SocialDisco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Bartender buys me a drink…am I oblivious?	Fundamentals	SocialDisco	/r/seduction	26/02/22 08:23 AM

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48	is not having instagram a red flag? You know what’s more attractive than instagram? Self confidence. I have neither instagram nor facebook and can tell you that a very, very small percentage of women will reject you on this basis alone. Mystery is one of the great equalizers men have and if you believe these two platforms stand between you and the women you pursue, then you aren’t where you need to be to stand on your own merit. If you don’t want to be on them, stand on business about it. The right women will want you. Those who t…	/r/seduction	07/05/26 09:46 PM
7	How to reschedule a date after a valid excuse ? If she didn’t give you an idea of when she’s free, she’s not that interested. Wait several days after the original date day you requested and send her a definitive invite to fun, immersive date night with you. Not dinner, not movie, something fun. Day, time, what you’re doing and location. If she shuts that down and doesn’t offer a reschedule you’re likely out of the game.	/r/seduction	09/11/24 04:58 PM
1	Should i always drop straight away low effort conversations? Yes.	/r/seduction	03/09/24 03:05 PM
4	I (35 M) need some advice with reaching out to help recover from something I said to a girl (36 F) I matched with Boom. Congrats dude!	/r/seduction	26/03/24 11:30 PM
13	I (35 M) need some advice with reaching out to help recover from something I said to a girl (36 F) I matched with Send it. But shorten it and be more direct and take responsibilty. “ (Insert her name), I made a joke about you being a red flag last Friday night because you were single. I want to apologize. I didn’t mean that the way it sounded. I had a tremendous time with you last Friday and in my drunken stupor I had hoped to express how beautiful, fun, engaging, intelligent (whatever else you want to say here) you are. We are about the same age and I can imagine how hurt, judged and disappointed I would f…	/r/seduction	26/03/24 09:29 PM
11	Old school tip: The Brad Pitt Rule She would volunteer to reschedule if she wanted to. If she doesn’t voluntarily reschedule, then she’s not that into you.	/r/seduction	19/04/23 09:28 PM
1	Put myself out there, or heal trauma first? Heal the trauma first. Taking care of the trauma will help you in so many areas other than your dating life. You gotta do the hard work first. Especially, if you're trying to find a long term relationship. Once you start the path to healing that trauma other things like self-confidence and self respect will begin to grow and solidify, making you more resilient and over time more likely to attract the right kind of person for you. We're always prone to influence but we're more prone to bad influe…	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:19 AM
42	[deleted by user] Then that’s your answer. It’s been a month since then. You’re friend zoned.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 12:46 AM
13	Dealing with sexual insecurity Dude, for some other dude, you’re the dude that has to jump through zero hoops while he has to go through a hundred. You’re also the dude that will someday make some girl you kinda like jump through a hundred hoops while some other girl has to go through zero hoops to get with you. It’s the multiverse. Get over it. Also, which feeling is more important to you? The joy of living a full life full of experiences or the regret of having experienced so little because you’ve been worrying about myster…	/r/seduction	07/06/21 02:29 AM
1	Quick challenge First, you don’t need to fill every gap in conversation with...conversation. Matter of fact try the opposite, when they says something, take a breath and think about what they’ve said before you respond. You’re forgetting to actively listen. Conversation requires two people to talk AND listen. If you’re not listening you’re never going to have the chance to connect what they’re saying to your personal perspective or opinion. And this is something everybody does poorly at times. You’re probably a…	/r/seduction	03/04/21 01:07 PM