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That’s a shame - hope you find it, it’s freeing in a way that increases your connectivity to others, not diminishes. Anyways, have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:10 AM
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You have the bandwidth now, I think it’s important to learn to love yourself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:03 AM
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Congrats, I felt bad for you when you described your loneliness. I hope you two will be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:50 AM
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You could try West Asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:49 AM
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Okay well - idk about hiring private investigators, but if it works for you and you’re at least good to her, then congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:46 AM
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You’re asking for a collectivist society - none of them will do what you want perfectly, that requires a degree of omnipresence that humans don’t have, but harshly punishing people for moving outside of their agreed upon rules - most Asian cultures do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:44 AM
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If you have a partner and you respect the right to leave or not, why don’t you talk to these other men about what you did differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:33 AM
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The type of society you want is available - have you considered moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:32 AM
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Why do you need a robot then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:29 AM
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We don’t live in that kind of society. We tend to look down very harshly on those kinds of societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:27 AM
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Single or unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:16 AM
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I’m a woman and usually my position in these is to sit in wonderment about what exactly the OP is proposing. But reading your post and just how lonely you feel, I’m really sorry man. You don’t deserve that. I can’t say what you do deserve from others, but you don’t deserve to feel this lonely. I wish I had an answer, I don’t. Just felt to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:12 AM
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Don’t let the just world fallacy ruin your life. The sooner you accept that shitty people get a lot of rewards the better it’ll be. Then you have to decide “I am I going to be shitty, or is it worth it for me to be good and kind just because?” Don’t waste decades being angry that your kindness isn’t paying off. Just go be an asshole for a while, and figure out if it serves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:06 AM
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It’s not acceptable, but I don’t understand what you would like to do about it. It’s not a playground where teachers and lunch monitors make sure that anyone sitting on the buddy bench be assigned a buddy. That’s the part that isn’t making sense. Who do you want to enforce these rules? Further, knowing what you know, would you want to be with someone who was “assigned” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:02 AM
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Why do you care if women are less happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:59 AM
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Which is…?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:56 AM
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I think that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:28 PM
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It’s all wrong if the underlying reason is anger. If it’s a sense of freedom from something that tortures you, then do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:09 PM
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So you’ve theories about me? What are they. Let’s see how well you “know” women. Double points if you do it without searching my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:50 PM
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Says the man who spends all day wondering what women want. You asked the question, if you knew, then you’d know. Sorry you don’t like the answer, but that’s the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:41 PM
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Women are highly attuned to that being a curated image versus an innate presence. So no it’s not unattractive, we just know when it’s natural state of being versus when someone is trying to project the image.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:33 PM
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It’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:47 PM
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Sure - maybe those people have a better gift tho. If romance is easy, there isn’t a lot of motivation to learn to love yourself and for men, I find conventionally attractive men kind of boring. They all do the same thing. They’ve no reason to develop a personality or hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:50 PM
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Yeah you have basic chances and then you can do things to increase or decrease them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:50 PM
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So we all recognize privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:48 PM
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Actually, I don’t think “be yourself” is advice for getting dates, or girls, it’s advice for reducing one’s own anger about the situation because they can live authentically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:47 PM
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Sometimes it requires hyperbole to drive the point home. The point is you can only try, you cannot ensure results.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:45 PM
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But they can. Fairness is accepting that some people (most people) don’t make a billion dollars. Too many people become attached to the fruits of their labor, when labor was all anyone is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:42 PM
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At 22
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:22 AM
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I used to be intimidated by people, I felt bad about myself a lot. People are too pretty to be my friend, too smart, too rich, too funny, too athletic, and it would interrupt my ability to reach out and connect authentically, I don’t know why but I just decided one day that if people don’t like me that’s okay, and started just speaking to them like they were interesting but not crazy special, and I discovered that sometimes I intimidated them for whatever reason. That we all see the best in othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:35 PM
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Why don’t you start it OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:15 AM
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No - the premise of this includes lowering your standards. You can attract gjem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:41 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:40 AM
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You are perfect the way you are, as long as you don’t want something from someone else. If a woman is saying she’s struggling in dating, she would get the same advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:17 AM
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Giving up is different from acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:15 AM
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Once isn’t all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:47 PM
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I’ve only seen men say they’re autistic - I haven’t seen women say men are autistic. When the question is asked, how do you want women to respond? Like, yes, some men are not aware. The “why?” is yours to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:55 PM
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Desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:34 AM
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Penis size is like breast size or ass size - preferred but not usually a deal breaker, a messed up few ruin it for the rest of their gender by being very vocal and over emphasizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:37 PM
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Yes - and I don’t make my life about avoiding them. I accept that they exist and I’ll have to deal with it when I come to realize I’m around one. Try living life without trying to control outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:10 PM
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I can’t explain this to you - nor do I want to. But if 50% of women in any given room are tricking men into raising someone else’s kid you’re literally making an argument for why men should never be in charge of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:22 PM
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You do not understand statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:31 PM
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Which room? How many people are in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:05 PM
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Yeah - what’s the point of living with someone you’re afraid of when they haven’t done anything? I would say the same thing to the go bag lady, and I’ve worked in domestic violence services.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:04 PM
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I don’t even understand your question, the only person between us who has talked about never allowing someone to leave a relationship is you. I think anyone should be able to walk away at any time from a romantic partnership. You don’t have to trust anyone, just leave them alone tho. Stop putting yourself in a position that makes you feel so insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:44 AM
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Yeah, if people turn out to not be who they presented themselves to be, you can let them go. Thats not in conflict with anything I said. The problem is that control seems to be very high on your priority list. Let people show you who they are, and then believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:33 AM
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No I wouldn’t - I’m able to discern the quality of the person I’m with to a degree that I am comfortable. I have no desire to control outcomes. You’ve gotta let the person you’re with be who they are and if it comes to pass that they bypassed my bullshit detector that’s on them. As a human, we are pack animals, we are programmed to trust and connect, people who circumvent that have strayed from their own humanity. That’s their problem. Loving someone is not about making sure that they’re perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:29 AM
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Okay, get rid of no fault divorces. 💅🏼 Most of them are initiated by women, guess who gets to get their story on the record first? This can’t be a healthy obsession. Trying to make sure you come out on top in a relationship or marriage is the easiest way to think yourself out of one. You’re creating a self fulfilling prophecy. If it comes to pass, you will figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:24 AM
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lol is the gold in the room with us right now? Like why would a woman bamboozle not the father, you can just go bamboozle the actual father. Most people aren’t dating both homeless men and millionaires - they tend to stick to their bracket. If you’re a millionaire raising someone else’s child, that other person is likely pretty wealthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:20 AM
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No fault divorces benefit both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:18 AM
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Are all your females tricking you into taking care of someone else’s child and wanting no fault divorces in the room with us right now? Is it a super big problem in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:12 AM
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I think most people who are abandoned by a parent are going to seek to replace that relationship somehow, but also without mindful attention act out their feelings of anger, hurt, abandon on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:19 PM
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I just read an article on The Atlantic about the narcissism of angry young men. The combination of crippling self hatred and intense entitlement is lethal. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/01/lost-boys-violent-narcissism-angry-young-men/672886/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:15 AM
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Why would you dislike man hating subs and the response to that is that there should be more woman hate? That sounds like very immature Justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:00 AM
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Probably best not to go there unless you actually want to learn, or you want to troll. No point seeking out things that hurt your feelings unnecessarily. By your own admission this is a Reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:36 PM
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Omg - I’ve never said this to anyone on the internet but the men in this sub really need to go outside and touch some grass. Isn’t it exhausting ruminating on things beyond your control? Like just…be normal and it’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:34 PM
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Find the girls who want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:00 AM
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Only a minority of women get “approached” dafuq?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:59 PM
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Yes - they didn’t meet on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:56 PM
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I don’t know how good women last on these apps. I don’t think you understand how much muck women have to wade through. I had a few friends on these apps, they were inundated with dirty messages, most men wanted to hook up, most of them gave up. The ones that got married, met organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:53 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:21 AM
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Yeah - that’s also an interesting point. I would imagine that long term girl friends also nag their bfs for doctors. So why is marriage the deciding factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:54 PM
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Okay but what accounts for women’s shorter life spans if married? Are men discouraging them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:54 PM
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Happy ones aren’t online complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:52 PM
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I understand this sentiment. It either comes from acceptance and submission to the inevitability of life, or emotional numbing that feels better than the stress which might be relieving for some time, but ultimately will double back hard. It’s up to you to decide which one this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:46 PM
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Men and women are both subjected to the “ick” - men are mad because they think if they wine and dine you and pay for it, you should push past a feeling of disgust. Disgust isn’t like a red flag, disgust literally makes you feel like crawling out of your skin. Trust me brah, you don’t want to end up with someone who feels this way about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:54 PM
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I think that there is a look men are looking for before the approach. I have many beautiful friends but consistently some of them get approached bad it’s because they’re “looking” to be seen. They look they want to be approached. Head down, avoiding eye contact, looking away quickly, they’ll assume you don’t want to be. Holding that eye contact for a breath longer than is “polite”, open face, open body language, smiling - all do these things signal to PEOPLE you are okay with chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:53 PM
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My friend - what part of your brain dedicated to reality testing observes that women are loved unconditionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:17 AM
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I’m just so confused about what the offense was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:13 AM
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Oh you’re average?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:24 AM
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In this case what complicity do women have? Not being attracted to someone who thinks being slightly above average means they should fall to their knees ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:05 AM
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Maybe that’s a hiring bias. We all know that it partially is. Women can do the work, they’ve stepped up and enough people know what to do to get things back online. Truth is that without both genders this world will implode. Will humanity survive a day, week, month, year without the other gender? Yes. Maybe a women’s only world will be no tech and all peace. And a men’s only world will have all the tech and no peace. I would rather live in the former. All the stuff that’s been threatened to go a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:36 PM
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They all accept men in the US. Most of these agencies are government funded, and when you write your government grant you cannot discriminate. It’s just mostly used by women, which is why the focus is on women’s issues, but they all work with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:18 PM
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My parents were factory workers, and sounded like it was pretty evenly split, they talked about many male and female coworkers. But I do not have the statistics off hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:02 PM
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People think that rape crisis and dv agencies don’t work with men, but we do, a lot. More on the rape crisis side than on the dv side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:53 PM
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We are all living in bubbles. Your algorithm is picking up on both your loneliness and contempt for women unfortunately. This content never showed up on my social media scrolling. If ever there was an algorithm to diagnose one’s mental health condition it’s TikTok- then it profits off it. I don’t say this as an accusation, at the most acute moments of my OCD (and I don’t mean I like things clean, I mean I was scared to drink water because I thought I was going to kill my family) if anyone had bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:35 PM
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What’s your dangerous job and what percentage of your wages are being garnished for alimony and child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:10 PM
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Do men sleep with promiscuous women? Yes. Do they feel arrraxted to them emotionally, such that they want to settle down with them? On this sub they say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:19 AM
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It’s fun as long as he is very wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:34 AM
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I feel like at this point on the internet we all know there are exceptions to rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:35 PM
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Women don’t cheat because the sex is bad, they cheat because the intimacy is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:25 PM
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If you’re an attentive lover you’ll eventually become your partners best lover and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:50 AM
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Yessss…that’s clearly the case from what I read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:35 AM
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No - that’s the problem. If someone lets you violate their boundary and move forward it’s because they’ve determined you’re dangerous and it’s best to placate you. You can push because you can’t know - but when they are not interested and you keep going forward your behavior is now creepy. You’re being a creep, because you’ve creeped that person out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:18 AM
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Pushing because you can’t know before you do, but violating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:17 PM
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No that means that men can value a relationship over looks eventually, but not initially, the way women can and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:36 AM
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Yes, but only in long term relationships, I’ve never seen an attractive man with an unattractive woman newly dating, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:26 AM
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I think you make a great point that women usually date men who are equally matched to her or much less better looking. Men do not date “down”. And we can all pretend that we don’t know what this means, we all know what this means. So then at least in society we can see that women objectively value looks as much or less than men, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:19 AM
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Right - except there is plausible deniability. Not paying child support - there is no alternate legal argument. That’s where this line of thinking fails, it gets hyper focused on equality, when the arguments are not equal. It’s not illegal to consume, it’s illegal to possess. Possess in your blood stream, it’s illegal to be high while doing certain things (driving, taking care of kids, etc.,)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:59 AM
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The one aspect you can’t really control for is if someone can’t accept aging in their partner. Unfortunately, no one knows if they’re this type of person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:12 AM
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I always wonder when people advocate for going back to the days of the old - would you be able to? And by that I mean, can you unring this bell? Knowing what you know about your attractiveness to women, if suddenly a law was passed where women again couldn’t vote, hold property, have a credit card, bank account or divorce easily, and then you were picked, could you be satisfied in the knowledge that without all those measures you wouldn’t have been picked for just being you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:03 PM
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More men, not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:20 PM
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They do, you’re in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:09 PM
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You understand that you can date anyone you want, what you cannot do is insult them for not being attractive to you. Just don’t date fat people, but also don’t be angry at them for existing and not being thin for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:10 PM
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They enjoy it if they have access to it. The problem you’re having is you don’t have access to the second two, only the first, and it’s frustrating to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:07 PM
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He does not have to go to work. If he goes, he has to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:01 PM
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This argument always misses the fundamental root of the right to abortion. It’s not to get out of having a child, it’s autonomy over one’s body. For men that ends once the ejaculate. Men have a very small window to change their mind, women have a larger window. Men have very small physical risk in their role in procreation, women carry a larger risk. There are biological trade offs. Once the child is born, the mother cannot also abandon her financial obligations to the child. It’s unfair, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:35 AM
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I’m that case they’re better off as having the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:36 AM
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Okay but first a women’s pill that doesn’t make you wish you were dead! That’s how these pills work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:09 PM
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Tell me you don’t know anything about pregnancy or the female body without telling me. 3 weeks! 😂😂😂 Okay done buddy, you get to opt out if you find out before 3 weeks. 👍 You can not support your one child, we will just have your tax dollars support all the children without fathers who couldn’t figure out how a condom works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:07 PM
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Do women want to marry 10s in looks? There is something surreal and almost unattractive about them. It’s like I can see that you’re literally perfect and yet I feel zero arousal. There is something sexy about being human. I just think men don’t know how to articulate this because they get stuck in power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:35 AM
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I always hear about the divine feminine in terms of taking care of the Devine masculine with apparently house work, sex and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:06 PM
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Lol this is the only argument for why Andrew Tate actually has something special we should pay attention to that I buy. The man has rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:35 PM
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As a SAHM it’s not that it’s not work, I think what this person is saying is that it’s work he might enjoy. What he’s missing is the emotional brink you’re pushed to at every step and the constant hypervigilance you have to have when kids young. That’s exhausting. I love being at home cooking, cleaning, organizing, running the kids around, exercising, making schedules, but I couldn’t enjoy it until my youngest started school full time. It’s been pleasurable, not very hard because these tasks ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:13 AM
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It’s okay, I would rather be called of jealous by some stranger online that I’ll never meet again than not check in on my friend and leave her in an uncomfortable or dangerous situation, especially if she’s inebriated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:50 AM
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Yeah - I feel like these are just calls to unionize men against women in order to put us in our place. Not everyone is suffering the same frens .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:34 PM
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Someone once asked me why I loved my husband and I came up with a list of attributes, but that’s not why I love him. It’s a knowing. That no matter what, no accomplishment is worth it unless he’s there with me and no hardship worth getting up and over coming unless I have us to look forward to. That’s all it is, you just know you love someone and then it doesn’t matter what they offer you. I am lucky to be in a relationship where we both feel a responsibility to improve each others lives - perha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:30 PM
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Idk why, but I’m pretty sure a man wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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