Soarbros Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours		Soarbros	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:01 PM

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2	Only just found out my LTR is an Alpha Widow It's an LTR, you're looking somewhat dense by not noticing it in the title.	/r/askTRP	28/03/17 02:01 PM
–	Dominance Is Key I'm in a similar situation as your friend. Although I'm dominant from the start when it comes to sex, one of my plates has been constantly asking me to do "BDSM" things to her. It makes me wonder whether the control is going her way if I do follow through and please her the way she wants it, especially if it comes to a point where it diminishes my own pleasure.	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/17 05:02 PM
1	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Exellent. Thanks!	/r/askTRP	20/02/17 09:32 AM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Bot? There're too many of the same repetitive generic statements from this account to actually be a human being.	/r/askTRP	18/02/17 01:10 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Yea. Totally understand your dislike for words. Do you get easily confused with basic arithmetic as well? Your history of comments revolve have revoled around the same things over and over, "don't play with fire"/"sidebar is there for a reason". Seriously, is this a bot?	/r/askTRP	18/02/17 08:10 AM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Badass warnings with so much metaphor, and full of substantial discussion from you. I really like how you're contributing to this subreddit. Such a savage as your name implies. You must be alpha as fuck.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 11:40 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Thank you. So, looking back, if you didn't have kids in the first place, you would still have adopted them with no regrets? May I also ask, what age were they at when you adopted them? Sorry for being long-winded here. Your experience is invaluable to me.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 09:00 PM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours I'm the dominant one.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 08:31 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Okayyy wise man. No commitments have yet been made, and this post was made for debate, and for a chance to play devil's advocate against my different opinions and points of view. As what the forum was set up for in the first place. But yea thanks. You sound really wise and totally badass.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 08:08 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Thank you WolfAlphaDad. I have a very important question! And you are the perfect person to ask. Does it help your conscience at all, while raising your wife's children, to know that you already have your own kids? Your response to this question is greatly appreciated in advance!	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 07:11 PM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Funny you bring this up because I actually spoke to her about this: the dynamics of me going into an already established family, rather than starting one myself from scratch. Her argument is that the children and her are also looking for a father figure. So it's as though the three of them are entering my dynamic as much as I am entering theirs. But I understand your point, walking into a single man's life is completely different to walking into a family of three. You brought up the word "ambiti…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 07:06 PM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours It's my own decision. But I do know why you may think it seems like a trap. She obviously has a lot of incentives to "trap" a father figure for her children, who can also provide emotional support. However, could this also seem like a win-win situation for the both of us? Have any of you experienced a woman who would go to great lengths to do this? It must also be noted, I knew/dated her before ever meeting the children. So for the longest time, this was a very non-child-centric relationship.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:54 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours "And finally, are you sure you're actually viewing women appropriately for this consideration? " As a good and stable mother, financially independent and capable, easy to get along with, yes in this case. I like that you brought up the fact that he had other children with Mary. I don't intend to have any children for myself right now. Although that could change, which may be the reason why I'm seeking opinions on asktrp. If 10 years later I decide I want my own children and she's infertile I'm p…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:48 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Thanks RocketManV. Do you have any qualms about the adopted children not bearing your genes? Also, are your reasons for adoption the same as mine? I.e. Avoiding the time sink (in this case, a bit more certainty about their financial future as well)	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:39 PM
3	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours "it shouldn't matter who the sperm donor is. " Thank you. I'm looking for more objective feedback like this. I too absolutely feel the same way right now. It really doesn't matter to me. But others have told me otherwise, which I'm not sure if I should be listening to. Just wondering if this will be something I regret in future. Thanks again.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:27 PM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours And I also agree, as you say, I would like to raise a child FOR them. Even if it was mine, I don't feel like I would enjoy child raising if I did it purely for myself anyway.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:21 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours As a more light-hearted philosophical discussion, was Joseph a cuck? And more seriously, I've been told I would be a cuck in this instance in other comments. What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, if not for this subreddit and others, I don't think I would give a damn about these labels. I would just be doing what I wanted to do. BUT!!! That being said, I'd like to hear some opinions on this still. TRP has brought me a lot of benefits in my life and I'm wondering if this is a situation where I…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:21 PM
3	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours You hit the nail on the head by addressing my question right on! Thanks. I think another way to put it is that the debate is between: having my own child, grinding through years which I don't think I would enjoy and having financial uncertainty OR raising a couple of kids I really like and having more financial security along the way. Still a complicating issue as you brought up. And I welcome both sides of the debate to help me further. Particularly, how does one feel, many years down the line,…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 05:07 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Thanks indianblanket. To add to that point, that "father" of theirs IS paying child support every month up till they are 18. And also paying half of their tertiary education if required. And to add to that further, I've been shown the legal documents. But nevermind all that, I've been told in previous comments that I would be a cuck. If anyone has any more ideas/insights on child raising in this manner, please do share.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 04:20 PM
2	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours I totally understand your concerns FrogTrainer. And many thanks for the advice. My more serious issue is on child raising though. Am just looking for people's opinion on this if you have any. Thanks in advance! And also, I've added another "Edit" since your comment, just in case.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 04:16 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours Thanks dRepe_Thill. Any insights on having children (age<3) and the opportunity cost involved (i.e. not having enough time for yourself)? In terms of time/effort, this seems like an efficient setup for me whilst enjoying child raising.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:41 PM
–	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours What are your thoughts on adoption?	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:19 PM