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So it’s fine if your wife beats you for going out with boys. “ Nobody is offering anything, kthanxbye.” I am not so pathetic that I need to run to another country that allows wife beating to get a date or a husband. Only incredibly weak men need to resort to beating on an economically disadvantaged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:15 PM
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Unknown - misandry bad. Misogyny good!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:51 AM
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What article? How sound is the data? How sound is the methodology? There are three experiences I can think of right now that were painful, unpleasant, and frightening. One left me crying. I did not in any way get turned on. And I don’t get turned on now. Sex got better and better the more comfortable I become with someone. But women aren’t all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:47 AM
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“Girls night out” = I’m bored of you and am looking to cheat on you Dude I go have girls nights out and I don’t cheat. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:39 PM
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Hooker with a heart of gold. I think sex work should be legal and regulated like Nevada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:37 PM
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As if men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:58 PM
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Let me explain. If someone is unattractive to that person, no, not getting there. If you are neutral, a good personality can flip the switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:56 PM
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No boyo. It isn’t secondary. That’s why a dude can go from Adonis to zero when he opens his mouth. Looks are overt. That is the fastest and easiest thing to judge. I was neutral when I first laid eyes on my husband. In a hour I was all over him. He did that with his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:54 PM
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That photos are a difficult way to judge sexual attraction for women. Men are not women. The circulation for playgirl was never close to playboys, but women love erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:48 PM
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Or some weird mix. I like lumberjacks. But I like Tom Holland, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:47 PM
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YES. Like so many of the mega gym bros aren’t appealing. And btw - you know who got my motor running as a teen girl - fucking Tommy Lee Jones (late forties) in the fugitive. And HE IS not most people’s heart throb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:46 PM
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“ The secret is that they find 80-90% of men unattractive.” Facts not in evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:42 PM
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Suck his dick and tell him he rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:25 PM
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Damn. Paramedics are really solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:25 PM
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I call women who insist on subjecting themselves to their husband’s fools
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:15 PM
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“ Why do people believe that humans, generally speaking, are rational market participants?” This shit should be posted on EVERY post. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:37 PM
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You know, you decide who to give your attention to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:36 PM
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Sorry, there is no moral benefit to picking a short man over a tall one. And the way you scream at women over this shit, you sound like a 300 lb purple haired fat influencer bitching that men are degenerate for wanting slender men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:31 PM
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“ consider them moral agents responsible for rewarding morality and punishing immorality with every decision they make in the same way men are.” So do you criticize Chad for pump and dump? Will I find you calling out PUAs? “ I believe women are responsible for the incentive structure they create for men when they decide to reward some trait, ignore others and flat out punish some.” You out there telling your boys to date and marry a super fat woman so long as she treats him like gold? If not why…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:26 PM
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“ Meanwhile there are men willing to date women of all shapes, sizes, income levels, living situations and medical diagnosis.” Meanwhile are men willing to fuck women of all shapes, sizes, income levels, living situations and medical diagnosis.” Fuck, not date; not have a relationship with, not support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:24 PM
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Agree with the God King here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:51 PM
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“I don't see how forcing a man into a trench to be shelled for 3 years is any less morally reprehensible than forcing women to bear pregnancies so the country can have enough men to force into said trench. You are risking the life and limb of both in different ways.” Have you been forced into a trench for three years? No? Then sit down. Stop stealing valor from better men to enslave women for 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:50 PM
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“ TBH as a woman I think a lot of women have become out of touch with realistic income due to social media.” Please. Do you think women don’t fucking work? And magically men aren’t mIsLeD by social media over what jobs pay? Unless mommy and daddy are floating daughter’s bills, women aren’t out of touch any more than men. Sure women can have fucked up priorities or want to be spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:09 AM
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It is awesome there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:05 AM
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It depends where in California. California housing prices are off the charts but it’s more than just “slightly lower taxes” in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:05 AM
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Then get used to being alone, dude. Same as the gal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:14 AM
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Rent of Canadian is hilarious. You get great public services. The tax burden for middle and lower class is lower in Cali than Texas. Shit you not. Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:09 AM
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I know this is flippant, but guess who created insurance in the event that even if you make safe decisions, you still have a backup. Technically it's not specifically men specifically protecting women but government policies protecting everyone, but the safety is there for you. The fact that you pay less for it is a nice bonus. (Men created insurance for MEN. And in fact BARRED women from accessing it independently from a man, so sorry I won’t be on my knees thanking you for your nobility when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:01 AM
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Then you aren’t looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:15 AM
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As I’m quite aware of the Rutherford Hayes fiasco which led to the collapse of reconstruction, the spread of Jim Crow, and the such tragedies as the Wilmington NC massacre and coup d’etat don’t even TRY it or claim revisionist history. Black Men AND women were both lynched - and that’s a fucking sin - but that doesn’t change the fact that: Men were more willing to give black men the vote than women. The first black senator - Hiram Revels of Mississippi 1870z The first female senator? (Elected) H…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:13 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:01 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:01 AM
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Nah man. Most men are married or in dating relationships. So yes they get some female attention. All you have to do is look at the stats. Truth is, you are only thinking of a very narrow subset. You see my husband walk by you think, look at that tubby gray haired short dude (he started going grey in his 20s). But I rode him this morning. And a few days ago I let him mouth fuck me - not my favorite thing but he’s worth it. But I doubt you ever think of guys like him. He’s middle aged and fat. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:56 AM
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Commitment doesn’t mean marriage, muchacho. Most women want to be in dating relationships before fucking. Many women I know - but not all - didn’t have sex until they were in a monogamous relationship. That doesn’t mean that they never had causal sex or ONS, only that it was rare. Of course I’m talking about generally well adjusted women. One of my friends to this day - sweet as gold but just, i donno - she’s always been willing to do plenty of causal. Another one - ex friend - well she’s just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:47 AM
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It’s amazing how fast men get to threatening stripping women of their rights rather than paying women money to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:35 AM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:24 AM
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In the DANCE industry. Those are hot fit and flexible girls and I’ve seen male dancers Plenty of women are paired with men under six feet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:23 AM
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And they are getting it, good and hard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 AM
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If women engaged in causal sex like men, there wouldn’t be nearly the complaining. I rarely engaged in casual sex. And I have many friends who never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:00 AM
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Not like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:58 AM
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Women really don’t want that much casual sex dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:43 PM
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This. I’ve always had a preference for taller men, to the point I dated a 7 ft basketball player when I am 5 feet flat. I realized this was stupidity. Almost all men will be taller than me. I dropped that as a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:38 PM
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It’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:48 PM
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“ You live longer.” And we get better insurance because we are less reckless. So how is that about men protecting women? We go to the doctors more. How is that men protecting women? Did you know that drugs are never tested on women, leaving us suffering severe side effects? Let’s talk about all the biases against women in medical care: https://physicians.dukehealth.org/articles/recognizing-addressing-unintended-gender-bias-patient-care https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8812498/ “ You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:48 PM
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Who kills men? Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:38 PM
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Bahahaha omg I bet you believe these ahistorical lies men tell about themselves to make themselves feel better. Who gained the right to vote (thus treated as a full human) first? A black man or a white woman? That tells you who men first saw as fully human- other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:38 PM
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Aw no sweetheart, you are normal. There is so much anger and rage and meanness in the world. Kindness is a premium. If you look at the studies, both genders really mark kindness super highly. When I give my girls a welcoming smile - or my husband - when they get home, it makes their day. It makes mine too. I came home yesterday and my husband came out to the garage with a big smile. And fuck it made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:48 PM
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Looks at the avalanche of recent posts on why women date bad men or why women need to lower/change their standards, all posted by men, and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 PM
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Because he is awesome in other respects?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:49 AM
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Wow. How many blow jibs have you given that you know it takes no effort (it does)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:49 AM
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Men most definitely care if women starfish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:48 AM
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On one hand you bitch that women should be more compassionate toward men and their insecurities but then you bash women for faking orgasms to protect their feelings. You don’t get to act like an insecure twat and then get mad at your sexual partner who cares about you for performing yo make you feel better. I’ll tell men nicely when they aren’t doing it for me, but I would kick them right out if they acted up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:44 AM
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Lordy are you gullible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:59 PM
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Because attractiveness is largely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:57 PM
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I’m sure you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:56 PM
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Because men were delusional before as the studies showed and now they realize they were. If YOU thought before social media that being fat was equally attractive to being cut as a man, YOU were the one deluded. Both sexes tend to prefer the more svelte. Look dude, I lost weight and got a lot more male attention. None of that was a shock and it wasn’t social media’s fault for deluding men to value skinny. I wasn’t deluded before - more men prefer thinner bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:54 PM
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I’m upvoting. Here is the deal though, it is hard for both men and women, especially the young, to fight against that social pressure. Our irrational insecurities pop up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:43 PM
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And of course the algorithm keeps pumping them to him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:41 PM
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Bravo KayRay. You are a breath of fresh air
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:41 PM
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Imagine thinking 16 year olds are good barometers of adult men or women. Feel free to post contrary evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:39 PM
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Hey you get to value what you want! I ended up with a green eyed man, too. Love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:34 PM
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It’s “rein.” Fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:33 PM
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To the contrary, the studies show that MEN are more delusional about their looks than woman. In light of that evidence, your entire argument collapses like a house of cards. It’s men that need to be humbled if anyone does, and maybe that is what is happening. Although I tend to think it’s not the internet’s business to humble anyone’s dating preferences unless asked. That is the for the individual. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:33 PM
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“ Most women have simply never been punched in the face, have never been in a fight, have never had their bones broken, etc. But this has happened to a much larger number of men.” And who is breaking the bones? Not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:37 PM
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The studies show that women apologize more than men. Your personal experience is poor data https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20855900/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:35 PM
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Actually I agree. I’ve always hated this double standard. And again I had to help my brother away from his abusive x wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:22 PM
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So by that analogy, men also shouldn’t be chasing women more attractive. Yet they do .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:18 PM
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But men very much prioritize looks - MORE than women - so why don’t they focus on characteristics conducive to LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:15 PM
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You said nothing about how she treats you in your original comment, you just complained that she slept with hotter men. Why should a woman marry a man that wasted his twenties wanting to date around? It’s the same analogy. Men and women both often change priorities as they approach the thirties. Men and women start getting serious about long term commitment and that does shift mate selection for both. But somehow men are allowed to change their focus from casual dating to serious, but never wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:08 PM
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Height =/= higher status. Otherwise a man’s desire to date a more attractive women is also hypergamous. That means all men are hypergamous by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:03 PM
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Who decides “what they deserve”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:01 PM
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I can’t help it that you don’t hang out with smart people in a major metro area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:00 PM
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My husband is with a fortune 100 company with patents on the application of spline math functions in predictive algorithms. He has a DSc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:00 PM
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I can’t believe you guys downvoted me over lavishing love on my husband. You wish you had a wife who lets you mouth fuck her and thinks you hung the moon. And you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:53 PM
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You mean the guys who all want Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:51 PM
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That is exactly what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:11 PM
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Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:09 PM
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Why do we have to be governed by “biology?” Who decides what is the biological standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:07 PM
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Yah that sounds insane
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:04 PM
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I can handle the answer just fine since you are literally repeating what I said. Seems like you are the one who is failing at comprehension. “ tionship with him it would be upsetting. Men work through and accept this. That doesn’t mean it’s not upsetting and it may need to be explained to others.” = me saying “Grow Up.” I don’t know if husband dated IG models he would have married had they wanted to. I know one of his prior girl friends - that I’ve seen pics of - was seriously hot. I wonder how …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:03 PM
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And as is clear, many of the mid men posting here would love to just use women for their bodies like Chad does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:38 PM
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Aw you are funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:37 PM
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Because there are a lot more men on those apps than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:36 PM
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Oh well. I don’t want some guy who only decided at 26 that he would like to get married. He should have been aiming for marriage at 18 with some basic Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:35 PM
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Lmao right? He is literally saying that he is making a big compromise by accepting a size c instead of size d, but women are too shallow if they want a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:33 PM
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“ please stop listening to other women who tell you short hair looks nice.” Yes women, don’t cut your hair for some random male out there might like it long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:32 PM
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Here is a trick about human nature - men and women - no one wants “too easy.” They don’t value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:28 PM
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Yes. I was pretty pathetic and a virgin wallflower as a teen. Young, dorky, naive, a little pudgy (but I’ve seen pics and I looked much better than I thought). Desperation is pretty potent to scare guys away. They don’t want serious. They don’t want marriage. They want fun. My family considered my first husband way beneath me. They wanted me to turn him down. He treated me badly. Expected me to do 100% of the house hold chores and work full time. Seriously. But he was the first and only guy to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:24 PM
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Women if I recall messaged more men at the mid end of the attraction scale
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:00 PM
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Lmao. Tell men that their aversion to fat girls is deluded when most Americans are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:59 PM
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“I think it's more of a matter of being realistic and understanding who you can attract. It's good to have standards for others, but if you don't meet the minimum standards that others expect from you, you shouldn't complain that people aren't interested in being with you…” Then pass that on to all these guys who diss fat girls but complain that they can’t get what they want. At a certain point, it’s better to be alone. Not everyone marries or has an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:56 PM
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Because men having standards is fine, but not women, especially if it excludes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:53 PM
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What a miserable life to lead. Someone is always going to be prettier, richer, or thinner. I think the real answer is that you are only with her before you couldn’t get someone prettier. And you think she sees you the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:50 PM
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I’m basic Betty. My husband is with me because I was the best all around person he could get. I’m not the prettiest girl he dated. He isn’t the hottest biggest dicked guy I dated. But he is the best for me and I am the best for him. Grow up. We all aren’t the prettiest or tallest or most handsome. That is life. Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:47 PM
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Hope you are saving your virginity for your wedding night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:45 PM
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I want a good man who never chased a Stacy and always wanted to settle down with basic Betty. Did you want to marry at 19? No? Did you simp for some hottie? Yes? Then bye! Oh wait, that’s almost every guy on the planet, because most guys don’t want to marry basic Betty at 19 and most guys try to get with the hottest girls they can. And then they learn and they grow and they enter a different phase of life. Don’t hold women to standards you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:44 PM
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Yes it is. If they keep staying with women who treat them bad for sex. It is within the man’s power to simply leave. And I say the same thing for women. Look, I helped my bro out of a DV situation with his now ex wife. I get people get entangled and need help. But the answer remains the same - my brother needed to leave. And at the start of the relationship, if someone doesn’t doesn’t like how they are treated, leave. That goes for men and for women. It isn’t easy, I agree. But men need to enfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:40 PM
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So stop telling women to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:35 PM
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“ I'm discussing attractiveness with the assumption that all other factors are equal.” All other things ARENT equal. They never are. People aren’t fungible. Most people have mistaken me for my husband’s daughter. As in seriously. Most people will say he probably out threw his coverage. But no one sees how he makes me laugh or treats me so well and is my rock. He’s the most competent and solid man I’ve ever been around. I cannot tell you how valuable that is to someone who grew up with poor famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:05 PM
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It’s amazing watching men suddenly wanting massive social reform and pressure rather than scream about individual responsibility blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:29 PM
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Then hypergamous has no meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:20 PM
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I got much better results by raising my standards. It’s how I have my husband now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:16 PM
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No doubt men here target forty year old fat single moms, right? They aren’t targeting a slender woman with no kids in her twenties?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:14 PM
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Yes I don’t think they’d want a virgin by in large
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:36 AM
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Lmao. Lawd. I guess in your world people never remarry after one dies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:34 AM
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But that’s the same as for men, so by fucking many women, the man is ruining his own ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:31 AM
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I thought it was a lovely positive story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:28 AM
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Pre marriage husband and I mostly split bills 50/50. After marriage it all went into one pot. We have little to no financial friction because we are both cheap mfkkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:27 PM
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“ Financial independence is one of the greatest gifts society gave women and the women who choose to walk away from it are taking a big risk imo.” 120%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:25 PM
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Sure. And naive guys will fall for toxic women. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:26 PM
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And yet despite men understanding this concept, they rail and seethe that women are line men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:23 PM
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I think it’s a bit earlier than 28 but I agree. But as a mid woman, we too go through the sting of watching our male friends lust after the toxic hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:21 PM
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Lmao. You guys are so fragile. Whining and downvoting cause your fee fees are so hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:06 PM
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Patriarchy sucks ass. And communism is no way contrary to patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:14 AM
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Here. It’s a fucking negative effect of Anglo culture. In the eastern Mediterranean or Italy, men have far closer relationships. Men hug each other. Fathers kiss their sons. This is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:13 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:07 AM
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Come on dude. Men get to like what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:06 AM
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80 % of weight loss is what you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:04 AM
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My husband also had that discussion with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 AM
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Fitness is important. None of this surprises me. I exercise to control my anxiety. I need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:56 AM
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No they arent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:25 AM
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This is good. Watching
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:20 AM
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This is a very smart and nuanced comment. It should be far higher. Here is something doormats need to consider - that they don’t seem to do - and that is doormats aren’t attractive as long term partners, males or females. While I tend to roll my eyes at the law of the jungle shit that redpill pulls, couples and families face headwinds that require competition with others. The man (or woman) who tries to snake your spouse, the roof guy trying to claim you need a new roof. You need someone with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:15 AM
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Says a lot that this guy is “friends” with him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:03 AM
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Men are obviously all mass murderers since they play first person shooter games your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:02 AM
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A doormat that lets men walk on her and bear her children isn’t. “Nice.” I’m not nice and I don’t want a “nice” man if that’s your definition. But my husband knows I’ll fucking fight like a Tasmanian devil for my family. He doesn’t want a doormat. He wants a partner with brains and teeth who will defend her children like a momma bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:08 AM
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They get the chance of having jizz shot in their face. Wohoo. Nah, dude. You have no fucking clue. I lived it. Young twenties dude doesn’t WANT fatty mid Betty with big glasses, he wants Stacy like he sees in porn. Maybe he uses Betty or fucks her and promises he’ll be with her, but then he’s out with the boys drinking and hitting on Stacy waitress. They don’t want to commit. They want to play their options. They don’t have a bio clock. You all think all these young twenties boys are looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:58 PM
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“ That’s how they show their love…” Bull - and I cannot express this enough - shit. Do you expect any women here to believe one more word you say? How MANY times do men here say that women are fools for thinking Chad loves them when the fuck them? Nah, I wasn’t born yesterday. Men fuck because it feels good AND gives them social currency. The end. Oh and they sometimes naively believe that a woman must love them if she fucks them. Only men are allowed to fuck em and toss them out the door. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:49 PM
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So despite being an asshole you’ve yet to get a woman to marry you or date a woman worth marrying. And yet you think men spawning children are the successful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:31 PM
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Sure. Whatever. Some people are slow learners. I was a slow learner, but I learned faster than my mom, who never learned. I figured out by 25. I had poor role models. My friend J. knew by 16. The ones who don’t figure out or are 40. They are broken and/or toxic. Sorry for your friend. She’s probably a disaster in a relationship but fine as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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You dead nailed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:30 PM
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No it isn’t. You are nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:00 PM
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So you are married huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:59 PM
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You definitely should date some drug dealer’s strung out hoe. Have a kid with her. And when she cleans out your bank account for another hit don’t come crying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:58 PM
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As if breeding a slew of shitty retrobates is success. My two girls are beautiful, well cared for, intelligent, and will make good marriages to intelligent men if they so choose. That is success. Control over when and how we breed is one of the hallmarkers of climbing the socio economic scale in modern humans. Indiscriminate breeding with low parental investment is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:56 PM
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Tough isn’t toxic. Reckless is what most teen boys are. Big shock teen girls like it. Adults however - men and women - grow out of it or they are toxic. I doubt you’ve been around enough criminals* to see their women. I have. The women are trashy criminals too. *a stupid kid nailed for MJ I don’t consider a criminal. I give a lot of leeway to teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:48 PM
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If you date a drama girl, you deserve what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:44 PM
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SOME women get played. No one is perfect. You wanna tell me you’ve never been taken in? You have boyo. Because you are human. Experienced and healthy women generally do a good job avoiding toxic men. After my first real run in with 1, I have a perfect batting rate avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:43 PM
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Yes, your perspective is that there are some toxic women out there so all must be toxic. I used to whine as a teen over the fact that chad didn’t want to date a mid pudgy girl like me and only wanted the cheer leader even though I’d treat him like gold! If only he could see!!! Good thing I didn’t assume all men were like that. And Chad was an asshole anyway so why did I want them? Stop holding women to higher standards than men or treating them like a different species. You recognize there are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:41 PM
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A man broke up his marriage to date Casey Anthony, so clearly all men love women who murder their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:37 PM
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Did he? I’d want to see some proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:37 PM
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Uh I love murder mysteries. That doesn’t mean I want to fuck the murderers. To the contrary, the detectives are usually what gets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:36 PM
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Got news for you, women would cover for the mid men too, especially when it is her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:33 PM
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That’s just excuses. The point remains the same - men will date toxic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:29 PM
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You have just convinced me to make my bed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:28 PM
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“ I think that the main difference is that most women have a choice when choosing their partner and that most men will take anything they can get.” FALSE. I am so tired of this. You guys are always like “men and women are different sexually” until it’s inconvenient to recognize that women face really different barriers to relationships and social costs to being the town bicycle. Let me spell it out for you. I was a mid slightly porky white girl. I couldn’t get ONE guy interested enough to date m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:25 PM
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“I can fix him!” - the male edition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:56 PM
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Then they should shut up. They chose to take the ride. No whining about “divorce rape” or “dead bedrooms” or “cheating whores” or “going out with her girls and getting trashed.” None.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:54 PM
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“ Also a toxic GF is still better than no GF.” Then I don’t want to hear a word of whining from those guys. Not one. If they decide they are going to date a walking red flag for pussy than that’s on them. And yes, I’m just as pitiless to myself who married a walking red flag because she was desperate and had no self esteem. I made the choice to get into the shit. And I made the choice to get out and be alone instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:53 PM
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Naive good girls will fall for toxic men. Hopefully they have a good social safety net they trust to pull them out. I was a naive good girl. 100% wall flower. Middish. Got entangled with a bad boy. I didn’t have a good social safety net to help me for myriad reasons. My two close female friends didnt know how to help. But god I got so close at one point. If only. He took my virginity and I married him. Most people who date toxic figure it out and get out. That is one of the big advantages of dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:50 PM
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110% that last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:44 PM
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Yes naive girls will date toxic guys and learn fast to avoid it. Like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:43 PM
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But men here constantly pretend that only women do it, not men. And I won’t say men aren’t impressed by social status. My husband when first dating bragged a bit to his IT friends that he was dating me. It wasn’t just that I looked good in a short skirt (and I still do thank you very much. I have great legs) but I also was an attorney. The understanding was that he could not only get a hot girl but a girl that also smart and independent. It meant he WASN’T betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:57 PM
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Right- people scream that women are tax takers but it isn’t women - my sis pays a butt load in taxes as a single childless woman - it’s children who are usually with the women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:53 PM
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Yup. Or they are knock offs or off poshmark
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:52 PM
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I am in that range. I haven’t been to Europe in years and I can’t get myself to buy a Dooney and Burke purse for 485.00 because it’s too expensive. I don’t think you know these women And they are probably using Poshmark. Like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:51 PM
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Snork. Sure. That’s why men are complaining they can’t get women - because women are too dependent on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:47 PM
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3 reasons (generally speaking): (You gave four) Per another commenter, because men want women more than the other way around. (Agreed) Most guys want a girl who is caring, kind, giving, and easy going. Your A types and career-oriented women are the opposite. They often have a chip on their shoulder, are self-absorbed, high-maintenance, demanding, picky, and "never have the time/energy" to care about the man's needs. (And yet career women, college educated, have the lowest divorce rates and stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:46 PM
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Getting ran through - and it isn’t just Chad who try it - is part of being obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:31 PM
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You missed my entire point - I didn’t say that flashing a dick was unsuccessful for the man doing it. I was pointing out that it is abhorrent to many women which drives them off the apps. And frankly your numbers support it. It might gain one woman’s attention but nine are grossed out. Those nine leave the dating apps. So in the end, cumulatively, the approach is quite poor. It might be successful for one man but it reduces the entire available subset of women, turning the apps into a sausage fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:30 PM
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“ whereupon they get cash and prizes for breaking the marriage contract.” To the contrary they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 PM
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If they expect her to work, it isn’t a traditional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:20 PM
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YOU never get that. Plenty of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:18 PM
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All men rely on women. Why else are you all so desperate for women you move to a foreign culture on the other side of the world? That’s the hallmark of desperation. And just remember, in your dystopian future, weak men are enslaved and then disposed. The Chads of the world will rule even more than they do now. Men here really mistake where they land on the social pecking order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:14 PM
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Keep fighting those imaginary women in your mind, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:12 PM
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Lmao. Complains about a caricature and then proceeds to make caricatures about western women. Maybe they should treat their women better? Not cheat? And why is it that men get married so more quickly if they are divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:11 PM
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lol. Yes attracting women based on solely your wallet gets a lot more expensive when women can make their own money and be independent. Guess you need to offer something else. Here’s a hint - stop referring to women as hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:02 PM
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Sure and plenty of western women want to marry and have kids (raises hand).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:59 PM
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No it isn’t “simple biology.” In fact societies have organized where true paternity was not relevant. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2176175/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2022/06/17/fathers-day-adoption-biological/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/ecology-and-evolution/articles/10.3389/fevo.2019.00230/full In fact evo-psychology postulates that humans are serially monogamous, which has men-women pair bond for sevenish years to address the raising of the young and then mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:56 PM
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higher body counts mean more potential trauma which mean a lower LTR potential. That’s not based in conservatism, that’s based in pragmatism. Just because they align doesn’t make them the same. (And yet redpill is fine with men spinning plates, when the studies show that high body count is associated with poor long term relationships for both genders, not just women. Yet you don’t see redpill recommending sexual restraint for men.) women overwhelmingly report they won’t date men who have been wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:26 PM
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It’s hilarious to watch many men gobble up evo psychology when they distain most of the rest of the soft sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:08 PM
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The valued female form in the Middle Ages was pear shaped - small perky boobs, a nice soft belly, and a round butt. So yes, a big chunk of your sexual desire is socially mediated. Have you ever considered hitting the scholarly articles that discuss beauty standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:53 PM
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We do, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:44 PM
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If you want a good mother and smart kids, you pick a smart mother, so yes social status really does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:19 AM
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And it’s so funny because that is what so many men accuse women of doing - dating a guy so their friends are impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:17 AM
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Aw I’m so happy for you that you have a happy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:15 AM
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Men used to be extremely hypergamous, especially in the higher classes of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:15 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:13 AM
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Have you considered that men sending dick pics and being obnoxious is what drives women from the apps. After all if women date for self esteem (no) then wouldn’t they be there on the apps sucking it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:11 AM
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Men hound women for SEX. Not love and affection, sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:09 AM
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Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:07 AM
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“ The most common way women get money through their sex is getting a job while being underqualified, going out of their way to be sexual/cute on it or unwilling to do it properly.” Or you think because they are cute, they must be stupid. Men like to think I can’t hold my own because I am short and blonde and cheery. And yes, I know I’m qualified. My graduate degree, most grading was blind to avoid biases. I walked away magna cum laude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:06 AM
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Just admit she has you nailed, dude. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:03 AM
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Lawyer makes a lot more than 50 bucks in an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:01 AM
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I like you. I get your attitude. No I don’t want any money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:59 AM
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Missed the RTO huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:19 PM
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Most women aren’t doing this shit: “ average woman can easily attract hundreds of men vying for her attention each week through apps like Tinder. These men offer dates, dinners, and gifts. For those who are attractive, platforms like Twitch and OnlyFans have become lucrative businesses, enabling some to live lavish lifestyles just by showing off their bodies.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:18 PM
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Lmao money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:16 PM
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I always laugh at this shit: “ And telling themselves they live their life on their own terms, when in reality they live in the term of their work bosses schedule and needs, and on the terms of the zeitgeist of their female friend groups. It's for a specific demographic of people for sure.” If I am a SAHM, I have to live life on my husband’s terms, and the terms of his boss.” I’d rather just take out the middle man there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:15 PM
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That is what passportbroing is about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:39 PM
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One day guys here are going to claim women only find 5% of men attractive and then 1% Please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:32 PM
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Do you understand that fucking is ENTIRELY different than gestating and raising a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:27 PM
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“ Men still want to breed with women.” Men want to have SEX with women, not have KIDS. And women don’t want to have kids (but will certainly have sex with men) when they carry the physical and economic burden
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:26 PM
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80% of men aren’t undesirable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:19 PM
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There is a passportbros post that literally says this. Lol. A local bitching the price for a girl who wil be all traditional has been driven up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:19 PM
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And a lot of RTO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:15 PM
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Nope. Right now, my friend’s wife and family - all Venezuelans - are having their visas cancelled and are being deported. It is all over the news boyo. Spouses crying as their wives and husbands are sent to Guantanamo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:12 PM
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Alimony is awarded in less than 10% of rh cases and only for short periods of time. Child support doesn’t come CLOSE to paying the full costs of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:09 PM
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It’s incredibly ahistorical. Women absolutely were engaged in the trades and working all through time. Beer making, spinning, textiles, embroidering. They look at Bridgerton and think the wives were all the ladies, ignoring the cooks, chamber maids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:08 PM
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“ Especially in the West when she can walk away whenever she damn well pleases.” If you have no job and no skills, so much for walking away from him. “ This is how humans are. Man provides. Woman nurtures.” Why don’t you admit you’ve never cracked a history book if you think this horseshit. Jesus, the ignorance. As someone with a degree in archaeology and who still keeps abreast of current research on family formal and social history (right now my kick is the middle ages in Europe), the way you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:01 PM
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“Submits to him.” A slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:59 PM
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I am a strong independent woman who can cook. You guys really tell on yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:56 PM
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“ eminine and be happy with a traditional patriarchal husband wife setup while being satisfied with domestic work?” Wil they be happy with the man running everything like a mid fifties “father knows best” tyrant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:55 PM
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Women aren’t cars. I hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:54 PM
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They like the STATUS not the dude. Lose the money? Lose the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:53 PM
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This I think is an excellent and nuanced view
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:52 PM
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Passport bros have been around forever. Those are the foreign war wives etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:49 PM
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Feminism is the problem. Ie, why can’t I financially trap a woman into marrying me and never leaving like good old grandad could do in the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:47 PM
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Yah one dude was in IT and used a VPN until caught. And then he lost a 100k job down to a 50k one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:46 PM
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This is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:45 PM
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I hope he’s happy tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:44 PM
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They just want to do super charged beta buxxs, but many don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:43 PM
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You think men using financial arbitrage to jump themselves up from medium to wealthy in order to attract girls are getting women who are attracted to THEM versus their money? I don’t have a problem with passportbros so long as they aren’t actual sex pests but all they are doing is a hyper form of beta buxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:36 PM
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My mom is Cuban. My dad is married now to a German lady. There is a difference between dating internationally while you are there and passportbroing or sissing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:31 PM
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“ Daters were also engaged in 10% more interracial relationships and there was a 15% increase in those who said they would date different religions and cultures.” (Glad to see this) I can date a black man, Indian man, Hispanic man, or Asian man by just stepping outside. My neighborhood has them all. One of my daughter’s good friends is a Jordanian girl who is Muslim. Her family loved me because I still remember a few Arabic words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:29 PM
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You guys always prove that only the Stacey’s exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:24 PM
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So good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:21 PM
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Nah, I can avoid genuine badness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:17 PM
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The honest to god chad I dated treated me better than a lot of love bombing “nice” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:15 PM
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That’s a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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Chads are often nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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They do… because they are the ones around children the most
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:21 PM
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“If he can’t handle me at my worst, he doesn’t deserve me at my best.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:19 PM
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When men complain they are disposable war fodder or that no one considers their mental health or that they can’t show emotion? That is all toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:18 PM
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I’d recommend you read William B Irving “guide to a good life” - this helped re-invigorate stoicism as a philosophy. It has nothing to do with “not showing emotion,” but basically reframing your view of set backs as puzzles and also negative ideation. Learning to value what you have rather than thinking about what you don’t have. When my kids start screaming and I want to murder them, all I have to do is think of what life would be without them. And that horror makes it so much easier to weather…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:15 PM
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First, I’m glad you aren’t speaking from experience. I could easily see this leading to depression and suicide. We are social animals. Second, yes. Look you won’t believe me because I’m female, but I was pretty positive after being rejected in all my attempts to flirt or get a boyfriend through my teens, that I would be alone forever. I mean, all my friends got asked out - not me. Even the fat girls got asks out. Not me. So I made the choice to face life without a partner. That meant developing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:07 PM
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Does every man out there try to be your friend? No? And why would anyone be friends with you if your goal is to use them for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:54 PM
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“reason a guy would have one is because he is hoping to get out of the zone eventually because with a simple test have a girl call up a male best friend and then have her say she wants to have sex with him tonight let’s see him decline the offer if he’s single.” Considering men will engage in ONS with pure strangers, this doesn’t mean that men are only friends with women for sex. I have several good male friends… who are friends. And this statement reveals a lot about you - the only value a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:53 PM
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“ We accept many woman cannot cook and do not consider that abusive.” Who accepts women cannot cook? I made sure both my kids could do basic things around a kitchen. I understand people need to learn. But they also should try to learn basic life skills - and that goes for men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:45 PM
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You can’t sashay yourself to the clerk and ask a question? Are your legs broken? They can even LEAD you the spot. You are exhibit A of weaponized incompetence. You’d rather inconvenience your spouse than inconvenience yourself on a chore that YOU are doing. PS, look up the issues with multitasking, distraction, and switching costs when we move between tasks. But you know, that might actually require you to make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:43 PM
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Riddle me this, Batman. Who do you think KNOWS where the ketchup is at the grocery store? The store clerk and shelves whose job it is to know where everything is? Who is right there in the store? And can even LEAD you to the exact spot or help you search? Or your spouse, back a home, up to her (or his) arms in some other chore? The answer is the store clerk. I am a lawyer. I mentor baby lawyers. If they are not capable of engaging in a certain amount of problem solving themselves for basic tasks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:37 PM
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“ Clean dishes are a difference of standard now?” That man is a slob and a danger to his family. You watch what happens when salmonella gets going
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:25 PM
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“ Clean dishes are a difference of standard now?” That man is a slob and a danger to his family. You watch what happens when salmonella gets going
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:25 PM
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Yah I had no choice growing up because my mom was disabled. And I’ve caught myself doing for my kids instead of teaching them to do it. I’ve gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:23 PM
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Yup. Sometimes women suck at cleaning and men are better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:21 PM
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(And you are changing right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:21 PM
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Because - I - am not just sitting at home eating bon bons. I am working or cooking or doing chores or doing the kids’ homework. And him calling for an asinine question when there are clerks THERE at the store employed and able to do the task better disrupts my own ability to get my own chores done. And these men would never dream of pulling this shit at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:19 PM
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This isn’t about one call. This is about twelve calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:15 PM
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Figure it the FUCK out. How do you THINK I learned where the ketchup is? Be proactive, be an adult, try to solve the problem first. PS. This is one of the begging complaints right now about GenZs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:15 PM
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Anyone can learn how to load a dishwasher. Im
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:12 PM
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Good thing we aren’t taking about the government
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:10 PM
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So you are good at censorship. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:09 PM
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If TRP wasn’t promoting drug abuse or sexual violence, they should have removed those posts, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:08 PM
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That’s just the r / conservative sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:06 PM
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Criticism is not censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:04 PM
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Oooo I like Jon Hamm too. I haven’t seen the movie but I pulled some stills. He looks different there! Leather jacket and some stubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:45 PM
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I’m happy for you! It’s great when a relationship works! Your daughters are adorable in green like that. I have two daughters, too. A bit older than yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:39 PM
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You are oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:37 PM
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Not denying reality. Your thoughts are just one dimensional. All you see is sex. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:36 PM
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Bull fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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While I am very very sorry for the loss of your family member, success with relationships does turn on the person most often. That said, people need help and kindness to help them process the situation and come to terms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:32 PM
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Duh. Dating isn’t a guarantee - it still requires TWO people - and they need to mesh. You all really struggle to see women as people. I was REALLY unsuccessful with men - yah you won’t believe me but whatever - and I got salty about it. Why couldn’t I have the dates and boyfriends my friends did? I glowed up - followed that advice - but I knew it wasn’t a guarantee because the person on the other side had to like me enough to wife me up. You all need to accept it might not work out so live your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:29 PM
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Mine is a smidge taller at 5/6 or 5/7. Donno.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:23 PM
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“ This comment is too long so imma skim through it.” Next time read it because it’s clear you have ZERO comprehension of what I wrote. But you know, ignoring what girls say is a great way to get interest /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:21 PM
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Gee I thought men found much more women attractive, but now you are shitting on this guy’s wife? At least dude has a wife that wants to grab his dick coming out of the shower. When was the last time you had a woman look at you wet and naked and say she wants some of that? Sorry no one finds you attractive. Maybe work on the attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:04 PM
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Yah more hysteria. Stop projecting your poor self image on women. You hate yourself and you don’t think you’re attractive, so you project that on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:59 PM
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lol. I think my taste got set by Tom Selleck, who started out as a Marlboro man. I remember seeing him as Magnum PI as a kid and thinking - wow. Give me that. That was before certain things got so politically coded (and it’s bullshit too). But you do you. I like Tom Holland too - ever since he did lip sync battle singing in the rain. Look it up on YouTube. Short man in vinyl bondage shit and that would fuel quite a few dreams for me. Entirely different aesthetic than Marlboro man. This should ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:39 PM
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You have some style and your wife has a very lovely face. You all look happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:33 PM
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Do you date ugly girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:31 PM
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False. Men value physical attractiveness more than women. Now that you realize the data is wrong, please adjust your opinion accordingly and acknowledge that women are not in fact more shallow than men. (I’m sure you won’t) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4011637/#:~:text=For%20example%2C%20across%20a%20nationally,difference%20generalized%20across%2037%20cultures. https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Men-still-value-physical-attractiveness-in-a-mate-Meltzer-McNulty/3a11a5e237b1a2c51bc5…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:22 PM
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What attracts more men? A fit in shape girl or a fat girl who watches social media all her spare time and eat bon bons. And if you agree that the first would attract more men, why do you think women should have different standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:16 PM
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One caveat, boyo. It’s the women who determine whether you are attractive. Just because you think women are only attracted to 6 foot men doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:14 PM
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Uh huh. Like TRP doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:11 PM
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Yes, she doesn’t cheat or leave him when her husband becomes depressed because he picked a woman with a good heart and morals, not just based on her breast size. This is why I mock the shit out of men who are like “we don’t care what your interests are” or “we don’t care what your job is.” Well you better care about what that woman has in her heart and brain because sometimes the going gets tough. If you are only valuing the outside of a woman, don’t cry to me when her inside is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:11 PM
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Dayum girl 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:06 PM
2

That grandpa Dallas is smart too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:04 PM
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“ The latter looks significantly better especially because they get breast lifts after giving birth whereas the average woman walks around with a saggy chest and skin, she also can’t afford a nanny to help with childcare so she gets dark wrinkles. It’s repulsive to most men.” If my man thought of me like that after I gave him two children, I’d divorce him and take as much of his fucking money that I could. I’d fucking wreck his life. I went through a massive physical effort for both of us. If hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:55 PM
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“ Especially the most attractive ones. That’s why you never see janitors date the type of women that Donald Trump and Ronaldo can.” So YOU are shallow and YOU want to date a hot woman, who gives a shit whether she’s a good person. And then you whine about Monkeybranching or gold diggers. If Trump bought me dinner I’d spit in his face. And no his wife is trash no matter how good her plastic surgery is. I’d buy Ronaldo a drink because he is pretty to look at and we can talk soccer. That man doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:28 PM
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“ Women are shallow and selfish, if she doesn’t desire you, she won’t suddenly like you just because you’re nice to her and buy her drinks or dinner.” It would seem to be shallow to like someone simply because they buy you things. Thus women are less shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:21 PM
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Yah it looks 50/50 or so hard to say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:19 PM
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Heh. I don’t know if you downvoted me or if someone else did, but I do value your input
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:17 PM
5

This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:16 PM
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Let me explain that empathy does not require us to fuck LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:14 PM
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Like just WTF? You are seeing things you want to see, not what she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:12 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. I just meant the idea of a strong athletic man out in the wilderness. Not the cigarettes :). Blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:11 PM
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This. I mean smoking isnt sexy, but an active man out there in the wild, riding horseback, all muscular and hard, but not necessarily on display? Yah that gets me more than a Calvin Klein underwear add.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:10 PM
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“ Isnt that what women literally do? Lol most of yall dont approach people in general yall ar eeven mpre accepting to cowardice tis why Men tend to have the lead. Love how yall just forget that you probably never had to actually go out your way.” No. And to say this means you’ve never really paid attention to women, just their boobs and butts. Women have to learn to flirt, learn to be sexy but not trashy, and dress right. And yes, unless you are a top 10% bombshell, what you wear and how you pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:06 PM
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We don’t make our own reality but we sure as hell set the frame. If you think you will fail, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:54 PM
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The guy who came up with them had no education or experience. And men use it to pressure spouses etc into constantly having sex even if they don’t want to. I say this as a very sexual woman. If you distill it to its heart, the love languages is “do things for your SO things they will appreciate.” And that’s not revelatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:51 PM
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“ His dating goals are to secure casual sex from a variety of attractive women.” This is the other thing - if your goal isn’t an actual relationships but a series of ONS, your advice will be different than for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:43 PM
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Love languages are bull anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:40 PM
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You all think women live life on easy mode because (1) all you value is sex and (2) unattractive fat or old women don’t exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:37 PM
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You dress like a slob to an interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:15 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:03 PM
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Right? I wish men found my job super sexy or me working in the garden working up a sweat sexy. They don’t. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:22 PM
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And also, when we spell out - in detail - what we find sexually attractive, we are accused of lying. Some guys here have decided they will never be attractive to women and have decided to wallow in the misery of why they are forever failing rather than moving forward with life. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:20 PM
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Your comment is completely unrelated to what OP posted. She in no way posted that she wanted a man who over powered her, forced her to have sex. That you read dominant =/= rapist is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:10 PM
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Male fashion models appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:06 PM
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“ I hate to tell you this but with this specific mindset you're always going to end up with men who are capable of enjoying rape.” Just what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:21 PM
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Yes! Do not look at most male models - except maybe the Marlboro man - and think that is sexy to women. It isn’t. It is sexy to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:17 PM
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Ignore this dude. He hates women and is into doomerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:13 PM
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Yes. When my man comes in after landscaping when it’s clean sweat (not that old sweat), hot. Or when he comes in after working on the car. Hot. Nice to the weak? Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:09 PM
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He won’t listen to you. You are right but he’s into doomerism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:08 PM
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Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:07 PM
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Disagree with all but the last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:07 PM
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Love how it is now 95% are unattractive when it was 80/20 before. Lol. Stop the hysteria man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:06 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:05 PM
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No, you’re just dense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:02 PM
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Yes height is attractive. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:02 PM
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Oh yeah! A full 1/5 of Elba’s sex appeal is his voice. Funny about Rhys Davies because he does zero for me but maybe I just need to see him in the real world so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:01 PM
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I am telling you as a woman you are 100% wrong. Of course put a fat schlub in a suit it isn’t going to turn him into a sex icon but it will kick him up a few notches. But I doubt you think a big fat girl in yoga pants is suddenly sexy. The reverse in fact. But a trim man in an shirt with his sleeves rolled up to see nice defined forearms? Sexy. Trim man in a nicely tailored suit. Sexy. Literally look at what Justin Timberlake wears in Bringing Sexy Back. One if the guys I used to work with we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:59 PM
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I agree with that 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:50 PM
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I open doors for everyone - men included
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:44 PM
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Because it isn’t true. You all are POSITIVE that women aren’t sexually attracted to their husbands when they first marry but I’ve seen no proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:36 PM
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Why don’t you just say you hate women? Women do self reflection as much if not more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:34 PM
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I doubt a majority of women like to be choked. I sure as fuck don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:23 PM
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Men like it too - look up David Carradine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 PM
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I ❤️ u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:14 PM
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Scott free most times in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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That would be the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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Ah yes, pointing out misogyny just makes you more misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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Have you seen how these guys’ lives often turn out? Not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:10 PM
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You can’t even use the correct term - it’s right, not rite - but you are the smartest person in the room with nothing to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 PM
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“ I operate on cold, hard logic, so no one has ever been able to change my mind on anything, since their arguments are different variations of “bE mOrE eMpAtHeTiC.”” Complete and utter contradiction. You sound like the founder of RIM, who then had his blackberry eaten by the iPhone. Genius level EE. Thought he was the smartest man in the room. Read “Think Again” by Adam Grant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:05 PM
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Because it’s a lie. I still desire my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:01 PM
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That was a chef’s kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:53 PM
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And that advice is good. But he’s also saying to use the girl he is with rather than just dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:49 PM
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Yes marriages are so bad for men that they immediately rush into a new one after the old one ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 PM
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But I’ve been told by dozens of men here that the ugly guy will be loyal and I’m a fool for chasing Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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“ There's a reason why societies have always wanted to control female choice, because when left to their own choices they'll choose antisocial dark triad personality traits.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:38 PM
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Maybe your wife does. You should have chosen better. My husband knows that I consider myself lucky to have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:34 PM
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You all want to pretend it was more natural sixty years ago. But I’d argue it was less - back then men used society wide exclusion of women from financial independence to force their mate choice. That’s the opposite of “natural.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 PM
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“ The reality is that the 6ft standard is a VERY recent thing, and is largely propagated by women to other women.” Bahahaha no. One of the reasons people thought Henry the VIII was delish in his youth was in part that he stood 6/2. People have always preferred tall men - including other men - it’s why CEOs are usually tall. It’s why short men have always had “short man disease”. Twenty and thirty years ago short men were complaining about the six foot line. And very few women absolutely rule out…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:30 PM
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“ It is necessary for women to really love and DESIRE ordinary average men, just as men love and desire ordinary average women.” Men don’t desire average women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:27 PM
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“ The reason why men don't usually like being "husband material" or the "safe choice" is because these men are usually 1. mistreated, 2. cheated on, 3. not able to get sex.” Men in ltr and marriages get far more sex than singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:26 PM
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Yah. Any man who pulled this shit would be out the door for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:22 PM
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“ Women have to pull Jedi mind tricks.” Lol. Suuureeee… this is laughable. First you aren’t a woman. How would you have any idea? Second, plenty of men fantasize about fucking their wives younger sister or the Quiktrip girl down the street to get it hard for their wife. What the fuck do you think porn and fantasizing is about. But I’ll just say it what you did, “women can genuinely enjoy having sex with men who aren’t their ideal.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:16 PM
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Yah and then when you stop they deflate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:11 PM
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They shrink usually afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:10 PM
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Do tell me how you’ve measured this biological “base line.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 PM
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This is great. More people should read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 PM
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This is laughable. I think men should start being sexually attracted to fat girls - after all, they are the majority - oh wait, YOUR attraction is biologically motivated. No man would turn down a Stacy for a one night stand but no one complains that that ruins men into thinking they can get a Stacy for a wife. Yet women you think women get tricked into thinking that just because a guy sleeps with them, they’ll get him as a husband. But I don’t know how to make this clearer - it is hammered into …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:05 PM
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And if you see me as “declining” while you aged too, you never deserved me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 PM
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But it’s men who are more superficial about looks, yet somehow that’s “fine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 PM
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Like do you think that I’m my husband’s first choice? I mean really? If he could have had anyone he ever wanted or that he ever dated, it probably wouldn’t have been me. But we don’t have infinite options or infinite variety. Relationships take both. We both have to want it and each other so you choose it make the other person your one. I don’t know how it works but I can say that I can’t imagine a life without him after so many years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:43 PM
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You say men love idealistically after reading this? “ they are all pretty interchangeable…”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:07 PM
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One is honest and one isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:25 AM
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Sure. And she’ll go find her fun with a guy that tells her she’s beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:24 AM
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Sure. As long she can cheat when you aren’t fulfilling her emotional needs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:23 AM
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“ Clearly. I am superior because I can know myself before dating anyone. That was sarcasm. I believe anyone can do what I do.” You aren’t really joking. You think you are superior. Are you in a successful long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:23 PM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:20 PM
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Right. He’s missing the fact that it isn’t just the woman that got frumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:16 PM
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“ passport bros want families/relationships.” I’ve seen what they post and it is clear many want one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:14 PM
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“ The number of women who love men like Bundy is far greater than the number of men like Bundy. And those women in turn reject men who are not like Bundy, and what do you get when that happens on a scale like the scale we're currently seeing?” No im sorry - without some evidence, I do not believe that more women are attracted to criminals and serial killers than normal dudes or that the number has shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:00 PM
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It’s not beyond us. Women are people - they aren’t fungible like money. A gangbanger or drug dealer doesn’t get a beautiful and loving woman who will be a great partner. He’s getting trash - some heroine skinny woman missing her teeth. She’ll steal from him blind, fuck his friends for money, and vanish one day. What men here are revealing is that they see women as blow up dolls - no more value than their holes. The obsession with criminals reveal something - not about women but men, and none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:56 PM
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Bad food will kill you, fast. Holding out for food that doesn’t is safer. And you won’t die without sex. If you are this desperate, you are asking for terrible relationships and terrible lives. You are in fact the exact same of damage as those women who hang around gangbangers. It also shows how very little you see women. They are just exchangeable holes for sex. They can be crazy, toxic, slash your tires. The absolutely worst to have raise an accidental kid. It’s amazing and speaks so badly of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:52 PM
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Not broke. Not dependent on a man. And god was it freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:20 PM
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Nice word salad. You equated finding a relationship partner to “ say a different answer if you said a man gets paid more than them for the same job..then they’ll understand.. and be upset.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:39 PM
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I actually agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:35 PM
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And some of these bad men could have been redeemed as well. Society way too often sells the very false belief to women that their Magic pussy will save a bad man. I heard my mom say something like that around my girls and I stepped on it. No way. Men and women are a lot more alike than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 PM
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Yah I avoided Christian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:29 PM
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They aren’t such good men if they value sex irrespective of the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:27 PM
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“ Low or high body counts act as loose proxy for other moral values the person…” Thank you for saying this. I’ve been struggling to distill down why n count is relevant but not necessarily important. This nails it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:25 PM
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“ Someone can be not mentally ill, have a strong moral conviction against anti-social behavior and still be atracted to anti-social men.” Crazy women will attract men so long as the woman is hot. It isn’t the crazy it’s the hot. Bad men also will attract decent women if the man is hot. It’s in spite of the badness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:23 PM
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No it’s not. I’m not and never have been attracted to gangbangers or serial killers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:19 PM
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Men belle stop abandoning their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:13 PM
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Lol. Nah broken women like bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:04 PM
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Lmao. If you see dating as comparable to employment, I know what your problem is. If you really want to associate it with a business structure, marriage is a lot more like a partnership or a firm. You don’t become partners with people you don’t like and it doesn’t matter if they’re white green or blue. You all have to have a good business relationship that works well together And not anyone who meets XYZ criteria can fit. People are not fungible and even if one Guy has similar criteria to anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:02 PM
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That’s life and pretty privilege. I never got all these steak dinners and gobs of male attention because most my life I’ve been a basic Becky. But I found a guy who loves me and I love. He’s whip smart. We have a great life and raise two kids. We make enough money. I’d never have had that with some gangbanger and most girls don’t make much dough on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:58 PM
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Uh this is exactly what happens. We get over it, as Lilith explained astutely below
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:51 PM
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Women here understand. That’s why it’s stupid to envy the Gangbanger, because you might get sex but you aren’t getting love. And you sure aren’t building a long term stable relationship in which to have a nice life or a set of well adjusted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:48 PM
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Because you want a stable of hot hoes, not a nice chunky mid gal with glasses and mousy brown hair. If you are envying gang banger Jesus, you want a stable of drugged out chicks who are heroine skinny, no teeth, and suck his dick for her next hit. And sure she’ll have his kid because no one uses protection and that kid will just be one more in a long line of discarded kids (THAT breaks my heart) If you are envying Charles Manson, he was supposed to be charismatic, you want a stable of psycho and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:46 PM
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And society told girls that they should be modest virgin good girls who will treat their boyfriends and husbands well only to be shoved in the corner or ignored as the men go after the hot and slutty crazy girls. Be a good person to be a good person. You might not get a stable of hoes but you are more likely to meet a woman is is also a good person and have a longer established and mutually beneficial relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:32 PM
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Kitsune is the Japanese magical Fox woman spirit right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:27 PM
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This I think is the point in a nutshell. Broken people attract or gravitate to broken people. You really don’t want the kind of woman who would write love letters to bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:25 PM
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My looks will fade. No one is taking my career or my work drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:41 PM
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I don’t know. I bring a shit ton to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:36 PM
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No it means we don’t want kids and neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:36 PM
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Good. Stay away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:34 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:33 PM
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Yah and if a woman stops being nice, catering to her spouse, stops working and lays around the house, and stops sex, she’ll be single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:30 PM
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“ Unfortunately most women are essentially the same due to their social conditioning. There is hardly any real uniqueness in most.” No wonder you have problems dating. You see women as clones in different bodies. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:28 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:23 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:23 PM
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So glad that you have a great fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:22 PM
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I read Dale Carnegie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:18 PM
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Men stick their dick in crazy all the time. They dont like those women for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:10 PM
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Bet me. Everyone man or woman who stays good looking puts work into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:06 PM
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And of course a visit to the dead bedrooms and other relationship subs show that men deeply love their women absent sex. And also that women deeply love their husbands even when they struggle with jobs and providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:05 PM
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Let a woman stop having sex with her partner or sit on her butt and eat bon bons and tell me how much women are loved for being “just themselves.” And I don’t know who Schopenhauer is but he’s full of manure. Women have ALWAYS worked. The women’s lib movement was about letting women get access to the same jobs and work as men. It’s like you all never cracked a book on history before the 1950s. It’s true I spend more money than my husband - because I keep the household RUNNING, the kids dressed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:04 PM
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“ Briffault's law is absolute.” Briffault himself said it was not applicable to humans. https://archive.org/stream/in.ernet.dli.2015.529469/2015.529469.The-Mothers_djvu.txt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:59 PM
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This is why I tell women not to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:46 PM
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If you have a child with someone - married or not - there will be child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:44 PM
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Yup. This. You should see the number of calories an Amish person puts away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:01 PM
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You: “I’m going to make shit up about being arrested to play victim.” Also you: “why are you playing victim by pointing out REAL THINGs that happened to your mom.” That was my mom, asshole. She’s still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:48 PM
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I’m married to a 5/7 guy. Like him just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:31 PM
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“ It's depressing that after all the effort that's all I might be able to get.” Women aren’t products: they are people. You don’t go to the woman store and say “I’m 5/11 with 9% body fat, so I qualify for a 22 year old with 32 28 32 measurements.” With that kind of attitude, don’t be surprised if people are repelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:18 PM
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Much of looks are subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:14 PM
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I mean, she could be sweet and funny and a killer cook etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:11 PM
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I stayed with my boyfriend and even married him when he gained like 75 lbs. He had a significant set of injuries after playing soccer for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:09 PM
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I’m sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:29 PM
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You know men are also fat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:23 PM
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“ None had issues with them until they demanded everyone to do their bidding.” You people have such a victimhood complex. No one is making you date a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:20 PM
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Do you honestly think anyone can make it to adulthood and think fat is okay? Lmao. Days like this, I do think you guys have spent your life locked in a basement. I was a pudgy kid and my weigh has bounced up and down as an adult. Almost every model is skinny. Kids tell you. When you go to the doctor, they tell you every fucking time. The gym teacher tells you. The gajillion dollar health industry tells you - weight watchers, Jenny Craig. The fat watch of celebrities. And god knows if you post an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:17 PM
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IMHO Lilith is right for the wrong reasons. first, as a gal who has always been athletic and active but also fought the battle of the bulge, I promise you, women KNOW being fat is not attractive. Like the reason you have the healthy at any size movement is BECAUSE society tells us from the time we are little fat is unattractive. Men have gotten the message too. second, it isn’t just that Americans are lazy. Our entire system is set up to be really really toxic to us. And any other countries that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:06 PM
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In places like New York City and Boston, it’s doable. We’ve done a terrible job with our infrastructure here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:45 PM
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Your hate of obesity is really blinding you to what people are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM
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No you are entirely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:47 PM
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THANK YOU!!!! This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM
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“ Fat shaming is good because it forces the person out of the fairy tale that everything is good.” Studies show that fat shaming does the opposite. It actually exacerbates weight gain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:46 PM
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Not just Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:45 PM
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You did not read Lilith’s post. She never said being fat was healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:44 PM
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But Americans all got super fat WHILE we were screaming about the obesity epidemic - that tells you shaming or acceptance doesn’t do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:44 PM
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Like why do you care? Who cares if some big girl says “only a real man can accept me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:42 PM
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Lmao. Girl you are so deluded if you think that. They pilloried Michelle Obama when she tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:38 PM
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While I strongly disagree with some of this (egalitarian is all that works for me) I have had some of the same experiences and agree with the concept of noble masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM
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This is a smart explainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:23 PM
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Why do guys try when the odds are low?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:18 PM
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Lmao Now we’ve moved from the fantasy of the police arresting you to the fantasy of some gang bangers texting you. Sure buddy. But let me tell you what you tell us: choose better - stop hitting on some barrio chicks with twenty tattoos just because she’s hot. And I’m fine with you losing your right to have your own bank accounts, your own credit cards, your own loans, car insurance, any professional jobs, any access to the trades, and you can get back to me about how feminism is victim hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:56 PM
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Nothing ventured nothing gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:43 PM
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“ Men risk jail time asking a girl for coffee.” Holy hyperbolic victimhood dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:42 PM
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Look YOU don’t like fat women, fine. Other people aren’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:40 PM
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Lmao. “Mensa loves me”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:11 PM
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Oh wow. You really are NOT self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:09 PM
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“ Many women need to be kept their own world away from their own issues and the issues of the world to engage with sex.” This is laughable. Women are the ones primarily responsible for caring for children. Often with no help. That mandates pragmatic and real world thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:08 PM
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Yes 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:50 PM
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This doesn’t surprise me about you - and I don’t mean this is a negative way - both my daughter and sister are on the spectrum and they are smart and incisive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:49 PM
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Your hypothesis fails real world testing. And Chad is attractive. Gigachad is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:42 PM
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And he is a druggie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:39 PM
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You are entirely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:34 PM
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lol. I’m surrounded by neuro atypicals. They constantly smash each other’s toes. For all your kvetching that neuroatypicals value directness, they don’t. Their feelings are just as hurt by the flat “no.” Using a soft no tells a person that they themselves are still valued and are part of the group. A hard no is an expulsion from the social group - sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:32 PM
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I provided studies. She didn’t respond. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:23 PM
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Yes please be patronizing to the person working in DV advocacy for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:20 PM
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This is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:31 AM
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I’m glad it was long. That was really interesting. It was all for the best. She’s happily married to someone else. I’ve just never asked a guy from HIS view of what is going on there and you seemed like a guy that would give a thoughtful answer. And you did. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:35 AM
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Now apply that nuance to Lilth’s argument. She is NOT saying “ all unpartnered people are terrible and their situation is 100% self-inflicted.” She is saying that there is no guarantee that they WILL treat someone better. There is nuance. Some are just guys who’ve had some bad luck. Some single for reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:31 AM
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Women do enforce toxic masculinity. I know that is a buzz word but you’ve put your finger on a perfect example of it and yes it is enforced by men and women. In other cultures men are much more allowed to express emotion and it is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:26 AM
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That is some fucking scary munchausen crap from your ex wife. And I’m very sorry you have had some seriously toxic women in your life. I’d think something was wrong with my husband if he didn’t cry over the eulogy of his child. Shit my girls are fine and in the other room and I am tearing up. That was wrong - I know it means very little from some random internet stranger - but that was really wrong and they are wrong. No one holds the rights to express grief. I’d cry with my husband. I’d never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:59 PM
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What???? What what what whaaaat? I held my husband as he cried over the death of his father, his best friend., and his cat (he was drunk that time), and one of his dogs. I would NEVER shame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:33 PM
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Honey, is that you? He makes that joke all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:31 PM
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Relationships and human interactions are not fully logical. Or Bezos wouldn’t be marrying a fifty year old woman, right? Be he is nuts about her. The pattern of destroying someone’s self esteem to keep them is tried and true. Had my self esteem already not been bad though, it wouldn’t have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:25 PM
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Let me ask you this? So a good friend of mine dated this guy for several years. I mean she went as far as moving in with him. She wanted to get married. So did he - he said - at some point. Then he had an opportunity to work in Norway and asked her to go. She said, I want to be engaged before I make that commitment. He refused. They broke up. Not even six months later he was engaged to another woman. He didn’t go to Norway. Obv D liked my friend, but he wasn’t - really - in love with her. And wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:21 PM
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My husband ran a back ground check on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:11 PM
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Short term. So man who manipulates fools more women - news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:04 PM
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Woof so sorry this happened
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:59 PM
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This is a really good summary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:58 PM
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Ha, you are fun. I wish more people were like you. And point taken that some guys will treat their lady right. My now husband adores me and he wasn’t the most successful with women - short and a baby face. I also adore my husband so it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:48 PM
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Sometimes some of their situation is self inflicted. You all don’t do nuance do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:45 PM
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Yes. I’ve been told that several times. Right here too - that men with no options will treat you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:44 PM
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Guys, it’s simple. Do you want to be the guy she settles for because she couldn’t get Chad? Why not? Because she’s often not nice to the guy or will cheat? It’s the same dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:43 PM
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No. Just that a guy without options sometimes for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:41 PM
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No one believes me but the Chad I dated after I divorced my ex treated me really well. Sure he wasn’t going to wife me but we had fun, he was honest, he treated me to dinner, and treated me with respect. So much better than my less attractive and very insecure ex who spent an inordinate amount of time trying to convince me I was ugly. I’m happy married to a man who supports me and treats me like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:40 PM
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He has a vested interest… but how does convince her to stay. He can treat her like a queen sure. Or he can prey on an insecure young girl, neg her, sabotage her and tear her down so she doesn’t think she can do better. It often happens when a fat girl starts losing weight. Her SO will try to prevent her from going to the gym, buy her sweets, etc. they will sabotage job prospects, etc. I know because I’ve seen it, I lived through it, and I’ve watched others live through it. And it isn’t gendered …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:38 PM
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No, there are men here that state they will have sex with mid women until something better comes along. It’s part and partial of their argument that women who have sex too early are being used. Some men have made clear that SEXUAL attraction is different than attraction to the woman a person or a long term relationship. They argue that women are deluded to think that a good looking guy would be interested in a relationship just because he has sex with her. They also argue that they find most gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:33 PM
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This isn’t “speculation” - you are just ignorant. Forced medical treatment of women. https://historyhub.history.gov/suffragist/f/discussions/15330/how-many-women-were-committed-involuntarily-to-insane-asylums-by-their-husbands-during-the-early-1900s https://time.com/6074783/psychiatry-history-women-mental-health/ Final edit - Buck v Bell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:23 PM
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Doll, a lot of time the woman does what you did. Step off the career path when they marry a high earner. You are still educated and share goals. I know a ton of lawyers married to lawyers and often one (and not always the lady) will stop working or work part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:08 PM
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Guys are very look focused. But that isn’t the only thing they focus on when they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:06 PM
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Then they can leave, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:04 PM
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This is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:03 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:03 PM
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JD does require its own form of residency as a baby lawyer or, as I did, a clerkship.* But yes it’s a much faster degree - one of the reasons I went to law school instead of medical. *edited to add it isn’t termed a residency and isn’t fully comparable to a medical residency, but I mentor baby lawyers and they need it bad. A baby lawyer practicing full fledged without oversight is a danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:00 PM
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Damn I agree with this red guy Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:58 PM
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“Get the most bitches” is quite the tell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:56 PM
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lol orgies :). Hey different strokes for different folks - I found the lifestyle pretty toxic. I don’t actually think it’s that different to an educated conservative (without a strong slice of religion). My husband is pretty libertarian, IT, and surrounded by libertarian IT dudes (you know the kind - endemic on the west coast). I know a lot of conservative lawyers too. They generally are marrying into similar socio-economic standing. People see the “economic” and miss the socio. In my family, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:56 PM
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Thanks for posting Lilith. I agree. There is this idea that a mid guy will be grateful and treat you like gold because he isn’t often lucky. But no one likes feeling grateful. To the contrary, they can really resent it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:48 PM
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Some men here say they can be sexually attracted to a woman they don’t really like as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:46 PM
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“ Often so liberal, feminist, and concerned for the poor (especially women), yet they never consider this.” Nah, sorry. I’m not required to pass on a man I love so some poor girl can have him. I worked my ass off while they fucked around in school. I stayed at home while they partied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:16 PM
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This is so weird. Woman (and men) can have what ever standards they want but neither is entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:08 PM
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It’s most major metro areas - which is where most people live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:06 PM
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She had the connections into the publishing world that made Amazon in its initial business
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:50 PM
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Do you hear how people talk about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:47 PM
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Sorry you need it spelled out - marry a woman with some earning capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:35 PM
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Not really. I also busted my ass through HS, college, and law school. Why shouldn’t I get someone comparable (and I did). I set my standards in HS too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:32 PM
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Do you have kids? No? Kids are expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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You’re in the UK. I know shit is rough there because of post Brexit and what not, but you have the NIH. You don’t have to worry about what happens if a pregnancy goes bad. I don’t know about universities there but here, they are really expensive. The US is a really bad country to be poor in and I know what that is like - my childhood. I love my husband deeply. It isn’t as mercenary as it sounds. When I met him, he was a college drop out and I a lawyer. He was however already doing well in his ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:17 PM
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Kids cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:47 PM
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This is what happens in a world without public services. We had to pay thousands of dollars out of pocket for our kids’ births. No NIH here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:46 PM
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“ Which is all you really need when combining households will naturally benefit both).” But that IS a benefit not a net neutral. Now I certainly think that men prioritize the economic viability of potential spouses less than women, but it wasn’t always thus. It used to be that women needed skills too as part of a viable economic unit - not just running a household but skills like weaving, lace making, and beer making as an example. Joan of Arc used to brag that she was the best spinner in her to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:43 PM
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Thanks for the spelling correct. ComBatible is a hell of a Freudian finger slip 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:30 PM
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No the odds are against men https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:42 AM
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Men are delusional about their league more than women https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:41 AM
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This is why our fertility rates are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:08 AM
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Just what? I say this as an attorney. Plenty of lawyers become dinks and travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:01 AM
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Thank you for saying it. I’ve been married for a while but that was my impression when I was dating to get married. Men interested in building something together found my degree, my career, and my debt free life very attractive on top of the ass. My now husband and I sussed out our views on spending. Sex and attraction are great for a relationship, but compatible values on spending, career building, and social matters (religion etc) for marriage and kids. (Combatible doesn’t mean identical - I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:58 AM
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Remember many men here will complain about divorce rape and having to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:49 AM
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Men really should have some standards and I feel like many men do. Bezos and Zuck didn’t marry waitresses who are cute. A lot of guys found my intelligence and capability to also bring home the bacon an asset
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:46 AM
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I’m wishing you the best. I had two children and had to stop there because of my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:42 AM
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This is so good. I went through a similar experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:04 AM
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This deserves to be higher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:01 AM
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“ Because it's a choice made from circumstance…” It’s still a knowing choice. I won’t feel that bad for a girl that marries a guy that was already beating her. And I won’t feel bad for some guy who marries a harridan either. There always was a choice to be alone. Actually I will help both them get out. I’m compassionate that way. My bro married an abusive woman despite that knowledge and I still helped him and never would hold it against him. But I won’t infantize him either - he had a choice to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:00 AM
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Ah wow so if he is knowingly choosing a bad woman than we definitely don’t need to feel sorry for him when she screws him over, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:57 AM
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You keep assuming it’s the hot ones who are abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:56 AM
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All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:55 AM
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It’s always this assumption that that good looking one is a Cad, and yet the one Chad I dated treated me fairly and honestly. Better than some of the ugly ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:54 AM
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I was a trained archaeologist and my personal hobby is history. I spend hours reading historical studies and am recently on a medievalist kick. In fact I recently read Dr Janega’s Once and Future Sex. This is how I know most of your “just so” stories about history have little to no facts to back them up. I’m not “projecting” shit. I’m basing my views on years of reading actual scholarly literature on beauty standards, family formation, marriage rites. I admit, most battles I ignore (except Aginc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:51 AM
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But men staring at porn and airbrushed women haven’t raised men’s standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:39 AM
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A lot of women did marry men they weren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:52 PM
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How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:52 PM
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I agree people can be highly manipulative and deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:47 PM
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My money goes in the same pot as my husband’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:21 PM
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My money goes in the same pot as my husband’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:21 PM
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Brava woman with two kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:05 PM
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Haha I have a black lady friend and my fucking god is she ageless, gorgeous, stylish, and amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:03 PM
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I am sorry sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:59 PM
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I have a man friend who told me that once I got through the baby rabies age (mid 30s), I’d be thrilled I didn’t have kids. I had kids. That said, I have friends crashing in on 40, including one who really wanted kids a decade ago, who are glad they didn’t have kids. People think women ache for babies, but a lot don’t. In addition I think it’s hormone driven in part and fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:57 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:55 PM
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I’d tell a man not to date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:48 PM
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Then don’t date a fat 35 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:47 PM
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Because some people (like me) like to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:44 PM
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100%. Nothing but respect. I became very depressed myself and went back to work. I’ve known great house husbands and great house wives, but it isn’t the cake walk people imply. And yes always have a way to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:42 PM
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Nah. As guys here have said, men will fuck women they are meh with. They will absolutely keep them around for convenience. I bought my husband a 100 bottle of scotch for xmas, after we’d be dating for three weeks, but I was absolutely sure he liked me and wanted to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:39 PM
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We are successful. I am at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:18 PM
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No they don’t treat women better. I’ve dated one Chad. He didn’t lie to me. He didn’t make false promises to me. He wasn’t controlling. And he liked me enough to ask me to move in. I said no. My first husband was an insecure shit who controlled me, tried to destroy my already destroyed self-esteem, and would run after a whiff of 😸. He was less attractive all around than Chad. No one likes feeling lesser than their partners. No one - especially men - like to feel like their gf could do better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:16 PM
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To be fair, I agree you are gender neutral in this respect. But in this sub you’ll have men complain vociferously about women dumping them, divorce raping them, etc, and when women say “choose better,” they get irate. Nah they want laws in place and they accuse women of no empathy. But when a woman related her ex running off with some other woman, they tell her “shouldn’t have chosen a guy with options a choose better!” They assume that is a man treats a woman bad, it’s some kind of Giga-Chad. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:08 PM
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Here here, dude. Cheers to you and your lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:59 PM
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They don’t treat women better. You must think we are all 8 plus stacies who only dated Chads. Let me spell it out for you. I dated a Chad. He asked me to move in. He didn’t lie to me - he didn’t need to - he had plenty of women. He was charming and funny and he took me to dinner and did nice boyfriend like things. And NEVER LIED or PROMISED. I dated and then married a deeply insecure guy who wasn’t a Chad. He treated me like shit. He promised monogamy but any woman gave him the time of day, off …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:58 PM
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Men have a choice. That choice may be living a single life but it is STILL a choice. Part of being a grown up is recognizing that. As a mid woman, I realized pretty young that I likely wouldn’t have the man I wanted. I decided to work on my career. It’s life. I also decided I’d rather be alone than be in a relationship with someone who treated me bad. And good people aren’t attracted to desperation. That’s how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:45 PM
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“ “better” because they will be far more grateful and likely to treat a woman better just to be given a chance at all.” Date people who are desperate is terrible advice. No actually they don’t necessarily treat you better. In fact their insecurity can make them try to baby trap you, stalk you, control you. And being a simp or doormat doesn’t make them good prospects for a long term relationships or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:06 PM
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“ These men are hypothetically below her league. The men hypothetically in her league are the men whom don’t give her immediate tingles, but whom she gets to know and gradually starts to like them and have feelings for them…” Ah now we are back to tingles, but immediate tingles. Smh. Look, none of us are given a league card, boyo. We find out by DATING. And our league can change. I rocketed way up my league through my twenties. We find out by dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:54 PM
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“ then to properly fall in love with him.” The stuff you say… wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:49 PM
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“ but I also do think that early sex with men out of her league does ruin a woman’s attraction somewhat for the men actually in her league.” Uh huh? Have you been a woman fucking men out of her league? Have you asked women if having had a hot boyfriend in the past means they can’t be attracted to less hot now? What exactly is the basis of this? Because I see so much bull crap about women getting inflated egos over hot men hitting it and quitting it when every woman I know has been taught from bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:48 PM
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“Some men would argue that women would get tingles for the men actually in their league if they didn’t fool around with men out of their league first.” And I can argue that the moon is made from green cheese, but we need to work on facts, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:44 PM
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“ Men and women are not the same. Men’s attraction to women and women’s attraction to men does not work the same. Men are physically attracted to most women, while women are physically attracted to few men.…” Ah do tell me ALL about my own sex drive. I like it. 😜 and bold of you to assume that tingles that women get is - purely PHYSICAL - it isn’t. When I first laid eyes on my husband, no tingles. Within a hour I was ready to climb all over him. Wit, intelligence, warmth, and the best pair of ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:41 PM
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“ We do it all the time. You dont have huge tits with thr perfect curves.” But you have tingles right? You want to fuck her? So don’t expect a woman to marry a man without tingles. I don’t know if I’m the hottest girl my husband ever dated and I’m smart enough to NEVER ask him to rank me, but there is no question he had tingles and still does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:20 PM
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Dude I went through probably 10 relationships so far and I’ve been married for a total of 23 years. I dated several guys between husband one and husband 2. And my ex, had at least three relationships before meeting me. Then he had at least another four or five before his second wife. Who knows how many after that. It’s easy to date people for three or four months or half a year before deciding they are a poor match. Do that through college and a few years after, well you have that number. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:15 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:09 PM
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Men choose too. You all are fully formed adults. You all have agency. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:07 PM
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And yet it’s men that choose more on looks than women, so shouldn’t that be aimed at men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:04 PM
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I think he’s arguing that you listen to your friends when they give a warning?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:01 PM
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I agree OP. With one caveat - sexual attraction matters. I don’t know how often men do it, but some women will marry the “good guy” on paper that lacks sexual attraction. And then they meet someone with it. Although I f-king DESPISE the book, the bridges of Madison county absolutely explains this phenomenon. I hated the woman adulterer because she should have done the honest thing - never marry a guy she didn’t really love or feel some sexual spark for. And I felt bad for her husband, who was ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:00 PM
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I’d tell all men to avoid a woman like this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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See, not lazy. I doubt this guy is volunteering in his spare time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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Nah. I’ve been a house wife. To do it right, you gotta know how to work. I gardened, redid the house, painted, all the cooking all the cleaning all the kid stuff, doctors appointments, and worked on some stuff for my husband. Busted my ass. No lazy for me. I’m not and no house husband will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:46 PM
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“ Most women who think there are attractive men who are "kind, respectful, and loyal"…” Red pill are the biggest misandrists out there. I know several men who are attractive and those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:41 PM
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Irrelevant - it still means that MEN COVET other people’s wives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:22 PM
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It most certainly isn’t - lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:18 PM
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Like a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:18 PM
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Damn straight - all of this. My brother used to love the hot messy girls. He learned. I still empathized with him when it went bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:15 PM
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Find me a man who decides to commit to someone without “tingles”. No one tells men to date or have a LTR with someone they aren’t attracted to. Why are you all so dismissive of women considering “tingles” as well as other aspects. Especially when the studies show that women don’t prioritize looks as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:12 PM
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This is exactly what happened with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:08 PM
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“ I know a lot of guys like this, I'd say half wear a pretty good mask.” Literally pointing out that the guys in question are lying and deceiving - apparently all their male friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:04 PM
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Like men do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:03 PM
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So you - don’t - want women to choose better. Because marriage to someone entitled is hell. As Practical Control said, it’s “choose me” not “choose better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:01 PM
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So you aren’t a good dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:59 PM
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And boy desperate guys will cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:58 PM
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Is that what you tell me whose wives divorce them? They should have chosen better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:58 PM
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Have you tried dating guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 PM
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People who don’t take the opportunities this country has given them to be educated are not an appropriate choice for me. I’ve been told many times by many men that fat is a character defect. And why assume that a good looking guy is a bad guy.? Should a man marry someone he isn’t attracted to sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:56 PM
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In what world are they required to become a nun rather than date around if they’d like? Because no one says a man has to stop dating girls even if they won’t husband him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:53 PM
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“ this fucking healthcare system that favors women.” Biases against women in healthcare. https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-bias-healthcare https://physicians.dukehealth.org/articles/recognizing-addressing-unintended-gender-bias-patient-care https://www.weforum.org/stories/2024/10/women-health-gap-healthcare-gender/ Really it makes me question the rest of your opinions with that error
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:11 AM
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“ Believe it or not, when the love is real, sex, and all that superficial shit, gets told to go to the back of the bus.” Dead bedrooms Reddit would like a word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:05 AM
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Right? And any women doing that to a man would be trashed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:00 AM
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Men don’t love unconditionally, no matter how many Disney fairytales you naively believe. How many men stick around without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:58 AM
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Like spend some time here and see what men here say. Or visit dead bedrooms Reddit - no nookie and many men are done. Now not all - but don’t pretend that men don’t have conditions just as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:55 AM
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Or when women stop having sex with the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:52 AM
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What’s very funny is how they’ll talk about how competitive men are … until suddenly it comes to women. Sureeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:40 AM
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Yes. I’ve watched it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:01 AM
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It’s called competition, my dude. And it will spur men on too if they think one of their options is being taken. Works on women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:00 AM
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Because you don’t get opportunities with girls. For hot guys who’ve had a lot, one more girl isn’t very tempting - the cost of potentially blowing up a relationship you want is a lot more than the benefit of some sex. And the costs just become steeper if he’s married the woman he decided is the best. But for a guy that never got any? Oh the benefit - the benefit to hit that drunk chick at the bar looks like it way outweighs the costs. Besides it’s not like his gf or wife is going to find out, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 AM
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Tell men that. They’ve missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:33 AM
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But then those thirsty men are easy to snake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:32 AM
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To the contrary…. Men who are desperate for attention - ie unattractive ones - go nuts if a girl gives them the time of day. More likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:28 AM
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Sorry lady that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:28 AM
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That was the best V gift he ever gave me. Never had a man make me dinner. But nah I wouldn’t have married him if he was broke playing video games at 32 (how old when I met him). And he wouldn’t have married me if I’d been broke playing video games. He wanted someone to build a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:52 AM
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Pregnancy is a burden, full stop. And attitudes like yours is why women don’t have kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:56 PM
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What a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:55 PM
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Bahahaha. Snork. Madison Avenue LOVES guys like you. Sure punkin, you aren’t socially conditioned at all. They found you fully grown from under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:45 PM
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The most memorable and best V Day gift my husband gave me was home cooked bourbon chicken. To hell with that “women won’t like it” bs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:44 PM
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Money isn’t the only metric. One of the best presents my husband gave me on V Day was a cooked meal. No man had ever done that since my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:39 PM
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We have women generals. Trump just fired one of the most accomplished ones - head of the Coasties - and kicked her out of her house in three hours. My blood is boiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:38 PM
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It’s called capitalism and marketing. Ever noticed how Christmas crap is out before Thanksgiving when no one wants that? Because marketing. We exchange cards and sometimes - ahum - services
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:36 PM
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So sex isn’t a need or prostitution would be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:55 AM
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Human connection is a need. This is why solitary confinement is bad. But human connection =/= sex. Sex is not a need. Many people go YEARS without sex. My mom as an example was sexually active from about 23 until 45. This means for almost 40 years she has been sex free. I have two female friends that I know with reasonable certainty that neither have been sexually active in over a decade. For men, over at dead bedrooms there are wives who go years without sex because their husbands aren’t intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:29 PM
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This is dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:14 PM
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“ There is a widespread denial that women can enjoy any BDSM acts at all and that she’s simply brainwashed by men and the patriarchy.” No there is a wild spread denial of men to understand that a little hair pulling is different than choking and - above all - consent is needed FIRST
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:08 PM
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But talk to any BDSMN subreddit and there will be throngs of women ready tell you a story about a man who took it too far without consent. See that word?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:06 PM
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CONSENT! Before any BDSM play, there is a long careful discussion about what the parties like, what is and is not on the menu, and yes safe words. That’s never shown in tha porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:04 PM
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These women aren’t lying to you or engaged in some mass gaslighting effort. I like rough sex. I admit it. Don’t f—king it before speaking with me. And don’t you dare push for it. Like why is this hard to understand? Don’t try expert moves just because you saw it on red tube? Speak with your partner ahead of time, don’t assume she likes it? This is why gay men usually have great sex. They communicate because not everyone is down with anal. And don’t push if she doesn’t like it? A lot of those wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:01 PM
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Not shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:06 PM
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“ That I can see happening.” Like many people, you mistake your personal surmises for actual fact. You’ve decided that something MUST be genetically determined because it makes sense to you, not based on any actual study of the literature or prior scientific work. But it’s a house of cards - just a rationalization built on assumption after assumption. We all can build just so stories that appear PLAUSIBLE, but that’s just a hypothesis - you have to actually test that against real world scientifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:25 PM
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Lactose tolerance! Just leaned that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:12 PM
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Men wrote about their preferences, sweet. Medievalists study it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:10 PM
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Imagine treating the commitment to a child in the same ballpark as picking up someone’s 12 dollar drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:55 PM
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Maybe we don’t want to give men what they want. So many men claim that a woman must be submissive and follow his lead in the relationship. I won’t do that. I’m not naturally submissive. I also know I do quite a good job running my life when single, so why would I give up that power to someone else? So I won’t “change” that for any man. And I didn’t have to. I am married to a very intelligent man who works with me collaboratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:52 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:47 PM
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“ Women are repulsed by the absolute majority of men, and would rather share a high value man with other women, than have some average Joe all to themselves” No. Women don’t like being part of a harem. Some might tolerate it from an exceptionally rich man, but in general they expect monogamy out of their boyfriends. This is just you hyper focusing on a very certain kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:42 PM
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That’s a hysterical description - love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:36 PM
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Aw sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:33 PM
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First, if that has been your experience, I’m very sorry. My brother was in a marriage like that and it was abusive. He became the target of all of her anger and rage “because she was abused as a child.” She was abused. But that wasn’t an excuse to literally beat on my brother. I helped him see the light. He’s in a much better marriage now. Second, mI think society - both genders - pressures men to not complain, especially about abuse from their wives/gfs. Since women have traditionally been cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:30 PM
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I’m assertive. And I’m married. Not all men hate assertive women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:47 AM
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“ hat's some basic bell hooks shit - men are raised emotionally mutilated to the point that we don't have words to describe what we feel.” Then you need professional counseling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:39 AM
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“ The hard, icky emotions are part of the package. The anger. The shame. The self-loathing. The failure. The self-destructive urges. The all-consuming anxiety. The confusion bordering on blind panic.” I’ve personally found that few men or women enjoy being the target of negative emotions. I don’t dump that stuff on my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:35 AM
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One of these things is not like another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:28 AM
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Men regularly claim they will sleep with anything. You should tell them to work on that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:19 AM
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LA isn’t normal if that’s what you are basing this on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:16 AM
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You confuse concern that a women is overly reliant on a man - like a SAHM is - with shitting on them. I’ve never heard one woman shit on another for getting drinks or gifts or being a spoiled gf. I was a spoiled gf. I don’t Netflix and chill because I don’t do casual sex. I’m sure there are women like that, but they sound middle school., very immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:55 AM
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“ And they like that cause then they can flex on women like you and brag about how they’re so independent while they point out how you’re depending on your fwb for food.” I don’t pay attention to trash. The only woman I ever stuck a knife in over getting shit from men was my sister because she’s a competitive b and deserved it. Any woman flexing on women over bring independent or not is trash. That girl never grew past middle school. Frankly I liked Dutch because I didn’t want to feel beholden t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:50 AM
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Sure I’ve known men like that. I’ve also know women who won’t commit (raise hand) until she found the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 AM
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My experience did not align with this. You realize in Europe going Dutch is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:43 AM
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But in the Middle Ages men didn’t like big tits. Weird huh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:39 AM
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“ Teachers mostly. In high school it was quite common for teachers to try to explain to us why "we shouldn't judge a book by its covers". And all that mess.” Wow. You think your teachers were giving you DATING advice? Snork. Goddamned, you missed the point big time. “ Parents try to do it too. But I think my parents were too smart to put a lot of effort into something so obviously futile.” Gee why would older more experienced adults with a lifetime of good and bad relationships under their belt …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:35 AM
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You are equating humans to small creatures in cages
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:31 AM
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That is not how the op was using the term strong. He meant strength. You all are ignoring costs too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:30 AM
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Continues to think that multiplayer video games aren’t a form of social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:27 AM
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Nice perfectly irrelevant comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:26 AM
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Ah yes, default to the old “hysterical” insult when confronted with the logical conclusion of your claim that men can’t control their animal nature. Why are you so misandrist? It’s sad to see someone so self loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:24 AM
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5% fat is way lower than normal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:15 AM
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It’s amazing we ever walked off the savannah if you think we are that controlled by biology
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:46 AM
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“ Which means you really can't have them doing any hard labor for at least 3-6 months and then 6-12 months after the baby is born. “ Uh no. You should go visit less developed areas of the world. And I was out weeding and gardening while pregnant, hacking down weeds, until mom yelled at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:45 AM
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“ I used to make a lot of round figurines when I was a kid.” These are paintings of accomplished adult artists of the mistresses of really rich dudes, not child scrawls. Are you for real???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:40 AM
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Yet nobody had to convince us to like pretty fit women. They tried really hard to make us like fat women. Who is they? The only social engineering I’ve heard over fat kids is “don’t pick on them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:39 AM
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But then there are situations where the weaker did reproduce - ie the bonobo males who slip in under the strong ape’s nose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:37 AM
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Except that throughout time we haven’t had the one man-one woman set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:36 AM
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Self gene explains sibling investment in nieces and nephews. My sister has no kids but her investment in my kids enable her genes to continue about as well as mine. Your genes are 1/4 of the mix by the time it’s your grandkids. You need to read the actual literature on this. Biologists and geneticists have done years of research. Why assume you know it better than they do. The selfish gene is very readable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:35 AM
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You need to read the Selfish Gene. Also societies have absolutely existed where men were not so concerned with mate guarding. There were even societies where a woman had two husbands. Here is an example: https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2022/06/17/fathers-day-adoption-biological/ Also note, a pair bound couple isn’t necessarily required to effectively raise the child. Multigenerational do as well. https://www.chicagotribune.com/2024/04/25/opinion-single-mothers-children-multigenerational-h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:29 AM
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Thumbs up on Dawkins, the Selfish Gene. That book blew me away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:22 AM
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No. I haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:56 PM
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“ or have ridiculously high standards for them. there isn't a lot that men themselves can do about this.” You wanna tie yourself to an anchor the rest of your life, you do you sister. I won’t. My standards stay where they are. The rest I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:54 PM
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You’re just proving how weak and pathetic those men are. Is that your intention? Do you want to prove that men are half grown animals, unable to control their urges? If so, I guess we need to strip them of their rights. Obviously, they can’t be counted on to control themselves and can’t be allowed to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:52 PM
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At least I’m not like some of the dweebs here who try to claim they should be worshipped because “men built civilization” - and they can’t even swing a hammer. Total stolen valor. And no, I became a lawyer all by my lonesome. However, you sound like a failson who continues to blame mommy and daddy for why he’s been fired from every job he’s ever had. Women make a choice in high school - they can go the mean girl route and tear other girls down or they can choose to support other women. I elected…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:46 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:35 PM
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That we consider confounding factors that render old data of questionable applicability? If a woman couldn’t take out debt legally in her name, then how can you accurately compare indebtedness now to sixty years ago? Or asked another way, should men be legally blocked from taking out loans because they are in debt now? It will deny them the ability to buy houses, cars, or have a credit card, but they won’t be in debt. This is the same stupidity of saying marriages were better 70 years ago becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:31 PM
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“ If childhood is so great why does it end?” Is this more of that logical male gender thinking? Unless you want to prescribe puberty blockers, childhood is ending. But we made a deliberate choice though many decades to change the laws and allow women equal access to education and employment. That was a sustained effort by many and it must have clearly benefited women - after all, they aren’t clamoring for the laws to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:19 PM
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Is that why companies and to be sued left and right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:16 PM
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What collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:15 PM
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Or alcohol. So much alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:15 PM
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You just destroyed the entire idea of hypergamy by recognizing that a women might marry a partner for reasons other than class status. Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:14 PM
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Ps, you got your post pulled down for insulting a woman because your brain was unable to handle the data driven that educated women divorce less when it went against your preconceived notions. It’s a major logical error and highly emotional way of thinking - read Adam Grant “Think Again.” So, I don’t want to hear one word about the so called logical sex making better political decisions. Men will cut off chunks of their baby son’s penis in the name of an irrational belief in a Bronze Age sky god…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:12 PM
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You say women need to be controlled because of abortion. I guess men need to be controlled because they are so murderous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:07 PM
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You literally are claiming women only get treated as human because men say so, and thus should have the right control their lives. If the shoe fits, boyo, wear it. But just keep in mind, you better be the same could and gender as the ruling class… or they might decide you don’t deserve to have full human rights either. Not like we don’t have examples of that in the last hundred years. Many many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:06 PM
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“ Because men are the only reason you are considered a person.” So you like slavery and think black people should be grateful to white men for considering them a person? And should they be letting white people make the rules for them? The only reason you aren’t a serf is because a few men decided people should be treated equally. Does that mean you need to let the king of England run your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:04 PM
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To back up this lady: But the most current data - 2024 https://www.bls.gov/opub/mlr/2024/article/patterns-of-marriage-and-divorce-from-ages-15-to-55-evidence-from-the-nlsy79.htm Scroll down to table 5. College graduates have high marriage rates and are less likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:00 PM
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He just wants revenge on you for daring to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:48 PM
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“ You're telling me that as women become more educated, meaning more independent and financially responsible, that they also became more obsequious to tethering their life to a man?” Obsequious? No. It allows us the financial freedom to NOT be forced into marriage with a shitty man. We know what we want and build egalitarian marriages with men who are usually competent and high performing. It’s pretty hilarious you want to cite HIGhLY problematic data from 60 years ago to claim women are more mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:47 PM
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See you’d be so much more happy getting an allowance from your husband when he’s in the mood and not slapping you around rather than that 100k job. I tried being a SAHM. I got depressed and ran back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:43 PM
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This statement is false: “ What I took from the OP is that for all their protestations that life is better, by every metric you measure women are getting objectively worse (less happy, more in debt, assaulted more, etc).” Women are better off financially, more educated, LESS assaulted (violence has gone down consistently since the 90s). And as to debt, that’s everyone. Oh yea - and it’s hard to go into debt when you aren’t allowed to have credit cards or car loans or houses in your own name - lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:42 PM
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“ Men justify restriction of women's rights because their rights come at the expense of men's social mobility and women's political views are generally illogical, or can be outright murderous in some cases (abortion).” Oh so WOMEN lose their social mobility because men can’t compete? Is that what you’re saying? So men are less competent than women? And women’s political views are illogical? LMAO. Won’t even touch that horse shit. And women can be murderous? Who murders the most? Men? Ah so we sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:39 PM
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Yes MALE COMPETENCE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:35 PM
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“ Not saying we should go back necessarily but it just seems obvious the feminist narrative of women practically feeling imprisoned in marriage is bullshit. The culture was entirely different. Culture matters.” Nah my parents and grandparents are from those times. Women absolutely felt trapped in bad marriages. Now they can divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:35 PM
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If everything was is great, why did people want to change the laws: “ If women are hypergamous, then they were GENUINELY ATTRACTED TO MORE MEN BACK THEN. No fertility problems in this scenario. Marriages were stronger. Per data women were happier.” Hahahahaha… snoorrkkkkk. Hahaha. they didn’t have reliable birth control. it was legally incredibly difficult to divorce. That’s why divorce ranches and trips to Reno existed. everyone was REPORTEDLY happier 60 years ago.so we must reinstate Jim Crow.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:34 PM
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No they are saying women suffer sexual assault more than men. If you have different numbers let me know. Forced impregnating is a war crime
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:26 PM
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Really? Do you have a cite that civilian men suffer sexual assault and rape at a higher rate than women? I’d like to see that source
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:25 PM
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This is the quote - do you have evidence that more men that women are raped and sexually assaulted? Recognising the ongoing human rights violations during armed conflicts that affect the civilian population, especially women in the form of widespread or systematic rape and sexual violence and the potential for increased gender-based violence both during and after conflicts;
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:23 PM
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It made your gf well off. It looks like you are the one miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:19 PM
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Considering it’s men sending this guy’s gf thousands of dollars, it’s obvious men need to be banned from social media
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:19 PM
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Right? I get so many dog videos!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:18 PM
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Oh well. Go cheer those men on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:17 PM
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Why the fuck am I required to give anyone - man or woman - the time of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:16 PM
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Isn’t that on the men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:15 PM
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Yah, we aren’t men - we support each other. Unless the woman is doing something out and out toxic - and silly dancing isn’t toxic - why would I tear her down. Let her go rock it. If I don’t like it, I move on. Just because men tear each other down doesn’t make those men right. Men should learn something from women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:14 PM
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“ had a girlfriend that made $20-30k/mo just interacting with guys on insta and snap. She would go shopping and 30 guys would buy her the same expensive outfit. It was $30/min to video call her. She would send nudes guys would pay hundreds for. She disliked every single one of them and was actively repulsed by them. Half didn’t even seem bad looking, women think this behavior is pathetic. If she shows no interest in you and you just keep trying, she’s going to see him and most men as beneath her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:12 PM
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Yah, that’s what cheating husband’s always claim, and then he knocked the wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:10 PM
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This should be at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:35 PM
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Dude my husband had an old friend that always was hitting him up for money - always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:28 PM
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I had men ask me for money. I guess men are just grubby takers. Well one guy. OR, hear this, women and men both attempt to leverage their sexual attraction on members of the opposite sex. Women try it on you. Men try it on me. I do think women are more likely to accept the offer to pay - from both men and women - than dudes are. It’s a bit of a hold over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:27 PM
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Do you have evidence that men are raped as much as women are? Systematically?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:21 PM
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You are arguing in bad faith because you are the one deliberately leaving out portions of the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:20 PM
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“ Almost all civilian men in Ukraine had their human rights violated when they were prevented from leaving to safety together with women.” Are we just talking about Ukraine or are we talking about armed conflicts generally? Does recognizing that women face more impacts as part of the civilian population mean that men face NO impacts? Men here point out that men are more likely to face violence from women - does that mean that women face NO violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:18 PM
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Read more closely this statement: “ civilian population, especially women.” The CIVILIAN population. The civilian population is usually primarily women, some men, elderly of both sexes, and children. In the case of armed conflict, the civilian population - think those areas of occupied Ukraine - women face more aggression. Men get murdered. Women get raped and murdered. If you include the military too - so think about American soldiers sent to Afghanistan - that’s a burden that is abnormally car…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:14 PM
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“But for the most part no wealthy, attractive man who wants children will be looking towards a woman who is over thirty.” My life experience has been very different. Granted I met my husband at 28. He was 33. And doing very well financially.i had to keep the professionals off with a stick. It was wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:24 AM
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Actually you are projecting because you assume all men are like you. I know men who love tats, are covered with them, and want girls with them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:18 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:15 AM
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Sounds like you should be a stay at home if working makes you treat those you love like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:14 AM
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lol “ . Women that want to have kids and marriage should therefor be dating for marriage in their 20s rather then "finding themselves" It isn’t either/or.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:10 AM
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“ For the women its just be 20-35 and above average looks.” Like I’d want to marry a man that says - hey you’re a hole, you’ll do. If men really pick their life long partners based on such shitty minimal criteria, I see why you all get left and have shitty marriages. I had to be worth something more beyond “cute” and “right age” for my husband to marry me. He wanted someone good looking, smart, educated, and with a work ethic, because he wanted to build a life. We were joining forces and joining…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:06 AM
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This is such a tiresome take, it really is. Men PREVENT women from serving
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:58 AM
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I don’t know - I’d be shocked if my husband cheated, and I’m pretty cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:02 AM
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Thank you. I swear some men here really have low views of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:59 AM
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So? Or do YOU expect her to be loyal and not cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:58 AM
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That’s a pretty convenient rationalization for the cheater. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:53 AM
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That is why smart people don’t put themselves in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:51 AM
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Ah well, I watch porn. So if a man buys me gems and jewels and really expensive dinners, writes me love letters, and treats me like a Stacy I should definitely cheat on my husband, right? After all, even though he’s been devoted and good to me, he snores and doesn’t write me love letters and I have to wash his undies? After all, that is valuable is that instant gratification and orgasm, right? Not the years of showing up for each other, weathering our fears when one of our kids was hospitalized,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:48 AM
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Best advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:15 AM
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“ usually self absorbed, enigmatic, angent-less, NPC” Just say you don’t like women. Jesus. You don’t even see us as people (“NPC”)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:34 PM
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Smart men who want kids want a smart wife. The most stable marriages are with college educated women. In addition, maternal education and success directly translate to child success. https://www.edcor.com/blog/a-mothers-education-level-impacts-her-children/#:~:text=And%2C%20children%20with%20college%2Deducated,their%20ability%20to%20learn%20early. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5857959/ When I was on the market, many many educated men were very interested in me in part due to my educat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:05 PM
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“ Virtually all men will pick the 23 year old hot secretary over the 33 year old accountant.” Maybe to fuck, but not to marry. Or at least none of the men that were interested in me. Smart men know that for marriage and successful children you need a smart wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:59 PM
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Boy I don’t recommend this for my kids: “ I'm going to suggest you lock it down as early as you can so you have the best chance of getting children, the least amount of baggage, and the highest potential in a partner without having to compete at a more established level.” I recommend waiting until mid 20s. Who you are shakes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:29 PM
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Men don´t care about your career or education Do you propose we lie to women by telling them that by getting a PhD or a C-suite position that they'll get any man they want? Because that would be lying. But that’s not the same as saying men don’t care about your jobs..:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:24 PM
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Or we get with a guy who is fine with a woman who focuses on her career etc. I married one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:23 PM
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Like, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:40 PM
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Yes, you get what you can get. That’s called growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:38 PM
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You say that, but plenty of guys say it doesn’t matter what we do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:35 PM
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And a lot of men hold stupid standards, too. The number of men who don’t care if their wife is smart or able to hold a job, don’t care about their progeny. Intelligent wife = smart kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:32 PM
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I’m a feminist. With a happy husband and two kids. You people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:29 PM
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“studies show that men from lower socioeconomic backgrounds (the other 80%) still struggle to find relationships, let alone healthy ones.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:28 PM
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So what? They are still in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:26 PM
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“Women want commitment.” Apparently not. All I see posting here are unhappy men who don’t have a girlfriend or wife and no one will give them children. So those points fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:23 PM
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I can more than afford to live on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:11 PM
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God what a tough tough upbringing, beautiful. You are a damned miracle. Cheers! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:10 PM
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Right? So hysterical!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:04 PM
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“ Pretty much the entire western world has birth rates below replacement level…” You mean like China? Japan? That “western” world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:03 PM
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They tend to only respect other men’s praise. Me I always like that lean look in men - think mountain climbers - not the big burly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:02 PM
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That isn’t what she’s saying. She’s saying that people should mind their own business. It’s not a woman’s or man’s job to lose weight to be attractive to someone else. People aren’t there for your viewing pleasure. If a woman has no trouble dating when she’s fat, red pills should mind their own business. If SHE’s unhappy with the results, she can go lose weight for herself. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:00 PM
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No, only idiots have a problem with other people being attracted to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:57 PM
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Which doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:16 PM
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Yah, your two male figures were shit stains and you’re blaming your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:15 PM
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That’s really good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:13 PM
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This entire discussion is gendered. “ Yes it works both ways but men are broadly expected more of in relationships than women are.” lol - lmao - rofl. Yah, that’s why men are having trouble attracting women for relationships - because women get SO much from those. I’ve got a great and egalitarian husband. He adds so much to my life, but he damned well expects an equal partner. My first husband expected me to work, do all the house work - and I’m not exaggerating - and all the kid work. He said i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:11 PM
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Terraforming?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:56 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:53 PM
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Big chunks of Africa is below replacement level, but if you want to live in Niger go for it. Much of the Middle East is also at or below replacement level. If Southeast Asia includes China, Japan, S. Korea, Singapore, then yes below replacement level. India is projected to be 1.9. It’s at 2.1 now, just at level. SA, Turkey, and Iran are all less than 2.1. I don’t really think you know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:50 PM
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Ah yes, no matter what it’s the women’s fault! Lmao. There is all that “accountability” men take (none).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:43 PM
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“ Sexual conservatism will encourage marriage and family building over hookups and casual sex. Families give birth to next generation, not casual meetups.” To the contrary, data shows that one of the largest drops in fertility in the US is the drop in teen pregnancy - so in fact, casual sex is exactly how our fertility rises. Red states are quite toxic to marriage - more divorces, more unwed mothers, and more instability - in comparison to the blue states.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:42 PM
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And the Spanish defeated the Aztec (Meztica) empire, a patriarchal society. And unlike the Yanomami, the Aztec are no longer extant. So clearly, it was the germs, guns, and steel, not gender structure. 2. But without men you also dont have airconditioning, starbucks pumpkin spiced lattes, smartphones, microwavable food, indoor plumbing etc. Without women you don’t have computer programming, crispr gene editing, blue tooth, frequency hopping spread spectrum technology, private in-home security, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:38 PM
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“ even titanic Leo has to sacrifice his life for the girl, we all know if the reverse happened we'd all think the ending is shit.” Nah the reverse is so common it’s a trope. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DisposableWoman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:50 AM
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“ Live in chef? How many women these days know how to properly cook meals at home?” Plenty. Especially SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:14 AM
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Only if your only metric is money. Says a lot about you. A friend of mine is a partner at a major law firm. Makes dough. His wife is a social worker. He would NEVER say she married up or that he’s above her. She does so much keeping that marriage and family going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:12 AM
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Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:08 AM
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This is great. Dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:08 AM
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Theres no such thing as relationship equity . For example you can pay a woman's college tuition and give her free room and board. But if she's unhappy somewhere down the line, all the things you did in the past doesn't matter. (So she should forgive you for cheating if you paid for her tuition ten years ago? Would you forgive your wife for cheating after she gave birth to your kids? Why do you think you should be able to buy someone?) You cant be loved strictly for who you are (Tell me how much …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:36 AM
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Weird. She didn’t say that. Plenty of white women voted for Trump tho - So why are you assuming they’d turn him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:32 AM
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Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:31 AM
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No need to go back in history, there are societies today where men are treated as serfs or murdered at the whim of their warlords. Lay back and enjoy it. Men like you always fantasize that you will be on the top when women lose their rights. Instead you’ll be the serf with his head bowed as his lege lord fucks his wife and leaves a bastard in her belly. If you don’t honor my rights, I won’t give a damned when they come for yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:24 AM
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The sons were not chattel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:17 AM
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And get their head put on a pike or enslaved. You should Google what happened to slaves sent ro the Roman mines and Roman galleys. Again, your genes will be wiped from the earth. And if you were a pretty boy, well, maybe you will wish you had been sent to the mines. Nine of you have ever cracked a history book and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:16 AM
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Ah, yes, more of that typical misogyny. If you have an argument, make it. But instead it seems all you have is patronizing women. No wonder guys like you hanker for the 1950s. You can’t win a woman absent the power of the law to force it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:12 AM
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So men think with their dicks instead of their brains. Maybe they shouldn’t be in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:55 AM
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Have you ever asked yourself why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:54 AM
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lol - true enough ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:53 AM
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Lmao that’s some funny shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:52 AM
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Meanwhile they never ask cui bono.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:51 AM
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Much longer than that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:51 AM
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Men can keep it in their pants if it’s such an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:50 AM
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The data on divorce and birth rates is there. (False - high birth rates doesn’t mean a stable society unless you want to live in Niger or Afghanistan. And you can’t claim marriages were more stable simply because it was incredibly difficult to legally divorce. People simply disappeared and abandoned their family) Society was stable in the sense that we didn't need immigration - ironically, people from socially conservative cultures - to maintain population and fill labour/skills shortages. (Lmao…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:49 AM
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“ Nearly every accomplished man in history, the Kings and Emperors, Industrialists, etc, after gaining the wealth and influence and power he wanted, has desired to have children. Especially sons who would bear their name and provide a form of pseudo-immortality. ” And now most men (and women) don’t want to have a gaggle of kids. “ When religion was stronger, men feared the wrath of God, and that kept many men away from vices such as drinking, gambling, lechery, sloth.” Laughing so hard, I’m cryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:38 AM
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Lmao. A population collapse happening everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:35 AM
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“ Men are raised by single-women.” I guess the dads shouldn’t be deadbeats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:33 AM
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You are literally claiming that women are emotional on a post where men are so controlled by their biology that they’ll let society burn if they don’t get a woman and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:30 AM
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When I read this, I’m grateful for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:28 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:13 AM
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You only have rights “ because good men have allowed it.” I’m fine with you becoming enslaved and serfs again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:34 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:32 PM
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Right? Women tilled, gardened, took care of the family animals, cooked, and MADE THE CLOTHES on the man’s back as he tilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:31 PM
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“ Men built civilization. Women gave birth to it.” Wow. Any man who said this shit would be facing the barrel end of my rifle and out the door. You won’t come near my daughters EVER. I cannot IMAGiNE anything more misogynistic and insulting than to say my value as a woman and my daughters’ value is that we give birth to children. My sister, my sister in law, and myself provide more value to the functioning of society than most of the loser men here. My sister is an IT architect that helps archiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:28 PM
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“ And I dont know why youre making things personal…..” I’m just threatening to rape you and your daughters at the end of a bayonet - why are you so upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:09 PM
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Let me tell you what happens boyo - they’ll murder you and every boy of your line. Your genes die out. Meanwhile, the women live on. So better start thinking about how to work with women here, because it will be your head on a pike
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:08 PM
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Right? I have releo daughters. And the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:04 PM
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This is just revenge fantasy. It’s the men struggling to reproduce, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:03 PM
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And 20 years ago, Dems were crowing about demographic destiny, too. How’d that work out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:52 PM
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I can believe that for sure. I’m against both, but it was from listening to a doctor turned radio guy named Dr Dean Edel (sp?) that I grew aware of the issues around circumcision. If my girls have children and one happens to be a boy, I’ll likely be able to talk them out of it. For men, usually all you need to tell them is that it reduces sexual pleasure (it does) and they will reconsider for their sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:54 PM
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God I feel you: “ no. “Wahhh mommy had a boyfriend and that’s why I’m lazy and have no ambition and use people and smoke pot all day and had a bajillion kids I can’t afford!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:35 PM
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My husband and I discussed circumcision. It was ME who said I wouldn’t agree if we had a boy. I was more up on it than he was. A lot of guys don’t see it the way you (and I) do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:19 PM
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My bro has had three marriages, at least one engagement. And has never gone more than three months without a girlfriend since at least 11th grade. Only one of those - wife 2 - was an honestly bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:17 PM
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My parents - ie dad too - also treated me as a failure for not having a boyfriend either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:15 PM
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My brother is one of the reasons I have a good view of men. My dad was an utter asshole. But my brother never struggled with women. He’s six feet, always physically active, very intelligent, socially liberal, but very good at “traditional” male skills like auto work, shooting, motorcycles, and construction. He is what made me realize how self-sabatoging PEOPLE can be. Just as women will get drawn in to the dysfunctional bad boy man, my bro would get drawn to broken winged women. So I tend to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:14 PM
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Damn that’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:07 PM
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“ The most successful thing women read is romance and the majority of those have powerful men.” And powerful strong competent handsome men are sexy. They could be sheriffs or steel mill workers or military men. Not necessarily money. Just look at the personas used to trick women in romance fraud schemes - oil rig workers are particularly popular. You think fat flabby women are sexy? Do you think the McDonald’s worker girl who is mid (that is always the kicker) is sexy? No. Same for all those ero…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:36 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child… do not ask me why but the first time I saw Harrison Ford in Indiana Jones as like an eleven year old, damn. I must have watched that movie on HBO a million times that summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:29 PM
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You do. And you admit it. But plenty of men who post here will claim they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:15 PM
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We aren’t saying the same things tho - I’ve always had a fair number of male friends. That isn’t the problem - and you men don’t like it because you think they are rivals, not just friends. It’s a good thing that my hub has never had an issue with my male friends (and I’ve never had an issue with his female ones). The problem is when the girl has NO female friends. I’ve always had female friends, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:15 PM
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Mmm. I like smart. I know that smart can come in all sorts. I knew a brilliant self taught master electrician. I’d have a hard time with illiteracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:28 AM
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“ Difference is men don't deny shitty men exist but a lot of women act like a sizable amount of women don't behave in ways that RP points out. If anything, I don't think RP sets out to demonise women but rather dispel the myth that they're inherently more moral than men.” Show me a woman that doesn’t acknowledge that women can be shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:25 AM
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She’s a gay woman. She’s dated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:23 AM
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Right? Watch out for women who don’t have ONE female friend. That’s a warning sign. I’ve had to cut a few crazies out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:22 AM
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DEI protects veterans - predominately men. DEI protects POC, often men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:20 AM
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Nah, man. red pill is right about one thing - stop looking at words and start looking at actions. The red side say they are all for men. But they sure don’t act it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:18 AM
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And you believe him? LMAO. PT Barnum loved people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:16 AM
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It’s common enough that it shows up as a trope in writing, usually as a negative. The hen pecked husband. Shows up in Princess and the Frog, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:47 PM
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You are the one arguing that women must be stripped of their rights and forced into marriages. For the good of society. Slaver arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:49 PM
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Yup. You are making the SAME argument as a slave owner. Bravo. Black people must be enslaved for the good of society! So we’ve decided you don’t deserve your rights. And we have the guns. So I guess you have no rights! https://www.ushistory.org/us/27f.asp?srsltid=AfmBOophETS2Ox8mlLLF8088jlD04_s8rCNHYAZKx88Rxz6LYtalmiCR#google_vignette
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:48 PM
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lmao. Sure sure sure they do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:45 PM
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Do you understand that raising children is MORE than just popping them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:44 PM
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Lmao. “Love and marry reasonably.” You don’t understand one goddamned thing about love - it has NOTHING to do with reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:40 PM
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“ When a man wants something and that lizard brain says to take it, he's expected to be better than his instincts. Why. Aren't. Women?” I’m sorry, what? My lizard brain says “steal that diamond.” I don’t get to do it. You realize that? I also can’t rape a man either. Like you are insane. In this country, we cannot commit assault and battery. Men and women EQUALLY cannot act on their lizard brain. I don’t get to rape a man, even if I really want to peg him. I don’t get to steal a baby, even if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:36 PM
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That’s right. And we’ve decided for society’s benefit you should be enslaved. I bet you’re proud to be taking a page from the slaveholder’s playbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:23 PM
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Ah so for the good of society, I’ve decided you must be enslaved. Yup. Get out there and start picking cotton. I’ll just beat you, rape your wife, and sell your kids. And when you’re old and broken, I’ll kill you. For the good of society: “ defenders of slavery argued that the sudden end to the slave economy would have had a profound and killing economic impact in the South where reliance on slave labor was the foundation of their economy. The cotton economy would collapse. The tobacco crop woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:21 PM
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The same rights that protect women protect men. How do I spell this out. We all have civil rights. The same rights that protect me as a woman from rape are the same rights that protect you as a man from assault and battery. Men “agreeing” to not exercise their full strength “might = right” protects OTHER MEN and themselves. Otherwise, get to the back of the bus buddy, we’ve decided enslaved men and serfs benefit society. And I’ll point out, you all come for my rights and my daughter’s rights? We…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:12 PM
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Let me know how qualified Hegseth and RFK are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:34 PM
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God this is so right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:29 PM
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Not my argument and the post above you says NOTHING about a house
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:24 PM
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I worked adjacent to the prison system. This is pure bullshit: “ Prisoners on death row for murder get unimaginable amount of 🐈 from literal 10s.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:23 PM
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And men want hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:20 PM
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And? It doesn’t get me shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:16 PM
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Yah, because you’ve never cracked a history book. In the land of might makes right, weaker men don’t get within a sniff of a pussy or a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:16 PM
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“ Do you not find it odd though that the paradigm of society allows for women to take full advantage of their natural advantages but not men?” This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:14 PM
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Because women are held to the same standard - why is this so hard for YOU to grasp. Women can’t rape men. Women can’t rape children. Women are free to be single, date who’d they like. Men can’t rape women. Men can’t rape children’s. Men are FREE to be single and date who’d they like. The end. Our rights are the same. You are a hypocrite, as your reaction has shown. You think women must give up their rights to date whine they like or not so men don’t those rights. But as soon as YOU are asked to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:08 PM
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Women being picky is great for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:03 PM
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It’s not anecdotal: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.12874 https://ofboysandmen.substack.com/p/men-without-children You can’t blame the drop in birth rates on women when BOTH men and women don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:02 PM
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How does being hotter benefit a woman alone in a house. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:57 PM
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Lmao. Exhibit A as to why we have a birth rate crisis By the way, Finnish men are incredibly involved fathers. And they want less kids the more involved they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:57 PM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.12874 The problem is that you have placed the entire obligation on women, when in fact many men don’t want kids. The bottleneck isn’t just women. Maybe men should give it up to sacrifice their earning potential and body for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:55 PM
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Lmao. You think every son of Ghengis Khan lived at the top of the food chain? Nah, buddy. The princes in the tower were murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:35 PM
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And men “allowed” you to have rights, too, boyo. In the Middle Ages you’d been a serf tied to the land. No voting rights, no right to leave. Or enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:29 PM
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No. Rape is using the threat of violence to force some one to have sex with you without your consent. That would be equivalent to a woman holding a gun on you and taking your wallet. You guys really need a crash course on consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:27 PM
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So it’s fine for a priest to use his natural physical advantage to sexually assault the alter boy? You be fine with that for your son? You be fine with a much bigger man shoving his dick in your mouth and squirting down your throat until you throw up? After all might makes right? Just wanna see if you aren’t a hypocrite after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:24 PM
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Men don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:17 PM
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Men can fully exercise their rights to date whom they want - just like women. No woman can force a man to date her. No man can force a woman to date her. This is the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:13 PM
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Why don’t you tell Chad to stop using their natural advantages to score hot girls. It’s not fairs Why don’t you tell the smart kids to stop using their natural advantage to get better jobs? Those employers should hire the less smart ones! Why don’t you tell the gifted athletes to stop going for the best teams. Give that mid guy a chance! How dumb You all need to learn that the same civil rights that protect us also protects you. You also are vulnerable to a bigger stronger man. Wrong color? Gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:11 PM
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Well if we go back to the dawn of time, the biggest guy will come in, rape your wife and daughter, put your head on a pike and turn your son into an enslaved eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:00 PM
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“ It looks like it used to, pairing up because that's what is good for society, relative chastity because infidelity is bad for society. Undesirable women get with Undesirable men etc.” No, that was good FOR MEN. It wasn’t good for WOMEN. Which is why child abuse and domestic abuse was far higher. “Look at the birth rate which is below replacement, this is bad for society. It's bad for everyone, but women are not expected to make any sacrifice of their natural advantages for society the way Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:58 PM
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Everyone is expected to use their natural advantages morally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:51 PM
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Yes, men aren’t paying my rent like they will for Stacy. You better start paying buddy, even though I’m a basic Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:50 PM
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Oh well. I’m harmed when rich men won’t fly me to Bali. Open up your fucking wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:49 PM
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Good, get ready for all the little low power men to be bumped back to serfdom and slavery - you know since it’s only “convenient” to women (and not to men) when might doesn’t make right. Guys who think like this think they are all going to be the knights and feudal lords, but 80 will just be the landless serfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:47 PM
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Walz appealed to men in Minnesota and to republicans when he was elected to the house in a Republican majority district.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:44 PM
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Did someone say it was a “deliberate attack against men?” Or are they saying it disproportionately really hurts men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:40 PM
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“ I think it's great he froze funding for all those things, as I don't believe that the federal government should be funding any of them.” So you think it’s great he is violating the law and usurping the powers of Congress? You just want a king?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:38 PM
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“ DEI hiring practices were all bigger reasons.” And yet Trump replaced Austin with Hegseth. Lmao. All I see is DEI for rich white men in Trump’s administration. Rubio is the only one with any kind of cred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:37 PM
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Yes - and don’t men want to be attractive to women? Or do they want to be attractive to men? I swear you’ve put your finger on why men complain that they can’t attract women? They seem dead set on appealing to men. Walz represented a very real version of masculinity, one that used to be lauded. And a man who did a lot - A LOT - in the real world to help other men succeed in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:33 PM
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I agree that societies treat poor young adult men as disposable. You see it in the school to prison pipeline. I disagree that had Hitler only killed men, he still wouldn’t have been considered the greatest murderer. People don’t think about all the women and children. They think about the sheer number. I remember as a small kid seeing a clip of video from one of the death camps. It was a bulldozer pushing a massive number of bodies - so many bodies - into a mass grave. You couldn’t tell whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:28 PM
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If they aren’t advocating for change on those issues and are voting for someone who makes those issues worse, then yes, it’s just to attack women. I actually advocate for and vote for breaking up the school to prison pipeline, which disproportionately hurts poor male kids. I also advocate for improved healthcare in prisons (I saw in my old job how bad it was) and more public healthcare at least for the poor. Again men would significantly benefit from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:20 PM
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Nah man. Kids are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:04 PM
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Lmao. Go read some more news sources - it is BLATANTLY illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:46 PM
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So now you get the point of his post. Maybe wake some people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:45 PM
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And how does offering vets, majority men, access to those tools and an emergency line when they need it, bad. So basically, you don’t give a fuck if another man walks off the cliff edge because you didn’t. Meanwhile, I have my daughter still because she did have a number to call.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:44 PM
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It’s like it’s all feelings over facts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:42 PM
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Funny isn’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:41 PM
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Do tell me how dem politicians control Reddit? You have them confused with republicans who sold the government to Elon musk to pump right wing shit all over Twitter and suffocate the left. Do you even know who you are talking to on the web?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:39 PM
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Give me a fucking break. Walz was specifically selected as a pro male VP. Football, military, coach, hunter, great father. And a young Tim Walz would have made me hot. My husband is ex military, a crack shot, a coach, and just fucking competent. As you’ve already noted, the Dems were supporting stuff that heavily benefits poor men and the military. But you are blaming Dem politicians for the actions of some stupid 20 year old lefties on the web being mean to you. Never try to claim that men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:37 PM
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“ Even if they exist, far enough women have it as a very strong preference that it's a serious problem.” No it isn’t a serious problem. Any more than men’s attractions to 20 somethings is a “serious problem”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:27 PM
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I mean, no woman had to teach me what a man likes in a woman. I just had to see what girls got all the interest in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:18 PM
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Oooo that wiry look. Yah that’s a good look. Think mountain climbers - small guys usually, not massive muscles, but pound for pound strong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:08 PM
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Women have absolutely clocked it, including the person you are responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:07 PM
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Men are MORE shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:05 PM
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Most successful man I knew with the ladies is my Tio - 5/5 ft master electrician and cubano. Fucker was slaying with women in their midtwenties in his 50s. Well in the 100s despite a ten or fifteen year marriage. Married three times, all to little skinny pixie like brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:05 PM
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Hey now. Not all us GenX white ladies are named Jennifer. Some of us are Jenn’s and Jennie’s. And I never liked Friends much. Gimme X files ;).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:02 PM
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How terrible to be told that your wife wants to fuck you all the time and only has eyes for you. I wonder how many women would love to hear that their husband would turn down a model to fuck her one more time. God I would. But I’m not stupid or a child. I know I’m not as good looking as a model. My husband picking me over a model means he loves ME and all of ME from my pregnancy stretch lines to the bit of gray in my hair. Jesus, cat-nip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:57 PM
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Nah she’s right. There is a spark. I have a preference for long and lanky men. I’ll never forget the first time I met my now husband - and thought - not my type. Within an hour of us shooting the shit, I was NUTS about him. NUTS. I was in bed with him more quickly than any other man I’ve dated. We just… I don’t know… clicked. That spark. We’ve been married 18 years. Together 20 plus. NOT a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:53 PM
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“Hoe.” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:48 PM
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We don’t wonder. Many men have hated women for years. It’s why men were too cowardly to let women into the same universities and careers to compete for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:47 PM
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My husband is 5/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:46 PM
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And yet a man above insisted that a small-breasted woman shouldn’t care if a guy likes big titties because he’ll fuck the small tittied girl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:45 PM
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Oh yah. You and I have very close tastes. I love Ford a la Indiana Jones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:43 PM
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I am with you 100%. Never found DeCaprio attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:41 PM
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“ Mine is like… academic types or moody, artsy guys. Lol.” That’s not a bad guy tho. I’m married to a moody dude. He’s a good guy tho - honest, give you the shirt off his back, absolutely trustworthy and loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:35 PM
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SOME do. But men always claim ALL or most women do. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:33 PM
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Because MEN. How many subs are are there by WOMEN fetishizing tall men? Meanwhile - male sex idols for women? Short: Tom cruise, Daniel Craig (5/10), al Pacino, Dustin Hoffman, mark Wahlberg, Tom holland, Bruce fucking LEE, Kit Harrington, Jet Li….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:29 PM
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Raises hand. Never turned down a short guy. First husband was 6/2. Second is 5/7. Guess which man is the very best guy and actually far more traditionally masculine? Yah my short king.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:16 PM
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“Because it's not equal. If a man likes a fat ass or large breasts, he will still gladly have sex and be in a relationship with a woman who doesn't have those features…” Sounds like you are just settling for those women 💅. Obviously she should never partner with a man that doesn’t have complete and actual desire for her and treats her like a Stacy. Any man who fucks big tittied women and then settles for a flat chested girl is just using that woman after riding the pussy carousel. He’s all ran t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:14 PM
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Really? And those alter boys who thought Father Frank was a safe adult? Did they make bad decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:39 AM
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So we should paint men with broad brush as complete risks and never give a guy a chance, or our “friend” will take out his hate of women on us if something goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:35 AM
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And you made sure she’ll never want to tell another man about a bad situation … because nothing feels better after suffering something scary to have someone tell you that you did it all wrong. We all love having our nose rubbed in shit. Especially when it was the guy being the transgressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:33 AM
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“ The point is, we all know that people downplay how risky choices women make contribute to their victimization.” To the contrary, every female victim of sexual assault gets to have every decision she made put under scrutiny to see if she’s at fault. Again, where do you think the question “what were you wearing” comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:26 AM
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Sure I’ll just avoid all men. You think dangerous men have a tattoo on their head? Lol lmao, ask those alter boys if they thought Father James wad dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:24 AM
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That’s right. Men want to use the threat of violence to keep women locked up and affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:23 AM
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As men have just proven here, women can’t count on having a man solve their issues, even when they are a naive 17 u year old being preyed on by a 50 year old. It is still her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:22 AM
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And all this proves is how right I was - I don’t give a fuck if it hurts any man’s fee fees if I won’t meet him on a cheap date to walk alone in a park. Fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:20 AM
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Hey jerk, my mom dropped me off and thank god showed up to save my ass later when I escaped. But not all of us ended up with great parents. But when you find out that the kid really wasn’t yours and you can’t get your fucking money back, I’ll be sure to tell you it’s all your fault. Should have picked better. Should’ve worn a condom. Oh the fuck well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:18 AM
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“Third I would ask why did you decide to drink at an older man's house while you were underage and alone with a man older than you. I'm going forward I hope any teenage girl in the same situation would know to bring an adult, don't drink the alcohol, and/or practice in public.” Lmao and there you go. Thanks for proving my point. He was my BOSS. He employed me at his little pewter store for several months. He hadn’t hit on me. He was almost as sold as my dad! He had a woman manager at the store. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:14 AM
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When we take care - ie cover our drinks, only meet men in public during the day in a very public space, refuse to meet them alone, bring a wing girl - we are told we are mean, paranoid, anxious, misandrist, because not all men are like that. And then when something does go wrong, our male “buddies” like you will go and examine every step we took and point out what we did wrong. Oh he roofied you? Why didn’t you keep your eye on your drink the whole time? Oh you should have kept your hand on it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:01 AM
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