SoInsightful Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
64	Positive thinking does not work—positive action does.		SoInsightful	/r/seduction	01/07/12 08:44 PM
5	A surprisingly inspirational article on charisma.		SoInsightful	/r/seduction	30/06/12 06:03 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Meta note. Concerning advice like "don't put the pussy on a pedestal" and "don't get oneitis, have abundance mentality." Both of your links talk about actively doing, which I strongly advocate, as opposed to simply imagining. Here's another link in favor of positive action, instead of positive thinking: http://www.theguardian.com/science/2012/jun/30/self-help-positive-thinking	/r/seduction	23/03/14 11:53 PM
7	Meta note. Concerning advice like "don't put the pussy on a pedestal" and "don't get oneitis, have abundance mentality." It's not a hack premise, it's psychology 101. If it's psychology 101, I assume you have at least one source to back up your idea that simply imagining or verbalizing a sentiment makes you believe it. Here's a counter-source: http://pss.sagepub.com/content/20/7/860	/r/seduction	23/03/14 08:04 PM
1	The Sex God Method choice is an observable fact How exactly do you observe a thought?	/r/seduction	23/02/14 09:54 AM
1	The Sex God Method You clearly have no idea what the problem of free will actually is about. A determinist would very easily argue that it was an predetermined consequence with respect to your growling stomach, the supply in your fridge and pantry, and the amount of effort you felt like putting in.	/r/seduction	22/02/14 11:31 AM
2	The art of seduction has made me hungry, and I want more and more. How are you supposed to find a gf when there are so many gorgeous women to play with yet to meet? The goal if pickup is to dare yourself to get with the hottest women of all and keep her. What a delightfully interesting criterion.	/r/seduction	17/07/13 01:08 PM
20	[FR] Women want what other women want. All in all, it was a great night! and yeah I slept with Kate I guess	/r/seduction	27/03/13 04:09 PM
2	Short jokes for text game... Does Dolly Parton sleep on her back?	/r/seduction	24/10/12 01:20 AM
6	Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll start you won't get one-itice Is that the British spelling?	/r/seduction	11/10/12 12:00 AM
8	There is a lack of Outer Game content in this subreddit. Read this guide on "Awareness Radius" - it is very important for Club Game. Problem is that you don't gain confidence by reading about confidence.	/r/seduction	07/10/12 05:24 PM
4	Where can I find A LOT of PUA video content? I learn best from watching, not reading. Can everyone stop acting like there's a dichotomy between the two? Videos and theory is what you take in between the times you go out. Berating the "I'll rather sit at home and read /r/seduction this Friday"-strawman is fun and all, but some of us want some inspiration and ideas for when we do go out.	/r/seduction	27/09/12 10:18 PM
2	Getting better at storytelling? If not I think we should start a weekly practice thread where everyone practices trying to make something mundane from their day in to an interesting story. "Mundane monday" maybe. Please make this a subreddit. I want a daily dose of this until the structure is completely ingrained in my mind.	/r/seduction	27/09/12 12:27 PM
4	What are your go to jokes? There's so much room for good delivery in the last line. You: Oh, so you're one of the... 10 percent... alright... look away in disgust But yes, it's a great one.	/r/seduction	24/09/12 12:41 PM
4	Seddit, we need to talk There's no denying inner game helps a lot ...or does it?	/r/seduction	18/09/12 07:02 PM
3	Seddit, we need to talk Amen. Inner game is a result, not a technique.	/r/seduction	18/09/12 06:56 PM
6	How the hell do u keep a conversation going?! You can never run out of things to say. However, you can run out of things that you think are "cool" to say. Learn to explore tangentially related topics, and to listen for openings to new topics.	/r/seduction	02/09/12 04:34 PM
1	What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community? This is an unusually persistent one. It's more common outside of the community, but within the community, you'll usually hear "just be yourself; oh, by the way, I've redefined 'be yourself' to mean something completely different".	/r/seduction	24/08/12 05:30 PM
1	What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community? That's hilarious!	/r/seduction	24/08/12 05:28 PM
4	What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community? "When you get advanced at this, you might want to try NLP techniques."	/r/seduction	23/08/12 11:46 PM
2	The Ladder Theory If you find this to be good material, you should probably leave the website and read some sidebar material instead.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 05:08 PM
2	The Ladder Theory Do stop. You'll become dumber by reading it.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 05:05 PM
3	I was in bed with a girl, making out, about to have sex for the first time, and I fucking jizzed in my pants. Seddit, please help me. Fuck. (NSFW?) I don't know what you're situation is and what your motivation was to start NoFap, but remember you're probably more likely to actually end up with a girl when you stick to NoFap. Placebo is a wondrous drug.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 04:40 PM
2	I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past? Indeed! Here it is. Some valid points though.	/r/seduction	14/08/12 12:47 PM
6	I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past? If the internet has taught me anything, I suspect that the source is a blog who wants you to subscribe to their e-mail newsletter, with no studies in sight. Edit: I was right.	/r/seduction	14/08/12 12:41 PM
7	Read List for Beginners v2 Well, that's not surprising. Reviews of empirical research on NLP indicate that NLP contains numerous factual errors, and has failed to produce reliable results for the claims for effectiveness made by NLP’s originators and proponents. According to Devilly, NLP is no longer as prevalent as it was in the 1970s and 1980s. Criticisms go beyond the lack of empirical evidence for effectiveness; critics say that NLP exhibits pseudoscientific characteristics, title, concepts and terminology. NLP is use…	/r/seduction	17/07/12 05:05 PM
13	Seddit has a problem and so do you. To be fair, you sound like everyone else who has read The Game once and drawn conclusions about the entire community.	/r/seduction	23/06/12 12:22 PM
1	Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?" Unless the lady happens to be a feminist who posts in r/ShitRedditSays.	/r/seduction	19/06/12 03:21 PM
2	Best ways to socialize at a party. You will do yourself a great favor by becoming socially apt, yes. But it appears that you've read things in my comment that aren't there. Even if you're simply someone who prefers solitary activities over time spent with large groups of people, you clearly want to improve some aspect of the social life if you're subscribed to r/seduction, and an "I'm an introvert, and will always be one, so this will be harder for me" mentality is clearly counter-productive.	/r/seduction	04/06/12 03:52 PM
0	Best ways to socialize at a party. Classifying yourself as an introvert will do more harm than good, because it gives you a rationalization for not approaching or conversing. And claiming that it's impossible to permanently get rid of introversion is a very dangerous limiting belief. You know, even the most outgoing extrovert enjoys some alone time.	/r/seduction	04/06/12 12:44 PM
1	Best ways to socialize at a party. God damn you're smooth. Very inspiring.	/r/seduction	04/06/12 12:28 PM
3	Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA. What outfit tips would you give to someone looking to maximize his chances in a party or a club?	/r/seduction	30/05/12 06:31 PM
1	What's a classy, cool way to handle rejection? While I doubt that the first paragraph of just throwing out PUA terms will help much, the second and third should definitely be taken to heart.	/r/seduction	18/05/12 04:12 PM
1	Why "Be Yourself" is the Best Advice You write in an inspirational way—kudos. I agree in a certain way. A person can have acting as a major part of the identity, even if she doesn't act herself. But in the same way, an introvert can have social skills as something that dictates her daily life, but without yet having reached a level where she's comfortable in social situations. That's where the idea of being your best self would come in. Being able to talk to anyone isn't more of an inherent trait for someone who cares about social …	/r/seduction	17/05/12 05:35 PM
1	Why "Be Yourself" is the Best Advice The message is great, so I won't be too much of a Debbie Downer, but it all seems kind of farfetched. If anyone reading this took the concept to heart, great! Skip this post. Claiming that you are whoever you want to be seem dishonest. By those standards, the world's most introvert guy is a social king and a casanova; the world's fattest guy has a dream hollywood body; and I am actually a famous musician and president of the world, just that my ego is stopping me. By telling someone to be the pe…	/r/seduction	17/05/12 10:12 AM
1	The best advice I've ever read on how to stay, "alpha." To be honest, this feels like the pseudoscience of the self-help world. The advice is too vague and brief to actually be applicable, and will probably not alter your life much more than Facebook quotes.	/r/seduction	14/05/12 09:58 AM
4	Posture/jawline - does this technique for looking better in photos also apply in social interaction? (from r/photography) It doesn't work for anything other than a static 2D image, no.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:01 PM
5	Oh? Tea?	/r/seduction	31/03/12 11:18 AM
1	I Have Awful K-Close Anxiety, Halp A simple one that I loved from Keys to the VIP: [Her name], look at me. I'm going to kiss you. commence lip deavoring Though, if you've kino escalated well, kissing should be a natural next step.	/r/seduction	15/03/12 11:28 PM
9	Eye contact is incredibly important. If I'm walking past a group of guys who look like they're about to go jump someone- same shit, look em in the eyes (even smile, even talk to em if you want) and they'll be less likely to do anything to you. They were expecting you to look away and try to ignore em- since you didn't, they get thrown off by it. Couldn't this backfire?	/r/seduction	11/03/12 12:59 PM
1	TIL the men rate women in red dresses as more interested in sex Furthermore, another study showed that men (n = 3,474) were ~50% more likely to pick up female hitchhikers who wore red, and that no other color showed any significant results. Red is the winning color it seems.	/r/seduction	01/03/12 04:21 PM
8	Over heard a guy say this today while he was on the phone. It was brilliant. Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How.	/r/seduction	23/02/12 07:57 PM
1	Is the Internet a good place to practice lines? And methods? I'm sure it could be acceptable for practicing fun conversation and text-style game; not so much specific lines and methods.	/r/seduction	06/02/12 11:40 AM
9	"Never let shyness conquer your mind" I think you accidentally an adjective.	/r/seduction	15/01/12 10:44 PM
1	So I just got banned from r/ShitRedditSays for having the nerve to say we shouldn't generalize all of r/seduction has emotional insecure men who have rapey tendencies Yes, that's what makes the subreddit so weird. The moderators and regulars are in on it, while the newcomers naively agree with the hivemind. But yes, the genuine feminazis will naturally subscribe.	/r/seduction	10/01/12 03:03 AM
1	So I just got banned from r/ShitRedditSays for having the nerve to say we shouldn't generalize all of r/seduction has emotional insecure men who have rapey tendencies Since no one has said it yet: r/ShitRedditSays is a satirical subreddit similar to r/circlejerk. It's basically an in-joke between the moderators.	/r/seduction	09/01/12 11:06 PM
12	Hey boys! Help an awkward girl out? Seduction tips don't apply nearly as well for women, so blindly following male-tailored guides could be a bad idea.	/r/seduction	09/12/11 03:31 PM
1	How to fix a bad first impression. I thought this was the essential PUA move.	/r/seduction	08/12/11 02:54 AM
6	Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post) This thread yielded surprisingly good answers. But then again, ladies who hang here will likely be able to have more introspection than "I like nice guys." My question: have you felt attraction toward a not-especially-good-looking guy? How come?	/r/seduction	05/12/11 12:48 AM
10	The No-Fap rule. Really? Placebo is king.	/r/seduction	16/11/11 01:37 PM
1	Some of my routines. Enjoy. I wish there were more threads like this. Great stuff.	/r/seduction	04/11/11 12:25 PM
7	Common shit tests and how to defuse them I don't remember who said it, but I'll paraphrase: "I have a boyfriend." "Congratulations! I'm happy to hear that you've found someone to spend the rest of your life with!" It should make her realize the imperfections of her current relationship.	/r/seduction	03/10/11 05:52 PM