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Find out if she has roommates. If she does, she probably wont want to be slut shamed, so invite her to your place.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:14 AM
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Karen Straughan talks about this in a video segment titled I'm a sexy woman, stop objectifying me Particularly telling is once women start to age and lose SMV, how they miss the forwardness and "crude"compliments they once took for granted.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:00 AM
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You're not actually holding her hand in any kind of intimate way. You take her hand or beckon for it and then immediately start playing a fun/childish game. When you're done the games, you let it go.
/r/seduction27/05/15 04:46 AM
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I can see where you're coming from, but its never been awkward once. Sometimes instead of going into thumb wars, I'll high five and do some awkward but funny movement then tell her we need to make up our own handshake. Now you've been touching hands for 20-30 seconds and maybe it won't feel as awkward now.
/r/seduction26/05/15 03:30 PM
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A few things that get her used to you touching her: Consciously touch her feet or legs with your own and playfully ask her if she's playing footsies with you. I also like sitting next to my date so that our legs always brush against each others'. Go on YouTube and look for a few videos that teach you what the lines on her palm mean. Now you're a palm reader which is interesting and funny in itself, but now an excuse for extended hand-holding. Go for a high-five based off something she said then …
/r/seduction26/05/15 01:06 AM
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Completely agree. Even if you feel confident and playful, over text and without really knowing each other, girls might misinterpret this as creepy. I like the pre-date banter to be more surreal "Be sure to send me a selfie with what you're going to wear so we can match outfits exactly" or "I'm wearing my leopard-print snuggie with my best visor, should we coordinate?" Then when you first see her after the hug, look her up and down and say something to the tune of "you had to do it huh? Had to on…
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:32 PM
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If you’re not in the most optimal mood, and you can’t even think of what to text back… then just don’t text back. She will survive a half day without a reply. This is so key. Whether we care to admit if or not, we have a chance to be a much wittier, funnier person over text than in person. We shouldn't be texting much as is, but when we do, keep her guessing, keep her laughing, and keep her hooked.
/r/seduction11/04/15 01:14 AM
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Failed humblebrag
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:00 AM
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On the sidebar, there's the 'Seddit Lairs.' I reckon if you wanted to be really proactive, you could make your own. For a big city like London, shouldn't be too hard to find a few mates to sarge around with.
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:32 AM
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Totally irrelevant to the thread, but *too. From using online dating, you wouldn't believe how many girls write in their 'you should message me if' sections "if you know the difference between: your and you're; to and too; their and they're; etc." It's important.
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:07 PM
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I would throw it right back at them in the same kind of light-hearted manner. In a passive aggressive way, they might be trying to establish dominance over you, so give them push back that says you recognize their behavior and can play the exact same game. Preempt them too, don't do it as a reaction to them. Either do it before they do, or make sure there's a decent time interval before doing it back. Also, when they do it, treat them like you would a child who's being annoying. Shush them, drow…
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:37 PM
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This reads just like the movie Before Sunrise.
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:14 PM
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Go for the wits. Wits don't sag.
/r/seduction27/03/14 06:17 AM
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This is stupid. This is fishing in the Atlantic for a particular kind of fish when you should get your ass to the Colorado river to catch some Rainbow Trout. If you want to attain power, and it seems how you define power is connections to a job, that's called networking. There are specific functions, mediums, and opportunities for them, but why on earth would you make that the primary focus of dating or however you're defining "seduction"? That's not to say these things can't happen while dating…
/r/seduction09/10/13 02:52 AM
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