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SoWS98/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:49 PM
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SoWS98/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:53 PM
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It's not about being "alpha". How am I treating her like trash? I believe we're at that plate stage where it begins to get shaky. We all know "open communication" and "spending more time into her" to circumvent this would just fuck me over/slap me into orbit with the beta orbiter she already has, no?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:55 AM
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I do see myself in the far future settling down and starting a family. This girl has nearly all of the qualities I'd want in a long term LTR: Old school/conservative when it comes to relationships Low n count/virgin Cute voice, banging body No social media/fishing for attention (other than a beta orbiter or two) But at this point in my life, I'm only 19. If she was a few years younger, it'd be near perfect - the daddy issues red flag could be worked around, age can't. I'm just too unsure of bein…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:43 AM
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What would you have said instead? Just curious
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:20 AM
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She's 22, was waiting until marriage. Apparently never did anything apart from holding hands with another guy. I get that shes shy and nervous about this stuff, but I think I've done way to much to establish rapport building up to the first time she had sex and holding proper frame since. Just lately things have been a bit shaky. She's been calling me out jokingly saying shit like "I'm gonna make you work for me like the way you do to me" Think she's looking to lock down the LTR
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:18 AM
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Then how would you respond to shit like "I'm feeling nervous" "I'm shy"? Ignore, say nothing and let the body language do the talking?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:24 AM
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The issue is that I notice her wanting to spend more and more time (commitment) doing things apart from sex as well. Which is not fine (she's not a LTR). I'm trying to create a frame where she actively earns my commitment and I treat her with my time afterwards. Is this way of thinking of sex and commitment as merely exchanges wrong? I would imagine "earning the sex" by committing first puts me in HER frame, which is ridiculous as there are 2 other plates who don't do this shit.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:21 AM
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PS: this was my attempt at putting her back in my frame (ie I decide when to dick you down). If I'm getting this frame thing wrong, correct me. This is my first time dealing with a girl who's gets really shy really fast. It was a short conversation when she came over, and when she asked why, I simply said "Don't worry, I'm not mad, just disappointed" in an assuring manner and let her leave.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:09 AM
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She was likely a catfish. "Video call or gtfo"
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:40 AM
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