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So it’s fine if your wife beats you for going out with boys. “ Nobody is offering anything, kthanxbye.” I am not so pathetic that I need to run to another country that allows wife beating to get a date or a husband. Only incredibly weak men need to resort to beating on an economically disadvantaged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:15 PM
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I don’t doubt it. It’s just the power of the dollar or the loony
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:45 PM
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Here it is - beating women for going out clubbing is good. But we won’t say anything about the endemic cheating by men with legal prostitutes in many of these SE Asian (countries) I wonder if the beaten wife has the old remedy, too - arsenic. Thanks, I’d rather be alone. PS, guys? This is misogyny. And also a great example of internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:42 PM
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This encompasses it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:37 PM
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“I don't need some diploma, I'm just going to get a OF and a Maserati while you work a dead end job".” You mean like all the boys who blow off class because they are going to deal drugs or become a famous football star? Or the girls who said they’d be a model or an actress? Girls would say they’d land a rich guy and be pampered when my mom was teaching. I don’t think you have enough breadth or experience to see the actual TRENDS. But thumbs up for Hardcore History. I listened to the Painotainmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:48 PM
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“ This is hallmark feature of toxic femininity. The idea that men can't be trusted and that women have to do it all alone.” Because that is the worst case scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:31 PM
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“ 43% of women in 2030 will be single and childless. 80% of women report they would like to have children if they could. Something is failing.” Only 45% of young woman want children. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/02/15/among-young-adults-without-children-men-are-more-likely-than-women-to-say-they-want-to-be-parents-someday/#:~:text=While%2057%25%20of%20young%20men,45%25)%20say%20the%20same. Why does it matter if 43% of women will be single and childless in 2030 if they don’t care?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:29 PM
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No dear, YOU “are just jealous of successful intelligent (women) who sleep around without consequences….” I really couldn’t give a shit about players other than avoiding them. It’s the LVM the seethes over Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:21 PM
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They do and thank you for saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:19 PM
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“ How do you expect an average, somewhat introverted, vulnerable young woman to react to this kind of information? Obviously these girls are avoiding dating and marriage. Holy hell.” Lmao. Do you think young women arrive at college after being hermetically sealed in a bubble, never having even seeeeen a man or heard about sex? Women coming into college aren’t these weak social flowers - LMAO - NO. They survived the social crucible of the middle school and high school years where teen girls engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:15 PM
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“Red pill debunkers” Do tell me about all the peer reviewed research either red pill or red pill debunkers have engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:58 PM
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“ Abortion is much more restricted in Europe, so why did that escape your mention?” False. While nominally, euro countries have cut offs at 12 or 15 weeks this ignores that many have extremely broad exceptions after that date for mental health issues, etc, and it is left in the hands of medical professionals rather than the criminal justice systems, so pragmatically it is actually far more accessible and without the threat of criminal prosecution. And of course - free. https://reproductiverights…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:57 PM
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Yup. It’s an evil cabal of older feminist women or - gasp - lesbian telling young women to dump the nice guys. Despite having several lesbian friends no one has ever said a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:43 PM
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Young women have the single greatest sexual power. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:42 PM
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I’m watching now. Seems like vaccination was a good idea, just ask Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:40 PM
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You all are about to realize why multiple states enshrined abortion rights and countries like France did it as well. Way too many people have forgotten what it was like to be forced to have children. You equate ignorance with being “unimportant,” but a whole lotta left centers like me are enjoying all the schadenfreude. Enjoy the finding out stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:39 PM
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“ I love how far left socialist women turn into ardent darwinians when it's time to defend their toxic socio-sexual behavior.” Now we know you are full of shit. The US doesn’t have much of a far left ANYTHING in comparison to the rest of the world. You are just raging.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:37 PM
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To YOU. Because you will NEVER have to carry a child. A whole LOT of people got real comfy that everything would stay the same, and they are finding out right now. And no focusing on abortion isn’t why the election was lost. There was a world wild anti-incumbent backlash, including countries that have no issues with abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:35 PM
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Sure people are sad and isolated. It isn’t because of some evil cabal of toxic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:32 PM
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“ 'Men's behaviour for thousands of years' (let's come back to that one, yeesh) has been roundly dismissed as completely shitty by the same women who are now asking 'Well why can't wedo it?!'” Men choose their mates based primarily on physical attraction - more so than women to this day. Men may engage in sexual relations as a ONS, FWB, dating relationship or marriage, all that is required is consent. Men may refuse to engage in those relationships or use no fault divorce. Women have all the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:17 AM
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Not really: https://lsa.umich.edu/psych/news-events/all-news/faculty-news/new-research-shows-men-are-just-as-emotional-as-women.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:10 AM
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Unknown - misandry bad. Misogyny good!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:51 AM
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So I get flagged for personal attacks and this is still here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:50 AM
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What article? How sound is the data? How sound is the methodology? There are three experiences I can think of right now that were painful, unpleasant, and frightening. One left me crying. I did not in any way get turned on. And I don’t get turned on now. Sex got better and better the more comfortable I become with someone. But women aren’t all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:47 AM
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“ Again, no one cares….” Yah, we know that many men are completely dismissive of the pain and effort women go through in pregnancy - more unvalued women’s work - but then japan and South Korea and Singapore and Russia start screaming when they just can’t get that free work out of women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:40 AM
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They do on regretful parents sub. You should check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:27 AM
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I am so so lucky to have the man I do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:23 AM
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If you think some extra calories is sufficient for a safe pregnancy, good luck on low birth weight and spinal bífida. I have many friends who wouldn’t be here today absent prenatal testing that identified things like placenta previa. I have friends who wouldn’t be here today without bed rest or c sections. I had to have THREE months of bed rest. Medicaid be damned, who was taking care of me and my older kid? My husband that’s who. And to think beans and rice is sufficient nutrition for kids…. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:20 AM
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Honestly it’s mixed https://time.com/4673035/do-the-child-free-live-longer/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:08 AM
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“ And their consequences is to leave their communities, in effect causing the death of their old self. Something that matters back in the day when communities were much more close knit and interacts more worldly consequences as well.” Not really. You don’t know much about American history do you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:06 AM
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They low jack babies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:01 AM
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Lmao how exactly is looking through a phone more invasive than a paternity test? It’s an electrical device
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:59 AM
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My dad cheated on my mom with a friend of hers and blew the marriage apart when I was five. Does that mean I get to put a spy device on your cell for “reassurance.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:56 AM
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Shit my pediatrician accidentally questioned my second baby’s paternity in front of my husband (we thought she was going to have blue eyes, but they became slate-green) and my husband laughed it off. And my baby is now far older and clearly his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:55 AM
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Right - fair is fair. You’re concerned I might be pregnant with someone else’s child with out any basis. I’m concerned you could be knocking up some other ho. Since that can happen at any time, you get monitored at any time. After all, I’m deeply concerned you might tie me to some bastard child for 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:48 AM
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Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:43 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:42 AM
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Considering how easily you stoop to deception, lying, and hiding without a qualm, I see why you so untrusting - you think everyone deceives just as easily as you. Yah, don’t want to be with a man that has no qualms about lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:42 AM
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She’s already married, so can stop trying to talk her out of her own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:38 AM
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“ The fact is some men cheat, those men also look faithful enough and also exhibit frustration at their wife’s distrust. You shouldn't feel entitled to being seen as one of the pure ones, you just like everyone else are prone to cheating. It doesn't matter if your feelings are hurt, she’s entitled to put a key capture and spy monitoring on your phone, low jack your car, and periodically have a PI follow you….” Because men are known to have started second families and bring home bastard babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:36 AM
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So long as you don’t mind me clipping a homing beacon on your ass where ever you go because how many men knock up some other girl and have a second family. And that can happen at any time so I should be able to monitor you everywhere and all the time. Right? That is what you are saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:33 AM
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But the influencers always get push back too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:28 AM
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Damn lady I am so sorry. There are studies that show that men are actually angered by seeing women that are unattractive to them. I never bother to say one word about a fat guy on social media - I don’t care. His fatness doesn’t make me angry, but holy shit will men be vicious to an ugly or fat girl. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/256933652_Physical_attractiveness_and_its_relation_to_unprovoked_and_reactive_aggression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:26 AM
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Sure. It’s hard to have a nuanced conversation without a dissertation on misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:17 AM
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I agree it IS social messaging - what you were taught and also what you picked up by social osmosis - just like women were told that they were old maids by 22 or 24 (still happens in the Mormon church). Maybe your parents divorced, sure but they probably still met and married right after college or a few years out from high school. In my generation (xennial), my two friends who waited until their late 20s early 30s were oddities. People were marrying at 26/27. Our mothers married at 23 24. And o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:14 AM
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“ women who openly admit that their husband didn’t excite her sexually when they first met, etc…” Women are not men. We are not as visual. I was neither attracted nor repelled by my husband when I first laid eyes on him. In an hour or so we were kissing at my car door. He - all of him - turned me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:02 AM
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I gave an example - my own mom.She used to want me to learn how to golf or play tennis so I could be able to do whatever a guy might want on a date. She wanted me to pursue certain careers so I’d have lots of time for kids. A friend of mine was cheated on three times by her husband. Her mom pressured her to stay “and not break the family up” and “it’s hard to be a single mom.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:50 AM
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They shit on my husband for being short but I love wrapping my legs around his and I love the way he smells. I love his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:41 AM
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My husband got to mouth fuck me on Monday. Let me know when you have a woman who desires you enough to do that on the regular PS ex didn’t get away with shit. He got left. And cried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:36 AM
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Right???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:32 AM
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Just not legal in many places but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:45 PM
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My lived experience is that men are cheating bastards who will fuck you and leave you and cheat on you any chance they can get and that they only like super pretty girls. Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:43 PM
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Read fancy statistics82 below.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:41 PM
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I’d really like an example where women blame men for not being all 6/6. I can’t even really think of a song that does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:30 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:28 PM
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I see three aspects: Sexual libido imbalance due to hormones and consequences. Men want to fuck women because of hormones AND low consequence. Men get all the fun and none of the consequence. So they desire and don’t get. And I think especially for young men that desire is really - really - high. For me, I am an abnormally HLF. I still have so many social restrains that stop me from sleeping around. I really sympathize with men on this. Everyone man gets a woman. Many societies, including ours, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:22 PM
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It will poison your entire view and interaction with women IRL though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:00 PM
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This is really interesting and enlightening. I hadn’t much thought about 1, although I went head to head with my own mom on some of that toxicity. She said that a friend of my sister’s just needed a “good woman,” to get him straight. I went after her on it, because said friend was an angry alcoholic who was slowing killing his liver. HE wasn’t a good choice for a good woman looking for a good relationship, no matter how good his IT job was. Sad case. Nice dude when sober. He did kill his liver. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:57 PM
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Yah. I was marred to a 6/2, blue eyed, blond dude. Not a chad. Definitely an asahole. I remarried a shorter dude (5/7) with hazel eyes and brown hair. Not the least mad I didn’t get a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:53 PM
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“ But why is it acceptable for women to lash out about there not being any 6’6” blue eyed Chads for them?” I really don’t see many women lashing out at all men for not being super tall, blue eyed, or hot.Maybe some stupid tik tok influencers do, and they certainly get slammed. But I am not everywhere so can you please explain where you see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:52 PM
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You are so invested in your view that nothing will change it. That’s pretty sad and will lead to a rather sad life. The ability to accept new information and adjust your viewpoints is very useful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:48 PM
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“… and giving birth to a father's legacy to ensure the tribespeople didn't die out.” Yah because mom’s don’t matter. Jeeessusss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:39 PM
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I’ve heard gay men state that relationships and sex is easier because there is no societal blueprint. Gay men have to sit down and discuss what is on and off the menu (ps, not all gay men do anal). Same for marriages. They are forced to communicate ahead of time and that makes things smoother
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:28 PM
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Yah there are some shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:12 PM
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Men: “it’s not fair that women can choose to move on to someone else!” Even though you have the SAME freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:00 PM
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“ 2. What is it with you people and selective reading comprehension? My link on sexually transmitted diseases clearly show that far more women infected then men. ” Back at you buddy. Women contract STDs more easily than men. You think that each sexual encounter is a 1 to 1 ratio. It isn’t. Men that fucks a woman with HIV is LESS LIKELY to get it than woman who fucks a man with HIV. https://womenshealth.gov/hiv-and-aids/women-and-hiv That means a man can fuck three different women with HiV and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:56 PM
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“ Here's the tired old feminist argument that doesn't account for men now having absolutely no power to alter this law. “ How pathetic. Are men barred from voting like women were? No? Are men barred from holding office like women were? No? Are men barred from the professions like the law like women were? No? Are men barred from service in the military or combat roles like women were? No? Are men barred from the c-suite of industry like women were? No? Are men barred from West Point, the citadel,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:50 PM
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Men legally bar women from the draft. Men scream, “why won’t you take part in the draft.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:44 PM
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“ THe fact is that the world would fall apart in less than 1 day if men went on strike. No power, no plumbing, no auto repair, no maintenance people. You and your fellow women would be squabbling to exist around a campfire, if you could figure out how to make one.” I know how to make a fire from scratch. I was a little pyro as a kid. My parents used to let me do it because I was so good at it. I also used to do more maintenance on the cars than my ex husband. I doubt he’d ever changed a tire or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:43 PM
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Effort without reciprocation leads to being treated like a doormat, I don’t care the gender. The man gets back what he gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:03 PM
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I actually really agree with this. I have oodles of great men in my life. They shouldn’t have to atone for the wretched ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:00 PM
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Yes; some women are not feminists, (Feminist here. Still married. Husband not betrayed. How is me having equal rights to schools or jobs a “betrayal of men?”) have never dumped their loving husbands, (True, some women have dumped good men. Some women cheat. Those are bad people. But how is that “WOMEN” betraying MEN rather than a recognition that some women (like some men) are jackasses? Because my dad dumped my loving mom to shack up with a good friend of hers. Is that MEN in general betraying …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:57 PM
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What wrongdoing do women commit against LVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:35 PM
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Oh and criticism of men is not misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:33 PM
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Women were not only allowed to control money they made they were also, unlike men, not required to use that money for the benefit of their families/communities and not held responsible by society for not doing so, again unlike men. (And you think this is a gotcha? So slaves should have loved their slavery because at least the law didn’t require them to pay taxes? I’m sure you’ll trade handing over all the money you earned, given to you by your parents, all property that you owned, so long as you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:10 PM
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Yawn. This is why I work my ass off - so no man thinks he can buy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:10 AM
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I don’t care. Complete trash. No fucking self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:08 AM
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F-king trash all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:05 AM
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They shrug off the worst lying and deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:56 AM
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Awww yes. “Everyone is lying if it doesn’t agree with my priors.” What I love about you is that you pretend to be so so very analytical and then the mask slips…. Like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:02 PM
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I’m sorry and I’m glad you saw his true colors and ran.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:59 PM
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Gee wonder why he wants her back after she moved for him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:58 PM
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“Manipulation is fine when men do it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:56 PM
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He is saying that when he lost you and no long had you dangling, he is trying to pull you back in. DON’T get pulled back in, btw. DON’T. Look for a man that doesn’t play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:55 PM
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My husband cried in front of me several times when we were newly married. His dad had died. That was 18 years and two kids ago. I’m sure I fall out of love and stop respecting him any day now…. Any day …..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:53 PM
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No, MEN here keep making that strawman. There are posts to that effect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:51 PM
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I have a good husband too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:41 PM
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“Girls night out” = I’m bored of you and am looking to cheat on you Dude I go have girls nights out and I don’t cheat. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:39 PM
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This really isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:32 PM
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lol. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:31 PM
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That isn’t what the studies show
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:29 PM
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I worked my ass off to support myself and any kid. It’s called FREEDOM.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:28 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:23 PM
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“ then we would see more women going for younger men.…” they do - called cougars. But women are attracted to men their own age. This is entirely different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:22 PM
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I provide a six figure salary. One of my friends, a librarian, makes more money than her husband, a deputy. Does she provide or not? Most women work. You understand that? And their salaries keep the house hold running
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:19 PM
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And the point still stands - men run back to marriage because women PROVIDE. And as you point out - they provide a social network and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:17 PM
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“ Aside from a warm personality, the average woman's appeal is her beauty. The average man's appeal is his status (paired with high social skills and confidence).” And yet other posts here in this sub insist looks count for women first, not status. That’s why there are many nerds with great jobs out there mad that they can’t get a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:48 PM
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“ those men tend to be more attractive/desirable than average men (because that's essentially required to be promiscuous) and have more life experience/a better career than men in their 20s.” Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:45 PM
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Buddy if your male friend screams at you, you should walk the fuck out. Men treat their “friends” with utter abuse and then wonder why they have no friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:44 PM
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Men are just as emotionally driven as women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:40 PM
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Hooker with a heart of gold. I think sex work should be legal and regulated like Nevada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:37 PM
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Yes and you have NO EVIDENCE that a scrawny guy (no one is passing around their testosterone testing) poses less risk to a woman than a bigger guy. NONE. I’ll spell it out for you - a scrawny guy might post less risk to YOU because you are a man and might even be bigger than a scrawny guy. But a scrawny guy STILL has several inches on height on me, weight on me, and several inches of weight on me. I’ve kickboxed in a ring, I’ve sparred with men and women. I took Krav Maga. I know who loses in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:32 PM
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So this is just one more revenge fantasy morality tale where an unsuccessful male screams at women that they better act desperate and settle down with whatever guy will have them at 24 because they’ll be desperate and worn out at 30. News flash, many GenZ women don’t want kids. And as soon as you don’t worry about the biological clock, 30 stops being an issue. I did want kids. I had a smorgasbord of lovely men interested in dating me and marrying me at 28. They also wanted kids. No desperation. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:24 PM
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Moving the goal posts I see. If you are just here to bitch about women having sex but not with you, stop wasting everyone’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:19 PM
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Why do you think apps are sausage parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:17 PM
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“ Yeah, feeling like a piece of meat isn't that great, but, honestly? Felt way better than the crippling sense of worthlessness you feel on the straight male dating side.” But did you go out with any? Did you have to fend them off? Did you have to experience painful sex? Because I can just post on tindr and enjoy all the messages and get my high and never ever go on a date too. But the idea is that a woman does need to pick one if she’s going to date one,’right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:13 PM
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Because you don’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:10 PM
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This is a dude you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:10 PM
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This is a non-sequitur. her point is that dating going wrong for a woman has a much higher cost than dating going wrong for a man. while I’ve always liked East Asian men myself (but I like all men), there are a lot less East Asians available as a percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:06 PM
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Damn pin this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:03 PM
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As if men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:58 PM
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Let me explain. If someone is unattractive to that person, no, not getting there. If you are neutral, a good personality can flip the switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:56 PM
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No boyo. It isn’t secondary. That’s why a dude can go from Adonis to zero when he opens his mouth. Looks are overt. That is the fastest and easiest thing to judge. I was neutral when I first laid eyes on my husband. In a hour I was all over him. He did that with his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:54 PM
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That photos are a difficult way to judge sexual attraction for women. Men are not women. The circulation for playgirl was never close to playboys, but women love erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:48 PM
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Or some weird mix. I like lumberjacks. But I like Tom Holland, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:47 PM
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YES. Like so many of the mega gym bros aren’t appealing. And btw - you know who got my motor running as a teen girl - fucking Tommy Lee Jones (late forties) in the fugitive. And HE IS not most people’s heart throb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:46 PM
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“ The secret is that they find 80-90% of men unattractive.” Facts not in evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:42 PM
2

Or they go absolutely rancid, usually in their forties - not all but some
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:38 PM
4

And yet it’s men screaming about the loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:35 PM
3

And yet women can take it or leave it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:34 PM
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“ and they can double their income and secure a retirement with a man…” And he too can “double his income.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:32 PM
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I think this is an incredibly healthy attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:31 PM
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Hopefully it won’t end ❤️❤️❤️ I have a great marriage to a great guy. I doubt I’d remarry after
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:31 PM
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Meanwhile, reasonable agent doesn’t say one word to the men who say “avoid women over 30 - they are all bitter harridans who can’t pair bond.” PS, a lot of those bitter harridans could have written exactly what you did - with the genders flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:28 PM
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Not on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:25 PM
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Chads have lots of experience and are generally NOT jaded. The type of experience matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:24 PM
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“ Why would you? They're lived in.” And men also - gasp - age. I see this shit all the time. Most men aren’t silver foxes. And most men arent Leo. Most men age and age badly. Ha I looked up my ex (seems he died recently). We married at 22 and 25. I am about 10 lbs heavier now. He packed on at least 50, all to his fucking belly. He dressed like shit, and looked like shit. No silver fox. Aged poorly. He wasn’t pulling some 25 year old hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:22 PM
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You realize that the man is also doubling his income as well? I don’t really disagree otherwise. You are quite right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:18 PM
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Men are the ones saying “male loneliness epidemic.” And if men aren’t saying “where are the good women?” doesn’t that mean women don’t become jaded after 30, but men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:15 PM
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Then you are entirely wrong because women provide. If they didn’t, the most jaded men of all - divorced men - wouldn’t be running back into marriage faster than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:12 PM
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“ Women don't provide for the most part. The most important part of that statement was the ability to provide that lifestyle for someone else. You skipped it bevuase as a woman you know they don't wanna provide. So no women are not offering the same thing at all.” Women do provide and always have - you men just refuse to recognize it because unless it is dollars and cents you don’t think it counts. And that is bullshit. But divorced MEN - who ought to be and often are the most jaded of all - are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:10 PM
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Give yourself grace. I as a woman also become more jaded in my late 20s after a failed marriage. It’s not a gendered thing; it’s a getting a little older thing. But I also think one’s attitude can improve as one ages, too. We all get jaded and need to work through it. Accept that the world is a lot of shades of gray. Appreciate the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:56 PM
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They do. In fact middle aged and older men are notorious for becoming angry and cynical. That’s the whole joke of “grumpy old men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:52 PM
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None of that means he isn’t jaded, unable to pair bond, and less enjoyable to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:51 PM
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This. Men love the hot bad girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:19 AM
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A lot of men aren’t interested in settling until their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:16 AM
1

Yah “short term.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:15 AM
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The good and attractive men are taken off the market by the good and attractive women. You guys are rarely paying attention to the quiet married folks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:13 AM
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I’ll summarize it. Good and attractive men are snatched off the market fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:12 AM
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Yes they do https://norwegianscitechnews.com/2020/06/women-and-men-still-choose-partners-like-they-used-to/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:08 AM
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No the actual evidence says the opposite. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24588091/ https://norwegianscitechnews.com/2020/06/women-and-men-still-choose-partners-like-they-used-to/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:08 AM
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Women don’t say they don’t care about looks. “ boys or young men who are realizing this narrative they've been told their entire lives is actually false and they're angry at being lied to for their whole lives. Treat these venting posts accordingly.” L M A O - only a homeschooled shut in could ever think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:03 AM
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And plenty of men guards fuck women inmates so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:03 AM
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Men are hot for Luigi too, so why don’t yoh get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:02 AM
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Before he shot the man, he was an attractive, cut and highly educated college graduate that looked NOTHING like a coked up biker. You’d never would have known he had a murderer inside. And I see tons of men simping and admiring him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:02 AM
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“ Is it really that hard tho, how was i supposed to know the fully tatted violent biker gang drug dealer felon serial killer was the bad kind of masculine?” The guy who ended up treating me like dog shit was blond, blue eyed, country boy and college graduate - we went to the same university. He was built like a beanpole, over six feet. No tats, no bike, no criminal history, no drug dealing. You all make these stupid exaggerations as if bad men are wearing neon lights. They aren’t. How many choir…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:59 AM
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They have. That’s why so few women are on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:51 AM
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I dated pre apps. People also got shitty false reputations as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:50 AM
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Because small scrawny guys can also be violent for ffs I’m five feet tall and weigh 110. My husband is a short man. He is still 6 inches taller and outweighs be by sixty lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:47 AM
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Oh my fucking god
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:26 PM
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Suck his dick and tell him he rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:25 PM
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Damn. Paramedics are really solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:25 PM
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I call women who insist on subjecting themselves to their husband’s fools
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:15 PM
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Right? Which means most low grade men get killed, not a waifu wife
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:12 PM
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“ Great! We'll get to see. My read on global events does not trend positive for women's rights, but hey, maybe it'll flip.” You think only women will be affected. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:11 PM
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“ If women are only attracted to a tiny proportion of men, then the problem is with them.” Facts not in evidence “ It's not like men have gotten shorter or worse looking.” Yes they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:09 PM
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“ Men aren't complaining when they are getting as much sex as they want. If the wife is having as much sex with him as "the hottest his wife ever had", they won't really care. In the end, actions are what matter. Idealism takes a backseat.” I say this as a HLF - I don’t really want to feel like I have to fuck my husband when ever he wants. At certain points during pregnancy it became so painful. And that’s a great way to trick a guy. Just wait until the ring is on and then… stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:08 PM
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Except of course if you are too young to appropriately judge the guy. I married at 22 to the first man I had sex with. It was a disaster. He didn’t treat me well. By raising my standards I did much better the second time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:06 PM
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Do men marry women they aren’t attracted to? Does it end well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:04 PM
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No - the thread is that trading looks doesn’t mean you get a man of better character
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:03 PM
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Actually I’m glad you didn’t exaggerate. It really robs men of a valid point - women are more focused on financial security than men are. But when men start claiming outlandish numbers it’s hard to take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:01 PM
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Are you so far gone into rage and anger? The man who took my virginity, that I gave my “youth” and “best” to as you guys claim women should do, treated me the worst. Like what? I dated Chad after my ex. And then I dumped him even tho he wanted me to move in with him. Let me know how dumping him was “treating him well.” And I married someone else. I get it, you only value women for their vaginas. You think “being treated well” is getting no strings attached sex and kick her out in the morning. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:57 PM
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What point? (That men don’t want to get settled down early. You didn’t decide to start seriously looking for a wife until you turned 24. That means you were through undergrad - assuming US - and potentially through a masters. It takes an extended period of time to meet the right person. You have a few LTRs. It’s not a shock that men now marry at 31 and women 28.Women here are pressured to settle down in their “prime,” which means 24. That means they need to be dating seriously at 21, but men tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:46 PM
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“ Why do people believe that humans, generally speaking, are rational market participants?” This shit should be posted on EVERY post. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:37 PM
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You know, you decide who to give your attention to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:36 PM
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Sorry, there is no moral benefit to picking a short man over a tall one. And the way you scream at women over this shit, you sound like a 300 lb purple haired fat influencer bitching that men are degenerate for wanting slender men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:31 PM
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“ consider them moral agents responsible for rewarding morality and punishing immorality with every decision they make in the same way men are.” So do you criticize Chad for pump and dump? Will I find you calling out PUAs? “ I believe women are responsible for the incentive structure they create for men when they decide to reward some trait, ignore others and flat out punish some.” You out there telling your boys to date and marry a super fat woman so long as she treats him like gold? If not why…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:26 PM
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“ Meanwhile there are men willing to date women of all shapes, sizes, income levels, living situations and medical diagnosis.” Meanwhile are men willing to fuck women of all shapes, sizes, income levels, living situations and medical diagnosis.” Fuck, not date; not have a relationship with, not support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:24 PM
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Agree with the God King here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:51 PM
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“I don't see how forcing a man into a trench to be shelled for 3 years is any less morally reprehensible than forcing women to bear pregnancies so the country can have enough men to force into said trench. You are risking the life and limb of both in different ways.” Have you been forced into a trench for three years? No? Then sit down. Stop stealing valor from better men to enslave women for 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:50 PM
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“ Now imagine screaming at a female friend.” Most men are taller than me - usually by over half a foot to a foot. Most men outweigh me by 75-100 lbs. I think you’d feel a lot differently in my shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:24 PM
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This interchange right here is high comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:18 PM
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“ The guy who built her house and who wants to wife her up and raise kids together, is unfortunately the same guy.” My husband didn’t build our house. He also didn’t pay for it - we paid for it together. We both work. Stop trying to steal the valor of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:14 PM
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Yeah, I hear that and then I hear women who "suddenly fall out of love" and have no problem completely sinking their husband's financial situation and erasing him socially from any environment she can. That child is also the father’s so to the extent the state subsidizes children that is a benefit to BOTH parents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:07 PM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:06 PM
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“ Yeah, I hear that and then I hear women who "suddenly fall out of love" and have no problem completely sinking their husband's financial situation and erasing him socially from any environment she can.” Sure….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:02 PM
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“ solved if women were the one's to ask guy's out, but it would mean giving up some of their own power.” Men will fuck women they aren’t even attracted to. Why would it make any sense to ask a guy out if they have no problems lying and bullshitting to get their dicks wet until something better comes along. Oh wait, you guys think men don’t lie because HRT makes women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:59 PM
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“ No more than 100,000 year's ago, men were still Neanderthals engaging in tribal warfare and hunting mammooths.” Homo sapiens are not descended from Neanderthals; we are a separate species (although there was some cross breeding). Considering you made such a simple mistake in human evolution, maybe you should can the evo-bullshit, which is simply your effort to dress up your view of gender dynamics in pseudo science. Thanks bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:56 PM
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“ It seems that the final standard we're going with on consent issues is that sex should only happen exactly where, when and how a woman wants to have sex.” And men also should also only have sex “exactly where, when and how a (man) wants to have sex.” He shouldn’t get pegged if he doesn’t want it. He shouldn’t eat her out of he doesn’t want to. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:52 PM
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That’s some ice cold shade: “ Since you have tiktok attention span, let’s just go through the highlight reel. No unnecessary things like reading comprehension, just hard evidence.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:48 PM
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You mean women who regularly talk about their men as amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:46 PM
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“ . Your hypothetical is a bit strange because in this scenario, everyone got sick, so why is it his responsibility to somehow fix it? It would be obviously his responsibility if everyone but him got sick, but if everyone is sick, why is he automatically assumed to be responsible?” The answer is simple - both he and his wife together have to man up. The less sick person takes the lead. The question isn’t a trick one but IS very revealing. Brava to you @u/missmirey An adult who understands the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:45 PM
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I too am one of the lucky ones. But there are a lot of duds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:36 PM
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See, it doesn’t matter what we tell you - you guys just invent reasons why we deserve how we were treated. Instead of adjusting your world view in response to new facts, you simply sweep away or ignore the facts. That is the triumph of feelings over facts but no doubt you’ll claim “men are the rational ones…” The one who treated me the worst was my ex husband and - at the time - the only man I had been with. I did the things you claim women should do - I married the man who popped my cherry at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:34 PM
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This exactly. People can love someone and it not work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:25 PM
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Chad asked me to move in. I dumped him for my husband. My husband was better and we are more aligned in values. Do you think that simply because a woman dates you or enjoys your company that we want to marry you - L M A O For all that men complain that women think a guy who fucks them will wife them, it’s actually men who think that as soon as a women fucks him, he owns her. He gets oh so shocked when they sashay on their way, even chads. Edited to add - Chad continued to treat me fine in the br…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:19 PM
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More like, “Chad bad, ugly man good”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:14 PM
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“ However, when a woman says that she wants to find love and/or she can't match with the highly attractive men on the dating apps, people are going to suggest that she might need to lower her standards to get that.” Is that actually HAPPENING at such levels to warrant screeching over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:12 PM
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“ Ok, fine. Then accept that the men you want don't want to date you with serious intention. Also, stop complaining that you cannot attract said men.” But men did want to date me with serious intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:08 PM
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“ I, as a guy wanted to settle ever since I got my first serious job at 24. You're projecting, early 20s are not fun at all when you are male.” You are proving my point muchacho. If you want wedding bells at 24, you needed to start dating seriously at 21. Not every person you date is a good long term choice. One of my friends went through two long term relationships before finally marrying at 31 or 32. Her husband also went through many relationships, too - and he is not a chad. It’s hard to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:07 PM
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“ is it that when women have unrealistic standards (e.g., must make $200k or more, must be well-endowed, must be at least 6'2"” Any day now, men here will insist that “women’s” standards are a 10 inch penis, 6’6” height, and 500k. 🙄 The truth is only the stupidest, shallowest, or best of the best looking women have those types of standards. I go to the gym with a bunch of college kids. I see girls with good looking gym guys. They aren’t 6 feet and aren’t making 100k. I don’t know what is in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:29 PM
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No one cares if you don’t want to date fat chicks - no hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:42 PM
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He doesn’t. I despised pregnancy. I am a good mother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:35 PM
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“ Good mothers want to have children, they don't have to be begged or pleaded in to it reluctantly.” I’m a good mother. I wouldn’t do it absent a fully supportive spouse. That foresight is one of the ways I am a good mother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:34 PM
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Fertility rates are complicated. I read the Natalism sub often for studies they post and have been interested in the baby bust which has been ongoing for 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:32 PM
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No but that isn’t what you said. You said this “ The types of women that deeply resent pregnancy and birthing children…” And I was also fine with not procreating except with an exceptional male that backed me up 100% and would support me 100%. And I chose wisely - as he supported us entirely as I had to quit work for six months due to preeclampsia in my second pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:28 PM
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Lmao. No. Even in shithole countries fertility drops with bc. It’s a multifaceted issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:22 PM
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“ Yes, pregnancy is a fucking choice that men have no part in!” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:21 PM
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I notice no attempt by men to change that law. Tell me about your lobbying efforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:08 PM
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lol you think eating more is all that is needed…. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:06 PM
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Every child a woman has shortens her life span
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 PM
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“ As for males/men dipping out of their responsibilities, that's a side effect of the dismantling of cultural norms & societal expectations…” Men used to run out on families all the time and could do so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 PM
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“… and/or with men that have a lot of options…” I honestly believe that if my husband only loves me because he can’t fuck anyone else, I’d rather give up on men. Here is the thing? I always could have fucked someone else, I had other suitors, so why would my husband ever think I wouldn’t just bounce? Or cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:19 AM
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No one cares if you don’t date fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:15 AM
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And you are incapable of basic English, so I guess we’re even
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:12 AM
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Why would anyone regardless of gender date a broke person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:10 AM
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Wonder why men give up custody to their ex wives so much. Must be because raising kids are super easy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:09 AM
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Being a woman means full time mental distress. I’m sorry but wtf? I’ve worked every day of my life since I was 16 and went to school and am an attorney, a very high stress career. My SIL is a surgeon. Also a ver high stress and demanding career. I and my husband work our asses off to support or children. And I also carried them and gave birth to them, while he got to fuck me to get them. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:06 AM
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Ok no babies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:01 AM
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lmost entirely has everything to do with living standards and economics and not you perceived gripes about women having to do the child birthing and rearing. (Birthrate is falling everywhere once peope get access to birth control.) Life isn't fair, grow up. If the unfairness of having a child bothers you that much don't have them. ( that’s what is happening)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:01 AM
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I deeply resented pregnancy - I fucking hated it - I adore my kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:57 AM
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Cause a mid man will never use you for sex right???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:56 AM
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You missed my second line - less attractive men don’t necessarily have better character. It seems that you believe that there are many mid men with hearts of gold. To the contrary, having high standards on the character level is harder to find that a 5 ft 10 man and up. Also it’s always revealing when guys claim that girls only want 6/6/6. A very certain type of girl insists on that. Finally this always seemed aim at young 20 something girls. But just like young 20 something guys they aren’t int…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:54 AM
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If we tell you, you tell us we are lying. But here, one of my friends I’ve known for over ten years. She was dating in her late 20s. Now in her late 30s, she’s done. I’ve talked with her about her view - the change? She got through babies rabies. She told me once she wanted my life - married to a well to do man with two kids. Could have been a SAHM. A decade later she was glad she hadn’t because she got through babies rabies and realized that the sex and companionship the men she met offered isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:31 AM
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Dude, my husband rocks it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:24 AM
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At least you didn’t say 100k ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:22 AM
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Why would dropping standards make it more likely to find a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:20 AM
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“ because women keep complaining about not being able to find love.…” No, actually they are complaining that the men available don’t treat them well. Love has nothing to do with it. And here is the kicker - dropping physical standards, which is what men want women to do - doesn’t mean that the less attractive men treat us better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:19 AM
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“ and everyone else merely begging for scraps and who would eternally love and cherish every drop of pussy that falls on his face…” Sing it sister. The man who treated me the worst was an insecure jerk and not that hot. The one Chad I dated treated me great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:16 AM
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My quibble - it is a hallmark of very young men and women to value certain aspects that are not conductive to healthy relationships. I consider it normal and not blame worthy - teens and very young adults have always valued hotness of various kinds. The problem is those kids aren’t here and wouldn’t be listening to older fogies anyway, so I find most of it disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:14 AM
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“ TBH as a woman I think a lot of women have become out of touch with realistic income due to social media.” Please. Do you think women don’t fucking work? And magically men aren’t mIsLeD by social media over what jobs pay? Unless mommy and daddy are floating daughter’s bills, women aren’t out of touch any more than men. Sure women can have fucked up priorities or want to be spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:09 AM
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It is awesome there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:05 AM
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It depends where in California. California housing prices are off the charts but it’s more than just “slightly lower taxes” in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:05 AM
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Then get used to being alone, dude. Same as the gal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:14 AM
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Rent of Canadian is hilarious. You get great public services. The tax burden for middle and lower class is lower in Cali than Texas. Shit you not. Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:09 AM
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The irony right here. You are crying over the bear thing making you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:07 AM
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“(Men) have so totally jumped the shark in terms of their hatred of (women) generally that they are in no position to criticize any (women) who makes similar statements about them.” how far would you like to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:06 AM
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I know this is flippant, but guess who created insurance in the event that even if you make safe decisions, you still have a backup. Technically it's not specifically men specifically protecting women but government policies protecting everyone, but the safety is there for you. The fact that you pay less for it is a nice bonus. (Men created insurance for MEN. And in fact BARRED women from accessing it independently from a man, so sorry I won’t be on my knees thanking you for your nobility when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:01 AM
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Then you aren’t looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:15 AM
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As I’m quite aware of the Rutherford Hayes fiasco which led to the collapse of reconstruction, the spread of Jim Crow, and the such tragedies as the Wilmington NC massacre and coup d’etat don’t even TRY it or claim revisionist history. Black Men AND women were both lynched - and that’s a fucking sin - but that doesn’t change the fact that: Men were more willing to give black men the vote than women. The first black senator - Hiram Revels of Mississippi 1870z The first female senator? (Elected) H…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:13 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:01 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:01 AM
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Nah man. Most men are married or in dating relationships. So yes they get some female attention. All you have to do is look at the stats. Truth is, you are only thinking of a very narrow subset. You see my husband walk by you think, look at that tubby gray haired short dude (he started going grey in his 20s). But I rode him this morning. And a few days ago I let him mouth fuck me - not my favorite thing but he’s worth it. But I doubt you ever think of guys like him. He’s middle aged and fat. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:56 AM
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Commitment doesn’t mean marriage, muchacho. Most women want to be in dating relationships before fucking. Many women I know - but not all - didn’t have sex until they were in a monogamous relationship. That doesn’t mean that they never had causal sex or ONS, only that it was rare. Of course I’m talking about generally well adjusted women. One of my friends to this day - sweet as gold but just, i donno - she’s always been willing to do plenty of causal. Another one - ex friend - well she’s just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:47 AM
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It’s amazing how fast men get to threatening stripping women of their rights rather than paying women money to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:35 AM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:24 AM
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In the DANCE industry. Those are hot fit and flexible girls and I’ve seen male dancers Plenty of women are paired with men under six feet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:23 AM
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And they are getting it, good and hard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 AM
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If women engaged in causal sex like men, there wouldn’t be nearly the complaining. I rarely engaged in casual sex. And I have many friends who never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:00 AM
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Not like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:58 AM
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Women really don’t want that much casual sex dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:43 PM
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This. I’ve always had a preference for taller men, to the point I dated a 7 ft basketball player when I am 5 feet flat. I realized this was stupidity. Almost all men will be taller than me. I dropped that as a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:38 PM
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Bingo and here is the thing even if looking for long term they will still hit with what’s available in the meantime bid inn their time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:07 PM
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It’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:48 PM
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“ You live longer.” And we get better insurance because we are less reckless. So how is that about men protecting women? We go to the doctors more. How is that men protecting women? Did you know that drugs are never tested on women, leaving us suffering severe side effects? Let’s talk about all the biases against women in medical care: https://physicians.dukehealth.org/articles/recognizing-addressing-unintended-gender-bias-patient-care https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8812498/ “ You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:48 PM
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Who kills men? Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:38 PM
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Bahahaha omg I bet you believe these ahistorical lies men tell about themselves to make themselves feel better. Who gained the right to vote (thus treated as a full human) first? A black man or a white woman? That tells you who men first saw as fully human- other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:38 PM
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“ Your life partner is not necessarily going to be your hobby twin. If you’re outdoorsy, you can still date someone who is less outdoorsy than you, but then have friends who can meet that desire elsewhere.” Oh boy. Are you in a long term relationship? You really do need to have some overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:58 AM
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Admittedly my previous wording is exaggerated, more realistically guys just don't want a wife who only duty sexes him if other men were at least able to get her to enjoy sex. (That is a massive difference then. And I’d agree. I wouldn’t ever want to be with someone who never enjoyed sex with me; yuck.) So what happens if I’m the best my husband ever had but my ex was a better lay? Then the dynamics are lopsided. Preferably he would've also had a better lay before to even things out. Ideally you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:11 AM
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Aw no sweetheart, you are normal. There is so much anger and rage and meanness in the world. Kindness is a premium. If you look at the studies, both genders really mark kindness super highly. When I give my girls a welcoming smile - or my husband - when they get home, it makes their day. It makes mine too. I came home yesterday and my husband came out to the garage with a big smile. And fuck it made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:48 PM
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“ Let's be clear here: even if I was single, there is nary a woman alive that I'd want to stick my dick in. Period. Dot. Stop. Now feel free to delude yourself into thinking I'd want you, lol please.” Stop arguing with imaginary women in your head bro that are secretly lusting after you. I myself am happily married and dont want random angry internet dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:45 PM
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“Men do not want to invest their lives towards women who've had better experiences elsewhere.” With that type of attitude, you are doomed. That is such CRAZY making insecurity and a recipe for misery. You all are so terrified of being second in any way that it’s no wonder you all never have a happy relationship. Can you not see the pure irrationality? Like what, so if some girl fucked my husband better before I met him, I shouldn’t marry him? So what happens if I’m the best my husband ever had b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:06 AM
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Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:58 PM
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I’ve had some bisexual experience. And I’ve been the one who has acted or been assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:56 PM
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Gotcha. I guess it seems akin to that situation though. My default is usually, whatever makes people happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:55 PM
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If you are genuinely interested: https://www.dailyartmagazine.com/victorian-erotica-pornography/ Again NSFW….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:52 PM
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Love BTB
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:46 PM
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I wouldn’t date a PL man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:45 PM
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Yup. Uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:42 PM
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Proving that women can be equally as dumb as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:42 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me??? A goddamned billionaire named Musk is running amok in the US Government and sucking off the taxpayer teat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:41 PM
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Looks at the avalanche of recent posts on why women date bad men or why women need to lower/change their standards, all posted by men, and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 PM
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Yet I see a paucity of any data to back up your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:31 PM
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Man, you are the epitome of Reddit-brain - Making up a woman in your head and then ranting about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:29 PM
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“ I would like to mention that this is something that liberal women do a lot in contrast to conservative/religious minded women who are more faithful to their partner.” As someone surrounded by “church going conservative women” you would be wrong. You’d be shocked how many wives get it on with the preacher. Although the data is poor, there is this: https://www.theguardian.com/science/2018/jul/19/ashley-madison-democrats-less-inclined-cheat-spouses-republicans Although liberal women express less …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:19 PM
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I mean, asexual people want to marry too. If both parties agree to it, it seems fine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:11 PM
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No. No more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:08 PM
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Oh yes, they were just as horny. Google Victorian porn. NSFW!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:06 PM
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Good on you! Sexuality through the ages is fascinating. It helps us understand that many things we take as “biological truth” are actually socially mediated - not that they were more right in the past, but that we need to consider whether we could be just as mistaken. I recommend Kate Lister’s Betwixt the Sheets podcast. She is a sex historian out of the UK and a hoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:06 PM
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Hey different strokes for different folks ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:25 AM
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Considering how you are unable to grasp long term financial planning, the economic downsides of forgoing career development, or the difficulty of re-entering the labor market after a multi-year hiatus, I doubt you have the financial resources to support a SAHM for a month. Take it to a CPA to dumb it down. Really the way you continue to attack arguments I never made (SAHMs are all frumpy 4s?) or engage in ad homenin (chubby?) or that an average woman can’t get a man who does math? YOU can’t do m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:22 AM
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So no evidence. You are just pulling this out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:03 AM
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He’s negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:00 AM
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He’s just negging the fuck out of women. It’s pure manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:59 AM
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Because he is awesome in other respects?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:49 AM
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Wow. How many blow jibs have you given that you know it takes no effort (it does)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:49 AM
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Men most definitely care if women starfish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:48 AM
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On one hand you bitch that women should be more compassionate toward men and their insecurities but then you bash women for faking orgasms to protect their feelings. You don’t get to act like an insecure twat and then get mad at your sexual partner who cares about you for performing yo make you feel better. I’ll tell men nicely when they aren’t doing it for me, but I would kick them right out if they acted up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:44 AM
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“ How were women supposed to get by without a man? Did they build their own houses? Seemed not very common.” Men didn’t get by without women so hot either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:37 AM
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Hehe I walked in on my dad and step mom. Burned into my brain forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:35 AM
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“ Benedict Cumberbatch looks like lizard person, he's millions of woman's dreamboat…” Omg YES. I don’t like him at all. Give me Tom Holland. But I also had a crush on Tommy Lee Jones and he is not handsome…. But I absolutely had the hots for him after the fugitive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:24 AM
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Heheh these meddling kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:21 AM
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Dr Laura was a hypocritical harridan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:20 AM
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“ The wife did not have to fake orgasms and the husband did not have to feel inadequate for not giving them to her. He did his thing and she tolerated it and then they went on with their lives. False. In the middle ages, for pregnancy it was considered necessary that both people orgasmed. If a man couldn’t get his wife off, he couldn’t impregnate her. Women were also considered voracious sexually. Read the Canterbury Tales This “lie back and think of England” is a Victorian thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:19 AM
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“ It would be a bad situation to where a woman i am dating expects me to give up the racing friends I have, then I wrongly expect her just to be into such a visceral hobby. We're asking for two incorrect things that will just cause friction later.” Then don’t date those women. I didn’t interfere with my husband’s hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:12 AM
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Have you considered reading the studies that evaluate why men cheat? Because I just see apologia based on your personal unfounded opinions. Had you’d done a modicum of research you would discover that women in polyamory and open relationships score a lot more dick than their husbands score pussy. Those men find themselves sitting at home while the wife has a good time because here is the thing - men and women aren’t quite a different as you might think. Women definitely enjoy having that NRE sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:10 AM
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“ But if you’ve ever been shown that page it actually is just average women posting about how a Chad sweet talked her into a coffee/parked car date, they hooked up, and then he ghosted her.” I’m sure you’ve done an in depth analysis of every post, categorized it, and can produce the results right? No? Then all you are showing is your personal animosity toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:57 AM
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Lmao. I was a SAHM for six months. I did it but became depressed so went back to work. I wear a 30k engagement ring. I don’t look down on SAHM, but I’m also financially literate and know what it looks like when someone discovers they have to support themselves after not working for 30 years. I do insurance coverage. I understand risk. You can tell me my husband settled for me, but frankly, all you’ve proven is how financially illiterate you are. It’s not particularly attractive and, if you hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:51 AM
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They do. If they are cute enough. This is dating, not a job interview. You wouldn’t date a forty year old mid woman that didn’t attract you, or a really ugly girl or a really fat girl. When it comes to a relationship, men never ever select first for honesty or niceness. Why do you keep expecting girls to be more virtuous than you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:34 AM
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Not really. That’s why men are mad that they can’t force women’s selections
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:32 AM
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Weird. None of my close female friends had these problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:30 AM
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I was a 50/50 girl and am now married to th guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:20 AM
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I am married to a guy that dealt drugs in his teens and early twenties. He has a doctorate and is utterly faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:19 AM
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Did you date only the pure kind girls matter what they looked like? Did you date the hooker with the heart of gold? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:16 AM
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So you are damaged goods that good women shouldn’t touch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:13 AM
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And I guess it’s mere coincidence that men go after all the same girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:12 AM
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Blue is right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:11 AM
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And most women are invisible to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:11 AM
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Apparently not, since these Facebook pages exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:10 AM
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Ah and are you chastising OP for obliterating the guardrails of traditional values? Or are only women held to those standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:10 AM
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Oh sure. It’s for society, not getting your dick wet. No one believes you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:08 AM
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One can be a good person, good looking, and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:06 AM
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Yes! I made this point a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:05 AM
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Tell me how you want to socially ostracize Chad for immorally fucking everyone. Oh you don’t? You just worship them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:04 AM
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So, men need to be held accountable for dating some crazy chick? You fucked some hood rat that slashed your tires at 18, you are forever barred from dating a nice intelligent good woman who treats you well? “ Yes, women’s behavior today in dating & relationships is atrocious.” You should start hanging around a better class of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:02 AM
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You understand that makes those young men just as pathetic as the women you complain about, right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:00 AM
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Because they want to screw those women like a chad instead
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:59 AM
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I went 50/50 and the man married me. We’ve been married for 18 years. And that SAHM trophy wife is going to be in a bad position when she’s left. As a 50/50 girl, I’ll flourish even if I’m alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:58 AM
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You are nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:55 AM
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I dealt with men taken in by romance scams. Several. They get sympathy and criminal investigations into the scammers. Would you be mad if men posted a Facebook account about how this woman or that woman conned him and to watch out for others? No? Then stop bitching about women protecting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:54 AM
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If he lies, he’s a bad guy and women should be warned that he’s a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:52 AM
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This - and every response you’ve made -should be pinned to the top. You all 100% correct. I come from the very very poor and dysfunctional branch of a well to do family. So I saw a good bit of what you describe in dirt poor Appalachia and also where the money lives in Fauquier county. It’s not that the rich don’t do stupid shit or have poor relationships, but they have the MONEY to insulate them from the consequences. A poor kid gets nailed with MJ, it’s prison, which just introduces him to more…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:48 AM
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Again, if class is marrying class, they are - to use the parlance - equally yoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:10 AM
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I agree and I don’t think you did anything wrong at all btw. This is why we date. I just mean she wasn’t what OP keeps describing, a woman who was “so far below you” in class, charisma, or looks that was was deluded to think you’d do more than just have sex. And sure, people get upset and act insane and desperate when you break up with them. My first husband begged me not to go - I was the best he could have ever expected, considering who came after. So he begged and slashed my new boyfriend’s t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:09 AM
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People like this..::
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:08 PM
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It isn’t a one way deal. Look at the data. Most women work. I know very few SAHMS. But women worry about sufficient money to raise their kids safely. If we had a better social safety net and I didn’t have to worry about my kids getting medical care, the salary of my partner is far less important. I’d bet dollars to donuts that this is why 50/50 is entirely normal in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:05 PM
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Studio Ghibli is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:01 PM
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Aw! She was such a cutie. So sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:00 PM
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To me, he’s very good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:57 PM
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Lordy are you gullible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:59 PM
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Because attractiveness is largely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:57 PM
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I’m sure you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:56 PM
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And a man is much more likely to fuck a Stacy than a Becky. So????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:55 PM
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Because men were delusional before as the studies showed and now they realize they were. If YOU thought before social media that being fat was equally attractive to being cut as a man, YOU were the one deluded. Both sexes tend to prefer the more svelte. Look dude, I lost weight and got a lot more male attention. None of that was a shock and it wasn’t social media’s fault for deluding men to value skinny. I wasn’t deluded before - more men prefer thinner bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:54 PM
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I’m upvoting. Here is the deal though, it is hard for both men and women, especially the young, to fight against that social pressure. Our irrational insecurities pop up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:43 PM
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And of course the algorithm keeps pumping them to him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:41 PM
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Bravo KayRay. You are a breath of fresh air
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:41 PM
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Imagine thinking 16 year olds are good barometers of adult men or women. Feel free to post contrary evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:39 PM
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Hey you get to value what you want! I ended up with a green eyed man, too. Love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:34 PM
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It’s “rein.” Fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:33 PM
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To the contrary, the studies show that MEN are more delusional about their looks than woman. In light of that evidence, your entire argument collapses like a house of cards. It’s men that need to be humbled if anyone does, and maybe that is what is happening. Although I tend to think it’s not the internet’s business to humble anyone’s dating preferences unless asked. That is the for the individual. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:33 PM
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No need to be condescending - it’s you that made the terrible analogy. You are claiming that a drugged out sugar baby is an example of the delusion of a substantial set of women? Have you thought critically about the inference you are making? That would be like me saying that substantial set of attractive, moderately wealthy, middle-aged, and reasonably intelligent men are going to fuck a drugged out ex-sugar baby on long term basis or introduce that woman to his teen son. Most men have more cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:28 PM
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“ Most women have simply never been punched in the face, have never been in a fight, have never had their bones broken, etc. But this has happened to a much larger number of men.” And who is breaking the bones? Not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:37 PM
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The studies show that women apologize more than men. Your personal experience is poor data https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20855900/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:35 PM
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Do you think we would have every desirable invention if women didn’t exist? No, boyo, without women YOU wouldn’t exist. Your latent bigotry is exposed for all the world to see. Despite glaring evidence that WOMEN, when finally given the same access to education and jobs as men, succeed equally as well as men, you still continue to overtly claim that MEN built civilization and we are all parasites. To the contrary, men are the parasites as they constantly downgrade the essential female work of ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:30 PM
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I say I’m mid all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:06 AM
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I’m sure you feel you got one over on me but you didn’t. Firstly, my comment regarding Waffle House waitresses was in response to the posters snotty comment that western women social climb for money or status. They don’t, as the data shows. Secondly, you have yet to prove your premise - that a Waffle House waitress will think she can land a lawyer just because she fucked one. No foundation for your opinion. PS, I’ll enjoy reposting this as men here constantly insist men only care if she’s hot, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:02 AM
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Please for the love of god stop equating women in general to the used up crazy sugar baby your father decided to fuck around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:54 PM
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You dated her for A YEAR before deciding that she wasn’t wife material. That means she was close. She wasn’t deluded to think she was out of your class.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:53 PM
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“ . A significant amount aren't even aware that there's a difference between the best men they can fuck and the best men willing to commit to them.” Dude. Your example was a sugar baby. One. And from that you believe that a “significant portion” of women think that if a man fucks her, he’ll marry her. It’s so goddamned laughable. I don’t know about your fiance or Europe - I wish you’d ask - but here in the us our mommas sit us down and tell us that men are always after fucking any woman they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:48 PM
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His example was a coked out sugar baby. That’s what he considers a run of the mill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:42 PM
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Here is the problem with your little tale - for Lori to be a coke headed party girl that gets big expensive trips and gifts and perks from men twenty years older and LOADED, she had to be a bombshell. These were sugar daddies who were just buying her time. And aside from your dad,* none of these were chads. Chads are HOT and Chads don’t waste money on flying mid coke heads to Aruba. Sugar daddies aren’t Chads. They are ugly to mid middle aged men buy a young woman’s time. The funny thing is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:39 PM
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You giving a 3/10 woman your hand in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:13 PM
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Lmao. Just admit you were wrong. You can’t claim that population decline will lead to the end of society AND claim that having kids is only valuable to the parents. We live in a world where gold rules. People do what financially benefits them. Children are massive vortexes of unpaid labor and costs, especially for women. So people have less. If you need more babies for your society to function PAY FOR it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:12 PM
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Do you know how many front line workers were WOMEN during COVID? Nurses, grocery stores, elder care workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:06 PM
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First, women were right there inventing things, too. All you guys do is engage in stolen valor of better men. You aren’t Ada Lovelace, Heddy Lamar, or Einstein. You are a nobody pushing paper just like the rest of us. Women proved we can keep the lights on and forge the armory of liberty in WW2. Second, without women’s work, there’d be no civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:02 PM
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You must have forgotten this statement but I didn’t: “ lol you’re not sure how population decline and lack of motivation for men is bad for society? Read a book.” You acknowledge that kids are needed for SOCIETY. You claim that without women giving men easy access to their p, pairing up, and engaging in the considerable unpaid labor of maintaining hearth and home, men will no longer participate in society and will in fact become violent, “k” and “r”. Those are your words, not mine. So if my unpa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:56 PM
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I treated the husband material much better. Dick is cheap and plentiful. A good man is gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:38 PM
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And do you have any data that supports your view that women are unaware of that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:35 PM
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“ but for characteristics that will overcome all of her own failings (usually emotional control, acquiring wealth, moving up in social status, etc).” The data shows that most people marry within their own class. College graduates are marrying college graduates, not the Waffle House waitress. Sounds like western men are overestimating their intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:34 PM
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Women aren’t surrounded by 10/10 trying to bien them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:27 PM
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It’s not that rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:26 PM
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It’s just fine. Use your words and say it. You just might not get many takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:25 PM
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I agree with much of what you have written but this: “ so women were never decieved about their level of appeal.” I really don’t know and haven’t met that many women “who are deceived by their level of appeal.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:24 PM
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Actually I agree. I’ve always hated this double standard. And again I had to help my brother away from his abusive x wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:22 PM
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So by that analogy, men also shouldn’t be chasing women more attractive. Yet they do .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:18 PM
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But men very much prioritize looks - MORE than women - so why don’t they focus on characteristics conducive to LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:15 PM
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You said nothing about how she treats you in your original comment, you just complained that she slept with hotter men. Why should a woman marry a man that wasted his twenties wanting to date around? It’s the same analogy. Men and women both often change priorities as they approach the thirties. Men and women start getting serious about long term commitment and that does shift mate selection for both. But somehow men are allowed to change their focus from casual dating to serious, but never wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:08 PM
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Height =/= higher status. Otherwise a man’s desire to date a more attractive women is also hypergamous. That means all men are hypergamous by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:03 PM
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Who decides “what they deserve”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:01 PM
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I can’t help it that you don’t hang out with smart people in a major metro area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:00 PM
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My husband is with a fortune 100 company with patents on the application of spline math functions in predictive algorithms. He has a DSc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:00 PM
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I can’t believe you guys downvoted me over lavishing love on my husband. You wish you had a wife who lets you mouth fuck her and thinks you hung the moon. And you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:53 PM
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You mean the guys who all want Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:51 PM
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“ Their standards aren’t inevitable, they are socialized and reinforced by voluntary life experiences.” So weird how this doesn’t apply to men and porn. I guarantee more men are fucking up their standards looking at porn than women are fucking chads. Seems like they cancel each other out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:49 PM
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Yes yes, women are so stupid that they think getting fucked by Chad and kicked out in the morning means that Chad is gonna marry her. Sure dumb women exist. Just like dumb men who think that women should look and act like porn stars. Life will either set that tiny tiny number straight or it won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:47 PM
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And who made you god to dictate what another fully autonomous human being decides to do? You clearly don’t see women as people. They are just little plastic Barbies with no agency and no personal thoughts of their own. I wouldn’t have dated mid-level George truck driver with a beer if I couldn’t have landed my husband. Why? Because it would have bored the hell out of me. A man has to be smart, an inquiring mind to be with me. I never would have dated Bob the accountant Jesus freak because I desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:43 PM
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Women aren’t resources to be picked out by men. Just stop. It isn’t our job to be relationship ready for a man to select. We don’t “spoil” ourselves like overripe apples for men. Because we are people and we are not here to be some man’s “wife”. We decide whether WE want to date, whether we want a relationship, and who we want it with and the type. We don’t need to worry about being selected by men to marry in the our 20s if WE don’t want to get married. Do you worry about men taking themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:34 PM
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Maybe - get this - she doesn’t want commitment all that bad. I mean honestly, had I never wanted kids I wouldn’t have remarried. And I adore my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:15 PM
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Dude, AOL was at its height 25 years ago. I met my husband on match in 2004.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:13 PM
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That is exactly what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:11 PM
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Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:09 PM
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Why do we have to be governed by “biology?” Who decides what is the biological standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:07 PM
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Yah that sounds insane
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:04 PM
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I can handle the answer just fine since you are literally repeating what I said. Seems like you are the one who is failing at comprehension. “ tionship with him it would be upsetting. Men work through and accept this. That doesn’t mean it’s not upsetting and it may need to be explained to others.” = me saying “Grow Up.” I don’t know if husband dated IG models he would have married had they wanted to. I know one of his prior girl friends - that I’ve seen pics of - was seriously hot. I wonder how …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:03 PM
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That’s not relevant to her point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:41 PM
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And as is clear, many of the mid men posting here would love to just use women for their bodies like Chad does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:38 PM
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Aw you are funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:37 PM
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Because there are a lot more men on those apps than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:36 PM
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Oh well. I don’t want some guy who only decided at 26 that he would like to get married. He should have been aiming for marriage at 18 with some basic Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:35 PM
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Lmao right? He is literally saying that he is making a big compromise by accepting a size c instead of size d, but women are too shallow if they want a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:33 PM
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“ please stop listening to other women who tell you short hair looks nice.” Yes women, don’t cut your hair for some random male out there might like it long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:32 PM
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Here is a trick about human nature - men and women - no one wants “too easy.” They don’t value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:28 PM
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Yes. I was pretty pathetic and a virgin wallflower as a teen. Young, dorky, naive, a little pudgy (but I’ve seen pics and I looked much better than I thought). Desperation is pretty potent to scare guys away. They don’t want serious. They don’t want marriage. They want fun. My family considered my first husband way beneath me. They wanted me to turn him down. He treated me badly. Expected me to do 100% of the house hold chores and work full time. Seriously. But he was the first and only guy to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:24 PM
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Women if I recall messaged more men at the mid end of the attraction scale
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:00 PM
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Lmao. Tell men that their aversion to fat girls is deluded when most Americans are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:59 PM
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“I think it's more of a matter of being realistic and understanding who you can attract. It's good to have standards for others, but if you don't meet the minimum standards that others expect from you, you shouldn't complain that people aren't interested in being with you…” Then pass that on to all these guys who diss fat girls but complain that they can’t get what they want. At a certain point, it’s better to be alone. Not everyone marries or has an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:56 PM
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Because men having standards is fine, but not women, especially if it excludes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:53 PM
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What a miserable life to lead. Someone is always going to be prettier, richer, or thinner. I think the real answer is that you are only with her before you couldn’t get someone prettier. And you think she sees you the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:50 PM
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I’m basic Betty. My husband is with me because I was the best all around person he could get. I’m not the prettiest girl he dated. He isn’t the hottest biggest dicked guy I dated. But he is the best for me and I am the best for him. Grow up. We all aren’t the prettiest or tallest or most handsome. That is life. Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:47 PM
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Hope you are saving your virginity for your wedding night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:45 PM
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I want a good man who never chased a Stacy and always wanted to settle down with basic Betty. Did you want to marry at 19? No? Did you simp for some hottie? Yes? Then bye! Oh wait, that’s almost every guy on the planet, because most guys don’t want to marry basic Betty at 19 and most guys try to get with the hottest girls they can. And then they learn and they grow and they enter a different phase of life. Don’t hold women to standards you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:44 PM
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Yes it is. If they keep staying with women who treat them bad for sex. It is within the man’s power to simply leave. And I say the same thing for women. Look, I helped my bro out of a DV situation with his now ex wife. I get people get entangled and need help. But the answer remains the same - my brother needed to leave. And at the start of the relationship, if someone doesn’t doesn’t like how they are treated, leave. That goes for men and for women. It isn’t easy, I agree. But men need to enfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:40 PM
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So stop telling women to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:35 PM
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There is literally no such thing as an “unbiased comparison of traits.” How many plus points does my ass get? I’ve been told by many men, it is that perfect round muscular but not too muscular shape. You going to slap my sister’s ass to see if it’s fabbier? And I can’t date or be serious with a stupid man. Am I barred from dating that rocket scientist because he’s six foot and I’m 5? What governmental resource do I cite for an unbiased assessment of “makes me laugh at 2 am after a hellish flight…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:33 PM
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“ I'm discussing attractiveness with the assumption that all other factors are equal.” All other things ARENT equal. They never are. People aren’t fungible. Most people have mistaken me for my husband’s daughter. As in seriously. Most people will say he probably out threw his coverage. But no one sees how he makes me laugh or treats me so well and is my rock. He’s the most competent and solid man I’ve ever been around. I cannot tell you how valuable that is to someone who grew up with poor famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:05 PM
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Always back to threats. Now it’s an eye for an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:52 PM
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And society doesn’t exist without the massive unpaid labor of women taking care of kids, houses, and family members. I am so tired of listening to men brag how important what they do is and how women are all mooches while simultaneously complaining that civilization will fall without all that labor. I make a lot more money and spend less without kids. I have a lot more time to pursue my desires…. I love my kids but I was very clear eyed on the costs. If kids are needed for society to function, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:50 PM
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It’s amazing watching men suddenly wanting massive social reform and pressure rather than scream about individual responsibility blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:29 PM
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Then hypergamous has no meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:20 PM
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I got much better results by raising my standards. It’s how I have my husband now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:16 PM
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No doubt men here target forty year old fat single moms, right? They aren’t targeting a slender woman with no kids in her twenties?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:14 PM
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“ it is a combination of lust”. Then you are getting something … you just are pissed man want it more than women. It’s always amazing to hear here how women are sheep and men “so independent”; that men are “rational”; and women all “feeling” until it comes to men adjusting their own behavior and controlling themselves rather than others - “that’s impossible!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:07 PM
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Men are such helpless, powerless, children. If it’s such a bad deal, just say no. Just … walk away. If marriage is such a bad deal, don’t… marry? And yet, divorced men run back into the bounds of matrimony FFS. you can spend your money on me, flatter me and pursue me, entertain me and go out off your way to please me. (This is a really telling comment. Do you go on dates with women who were boring? Couldn’t hold up their end of the conversation? Who never complimented you in word or deed? Never …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:03 PM
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Yes I don’t think they’d want a virgin by in large
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:36 AM
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Lmao. Lawd. I guess in your world people never remarry after one dies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:34 AM
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But that’s the same as for men, so by fucking many women, the man is ruining his own ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:31 AM
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I thought it was a lovely positive story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:28 AM
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And then they are driven out or killed once they’ve served their purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:22 AM
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We are the most closely related to chimpanzees
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:21 AM
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Hey man, if serious I wish you luck. I have some good male friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:09 AM
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One guy I saw was actually really attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:01 AM
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“I never said average 30 yr old guy cannot date - most can. They will just never get the same level of agency as “Chad” (which are rare in itself)…..” Excuse me, this is aimed at those guys (not you) who feel so bad that they don’t get to fuck twenty Stacy’s in a row like a college football quarterback - GROW THE FUCK UP. Guess what, I was a basic Becky. Or even worse, a hideous Heidi. Even when I was “in my prime”, I didn’t have men asking me out or buying me drinks at the bar or volunteering t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:00 AM
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You forgot to point out that he’s fat too and she isn’t working class
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:46 AM
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Middle class job = average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:43 AM
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“ don't need to be upfront about having a child because women are so privileged, women get to have so much more in dating and sex as a result, and because women don't even want to be upfront about their body counts, I can choose to not be upfront about my child.” Just remember it’s fine to lie about BC to this guy ladies because rich men have so much more privilege. Every bad thing a man ever did to you allows you to inflict any dishonesty and hell on this specific man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:43 AM
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“ Self care is not real, we are a product of outside stimulus.” You in fact may be an earth room but thousands of years of philosophy - developed by men - tells us that our internal view has a huge impact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:28 AM
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Pre marriage husband and I mostly split bills 50/50. After marriage it all went into one pot. We have little to no financial friction because we are both cheap mfkkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:27 PM
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“ Financial independence is one of the greatest gifts society gave women and the women who choose to walk away from it are taking a big risk imo.” 120%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:25 PM
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Sure. And naive guys will fall for toxic women. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:26 PM
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And yet despite men understanding this concept, they rail and seethe that women are line men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:23 PM
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I think it’s a bit earlier than 28 but I agree. But as a mid woman, we too go through the sting of watching our male friends lust after the toxic hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:21 PM
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Lmao. You guys are so fragile. Whining and downvoting cause your fee fees are so hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:06 PM
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Yah, guys will 180 and completely contradict themselves so long as they can blame the woman. That is the North Star for so many unsuccessful men: If a woman’s husband cheats on her, “she should have picked better.” If a man’s wife cheats on him, “she’s a hoe.” If a woman won’t have sex quick, she doesn’t desire the man. If a woman does have sex quick, she’s for the streets. If a woman is on dating apps, she’s having her value artificially inflated by men thirsting after her and is an attention w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:47 PM
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So? It’s like that in a bar too. Women aren’t looking for bad sex with a rando. And it’s a huge risk of disease, violence, and pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:29 PM
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Me too. I always moved quickly to meeting for coffee in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:25 PM
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How many have worked out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:22 PM
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So apparently are men sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:32 PM
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Hey, I’m a lib. I am still not interested in dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:21 PM
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What? Did the dick pic not work????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:20 PM
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“… what is holding the marriage rate down and it’s mostly a woman fault.” As men love to tell us, they are the gatekeepers to commitment. So you can stop blaming us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:04 PM
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Cheaters so many cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:00 PM
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It really wasn’t. It’s excellent advice for the VAST majority because the VAST majority pick it up. My daughter is on the spectrum. She sees it. Poor bunchkin is gay and is still stressing about her weight right now because she knows girls need to be thin. She was thin until last year. She knows even tho she isn’t interested in men! You’d have to be blind and/or homeschooled. This all smells like misdirected anger to me. Men lashing out at women because women are supposed to be less shallow. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:32 PM
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THIS Jesus THIS all the day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:24 PM
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Women are less biased about looks than men. Frankly it cracks me up watching many men try to take the high ground and accuse women of being shallow over looks when men are far more shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:22 PM
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It? Are you f-king kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:20 PM
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Despite what you think most men don’t necessarily struggle as much as you. I’m thinking of this guy I know. He’s bald, a teacher, mid thirties now. He goes from pudgy to cut to back. He’s maybe 5/8 5/9. He regularly dates. Most guys do. Maybe not like Chad, and maybe not in LTRs, but they do date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:18 PM
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Because you benefit from society far more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:12 PM
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So you gonna date some land whale who is a decade older than you with two kids since shallowness is bad for society? Or is it, as always, that men expect women to adhere to standards they never would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:09 PM
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But threatening to strip the civil rights of women so they are forced into semi-prostitution because they can’t get a job is FINE. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:06 PM
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Nah we’ll just send the excess men to go die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:05 PM
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You can't just tell a whole swath of the male side that "tough luck you don't fit in" because they will rebel and cause problems. (I’m fine with sending them to die. That’s how we used to handle low status men. And men like Trump are just fine with that. Rich men hate low status poor men more than women do. Oh wait, you think only WOMEN will be losing their rights? lmao. Ask black men in Jim Crow south. Oh wait you might have a problem with YOUR rights being stripped. Then start worrying about s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:04 PM
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Women do not have much rights in the UAE and it is a stable place. And women have full rights in the west and we are as much or more stable. The foundation of societies where thousands lived needed law and order and it was enacted by religion. And the guys at the bottom rung weren’t too happy with it either, but I’m fine with you giving up YOUR rights for social stability. You can live as a non-voting serf working in one of Elon’s sweat shops. Maybe if you scrape enough money to pay him, he’ll l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:53 PM
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Ah yes, a place where the west have forever been poking with a stick. As someone who used to speak Arabic and also studied the Middle Eastern history from 610 to 1453, I’d like to think I have more knowledge on average but far far less than an expert, the Middle East has been subject to waves of invasion forever and not just from the west. Men never seem to understand that in deeply patriarchal societies, the lower rung men are rarely treated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:43 PM
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“ If one side only finds a small % attractive then this will leave a lot out of that experience and we end up with the incels we see today.” Most people marry - that includes men - so most people pair up. I really don’t see it as a pressing social need to make sure toxic people at the tail end of the bell curves do marry. My sister is thin athletic chick that has been at a 7 all her life. Seriously. She is prettier than me. I’m the one married to a man that would buy me a Maserati if that made m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:36 PM
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just like men? I mean, men don’t pay attention to women not in their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:04 PM
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This. The average man might use her for sex, but he isn’t gonna treat her particularly well and is certainly not going to marry her Or date her seriously. Instead, as soon as something better comes on he’ll jump ship And monkey branch. That’s only if he’s a bit of a jerk plenty of men just won’t date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:03 PM
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You know most people don’t need it spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:01 PM
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You are self aware. Many aren’t. I wish you’d work with a trainer and value working out for the good it does for you, irrespective of women. I work out as a married lady, not because I want to attract a mate, but because it makes me feel GOOD. It’s why I’m not on anxiety meds. Serious. You are someone who needs to decenter women and give yourself self care. Forgive me for being so personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:59 PM
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“ And when they speak about that guy who is stringing them along, they never ever call each other out on it, because they all empathise with the same scenario as they're all experiencing it.” I mean, women definitely tell their friends that he “he’s just is not into you” when a guy strings them on. It started as a saying turned into a self-help book and then a great movie back in 2009. I’d recommend men and women watch it because it ISN’T a typical romance. Some marriages fall apart because he’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:56 PM
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Patriarchy sucks ass. And communism is no way contrary to patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:14 AM
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Here. It’s a fucking negative effect of Anglo culture. In the eastern Mediterranean or Italy, men have far closer relationships. Men hug each other. Fathers kiss their sons. This is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:13 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:07 AM
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Come on dude. Men get to like what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:06 AM
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80 % of weight loss is what you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:04 AM
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My husband also had that discussion with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 AM
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Fitness is important. None of this surprises me. I exercise to control my anxiety. I need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:56 AM
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This is so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:50 AM
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Fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:41 AM
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100% agree. I say this as a woman. Men need to stop being so thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:39 AM
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But you are the one begging that she and other women make room her vagina for some random man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:38 AM
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She’s saying that anyone who criticizes you for focusing on yourself, especially in your twenties, is trash and would be a trash partner. You absolutely should be working on yourself in your twenties for success in your thirties and forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:35 AM
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It all comes down to fucking. Women don’t get the same pleasure and social status boost from fucking a rando. Our social value goes down if we fuck a rando.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:34 AM
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All of those options are taking responsibility for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:32 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:30 AM
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No this is defeatist. Men have joined our writing group. They dont need to be “vetted.” I don’t ask to see their wife card, just their writing. Men join up to our soccer teams. One of our friends moved down here from north to take a teaching job. Dude didn’t know anyone. He started reffing lacrosse (played that and ice hockey). He made friends with some other guy teachers. Joined our writing group. Made friends with one of the husbands. And he’s just a short, balding tattooed dude (all covered b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:29 AM
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No they arent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:25 AM
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This is good. Watching
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:20 AM
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This is a very smart and nuanced comment. It should be far higher. Here is something doormats need to consider - that they don’t seem to do - and that is doormats aren’t attractive as long term partners, males or females. While I tend to roll my eyes at the law of the jungle shit that redpill pulls, couples and families face headwinds that require competition with others. The man (or woman) who tries to snake your spouse, the roof guy trying to claim you need a new roof. You need someone with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:15 AM
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Says a lot that this guy is “friends” with him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:03 AM
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Men are obviously all mass murderers since they play first person shooter games your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:02 AM
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A doormat that lets men walk on her and bear her children isn’t. “Nice.” I’m not nice and I don’t want a “nice” man if that’s your definition. But my husband knows I’ll fucking fight like a Tasmanian devil for my family. He doesn’t want a doormat. He wants a partner with brains and teeth who will defend her children like a momma bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:08 AM
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They get the chance of having jizz shot in their face. Wohoo. Nah, dude. You have no fucking clue. I lived it. Young twenties dude doesn’t WANT fatty mid Betty with big glasses, he wants Stacy like he sees in porn. Maybe he uses Betty or fucks her and promises he’ll be with her, but then he’s out with the boys drinking and hitting on Stacy waitress. They don’t want to commit. They want to play their options. They don’t have a bio clock. You all think all these young twenties boys are looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:58 PM
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“ That’s how they show their love…” Bull - and I cannot express this enough - shit. Do you expect any women here to believe one more word you say? How MANY times do men here say that women are fools for thinking Chad loves them when the fuck them? Nah, I wasn’t born yesterday. Men fuck because it feels good AND gives them social currency. The end. Oh and they sometimes naively believe that a woman must love them if she fucks them. Only men are allowed to fuck em and toss them out the door. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:49 PM
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So despite being an asshole you’ve yet to get a woman to marry you or date a woman worth marrying. And yet you think men spawning children are the successful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:31 PM
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Sure. Whatever. Some people are slow learners. I was a slow learner, but I learned faster than my mom, who never learned. I figured out by 25. I had poor role models. My friend J. knew by 16. The ones who don’t figure out or are 40. They are broken and/or toxic. Sorry for your friend. She’s probably a disaster in a relationship but fine as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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You dead nailed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:30 PM
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No it isn’t. You are nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:00 PM
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So you are married huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:59 PM
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You definitely should date some drug dealer’s strung out hoe. Have a kid with her. And when she cleans out your bank account for another hit don’t come crying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:58 PM
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As if breeding a slew of shitty retrobates is success. My two girls are beautiful, well cared for, intelligent, and will make good marriages to intelligent men if they so choose. That is success. Control over when and how we breed is one of the hallmarkers of climbing the socio economic scale in modern humans. Indiscriminate breeding with low parental investment is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:56 PM
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Tough isn’t toxic. Reckless is what most teen boys are. Big shock teen girls like it. Adults however - men and women - grow out of it or they are toxic. I doubt you’ve been around enough criminals* to see their women. I have. The women are trashy criminals too. *a stupid kid nailed for MJ I don’t consider a criminal. I give a lot of leeway to teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:48 PM
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If you date a drama girl, you deserve what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:44 PM
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SOME women get played. No one is perfect. You wanna tell me you’ve never been taken in? You have boyo. Because you are human. Experienced and healthy women generally do a good job avoiding toxic men. After my first real run in with 1, I have a perfect batting rate avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:43 PM
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Yes, your perspective is that there are some toxic women out there so all must be toxic. I used to whine as a teen over the fact that chad didn’t want to date a mid pudgy girl like me and only wanted the cheer leader even though I’d treat him like gold! If only he could see!!! Good thing I didn’t assume all men were like that. And Chad was an asshole anyway so why did I want them? Stop holding women to higher standards than men or treating them like a different species. You recognize there are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:41 PM
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A man broke up his marriage to date Casey Anthony, so clearly all men love women who murder their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:37 PM
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Did he? I’d want to see some proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:37 PM
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Uh I love murder mysteries. That doesn’t mean I want to fuck the murderers. To the contrary, the detectives are usually what gets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:36 PM
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Got news for you, women would cover for the mid men too, especially when it is her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:33 PM
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That’s just excuses. The point remains the same - men will date toxic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:29 PM
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You have just convinced me to make my bed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:28 PM
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“ I think that the main difference is that most women have a choice when choosing their partner and that most men will take anything they can get.” FALSE. I am so tired of this. You guys are always like “men and women are different sexually” until it’s inconvenient to recognize that women face really different barriers to relationships and social costs to being the town bicycle. Let me spell it out for you. I was a mid slightly porky white girl. I couldn’t get ONE guy interested enough to date m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:25 PM
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“I can fix him!” - the male edition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:56 PM
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Then they should shut up. They chose to take the ride. No whining about “divorce rape” or “dead bedrooms” or “cheating whores” or “going out with her girls and getting trashed.” None.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:54 PM
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“ Also a toxic GF is still better than no GF.” Then I don’t want to hear a word of whining from those guys. Not one. If they decide they are going to date a walking red flag for pussy than that’s on them. And yes, I’m just as pitiless to myself who married a walking red flag because she was desperate and had no self esteem. I made the choice to get into the shit. And I made the choice to get out and be alone instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:53 PM
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Naive good girls will fall for toxic men. Hopefully they have a good social safety net they trust to pull them out. I was a naive good girl. 100% wall flower. Middish. Got entangled with a bad boy. I didn’t have a good social safety net to help me for myriad reasons. My two close female friends didnt know how to help. But god I got so close at one point. If only. He took my virginity and I married him. Most people who date toxic figure it out and get out. That is one of the big advantages of dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:50 PM
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110% that last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:44 PM
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Yes naive girls will date toxic guys and learn fast to avoid it. Like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:43 PM
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But men here constantly pretend that only women do it, not men. And I won’t say men aren’t impressed by social status. My husband when first dating bragged a bit to his IT friends that he was dating me. It wasn’t just that I looked good in a short skirt (and I still do thank you very much. I have great legs) but I also was an attorney. The understanding was that he could not only get a hot girl but a girl that also smart and independent. It meant he WASN’T betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:57 PM
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Right- people scream that women are tax takers but it isn’t women - my sis pays a butt load in taxes as a single childless woman - it’s children who are usually with the women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:53 PM
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Yup. Or they are knock offs or off poshmark
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:52 PM
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I am in that range. I haven’t been to Europe in years and I can’t get myself to buy a Dooney and Burke purse for 485.00 because it’s too expensive. I don’t think you know these women And they are probably using Poshmark. Like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:51 PM
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Snork. Sure. That’s why men are complaining they can’t get women - because women are too dependent on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:47 PM
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3 reasons (generally speaking): (You gave four) Per another commenter, because men want women more than the other way around. (Agreed) Most guys want a girl who is caring, kind, giving, and easy going. Your A types and career-oriented women are the opposite. They often have a chip on their shoulder, are self-absorbed, high-maintenance, demanding, picky, and "never have the time/energy" to care about the man's needs. (And yet career women, college educated, have the lowest divorce rates and stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:46 PM
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Getting ran through - and it isn’t just Chad who try it - is part of being obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:31 PM
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You missed my entire point - I didn’t say that flashing a dick was unsuccessful for the man doing it. I was pointing out that it is abhorrent to many women which drives them off the apps. And frankly your numbers support it. It might gain one woman’s attention but nine are grossed out. Those nine leave the dating apps. So in the end, cumulatively, the approach is quite poor. It might be successful for one man but it reduces the entire available subset of women, turning the apps into a sausage fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:30 PM
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“ whereupon they get cash and prizes for breaking the marriage contract.” To the contrary they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 PM
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If they expect her to work, it isn’t a traditional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:20 PM
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YOU never get that. Plenty of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:18 PM
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All men rely on women. Why else are you all so desperate for women you move to a foreign culture on the other side of the world? That’s the hallmark of desperation. And just remember, in your dystopian future, weak men are enslaved and then disposed. The Chads of the world will rule even more than they do now. Men here really mistake where they land on the social pecking order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:14 PM
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Keep fighting those imaginary women in your mind, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:12 PM
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Lmao. Complains about a caricature and then proceeds to make caricatures about western women. Maybe they should treat their women better? Not cheat? And why is it that men get married so more quickly if they are divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:11 PM
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lol. Yes attracting women based on solely your wallet gets a lot more expensive when women can make their own money and be independent. Guess you need to offer something else. Here’s a hint - stop referring to women as hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:02 PM
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Sure and plenty of western women want to marry and have kids (raises hand).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:59 PM
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No it isn’t “simple biology.” In fact societies have organized where true paternity was not relevant. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2176175/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2022/06/17/fathers-day-adoption-biological/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/ecology-and-evolution/articles/10.3389/fevo.2019.00230/full In fact evo-psychology postulates that humans are serially monogamous, which has men-women pair bond for sevenish years to address the raising of the young and then mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:56 PM
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higher body counts mean more potential trauma which mean a lower LTR potential. That’s not based in conservatism, that’s based in pragmatism. Just because they align doesn’t make them the same. (And yet redpill is fine with men spinning plates, when the studies show that high body count is associated with poor long term relationships for both genders, not just women. Yet you don’t see redpill recommending sexual restraint for men.) women overwhelmingly report they won’t date men who have been wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:26 PM
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It’s hilarious to watch many men gobble up evo psychology when they distain most of the rest of the soft sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:08 PM
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The valued female form in the Middle Ages was pear shaped - small perky boobs, a nice soft belly, and a round butt. So yes, a big chunk of your sexual desire is socially mediated. Have you ever considered hitting the scholarly articles that discuss beauty standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:53 PM
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We do, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:44 PM
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If you want a good mother and smart kids, you pick a smart mother, so yes social status really does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:19 AM
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And it’s so funny because that is what so many men accuse women of doing - dating a guy so their friends are impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:17 AM
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Aw I’m so happy for you that you have a happy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:15 AM
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Men used to be extremely hypergamous, especially in the higher classes of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:15 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:13 AM
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Have you considered that men sending dick pics and being obnoxious is what drives women from the apps. After all if women date for self esteem (no) then wouldn’t they be there on the apps sucking it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:11 AM
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Men hound women for SEX. Not love and affection, sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:09 AM
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Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:07 AM
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“ The most common way women get money through their sex is getting a job while being underqualified, going out of their way to be sexual/cute on it or unwilling to do it properly.” Or you think because they are cute, they must be stupid. Men like to think I can’t hold my own because I am short and blonde and cheery. And yes, I know I’m qualified. My graduate degree, most grading was blind to avoid biases. I walked away magna cum laude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:06 AM
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Just admit she has you nailed, dude. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:03 AM
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Lawyer makes a lot more than 50 bucks in an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:01 AM
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I like you. I get your attitude. No I don’t want any money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:59 AM
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Missed the RTO huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:19 PM
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Most women aren’t doing this shit: “ average woman can easily attract hundreds of men vying for her attention each week through apps like Tinder. These men offer dates, dinners, and gifts. For those who are attractive, platforms like Twitch and OnlyFans have become lucrative businesses, enabling some to live lavish lifestyles just by showing off their bodies.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:18 PM
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Lmao money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:16 PM
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I always laugh at this shit: “ And telling themselves they live their life on their own terms, when in reality they live in the term of their work bosses schedule and needs, and on the terms of the zeitgeist of their female friend groups. It's for a specific demographic of people for sure.” If I am a SAHM, I have to live life on my husband’s terms, and the terms of his boss.” I’d rather just take out the middle man there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:15 PM
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“ Also what exactly is wrong with a man wanting an obedient housewife if his partner is okay with that?” Obedience and love are mutually exclusive. My youngest daughter as a PreK like there used to hit me like hell and only me. She was a gem to everyone else. Why? Because she knew I really really really loved her. That I was the one person who would love her no matter how ugly she acted. I expect my kids to follow my rules, but they know that even if they are disobedient, I’ll still love them. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:10 PM
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“ They are defined by a purpose. And that purpose is finding love and connection.” Bahahaha, snork. I bet you believe that too. They wouldn’t be going to poor countries if it’s about love. They want the monetary arbitrage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:59 PM
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“ or cannot find a woman who meets their standards.” = means they aren’t attractive enough to pull the hottie, either through looks or through money because they don’t make enough so yes they are “leaving their countries in search of poor and impoverished women.” Because it is only through financial arbitrage that they can levy their so-so American salary enough to push themselves into a rich man status. Thats why PPBs aren’t going so much to Japan or S Korea or Singapore or Western Europe. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:57 PM
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That is what passportbroing is about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:39 PM
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Nobody thinks lower of men than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:37 PM
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One day guys here are going to claim women only find 5% of men attractive and then 1% Please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:32 PM
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Let’s see, when men say yes - they gain social status and get an orgasm. When women say yes - they lose social status, get called a whore, don’t always get an orgasm, and face an unwanted pregnancy. Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:29 PM
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Do you understand that fucking is ENTIRELY different than gestating and raising a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:27 PM
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“ Men still want to breed with women.” Men want to have SEX with women, not have KIDS. And women don’t want to have kids (but will certainly have sex with men) when they carry the physical and economic burden
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:26 PM
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80% of men aren’t undesirable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:19 PM
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There is a passportbros post that literally says this. Lol. A local bitching the price for a girl who wil be all traditional has been driven up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:19 PM
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And a lot of RTO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:15 PM
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Nope. Right now, my friend’s wife and family - all Venezuelans - are having their visas cancelled and are being deported. It is all over the news boyo. Spouses crying as their wives and husbands are sent to Guantanamo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:12 PM
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Alimony is awarded in less than 10% of rh cases and only for short periods of time. Child support doesn’t come CLOSE to paying the full costs of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:09 PM
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It’s incredibly ahistorical. Women absolutely were engaged in the trades and working all through time. Beer making, spinning, textiles, embroidering. They look at Bridgerton and think the wives were all the ladies, ignoring the cooks, chamber maids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:08 PM
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“ Especially in the West when she can walk away whenever she damn well pleases.” If you have no job and no skills, so much for walking away from him. “ This is how humans are. Man provides. Woman nurtures.” Why don’t you admit you’ve never cracked a history book if you think this horseshit. Jesus, the ignorance. As someone with a degree in archaeology and who still keeps abreast of current research on family formal and social history (right now my kick is the middle ages in Europe), the way you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:01 PM
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“Submits to him.” A slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:59 PM
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I am a strong independent woman who can cook. You guys really tell on yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:56 PM
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“ eminine and be happy with a traditional patriarchal husband wife setup while being satisfied with domestic work?” Wil they be happy with the man running everything like a mid fifties “father knows best” tyrant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:55 PM
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Women aren’t cars. I hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:54 PM
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They like the STATUS not the dude. Lose the money? Lose the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:53 PM
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This I think is an excellent and nuanced view
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:52 PM
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Passport bros have been around forever. Those are the foreign war wives etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:49 PM
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Feminism is the problem. Ie, why can’t I financially trap a woman into marrying me and never leaving like good old grandad could do in the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:47 PM
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Yah one dude was in IT and used a VPN until caught. And then he lost a 100k job down to a 50k one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:46 PM
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This is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:45 PM
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I hope he’s happy tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:44 PM
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They just want to do super charged beta buxxs, but many don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:43 PM
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You think men using financial arbitrage to jump themselves up from medium to wealthy in order to attract girls are getting women who are attracted to THEM versus their money? I don’t have a problem with passportbros so long as they aren’t actual sex pests but all they are doing is a hyper form of beta buxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:36 PM
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My mom is Cuban. My dad is married now to a German lady. There is a difference between dating internationally while you are there and passportbroing or sissing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:31 PM
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“ Daters were also engaged in 10% more interracial relationships and there was a 15% increase in those who said they would date different religions and cultures.” (Glad to see this) I can date a black man, Indian man, Hispanic man, or Asian man by just stepping outside. My neighborhood has them all. One of my daughter’s good friends is a Jordanian girl who is Muslim. Her family loved me because I still remember a few Arabic words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:29 PM
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I doubt many people know about SHEIN. I do and never buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:26 PM
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Where are all these simps following me around - lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:25 PM
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You guys always prove that only the Stacey’s exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:24 PM
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So good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:21 PM
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Nah, I can avoid genuine badness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:17 PM
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The honest to god chad I dated treated me better than a lot of love bombing “nice” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:15 PM
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That’s a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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Chads are often nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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“ You can say you don’t see it. But that’s because the men they pursue don’t generally show them off. How does the saying go? “Fat girls are like mopeds. Fun to ride, just don’t let your friends see you”.” And this, dear gentlemen, is exactly why having easy access to subpar dick isn’t wonderful. How’d you like to be used and told you are a fat ugly piece of shit that must be hidden from his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:08 PM
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No, he’s picking shitty women. I would never shame a partner over dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:06 PM
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Women should also avoid high n count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:04 PM
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Dead the fuck on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:03 PM
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Because it is bullshit. And another way to claim women are dumb bitches. As a woman and the mother of two teen girls, women are inculcated from grade school that men will use them for sex. That men will lie, cheat, and manipulate to fuck them and then toss them aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:02 PM
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“ The men they are going for are only using them for sex. But they seem too dumb to realize this.” Why don’t you just say you hate and look down on women. I’ve got news for you, we aren’t sTuPid. We are told from before we have tits that we must guard against men who lie and lie and lie and manipulate us and promise us relationships to get sex and just toss us aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:01 PM
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“I think this is why we usually see this question posed at women because for the most part they have the optionality to both attract and choose who they date.” No we don’t. All you all pay attention to are the Stacey’s. You NEVER see the basic Becky’s like me. I am so sick of this. It is BULLSHIT. I can get sex, but not with just anyone. And I don’t want sex, I want a relationship. You have the option to both attract and choose who you date. Oh wait, some girls don’t like fat guys? Yah guess wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:58 PM
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I think you make a lot of great points. There is some nuance here. I had a pattern of picking badly - because I was desperate - when you will take anyone, you get shit (something some men here need to learn). My brother had a pattern of picking broken winged birds. It also led to toxic relationships. Both he and I had to learn to “choose better.” But that required a lot of counseling and talks and looking at our negative patterns. Someone screaming “chose better” on the internet is not going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:47 PM
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They do… because they are the ones around children the most
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:21 PM
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“If he can’t handle me at my worst, he doesn’t deserve me at my best.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:19 PM
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When men complain they are disposable war fodder or that no one considers their mental health or that they can’t show emotion? That is all toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:18 PM
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I’d recommend you read William B Irving “guide to a good life” - this helped re-invigorate stoicism as a philosophy. It has nothing to do with “not showing emotion,” but basically reframing your view of set backs as puzzles and also negative ideation. Learning to value what you have rather than thinking about what you don’t have. When my kids start screaming and I want to murder them, all I have to do is think of what life would be without them. And that horror makes it so much easier to weather…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:15 PM
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First, I’m glad you aren’t speaking from experience. I could easily see this leading to depression and suicide. We are social animals. Second, yes. Look you won’t believe me because I’m female, but I was pretty positive after being rejected in all my attempts to flirt or get a boyfriend through my teens, that I would be alone forever. I mean, all my friends got asked out - not me. Even the fat girls got asks out. Not me. So I made the choice to face life without a partner. That meant developing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:07 PM
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Does every man out there try to be your friend? No? And why would anyone be friends with you if your goal is to use them for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:54 PM
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“reason a guy would have one is because he is hoping to get out of the zone eventually because with a simple test have a girl call up a male best friend and then have her say she wants to have sex with him tonight let’s see him decline the offer if he’s single.” Considering men will engage in ONS with pure strangers, this doesn’t mean that men are only friends with women for sex. I have several good male friends… who are friends. And this statement reveals a lot about you - the only value a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:53 PM
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“ We accept many woman cannot cook and do not consider that abusive.” Who accepts women cannot cook? I made sure both my kids could do basic things around a kitchen. I understand people need to learn. But they also should try to learn basic life skills - and that goes for men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:45 PM
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You can’t sashay yourself to the clerk and ask a question? Are your legs broken? They can even LEAD you the spot. You are exhibit A of weaponized incompetence. You’d rather inconvenience your spouse than inconvenience yourself on a chore that YOU are doing. PS, look up the issues with multitasking, distraction, and switching costs when we move between tasks. But you know, that might actually require you to make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:43 PM
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Riddle me this, Batman. Who do you think KNOWS where the ketchup is at the grocery store? The store clerk and shelves whose job it is to know where everything is? Who is right there in the store? And can even LEAD you to the exact spot or help you search? Or your spouse, back a home, up to her (or his) arms in some other chore? The answer is the store clerk. I am a lawyer. I mentor baby lawyers. If they are not capable of engaging in a certain amount of problem solving themselves for basic tasks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:37 PM
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“ Clean dishes are a difference of standard now?” That man is a slob and a danger to his family. You watch what happens when salmonella gets going
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:25 PM
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“ Clean dishes are a difference of standard now?” That man is a slob and a danger to his family. You watch what happens when salmonella gets going
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:25 PM
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Yah I had no choice growing up because my mom was disabled. And I’ve caught myself doing for my kids instead of teaching them to do it. I’ve gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:23 PM
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Yup. Sometimes women suck at cleaning and men are better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:21 PM
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(And you are changing right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:21 PM
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Because - I - am not just sitting at home eating bon bons. I am working or cooking or doing chores or doing the kids’ homework. And him calling for an asinine question when there are clerks THERE at the store employed and able to do the task better disrupts my own ability to get my own chores done. And these men would never dream of pulling this shit at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:19 PM
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This isn’t about one call. This is about twelve calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:15 PM
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Figure it the FUCK out. How do you THINK I learned where the ketchup is? Be proactive, be an adult, try to solve the problem first. PS. This is one of the begging complaints right now about GenZs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:15 PM
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Anyone can learn how to load a dishwasher. Im
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:12 PM
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Good thing we aren’t taking about the government
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:10 PM
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So you are good at censorship. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:09 PM
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If TRP wasn’t promoting drug abuse or sexual violence, they should have removed those posts, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:08 PM
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That’s just the r / conservative sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:06 PM
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Criticism is not censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:04 PM
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“ normal looking married people don't spam reddit ppd lol.” And happy single men with success with ladies don’t hang around here or call an anonymous stranger’s wife ugly. Deeply unhappy unsuccessful and jealous people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:51 PM
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Oooo I like Jon Hamm too. I haven’t seen the movie but I pulled some stills. He looks different there! Leather jacket and some stubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:45 PM
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I’m happy for you! It’s great when a relationship works! Your daughters are adorable in green like that. I have two daughters, too. A bit older than yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:39 PM
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You are oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:37 PM
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Not denying reality. Your thoughts are just one dimensional. All you see is sex. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:36 PM
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Bull fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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This is super interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:34 PM
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While I am very very sorry for the loss of your family member, success with relationships does turn on the person most often. That said, people need help and kindness to help them process the situation and come to terms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:32 PM
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Duh. Dating isn’t a guarantee - it still requires TWO people - and they need to mesh. You all really struggle to see women as people. I was REALLY unsuccessful with men - yah you won’t believe me but whatever - and I got salty about it. Why couldn’t I have the dates and boyfriends my friends did? I glowed up - followed that advice - but I knew it wasn’t a guarantee because the person on the other side had to like me enough to wife me up. You all need to accept it might not work out so live your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:29 PM
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Mine is a smidge taller at 5/6 or 5/7. Donno.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:23 PM
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“ This comment is too long so imma skim through it.” Next time read it because it’s clear you have ZERO comprehension of what I wrote. But you know, ignoring what girls say is a great way to get interest /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:21 PM
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Gee I thought men found much more women attractive, but now you are shitting on this guy’s wife? At least dude has a wife that wants to grab his dick coming out of the shower. When was the last time you had a woman look at you wet and naked and say she wants some of that? Sorry no one finds you attractive. Maybe work on the attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:04 PM
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Yah more hysteria. Stop projecting your poor self image on women. You hate yourself and you don’t think you’re attractive, so you project that on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:59 PM
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lol. I think my taste got set by Tom Selleck, who started out as a Marlboro man. I remember seeing him as Magnum PI as a kid and thinking - wow. Give me that. That was before certain things got so politically coded (and it’s bullshit too). But you do you. I like Tom Holland too - ever since he did lip sync battle singing in the rain. Look it up on YouTube. Short man in vinyl bondage shit and that would fuel quite a few dreams for me. Entirely different aesthetic than Marlboro man. This should ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:39 PM
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You have some style and your wife has a very lovely face. You all look happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:33 PM
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Do you date ugly girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:31 PM
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Bingo. And they demonstrate that they are the shallow and vapid ones, select only for looks, and then expect sympathy when the women treat them like cash registers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:26 PM
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False. Men value physical attractiveness more than women. Now that you realize the data is wrong, please adjust your opinion accordingly and acknowledge that women are not in fact more shallow than men. (I’m sure you won’t) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4011637/#:~:text=For%20example%2C%20across%20a%20nationally,difference%20generalized%20across%2037%20cultures. https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Men-still-value-physical-attractiveness-in-a-mate-Meltzer-McNulty/3a11a5e237b1a2c51bc5…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:22 PM
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What attracts more men? A fit in shape girl or a fat girl who watches social media all her spare time and eat bon bons. And if you agree that the first would attract more men, why do you think women should have different standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:16 PM
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One caveat, boyo. It’s the women who determine whether you are attractive. Just because you think women are only attracted to 6 foot men doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:14 PM
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Uh huh. Like TRP doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:11 PM
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Yes, she doesn’t cheat or leave him when her husband becomes depressed because he picked a woman with a good heart and morals, not just based on her breast size. This is why I mock the shit out of men who are like “we don’t care what your interests are” or “we don’t care what your job is.” Well you better care about what that woman has in her heart and brain because sometimes the going gets tough. If you are only valuing the outside of a woman, don’t cry to me when her inside is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:11 PM
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Dayum girl 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:06 PM
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That grandpa Dallas is smart too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:04 PM
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Many men don’t think like this. The ones that do? Trash. And this is why feminism exists. Because men like that shouldn’t get a wife to be treated like dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:01 PM
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I’m no super model and my husband treats me like gold and will buy me whatever my heart desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:59 PM
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“ The latter looks significantly better especially because they get breast lifts after giving birth whereas the average woman walks around with a saggy chest and skin, she also can’t afford a nanny to help with childcare so she gets dark wrinkles. It’s repulsive to most men.” If my man thought of me like that after I gave him two children, I’d divorce him and take as much of his fucking money that I could. I’d fucking wreck his life. I went through a massive physical effort for both of us. If hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:55 PM
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“ Especially the most attractive ones. That’s why you never see janitors date the type of women that Donald Trump and Ronaldo can.” So YOU are shallow and YOU want to date a hot woman, who gives a shit whether she’s a good person. And then you whine about Monkeybranching or gold diggers. If Trump bought me dinner I’d spit in his face. And no his wife is trash no matter how good her plastic surgery is. I’d buy Ronaldo a drink because he is pretty to look at and we can talk soccer. That man doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:28 PM
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“ Women are shallow and selfish, if she doesn’t desire you, she won’t suddenly like you just because you’re nice to her and buy her drinks or dinner.” It would seem to be shallow to like someone simply because they buy you things. Thus women are less shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:21 PM
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Yah it looks 50/50 or so hard to say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:19 PM
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Heh. I don’t know if you downvoted me or if someone else did, but I do value your input
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:17 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:16 PM
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Let me explain that empathy does not require us to fuck LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:14 PM
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Like just WTF? You are seeing things you want to see, not what she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:12 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. I just meant the idea of a strong athletic man out in the wilderness. Not the cigarettes :). Blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:11 PM
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This. I mean smoking isnt sexy, but an active man out there in the wild, riding horseback, all muscular and hard, but not necessarily on display? Yah that gets me more than a Calvin Klein underwear add.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:10 PM
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“ Isnt that what women literally do? Lol most of yall dont approach people in general yall ar eeven mpre accepting to cowardice tis why Men tend to have the lead. Love how yall just forget that you probably never had to actually go out your way.” No. And to say this means you’ve never really paid attention to women, just their boobs and butts. Women have to learn to flirt, learn to be sexy but not trashy, and dress right. And yes, unless you are a top 10% bombshell, what you wear and how you pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:06 PM
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We don’t make our own reality but we sure as hell set the frame. If you think you will fail, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:54 PM
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The guy who came up with them had no education or experience. And men use it to pressure spouses etc into constantly having sex even if they don’t want to. I say this as a very sexual woman. If you distill it to its heart, the love languages is “do things for your SO things they will appreciate.” And that’s not revelatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:51 PM
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“ His dating goals are to secure casual sex from a variety of attractive women.” This is the other thing - if your goal isn’t an actual relationships but a series of ONS, your advice will be different than for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:43 PM
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Love languages are bull anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:40 PM
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You all think women live life on easy mode because (1) all you value is sex and (2) unattractive fat or old women don’t exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:37 PM
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You dress like a slob to an interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:15 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:03 PM
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Right? I wish men found my job super sexy or me working in the garden working up a sweat sexy. They don’t. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:22 PM
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And also, when we spell out - in detail - what we find sexually attractive, we are accused of lying. Some guys here have decided they will never be attractive to women and have decided to wallow in the misery of why they are forever failing rather than moving forward with life. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:20 PM
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Your comment is completely unrelated to what OP posted. She in no way posted that she wanted a man who over powered her, forced her to have sex. That you read dominant =/= rapist is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:10 PM
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Male fashion models appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:06 PM
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“ I hate to tell you this but with this specific mindset you're always going to end up with men who are capable of enjoying rape.” Just what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:21 PM
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Yes! Do not look at most male models - except maybe the Marlboro man - and think that is sexy to women. It isn’t. It is sexy to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:17 PM
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Ignore this dude. He hates women and is into doomerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:13 PM
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Yes. When my man comes in after landscaping when it’s clean sweat (not that old sweat), hot. Or when he comes in after working on the car. Hot. Nice to the weak? Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:09 PM
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He won’t listen to you. You are right but he’s into doomerism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:08 PM
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Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:07 PM
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Disagree with all but the last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:07 PM
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Love how it is now 95% are unattractive when it was 80/20 before. Lol. Stop the hysteria man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:06 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:05 PM
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No, you’re just dense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:02 PM
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Yes height is attractive. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:02 PM
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Oh yeah! A full 1/5 of Elba’s sex appeal is his voice. Funny about Rhys Davies because he does zero for me but maybe I just need to see him in the real world so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:01 PM
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I am telling you as a woman you are 100% wrong. Of course put a fat schlub in a suit it isn’t going to turn him into a sex icon but it will kick him up a few notches. But I doubt you think a big fat girl in yoga pants is suddenly sexy. The reverse in fact. But a trim man in an shirt with his sleeves rolled up to see nice defined forearms? Sexy. Trim man in a nicely tailored suit. Sexy. Literally look at what Justin Timberlake wears in Bringing Sexy Back. One if the guys I used to work with we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:59 PM
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You aren’t to be free, but that’s the import of OP’s post - only men are judged on what they provide, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:11 PM
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I agree with that 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:50 PM
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I open doors for everyone - men included
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:44 PM
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Because it isn’t true. You all are POSITIVE that women aren’t sexually attracted to their husbands when they first marry but I’ve seen no proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:36 PM
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Why don’t you just say you hate women? Women do self reflection as much if not more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:34 PM
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I doubt a majority of women like to be choked. I sure as fuck don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:23 PM
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No. This is bullshit. And anyone will tell you that the sub in the BDSM relationship has the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:20 PM
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Men like it too - look up David Carradine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 PM
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I ❤️ u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:14 PM
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Scott free most times in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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That would be the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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Ah yes, pointing out misogyny just makes you more misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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Have you seen how these guys’ lives often turn out? Not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:10 PM
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You can’t even use the correct term - it’s right, not rite - but you are the smartest person in the room with nothing to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 PM
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“ I operate on cold, hard logic, so no one has ever been able to change my mind on anything, since their arguments are different variations of “bE mOrE eMpAtHeTiC.”” Complete and utter contradiction. You sound like the founder of RIM, who then had his blackberry eaten by the iPhone. Genius level EE. Thought he was the smartest man in the room. Read “Think Again” by Adam Grant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:05 PM
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Because it’s a lie. I still desire my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:01 PM
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That was a chef’s kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:53 PM
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And that advice is good. But he’s also saying to use the girl he is with rather than just dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:49 PM
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Yes marriages are so bad for men that they immediately rush into a new one after the old one ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 PM
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But I’ve been told by dozens of men here that the ugly guy will be loyal and I’m a fool for chasing Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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“ There's a reason why societies have always wanted to control female choice, because when left to their own choices they'll choose antisocial dark triad personality traits.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:38 PM
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Maybe your wife does. You should have chosen better. My husband knows that I consider myself lucky to have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:34 PM
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You all want to pretend it was more natural sixty years ago. But I’d argue it was less - back then men used society wide exclusion of women from financial independence to force their mate choice. That’s the opposite of “natural.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 PM
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“ The reality is that the 6ft standard is a VERY recent thing, and is largely propagated by women to other women.” Bahahaha no. One of the reasons people thought Henry the VIII was delish in his youth was in part that he stood 6/2. People have always preferred tall men - including other men - it’s why CEOs are usually tall. It’s why short men have always had “short man disease”. Twenty and thirty years ago short men were complaining about the six foot line. And very few women absolutely rule out…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:30 PM
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“ It is necessary for women to really love and DESIRE ordinary average men, just as men love and desire ordinary average women.” Men don’t desire average women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:27 PM
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“ The reason why men don't usually like being "husband material" or the "safe choice" is because these men are usually 1. mistreated, 2. cheated on, 3. not able to get sex.” Men in ltr and marriages get far more sex than singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:26 PM
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Yah. Any man who pulled this shit would be out the door for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:22 PM
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“ Women have to pull Jedi mind tricks.” Lol. Suuureeee… this is laughable. First you aren’t a woman. How would you have any idea? Second, plenty of men fantasize about fucking their wives younger sister or the Quiktrip girl down the street to get it hard for their wife. What the fuck do you think porn and fantasizing is about. But I’ll just say it what you did, “women can genuinely enjoy having sex with men who aren’t their ideal.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:16 PM
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Yah and then when you stop they deflate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:11 PM
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They shrink usually afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:10 PM
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Do tell me how you’ve measured this biological “base line.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 PM
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This is great. More people should read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 PM
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This is laughable. I think men should start being sexually attracted to fat girls - after all, they are the majority - oh wait, YOUR attraction is biologically motivated. No man would turn down a Stacy for a one night stand but no one complains that that ruins men into thinking they can get a Stacy for a wife. Yet women you think women get tricked into thinking that just because a guy sleeps with them, they’ll get him as a husband. But I don’t know how to make this clearer - it is hammered into …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:05 PM
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And if you see me as “declining” while you aged too, you never deserved me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 PM
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But it’s men who are more superficial about looks, yet somehow that’s “fine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 PM
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Like do you think that I’m my husband’s first choice? I mean really? If he could have had anyone he ever wanted or that he ever dated, it probably wouldn’t have been me. But we don’t have infinite options or infinite variety. Relationships take both. We both have to want it and each other so you choose it make the other person your one. I don’t know how it works but I can say that I can’t imagine a life without him after so many years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:43 PM
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You say men love idealistically after reading this? “ they are all pretty interchangeable…”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:07 PM
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One is honest and one isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:25 AM
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Sure. And she’ll go find her fun with a guy that tells her she’s beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:24 AM
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Sure. As long she can cheat when you aren’t fulfilling her emotional needs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:23 AM
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“ Clearly. I am superior because I can know myself before dating anyone. That was sarcasm. I believe anyone can do what I do.” You aren’t really joking. You think you are superior. Are you in a successful long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:23 PM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:20 PM
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Right. He’s missing the fact that it isn’t just the woman that got frumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:16 PM
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“ passport bros want families/relationships.” I’ve seen what they post and it is clear many want one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:14 PM
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Because many men don’t desire the ones that desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:53 PM
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No men here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:52 PM
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Tons of men tell us on this sub that the only reason they try to succeed is for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:52 PM
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“ Women are the ones who should ideally push for kids, and there's no guarantee as a man that this is your genetic continuity.” More men than women want kids now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:51 PM
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Lmao. You take relationship advice from a failure? Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:48 PM
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“ The number of women who love men like Bundy is far greater than the number of men like Bundy. And those women in turn reject men who are not like Bundy, and what do you get when that happens on a scale like the scale we're currently seeing?” No im sorry - without some evidence, I do not believe that more women are attracted to criminals and serial killers than normal dudes or that the number has shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:00 PM
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It’s not beyond us. Women are people - they aren’t fungible like money. A gangbanger or drug dealer doesn’t get a beautiful and loving woman who will be a great partner. He’s getting trash - some heroine skinny woman missing her teeth. She’ll steal from him blind, fuck his friends for money, and vanish one day. What men here are revealing is that they see women as blow up dolls - no more value than their holes. The obsession with criminals reveal something - not about women but men, and none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:56 PM
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Bad food will kill you, fast. Holding out for food that doesn’t is safer. And you won’t die without sex. If you are this desperate, you are asking for terrible relationships and terrible lives. You are in fact the exact same of damage as those women who hang around gangbangers. It also shows how very little you see women. They are just exchangeable holes for sex. They can be crazy, toxic, slash your tires. The absolutely worst to have raise an accidental kid. It’s amazing and speaks so badly of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:52 PM
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Not broke. Not dependent on a man. And god was it freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:20 PM
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My money and my husbands money goes into the same accounts. I don’t know one person who runs their life like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 PM
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Sure. But don’t cry that women are loved for just whom they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:42 PM
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Nice word salad. You equated finding a relationship partner to “ say a different answer if you said a man gets paid more than them for the same job..then they’ll understand.. and be upset.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:39 PM
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I actually agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:35 PM
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And some of these bad men could have been redeemed as well. Society way too often sells the very false belief to women that their Magic pussy will save a bad man. I heard my mom say something like that around my girls and I stepped on it. No way. Men and women are a lot more alike than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 PM
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Yah I avoided Christian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:29 PM
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They aren’t such good men if they value sex irrespective of the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:27 PM
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“ Low or high body counts act as loose proxy for other moral values the person…” Thank you for saying this. I’ve been struggling to distill down why n count is relevant but not necessarily important. This nails it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:25 PM
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“ Someone can be not mentally ill, have a strong moral conviction against anti-social behavior and still be atracted to anti-social men.” Crazy women will attract men so long as the woman is hot. It isn’t the crazy it’s the hot. Bad men also will attract decent women if the man is hot. It’s in spite of the badness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:23 PM
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No it’s not. I’m not and never have been attracted to gangbangers or serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:19 PM
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Men belle stop abandoning their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:13 PM
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Lol. Nah broken women like bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:04 PM
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Lmao. If you see dating as comparable to employment, I know what your problem is. If you really want to associate it with a business structure, marriage is a lot more like a partnership or a firm. You don’t become partners with people you don’t like and it doesn’t matter if they’re white green or blue. You all have to have a good business relationship that works well together And not anyone who meets XYZ criteria can fit. People are not fungible and even if one Guy has similar criteria to anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:02 PM
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That’s life and pretty privilege. I never got all these steak dinners and gobs of male attention because most my life I’ve been a basic Becky. But I found a guy who loves me and I love. He’s whip smart. We have a great life and raise two kids. We make enough money. I’d never have had that with some gangbanger and most girls don’t make much dough on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:58 PM
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Uh this is exactly what happens. We get over it, as Lilith explained astutely below
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:51 PM
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Women here understand. That’s why it’s stupid to envy the Gangbanger, because you might get sex but you aren’t getting love. And you sure aren’t building a long term stable relationship in which to have a nice life or a set of well adjusted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:48 PM
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Because you want a stable of hot hoes, not a nice chunky mid gal with glasses and mousy brown hair. If you are envying gang banger Jesus, you want a stable of drugged out chicks who are heroine skinny, no teeth, and suck his dick for her next hit. And sure she’ll have his kid because no one uses protection and that kid will just be one more in a long line of discarded kids (THAT breaks my heart) If you are envying Charles Manson, he was supposed to be charismatic, you want a stable of psycho and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:46 PM
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And society told girls that they should be modest virgin good girls who will treat their boyfriends and husbands well only to be shoved in the corner or ignored as the men go after the hot and slutty crazy girls. Be a good person to be a good person. You might not get a stable of hoes but you are more likely to meet a woman is is also a good person and have a longer established and mutually beneficial relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:32 PM
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Kitsune is the Japanese magical Fox woman spirit right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:27 PM
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This I think is the point in a nutshell. Broken people attract or gravitate to broken people. You really don’t want the kind of woman who would write love letters to bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:25 PM
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Ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:01 PM
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Considering most blue states are skinnier than red…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:51 PM
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My looks will fade. No one is taking my career or my work drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:41 PM
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I don’t know. I bring a shit ton to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:36 PM
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No it means we don’t want kids and neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:36 PM
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Good. Stay away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:34 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:33 PM
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Yah and if a woman stops being nice, catering to her spouse, stops working and lays around the house, and stops sex, she’ll be single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:30 PM
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“ Unfortunately most women are essentially the same due to their social conditioning. There is hardly any real uniqueness in most.” No wonder you have problems dating. You see women as clones in different bodies. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:28 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:23 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:23 PM
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So glad that you have a great fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:22 PM
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I read Dale Carnegie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:18 PM
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Men stick their dick in crazy all the time. They dont like those women for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:10 PM
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Bet me. Everyone man or woman who stays good looking puts work into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:06 PM
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And of course a visit to the dead bedrooms and other relationship subs show that men deeply love their women absent sex. And also that women deeply love their husbands even when they struggle with jobs and providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:05 PM
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Let a woman stop having sex with her partner or sit on her butt and eat bon bons and tell me how much women are loved for being “just themselves.” And I don’t know who Schopenhauer is but he’s full of manure. Women have ALWAYS worked. The women’s lib movement was about letting women get access to the same jobs and work as men. It’s like you all never cracked a book on history before the 1950s. It’s true I spend more money than my husband - because I keep the household RUNNING, the kids dressed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:04 PM
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Trump isn’t conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:34 PM
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“ I have some libertarian views and own firearms. I don’t think I would get along with a very liberal , progressive especially a wokie.” I’m very liberal. I own a walther pp I know how to use it. My dad - also a lib but also a hunter - made sure. So will my girls, both libs. I really don’t think you all have conversions with people some times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:34 PM
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Sure only liberal women are sexually promiscuous. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:29 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:28 PM
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I like big burly men and I like twinks. I like tall men but my husband is 5/7. Preferences are nice but it doesn’t mean the guy must meet all preferences to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:27 PM
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No. That’s bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:13 PM
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“ Briffault's law is absolute.” Briffault himself said it was not applicable to humans. https://archive.org/stream/in.ernet.dli.2015.529469/2015.529469.The-Mothers_djvu.txt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:59 PM
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This is why I tell women not to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:46 PM
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If you have a child with someone - married or not - there will be child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:44 PM
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I donno but I’m pretty liberal and I drew conservatives like flies. I think guys tend to be more conservative in general, so it’s a numbers thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:43 AM
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I can’t believe anyone sees that as anything but bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:13 AM
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I think this is dead on. And it’s only going to get worse with AI
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:12 AM
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But you didn’t marry any? I married a toad who treated me bad. Was on the dating market for… six weeks. I mean my divorce was final in October. I put myself out there in November. When out with four guys. Met my husband in early December - I was 28 - and off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:10 AM
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Yup. This. You should see the number of calories an Amish person puts away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:01 PM
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Baby this is why we need OSHA. Lotta my family men died in the coal mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:52 PM
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You: “I’m going to make shit up about being arrested to play victim.” Also you: “why are you playing victim by pointing out REAL THINGs that happened to your mom.” That was my mom, asshole. She’s still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:48 PM
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I’m married to a 5/7 guy. Like him just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:31 PM
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“ It's depressing that after all the effort that's all I might be able to get.” Women aren’t products: they are people. You don’t go to the woman store and say “I’m 5/11 with 9% body fat, so I qualify for a 22 year old with 32 28 32 measurements.” With that kind of attitude, don’t be surprised if people are repelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:18 PM
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Much of looks are subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:14 PM
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I mean, she could be sweet and funny and a killer cook etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:11 PM
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I stayed with my boyfriend and even married him when he gained like 75 lbs. He had a significant set of injuries after playing soccer for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:09 PM
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I’m sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:29 PM
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You know men are also fat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:23 PM
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“ None had issues with them until they demanded everyone to do their bidding.” You people have such a victimhood complex. No one is making you date a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:20 PM
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Do you honestly think anyone can make it to adulthood and think fat is okay? Lmao. Days like this, I do think you guys have spent your life locked in a basement. I was a pudgy kid and my weigh has bounced up and down as an adult. Almost every model is skinny. Kids tell you. When you go to the doctor, they tell you every fucking time. The gym teacher tells you. The gajillion dollar health industry tells you - weight watchers, Jenny Craig. The fat watch of celebrities. And god knows if you post an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:17 PM
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IMHO Lilith is right for the wrong reasons. first, as a gal who has always been athletic and active but also fought the battle of the bulge, I promise you, women KNOW being fat is not attractive. Like the reason you have the healthy at any size movement is BECAUSE society tells us from the time we are little fat is unattractive. Men have gotten the message too. second, it isn’t just that Americans are lazy. Our entire system is set up to be really really toxic to us. And any other countries that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:06 PM
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In places like New York City and Boston, it’s doable. We’ve done a terrible job with our infrastructure here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:45 PM
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Your hate of obesity is really blinding you to what people are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM
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No you are entirely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM
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THANK YOU!!!! This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM
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“ Fat shaming is good because it forces the person out of the fairy tale that everything is good.” Studies show that fat shaming does the opposite. It actually exacerbates weight gain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM
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Not just Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:45 PM
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You did not read Lilith’s post. She never said being fat was healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:44 PM
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But Americans all got super fat WHILE we were screaming about the obesity epidemic - that tells you shaming or acceptance doesn’t do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:44 PM
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Like why do you care? Who cares if some big girl says “only a real man can accept me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:42 PM
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Lmao. Girl you are so deluded if you think that. They pilloried Michelle Obama when she tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:38 PM
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While I strongly disagree with some of this (egalitarian is all that works for me) I have had some of the same experiences and agree with the concept of noble masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM
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This is a smart explainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:23 PM
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Why do guys try when the odds are low?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:18 PM
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Lmao. Then no complaining about divorce rape
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:05 AM
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Let me spell it out for you, the objectively HIGHER value guy - with MORE money, more charisma, more looks and MORE women - treated me BETTER than the lower value guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:04 AM
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Yes. But I’m smart enough to get out of those places. And I don’t hang around biker bars looking for trouble. Stop dumpster diving for trashy women. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:00 PM
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Lmao Now we’ve moved from the fantasy of the police arresting you to the fantasy of some gang bangers texting you. Sure buddy. But let me tell you what you tell us: choose better - stop hitting on some barrio chicks with twenty tattoos just because she’s hot. And I’m fine with you losing your right to have your own bank accounts, your own credit cards, your own loans, car insurance, any professional jobs, any access to the trades, and you can get back to me about how feminism is victim hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:56 PM
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Nothing ventured nothing gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:43 PM
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“ Men risk jail time asking a girl for coffee.” Holy hyperbolic victimhood dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:42 PM
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Look YOU don’t like fat women, fine. Other people aren’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:40 PM
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Everything actually starts with reality and philosophy is how we manage reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:37 PM
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“ For women, their chances of finding a partner do not depend on their looks.” But men select primarily based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:25 PM
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One item that has been pointed out as toxic feminists are terfs that cause real damage to trans women by denial of information. But anyone who closely followed the terf war knows that JK Rowling and her ilk were most definitely called out loudly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:22 PM
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That is a court case brought by men. And fine by me. I say this as a woman with teen daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:12 PM
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But those are terfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:51 PM
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lol please - the old boys club absolutely protects each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:51 PM
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I think you are pointing out double standards in society - which exist! Like the failure to recognize DV of men (my brother was a victim) - with feminists. It isn’t feminists per se holding those toxic standards, it is everyone. And we need to push back by advocating that men be included as part of DV education. In other words, you are entirely right! You are identifying a problem that is real, but the causal agent is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:50 PM
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Most feminist groups support selective service for women. You should look to see who actions opposes selective service and women in combat. It isn’t the blue haired feminists. And it isn’t the democrats either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:47 PM
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“Women and children” was a thing for a short period of time with the British navy. Studies show that men don’t let women and children go first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:44 PM
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She’s speaking hyperbolically. She DIDN’T leave. And I guarantee you she said something. Many times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:47 PM
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So cute. This is my relationship with my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:25 PM
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Lmao. “Mensa loves me”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:11 PM
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Oh wow. You really are NOT self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:09 PM
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“ Many women need to be kept their own world away from their own issues and the issues of the world to engage with sex.” This is laughable. Women are the ones primarily responsible for caring for children. Often with no help. That mandates pragmatic and real world thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:08 PM
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Yes 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:50 PM
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This doesn’t surprise me about you - and I don’t mean this is a negative way - both my daughter and sister are on the spectrum and they are smart and incisive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:49 PM
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Your hypothesis fails real world testing. And Chad is attractive. Gigachad is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:42 PM
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And he is a druggie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:39 PM
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You are entirely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:34 PM
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lol. I’m surrounded by neuro atypicals. They constantly smash each other’s toes. For all your kvetching that neuroatypicals value directness, they don’t. Their feelings are just as hurt by the flat “no.” Using a soft no tells a person that they themselves are still valued and are part of the group. A hard no is an expulsion from the social group - sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:32 PM
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I provided studies. She didn’t respond. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:23 PM
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Yes please be patronizing to the person working in DV advocacy for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:20 PM
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This is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:31 AM
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I’m glad it was long. That was really interesting. It was all for the best. She’s happily married to someone else. I’ve just never asked a guy from HIS view of what is going on there and you seemed like a guy that would give a thoughtful answer. And you did. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:35 AM
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Now apply that nuance to Lilth’s argument. She is NOT saying “ all unpartnered people are terrible and their situation is 100% self-inflicted.” She is saying that there is no guarantee that they WILL treat someone better. There is nuance. Some are just guys who’ve had some bad luck. Some single for reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:31 AM
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Women do enforce toxic masculinity. I know that is a buzz word but you’ve put your finger on a perfect example of it and yes it is enforced by men and women. In other cultures men are much more allowed to express emotion and it is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:26 AM
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That is some fucking scary munchausen crap from your ex wife. And I’m very sorry you have had some seriously toxic women in your life. I’d think something was wrong with my husband if he didn’t cry over the eulogy of his child. Shit my girls are fine and in the other room and I am tearing up. That was wrong - I know it means very little from some random internet stranger - but that was really wrong and they are wrong. No one holds the rights to express grief. I’d cry with my husband. I’d never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:59 PM
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What???? What what what whaaaat? I held my husband as he cried over the death of his father, his best friend., and his cat (he was drunk that time), and one of his dogs. I would NEVER shame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:33 PM
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Honey, is that you? He makes that joke all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:31 PM
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Relationships and human interactions are not fully logical. Or Bezos wouldn’t be marrying a fifty year old woman, right? Be he is nuts about her. The pattern of destroying someone’s self esteem to keep them is tried and true. Had my self esteem already not been bad though, it wouldn’t have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:25 PM
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Let me ask you this? So a good friend of mine dated this guy for several years. I mean she went as far as moving in with him. She wanted to get married. So did he - he said - at some point. Then he had an opportunity to work in Norway and asked her to go. She said, I want to be engaged before I make that commitment. He refused. They broke up. Not even six months later he was engaged to another woman. He didn’t go to Norway. Obv D liked my friend, but he wasn’t - really - in love with her. And wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:21 PM
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My husband ran a back ground check on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:11 PM
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Short term. So man who manipulates fools more women - news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:04 PM
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Woof so sorry this happened
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:59 PM
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This is a really good summary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:58 PM
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History isn’t magically erased by philosophy and pregnancy scares happen with BC
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:56 PM
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I somewhat disagree. have a pregnancy scare and tell me how vulnerable you feel. have someone hurt you during sex - a bf tried to fist me as I screamed - and tell me you don’t feel vulnerable. He out weighed me by 75 lbs. But just because it is physically vulnerable doesn’t make it emotionally transcendental. I certainly don’t fall in love with a man because of a good roll in the hay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:53 PM
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Ha, you are fun. I wish more people were like you. And point taken that some guys will treat their lady right. My now husband adores me and he wasn’t the most successful with women - short and a baby face. I also adore my husband so it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:48 PM
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Sometimes some of their situation is self inflicted. You all don’t do nuance do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:45 PM
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Yes. I’ve been told that several times. Right here too - that men with no options will treat you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:44 PM
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Guys, it’s simple. Do you want to be the guy she settles for because she couldn’t get Chad? Why not? Because she’s often not nice to the guy or will cheat? It’s the same dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:43 PM
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No. Just that a guy without options sometimes for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:41 PM
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No one believes me but the Chad I dated after I divorced my ex treated me really well. Sure he wasn’t going to wife me but we had fun, he was honest, he treated me to dinner, and treated me with respect. So much better than my less attractive and very insecure ex who spent an inordinate amount of time trying to convince me I was ugly. I’m happy married to a man who supports me and treats me like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:40 PM
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He has a vested interest… but how does convince her to stay. He can treat her like a queen sure. Or he can prey on an insecure young girl, neg her, sabotage her and tear her down so she doesn’t think she can do better. It often happens when a fat girl starts losing weight. Her SO will try to prevent her from going to the gym, buy her sweets, etc. they will sabotage job prospects, etc. I know because I’ve seen it, I lived through it, and I’ve watched others live through it. And it isn’t gendered …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:38 PM
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No, there are men here that state they will have sex with mid women until something better comes along. It’s part and partial of their argument that women who have sex too early are being used. Some men have made clear that SEXUAL attraction is different than attraction to the woman a person or a long term relationship. They argue that women are deluded to think that a good looking guy would be interested in a relationship just because he has sex with her. They also argue that they find most gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:33 PM
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This isn’t “speculation” - you are just ignorant. Forced medical treatment of women. https://historyhub.history.gov/suffragist/f/discussions/15330/how-many-women-were-committed-involuntarily-to-insane-asylums-by-their-husbands-during-the-early-1900s https://time.com/6074783/psychiatry-history-women-mental-health/ Final edit - Buck v Bell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:23 PM
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Doll, a lot of time the woman does what you did. Step off the career path when they marry a high earner. You are still educated and share goals. I know a ton of lawyers married to lawyers and often one (and not always the lady) will stop working or work part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:08 PM
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Guys are very look focused. But that isn’t the only thing they focus on when they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:06 PM
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Then they can leave, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:04 PM
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This is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:03 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:03 PM
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JD does require its own form of residency as a baby lawyer or, as I did, a clerkship.* But yes it’s a much faster degree - one of the reasons I went to law school instead of medical. *edited to add it isn’t termed a residency and isn’t fully comparable to a medical residency, but I mentor baby lawyers and they need it bad. A baby lawyer practicing full fledged without oversight is a danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:00 PM
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Damn I agree with this red guy Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:58 PM
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“Get the most bitches” is quite the tell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:56 PM
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lol orgies :). Hey different strokes for different folks - I found the lifestyle pretty toxic. I don’t actually think it’s that different to an educated conservative (without a strong slice of religion). My husband is pretty libertarian, IT, and surrounded by libertarian IT dudes (you know the kind - endemic on the west coast). I know a lot of conservative lawyers too. They generally are marrying into similar socio-economic standing. People see the “economic” and miss the socio. In my family, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:56 PM
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Thanks for posting Lilith. I agree. There is this idea that a mid guy will be grateful and treat you like gold because he isn’t often lucky. But no one likes feeling grateful. To the contrary, they can really resent it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:48 PM
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Some men here say they can be sexually attracted to a woman they don’t really like as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:46 PM
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100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:58 PM
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“ Often so liberal, feminist, and concerned for the poor (especially women), yet they never consider this.” Nah, sorry. I’m not required to pass on a man I love so some poor girl can have him. I worked my ass off while they fucked around in school. I stayed at home while they partied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:16 PM
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This is so weird. Woman (and men) can have what ever standards they want but neither is entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:08 PM
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It’s most major metro areas - which is where most people live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:06 PM
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She had the connections into the publishing world that made Amazon in its initial business
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:50 PM
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Do you hear how people talk about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:47 PM
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Lmao. Someone is having feeeeelings. And now the Trumpers are getting it good and hard for voting based on feelings about mean old feminist boogie men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:37 PM
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Sorry you need it spelled out - marry a woman with some earning capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:35 PM
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Not really. I also busted my ass through HS, college, and law school. Why shouldn’t I get someone comparable (and I did). I set my standards in HS too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:32 PM
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Do you have kids? No? Kids are expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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I agree with that last sentence wholeheartedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:19 PM
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You’re in the UK. I know shit is rough there because of post Brexit and what not, but you have the NIH. You don’t have to worry about what happens if a pregnancy goes bad. I don’t know about universities there but here, they are really expensive. The US is a really bad country to be poor in and I know what that is like - my childhood. I love my husband deeply. It isn’t as mercenary as it sounds. When I met him, he was a college drop out and I a lawyer. He was however already doing well in his ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:17 PM
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Kids cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:47 PM
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This is what happens in a world without public services. We had to pay thousands of dollars out of pocket for our kids’ births. No NIH here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:46 PM
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“ Which is all you really need when combining households will naturally benefit both).” But that IS a benefit not a net neutral. Now I certainly think that men prioritize the economic viability of potential spouses less than women, but it wasn’t always thus. It used to be that women needed skills too as part of a viable economic unit - not just running a household but skills like weaving, lace making, and beer making as an example. Joan of Arc used to brag that she was the best spinner in her to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:43 PM
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Thanks for the spelling correct. ComBatible is a hell of a Freudian finger slip 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:30 PM
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No the odds are against men https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:42 AM
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Men are delusional about their league more than women https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:41 AM
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Lord desperation is repellent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:24 AM
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If they aren’t compromising, it is a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:22 AM
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This is excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:19 AM
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This is why our fertility rates are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:08 AM
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It’s the inflation - up from 100k pre pandemic :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:02 AM
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Just what? I say this as an attorney. Plenty of lawyers become dinks and travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:01 AM
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Thank you for saying it. I’ve been married for a while but that was my impression when I was dating to get married. Men interested in building something together found my degree, my career, and my debt free life very attractive on top of the ass. My now husband and I sussed out our views on spending. Sex and attraction are great for a relationship, but compatible values on spending, career building, and social matters (religion etc) for marriage and kids. (Combatible doesn’t mean identical - I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:58 AM
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Remember many men here will complain about divorce rape and having to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:49 AM
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Men really should have some standards and I feel like many men do. Bezos and Zuck didn’t marry waitresses who are cute. A lot of guys found my intelligence and capability to also bring home the bacon an asset
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:46 AM
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I’m wishing you the best. I had two children and had to stop there because of my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:42 AM
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“ I doubt he had tingles. Bro just liked you..you’re probably a cool person whos easy to talk to. And attractive. Getting to know you is what set you apart from thr others.” I assume tingles = sexual attraction right? So for me - and I assume other women - it’s like a zing in the clit and a giggle. I’d guess men start flying at full mast. I donno. He was kissing me up and down my neck two hours after we met (I went home alone). It seemed pretty clear he liked the whole package. Isn’t that the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:40 AM
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I am in the US. Education is more than just college. One of the smartest men I know was a master electrician. My husband was a college drop out when I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:28 AM
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“ One thing the YouTube dating guru call ins showed is just how out of touch somewomen’s standards are. They’re choosing guys that have no reason to be attracted to them.” Lmao. How can you keep believing this shit is true. Look I’m sure there’s some delulu guys and gals out there shooting way beyond but it’s few and far between. These aren’t representative of most women or men. They pull these chicks on because they want to knock them down a peg and you guys hate watch because you want to see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:24 AM
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You could have just admitted you don’t have a response cock sucker.. or is that dick sucker… or are you just a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:19 AM
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Actually diet, I raised my standards and stopped being desperate with the thought I’d be alone. But lo and behold… when I RAISED my standards suddenly men also became a higher quality. Seems like desperation was a repellant. It is. Men should learn from that. Men should also learn that nobody - not men not women - are full rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:18 AM
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“ It generally a very humbling experience that causes some depression…” Snork. I know a lot of youngish (28 year old) women. They are not being humbled. I swear you all are focused on a really specific kind of woman - like instagram influencers or something - with nothing else going on who are looking to sell themselves to a super rich man. Most women aren’t like that - they have things going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:11 AM
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This is so good. I went through a similar experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:04 AM
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This deserves to be higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:01 AM
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“ Because it's a choice made from circumstance…” It’s still a knowing choice. I won’t feel that bad for a girl that marries a guy that was already beating her. And I won’t feel bad for some guy who marries a harridan either. There always was a choice to be alone. Actually I will help both them get out. I’m compassionate that way. My bro married an abusive woman despite that knowledge and I still helped him and never would hold it against him. But I won’t infantize him either - he had a choice to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:00 AM
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Ah wow so if he is knowingly choosing a bad woman than we definitely don’t need to feel sorry for him when she screws him over, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:57 AM
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You keep assuming it’s the hot ones who are abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:56 AM
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All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:55 AM
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It’s always this assumption that that good looking one is a Cad, and yet the one Chad I dated treated me fairly and honestly. Better than some of the ugly ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:54 AM
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I was a trained archaeologist and my personal hobby is history. I spend hours reading historical studies and am recently on a medievalist kick. In fact I recently read Dr Janega’s Once and Future Sex. This is how I know most of your “just so” stories about history have little to no facts to back them up. I’m not “projecting” shit. I’m basing my views on years of reading actual scholarly literature on beauty standards, family formation, marriage rites. I admit, most battles I ignore (except Aginc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:51 AM
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But men staring at porn and airbrushed women haven’t raised men’s standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:39 AM
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A lot of women did marry men they weren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:52 PM
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How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:52 PM
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I agree people can be highly manipulative and deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:47 PM
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My money goes in the same pot as my husband’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:21 PM
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My money goes in the same pot as my husband’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:21 PM
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Brava woman with two kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:05 PM
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Haha I have a black lady friend and my fucking god is she ageless, gorgeous, stylish, and amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:03 PM
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I am sorry sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:59 PM
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I have a man friend who told me that once I got through the baby rabies age (mid 30s), I’d be thrilled I didn’t have kids. I had kids. That said, I have friends crashing in on 40, including one who really wanted kids a decade ago, who are glad they didn’t have kids. People think women ache for babies, but a lot don’t. In addition I think it’s hormone driven in part and fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:57 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:55 PM
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I’d tell a man not to date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:48 PM
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Then don’t date a fat 35 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:47 PM
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Because some people (like me) like to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:44 PM
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100%. Nothing but respect. I became very depressed myself and went back to work. I’ve known great house husbands and great house wives, but it isn’t the cake walk people imply. And yes always have a way to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:42 PM
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Nah. As guys here have said, men will fuck women they are meh with. They will absolutely keep them around for convenience. I bought my husband a 100 bottle of scotch for xmas, after we’d be dating for three weeks, but I was absolutely sure he liked me and wanted to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:39 PM
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We are successful. I am at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:18 PM
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No they don’t treat women better. I’ve dated one Chad. He didn’t lie to me. He didn’t make false promises to me. He wasn’t controlling. And he liked me enough to ask me to move in. I said no. My first husband was an insecure shit who controlled me, tried to destroy my already destroyed self-esteem, and would run after a whiff of 😸. He was less attractive all around than Chad. No one likes feeling lesser than their partners. No one - especially men - like to feel like their gf could do better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:16 PM
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To be fair, I agree you are gender neutral in this respect. But in this sub you’ll have men complain vociferously about women dumping them, divorce raping them, etc, and when women say “choose better,” they get irate. Nah they want laws in place and they accuse women of no empathy. But when a woman related her ex running off with some other woman, they tell her “shouldn’t have chosen a guy with options a choose better!” They assume that is a man treats a woman bad, it’s some kind of Giga-Chad. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:08 PM
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Here here, dude. Cheers to you and your lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:59 PM
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They don’t treat women better. You must think we are all 8 plus stacies who only dated Chads. Let me spell it out for you. I dated a Chad. He asked me to move in. He didn’t lie to me - he didn’t need to - he had plenty of women. He was charming and funny and he took me to dinner and did nice boyfriend like things. And NEVER LIED or PROMISED. I dated and then married a deeply insecure guy who wasn’t a Chad. He treated me like shit. He promised monogamy but any woman gave him the time of day, off …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:58 PM
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Men have a choice. That choice may be living a single life but it is STILL a choice. Part of being a grown up is recognizing that. As a mid woman, I realized pretty young that I likely wouldn’t have the man I wanted. I decided to work on my career. It’s life. I also decided I’d rather be alone than be in a relationship with someone who treated me bad. And good people aren’t attracted to desperation. That’s how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:45 PM
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“ “better” because they will be far more grateful and likely to treat a woman better just to be given a chance at all.” Date people who are desperate is terrible advice. No actually they don’t necessarily treat you better. In fact their insecurity can make them try to baby trap you, stalk you, control you. And being a simp or doormat doesn’t make them good prospects for a long term relationships or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:06 PM
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“ These men are hypothetically below her league. The men hypothetically in her league are the men whom don’t give her immediate tingles, but whom she gets to know and gradually starts to like them and have feelings for them…” Ah now we are back to tingles, but immediate tingles. Smh. Look, none of us are given a league card, boyo. We find out by DATING. And our league can change. I rocketed way up my league through my twenties. We find out by dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:54 PM
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“ then to properly fall in love with him.” The stuff you say… wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:49 PM
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“ but I also do think that early sex with men out of her league does ruin a woman’s attraction somewhat for the men actually in her league.” Uh huh? Have you been a woman fucking men out of her league? Have you asked women if having had a hot boyfriend in the past means they can’t be attracted to less hot now? What exactly is the basis of this? Because I see so much bull crap about women getting inflated egos over hot men hitting it and quitting it when every woman I know has been taught from bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:48 PM
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“Some men would argue that women would get tingles for the men actually in their league if they didn’t fool around with men out of their league first.” And I can argue that the moon is made from green cheese, but we need to work on facts, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:44 PM
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“ Men and women are not the same. Men’s attraction to women and women’s attraction to men does not work the same. Men are physically attracted to most women, while women are physically attracted to few men.…” Ah do tell me ALL about my own sex drive. I like it. 😜 and bold of you to assume that tingles that women get is - purely PHYSICAL - it isn’t. When I first laid eyes on my husband, no tingles. Within a hour I was ready to climb all over him. Wit, intelligence, warmth, and the best pair of ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:41 PM
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“ We do it all the time. You dont have huge tits with thr perfect curves.” But you have tingles right? You want to fuck her? So don’t expect a woman to marry a man without tingles. I don’t know if I’m the hottest girl my husband ever dated and I’m smart enough to NEVER ask him to rank me, but there is no question he had tingles and still does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:20 PM
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Nah. No more than a ltr break up is a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:16 PM
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Dude I went through probably 10 relationships so far and I’ve been married for a total of 23 years. I dated several guys between husband one and husband 2. And my ex, had at least three relationships before meeting me. Then he had at least another four or five before his second wife. Who knows how many after that. It’s easy to date people for three or four months or half a year before deciding they are a poor match. Do that through college and a few years after, well you have that number. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:15 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:09 PM
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Men choose too. You all are fully formed adults. You all have agency. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:07 PM
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And yet it’s men that choose more on looks than women, so shouldn’t that be aimed at men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:04 PM
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I think he’s arguing that you listen to your friends when they give a warning?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:01 PM
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I agree OP. With one caveat - sexual attraction matters. I don’t know how often men do it, but some women will marry the “good guy” on paper that lacks sexual attraction. And then they meet someone with it. Although I f-king DESPISE the book, the bridges of Madison county absolutely explains this phenomenon. I hated the woman adulterer because she should have done the honest thing - never marry a guy she didn’t really love or feel some sexual spark for. And I felt bad for her husband, who was ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:00 PM
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I’d tell all men to avoid a woman like this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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See, not lazy. I doubt this guy is volunteering in his spare time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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Nah. I’ve been a house wife. To do it right, you gotta know how to work. I gardened, redid the house, painted, all the cooking all the cleaning all the kid stuff, doctors appointments, and worked on some stuff for my husband. Busted my ass. No lazy for me. I’m not and no house husband will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:46 PM
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“ Most women who think there are attractive men who are "kind, respectful, and loyal"…” Red pill are the biggest misandrists out there. I know several men who are attractive and those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:41 PM
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Irrelevant - it still means that MEN COVET other people’s wives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:22 PM
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It most certainly isn’t - lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:18 PM
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Like a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:18 PM
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Damn straight - all of this. My brother used to love the hot messy girls. He learned. I still empathized with him when it went bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:15 PM
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Find me a man who decides to commit to someone without “tingles”. No one tells men to date or have a LTR with someone they aren’t attracted to. Why are you all so dismissive of women considering “tingles” as well as other aspects. Especially when the studies show that women don’t prioritize looks as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:12 PM
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This is exactly what happened with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:08 PM
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“ I know a lot of guys like this, I'd say half wear a pretty good mask.” Literally pointing out that the guys in question are lying and deceiving - apparently all their male friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:04 PM
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Like men do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:03 PM
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So you - don’t - want women to choose better. Because marriage to someone entitled is hell. As Practical Control said, it’s “choose me” not “choose better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:01 PM
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So you aren’t a good dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:59 PM
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And boy desperate guys will cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:58 PM
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Is that what you tell me whose wives divorce them? They should have chosen better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:58 PM
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Have you tried dating guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 PM
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People who don’t take the opportunities this country has given them to be educated are not an appropriate choice for me. I’ve been told many times by many men that fat is a character defect. And why assume that a good looking guy is a bad guy.? Should a man marry someone he isn’t attracted to sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:56 PM
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In what world are they required to become a nun rather than date around if they’d like? Because no one says a man has to stop dating girls even if they won’t husband him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:53 PM
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“ this fucking healthcare system that favors women.” Biases against women in healthcare. https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-bias-healthcare https://physicians.dukehealth.org/articles/recognizing-addressing-unintended-gender-bias-patient-care https://www.weforum.org/stories/2024/10/women-health-gap-healthcare-gender/ Really it makes me question the rest of your opinions with that error
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:11 AM
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“ Believe it or not, when the love is real, sex, and all that superficial shit, gets told to go to the back of the bus.” Dead bedrooms Reddit would like a word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:05 AM
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Right? And any women doing that to a man would be trashed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:00 AM
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Men don’t love unconditionally, no matter how many Disney fairytales you naively believe. How many men stick around without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:58 AM
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Like spend some time here and see what men here say. Or visit dead bedrooms Reddit - no nookie and many men are done. Now not all - but don’t pretend that men don’t have conditions just as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:55 AM
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Or when women stop having sex with the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:52 AM
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What’s very funny is how they’ll talk about how competitive men are … until suddenly it comes to women. Sureeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:40 AM
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Yes. I’ve watched it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:01 AM
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It’s called competition, my dude. And it will spur men on too if they think one of their options is being taken. Works on women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:00 AM
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Because you don’t get opportunities with girls. For hot guys who’ve had a lot, one more girl isn’t very tempting - the cost of potentially blowing up a relationship you want is a lot more than the benefit of some sex. And the costs just become steeper if he’s married the woman he decided is the best. But for a guy that never got any? Oh the benefit - the benefit to hit that drunk chick at the bar looks like it way outweighs the costs. Besides it’s not like his gf or wife is going to find out, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 AM
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My dad picked his mistress over us. I’ll never forgive him. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 AM
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What wretched wretched people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:37 AM
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Tell men that. They’ve missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:33 AM
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But then those thirsty men are easy to snake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:32 AM
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To the contrary…. Men who are desperate for attention - ie unattractive ones - go nuts if a girl gives them the time of day. More likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:28 AM
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Sorry lady that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:28 AM
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That was the best V gift he ever gave me. Never had a man make me dinner. But nah I wouldn’t have married him if he was broke playing video games at 32 (how old when I met him). And he wouldn’t have married me if I’d been broke playing video games. He wanted someone to build a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:52 AM
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Pregnancy is a burden, full stop. And attitudes like yours is why women don’t have kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:56 PM
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What a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:55 PM
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Bahahaha. Snork. Madison Avenue LOVES guys like you. Sure punkin, you aren’t socially conditioned at all. They found you fully grown from under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:45 PM
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The most memorable and best V Day gift my husband gave me was home cooked bourbon chicken. To hell with that “women won’t like it” bs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:44 PM
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Money isn’t the only metric. One of the best presents my husband gave me on V Day was a cooked meal. No man had ever done that since my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:39 PM
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We have women generals. Trump just fired one of the most accomplished ones - head of the Coasties - and kicked her out of her house in three hours. My blood is boiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:38 PM
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It’s called capitalism and marketing. Ever noticed how Christmas crap is out before Thanksgiving when no one wants that? Because marketing. We exchange cards and sometimes - ahum - services
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:36 PM
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So sex isn’t a need or prostitution would be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:55 AM
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It does once you get past just dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:30 PM
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I live in Atlanta exburbs. I see it everywhere. I watched a man with a gay daughter - whom he adored! - vote Trump. Why? dismissal of his statements as not real. You’d be shocked at how many republicans were caught flat footed by Dobbs. They honestly thought it was all lip service. Even now they don’t believe that the GOP is coming for gay marriage. my husband thought Trump was a fiscal conservative social liberal because New York Republican. Because they value something the Republicans offer mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:54 PM
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Older women and younger men are criticized
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:52 PM
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I want you guys to go visit the prolife website and tell them sex is a need. They tell me that if I don’t want to get pregnant (even though it would represent a real risk to my life) I should just forgo all PIV sex with my husband until I’m through menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:36 PM
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Have that discussion with the prolife types and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:34 PM
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Lack of social interaction and support = problem. Lack of sex =\= problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:32 PM
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Human connection is a need. This is why solitary confinement is bad. But human connection =/= sex. Sex is not a need. Many people go YEARS without sex. My mom as an example was sexually active from about 23 until 45. This means for almost 40 years she has been sex free. I have two female friends that I know with reasonable certainty that neither have been sexually active in over a decade. For men, over at dead bedrooms there are wives who go years without sex because their husbands aren’t intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:29 PM
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This is dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:14 PM
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“ There is a widespread denial that women can enjoy any BDSM acts at all and that she’s simply brainwashed by men and the patriarchy.” No there is a wild spread denial of men to understand that a little hair pulling is different than choking and - above all - consent is needed FIRST
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:08 PM
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But talk to any BDSMN subreddit and there will be throngs of women ready tell you a story about a man who took it too far without consent. See that word?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:06 PM
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CONSENT! Before any BDSM play, there is a long careful discussion about what the parties like, what is and is not on the menu, and yes safe words. That’s never shown in tha porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:04 PM
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These women aren’t lying to you or engaged in some mass gaslighting effort. I like rough sex. I admit it. Don’t f—king it before speaking with me. And don’t you dare push for it. Like why is this hard to understand? Don’t try expert moves just because you saw it on red tube? Speak with your partner ahead of time, don’t assume she likes it? This is why gay men usually have great sex. They communicate because not everyone is down with anal. And don’t push if she doesn’t like it? A lot of those wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:01 PM
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Not shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:06 PM
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🥂🥂 cheers to you and your honey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:03 PM
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