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@transitionhey u/transitionnormal1387 fuck you. I'm in therapy and guess what my female therapist doesn't contest me on these ideas
/r/seduction03/10/25 04:51 AM
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This is really it. I've had women around me because of the first three, and what nobody really makes clear is that #4 is on the guy. If OPs friend has the propensity to make physical moves on these girls, he will bag them. And since he bagged one and dated her for 5 years, that pre-selection is enough to make the new chicks want to see what's up with him
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:30 AM
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You know what? You bitches don't like dudes that "pedestalize" you because you like men that look down on you. You know how many chicks I've heard say they like a man that puts them in their place? wtf does that mean? What's a woman's place? Last I checked only a person higher than someone else can put that other person in their place. Teachers/students, boss/employee, parent/child, etc. I guess that includes man/woman now
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:25 AM
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TO FAULT SOMEOME FOR TRYING TO IMPRESS SOMEBODY THEY LIKE IS FUCKING INSANE
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:18 AM
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ITS CALLED FUCKING COURTING. FUCKING HATE YOU HOES
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:16 AM
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My therapist can't help me at all with social shit she just keeps saying to do things out of interest but I'm really not interested in anything, I am an open book, I am moldable, but I just go to bars and chill by myself for a bit then I'm out. I don't think I'm super attractive and I'm getting older and at 37 I'm the old dude in these bars now, not sure where to go from here
/r/seduction08/03/25 02:56 PM
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Who is? The dude that doesn't have experience approaching women? Crazy that you say it's no big deal
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:48 AM
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The real problem is everybody likes talking mad vague when it comes to this topic. "Attractiveness" generally to guys means looks and/or status. But it's literally just behavior. It's all about reading body language and making physical moves.
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:56 PM
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Literally talking about this on another post on this same subreddit. How are you "offering" them dates and/or sex? Through words? That's why you're getting friend zoned. Apparently women think it's low confidence to go the verbal route. You have to make physical moves on them during the high points, let's say, while you're out with them one night. Starting with breaking the touch barrier here and there, getting more intimate each time, culminating with you going in for the kiss. Sounds ridiculou…
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:53 PM
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You shouldn't have consoled her and let her stay after that. You should've been like ok well looks like you gotta go home and figure some stuff out
/r/seduction09/11/20 07:22 PM
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Yes you're right. You are at a disadvantage already, and yes you would be better off hitting it off in a bar or a dance floor. I don't even think dating is a viable thing anymore as a man unless it's someone you're already hooking up with.
/r/seduction09/11/20 07:19 PM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. It's cuz people always leave out the part about how you're supposed to actually act when you're alone with a woman, thinking that it's like something that everybody knows already. All this self development stuff is the stuff everyone knows already, it's the verbal game and physical escalation stuff that people don't know about.
/r/seduction08/11/20 10:59 PM
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I agree but also I think it doesn't go far enough. This "all the rest will come" is a wack point to leave it off at. What do you do after you've done all that and now girls are hanging out with you? A lot of guys will sit there with a girl and talk to em all friendly and neutral and never drop any innuendo or playful teasing type conversation, and they will never escalate physically, thinking that the girl will all of a sudden take the lead in these situations. These conversations need to stop l…
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:34 PM
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she has an explanation for the title and it's in an email exchange with GayLubeOil: http://imgur.com/Q3AW55M
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:21 AM
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guys you have to bring up the "don't play dumb with your smartphone" posters that are on the subways here in nyc. then say "don't tell me not to have my phone out, tell people not to steal"
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:16 AM
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come on son, of course she is cheating. it's not as if she wanted to take a break, and then was living her life and happened to meet this other dude and then started to build something with him whether it be a LTR or a casual thing. She met this dude WHILE she was still dating her man, met another guy that gave her tingles and was like "damn i have a bf tho....oh wait i will just tell him we need to take a break so I can bang this other guy real quick"
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:14 AM
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and of course sign the prenup if you're going the marriage route
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:44 AM
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even at the end of her post she says that he could've kept the relationship alive by being forthcoming. and again referencing that he said he wanted her in his future. honestly she seems like a loyal down ass bitch (you never with these hos though what will happen once u drop some shit on em like u are a oil field heir) and i think that dude could've easily just broken it down to her and told her what was up but then followed it up with explaining that he's about his money and keeping it so that…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:43 AM
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yeah but she's not changing her tune. look at the title of her post, she's asking people to explain dude's actions. and quite frankly i'm a little bit confused as well. UNLESS dude is a hardcore rp guy and she was just a plate but like his main squeeze and he was just acting weird but in his head he was like "bitch is getting too nosy about the dough" and so he just cut her off. this is especially dope if it's what happened cuz dude played it so well that it ended up being her action on the part…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:34 AM
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i'm reading all these comments and i understand why some ppl think red pillers are misogynists. i'm sorry but the chick ain't do nothing wrong here. everybody is getting at her for saying she is not a gold digger because she went out with him for 10 months thinking he was broke, and they are pointing out that her ultimate decision makes her a gold digger. no. she's absolutely right she's not a gold digger because gold diggers don't go out with dudes thinking they are broke. period. not for 10 mo…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:55 AM
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dude could've easily just broke it down to her that he wasn't planning on her being in his future, but he said that it did include her. and then he still was thinking she was gonna stick around if he kept giving off the impression that he was broke? that seems like some BP beta shit to me like "oh let's see if she really loves me for me"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:11 AM
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idk the only thing that bugs me is she had a discussion with him about the future and dude said it included her but never gave details. this chick sounds like she had RP mentality when it came to this. let's be honest here you can't have a marriage or a grown mature relationship based on love alone, and she had the love part down cuz she was goin out with dude for dumb long thinking he was broke. but when it came down to it she was like ok but what about real shit? like how are we going to raise…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:48 AM
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Damnit! My first time really looking through r/TRPgame, r/TheRedPill, and r/Seduction and this is the one thread I was hoping to see a bunch of responses to, I have the same problem! But I talked to my shrink about it and she told me about "in vivo desensitization". Basically the only way to overcome fear is to keep on approaching and desensitizing yourself to that situation. I am trying to work on it too. http://rohan7things.wordpress.com/2012/11/25/conquering-your-fear-of-rejection-99-steps-to…
/r/seduction22/10/14 10:15 PM
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