” And yet on average, those with a bachelors make a lot more over a lifetime than a high school graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:40 PM
1

I gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:32 PM
2

Damn that makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:16 PM
9

It was 100% And that’s why I roll my eyes when people say - oh people don’t care when women do it. Fuck yes they do. My dad would have been more tolerant of me at 22 toddling down the aisle than when my brother married his former teacher at the same age. Sure there would have been criticism, but my dad wouldn’t have led a complete boycott - which he did of my brother’s marriage. People look askance of big age gaps differences with a younger woman and older man. They consider an older woman and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:16 PM
1

This is wrong. People are MORE adverse to an older woman - young man pairing. I know, I’ve watched it play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:10 PM
3

Lmao, that is paragraphs and paragraphs of cope and rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:08 PM
2

“The whole "hating men who date younger women" also stems from jealousy and envy in a sense that the kind of men you want are no longer attracted to a woman of your age and looks and choose women who look prettier and younger.” This is just cope. Ask a man how he feels about a forty year old man dating his 20 year old daughter and tell that man he’s just “jealous.” Ask my dad how he felt about a 43 year old woman dating his 19 year old son and tell my dad he was just jealous. what none of you ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:06 PM
3

“ like 25 y.o. man dating a 23 y.o. woman is creepy to them.” I don’t see that in Gen Z at all. I’d want to see proof that Gen Z is upset over a 25-23 pairing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:59 PM
1

I think this reflects some significant nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:58 PM
0

50 shades of gray was completely toxic. I lost respect for the women I knew who avidly read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:55 PM
1

They get mad that people are squicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:53 PM
5

My brother was groomed by a high school teacher. It was gross man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:52 PM
3

Nah it’s gross. I look at 20 year old boys now at the gym (go to one near the local college) and think, what babies. Not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:51 PM
9

Show me these women praising her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:49 PM
3

Age gaps are less an issue once both people are older - mid thirties and fifties don’t bother me. Honestly 25 and 50 don’t bother me that much. When it goes under that age, I get squicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:48 PM
5

“ Reddit would have you believe that every man would be excited to get a woman that has slept with 100+ men when in reality nothing could be further from the truth. Reddit is one big hivemend of projection.” no that’s you projecting. I see men bitching about high n counts on Reddit. “I m incredibly attractive, feel free to look at my photos. I'm 40 dating a 19 year old who is also attractive.” I don’t care how hot you are, fucking gross. I watched a fucking female teacher prey on my brother that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:45 PM
19

I’ve said before - my brother was groomed in high school by his female teacher. That was my first introduction to age-gap relationships. Yes I am critical of men and women doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:41 PM
5

Why does it require a nuclear option? I really like your proposed statement - especially about “accumulating stress” - dead the f on. That said, why does the spouse/so/bf/gf required the explicit threat of leaving to take action? firstly, when one is MARRIED with children, just moving out isn’t that easy. It’s expensive and causes tremendous hurt. secondly, ultimatums get old for everyone. If you don’t follow through, they will simply be ignored. And the person receiving the ultimatum often feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:37 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter