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1

Nope, I’ve lived it
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:00 PM
1

If a girl doesn’t like the way you look and there is no physical attraction, it doesn’t matter how good you feel about yourself. She will never like you. Stop saying this bullshit. Women have to like what they see in order for them to like you or give you a chance PERIOD
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:30 PM
2

This is exactly how it is for me here at the Jersey Shore. 1 match every 2-3 months MAYBE. Man, when I was in the military in Georgia, I had the same results.
/r/seduction29/09/22 01:29 AM
-5

Na dog, social proof and status is more powerful. From an ethological stand point. It shows the woman he is the alpha and children with him have a high probably to survive
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:16 PM
3

Man I wish I could even get a text back from a girl And this guy calls one girl a week “not hard”
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:35 AM
1

Learn to dance, mainly, hip-hop and any sub genre of hip-hop, Shuffling and a bit of Latin dances. As you learn to dance, women will start seeing you are a fun guy. I dance randomly at bars, clubs and parties and sometimes have girls approach me because they like how I move. That’s a start, flirting and talking to them is a completely different skill
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:52 PM
1

I been approaching throughout the years and never got a girl from cold approach
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:40 PM
1

I’m not on roids and way more fit than the average person. Idk wtf “right” is with social skills. I just talk to people and see who vibes
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:09 AM
1

I’m 170 13% bf guy, people barley want to talk to me or even hang out with me
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:03 AM
1

I been doing this for years, approaching, going to clubs and bars, social events, dance socials and I don’t have women
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:37 AM
2

What is this “work”? For me, I got fit, got some hobbies, tried to be social and made a few friends. Women tho, they don’t want anything to do with me and ignore me most of the time. I don’t even exist really
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:41 AM
3

OP You are depressed because you are struggling financially but can get women to come over and smash on the same night I’m depressed because I get 1 match a month (if I’m lucky) and even more if a miracle if she responses back to me. In person, I’m invisible to women regardless of getting fit, and talking to them nothing ever leads to sex. I have my own place, a Tesla and 6 figures in the market. We are not the same
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:22 AM
2

Either be very good looking or become a celebrity
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:58 PM
135

You show that you aren’t judgmental and literally don’t judge them
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:50 PM
1

I’m in the same position honestly, I don’t know how to find parties and I talk to people at the gym and go to clubs
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:48 AM
1

Then stop replying to me
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:58 PM
1

You just gave me a solution and negated that same solution. Wtf do you want from me
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:54 PM
1

So do that then and stop bitching
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:40 PM
1

This is what they call a victim mentality. You’re in an abyss that you created for yourself. Mind over matter, and if you keep it up, it sounds like that’s where you wanna be
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:12 PM
1

Sounds like you convinced yourself and will hold on to these beliefs. You’ll be surprised when you do find a girl who do likes those traits. Just don’t be in disbelief when it does happen, you’ll push them away most likely. Stop doing it to yourself
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:58 PM
1

So find girls who do find those traits attractive
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:54 PM
1

Well how do you know they find you unattractive if you didn’t approach them?
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:51 PM
1

That sounds like you made up some kind of theory in your head just off one fact that I said. Idk how any of that came up in your head off one fact
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:43 PM
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Who said that?
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Women hate to be approached by men they find unattractive. It bruises their ego
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:06 PM
3

Good energy + unattractive = friendzone There is literally no sexual desire. I guarantee you as soon as you try to escalate under these conditions l, the women will get grossed out. It has happened plenty of times to me
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:04 AM
2

It’s not about having an attitude, it’s about accepting reality. I can go out up to a girl and assume attraction. It doesn’t matter what I say. The lack of eye contact, the body language just isn’t there because she isn’t attracted
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:45 AM
4

Man this “hooked” garbage doesn’t happen unless she likes what she sees. Women are amazing actresses and men have egos. If a woman is attracted to money or status, they might see that as more important than the looks
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:07 PM
5

That’s the point of the numbers game, good looks make the game easier for you. Sometimes you don’t need to work on the other things as long as she likes your face
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:51 PM
8

Looks are the first step tho. It doesn’t matter how much game you have if she doesn’t give you a chance
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:45 PM
3

The girl that gave him a chance liked how he looked so she gave him a chance. If she didn’t she would have rejected him directly or passively
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:45 PM
4

So if it wasn’t about looks, why did those girls not give him a chance? Why did those girls say he wasn’t their “type”
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:11 PM
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Yup, it’s about looks. You can’t force attraction. It’s either there or it isn’t
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:03 PM
2

“I mean…. Look at me”
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:57 PM
-1

Na, I wasn’t ment to get laid
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:52 PM
2

I’m in college at the Jersey Shore and I’m invisible to women
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:51 PM
4

I was near Savannah when I was in the military, I had the same results
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:49 PM
0

Man, I don’t even get the chance to talk to women because they don’t reply. Again, I’m not here to give you any pity. Shut up, and do something about your weight. There are people on planet who, I guarantee, have a much harder time due to medical conditions who have lost weight. I watch a guy named Big_Z missing his entire lower body get fit. Stop being a cry baby. Dating is a difference aspect. I can’t control other people. With weight loss, you control your performance
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:37 PM
0

Man, cut the bs. I’ve seen people with Eating disorders, hyperthyroidism and missing limbs lose weight and make a change.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:30 PM
1

Man, you can lose weight. You can’t change your face
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:29 PM
1

Man, I’ve posted my profiles numerous times and even had “dating coaches” look at it. I still don’t get likes or matches. I’m literally just ugly
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:21 PM
1

Idk, but there are dudes who still use professional photos and still get matches and likes as we speak
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:19 PM
1

So how come it works for other dudes and not me?
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:17 PM
1

They give me their numbers sometimes in person but they never reply back
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:05 PM
1

I’m at the beach in NJ about 40 mins from NYC
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:58 PM
2

Man, I took professional photos and I been in the gym for 4 years. I still barely get any matches, I’ll get maybe 1 match a month
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:54 PM
3

Like I said, I barely get any matches on dating apps and it has been years
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:30 PM
5

I barely get matches period on dating apps so good for you
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:28 PM
50

Man, if I could only meet a girl off a dating app
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:24 PM
1

Why would I not worry about getting laid? It has been years
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:00 AM
1

I have no idea what you are talking about But regardless all these videos I watch have a bunch of comments about dudes who it has worked for It even worked for some of the people I know in person
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:03 PM
1

So how come it works for other people and not me?
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:00 PM
1

I have no idea what that even means
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:59 PM
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Man I watched countless videos on this subject and it still doesn’t do anything for me
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:57 PM
1

Yes in my experience they don’t like me regardless if I talk to them like normal people Then they tell me, we are just friends or you’re just cool. They don’t want to fuck me. It means I’m ugly
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:56 PM
-13

That doesn’t mean they will sleep with you
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:06 PM
3

Just because you talk to them like they are people doesn’t mean they will sleep with you
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:06 PM
2

You’re a girl… All you literally have to say is “Hi” Most men, like me, I’d say 90% of them are not used to women approaching them out the blue. Unless it’s something like a job where you have to communicate, women do not approach so most dudes who aren’t confident aren’t used to it. I always look behind me to make sure I’m the one they are talking to if that happens to me. Unless you are hideous, just expect men to like you. If they are nervous, they aren’t used to it and are probably in disbel…
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:22 PM
1

Instead of getting butt hurt, try to turn it around and respond with something charming and smooth. If she still is showing disgust or is still shit testing you, hold eye contact, smile and/or call out her body language as a tease You can’t let them get in your head
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Maybe so, But I’ll never understand why people say I am on the spectrum I mean shit, how hard is it to say what you mean, I don’t get it
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:49 AM
1

Since you can’t find it https://tinder.com/@truth301 Again, I been through trail and error for this for years, watching countless videos about the bio and pictures
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:10 PM
1

I’ve already posted it in r/Tinder multiple times. If you really want to look at it, click on my name and search for it that way
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:01 PM
1

You don’t learn anything except knowing you aren’t attractive online lol Getting financially responsible as an adult is completely different from an online dating presence I don’t need a dating profile to eat, sleep or have basic living needs. You can’t compare those tbh
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:57 PM
1

If you go back to top of this original comment, you’ll see that I already listed all I have done and gotten no results and you’re asking questions I already had the answer to in the 1st comment Idk how you interpret text but it is clearly horrible. I’m not even being defensive lol. Idk what tonality you read text in but you are clearly using bias here. I already posted I’m on Reddit. Posted the photos in photo feelers and had people in real life choose the best photos they like, I still get 0 re…
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:54 PM
1

If I knew why I’m “having so much trouble” I wouldn’t be trying to figure it out then huh You do realize majority of online dating is about looks, and obviously I don’t have the facial aesthetics that women want And no I’ve been open to changes, they literally have never worked and I have photo proof of me trying everything, people have suggested. Stop assuming I have an ego, because I don’t, I’m the most open minded, non-judgement person I know lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:41 PM
1

Yea I’ve done research on body language lol Guess what? My photos don’t show any of that Also, you must never heard of acting as well
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:36 PM
1

I didn’t know my whole personality was derived from Reddit posts wow
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:23 PM
1

And they see that in photos? Give me a break
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:02 PM
2

How am I suppose to display attitude if I don’t even get the chance to message them? You are also making judgements over 1 post Make that make sense
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:33 AM
1

Man, of course I have friends I also get plenty of tips from Ubering because people love me how “down to earth” “unbias” and “non-judge mental” I am I also have people tell me I’m the “best Uber ride” they ever had. You haven’t seen other conversations I’ve had with women and you are quick to judge
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:00 AM
1

I didn’t deceive about that I deceived about the photo timeline and it was easy lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:48 AM
1

It’s so easy to deceive people online, it’s not even funny
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:37 AM
1

That isn’t tinder That is MeetMe and it was years ago
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:29 AM
0

I’m just ugly pretty much
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:29 AM
1

I posted it on Reddit 5 months about but th he interaction was years ago
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:22 AM
1

That was years ago lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:21 AM
1

How would women even know this is my “attitude” if they don’t even reply back? That makes 0 sense
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:18 AM
1

Lol what makes you assume this is how I text women? Women barely reply to me after the first 2 sentences
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:16 AM
1

My fault it wasn’t you, it was the other guy before you replied but still It wasn’t me
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:11 AM
1

I didn’t say “better” you did
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:09 AM
1

That wasn’t so hard to say was it? It’s like I have to pull teeth for people to give actual concrete suggestions I’ve posted on r/ratemytinder And photo feelers and my results don’t change
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:08 AM
1

You aren’t giving me concrete advice here You still are avoiding the question on what “better pictures” are Bro you are just a random nobody on Reddit.
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:58 PM
1

Bro, There are people online on YouTube who say use certain type of pictures Activities pictures, group pictures etc.. There are some guys who get results from just using selfies, literally just because of their looks Some guys get professional photos done and still get no results So again tell me, what constitutes “better pictures”?
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:48 PM
1

There is still nothing specific you said that makes me distinguish what “better pictures” are. Just because random ass people tell me what pictures are “good” or “bad” doesn’t mean jt will get me results
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:36 PM
1

You didn’t answer the question What is “better pictures”? Also who is the deciding factor for “better pictures”?
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:20 PM
1

How am I suppose to know what “better pictures” are?
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:24 PM
1

I swipe on people that are in NYC all the time Shit even when I’m in Jersey City or Newark and even go into NYC and swipe I still get nothing
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:59 PM
1

I’m at the Jersey Shore, I’m already in an area with over 600k people
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:50 PM
5

Man, I paid for tinder platinum for 2 months and nothing ever changed Those ratings mean nothing if women are meeting up with you
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:49 PM
35

Holy shit, 200 matches in 8 weeks… I been on tinder for 4 years while in that time: Lost weight and got fit Took professional photos Bought new cloths to increase my style For multiple different hobbies Yet I still can’t get pass 8 likes on tinder or get more than 1 match every 1-2 weeks And this is across 13 different dating apps I know dudes who all they do is smoke weed and go to the gym and get all the baddest girls It’s about looks man such bs
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:43 PM
1

Also if they claim to be single It doesn’t mean they aren’t fucking, they are always horny once a month at the minimum
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:19 PM
1

It doesn’t mean it isn’t possible
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:06 PM
0

Are you sure they weren’t drunk ?
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:57 PM
1

Failure of a gaslighter lol ✌🏻 Cigarette
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:04 AM
1

Lol ok brit Btw you don’t use your mouth to type on Reddit
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:58 AM
1

This guy is a retard, take care Brit
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:55 AM
2

I’m not boasting, I was merely making a statement to acknowledge OP and others that it is possible, so Op doesn’t feel discouraged. Sounds like you interpret text horribly, you should work on that If you feel like this is distasteful then that sounds like a personal problem. I didn’t pick up all 3 at the same time. Now you are putting words in my mouth. You love to make assumptions then huh, fool
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:37 AM
0

Not really, you’re over reacting. I’m just saying it’s possible
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:09 AM
2

Man, I’ve had so many great conversations while Ubering and my $15-$30 tips speak for itself bro You are just a lame
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:50 AM
1

See idk how other guys react but if a girl did this to me while I Uber them, I wouldn’t get offended. I’d ask them if they prefer for the ride to be quiet if they think I’m annoying.
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:48 AM
2

I made out with 3 girls and brought 1 home from Uber
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:25 AM
-2

I made out with 3 girls from Ubering
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:10 AM
-1

This is exactly what I go through as an Uber Driver, especially since I drive a Tesla for Uber. Bro idk, as soon as I try to hit on them they cringe and get uncomfortable. I think it has more to do with looks and status than anything bro. Girls give me up to $30 tips and even ask for my number but I never hear from them ever again. But I did have 3 occasions where I made out with 3 girls Ubering and brought 1 home. They were all sober btw
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:08 AM
1

https://youtu.be/d9qrBmYxO This is a good stream by AMS when it comes to Blackpill ideology which you believe is preventing you from getting what you want
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:18 AM
15

I’d say you have to become famous or a local celebrity in a niche like music. Those guys always get bad bitches effortlessly Either that or get into porn
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:14 AM
2

So what are examples of not “boring” texts I didn’t know I was born to entertain women like a clown 🤡
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:02 AM
1

What is that suppose to mean? I can’t control if they text me back or not
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:37 AM
0

Idk why you are assuming you get I’m not making eye contact with women, very strange But I had experiences with women and gotten their numbers and we chopped it up. They never replied to me ever again
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:27 PM
1

It depends on his goals Any man who wants to settle down at a young age has never had the luxury of options. They don’t have multiple women, guys with swag do. So they don’t settle down because they constantly have women chasing them and endless sex. I’m still trying to figure this out but I recommended to make try to make friends with guys who get a bunch of girls and learn from them. They’ll teach him masculine energy and learn how to get these hoes
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:10 AM
0

It’s not just one girl, it will be multiple girls who think just like her. Women are more attracted to masculine swag. If currently how he behaves isn’t working, he has to change how he does. People change all the time and this might be for the better
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:55 AM
1

I’ve tried that and it repulses them, it doesn’t drive them mad. It only drives them mad if they like you already
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:41 AM
2

That’s some dumb advice, if you want to stay lame then keep yourself lame, don’t bring others down with you. This guy probably wants more lays and hotter girls
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:40 AM
1

Girls make rules for Betas and Break rules for Alphas. They only make rules for guys who they don’t see as attractive or important
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:08 AM
2

Lol non existent For the last 4 years I never got past 8 likes despite: Losing weight Getting fit Changing my style Taking professional photos Resetting my profile multiple times for the tinder algorithm Nothing changes Same thing on 12 other dating apps
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:24 PM
2

I’d hope so, It just depresses me that I’ll be enjoying sex later in life rather than sooner
/r/seduction28/07/22 10:03 PM
-5

Does this comment make you feel better about yourself? If it doesn’t, then tell me. What is the purpose of your comment?
/r/seduction28/07/22 10:02 PM
9

As a divorced guy, the 2nd option. Too bad I don’t have looks or status to get all these girls just throwing pussy. I gotta get back on my calisthenic/dance/fitness grind so I can maybe have a chance of getting the hot girls/big booty girls I want
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:48 PM
1

When I say fight, I mean compete to get laid
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:28 PM
1

yes I do all of this and they still don’t respond back to me. They don’t want you to be their therapist
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:24 PM
1

Because women are fickle and picky. Honestly even with confidence you still have to fight based on your looks and status. Also if no one teaches you game or how to attract women, how else are you suppose to know if you can’t figure it out by yourself or using YouTube/internet
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:31 AM
-1

I wish I could relate Women in the last have said nice things, danced on me, buy me some water all from a cold approach But have never slept with me ever. I’d be lucky if I can get laid once a year
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:45 AM
0

I get fed up with it and stop approaching. I want to get laid, not constantly waste my time
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:38 PM
5

I don’t like when people say this. I have multiple hobbies and been working for years. I have my shit together and can barely get a text back from a girl
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:04 PM
1

Step 1: get a girl to reply to your texts
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:19 AM
1

People who tell this guy to talk to older people so he can get over taking to girls he find attractive: He isn’t trying to fuck these older women. Or women he doesn’t find attractive
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:39 AM
2

I’ll never understand how someone of average height is insecure about their height. Literally blows my mind
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:36 AM
2

Only 20? Once you get in the 1000s then maybe you can cry. Not at 20
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:49 PM
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