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Escalation & CalibrationSo_Forlorn/r/seduction02/06/20 02:41 AM
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6

I'm surprised this is from Texas lol
/r/PussyPass23/12/20 12:32 AM
2

Yes, indeed. He prefers Chex but he has been known to get the Kraving from time to time.
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:42 PM
10

Someone's a serial rapist
/r/seduction30/08/20 11:39 AM
6

Yup
/r/seduction30/08/20 11:39 AM
1

I think she's just a game player
/r/seduction25/08/20 11:23 AM
1

"Really? How long have you had that problem for?"
/r/seduction24/08/20 08:39 PM
24

I replied "Could we meet earlier?" That is where ya fucked up. When she canceled, you should have let it be. Acted like it isn't a big deal and you hadn't put much thought into it anyway. She straight up canceled last second on you and you responded with "could we meet up earlier?". Anything that followed that was just her attempt at getting away because you conveyed desperation. Don't beat yourself up for it, just learn where you went wrong and do better next time. My advice is to move on and i…
/r/seduction20/08/20 12:00 AM
0

"Do you want me to suck your dick?" Say that.
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:05 PM
3

How is this a field report? This is so low effort dude
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:16 AM
0

It works. I saw this recently at Hooters with an old, lonely guy. This small little waitress gave him all the attention when he was obviously giving off creepy vibes. Before he left, I literally watched him slip her a big bill (it looked like a 50). She looked pleased at another job will done. Morons.
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:15 AM
2

Username of the year award goes to you.
/r/seduction16/08/20 12:27 PM
1

Just be ready for a lot of rejection because most guys will be stunned if a young 18 year old girl came up and hit on them in public. And for some reason it turns some guys off when women are direct. Never read understood why. I'm a guy myself and if a cute girl came up and hit on me I would 1. Be surprised and 2. Be flattered.
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:13 AM
3

The only reason that some of those things wouldn't work nowadays is because they've worked in the past and women caught onto it. But then if you look at the actual philosophy behind WHY they even worked in the first place and then integrate that into your understanding of women instead of looking at it like a bag of party tricks, you realize there is a lot to learn from that book. There are fundamental facts about courtship in that book that can be internalized and used. The book can not only ge…
/r/seduction10/08/20 12:42 AM
1

Parts of it
/r/seduction09/08/20 11:34 PM
5

You're the hero we've been needing. The day hath finally come.
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:33 PM
1

You might not be able to recover from that. Women pick up on that stuff. "Why does he always hold eye contact with me but never makes a move? Is he a low status guy?" Just saying you probably shouldn't get your hopes up but I applaud you for trying anyway.
/r/seduction03/08/20 02:18 PM
1

Ignoring the sarcastic undertone, I respectfully thank you for your kind words.
/r/seduction03/08/20 02:14 PM
1

Ignore the fact that people "want to be left alone". If they really wanted to be left alone, they'd study/workout at home. I understand the anxiety because you don't want to be rudely shut down by someone. But the truth is that every girl you see in public would gladly welcome an approach from a confident guy. You just have to learn how to do it correctly. Women don't reject men for who they are, they reject them for their approach.
/r/seduction03/08/20 02:08 PM
13

Are you my dad
/r/seduction03/08/20 01:55 PM
1

College is a perfect place to cold approach not judt women but also people you want to meet to hang out with. Girls in college are typically pretty available and DTF.
/r/seduction30/07/20 11:55 AM
1

Yes. Exactly. I did this last year when I was taking classes and I had girls coming to me all the time.
/r/seduction30/07/20 11:54 AM
14

Almost all of us have experienced something like that dude. Makes you a better man when you realize it later.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:40 PM
4

What book are we talking about homie
/r/seduction25/07/20 12:26 PM
1

Go cold approach and find out. I find your lack of faith disturbing.
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:37 AM
2

Yeah not ringing a bell. Guess you're in limbo forever now
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:31 AM
5

Jack Denmo does this on YouTube and I never understood why. Women don't like to initiate stuff so it's almost completely useless to do.
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:59 AM
14

Dude I've gotten dates from Snapchat don't miss out on that
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:57 AM
65

When approaching a set of multiple women, make sure you establish dominance immediately by punching the largest one in the face repeatedly. Wait, I don't think that was quite right... can't remember if that advice was for surviving prison or a group of sexually active females...
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:51 AM
1

So are you trying to make the point that you should never go after anything you want in life? Imagine if I saw a beautiful lady on the street by herself and instead of thinking "go up there and talk to her you scrub" I thought "damn, that one Reddit post said I shouldn't approach a woman when she's alone for some reason".
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:21 PM
2

Sounds about right until you realize its just a perpetual pattern of rejections from girls and that other guys are getting the same girls left and right with ease.
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:42 PM
31

Unless you're so stupid that you keep making the same mistakes and never learn from them. That can and does happen.
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:40 PM
0

Me yesterday
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:39 PM
4

Yes. Don't make a habit out of making excuses.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:18 AM
2

"You miss 100% of the shots you never take"
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:34 PM
8

Hmm. Maybe she should've tried harder at letting me know that she's worth the investment.
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:50 PM
33

I got rejected by a girl 2 days ago. I kept feeling confused the whole time about whether she liked me or not. I couldn't read her signals and I focused too much on the ones that I thought were indicators of interest. Turns out I was wrong but eh- I tried and got my answer so now I can move on. Thank god.
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:22 AM
5

Pg. 42 of The Mystery Method PROCESS OVER OUTCOME "A Venusian artist goes into the field night after night primarily to improve his calibration and to internalize his skill set. You're not trying to 'get this one girl' or even 'get laid tonight'. Rather, you practice with the long-term goal of having a powerful social skill set in the future, one you may confidently turn on in times of need. When you don't need it, you don't use it. When you do, you're ready. You cannot allow the outcome of any …
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:41 PM
4

It's not rocket science. "Do these jeans look good on me?" "Should I get some new shoes?" "Where can I find a good men's clothing store in town?"
/r/seduction18/07/20 07:53 PM
54

You have to make an effort to refine your wardrobe and find a style that works best for you. If you want to find your style, I recommend asking women. Most women are very tasteful when it comes to fashion so that's what I do and it never backfires. Plus it gives you a good reason to talk to them.
/r/seduction18/07/20 03:37 PM
85

This is true. Same thing with being in the military. People treat me differently when I'm in uniform and I feel more confident as well.
/r/seduction18/07/20 03:34 PM
4

I say this because while kindness is definitely important, it doesn't necessarily attract women. It's a trait to demonstrate AFTER attracting a woman when you're okay with showing your more vulnerable side. Patience is definitely always a good thing to have, but it won't do much in terms of attraction compared to things like leadership qualities, pre-selection from other women, etc. Kindness is looked at as a more feminine trait due to women having a tendency to be more agreeable. Momen tend to …
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:33 PM
6

Yes but not in a needy way
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:16 PM
460

Being well dressed
/r/seduction18/07/20 12:16 PM
2

By listening to Jordan Peterson videos lol
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:28 AM
1

No problem
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:42 PM
2

You're thinking too much about it and you need to move on. Just because she asked for your number and IG doesn't mean anything and you shouldn't be concerned with it. Only advice I can give is move on and talk to other women. Craziest thing happened after my highschool girlfriend crushed my heart by breaking up with me. I got a new girlfriend a few months after I got over it and we posted pictures on IG together. Now I didn't do it with the intention of making my ex-girlfriend jealous. In fact, …
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:40 PM
1

In my opinion, improving yourself can also include improving your game with women. You shouldn't stop approaching them just because you know you shouldn't chase them. Approaching and chasing are two different things, although they can be the same depending on how you do it. You won't have women chasing you unless you are adept at the fundamentals of courtship and man-woman relationships. Keep improving in all areas of interest.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:54 PM
2

Just be natural about it don't convey nervousness. If you feel like responding then respond. If not, don't.
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:22 AM
4

You don't get very far with people by acting like that
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:58 AM
2

Same haha. And try remembering all of that in the moment.
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:46 AM
11

That almost never works. And when it does, it ends badly. It's dishonest and you're bound to end up where you started if you treat people like that.
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:44 AM
6

I think we've all been there before. Definitely should be used wisely.
/r/seduction12/07/20 09:16 PM
166

Great post. I am going to check out that movie. I like the "back pocket" technique. I think it is a good way to show you're interested in her without appearing too interested. To let her know that you're listening to everything she's saying but you aren't responding right away like every other guy would.
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:51 PM
1

Nope
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:12 PM
2

This is wisdom
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:05 PM
5

Hmm. I wonder if porn has something to do with this. If it does, I would advise not to watch it anymore or at least not porn that has these specific types of women in it. Porn kills your confidence. It makes these women of particular interest into sexual objects rather than regular people and it seems to be more of a subconscious problem rather than a deliberate one.
/r/seduction29/06/20 04:00 PM
4

Keep it up bro we're rooting for you
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:49 PM
10

True. He could've gotten laid. R.I.P.
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:52 PM
7

Yes you were at her house dude come on
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:50 PM
12

Marvelous. The golden one hath spoken. Let all who doth yeet remember that if thou does not yeet, thou will most definitely be yeeten. Splendid. Or may I quite simply state, "better to have yeeted and lost than never to have yeeted at all"? That is my question to you.
/r/seduction27/06/20 02:48 AM
10

We have found the chosen one. Teach us your ways.
/r/seduction27/06/20 01:47 AM
73

Better to actually be busy than to pretend you're busy
/r/seduction27/06/20 12:03 AM
2

Exactly. I had a girl say this to me once when I was texting her. She was really interested in me I could tell by the way she texted. I waited for some escalation to build and then I suggested that we should go out. Her response was, "Maybe later. I'd like to get to know you first over text". I was like, "Isn't that what the purpose of a date is?" Makes no sense 😂
/r/seduction26/06/20 12:17 PM
15

I think OP is a virgin himself
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:52 PM
2

She sounds awesome. Most girls don't show that much interest. Well, not directly like that.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:07 AM
3

You fucked up. Move on. The shit happens all the time man. Women can be very picky, can't they? But look at yourself now. You're doubting whether she likes you anymore. That's a red flag. I am wondering why you didn't try to have sex with her after you made out. You said she complimented the way you "carried her" (weird choice of words) and that she brought up some kinky dominance talk. What happened? In my opinion, that's where you messed up. And maybe the reason she asked if you were dominant …
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:43 AM
1

Rules 1 and 2
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:22 AM
2

No problem. Good luck out there
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:01 PM
2

Rejection feels like shit dude. But you can't take it personally. Expect to get rejected most of the time that's just how it goes. Seems like you're expecting too much from the interaction. Try to enjoy the process of talking to beautiful women instead of just looking for results. That will help your situation.
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:57 PM
2

I'm assuming English isn't your first language. Also, don't take it personally when they give you the boyfriend crap. They best way to handle it is to act like it doesn't even bother you.
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:51 PM
1

Ah. Well ma'am, it seems we have come to a disagreement and I am respectfully pulling myself away from this thread. Good day to you.
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:29 PM
1

I mean if she is really cool and you genuinely want to be her friend than by all means. But when you start feeling a connection but you aren't sure if she does, that has to be addressed sooner or later.
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:22 PM
1

You're welcome
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:17 PM
1

Definitely. In my opinion, it's really messed up to have feelings for a girl and hide it by pretending to be her friend. In fact, it's downright creepy.
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:13 PM
1

"The Mystery Method" if you haven't already of course. Also, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie will help improve your people skills overall. Just don't misread it and let it make you into a nice guy like most people do. It's a powerful book and not necessarily about SEDUCTION. I would say it has more to do with influencing people, improving relationships, and trying to make people do what you want, etc. I don't really read many books on seduction but this is what I could…
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:10 PM
1

But then he wouldn't be the traditional nice guy. The real nice guy would try to be friends with you and wait for your boyfriend to dump you so he can swoop in and get you with kindness.
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:54 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:53 PM
1

Ah, the nice guy. I knew this comment was coming.
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:37 PM
2

Agreed. Overall it's just a simpy thing to do
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:00 PM
8

I disagree. By saying this "Do you have a boyfriend?" line, you lose that percentage of girls who had boyfriends but were going to sleep with you and then mention him after the fact (or not at all). By deliberately asking about the boyfriend, you completely screw yourself over because now the girl is going to say yes and then... goodbye. Why would you want to shoot yourself in the foot like that? P.S.: Only nice guys ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. Don't do that. Why would you care about some…
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:54 AM
3

That could be a Ted Bundy quote as well lol
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:24 PM
2

I know at first glance this doesn't really seem like much of a big deal, but approaching a group of girls is a tough one. Nice
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:22 PM
1

Why would you ask her that? It's like you don't even want it 😂
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:43 PM
1

That's such a weird way to start a conversation.
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:54 AM
2

Sounds like you gotta work on your text game. You have to learn how to talk to someone you know absolutely nothing about. There are different approaches you can take. If you want to get good at it, you have to do it a lot. Tinder helps a lot because you're able to text a lot of girls and slowly improve text game over time. The key to texting a girl you don't know is to try and stand out above the other guys. You could try to be funny. You could try to be direct in what you want from her (rarely …
/r/seduction17/06/20 09:39 PM
2

Yeah I know. I didn't say during. I've been there before where I could've made a move but didn't. But a girl on Tinder? If she's on Tinder, she wants to fuck. That's my rule. I know people say that's not true all the time but if she wanted a relationship she would've used Match.com.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:15 PM
-1

The kind of guys that like to get dominated by a woman
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:48 PM
2

The fact that you didn't make the move absolutely astounds me. You were told by her that you could've taken her home... which means sex of course. And you apologized for seeming disinterested. Just as another commenter said, you seem like an extreme nice guy just based off this post alone.
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:46 PM
2

So true
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:42 PM
3

😂 that he did
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:50 AM
1

If you make the move she will reciprocate it. It sounds like you're in. If you can get her over again than you need to do it. She won't initiate it so don't wait around for the "right time". Make it happen.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:35 AM
2

Good luck bro
/r/seduction15/06/20 04:30 PM
1

Dude you made the move. Wait for her to contact you again, because if you decide to hit her up expecting a date or to get some you'll just be chasing. The interest has to be mutual.
/r/seduction15/06/20 04:25 PM
2

Nice
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:57 PM
1

Even if you're scared- do it anyway. You will beat yourself up if you don't. And don't just try to do it. Do it.
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:47 PM
1

Why don't you just go to these places and find out? 🤔
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:50 AM
0

😂😂 I love you
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:35 AM
2

Therapy
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:27 PM
0

Nice
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:26 PM
3

I thought you were doing well until you mentioned that she was drunk and she told you you she didn't want to do anything but you said "we'll see". Then you took her home trying to escalate it into sex. Sounds kind of rapy to me. If you were drunk too it wouldn't be much of a problem in my opinion but if not it it just sounds wrong.
/r/seduction14/06/20 05:34 PM
196

Nice
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:36 PM
2

Yes. Never ask women for dating advice if you can help it. What they want and what they respond to are 2 COMPLETELY different things.
/r/seduction13/06/20 11:36 PM
1

Wonder why though? Because of bad advice? The same advice over and over again?
/r/seduction13/06/20 07:33 PM
0

Haven't heard that advice a thousand times before.
/r/seduction13/06/20 07:31 PM
1

Who hurt you?
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:22 AM
1

The internet is a strange place
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:51 AM
2

😂😂 I can't stand up I'm laughing so hard right now at this
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:49 AM
1

Yes. She wants him to ask her out
/r/seduction06/06/20 01:18 AM
5

I hate when I ask them out on a date and they say, "I don't know, I think I'd like to get to know you first". Like what do you think the purpose of a date is lady? That is all. And btw when she says she'll let you know it always means no because if a girl really wants to date you she'll make time. Don't hang around waiting for her to call you like a good little doggie
/r/seduction06/06/20 01:02 AM
2

I think it's just that we have expectations when we know we could actually get some. And when there is distance between the two of you, you are less attached to the outcome. This is only because you know that you probably won't get any so you don't try as hard (which turns girls on), but also because if you were to fail and say something stupid or get rejected by a girl who lives close to you, it would affect your reputation in your local area.
/r/seduction06/06/20 12:55 AM
1

Someone has read The Mystery Method :)
/r/seduction05/06/20 04:43 AM
1

👍 will do
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:18 PM
1

Yeah man agreed. I took my chance and it didn't work out
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:18 PM
1

Haha 😂
/r/seduction02/06/20 12:17 PM
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